❝ 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐓 ❞
summary: you're gojo satoru's therapist :3
pairings: gojo satoru x therapist!reader
tw: fluff
No one thought that Gojo Satoru would need a therapist.
Hell, he didn't think he needed one until Nanami somehow persuaded him to go visit one of his friends that was a therapist.
To be honest, he expected a male. But what he didn't expect was a gorgeous woman in a black dress, peering up at him through her glasses.
God, life never prepared him for this.
“OH, MY GOD YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN IT”
Looking up from your papers, you see your client; Gojo Satoru, at the door with his arms spread and a joyish grin on his face.
“Hello Satoru” You murmured, a gentle smile on your face as if you haven't done this every day for the past two years.
Satoru greeted you with a friendly greeting and carried on speaking while his life is on the line, while sitting on the chair opposite you. You checked the time when your next appointment and saw that it was soon but a certain blue — eyed person was here right now.
"Hey Satoru," You cut him off apologetically from his rambling "But why are you here if you're not actually going to speak about your problems?”
Gojo felt fear rush through him and in a flash, he was kneeling by your side and kissing your knuckles "I'm so disappointed in myself, I have disregarded my beautiful girl's feeling. Forgive me angel, how was your day?"
You chuckled as Satoru kissed your forefinger, your metal ring, cold against his lips “I will be forever grateful that Nanami introduced me to such a beautiful soul"
"And I'm not surprised that girls fall for your charm when you use it to get out tricky situations" Satoru just simply smirked at you
"Satoru, as much as I enjoy your company, I believe you have to go soon because I have a client coming in, in less than 20 minutes" You continued talking and by the end of your speech, Satoru was giving you puppy eyes.
You sighed, looked to the time and back to Satoru's blue puppy eyes and you reluctantly gave in "Fine, but you have to leave when I tell you okay?"
And so Satoru grinned brightly and chatted away, while sitting opposite you, and you shared that beautiful smile with him, adoration in your eyes and he wondered, i'll tell her soon.
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Therapy be like
Session 3: Awww but you're so charming!! I can't wait to have sessions with you, I really don't understand how you don't have any friends
Session 16: *kicks me out for being "too difficult"*
🙃
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Why Am I This Way - Psychology Answers
Note: we have one more! hopefully this one will be insightful despite being small
“How Am I” Section
“Relax, I am just kidding!”
What happens in the unconscious brain:
“It’s just a joke”. Honestly, how many of us have heard these words after something hurtful has been said our way? or how many times we have said it when we tried to smooth the situation after saying something hurtful?
This is a classic example of passive aggressiveness, the desire of hurting the other person is so deep (sometimes unconscious) that a person try to find a justificable way for their actions
the psychologist Aaron Beck explains that passive aggressiveness happens when we are forced to obey a reality that takes away our control on the current situation
Richard Lazarus, another psychologist, pushed the theory further and explained that passive aggressiveness comes from three emotions: Happiness, Humiliation and Confusion.
Basically what happens inside us is that we make a cognitive analysis (primary evaluation) about the thing that is happening to us and hen we have the emotional reaction (secondary evaluation), which can stimulate the passive aggressiveness
For a concrete example, let's say that you are in a group of friends, and this one person has been annoying you. There's no particular reason, just hearing them speak makes your blood boil (primary evaluation) and the moment you get an opening you will have this emotional reaction which is saying something sarcastic based on something they said or did (secondary action). it often happens too quickly for one to control, which often makes the person add the “i was just kidding don't take it personally”.
feelings and thought is what brings out action out of us, and sometimes internal conflicts happen which triggers the passive aggressiveness which is a way for our inner self to evacuate the frustration without taking action
the passive aggressive person feels a profound confusion related to themselves and the others, which is often compared to the reactions of teens
Overall, being passive aggressive is a normal reaction for those who have trouble in expressing themselves and have internal conflicts within their desire and their morals
if you are interested in more of this topics you can check the works of Magda Arnold, Richard Lazarus, Theodore Millon, Roger Davis and Aaron Beck
So what can we do?
Being passive aggressive is usuallçy a reaction in situations where we want to please people but our inner side has conflits
it comes from fear, fear of being unheard, of benign rejected by the people around you, by society, fear of losing control over a situation that you try hard to grasp
but it also comes from pent up frustration and rage. that deep anger one can feel for some situation or people that our body just cannot process
fear stops anger, just as external agreement stops fear
knowing where your passive aggressive comes is already the first step to deal with this internal emotions and be able to settle the passive aggressiveness in you and avoid hurting people by your words
Now, you know where to work to become a better version of yourself
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