#/nbh

[fearandhatred]

can't wait for when the good omens fandom finally runs out of theories and we all just start fistfighting each other

#fearandhatred #ngl it is already happening. like oh we're attacking each others' theories now instead of making our own? cool #oh we're attacking EACH OTHER too? wow #idk if y'all noticed but it's a comedy show #/nbh #good omens

[somewhat-very-insane]

congrats if YOU PERSONALLY don't INTEND to use it as an insult but guess the fuck what. ninety-nine percent of the people using the word narcissist are using it AS AN INSULT so maybe you should, i don't know, listen to the people you are hurting by saying it's okay to use the word as an insult? just a thought. because i guarantee you, most people hear narcissist and don't think "oh, like the fairytale!" they think "oh, like abusive people!" so it's great that YOU know the origin of the word and think you're sooo amazing and not harmful and totally angelic and holier-than-thou for that but most people do not know that, and do not care to know that, and guess what?

i've said it before, i'll say it again: by saying "oh, people won't just change the way they talk," you are a part of the problem. because people DO change the way they talk. there's a reason most people don't go around calling other people the n-word, or fags, or crippled, or slow/retarded, etc., etc., etc., anymore, when the words do not apply to themselves. and that is because we recognized the harm those words do when used as insults. so, we stopped using them. it is not that hard to comprehend!!! most derogatory terms were derived from non-derogatory contexts. narcissistic should not be used as an insult any more than any other word.

if i started using autistic as an insult, everyone would lose their shit. same with any other disorder ever. so why do you think it's okay to use narcissist(ic) as an insult??

#disclaimer i am autistic that's why i used it as an example #//god's words #//damned to suffer #i am so fucking mad at this person #/nbh #<- the person is on another website

[labrdorite]

serious topic shift bc whilst digging for genshin redesigns i was reminded about how much you guys HATE black people (& its BHM so you guys are more rampant than ever w this shit).

blackwashing is not, & will never be a concept, nor a word, that exists or makes any logical sense. contrary to how all of you love to slap “washing” at the end of any word to equate it to whitewashing, that just… isn’t how it works.

whitewashing IS the word that it is because whiteness is seen as clean. Ie: you’re washing away everything that was dirty about a topic. From whitewashing historically black characters, to removing and rewriting every part of history to make white people look like the good guys in relation to their black counterparts.

you cannot slap ‘black’ onto that and have it mean the same thing. bc even in 2024, everything in relation to blackness is still considered to be dirty. (yes, this especially means your favourite east asian companies and content creators. i know how much you guys love to give them a special pass to hate on black skin just because they’re east asian).

so feel however you want abt black edits (or literally just redesigns that give these games any sort of skin diversity. because how are you recreating nations from all around the world yet only have 4 characters that are grey at best); but the moment you use ‘blackwashing’ or in any way equate it to whitewashing, anything you have to say is invalid. because its clear that the literate part of your brain is null & not functioning.

#/nbh #ik im talking abt hyv specifically but this goes for all fandoms tbh #also btw #there’s no such thing as ‘asian rep’ in a media made IN east asia. for east asians. by east asians #at that point its just a game #just as there’s not ‘american rep’ in american media. made in america. BY americans for americans

[thevirgodoll]

reminded daily why i dont like twitter aka X lol. the mindset on there is very hostile and argumentative for no reason. if you're on there too long, you'll be influenced to participate and that is not my ministry to engage in shenanigans. at one point twitter drama was funny but i'm...old now. i truly believe the ppl that enjoyed drama the most in school have poisoned community for pure entertainment. like trolling is now a regular form of speaking and groupthink whereas on tumblr it's not that deep. it’s educational and funny. idk that is an exhausting lifestyle to always b at odds over something trivial. tumblr will always be the OG platform I fear

#/general #/nbh #maybe its because im quite literally neurodivergent so i cant always pick up on social cues #but also its kinda insane to get mad over banter

[fandomsoda]

Everyone

Please stop treating the apparent inability to do something for yourself like it’s a moral failing

Please stop treating not being ok with certain foods like it’s disrespectful

Please stop misconstruing a lack of visible reaction as ignoring/disrespect

Please stop making fun of/villainizing older people who don’t know how to/can’t do certain life skills on their own

Please stop ignoring the possibility of disability just because it isn’t visible

Please stop being implicitly and casually ableist jesus fucking christ

#text post #soda rambles #neurodivergence posting #/nbh #ableism #internalized ableism #just because someone seems like a “man child” or whatever doesn’t mean they aren’t a person they could easily be disabled for all you know #Ffs stop this shit

[local-yurei]

MY hypersexuality isn't about YOU.

don't oversexualise it.

don't tell me how gross you think it is.

don't say anything about it, *it isn't about or for you*.

#━⭐ ₊˚ˑ༄ؘ rambles #tw: slight vent #hypersexual #actually hypersexual #/nbh

[galaxicalswriting]

How does it make you feel, that you are regarded as a pestilence upon this land? Your name is spoken with detestation and to compare someone to you is an insult. This isn’t the legacy you wanted, is it? But it’s the legacy you’ve earned.

