#social ineptitude

[sorrowfulrosebud]

I need to write horrible Andy smut.

#🥀 rambles #Y’know the purple bitch from monster high escape to skull shores #he’s like a wet paper cardboard #like #social ineptitude #he’s so possessive 🥹🥹 #and he has a huge happy trail

[ladyof1000masks]

I'm exhausted by this world. I say something while being friendly, giving a compliment "You grew into the character and improved over the years", but being truthful that I preferred the character's original voice actor and I get blocked.

I'm an idiot who just can't person, I guess. Like always, I'm going to assume it's my fault and feel like trash about it. Meanwhile, my "friends" on the discord channel I used to frequent completely ignore me now even when I reply with questions directed at them. At least my cats get me.

My apologies for the "poor me" party. Just screaming into the void. Now back to obsessing about Shudo's/M01 Mewtwo. I was stoned as all fuck last night thanks to eating two CBD gummies. Weed affects me weirdly. Even then I was still able to write a coherent response last night.

I promise I'll start talking about Arkham Scarecrow again. Maybe I should make a separate page for my other interests.

#ladymask screams into the void #yelling into the void #pity party for one #tw mentions of drugs #i'm sad #i'm sorry #i love mewtwo #social anxiety #social ineptitude #adhd autistic #im an idiot

[what-am-i-even-doing-tho]

October Drabble Challenge 2023

Day 24- Code

"He slogs through every conversation, trying desperately to translate every word."

It's all a mystery to him; how is he supposed to know the rules when no one's told him? How is he supposed to read between the lines and parse out the truth when everything is so unclear, so subjective?

Someone will say something that means one thing here and another thing there, and it's expected of him to know which it is, but he doesn't. How can he when it has so many meanings?

He slogs through every conversation, trying desperately to translate every word. He tries so hard to understand, and yet, he just can't figure it out.

#communication #social ineptitude #understanding people is hard af #i'm calling myself out #original work #mine #drabble #october drabble challenge 2023

[inspectorspacetimerevisited]

It’s a good thing that the Inspector didn’t say anything about Suri’s apparent crush on her, given how socially inept this incarnation has shown herself to be.

That would have cursed ‘The Legend of the Sky Angels’ with a lesbian-love moment that ultimately got ignored for no good reason.

#Inspector Spacetime #The Legend of the Sky Angels (special) #The Legend of the Sky Angels (episode) #the Inspector (character) #didn't address #Suri Shah (character) #Suri (character) #apparent crush on her #given this incarnation's #13th Inspector #Thirteenth Inspector #social ineptitude #shown herself to be socially inept #would have cursed the programme #lesbian moment #which would ultimately be ignored #for no good reason

[brzatto]

there’s so little discussion of carmy’s anger. everyone knows about richie’s temper and i like to think of carmy as a sad wet kicked puppy as much as the next person but he has so much deeply embedded rage and a real genuine capability of being mean. he rapidly built a successful career for himself in one of the most cutthroat and competitive industries purely out of spite, he resorts to yelling and takes it out on people when he loses his temper, he’s condescending to and dismissive of sydney on multiple occasions, he destroys marcus’ donut in frustration, his ego is bruised when sydney gets a good review for her risotto from an established critic which makes him resentful and he ends up blowing up at her for it. there’s a lot more to him than just being sad and anxious and defeated; he’s also capable of being bitter and angry and ambitious and self absorbed and unfair. there’s a lot of sympathy and romanticization of his character out there and i’m guilty of both at times as well but i feel like a lot of fanon interps out there are doing his character a disservice by choosing not to encompass all of his flaws because it’s really what makes him so unique and compelling and tragic as a character

#i also def agonize over whether i’m woobifying him too much in my own writing because i like to emphasize his social ineptitude a lot #trying to focus on his sad patheticness but then it feels like i’m watering him down too much to push a narrative? #rather than doing the deep chara dive i aim for in my writing while simultaneously exploring the dynamics and scenarios i want to see #downsides to extremely complex and multifaceted charas: they are extremely complex and multifaceted #my txt #the bear #carmy berzatto

[spyder8itch]

Wait until ppl find out that Vriska is autistic it’s gonna blow their minds that autistic ppl can be mean

#homestuck #vriska #homestuck analysis #vriska serket #homestuck meta #wait till they find out autism isn’t the Minecraft kindness gene #that it may actually cause some social ineptitudes that lead to coming off more rude than intended #wait till they find out that autistic ppl who have been traumatized can be mean

[myonmallow]

thots on rf:o

#rune factory #rfo #i could write essays. aboot girls. #mikoto is.. transcis girlboy boygirl. hot #like when i wasn't sure abt the end state of the game. i was like. if sonja has to pick a guy .. that guy is so girl. #then it was a three way tie between boygirl autism and social ineptitude elf 😢 #sorrey sonj. i have to go be a girlboy #forr my boygirl #holy shmoley this has been in my drafts for a while oups.. i had another thot in my head for a comic buteurmmm... #bajically it was like.. thinking about the state of the game after winning. you go about yur day and it's soso quiet your head is so empty

[badlydrawnkankri]

are you a nerd

#he is very much a nerd. social ineptitude included. don't listen to him #kankri vantas #anonymous #ask

[wouldntyoulichentoknow]

(she hates the fancy parties.)

