#Mental well-being practices

[dipnots]

The Power of Positive Thinking: How to Transform Your Life

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[uncanny-tranny]

The most infuriating form of sanism is this idea that mentally ill people/people with mental disorders are just too stupid or too unenlightened to know how to be a proper, well-adjusted person

So many therapists have ignored signs of my unwellness simply because they assumed I was just... being stupid, and I just needed educating about why I'm acting disordered (apparently, mental disorders stop disordering you once you are condescendingly told why you're just disordered and dumb, who knew (sarcasm)).

Like, I could tell them that I knew my behaviour wasn't "rational," wasn't "reasonable" to do or believe and I'd still be treated like I was so dumb I needed hand-holding and scolding about why I'm acting disordered.

I truly wish that people would be able to take the idea of guidance and stop twisting it into "I am superior and enlightened and the people I am trying to help are stupid and wrong and beneath me!"

#mental health #mental health advocacy #ableism #ableism tw #sanism #sanism tw #yes therapist i was aware that using 1/3 of a bottle of detergent for a medium-sized load of laundry isn't rational... #...and that it could wreck my clothes and my washer (which is why i brought it up in the first place. because i knew it wasn't right)... #...like that's an example and it's SO infuriating just how high of a horse some professionals (and even laypeople) put themselves on... #...like when you stop viewing patients as PEOPLE who need guidance and start viewing them as essentially helpless idiots you have a problem #and that problem should either be addressed or you should leave the practice utterly if you're a licensed professional #call me crazy but i don't think this attitude is conducive to the PATIENT'S well-being #the PATIENT is the person who matters. the PATIENT is the most important part of this ENTIRE interaction #the instance i was thinking about in this tag rant fucking *destroyed* my trust in that therapist #because it just told me that i wasn't being seen as a *person* but as an *issue* #and regardless of if that was their intention i still don't think it was appropriate #you can have the *best* intentions and still be ignorant and say/do ignorant things. even with the best intentions #having 'good intentions' does not absolve you of harm or absolve you of the capability TO harm #another reason i Do Not Like CBTherapy

[raveartts]

turt

#raveartts #wings of fire #wof #turtle wof #dragon art #kinda art blocked lately but at least dragons are easy enough to draw #i'd love to draw some warrior cats stuff too but like...cats hard #oh well at least i'm drawing SOMETHING #i promised myself i'd do proper art fundamentals practice this year #but so far it's been absolutely pathetic #i'm barely even drawing in the past month #though i shouldn't be hard on myself about it i suppose #i've been stressed and busy and mentally unwell and dying #and i don't HAVE to draw....i just feel obligated to because it's all i'm good at and don't have other reliable hobbies i enjoy #perhaps once school is finished i can draw more #though by then i might be having to move out and work full time and i think i'll just die when that happens #so i'll just never get better at art i guess and i'll just pretend i'm totallyyyyy okay with being subpar forever and ever #lack of perfection DEFINITELY doesn't bother me :))))) not one bit #anyways i have to go to work soon.... #at least my chores are done. perhaps i'll promise myself i'll do some gestures tonight since i'm not busy

[llumimoon]

The Talk (page 4)

Doodler AU post || start || previous || next ||

Sparrow’s turn to go “he just like me fr” with the Doodler. All the Oaks r Doodler kinnies 😤

This comic takes place shortly after the Doodler’s homunculus body was made. Lark and Sparrow try to figure out how they feel about the situation.

Dialogue under the cut!

Sparrow: Lark, what did they say?

Lark: …

Lark: It wants to try having a normal human childhood.

Sparrow: oh.

Lark: It’s not going to work. The world doesn’t work that way.

Sparrow: …Well why not?

