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experiment44hasescaped · 1 year

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Need genuine help here, cause I'm confused and uniformed /srs. If you read the entire thing god bless you/you're a good soul. Content warning for swearing

So what sets someone apart from being cgl/re and just an age regresser who needs or wants someone to help and support them when they're regressed? Cause I initially thought that's what cgl/re people were, since they're using the term to seperate themselves from kink, but apparently they're kink too??? Is what makes them kink the fact that they have a caregiver? /gen. Cause that's a really weird and fucked up thing to think. Lots of people have caregivers for various reasons, there's nothing sexual or "kink" about it. If that isn't it, and it's the fact that the term stems from cgl (which stems from ddlg I guess) but has since been seperated from that by members of its community, what are people who want or need to have someone take care of them when they're regressed supposed to call themselves then? I don't understand that logic either, cause from what I see, the term was coined and is actively being used by people who fit the description I just gave BECAUSE they're not kink and don't want to be associated with it. How are they still kink? /genq. Cause It seems to me like if you're sexualizing a person who fits the aforementioned description that's a you problem. That's just gross. Now you've made it so that people who want and or need a non sexual and non romantic caregiver for their regression think they're doing something wrong because no one seems to be explaining what this line is between them and cgl/re people. I have no idea what the line is, please inform me. Especially that so many are under 18. You're still gonna say that their experience (again, just an age regressor who either has or wants/needs a non sexual non romantic caregiver) is inherently a kink? What's wrong with you, dude? Explain this shit to me. If it's just useage of the term caregiver that you demonize, is that not ableist as all hell? Genuinely so confused. I mean if I'm missing something and there's another term you think they should be using, create one and tell people lmao

Point being, I genuinely need to know what makes cgl/re inherently kink when it seems like it was created for the opposite purpose /gen. Cause it HAS to be something more than just once again age regressors who want and or need a non sexual and non romantic caregiver/ whatever the "proper" term is in this context and I'm just missing something, since there's LITERALLY nothing wrong with that, especially but not exclusively if the regressor regresses involuntarily. If you're calling that a kink, you're weird as fuck and that's entirely on you. That's like saying it's a kink for me to wish I had someone who acts like a big sister to me since me and mine are kinda distant and have never really related to each other much. Like what's wrong with platonically acting as a parent figure or older sibling figure to someone..? I get if it makes you uncomfy if they're calling them daddy or mommy since those have been heavily sexualized, but if they're not doing that it's just like... where the problem at?? I mean me and my friends are kinda like that with each other! We act like a father/mother to each other or a big sibling and it's all wholesome and healthy. And this is all genuine confusion, help a buddy out and thanks so much if you take the time to do so. By the way the tags are just so this reaches an audience that can help me out, doesn't mean they apply to me.

#cgl/re #sfw cglre #sfw regression #age regressor #sfw agere #agere #petre #sfw petre #pet regressor #pet regression #cgre #sfw cgre #age regression #age regression help #cglre dni #cglre is kink #chire #chireg

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julieselfships · 2 years

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Redoing my blog since I’ve changed a lot!

What is my blog about/ what do I post?

I’m both a self shipper and an age regressor, so you will commonly see those themes throughout my account. I am also an advocate for mental health, so I will be posting/reblogging things of that nature as well.

Who Am I?

I am Julie (using a fake name to protect my identity), and I’m 15. I use she/they pronouns, and I’m a lesbian. Although my fictional others are heavily male/masculine presenting, I have zero romantic/sexual attraction. Please don’t harass me for having a different preference in fictional men, as this doesnt invalidate my actual sexual orientation.

Who/What are my Fictional Others?

Since I have a long list of fictional others, I will split them up into different catagories.

My Main F/O’s (I feel uncomfortable sharing them, DNI if they’re your romantic F/O, platonic/familial feel free to interact)

- Impey Barbicane (Code:Realize)

- Saint Germain (Code:Realize)

- Denki (My hero academia)

- Kirishima (My hero academia)

- Iida/Tenya (My hero academia)

- Mori Senpai (OHSHC)

- Tamaki Suoh (OHSHC)

- Kyoya Ootori (OHSHC)

Caregiver F/O’s (Dont mind sharing at all!)

