In keeping with tradition, here’s my top ten list of the best events of 2022 and the worst events of 2022, vaguely ranked in the order that they most impacted my life.
Best
To celebrate my 40th birthday, I forced myself to think about what I wanted more than anything, which turned out to be spending time alone with the person I love the most, eating good food, and looking at art. We executed that plan to perfection in Kansas City, and it put so many things into perspective – most notably, it gave me a glimpse of what I want retirement to look like. It was the best three days I can remember. (January 7-9)
After reaching a lifetime record weight in June, I incrementally dropped 15 pounds by doing nothing more than mostly giving up alcohol. It’s nice to exhibit some self-control and see results. (July-December)
My biggest work event of the year is the annual meeting, which I emcee. I wasn’t happy with my performance in 2021, so I needed to come back and do better this year. I did. And I feel like everyone did, which made for our best presentation to date. (October 13)
We remodeled our bedroom closets and added a master bathroom to our house so that all four of us don’t have to share the tiny bathroom upstairs. (Summer)
Liz and I went to San Antonio for our anniversary and found more food and art, highlights included the ramen at Kimura, and the Color Room at Hopscotch. (April 1-3)
Gus started Kindergarten without missing a beat, which filled me with an immense pride for his independence and willingness to confidently take on what the world will inevitably throw at him. (August 22)
I don’t know how to properly label this as an event, but I can’t not acknowledge that we had another unbelievable spring/summer in the front yard/on the street with fantastic neighbors, and I cannot think of a better community in which to raise our children. (March-September)
Argenta Reading Series came back with a great event after a two-and-a-half year pandemic-induced hiatus. (September 17)
Liz and I spent three days in a house in New Orleans with my friend Stanis – whom I had not seen since 2015 – and his friends to celebrate his 40th birthday. (June 2-5)
I feel like I made progress in finding the voice I want to use for writing about my relationship with food – culminating with my well-received Arkansas Times article about the top 10 meals I ate in Arkansas this year (December 26).
Worst
Zill died. In the seven years that I knew him, death always seemed like a near possibility because of the many physical hurdles he faced, but losing him is still tough. I will miss his dry wit, the rare occasions when he discussed his boyhood in Oklahoma, and the reciprocal joy he and my sons brought to each other. They will have a hole in the space where their Papou lived. As will I. (December 31)
I fainted and hit my head, which left a scar I will see on my forehead for the rest of my life, always reminding me of how unexpectedly my health can plummet. (July 17)
Magnus had a crazy two-month-long (and counting!) sleep regression, which forced Liz and I to take shifts sleeping on the floor beside his crib. (November-December)
A never-ending list of professional and personal responsibilities brought on by my own desire to achieve more has given me a constant feeling of general overwhelmedness, which drifted occasionally into depression throughout the year.
For the second year in a row, I haven’t been able to prioritize writing new things, which means I haven’t been able to process my thoughts, feelings, and emotions well.
Too personal to discuss publicly.
Despite feeling creatively fulfilled professionally, I have not felt creatively fulfilled in my personal endeavors. The lowest point being when I finished the year with back-to-back poor public readings. (November 19/December 6)
At least one person at our house was sick at any given time for a solid two months. (November-December)
Too personal to discuss publicly.
I finally got COVID, then had to drive – bleary-eyed and sneezing – in a rental car, through a blizzard from Pagosa Springs, Colorado to Little Rock. When I returned the car, I couldn’t get anyone (friends/Uber/Lyft/Yellow Cab/a random dude to whom I offered $50) to pick me up and take me home, so after a two-day drive, I sat at the airport for over an hour, desperately trying to get home. So close, yet so far away situation. (February 1-2)
Previous Best/Worst Lists: 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020, 2021.
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Genuinely I would love to see Charles leave Ferrari and go to Red Bull but at the same time I worry that him going to Red Bull would mean he won't get equal fighting status in the RB. What are your thoughts on this?
i think this is a lot of people’s hesitation over it tbh. my only remaining hesitation is the fact that charles really wanted it to be with ferrari and if he leaves it’ll be losing to that bank to some degree b/c the politics of it all managed to force him to leave his dream team… like, that’s upsetting. i almost wish to see ferrari become competent so that he can have everything he wants, be their chosen one, etc.
realistically i just don’t think they will any time soon. and right now, charles gets treated like a second driver to carlos 99% of the time, so if he’s going to get that treatment i would much rather it happen in an insanely competent team with a car that suits him (bc he and max have similar preferences) that he can excel with regardless of the team’s strategies. bc even if he doesn’t get preference, with the car he can carry it anyway.
