#caedgender

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for those on the caed- romantic, sexual, or gender spectrum!

The caed- prefix refers to one’s identity (romantic, sexual, gender, or something else) which has been damaged, stripped, or cut away due to past trauma. These folks may have identified with other genders, sexualities, or romantic orientations before going through a traumatic event, but due to trauma their identities have been compromised or changed in major ways. This post is for all those who are on the caed- spectrum, regardless of how that manifests for them!

🌲 Shoutout to those whose genders, sexualities, and romantic orientations feel lost, empty, lifeless, or numb!

🌤 Shoutout to systems whose caed- identities have caused them to feel or identify as queer or become part of the queer community!

🌈 Shoutout to traumagenic systems whose trauma histories influenced both their system formation and their caed- identities!

🌲 Shoutout to individual headmates who are caedsexual, caedromantic, or caedgender even if the rest of their system isn’t!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who used to have rich, fulfilling, and intricate relationships with their gender, sexuality, or romantic orientation, but don’t anymore due to trauma!

🌈 Shoutout to systems who are caedgenic, or consider their origins a xeno origin aligned with the caed- prefix!

🌲 Shoutout to systems whose genders, sexualities, and romantic orientations are tangled up with trauma responses, negative flashbacks, and potentially harmful coping mechanisms!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who remember and miss their lives before trauma interfered and caused them to identify with a caed- label!

🌈 Shoutout to systems who are embracing their lifestyles and their labels of choice, even if their identities stem from trauma!

🌲 Shoutout to systems whose plurality was already developed when they were traumatized and ultimately adopted a caed- label!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who are questioning a caed- label for themselves or their system!

Remember that the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and romantic orientation are vast, and each individual label serves an important purpose for those who identify with them! For those who find themselves identifying with a caed- label, we truly hope that you can find peace, healing, comfort, and recovery in your future!

Know that we really are wishing you the very best. If you are taking steps to recover from your trauma, we wish you a smooth process that is as painless as it can be. If you’re trying to live with your trauma and make peace with it, we genuinely hope that you will be able to achieve this one day. Please do your best to take care of yourself and your system! And if possible, try to have a lovely day!

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#multiplicity #pluralgang #plurality #actuallyplural #system positivity #plural positivity #plural pride #system pride #caedsexual #caedromantic #caedgender

[genderstarbucks]

can you make a gender where your gender is fluid do to trauma

Caedfluid!!

Caedfluid | Caedfluidnonbinary

Caedfluidboy | Caedfluidgirl

Caedfluid - a term for when your gender is fluid after experiencing trauma, doesn't necessarily have to be genderfluid

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #caedogender #caedgender #traumagender #genderfluid #genderfluid boy #genderfluid girl #gender fluid #genderfluid pride

[losergendered]

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Lacey from Lacey's Flash Games is a caedrose, hyperrose, traumamasc, kenochoric, traumacoric, anattractional, blackcatgender, caedgender, voidthing with low empathy, autism, polyfragmented DID, ADHD, and ASD and uses sh?/lost/dark/void/static/silence/🖤/🕸️!

For anon!

#many flags #caedrose #hyperrose #traumamasc #kenochoric #traumacoric #anattractional #blackcatgender #caedgender #voidthing #mogai #mogai headcanon

[boygirldykething]

maybe i should start posting the art i made in the earlyish days of my mom radicalizing into the whole Concerned(tm) TERF Parents thing going around

[Image ID: A two-panel horizontal comic. The only colours used are black and deep blue, except for one block of white text. Everything is surrounded by a thick, black, sort of scribbly border.

Panel 1: Inside the border above the first panel, blue handwriting reads: i miss you. i miss you so much. is this how you feel when you mourn me? The panel itself contains a lone head at the center. His hair is short and he's reaching his arms up, hands almost covering his face. The only feature drawn on the face is the right eye and right eyebrow, which has an eyebrow ring through it. His few features are twisted in grief and tears are pouring from both his drawn eye and the space his other eye would be. He's looking down, maybe at his hands, maybe at the ground. The rest of the body is not drawn. As his tears fall down to the bottom of the panel, they grow much larger in size, until they're almost the size of his head.

The panel fades to black through a series of brushstrokes, then fades back to blue in the same way to start the second panel. Inside the black space between the panels, there is white handwriting that reads: i don't see an end to this guilt until it's too late.

Panel 2: The same figure from the first panel, same hair, same one-eyed face, stands in the rain, holding an umbrella. This time he has not been drawn with his one eyebrow, so it cannot be used to help determine what emotion shows on his face. He's wearing a black suit with a black tie, like someone would wear at a funeral. His posture is stiff, his shoulders straight, his arms pressed to his sides, giving him a strict rectangular silhouette. He's staring intensely at something in front of him: several flowers, varying in size, probably laid by someone, maybe covering something. Inside the border below the panel, in blue handwriting, is just a single period. end ID.]

#trans #transgender #trans art #queer art #genderqueer #lgbtq #uhmmm i donr knor #trans comic #queer comic #trans man #ftm #transmasc #transmasculine #trans guilt #d: #i so rarely make my own posts i forgor i had a tag for when i do #d:art #caedogender #caedgender #caedoqueer #caedqueer #vent art #vent comic

[warriors-pride]

Caedsexual caedromantic caedgender crowfeather

#icon #warriors icons #credit to warriorsproject #credit to cloudtail #crowfeather #aspec #arospec #acespec #caedromantic #caedoromantic #caedsexual #caedosexual #caedgender #caedogender #anon

[mogai-neuro-keysmash]

new neurogender suffixes

-engrosic: for genders related to hyperfixations and/or special interests. an umbrella term for -hypic and -spinnic. comes from 'engrossed' because both hyperfixations and spins cause someone to be really absorbed in something.