#dndads #dungons and daddies #dungeons and daddies season 2 #dndads s2 #sparrow oak #lark oak #the doodler #doodle dot au #cal draws #thetalkcomic #I’m putting this out there before the new episode drops 😭 #i hope my characterization works lmao idk if I’ve been getting across what I want with lark and sparrow #my thought process is that lark seems to be very focused on like… self punishing #well both the twins are in s2 I think but the way Lark goes about it is very physical while Sparrow is mental #Lark dedicates practically his whole life to killing the doodler as both a form of mercy and attonent #he sees a lot of himself in the Doodler and for Lark there’s no escaping that self hatred from you past actions #and so he doesn’t think it’s possible to start fresh and anew because he can’t comprehend forgiving yourself #or like forgiveness in general I think #But the Doodler is changed here. they’re not the same being Lark saw into the mind of all those years ago #and Lark is like. now being confronted with the idea that someone who’s like him can try to forgive themselves and seek happiness anyways #while Sparrow doesn’t have the same insight into what the Doodler is or what it’s like as Lark and Normal do #so he has these conflicting stories from two very important people in his life and he’s just not sure what to make of it #but dad brain is dad brain and right now Dot looks A LOT like Hero and Normal when they were younger #so logically he knows he should be wary but like it’s hard to stay fearful mad and upset at someone who looks like ur 8 ur old kid #so he’s been playing mediator while he tries to figure the situation out #but the additional info that Dot also has a want for normalcy like he does tips the scales a little bit I think #if that makes any sense lol

[stellerssong]

ok sorry the OTHER thing about lucienne is like. as previously stated she is dream's handpicked emissary from the waking world to the dreaming she's the diplomat in chief she's the translator she's the bridge. because the dreaming is, in a very real way, dream's own psyche, this is tantamount to giving lucienne a tremendous degree of access to his interiority and by transitive property also tantamount to entering into a deeply emotionally intimate relationship with her (unimportant for the purposes of this post whether that relationship is platonic or romantic).

now, in general, looking at the pattern of dream's close emotional relationships—dream doesn't share himself with people as a rule (beyond the access that all things that live have to the dreaming; but i'm talking about his self here, the one he doesn't like to acknowledge he even has), but when he does share with people, it's with people who have some shadow on the soul, so to speak. just looking at attested relationships in show canon, his deepest emotional connection seems to be with death, who embodies the duality of light and dark even better than he does himself. calliope is the muse of epic poetry—heroism and tragedy—and also bears the sort of divine pride that led her to cut dream off for hundreds or thousands of years when he wronged her. the less said about that other guy, the better, but he's no sunshine-rainbows-unicorns type—he's a soldier of fortune, a bandit and a killer, a man who profits from the sale of human life. even best bird matthew, in comix canon, had a sordid past that will maybe be partially retconned for the show but has still been gestured at.

dream likes the complicated ones. he's drawn to them. they speak to something in him that he won't acknowledge in himself (he has to be Whole, fully integrated, without reservation, because he is the king and he is the dreaming and if the dreaming ain't whole then the universe is in trouble—but he feels that ache nonetheless).

all that is to say: when people try to portray lucienne as dream's Designated Well-Adjusted Neurotypical Friend, i begin to harm and maim.

#chatter #as usual there is a larger pattern of behavior around this post that has been making me crazy for some time #it's the ''holder of the braincell'' trope but it's also just like the flattening of female characters of color in every possible dimension #so many people are terrified. TERRIFIED. to imagine a woman of color's pain #because the demands of shallow progressivism are such that they require you to acknowledge that A Black Woman Has Suffered More #Than Anyone Else Ever In The History Of The World Ever; Because Of Racism #but the demands of wider fandom are such that they require you to buy into the concept that A White Man's Suffering #Is The Only Suffering Worthy Of Care Attention Or Interest. #can't handle the dichotomy so instead they create the imago of a Black woman who has never suffered anything ever #she cannot be mentally ill; she cannot be disabled; if she is queer then it is in a way that is wholly self-contained and complete #and not ambiguous or in flux in any way; and most important of ALL she can never have experienced racism. #because racism As We Know is the worst form of suffering. so if she'd suffered racism then that would make her more worthy of #compassion than White Guy No. 37. which must not be #the very idea that lucienne is simply at peace with herself and the dreaming with no further complication.......like! #WOMEN OF COLOR ARE NEVER AFFORDED THAT KIND OF CERTAINTY. ARE YOU STUPID. #and by the way being reserved/calm/unassuming/practical are NOT absolute indicators of mental wellness. #y'all can see this when it's a white guy what is your fucking DAMAGE when it comes to women of color. #OPEN YOUR EYES. USE YOUR POWERS OF DEDUCTIVE REASONING. DREAM DIDN'T CHOOSE HER TO BE HIS THERAPIST. #DREAM CHOSE HER BECAUSE; PRESUMABLY; SHE ACHES. SHE CONTRADICTS. SHE GRAPPLES WITH THE SHADOW ON THE MIND. #SOMETHING IN HIM SEES A KINDRED SOUL IN HER. WAKE UP FOR THE LOVE OF GOD.