- Mori Senpai

- Tamaki Suoh

- Kyoya Ootori

- Impey Barbicane

- Saint Germain

- Flonne (Disgaea Series)

- Killia (Disgaea Series)

… And’s thats about it for my introduction! DNI Below

Please don’t interact with my blog if you’re…

- a proshipper/ship canon adults with canon children

- drama accounts/satire accounts

- an adult/older than 18

- a child/ younger than 15

- anti-agere/variants

- ddlg/abdl/cgl/variants

Have a good day/night wherever you are!

>> Log complete. Would you like to shut down?

>yes< no

#sfw agere #safe agere #autistic agere #agere positivity #agere blog #agere community #self ship #self shipping #agere self ship

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regressed-selfship · 2 years

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🌈 Hello, all! You can call me Mod Clover or Lucky. I’m not comfortable sharing my age, but I’m an adult.

This blog is centered around age(d)re/kid-at-heart self-shipping content!

Some posts may not explicitly mention age(d)re, but will still focus on things that highlight the carefree, fun, and nostalgic feelings of childhood.

🍎 I’ll be posting a mix of original content and reblogged posts. Each will be tagged accordingly.

I create imagines, moodboards, and games! You’re always welcome to request any of these.

Feel free to submit posts and ask me questions. ( ◠‿◠ )

💫 DNI and tag list can be found under the cut.

- Age regressors & dreamers

- Kids at heart

- People who just need a little extra care

- Self-shippers

- Self-shippers with familial & platonic f/os

- Self-shippers with romantic f/os that are caregivers or regressors/dreamers

- People who are respectful and kind to others

❌ DNI:

- You post sexual and/or kink content—this includes cgl and its variants

- You post incestuous and/or pedophilic ships—that is not what this blog is about, and I’d prefer my posts not be associated with that sort of content.

- LGBT-phobic, racist, etc.

- Against age(d)re or self-shipping

- You aren’t willing to respect me and my boundaries

- You aren’t willing to respect others and their boundaries

This DNI list is for my own comfort. I don’t have the time or energy to go through interactions, but if you make me uncomfortable, you will be blocked.

⚠️ I am extremely new to the self-ship community, so I am unfamiliar with any discourse. Please do not ask my opinion on it, because I can’t give you an informed answer.

However, if something I’ve done has made you uncomfortable or hurt you in any way, please don’t hesitate to send me a DM! I will get back to you when I can and do my best to resolve the issue.

🌈 Taglist:

- #🍀 original

- #☘️ reblog

- #💬 ask game

- #💭 imagines

- #🌈 moodboards

- #✉️ asks

#agere self ship #agere f/o #agere #agedre #age regression #self ship #selfship #selfshipping community #self shipping community #self ship promo #selfship promo

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foxilia · 2 years

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HI! Im not quite the best at writing but I'm doing this so that I can learn. This is my Request list! Things that I allow and such!

Bannedkinks: heavy cgl/ddlg/ddlb (daddy/mommy nicknames is okay, anything with ageplay is a big no), heavy piss/scat play, raceplay, cheating/infidelity, necrophilia, non con (cnc is fine, but anything strictly non consensual is a big no)

!p = platonic

!r = romantic

!n = NSFW

People I write for

Mcyt Fandom

C!Wilbur soot (!p and !r)

Tommyinnit (!p and !r)

Nihachu (!p and !r)

Dream team (!p, !r, and !n)

For now thats all my brain can process due to malfunctioning. If you want to see other mcyt just request and ill look through their boundaries ^^

HP Fandom

Majority of characters except for the obvious no's. (Dumbledore, voldemort (not tom ofc <33) .etc)

I love brainrot just bcs I have so many of it! I also love specific requests. As long as it doesn't break the no kink list ill most likely do it! Anyways, foxi out <3

OH YEA-

Anon list:

#x reader #harry potter #dream smp x reader #draco malfoy x reader #requests open #long reads #now we wait

