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wolfstarisswag · 9 months
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“The truth is every queer person has right to come out on their own terms and on their own timeline. They also have the right to choose not to come out at all.
The forced conformity of the closet cannot be answered with the forced conformity in coming out.”
- Alex Claremont-Diaz, Red White and Royal Blue
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Those who participated in bullying this then eighteen year old child actor into coming out on social media, calling him a queer baiter because he played a bisexual character on a lgbtqia centered Netflix series really didn’t understand what that show was about.
This is a show about acceptance and love and just being yourself and showing that there are no social ideals that you have to conform to. You can be masculine and like guys. You can be feminine and like girls. This is a show about being confident and who you are but it’s also a show where they’ve made it clear that you only come out when you’re ready, and on your own terms.
It’s representation for so many people gay, lesbian, bi, trans, arocace… it’s showing that representation which is so important for so many people.
To those people who forced him out of the closet through constant bullying you’re not supporting the ideals of this show at all. You’re not being progressive by publicly harassing an actor who played a queer character because he’s seen with people of the opposite gender, so “he couldn’t possibly be queer himself”. You’re being a fucking asshole who couldn’t get it through their thick heads what this show was trying to get across to their audiences.
The term queerbaiting is being thrown around so loosely these days that even playing a queer character on show and not labeling yourself as such yourself is queerbaiting. Queer actors play cishet characters all the time. Are you going to bully them into announcing that they’re straight? I mean by your logic they have to be for playing that character or else it’s morally wrong.
Kit Connor played a bisexual sixteen year old who just realized he was such and had a whole identity crisis. He was scared and was worried that people close to him wouldn’t support him. His ‘friends’ are homophobic assholes and his brother is a bully. He’s scared that people he loves won’t accept him. He’s scared they won’t think of him the same way. When he tells his mother that he’s bi he gets that moment of relief when she hugs him tells him she’s sorry if she ever made him feel like he couldn’t tell her that. He’s relieved that she accepts him for who he is and that she doesn’t think of him differently than before she knew.
Kit Connor never got to have that moment with his mother because people who call themselves fans harassed him to the extent that he was forced to come out to social media before he was ready.
People need to just be more fucking aware.
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People are such fucking assholes, saying the actor for Ghost is ugly.
You ain’t special either lady, you really think Ghost would like your ass with your shit personality.
Edit;
She was not joking, because she’s being nasty in the comments and liking comments saying he needs to keep the mask on.
This girl only states she’s joking when she gets called out on her bullshit
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glittter-vamp · 19 days
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Receiving a phone call about my father getting into a car accident because some idiot was on their phone texting & driving therefore ran a red light was not what any of us needed right now, especially my father. He’s okay but his truck that he’s worked so incredibly hard for isn’t.
I can’t stress this enough, if you’re on the road driving GET OFF THE FUCKING PHONE!!! This could have ended so much worse and I’ll never understand how a stupid text message or finding a song you HAVE to listen to is more important than the safety of yourself and others.
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scndchances · 2 months
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is everyone this self-centered these days?? what happened to love, joy, compassion? if you don’t get what you want,what, you’re just an asshole?
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This is not my usual content but I feel like it’s something I need to say
On principle, if a character in a piece of media has a backstory that is in no way related to their race, the actor portraying that character can be of any race and what should take priority in casting is their talent
Attached to this sentiment, if a character in a piece of media has a backstory that is very much related to their race, the actor portraying that character should be of that race and the second priority should be talent
Now what does this mean? I will give examples
Leah Sava Jeffries, black actress playing a traditionally white character, Annabeth Chase. In no way does Annabeths whiteness relate to the core of her character or backstory, so Leah’s talent was what got her the role. The role is not reliant on race, anyone of any race can play Annabeth because her backstory is not reliant on race
Francesca Amewudah-Rivers, black actress playing Juliet Capulet, a traditionally white character. In no way does Juliet’s race relate to the core of her character or backstory, so Francesca’s talent was what got her the role.