however, i actually don’t think rbr would #2 driver him that aggressively. they like to be Unique™ and edgy. they like their youngest winners youngest drivers record breaking moldbreakers reputation. they are literally an energy drink dominating a bunch of legendary car constructors. if any team is going to decide to try out the two #1 drivers domination plan, it’s going to be rbr.
especially when 1) fia/libertymedia have been pushing for a team to do it for the entertainment, 2) it’s charles leclerc and treating ferrari’s (very beloved, very marketable) prince better than ferrari ever did is an insanely good look, 3) mercedes couldn’t really do it without bloodshed and rbr loves to outdo mercedes, and 4) rbr want to keep their star driver engaged and entertained enough to keep him from retiring to a different racing series… hand delivering his lifelong rival and new bestie in the same car so they can really fight (and knowing charles would actually challenge him) is a great strategy if you want to keep max in f1.
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One of my friends asked what some of my favorite moment in Worm are and I've narrowed it down to just a few but how am I supposed to choose between "they seem like good people" I lied, or the second lung fight with the caterpillar in the eye to win, or Taylor breaking out of the burning building Coil trapped her in, or her terrorizing people while drinking tea, or when Taylor tries to 1v1 Leviathan to save people and gets her back shattered, or when Rachel saves her afterwards, or when we learn Rachel carved the names of her dogs into the monument, or when Taylor almost kills Triumph with bees, or the Mannequin fight, or running through the streets to warn people about Shatterbird's scream, or the fridge, or cutting Noelle in half, or just how hopeless the Noelle fight seemed before that with Eidolon caught, or Eidolon and Glaistig Uaine's fight with Scion, or Phir Sé's time bomb engulfing Behemoth and just obliterating him only for Behemoth to keep going, or Chevalier's interlude where he goes out to fight Behemoth alone despite being injured, or String Theory, or the wards therapy interlude where Lily can't get over how Taylor's words are stuck in her head, or Labyrinth and Burnscar reuniting, or Legend looking at the lie detector after the meeting, or Taylor hovering over the ocean knowing she doesn't have the battery in her flight pack to get back, or Aster getting shot, or the oil rig fight when Taylor crawls back up as a monster after being cut in half, or the horror of Alec's interlude, or Bonesaw having a crisis because Contessa said like 4 words to her and oh hey that parallels with you needed worthy opponents I never noticed that, or Taylor telling Eidolon and Scion to fuck off and leave, or Scion's entire interlude, or Number Man's interlude when he thinks about what it means of powers if Jack Slash's loves how he does stuff, or Kevin Norton, or Taylor ruining the chili, or the cafeteria scene where she's outed but talks her way out, or maggots in his eyes monday, or her turning herself in, or her talk with Dinah when she realizes that there's a solid chance she becomes Coil and keeps Dinah around because it's useful, or her killing Coil, or her killing Alexandria and Tagg, or the Cauldron raid where she swings a death knife through a crowd to hit one guy, or her requesting Lung cauterize her arm, or when Piggot is kidnapped and she fucks up the Undersiders just by talking, or Taylor's attempt to become besties with the Simurgh, or the Simurgh singing a lullaby to Lisa and Taylor, or the tea party with Nilbog, Taylor, Jack, and Riley, or the moment she reunites with her team post-timeskip, or when Glenn shows her a video of her being horrifying and she only thinks about her passenger moving her in it, or when her passenger makes her choke on a cockroach to save her, or going shopping with Lisa for fun, or when she helps Rachel at the shelter, or when she goes home with Brian and meets Aisha, or when we see Dinah for the first time and it's fucked, or when Taylor has Amy fuck with her brain knowing she won't come back from it, or when Lisa finally opens up and tells Taylor about her trigger, or when Taylor goes blind, or when Clockblocker keeps asking her questions in the car ride to Echdina, or when Scapegoat takes her injuries and freaks out, or when Sundancer tears off her costume and walks through the portal after killing Noelle but the pavement is cooling around her because she'll never escape her power or what she just did, or Fortuna's interlude, or Rachel stepping into Khepri's range because she trusts her, or Lisa tearing into Taylor with words after she sees what happened, or the realization she can't read anymore, or the fight with Dragon where she thinks she killed her, or all of the fight with Scion where she's controlling thousands of people while her brain deteriorates, or "finally, everyone was working together," or the talk with Contessa at the very end? How am I supposed to choose?
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