#Stay in your own fucking lane

[crazycatsiren]

"It's none of your fucking business" plays a lot into my advocacies, actually.

#mother witch ramblings #pro choice #bodily autonomy #intersectional feminism #witchblr #pride month #queerness #live and let live #stay in your own fucking lane #mind your own fucking business

[controlaltdelete-my-existence]

sometimes you think tumblr fandom is bad and then you open twitter

#tumblr #Twitter #astronomically stupid takes skyrocket a surprise amount #sometimes I’m desperate for new stuff (even while working on my own fan projects) and then I open twitter and immediately wished I hadn’t #then I see something moderately funny and stay on a little longer before being struck over the head by opinions so bad I genuinely wish #I hadn’t read them #anyone who ever bravely said 90% of modern fandom is stupid as fuck you are so right keep preaching #‘being in fandom’ can genuinely be such a better experience when you stay in your lane and just ignore the stupid shit online #^tags I need to remember #unrelated

[daydreamerwonderkid]

Not to single out any fandom in particular. But it'd be very, very nice if some of y'all would actually learn how to properly tag your crossover posts.

I'm nearly at the end of my rope here, man.

#dreamer talks #personal #batman #batman fandom #i am so fucking tired #i do everything i can #to filter shit out #and stay in my own fucking lane #but some of y'all just seem determined #not to learn #pls pls pls tag your shit

[asteria-argo]

New Daily Reminder: Don't tag my content as royjamie, I'm a gen writer and I make that as clear as possible

#I have never written them as a ship #I have no plans to write them as a ship #if you see a snippet of mine that you think is for a ship fic ITS NOT #if I haven’t tagged it as one then it isn’t a fucking ship post #stay in your own fucking lane!

[theladycarpathia]

#that word doesn't mean what you think it means #anti steddie #sweet baby jesus #ships don't have to be canon for you to enjoy them! #most of my ships are dead! #and your white bread boring ship does NOT COUNT #stay out of the harringrove tag #stay out of the hellcheer tag #in your own fucking lane #so I do not have to see your ridiculous takes #THEY'RE IN MY GODDAMN PINTEREST FEED NOW #I will not accept this invasion #oh yeah #I'm gonna get some hate for this

[skunkg1rll]

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#i dont like that she's blocked me twice but still stalks my blog and goes thru my reblogs and likes #just leave me alone #plus i know this is so so so childish but she keeps stealing my moots #like im talking to them!!!! im moots w them!!!!!! #then she just swoops in and now they're moots #it annoys me bc 1) i have to see hur stupid url constantly and be reminded of it. FUCK OFF!!!! #2) shes prettier thinner nd better than me and i hate myself and it makes me feel bad abt myself #ofc my moots like her more than me im always a loser no one likes #so yuhhhh im so annoyed and i cant block her bc she's blocked me yk?!?!? leave me aloooooone stay in your own lane !!!!! ffs

[strohller27]

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#i’ve been working through some stuff in my head #and I’ve realised that so much of my life I’ve occupied the spaces in-between #like I acheived certain things in my life because I was literally the only one who stepped up #but it was also like. I wasn’t the first choice for something I was always just what was available #or I tried to carve out something for myself and it ended up either being taken away from me or getting ruined somehow #like when I was in the pipe band I became drum major because I was literally the only drummer (not that anyone really liked me… #i was just. the only choice there was until someone else came along). #or when I moved up the ladder at the tutoring service it was during Covid and I had to work so much harder because #we just didn’t have a full team. #or when I had to do my undergraduate thesis by myself because also covid #and now having to do my research project basically 100% by myself because my advisor ‘‘can’t’’ advise me #(​except he can apparently write me some exam questions next semester) #idk I just feel like the extra frozen water on the side of the ice cube tray of life #and now I’m in Canada and I’m trying to make a place for myself #I want this to work out. I want to be able to solidify the life that I want without having to live on the fucking edge #I’m tired of staying in my ‘lane’ when my ‘lane’ has always been ‘standing on the side to let others pass’ #Listen up queers I am allowed to take up space and I am occupying this part of the lane #if you don’t like it then you can make your own fucking lane #I’m just trying to make a life in this ridiculous precarious world I don’t want to have to play it safe anymore #I want to get into a PhD programme and study what I want to study #I want to meet someone I can trust with myself when I’m fragile and someone who trusts me with themself when they’re fragile #I want to live in a house I don’t have to worry about losing and make enough money to live comfortably #I want to stop merely surviving and start *living* #and I’m going to do everything in my power to achieve that

[5eraphim]

so about that multi fic...

#this is so fucking stupid #im sorry but just a lil funny to think about #yes medic you go babygirl queen of staying in your own lane💅😌✨

[crazycatsiren]

Also, don't like the fact that I'm Catholic? Then block me. You don't want religions pushed onto you? You don't get to take religions away from people either. It goes both ways.

