Sick TO DEATH of fan content maternalizing Nami's relationship with the other Strawhats. I know people see her as "nagging" but she really just gets mad when she gets scared, she tells them off for putting them in dangerous situations not out of Motherly Concern And Condescension but out of fear for herself.
I mean really her arc with them is THE OPPOSITE. She finally gets to stop worrying and goof off.
I mean, even her outbursts are an expression of her lack of real worry. You never saw her doing anything like that when she was in Coco Village with the Arlong Pirates, because she was forced to put on a brave face. Not to mention cater to the egos of the powerful men around her.
Now she gets to make a fuss. She gets to be loud and silly and rowdy. She gets to be mean and un-witholding with her opinions. She acts grumpy too but she loves the goofiness of the other Strawhats, she loves laughing and joking with them.
So often I see her put into this role of the Mean Smart Woman Who's Above Them but that's such a disservice to her multifaceted character and relationships. She's having fun!!! Portray that!!!
house and wilson being dog-coded in different ways......... house the stray, who was by himself for so long he doesn't act right around others, who needs his space, needs his ball, needs help but refuses it with growling throat and bared teeth, who hurts so much he needs to hurt others back, it's all he knows, but no one cares to learn (he can be good. he won't.) ...... wilson the family dog who likes everyone but favors his One Person, who is the kindest dog you'll ever meet yet has bitten people, but he was justified, but he won't do it again, just look at his sweet eyes, he looks so sorry....... (he snaps again. every time it gets harder to believe he won't do it again this time)