#sailor moon #silver millennium #Sailor Venus #something quick and simple to get warmed up as my current big project is a bit more intensive lol #most repressed woman in the world at the royal event who will she terrorize with her social ineptitude (everyone and also herself)

[wifiwuxians]

im in love w song lan bc he isnt a petty jealous bitch who would do literally anything n be two faced just to get to spend time w his crush hes genuinely just a nice guy who loves who he loves....... while also being like kinda haughty n known for hitting people first and demanding answers later like hes not perfect but his imperfections add Flavor instead of detracting from him imo n they don't affect his Boyfriend Quality at all. i once described him as being the antithesis of possessive, he will just keep the door open for when his lover chooses to return and like some people will argue that's a sign of not caring enough but those people are wrong. as someone in an open relationship that sort of thing means a fucking lot to me. like if something is wrong he will chase you down but if he thinks you're happy he will let you run the show. i love him he'd make a very enjoyable main character/main love interest in a story for me specifically but ill need to write it myself because people cant help but write him as possessive..........

#i get that people think possessiveness is a good source for drama and w/e but it does Nothing for me #and actually his haughtiness crumbling and revealing a sort of nervous social ineptitude is. Ajfksjdk #Need more characters like that

[thishazeleyeddemon]

I think one thing autistic people should internalize is neurotypical people don't know what the fuck they're doing either

#autism #it's a different style of social ineptitude but buddy just because they don't have executive dysfunction or whatever does NOT mean they #understand all social rules perfectly. #they might be acting like they do. They don't

[immortalsins]

big fan of the major antagonists in crash course in romance being the scary mums whilst a b-plot position is given to the actual murderer

#crash course in romance #ramblings #haven't finished the show yet so if he's suddenly a major issue in later episodes i take this back #tbh he is a major issue now #but he gets like 15 minutes tops whilst the leads have an hour of bad and awkward decisions to make #the true villain is social ineptitude #maybe i'm saying this because i wish jang seo-jin had a larger role #she's such an interesting character #the way she did not learn from her mistakes. tragic #predictions ... i bet she dies #sun-jae's brother kills her i will bet money on it #can't remember his name #lee hui-jae there we go #although have i ever successfully predicted a major plot point in this show. i have not #who possibly could

[notblue-bandit]

ok i was thinking ab it and i think what differentiates avoidant to anxiety, for me at least, is like. im not really scared of judgement from other people. like i don't like it but its not the biggest motivating factor. what motivates me to avoid social interaction is; im avoiding essentially confirming to myself that im socially inept (and an embarrassment and bad at interacting with ppl etc).

bc that feeling, when i do something and it gets proven right, when my brain says "hey actually you do suck at interacting with other people like you thought you did and its actually so embarrassing and shameful" is so fucking painful i PHYSICALLY feel it as pain in my body when i have those thoughts. i have to clench my jaw and squeeze my fists and punch something or make a noise in my throat or something just to release it physically from my body. and the thoughts are intrusive, i cant get rid of them, they happen whenever they feel like it, and they get significantly worse after any social interaction at all

so basically, my motivation for avoiding doesn't hae very much to do with HOW other people percieve me, necessarily, its how i feel about myself that im really avoiding. its proving to myself that what i think ab myself is true that im avoiding. its accidentally making that fact known to other people to the point where it changes their entire perception of me so they feel the same about me as i do— that im avoiding. im not really scared, i dont get much of a fear response, im just avoiding the pain and mental suffering that ik is gonna happen after i interact with people.

bc it DOES happen. so why would i put myself through that?

#avoidant #AvPD #questioning AvPD #this is why i hate the whole “well youre not physically avoiding it” bc i can physically go somewhere and still be avoiding it #i can go somewhere and not interact with people and make myself look intimidating so im unapproachable #and actively walk away from peoples attempts at interacting with me #but its starting to get to the point where even that is causing me to get attention drawn to my social ineptitude soooo

[jotx]

i was never introverted btw. just pre transition :)

#like fr i feel like i dont shut up ever when im around ppl i feel sooooo stimmed n happy teehee #i feel like when i want to be alone its rly bc i want to draw. smoke weed. n jerk off etc etc. just be self indulgent in peace #not bc of a social battery or something but rathee. well i like to be a little weird #and i feel like my shyness and social ineptitude comes from that pre transition phase. like i didnt have much practice in my youth socializ #so now im a little bit clumsy sometimes even after 4 years of being true to myself. but thankfully. i can just smoke weed abt it

[13tinysocks]

if it makes you feel any better, when I read SYG I interpreted all the cringe and silly moments as them being neurodivergent and socially awkward cuz of isolation from other ppl. And as someone who is severely neurodivergent and has isolated myself for several years, I found that really comforting. They were like me :). SYG definitely isn’t the best written thing I’ve ever read, but it’s still one of my fav books.

You'd never guess this about me (/j) but as the writer- at the time I was only decent at writing what I know in regards to yn aka you aka in my case, me. I'm autistic and was incredibly socially isolated from a very young age because of that. Like genuinely had no friends for years isolated. It's only because of syg I have been able to make friends. It's special to me in the same way

#rea lore moment #anyway joans social ineptitude is also me self inserting especially the lack of empathy and understanding of why friendships matter lol #i got the tism she got the aspd together we are incompetent socially #anon #reply

[inkandarsenic]

The height difference between Lucifer and Morpheus amuses me to no end.

#morpheus #he’s just a little guy #a smol bean #if you will #smol awkward bean full of social ineptitude #and I love him #dream of the endless #dream #sandman netflix #sandman lucifer #also #Lucifer can step on me #she could stab me and i would thank her #a hope in hell #my poor bisexual heart #i am nothing if not #a disaster bi #two unbelievably attractive people #dressed in black #leather #and looking sexy as fuck #i’m drooling