-abilean: for genders related to body identity integrity disorder (biid). not to be used for genders related to being transabled without biid. comes from 'ability' because of biid causing discomfort with being able-bodied.

-noreix: for genders related to rejection sensitive dysphoria (rsd). comes from ‘ignore’ because people with rsd often feel that others ignore their feelings or interests.

-laupin: for genders related to auditory processing disorder. comes from ‘loud’ and ‘processing’.

-bemoric: for genders related to trauma or trauma disorders (ex: ptsd, cptsd). comes from ‘bad memories’.

all genders made using these should be exclusive to people with the actual condition!

#key’s new gender #neurogender #gender suffix #neurodivergent #lgbtia #trans #biidgender #hypic #spinnic #fixigender #spingender #rsd #trauma tw #caedgender #xenogender coining #label coining #mogai coining #mogai friendly #mental illness #queer #mogai #liom

[mogai-headcanons]

Squid Ink Cookie from Cookie Run is a beyondix spaceblancomfian caelgender caedgender kenochoric duocosmic gendervoid cookie with PTSD who uses star/stars, voi/void, it/its, they/them, one/ones, ink/inks, or no pronouns!

dni link

#squid ink cookie #cookie run #beyondix #spaceblancomfian #caelgender #caedgender #kenochoric #duocosmic #gendervoid #ptsd #mogai headcanon

[neopronouns]

parfixspinian | holneurogender | sensmascfem backroomic | panbackroomic | drestalitraurre narcgender | histriogender | caedgender

‘pride is for me’ edits for several anons! requests for these are open!

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#pride is for me #my edits #my icons #mogai #pride #pride month #pride edits #parfixspinian #holneurogender #sensmascfem #backroomic #panbackroomic #drestalitraurre #narcgender #histriogender #caedgender #caedogender

[kizunasystemja]

caedflowerboy/caedoflowerboy flags!

Caedflowerboy - someone who is cut away from being flowerboy due to trauma.

#lgbtq #mogai safe #caedgender #caedogender #flowerboy #mogai identity

[r0ttingsystem]

Just saw caedsexual, caedromantic and caedgender

.... steals

#blurry.txt #osdd system #did osdd #osdd community #osdd alter #osdd 1b #actually did #actually osdd #osddid #traumagenic did #caedsexual #caedromantic #caedgender

[periodic-table-official]

Chromium/Caedgender

Caedgender- gender has been “cut away” or “damaged” by trauma.

Chromium’s inclusion in stainless steel is what makes the steel stainless. It is the world’s hardest metal, a 9 on the Mohs scale.

#official periodic table #pride 2023 #chromium #caedgender #lgbtq

[happy-and-gay-tortoise]

NEW BOOTS YALLLLLL

Here's a list of the flags (I had to look up new xenogenders and mini-labels for this 💀)

Queerfuck

Demongender

Genderpunk

Aro Flux

Polyamorous

Catgender

Asexual

Genderfuck

Pangender

Freysexual

Lovesickrose

Lesbian

Genderfluid

Ambiamorous

Non-binary

Neptunic

Trans

Transmasc

Demiromantic

Genderpierce

Queer

Genderqueer

Caedgender

[genderstarbucks]

Hey, I just want to ask something. I am a little confused about my gender..

I kind of know that I am non-binary and I was feeling this since I was 11. But my genderlessness feels different now. I have been through quite the amount of trauma and that has made me feel like everything is void like or empty or hard to express. This includes my gender.

I feel like I was already not my assigned birth gender but now it feels completely void like.

Is there any word for that kind of gender? Sorry if this is too much to ask lol

Caedogender, or caedgender, is a gender that has been "cut away" or damaged by trauma. At one point one may have experienced a certain gender at one point, but one feels that their connection to that gender has been damaged, altered, or completely cut away after a traumatic event. This is typically associated with sufferers of PTSD or other trauma and stressor related disorders. Caedogender can be combined with other relevant genders such as caedogirl, caedoboy, caedononbinary, etc. It can also be used as an identity on its own for those who feel like they have been cut away from the concept of gender in general.

Caednonbinary | Caedvoid

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #caedogender #caedgender #caednonbinary #caedvoid #gendervoid nonbinary #gendervoid

[losergendered]

ID: a set of two images. the first is of argo from 7 days with a white outline in front of a flag splice of their listed identities. the second is a blank flag splice. END ID

Argo from 7days is caedromantic, caedsexual, caedgender, and autistic, has major depressive disorder, GAD, bipolar disorder, BPD, DID, HC-DID, and C-PTSD and is non-human, monsterkin and hellhound kin!

For @the-polysulfur-collective !

#caedromantic #caedsexual #caedgender #mogai #mogai headcanon

[boygirldykething]

being caedogender is the most annoying thing to me like i was so confidently ftm for years and now i am simultaneously "my life is empty without transition" and "i could never transition my life would be ruined" & "i am ruining people's lives i have to desist" and "they could never know if i start living as a woman again it'd make them think they were right & did the right thing"

#vent #i guesssssss #d: #caedogender #caedgender #caedoqueer #caedqueer

[genderqueer-dream]

#genderfake #caedgender #cavusgender #fascigender #focigender #neurogender #ferusgender