#/nbh #vent-adjacent #vibeposting #writeblr #writers on tumblr #writing #my writing #writblr #writerblr #writing prompt #dialogue prompt #dialogue inspo #dialogue inspiration

[hauntedestablishments]

SIGH this person is so annoying

#/nbh #⛏️.txt

[macaronichewtoyz]

so sad when an atist i like has an unbearable attitude like. man. your art is so awesome but i do not want to have u stinking up my dash with ur negativity !!!!!!

#/nbh #its not even like i dont think artists should be allowed to complain or vent or whatever but when its literally constant. #plssssss #what if we experienced joy for 5 seconds #clemposting

[iamunabletothinkofablogname]

i dont even know my gender anymore bro

#i dont think im genderfluid #like yes my pronouns change 24/7 #but #i dont fucking know #i just want to be a toaster #fuck you #/nbh

[thevirgodoll]

Sometimes I think about how society genuinely rewards hyper-independent behavior. It’s more acceptable to be avoidant and detach than it is to go inward. Wanting connection during a tough time gets met with a lack of perspective. It breaks my heart to see so many people lose their support systems.

And, honestly, I’d say that hyper-independent response has risen due to the pandemic. We were all detached from each other and missed out on intimacy. As a response, there is a longing for connection but a gap in knowledge as to how frequent and how proximal that connection should be.

There’s also a loss of empathy because everyone’s for themselves and have had to be for so long. This is why people are afraid to share their struggles with their close friends in fear of “dumping”. I hate how no one knows the difference between dumping and venting due to these armchair psychologists on TikTok, Twitter, etc. And, yes, there’s a possibility that you can cross the line but avoidant behavior will only isolate you even more and rob people in your life of the opportunity to give you love.

Friends are supposed to be there, and while all of our friends may show up differently, this obsession with extreme avoidance (often disguised as self preservation) is why people have so much trouble keeping their friends in their 20s. Boundaries are always important to discuss because they are the foundation of so many relationships.

At the same time, the key is recognizing these needs while allowing friends to support you in a time of need. The key is taking the time to schedule ~friend dates~ and talks. The key is trusting yourself to trust others, and working on whatever is in the way of that. This is how you nurture closeness…at this age it takes dedication and courage because education won’t always be a commonality to do the work for us. Eventually, we will have to learn proper communication skills and that is only possible if everyone looks in the mirror to address emotional immaturity.

We have to show our friends we love them, we need them just as much as a romantic dynamic. It’s unwise to ignore that humans have always had some form of platonic connection… to convince yourself that that is not necessary is a first class flight to self sabotage.

What I’m trying to say is attachment and detachment must coexist in a balance. An extreme of one or the other is a trauma response. Avoidance truly is suppression disguised as safety in a room full of traps.

#thoughts #idk I’m just rambling #/nbh #/gen /srs

[nagichi-boop]

Me: Ugh, why hasn’t X texted me recently? Do they hate me that much? Do they not care?

Also me: doesn’t text people because of anxiety and also because I forget they exist

#/nbh #object permanence am I right lads #no idea what to tag btw #autism #adhd #ocd #bpd #eupd #borderline personality disorder #emotionally unstable personality disorder #cluster b #personality disorders #neurodivergent #nagichi talks

[parachutingkitten]

Can I just pause for a moment to comment on the insanity of "Oh, but ninjago is a fictional location, so like, it doesn't matter if the representation is accurate, cuz it's not real!"

#like yes #ninjago is fictional #but it's pulling from real life cultures in order to create its world #and so when it does that #it should at least try to be respectful of the pieces it's using #and probably shouldn't lean on sterotypes #right? #is this that hard to grasp? #vent #/nbh #at least i don't think #ninjago

[heartapnea]

sometimes logging off is good. it’s healthy, even. I am prescribing some of you with a dose of ‘logging off’

#/nbh

[barbatoskisser]

I forgot just how good sagau is as a xoncept despite the fact ive been a fan of it since willow brfore willow / wisteria changed accounts

I might go bacj and read the new fics. Ive mostly seen little to none, fot a while

Probably because ive mostly been inyeracting with moots and the oldies dont write for it anymore. Or if they do, theyre not as active

#/nbh #just an observation #ive noticed theres a lot more new ideas spreading around and its seems so novel again

[queermetalgremlin]

I genuinely think sysmeds want endos dead.

So, sysmeds can outwardly say they want endos to suck on barbed wire (AKA self-harming) and wish us death, huh? What it if was the opposite? What if endos told sysmeds to end it all, like they want US to die? The Internet would implode on itself. You know, it'd be so easy to give it all up and deny ourselves, but it'd also be extremely painful and stressing to deny our plurality. So, if an endo system wanted to stop getting harassed by sysmeds, they'd either have to deny their system, which is extremely stressful and pointless, or KILL THEMSELVES. THEY WANT US FUCKING DEAD. So, tell us again how we're the ableist ones? How we should do nothing but deny the way we're made to appease some fuckall who opened the DSM once in their life? I have some really bad tendencies of seriously wishing death upon people i don't like, and i've been trying to curb this habit out, but when i see sysmeds getting praised and followed for the same thing i got shunned for, i get so fucking mad i genuinely want to kill everyone involved (including myself).

#sysmeds dni #sysmeds will get fucking obliterated #let endos live #let US live #for fuck's sake #pro endo #endo safe #fuck sysmeds #/srs #/up #/nbh #sysmeds do not fucking touch this post i'm gonna bite and cry and scream