[fullmetalbee]

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#pwhl #laura's french 🥹🥹🥹 so many comments were complimenting her french too! she's so good and her accent is so cute #pwhl montreal #catherine daoust is such a mood lol practical queen #ann renee desbiens #ann-renée desbiens #laura stacey #marie-philip poulin #marie philip poulin #anne-sophie bettez #anne sophie bettez #gabrielle david #catherine daoust #i just need to tag the proper spelling names for my own mental well being even if those tags aren't used lol

[unproduciblesmackdown]

laptop trackpad drawing ft. winston quantkid2 billions of course ☔

#winston billions #corned beef #sure i could take 5 min to restart my laptop so my tablet regains non lagged jagged tracking & pressure sensitivity #or since i only had vague ideas that don't need to be v polished in the 1st place. use the trackpad & preclude much detail/honing anyways #a real kind of Anything Goes & [?] & winging it time for what is thought of & manifested of course. as it's always been lol but still #i like he little face here... #fun as well i can often Think in my like mental image more muted kind of Atmospheric deal #but what i manifest to draw always shakes out being brighter & more colorful & [primary colors] or [bi] or [bright monochrome palette] etc #which like ofc gotta shoutout ''part of that is i'm not Practiced at actually executing such mental imaged coloring/lighting'' for sure #but also shoutout to part of it being like. well it seems fitting lol

[hexora]

Mastering the Art of Manifesting Beauty: A Professional Guide PT. 1

In the pursuit of personal transformation and empowerment, manifesting beauty has emerged as a powerful practice that transcends the superficial. Beyond mere aesthetics, true beauty radiates from within, reflecting a harmonious blend of physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. This professional guide is designed to provide you with a comprehensive approach to manifesting beauty, integrating time-tested principles with contemporary insights.

Section 1: Cultivating Inner Radiance

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Begin your beauty manifestation journey by incorporating mindfulness practices into your daily routine. Engage in activities that anchor you to the present moment, such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or mindful walking. Cultivating awareness of your thoughts and feelings establishes a solid foundation for a positive self-image.

Develop a repertoire of affirmations that reinforce a healthy self-image. Craft statements that celebrate your unique qualities, focusing on self-love and acceptance. Repeat these affirmations regularly to reprogram your subconscious mind and foster a mindset that radiates confidence and positivity.

Building emotional resilience is key to maintaining inner radiance. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and develop coping mechanisms to navigate stress and adversity. Emotional well-being significantly impacts your overall appearance, contributing to a vibrant and luminous presence.

Allowing your authentic self to shine through is a transformative aspect of cultivating inner radiance. Explore creative outlets, express your passions, and embrace your individuality. Authenticity not only enhances your inner beauty but also radiates a magnetic charm that draws others toward your genuine essence.

Cultivate a gratitude practice to shift your focus toward the positive aspects of your life. Acknowledging and appreciating the beauty in your surroundings, relationships, and personal achievements fosters a sense of fulfillment and contentment. This gratitude radiates from within, contributing to an outward glow.

Prioritize your overall well-being by adopting a holistic approach to health. Attend to your physical, mental, and emotional needs through balanced nutrition, regular exercise, and sufficient rest. A harmonious balance in these areas not only supports your inner radiance but also enhances your overall vitality and beauty.

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[enypneon]

just a reminder that murtagh compares the way he should approach a child to the way he'd approach horses.

... as an alternative to dragon rider, he considers being a mercenary and/or surgeon for paid employment (maybe this can be used for crossovers where dragon riders won't make much sense).

... never had someone teach him the ways of magic (properly) sure galbatorix showed him this and that but ha ☝️ you'd be a fool to believe he taught him more than was the absolute and bare minimum. sometimes he still needs to get creative for 'basic' use of magic.

