#beakups

[blackborderlinekitty]

I miss you like an idiot misses the point.

...really want and need to stop feeling this way...

#missing you #love you #need you #am sad #heaetbreak #aching #yearning #hurting #obsession #fuck i love you #relationship #beakup #memories #dreaming

[onikks-txt]

I love how the internet turned painful experiences and trauma into a means of gaining power/confidence

Rough beakup? On my villain arc

Failed exams? F*ck it, we ball

Falling out with family? Adding to your lore

Burnt out? Means nothing to the INDOMITABLE HUMAN SPIRIT

#onikks talks #onikks shitposts #of course i mean this in a self confidence way and not a glorification of mental illness way #times are hard #but don’t forget that there are people who believe in u!!

[doodleimprovement]

🖊️

Nell Fact!!

When Nell was in her early 20s, she had a really hard time finding anything that really worked for her as a hobby and dabbled in tons of different activities including mini-golf, dance, and even musical theater troupes (All unprofessional). The only one she ever stuck with was dance, but a rather mean ex boyfriend essentially bullied her out of it, calling it a "waste of time" that didn't "benefit their future together"

She hasn't danced since then, even years after the beakup.

#nell lore #meme #antonia answers

[noelnotes]

Tucson believes that beak-ups are an important part of your exercise routine. #moluccancockatoo #moluccan #mollucansofig #cockatoosofinstagram #cockatoo #beakups #priscillaspantry #tucson (at Priscilla's Pantry) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2ccUazn0vd/?igshid=1rmhjcx6bi6oo

#moluccancockatoo #moluccan #mollucansofig #cockatoosofinstagram #cockatoo #beakups #priscillaspantry #tucson

[badnaat]

You can't' blame my heart for not choosing you!

#love quotes #felling #moments #vibe #couple #heart #beakup #pain #poem #poets #sad poem #poets on tumblr #foryoupage

[insomniac--beauty]

i’m a mess

i dont know

how to impress

anyone,

i don’t want

us to just be friends.

#quotes #quote #love #insomniac beauty #grunge #love quotes #breakup #heartbreak #life #thoughts #lyrics #lyric quotes #photography #sunset #driving #car #june #music #breaking up #beakup shoes #unrequited love

[asadboyzdiary]

Holding on

I’ve been holding on to the hope that you’ll come back when you can find some peace

Lewis Capaldi - Bruises

#sad #depressed #upset #beakup #lost #drugs #od #selfhatm #suicide #helpme #quotes #sadsong #sadsongs #imsad #lovequote #lovequotes #love #xanax #xanny #quote #love quote #sad boys

[wxkeupalone]

figures - jessie reyez

#heartbreak #spilledink #spilled ink #heartache #beakup #love #relationships #relationship #quote #quotes #jessie reyez #deadwatered #hazyaffection #loveserum #veincold #extrasad #flowercavities #lyrics

[jamshadap-blog]

I just published "The Whatchamacallit" of my story "Hopeless Romantic Poems". https://my.w.tt/ABgdF7nwTR

#poetry #beakup #brokenheart #fixing #friendzone #hopelessromance #inlove #likezone #moveon #sawi #books #amwriting #wattpad

[sroyal91-blog]

#moving on #divorce #heartbreak #beakup

[ekkavikidastan]

Kafi Arsa Ho Gaya........

#poetry #new poets society #sad poem #beakup #written #writters on tumblr #writterscommunity #writterscreed #writtersblock #writting prompt #oblivion #remember

[imperatriceauxdiamants]

Queen Of Broken Hearts

Guide on how to breakup, survive them, and thrive.

Why to dump:

You're unhappy

You don't feel listened to

You're disrespected

He's not up to your standards

He's abusive, harassing, excessively jealous, controlling

You feel ashamed of him

He let himself go, he's not attractive anymore (this one is highly subjective... But if you feel disgusted, it's time)

Or... he simply doesn't spark joy and you don't know why exactly. Just feeling like you need to break up is enough. No need to give a solid hard reason, after all were dealing with emotions.

If he has cheated, lied (in major ways, not silly white lies or positive surprise lies) or manipulated to you. Those things are zero tolerance. If you tolerate it once, he knows what to do, and what NOT to do and you're becoming his puppet. Gaslight too.

Before breaking up:

Write the shit list. A shit list is a list of his failures, disrespects, weaknesses, major and minor mistakes, etc. List every single one. Store it away, make copies.

Rekindle friendships, deepen your links with family, close friends, mutual friends etc. Take your time with that because it will prove itself to be really useful in the future. Do NOT dump your relationship woes at them. Discuss of whatever passes by your mind, arrange girlfriend dates with your closest friends etc. Once you're single they're gonna be your support network.

List off the links you have with him, and cut off the ones that are less frequently used. If he asks why, pretend it is a mistake or you're cleaning up on your stuff to make things simpler for you tehee. Pretend nothing is wrong. The remaining links will be cut off once it's breakup time.

Prepare the breakup text/communication. Short, simple, direct, confident and classy. No 'I feel like...' or 'i think I should...' or other indecisive wording. That's open territory for negociation and YOU DONT WANT NEGOCIATION FOR A BEAKUP. ITS FINAL. A good (short) example would be "I know that we are not compatible, therefore I want to breakup. I'm wishing you the best in life, and have a nice day"

If you're married, find a PRO-WOMAN lawyer that wants the MOST for you, not a Pickme lawyer. Divorces are not times to make generous concessions because you're kind. Ask close personal friends about lawyers, surely one knows about a lawyer that helped immensely her friend or whatever. Prepare the documentation, the papers, discuss of the divorce process with your lawyer with pre-prepared questions. DO NO LET HIM KNOW WHATS GOING ON BEHIND THE SCENES. Pretend everything is fine, do not bring up disappointments, etc.