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ticklishprincey · 4 days

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Did I forget to put boundaries and all the other good shit before posting a fanfiction? Maybe. You can't prove anything. ╚»★«╝ Hi! I'm Echo, I use he/they pronouns. I write sfw tickling fanfictions/headcannons/other things for lots of different fandoms (mainly whatever I'm hyperfixated on at the time). ◦•●◉★◉●•◦ I take requests, but I will ignore/block any asks/blogs containing any of the following: ✎NSFW/kink culture ✎Sexual tickling/tickle kink ✎Smut with or without tickling (makes me uncomfy either way) ✎Ageplay/DDLG/CGL/Any other form of ageplay ✎Feet (nothing wrong with them I just don't do feet period) ✎Yandere ✎Canonically gay characters shipped with females ✎Canonically lesbian characters shipped with males ✎Canonically aroace characters shipped with anyone ✎Voice teases (sorry I'm a lee I can't say the freaking word out loud) ✎Random DMs if I don't know you/follow you ◦•●◉★◉●•◦ That being said, I take requests on a lot of things, not just tickling asks. Here are a few of the things I will reply to/accept: ✎SFW tickling ✎Age regression/pet regression ✎Art (sometimes if I'm feeling up to it) ✎Tickle headcannons ✎Regression headcannons ◦•●◉★◉●•◦ Lastly, here are most of the fandoms I'm in and the pairings I would be over the moon to write about: (✰ = platonic , ✿ = romantic , ♫ = happy to write either) ✎Helluva Boss ✰Blitzo & Moxxie ✰Blitzo & Fizzarolli ✿Millie & Moxxie ✿Asmodeus & Fizzarolli ♫ Stolas & Blitzo ✎Hazbin Hotel ✰Alastor & Lucifer ✰Alastor & Husk ✿ Husk & Angel-Dust ✿Vaggie & Charlie ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎TMNT/ROTTMNT ✰Donatello and literally any one of the turtles help I'm obsessed ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Percy Jackson/Heroes of Olympus/Trials of Apollo ✰Percy & Nico ✰Hazel & Nico ✰Jason & Nico ✰Will & Apollo ✿Will & Nico ♫Leo & Nico ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Encanto ✰Camilo and literally anyone I love this character so much ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Dear Evan Hansen ��Connor & Evan ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Black Butler ✰Sebastian & Ciel (he doesn't have a father figure okay the child needs a hug) ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Gravity Falls ✰Mabel & Dipper ✰Ford & Dipper ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎FNAF (mainly security breach tbh) ✰Sundrop & Reader ✰Moondrop & Reader ✰Glamrock Freddy & Gregory ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎MHA/BNHA ✰Todoroki & Izuku ✰Shinsou & Aizawa ♫Denki & Shinsou ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Twisted Wonderland ✰Jade & Floyd ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Voltron ✰Keith & Shiro ♫Keith & Lance (yes I am aware it's not canon let me mourn) ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Sanders Sides ✰Roman & Remus ✰Virgil & Patton ✰Virgil & Janus ♫Virgil & Logan ̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅[̲̅ ̲̅]̲̅:̲̅:̲̅:̲̅ ✎Avengers (mainly Spiderman tbh I'm obsessed) ✰ Peter & Tony (I need Tony to adopt this sweet boy it's a need) ◦•●◉★◉●•◦ Anyway, thanks for reading my essay, enjoy my content and stay hydrated!

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kittieprettieprincess · 1 month

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I'm never having another platonic cg again bc omg 😭😭😭 I got way too attached to him in ways that are just...unhealthy for me. Him not being my partner but being my cg was absolutely so confusing for me especially when I was regressed. I'd there's just so much intimacy that comes with in a cgl dynamic that I have to have my cg be a romantic partner as well.

Being in a sexual dynamic with him for months and months only for him to tell me he never had any feelings for me and then telling me he was only comfortable being my platonic cg bc he didn't feel for me in that way really really fucked me up dude.

No platonic caregivers for me, no thanks.

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abdlgossipblog · 3 months

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To the female little wanting a gay daddy: it depends on what your motives are. It sounds like you don’t want the caregiver relationship to be sexual, so you could certainly look for someone who wants a platonic CGL dynamic, but the question is why does your daddy need to be gay?