#i don't particularly like when murtagh is compared to eragon or any proper magic wielder bc you CAN'T you can't compare them #it doesn't make sense and they weren't trained under the same conditions #of course murtagh is weaker by default he didn't have sane experienced riders at his disposal who were mentoring him with good intentions #and in profound detail - no - he got the abusive ones with the combined energy of mad dragon souls ! #on top of that ... perhaps he had like what? half a year max? to practice etc. to go from 0 to 100 #and only had limited and restricted access to all things concerning magic while 'occasionally' being mentally and physically tortured #the energy the dragon souls provided was too much for him and yet he was forced to use it #even though the soreness would leave him paralysed sometimes?? imagine that feeling #while being a captive of the man who makes your life a living hell? please.....🖐️🖐️🖐️ #yes he's usually physically weak(er) as well BECAUSE GUESS WHAT?? points to the above #doesn't mean he can't ever be stronger ─ in the future ─ with time ─ and experience ─ he is a mental fortress though #and you can't change my mind but that's another essay #stories:murtagh. #° › OOC ‹ 𝐑𝐄𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐋𝐈𝐕𝐄 * out of character ╲ MUN .

[jasontoddenthusiastt]

Maybe it’s just me, but family ties and status don’t really mean jack when the way you interact with your family members/loved ones is abusive (and by default, utterly unacceptable).

#kelseethe #it seems like you’re just picking on semantics and dodging the point people are trying to make #nobody but dc denies that Jason was officially adopted by Bruce and that he’s considered Bruce’s son #(both legally and because of the relationship they had/have) #but if the last time a parent acted like a loving parent was literally over a decade ago #and ever since he’s just been meddling and disruptive and overall leaving pain and chaos in your life for years now #(which Jason fans have to witness in practically all his comics because Bruce just has to make an appearance at least once every time) #then is it really a reach for people to point out that them trying to constantly force these characters together #(at the expense of Jason’s mental well-being and his values. every single time. it’s never Bruce compromising.) #is it really a reach for people to say this feels forced and that we don’t want to see this family dynamic #because 1. we don’t constantly wanna see our fav get invalidated and #2. have his stories be limited because of his ties to a family whose love and acceptance is at best conditional #because they only ever use him being part of this ‘family’ as an excuse to police his morals and actions #while he never actually recieves the love and respect that comes with being a son and a brother

[theramblingvoid]

oc ask game: i cant do emojis but shiny rock for both

-mleem

🪨 Someone gifts your OC a shiny rock. What do they do with it?

Hallowrove: It's an odd gift, but they've recieved weirder from Rubbery friends and zailors with superstitious good-luck charms. If it seems meaningful to you in the giving, they'll keep it and cherish it, probably on a shelf in their upstairs office next to a few other gifts and assorted oddities and souvenirs from hunts. They don't tend to be sentimental about objects or decorations in general, but a good simple gift goes a long way.

Null: They will hoard it. And then realize that you are now a known source of shiny rocks, and immediately start figuring out how they might get more from you, all that you have, all that you might possibly be able to get. Your shiny rocks will line their mantel. You will know no peace. Every night they will pick them up one by one just to hold them, and feel their weight, and know that that weight is in the accumulation of what in the world is theirs. They might also swallow one eventually. You know how it is.

#voidrambles #Hallowrove tag #Null tag #i wasn't expecting Hallowrove to be a gifts person necessarily but it's really not unexpected given the fact that i very much am one #i know i like gifts a lot in part because it's a mark a friend leaves on my life，a proof that they were there that I can look back on later #I don't think Hallowrove shares that same mentality #i think they more just keep good track of gifts because of the amount of care and warmth they can feel through them from friends #and wanting to make them feel warm too by how much they are appreciated #interestingly enough Hallowrove isn't too much of a gift giver themself though #they prefer to show affection through lots of time spent with people and doing practical things to benefit them #and gifting things like food that have a use and can be consumed #they're definitely the friend that helps you move，now that i think about it #as for the Null answer. well. #it's Null #Good Luck hdhfhfhs #enjoy being extorted for shiny rocks

[wisterianwoman]

How to Regulate Your Nervous System for a Balanced Life

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[randomshenaniganery]

More Rollo Twitter bullshit I can’t wait for that site to bomb

I can’t understand how people will jump to attack people who talk about how they don’t like the idea of Frollo being adapted into Rollo. 

Like I’m Aroace I do not understand or experience romance or sexual attraction. I do experience Aesthetic attraction like to unprecedented levels but that will not erode my brain from understanding that just because someone is pretty that means I must exonerate them from all potential sins and get butt hurt every time someone says oh I don’t like them.