#antitheism bullshit #antitheists dni #religious ramblings #religions #religious blogs #religious bloggers #stay in your own fucking lane #white people on social media

[clockworkspider]

If anyone is involved in the harrassment campaign against Ciel/fortun*banquet (censoring so they don't get negativity when they search their name) you are dead to me. If anyone has deliberately ripped their tl for quotebot you are dead to me. I don't wanna know who you are, just block me, or don't, I don't care. I just don't want anything to do with you.

#i don't care if you're an anit or proshipper just stay in your own fucking lane #discourse #negativity #vent

[judas-had-a-crown]

It is absolutely stunning to me - in a fandom small as it is here on tumblr - how many people I need to block in order to keep the hate outside my window and let me scroll through posts in peace. Truly, I can't remember the last time people were so adamant on shitting on each other because of fictional (!) ships. Christ. I need a coffee.

#thoughts #look I've been on this website long enough to adopt the saying Live and Let Live #stay in your own lane and simply ignore those you don't understand or even use the block button for fuck's sake there's a reason it exists #no one owes you shit and if you go out of your way to harrass and threaten someone because of a PAIRING #you are so desperately low in character #no I will not name the fandom those who know me just know

[separatist-apologist]

They are most likely in their 20s, and they act like children. Do they not realize that making an anti Tamlin week will make the fandom even worse? That fights will break out?? They keep on complaining about Tamlin's stans for being his stans, but why would they care so much about people stanning him? Why can't they just block and move on? I just know that this will not end well. Idk who they're trying to convience here, but all they do is make people angry. Do they really have nothing else to do? Bills to pay?

It's just so annoying. Worse characters are being loved by so many (The Darkling), people love toxic characters and ship toxic ships all the time and they can't change sh*t. They shouldn't be all smug anyway, given that their favorite characters and ship are not so good either.

The only thing I want to say to this, because I feel like I already said everything I needed to, is that people in this fandom are too comfortable starting shit they can't finish. It's all fun and games until it's anti-rhysand week. And then those same people are mad, especially when it gets done during Feysand month.

Like what the fuck did you expect? Faux outrage for the sake of it, bullying real people on behalf of fictional characters, guess it's another week in the ACOTAR fandom. Too many people are having too much fun just being intensely negative instead of just gleefully indulging in what they like. Whatever.

Do you. What do I care? You know, until it's anti-Lucien week and then I have to be involved because other people thought it would be funny to create an anti-week and I, someone minding my own business, now can't enjoy the tags because this is just the precedent deeply immature, bored individuals decided to set.

And it WILL be that sort of shit. But it will be Rhysand first. And I know it will be utter outrage then, and I'm just already tired that once again, this fandom has more fun hating shit than enjoying it.

#anyway #i dont want anymore asks on the subject #i will be participating in the feysand month #but none of the drama #and we all know my opinion about staying in your own fucking lane #slash creating content that you enjoy #i will always be doing that #you will never catch me slipping

[xtrablak674]

Your Fear Is Not My Responsibility

Watching an episode of the Quantum Leap reboot, the trans girl character said this, and I literally had chills. This not only spoke to my own gender non-conforming identity but that of also being a dark-skinned, Black, queer and fem person. Anyone's whose identities cross intersectional boundaries understands that not only do you need to carry your own fears and concerns about a world that just really isn't ready for you, but you carry the fears of those around you even if its inadvertently.

You try not to get shot because this would upset your moms. You try not to get arrested or stopped on the street because if you have a dad around, this would displease him as would his feeling a way, if people who chose your gender for voiced their concerns to him about you're not being who you should be, and how you by living your truth is bringing shame to a larger community, who isn't really serving your needs or looking out for your mental and physical well being.

The hypocrisy is we can't choose what happens to us and when it happens. What we can do is try to be our best selves and move through the world in a way that will hopefully garner us the respect for the content of our character and not the color of our skin, whom we go to bed as or whom we go to bed with. Those around us should and need to understand being who we are isn't a burden but a blessing, and we should be treated exactly that way. Appreciated and celebrated for the blessings that we are. #period

The larger discussion is about conformity, we live in a culture where those that do not conform to societal norms or the moral turpitude of the community, these people are pariahs, less than and should fall in line. This is bullshit, as a self-identified iconoclast I love nothing more than raging against tradition, even if its to spite my own interest. I am not one to be told who I am or how I should move in this world. What made everyone the expert of how I should be myself? #FuckAllThat

The takeaway here is stay in your fucking lane and stop being so damned concerned about what is in someone else's pants, or who's in their bed, or how much melanin they have soaked up. If we spent more time invested in our own lives and business this world would be a better place for it. #period

[Photo by Brown Estate]

#mind your own fucking business #intersectionality #non-binary #queer #black #transgender #trans gurl #fear #morality #homogeny #pariah #racism #transphobia #colorism #homophobia #stay in your lane