(Unless I mistook gay daddy to mean a gay male but you really mean lesbian daddy bc you are also into women?? In which case, you could talk to rainbootsinmud (peytonlullaby on tumblr) about how she continues to make that dynamic work)

#rainbootsinmudd

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becbirdx · 3 months

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20s aroace afab demi-woman she/they switch

minors dni

welcome to the realm of my shy, anxious Good Girl middle personality. i also have a findom persona floating around the internet.

but anyway, being aroace i tend to avoid flirting and intimacy. however, that doesn’t mean i don’t have fantasies…

here’s where i dabble in expressing some of those fantasies, building up the courage to interact more intimately with others.

part of my long-term goals is to develop a (mostly) sfw dynamic with a soft Dom. i can’t stay alone forever, a platonic partnership has been my ideal future vision, and i hope that the support of cgl dynamic would help with my executive dysfunction. and then, maybe once i feel safe and comfortable with them over time, the dynamic could transition to letting me explore nsfw (but keeping in mind that i’m aroace and might not get far in that regard).

if you’re wondering how i can manage being a findom if this is my reality, it’s because my findom persona feels removed from my true self. it’s part of who i am, but also walled off and dramatized. it will never be part of my day-to-day reality, it’s entirely online. on the other hand, my middle personality is very close to me. it’s an exposure of my most intimate self, and thus terrifying to expose.

tldr, be gentle with me. i might not reply if i’m feeling nervous. idk what i’m doing.

wishtender

mastodon

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fetlife (age verified)

#becbird.txt

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hfxdadap · 1 year

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What Is DDLG? | The Ultimate Guide for Beginners

AUGUST 29, 2022

DDLG Meaning

DDLG stands for “Daddy Dom, Little Girl” and it’s a BDSM dynamic where one takes the role of “daddy” (also called the caregiver) and the other takes the role of “little” who embodies childlike qualities.

The DDLG Relationship

Usually, the daddy takes on the dominant role and the little that of the submissive one. But the thought that it’s strictly like that is a misconception.

Sometimes, littles can be the doms in the relationship. Examples of dominant littles are "brats" or "princesses." But maybe the little just doesn’t identify as either dominant or submissive. That’s perfectly fine, too.

The daddy and the little can also switch roles — so, the daddy becomes the little and the little becomes the caregiver.

And then there's the sexual aspect of it. A lot of the lifestyle portrayed online is very sexual in nature, but being in a platonic DDLG relationship is also completely possible.

This is why an ultimate guide for DDLG is tricky. Because the lifestyle is very flexible.

The only sure thing about it is that it’s under the BDSM umbrella. It should also always be consensual. And whether or not sex is part of the picture, DDLG is always a kink because of the power exchange involved.

Everything else is pretty much fair play.

The DDLG Lifestyle: In a Nutshell

I’m going to be straightforward with you: The ultimate guide is that there’s no definitive guide for the DDLG lifestyle.

It’s very complex. There’s no right way of doing it because people practice it differently, and there’s no single reason for doing it because people get into the lifestyle for various reasons.

I’m a little. I’ve always been bubbly and carefree in a way that it felt like my inner child never left even as I grew up.

When I heard what DDLG was, I looked deeper into the lifestyle. But a lot of the time, I read definitions of it that claimed to be set in stone but weren’t applicable to me and how I acted.

So for a time, I thought I wasn’t part of the community after all. Even though I actually was, and that I just did things differently.

In the end, DDLG is very individualized. It’s a nuanced lifestyle that’s as complex as you.

So, this guide won’t give you a strict definition of what DDLG is (just the broad strokes) nor a step-by-step guide on how to do it. The goal is to introduce the more general aspects of the lifestyle and help you understand your own shade of DDLG so you could define it for yourself.

Let’s get to it!

DDLG Terms Explained

If you’ve just started joining forums and communities, then you’ve probably come across unfamiliar acronyms like CGL, ABDL, or MDLB. And terms like little age, middle, or age regression.

It can be overwhelming, coming across all these slangs and not knowing their meaning. So let me explain them to you.

Let’s start with what each role entails.

What Is a Daddy Dom?

In DDLG, the daddy takes on the caring parental figure. Of course, this parental figure doesn’t always have to be a guy--there are also mommies, but we’ll get to that later.

Daddies are more broadly called caregivers. And for a reason.