I love Leona so much but I also ABSOLUTELY understand that this guy is a bitch bastard asshole and that some people don’t like him but that doesn’t mean I’m going to harass the people who don’t like them? I’ll be like yeah he do that. 

It’s still fucking going on, there are these brain dead assholes in twitter who get so offended when someone says they don’t like Rollo because he’s connected to Frollo and the implications of that character is very uncomfortable to them. Then the brain rotting simps immediately say shit like “bro its twisted wonderland wth did u expect it’s got twisted in its name” every villain in twst has tried to kill someone” “who cares he’s pretty”

Like okay bitch good to know you lack the ability to think ‘hey maybe comparing a religious zealot who wants to commit genocide to a made up fairy, a clinically insane queen based on a dream, a talking lion, a half octopus, and someone who wanted to kill another person because they’re not supposed to be prettier than them is not fair.” 

but no

these bitches really get blinded by looks more than me, someone who puts a lot of value on how something looks ESPECIALLY when it comes to non-existent characters.

also like he dont look that good bro this really the hill u gonna die on? He’s pretty average in my books but I have a bias for long hair so take this last bit with a grain of salt lmao

#ive already discussed this #no i dont interact much in twitter because i know its bad for my mental well being #i look at them and then i yell in here #u dont need to read all this since i practically debunked why Rollo is iffy to a lot of people in a previous post #i find rollo iffy too but i also shit on him and he is under my power and i have tristan #its not so bad as initially #i think he's perfect material to bully #rollo flamm #glorious masquerade #twisted wonderland glorious masquerade #twst masquerade #twisted wonderland #twitter #is #fucking #annoying

[shamanflavio]

Unlocking the Power of Shamanistic Healing: A Journey Towards Personal Wellness

Shamanistic healing is often portrayed as a mystical encounter between a shaman and a patient, but a deeper exploration reveals a rich tapestry of dynamics that can transform the healing journey. In “Shamanism and its Discontents” by Michael F. Brown, we delve into the fascinating world of shamanism among the Aguaruna Jivaro of Peru, offering insights that resonate with those seeking healing,…

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[mejomonster]

To get real niche lol part of why I love old school lolita (you know besides literally growing up when that was The dominant lolita fashion style so its what got me into lolita)

Is that it embraces the 1 color dresses, 2 color no pattern dresses, lace, and less accessories.

For one, the no pattern and lace containing dresses nowadays are looked at as cheaper or something "not actually lolita" when like... in reality it was always lolita if it was a real lolita fashion brand, it's just the cheap cosplay knockoffs that were too short and actually anime outfits were copying that style more since that's the lolita dresses the anime were making skimpier and copying. And that's still mainly what cosplay cheap fake lolita like dresses look like, because anime took looks from lolita At That Time period and then it continued on as it's own beast (also anime is more likely to animate simple dresses than intense pattern dresses I'm guessing). The reality is like... lace is lolita if it's on a lolita brand dress. Period. People moved away from it, as well as avoiding black/white dresses, because as I mentioned anime and cosplay made rip off cheap fake lolita rhats too short and wrong style and bad quality and not brand (and not lolita on qualities they lack). But you CAN actually wear a real regular lolita brand good quality dress that is black and white with frills... and I think they're fucking cute.

2 a lot of older pictures online exist of old school lolita. I love how many look "cringe" in their own way the same way old emo pictures do. Some of the styles of old lolita dresses like the intense long poofy sleeves or lace trims, are generally Not popular in current lolita fashion trends. But hey, even though they're "cringy" to modern popular opinion. They're still real lolita style - the old style. So wear em if you like them!

3 the lack of Intense Accessory Requirement. There's lots of old Fruit magazine photos of people in lolita, with just a headband/hairclip and socks/tights as their accessories. I fell in and out of wearing lolita, and when I came back into it in the last couple years it's very common now to see the expectation a lolita outfit should include: lolita dress or blouse/skirt and petticoat and dress shoes (the base outfit), legwear (like before), headpiece (like before). And ALSO necklace, arm wear (bracelets or wrist cuffs), purse (I imagine hopefully optional as always since ppl use different bags), hair style done up (again i hope optional and it's just Instagram is High Glam so people tend to wear wigs or intensely style hair more for Instagram photo shoots). The big change for me though is the seemingly much higher expectation on jewelry accessories and Fancy Legwear and mandatory arm wear and some people thinking the outfit is incomplete without them. The lolita style to my knowledge started as base outfit (dress or blouse and skirt, petticoat, all in appropriate lolita shape and length) with some leg wear usually (though occasionally ppl just wear shoes) and some hairpiece (usually a bow or headband but I've seen just a hairclip or barrettes before).