Avantika Vandanapu, an Indian actress being fan casted as Rapunzel, a traditionally white character. In no way does Rapunzel race relate to the core of her character or backstory, so Avantika would be eligible for the role if casting directors decided she was fit based on talent
Do we see the pattern
Ok now, the inverse
If a white actress was fan casted or casted to play a traditionally black character whose backstory was highly relevant to her race, this would be an issue.
If a black actress was fan casted to play a Japanese character whose backstory was highly relevant to her race, this would be an issue
Just because a character is traditionally white does not mean that their whiteness is a relevant factor, especially if it is a fictional character!
Stop being racist, start using logic
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lionmythflower · 2 months
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i hate when girls are like "ya but I wouldn't date him bc he's too short" or guys are like "I'm not gonna date her she's not even popular" LIKE WHAT DOES HEIGHT AND POPULARITY HAVE TO DO WITH LOVE???? I fucking hate this society
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banannabethchase · 1 year
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Please be kind to retail workers. For the love of all things good in this world, be kind to retail workers. If you're in a position where it's safe for you to do so, step in if another customer is going off on a retail worker. People only behave badly when they think they can get away with it, and a bystander going, "Hey, is that really necessary?" can make a world of difference.
Retail workers, you DO NOT deserve the abuse thrown at you by the elitist, pompous, entitled customers who demand things of you that you aren't paid to do. I'm so sorry people are so cruel and it's wrong.
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celtic-crossbow · 5 months
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Trying to write to vent my frustration so I don’t go medieval on someone’s ass right now.
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guys will tell you that they can fuck you better than anyone else before, and then the only thing they fuck is your will to live out of you
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areyoudoingthis · 9 months
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i dream of leaving in a post harry potter world where the people making popular cilture stop being fucking idiots and quoting a book series written by a fucking monster every five minutes
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c0bblenygma · 2 years
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why I keep myself in the Harringrove bubble and won’t touch the rest of the fandom with a 10ft pole:
a tiktok about Eddie appeared on my FY page. It was a theory on which song he will be playing in that guitar scene. I unfortunately read the comments. One of them said:
“What if he is playing a song to save 001?”
I-
one: it’s a straight up dumb theory for so many reasons
two: everyone wants to redeem all the villains in this show (I’ve seen people trying to redeem Brenner) but when it comes to an abused by his father teenager who gets possessed? no, he doesn’t get to have a redemption, better off dead.
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literally cried at work today twice,, in front of my fucking manager- if you never see me again it’s cuz i killed myself out of embarrassment
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red-ro5es · 2 years
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Being the “bigger person” does not mean being nice to people who treat you like shit
Being the bigger person means taking responsibility for your actions when you’ve done something wrong.
Being the bigger person means understanding that people might not agree with you and not forcing them to.
Being the bigger person means putting yourself first and doing what’s right for you.
Being the bigger person never means being nice to people who treat you like shit. That’s not being the bigger person, it’s just excusing the actions of people that hurt you.
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system-reset · 2 years
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ah yes, let's just fucking hate on all men.
fuck you dude, what the hell?
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ellsss · 1 year
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i got judged for stimming around someone who i thought was safe, and it’s really taken a toll on me. i can’t stop crying and i can’t stop feeling like i should just stop being who i am. i just never wanna see or talk to the asshole again and im gonna have to because im in a dance uni piece with him…
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darkcrowprincess · 2 years
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relatable to me this song right now:
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The line "I could be a miserable wife!" hits me especially hard, because I can relate to it so much!! I can't trust anyone yet I want to fucking connect. I'm lonely. I'm sick of the back an fort. Terrified to be alone, but I don't want to be so badly damaged if I trust the wrong person. I've seen the outcomes of that. I can't be like my mother, or my grandmother. But than am I doomed to be alone than? I'm not letting that happen to me. Why can't I just except it and be alone. The world is filled with fucked up people and the only good ones are fictional. And I'm too messed up, and difficult to be like that with anyone. Someone once told be that being in a relationship with me is like seeing a unicorn in real life. Not possible. You know how much that hurt. I'm tired. So tired. Of being hurt and worrying about being hurt. Of being afraid. I don't know what to choose. Honestly maybe I just want to be numb.
@thevictorianghost @inessencedevided @kayura-sanada @irisbleufic
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