When you think of a dominant in a BDSM relationship, you usually think of someone who rules with a stern hand and enforces strict discipline. Daddies can be that too, but more often than not, they’re more softcore.

They’re caring, loving, and sweet. They’re the protective and authoritative half of the DDLG dynamic. But whether they’re strict or lenient with their littles, they always want the best for them.

Despite the “dom” in the name, some daddies can be the total opposite. Some don’t even identify as dominant. And that’s absolutely okay. Their job is to nurture, to be a constant in their little’s lives, and to always give them a guiding hand whenever they need it.

Because daddies take on a kind of parental role, they often set up rules their little should follow. These rules, in turn, have rewards when abided to or punishments when broken.

This is common practice but not required. Daddies can have a more relaxed dynamic with their little. Just like any other relationship, it’s important for the daddy and little to communicate what they each want their relationship to be.

What Is a Little?

Littles have never been able to get rid of their inner child. They can be in their 20s, 30s, or even 60s and still feel like they’re 8 years old (or younger; or a bit older).

This is why littles look up to their daddies or caregivers for guidance. They have a need to be looked after, cared for, and protected. And maybe it’s this innocence that urges daddies to be their caregivers.

Most littles are submissive, following daddy’s orders and abiding by the rules he’s set up. Sometimes they’re good girls and sometimes they’re bratty.

But some littles aren’t submissive, and that’s okay. Littles can be whatever they want.

So if it suits them and their daddies for them to be bratty and bossy 24/7, then more power to them! As long as everything’s consensual and both parties are happy and satisfied.

Now, ageplay is very common in DDLG. That’s why littles tend to have little ages and it can range from newborn to 12 years old.

If you think your little age falls into the teenage category, from 13 to 17, then you’re called a middle.

Even so, you’re still definitely a little because you’re playing an age that’s younger than your actual age, and you do it to embrace your inner younger self. But in the community, you’re specifically called a middle, which is just a little, really--if only a bit older.

Your little age doesn’t have to be fixed either. A lot of littles change ages all the time. Sometimes they’re newborns and sometimes they’re eight years old. It really just depends on your mood.

Some littles don’t even have a little age. And that’s okay, too! I personally don’t. I’ve been bubbly and childish (and adorable) for as long as I can remember. I don’t need a little age to feel or be little. I just know in my heart that I am.

The Headspaces

In BDSM, a headspace is an altered state of mind that comes with taking on a submissive or dominant role. The brain secretes chemicals that often make practitioners lose themselves in a scene.

Sometimes, the effect is compared to intoxication or the high of being drugged. It’s just this intense feeling that’s hard to describe. It varies from person to person, and they love it--otherwise, they won’t be coming back for more.

In DDLG, falling into little space is a huge part of becoming a little. Some littles use triggers to get there, such as sucking on their thumb or a pacifier, doodling on a coloring book, or just curling up with their stuffies.

Some littles sink into little space after a long day of work and some do it once a week or once a month when they meet with their daddies for playtime. Maybe you’re in little space almost all of the time.

However often you get to experience little space, it’s that warm, fuzzy feeling you have every time you feel safe in your environment. When you can just be tiny, carefree, and protected.

Little space doesn’t always mean you have to have a daddy around either. You can be alone in your room, reading Harry Potter and surrounded by soft pillows and a dozen stuffies. Or you can be around friends, finger painting sculptures.

Everyone’s different.

And when there’s little space, there’s also daddy space. Yes, it exists. And it’s more misunderstood.

Often, daddies are assumed to always be in that headspace. Littles probably don’t think their daddies shift into headspaces at all, that their daddiness is somewhat always turned on. But that’s only because their little’s presence is most likely the only requirement for them to get into daddy space.

This headspace can cause daddies to feel an intense need to protect, nurture, and care for their littles. Or maybe a drive to discipline them.

Now, I may just be putting nonsensical labels on things. But let me be clear: A daddy doesn’t need to be in daddy space to be a daddy for a little, and a little doesn’t need to be in little space to be a little for their daddy.

Headspaces are just a way to explain the shift in your mindset and the intense feelings that flood through your body whenever you embody a little or daddy’s role.

