Cat owners. Does anyone else get woken up at 12 in the morning so that you can open the door for your cat and she just stares at the door and won’t go in or out, so you’re now you’re just standing there staring at your cat?  and every time you walk away your cat will meow at the top of their lungs? Then you just sit with them and they lay down next to you on the ground, instead of your comfy bed? Anyone? Please tell me it’s not just me. She’s been doing this for the past week.
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That moment when your cat trusts you and allows you to rub his belly.
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We unsuccessfully tried to have our little baby girl sleep in the other room but she ended up forcing the door open and clawing at our bedroom door. She has to sleep with one of her humans.
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getting older can be so amazing? you get more familiar with yourself. learn tips & tricks for troubleshooting your own brain. trial & error helps you build routines that minimize discomfort, maximize reward. your preferences/interests don't get set in stone, but you do find out which ones are going to stay with you in the long-term, and which ones are fun but transient joys to appreciate in the moment.
you learn that the world is so much more complex than you were taught, and that that's okay, and that there's an endless supply of things you can learn or watch or experience or think about if you want to. if you're lucky, you loosen up, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. if you're lucky, you learn to recognize that negative inner voice, and whack it with a baseball bat until it hushes up. if you're lucky, you learn to treat yourself gently, not because you are fragile but because you are worthy of gentleness. (i hope you are lucky.)
and some things will change. some things will get better. some things will get good. and maybe you start to recover from the dehumanizing stress of childhood/education. maybe you learn the power of your own autonomy. maybe you learn how to walk away from bad situations (which is a superpower even if you don't realize it yet). and you get to choose your own clothes. and your own food. and which relationships to pursue! and what you do with your free time. and with your life (but don't worry you get to choose that gradually). and that's crazy! and sometimes scary. and extraordinarily, indescribably precious.
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Considering how much of a prick Alastor is when it comes to boundaries, id say hes always been an asshole
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BG3 is really testing me because my natural inclination in all situations is to be like "well, i think you should do what is best for you :-) <3" and then my companions are inevitably like "i want to kill an angel" "i want to ascend to godhood" "i want to become the most evil vampire in the world" like can we take it down a notch . please
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he keeps knocking this chair down due to being TOO big to be on it but by god will he keep jumping up anyways
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Mary Lou has been with us for a few months now so she's more used to us picking her up. After coming back from the cat hotel, she's become more attached to both of us especially my wife.
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