If you're living with him, make sure you got a sufficient financial cushion he's unaware of, a new home lined up next, you got all your important papers (birth certificate, passport, etc) in a safe area at a friend's, family's, etc or in your safe possession. DO NOT LET HIM KNOW OF WHATS GOING ON, until you're finally breaking up.

Where to dump:

NEVER at your home. Or his home. Too dangerous. Trust me on this one.

Try to meet up in a public place so that his tantrums won't guilt-trip you into submission. Less dangerous and there's witnesses and videocam if things go wrong. Try to find a more discreet restaurant or cafe, not fucking Starbucks or MacDonald's.

If he tends to be highly manipulative/abusive, it's better to breakup via call or even better text. Screenshot/record the call/texts in case if you're in a one-party recording law area.

Once you're ready, make yourself comfortable and confident. Make sure your area is free of distractions, tools, etc.

The day of the dumping:

Pretend to go to work, take a day off work, get dressed/hyped up to make yourself confident. Go to the decided place, or a cafe if you're doing it via text..

Warn a very close friend/family member of what you're gonna do. Keep contact with this person over the next few days to make sure you're safe. Also, establishing a "I'm in deep shit" code is another great idea. Like calling them by their full name instead of their usual nickname to signal you're in deep shit.

Go to the decided place, invite him there, if he's not coming you're gonna dump via text sis.

Dump him with the pre-written message. Nothing more, nothing less. Say your goodbyes... Then BLOCK.

Proceed to block him on every single link you have with him. Change your username if possible.

After the breakup:

The remaining evening, take some time to dedicate some self-care to yourself. A nice healthy filling meal, ONE cup of high quality wine, some exquisite sorbet or ice cream, a movie, clean soft blankets, make it perfect for a queen.

It's possible that you'll cry, you're crying the image you had of the relationship and the intimancy but you're choosing better for yourself. Let yourself cry and ask yourself sincerely why you're crying, analyze what's going on in your mind.

If you crave communicating with him, communicate with your close friend or family member. If you want to contact him, read your shit list again and again.

If you're breaking up on a Friday (which I recommend), use the weekend to do self-care, workouts, self-dates, etc. DO NOT REVISIT THE DATES YOU DID WITH HIM. DO NOT TRIGGER MEMORIES WITH HIM. I suggest going on a entirely new date if you're going the self-dates route.

The next week, dedicate yourself to your job, school, whatever. No man shall slow you down professionally. If you feel emotional, give yourself MORE work. WORK. WORK. WORK.

The next 1-2 weeks, prepare yourself to get back on the game. You're not gonna let a ex occupy your mind and stop you from great opportunities. If it is the case, he is WINNING and you're LOSING.

Do NOT talk about the ex to anyone else besides your closest friends. You're not gonna be THAT person that larments about her ex. You're gonna be that person that rebounds and carries on elegantly. If you need to talk, book a therapist or write it down in a journal. They're there for you.

DO NOT DO DRASTIC HAIRCUTS OR PERMANENT CHANGES FRESHLY AFTER A BREAKUP. If you crave change, go buy something like a new cute tumbler or new towels or whatever that's not permanent, and note down the desired permanent change. Review the change you wanted to do 3 weeks laters and decide if that's worth it. NEVER DO RASH PERMANENT DECISIONS FRESHLY AFTER A BREAKUP.

Use that post-breakup momentum to get yourself healthier, happier, peppier. Drink more water, adjust your sleep schedule, get into working out, hire a PT, try out new fashion items, etc.

Mantra: Stay safe, classy, clean and neat.

#breakup #levelup #glowup #get your shit straight #seriesqueenof #heartbreak

[justwosothings]

You are not quite confident tho because sam had a beakup before this.And it is also a long term relationship.

Not sure what you’re trying to say tbh

[goatking17]

Offbeat

How can i call myself a poet If nothing i ever said Sounded poetic to you. I remind myself if the time you showed me the texts you saved over the years from friends or lovers you thought were beautiful and suddenly my mind made it a mission to be on there. I never saw that list of memories again But i can bet my words will never apear Not because im not poetic. But because you have forgotten, Or rather, Blocked out, all rhythm in my voice All rhyme in my love for you But i assure you it was there Like a drum i sang to you when you cried I held you like a symphony And left you alone when you needed it You left me 4 times. I swear i could feel my pulmanary weep everytime you told me i loved you more than you loved me. I had no clue i could be ok after such a defeat It took me too long to figure out that is was you who was offbeat.

#poetry #personal #beakup

[moretomommy]

Ramble From the Pit

Are you going to fight it? This is so wrong, Are you going to right it? This is a waste of time. I need to numb my mind. It's all a dream. Edges and seams, Ripped wide open Up in flames and and my world is smoking. Refill my drink. It's not what you think. Just stop thinking. Keep drinking. Frigid as ice, But you burn like this whiskey. How's a girl to leave? When you say that you miss me? It's done, You aren't the only one. Damn it's cold. And I'm getting old. Much to old to be alone. Am I going home? Where is home to me? It's not a place. It's a face. It's your smell. I remember it well. I've ran out of reasons to pretend. And I'm not sure when this will end. Frail is not something I want to be, Weak is not a good look on me. Shit don't mean shit, In a world so very full of it. You'll never be who I thought you would. But in a broken dream who ever could? I'm amazed at the pity in it all. No matter how high we climb, we will always fall. Stubborn minds will crumble the world, But not before you let your, stubborn heart break this girl.

#wordsnquotes #lyrics #poets on tumblr #poetsofinstagram #soulwork #writer #john mayer #beakup #loss #memories

[mcrish-blog1]

#gunge #drama #dream #darkness #love #life #him #beakup #waves #deep thoughts #depressing quotes #grungy girls