They explain why a little can be a strong and respected CEO yet so mushy and sensitive when they come home after work. They explain how a daddy can be so disconnected with the DDLG lifestyle whenever he’s hanging out with his friends, yet when he comes home to his little, his caring, parental side shows up.

Switching

A switch is simply someone who takes on both the role of the little and the caregiver, depending on what they’re feeling in the moment. Suffice to say, they’re familiar with both the little and caregiver’s headspaces.

If dominance and submission is a huge part of their lifestyle, then a switch can be submissive in one scene and then dominant the next.

Switching in DDLG is so awesome because it expands the possibilities that could happen in the relationship.

You don’t have to be a switch if you’re not into it though, just because it sounds cool. The lifestyle is filled with dozens of fun things to do already.

The Variations and Specifications

Now, let’s talk about the variations. I made a handy diagram for you to understand them better.

Think of DDLG as a dynamic that falls under the BDSM umbrella. BDSM is all about power exchange, and the power exchange within DDLG is just more particular--that of which exists between a daddy and a little.

But under BDSM is a smaller umbrella--ageplay--and another umbrella called CGL which means Caregiver/Little.

CGL is simply the broader term to describe DDLG. It encompasses DDLG and its variations. Whereas ageplay is a kink where you roleplay a certain age either to enhance sexual experiences or to merely relax.

Ageplay and CGL are best represented in a Venn diagram because not everyone who roleplays age necessarily acts younger and not everyone who’s into CGL is into ageplay.

That’s why a portion of ageplay in the Venn diagram has gray lines. Think of that as an area excluded from the CGL tree because it’s the part of ageplay where practitioners roleplay older roles. It’s pretty rare, but it exists.

As you already learned, DDLG is very fluid. There are elements common to littles and daddies such as dominance, submission, and little ages, but they’re not always a fixed rule.

And this rings true when it comes to gender. If there’s DDLG, then there’s its opposite: MDLB or Mommy Dom/Little Boy. There’s also DDLB (Daddy Dom/Little Boy) and MDLG (Mommy Dom/Little Girl).

If you’re gender-fluid, you don’t have to stick to one camp either. Sometimes you might be in the mood for some MDLB or sometimes you might want to try DDLB.

If both you and your partner are switches, sometimes you might try DDLG, and sometimes you might try MDLB.

Really, anything is possible.

But because you’re here specifically for DDLG (hence the title), I’ll be using that term mainly from here onward. But keep in mind that what I say can also be applied to the other CGL variants.

Little Ages

In the diagram, I segmented the little ages into 4: ABDL (which stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), little ages of toddler age to 12 years old, middle ages or teenage to young adult years, and no little age.

You’d notice that ABDL spans all age groups. That’s because age here is optional. Sure, the subcommunity loves wearing diapers--it’s the whole point of it. So, it’d only make sense that their little ages should probably be from newborn to toddler age, right?

But you don’t have to ageplay to enjoy wearing diapers. As with any other aspect of CGL, how you practice ABDL depends on you and what you’re most comfortable with. Whether it’s for erotic reasons, a mere stress reliever, a hobby, or a lifestyle, it’s all up to you.

Solo DDLG

Can you still be a little or adult baby even though you have no daddy or mommy? Absolutely!

Sure, DDLG is a dynamic between two (or more) people, but you really don’t need a daddy to get into little space. Whatever activities get you feeling safe and happy… do them. Paint, color, cuddle with your stuffie, or grab your pacifier.

Plus, the DDLG community is vibrant and filled with the sweetest people. Join Facebook groups or forum discussions. You don’t need a daddy to feel little and cared for at all. The ABDL lifestyle also doesn’t require you to be in any kind of relationship.

Ageplay vs Age Regression

These 2 terms often get interchanged. But here’s the gist:

Ageplay is a kink. Age regression isn’t. Ageplayers act. Age regressors feel.

Ageplay is simple roleplay. You just act a certain age and play the role of that age. You can do it for sexual reasons or simply just for fun.

Age regression, on the other hand, is more biological. It’s when someone mentally regresses to a certain age and actually feels like they’re that age. Sometimes, this is a result of a traumatic experience. Age regression is also used in therapy. Although some littles might experience age regression, it’s not inherently sexual.

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