I am assuming the rise in more expectations of accessories comes from: over the top styles currently being what's most popular (and yes like Decora fashion, OTT styling generally expects much more accesorizing), sweet style being currently what's most popular (heavy on patterns so in personal opinion I assume that means one may need to accessorize more or be more dramatic with say Patterned tights to get attention on elements of the outfit outside of the main piece).

On the other hand I've seen more leniency on jumper dresses without undershirts (especially chinese lolita brand dresses some of which are designed specifically to just be worn as straps without undershirts), which I think is nice because in old school lolita dresses were sometimes worn this way. I'd also like to hope in reality lolita fashion worn in person is for the peoples personal happiness and preference, versus online like Instagram where yeah people tend to dress up the Most as public eye is on them.

I just think of Kamikaze Girls lol and how I wear as few accessories as her. Now I get mine is out of laziness, and I hate the feel of so many things on my body. But I grew up wanting THAT look, not the OTT look.

And then I guess semi related? If you're into old school lolita styles (and in particular gothic lolita), I really can't recommend Atelier Pierrot enough. First of all, they have a plus size line they carry that is AMAZING. It's genuinely plus size, I've bought 3 dresses and 1 skirt from this line and love them. The plus size have open free waists and then use a tie around the waist so you can tie it as tight or loosely as your waist needs, and the overall dress shape retains the cute lolita look. The free waist means if like me you jump 20 lbs back and forth, the dresses are guaranteed to fit ans look nice even when weight changes. Also the waist can be loosened easily when bloated or in pain while still looking form fitting (which is great for my ibs lol and makes them the MOST comfortable lolita dresses I have), they're very thin lightweight good quality cotton so they can be worn in the heat or colder without feeling like you're suffocating. Buy based on the free waist size measurements when picking items. Atelier Pierrot also carries Marble which keeps a lot of classic solid color with frills kind of looks, has some plus size (but really CHECK MEASUREMENTS because marble runs very tight... I tend to buy bigger sizes Than I think I'll need). Atelier Pierrot also has an English language option on site, and international shipping options. It's my favorite lolita brand. I also really like the gothic lolita look most, and Atelier Pierrot and Marble are great for that.

Otherwise yeah I'm basic, I get bodyline stuff, because it's sturdy and true to size (though sometimes youll want to buy a size up) and has plus size items that will fit me. sometimes.

#rant #clothes #egl #feel free to ignore me cause for practicalitys sake #my fashion mentality for myself is ultimately punk grunge #in the fact i think ppl should do whatever they want and dress loud if they like and rules are stupid #(and rules are of course opposite of being able to consistently actually fit within any fashion label) #and then i think cheap things worn until theyre broken are fine and good #(which like.. well lolita is an Expensive Brand fashion so obviously grunge and the worn down to last use minimal effort #of grunge is not really compatible with pure lolita styling) #hence i guess what id wear is mostly lolita inspired but on a regular day absolutely not within the rule confines of real lolita outfits #since i WILL wear a lolita skirt without petticoat to work with a vintage american blouse #i will wear a plaid lolita dress with the cute shoes and tights but no headpiece (since i hate hair accessories) #when im just going out and not intending to go to a specifially lolita fashion meetup #ill conform to rules for a lolita meetup since like. its about the fashion there and if a strnager sees me #id like to represent that style. #but on an everyday basis i like pretty clothes in lolita style and will pair them with whatever i want which #makes the outfits no longer lolita

[galariangengar]

💭

#I’m hella nervous about starting my job and being on the floor/register at Macy’s tomorrow #I only shadowed someone and practiced with the register for like an hour yesterday #and for some reason my associate ID and pin wouldn’t work on the register either even though I know I entered them correctly #HHHH and I still have a bunch of other shit I need to do outside of this new job but also I need the money!!! #and I hate that I have to work late into the evening/night on Fridays and weekends #I’m still so fucking stressed and depressed and not doing too well mentally 🙃 #wish me luck on everything and send me good vibes please… #jazz uses curse! 💜