#do whatever you want forever dudes.

[andiv3r]

Not to be that guy, but... hey he/they trans guys, I just wanna ask. Do you use "they" because it feels right... because it clicks as part of your identity... or because it doesn't hurt as much as she/her, so it must be okay.

And don't just evaluate this for they/them. Evaluate it for he/him as well. "I'm a guy so I have to use he/him" no the fuck you do not. Plenty of guys use they/them. Plenty of guys use she/her. Plenty use it/its/ve/vir/ce/cir and are still men. If he/him doesn't fit, you don't fucking have to use he/him and it doesn't make you any less of a man. You know that... right?

Also before this post starts an argument I am not pissing on he/they pronoun users I am simply reminding all you transmascs that there is no obligation binding you to those specific pronouns... a post I needed to see myself.

#andiv3r rambles #trans #transgender #trans ftm #ftm #trans male #transmasc #trans boy #trans guy #trans man #pronouns #recently noticed a trend of trans guys using he/they for a while before realizing they really don't fucking like they/them pronouns #and just used them out of some weird sort of social obligation of “well i don't pass as a guy so i'm gonna get called 'they' anyway” #along with “well it's better than she/her i guess...” #and like... guys. you know you are under no obligation to use they/them right? #same for he/him “i reeeally prefer they/them but i AM a guy so... i sort of have to use he/him too lol” no the fuck you don't??? #do whatever you want forever dudes. #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt+ #i made this post because i really needed to see it myself a while back but i didn't #had to have the revelation on my own

[antimony-medusa]

btw if I see anyone being negative about baghera's lore choices I will look at you so so so sadly and wipe a tear from my eye. being weird and infantilizing about it gets you admission to my highly-curated block list. she gets to do whatever she wants forever.

#I am gripping you by the collar and hissing 'please be normal about women and men interacting' btw #let stories be told with conflict in them and messy interactions #hnnnng I am stopping myself from ranting but just like #consider if a) you would feel the need to commentate publicly if a dude did it #b) if twitter is possibly sending death threats about it #Tallulah also gets to do whatever she wants forever #we can contain multitudes #qsmp #baghera jones #philza

[ryssbelle]

jd is in his early 40s at least - if you’re going on the ‘he was 16 when he left’, thats not when the 20 year countdown begins (which is after the trollstice escape), there was enough time between brozone breakup and grandma getting eaten that branch went from baby to either small child or toddler, then the 20 years, and then around another year in the time gap from trolls 1-3.

(For legal reasons this is not /srs read tags for further information)

#ryss responds #i mean you can do what you want #i dont really care #the post i made about it was mostly satire and just a tad informative #but again as a fanfic writer or artist you can once again do whatever you want forever #i cant stop you and quite frankly i wont #but anyway the age thats on the wiki comes from blog posts made by brozone #from the website #and from floyds blog #so id say its p accurate which is why its the one im using #for the 3rd time you can make him as old or as young as you want #have fun with it #thats just whats listed on the website #plus i saw people treating the age 30 like its the end of their lives and like #chill dude you just got started #so thats mostly what that post was about i just used JD as the example because it was happening to him

[tricoufamily]

once again thinking about how easy it would be for me to be in a relationship if i was cis

#cis woman cis man either way #dude in the neighborhood has a crush on me telling me i'm beautiful like 'thanks! i will go home and cry now' #i fucking hate being trans i wish i wasn't lol #and sometimes i feel like i can't talk about this anywhere bc in a lot of trans spaces it's like. taboo? to express anything but positivity #as if me being honest about how i feel about myself is somehow how i feel about every single trans person jesus christ but whatever whateve #like listen peace and love but i need you to do me a favor and promise me you will not come at me with any 'transness should be about joy' #i know you mean well i know you're right. but transness for me /is/ pain and sorrow. that's all it's ever caused me my entire life #you have to remember that i'm from rural appalachian tennessee with a transphobic family #some of the most deeply rooted self hating repression for years just for. more honest self hatred #i've never admitted this before but i've considered detransitioning and repressing because of transphobia many times #i'm not brave i'm not strong i'm not trying to make some grand statement or be the voice of a generation. i just want to Be. you know #i just got really really unlucky #but i can't repress. i know that would be even more miserable so i'm just. trapped. forever #who i want to be forever out of reach like tantalus or something i don't know #i want to be loved #or maybe i should just watch the batman again

[staunchen]

so i was thinking about lan wangji and how he has this reputation of being righteous while also in my opinion acting like an asshole? like he acts very petty and is ready to pull his sword on people a lot and isn't really involved in politics even in a way that makes sense as a high ranking member of a sect? like the silencing spell on jin ling is uh. bad.

it's like lan wangji has scary dog privilege by virtue of his reputation and his brother and uncle who will wreck you if you do or say anything to/about him. except thats not right because theyre not scary dogs at all, they just protect him. it's like lan wangji is a scary dog and lan xichen and lan qiren smooth things over and stop him from doing something too awful and calm others down after lan wangji does something not too great. and i guess with the reputation for being righteous (second jade of lan) is enough to deter people from saying/doing things like "hey he's a dick" because dude that's hanguang-jun, what are you talking about???".

and the people he saves on night hunts or whatever are random civilians who don't interact with him enough to see him behave badly, and a cool and aloof powerful cultivator saving them gets a lot of leeway on account of being a famous powerful cultivator and also being someone who saved them from fierce corpses or spirits or healed their kid or grandparent or whatever. who cares if theyre quiet and kinda rude they saved their sister!!!!!

so when lan wangji is a dick to jin ling or fucks off from political stuff or is ready to pull his sword on jiang cheng in the jiang ancestral hall or whatever he's doing so with the reputation of hanguang-jun who saves people and also is supported by lan xichen (lan sect leader and brother) and lan qiren (former acting sect leader, uncle, teacher) and they are protective and dare i say overindulgent of lan wangji???? like bro you are a political figure whether you like it or not, your actions have effects on things besides your own direct personal circle. like the heir of gusu lan pulling a sword on sect leader jiang is fucking political incident whether or not theyre both being assholes or not. the adult heir of gusu lan using the lan silencing spell on the teenage heir of lanling jin is a political incident. not engaging with other sects politically, ever, says important things about your priorities and your influence both within the sect and without.

also like. what if something happened to gusu lan? like say lan xichen is injured, and lan qiren is also out of commission for some reason? that means lan wangji is acting sect leader. can you IMAGINE lan wangji as sect leader. imagine it. really visualize it. there's a lot of jokes about lan wangji being a petty bitch and people love it but imagine a petty bitch as a sect leader. the situation would blow up faster than lans get drunk on a glass of wine. like dude. so much stuff would be totally fucked.

anyway lan wangji as he is in mdzs would be a shit sect leader/chief cultivator/etc. he doesn't behave like he's intimately involved in the politics of his world (which he is) and may or may not have training in doing so - maybe he has training and just doesn't do it? which is also really bad, then he would know better and still not do it or help in any way.

#mdzs #meta #mdzs meta #yeah #it's rough #lan wangji #i mean dude is not diplomatic #could do a whole other thing on how lan qiren and lan xichen and nie mingjue are not great on not preparing lan wangji and nie huaisang #for political stuff #i deeply understand why #wanting to protect your younger loved on from shitty realities and keeping them safe and happy #but also they have responsibilities and they may/will fall on them eventually! #like nie huaisang will likely be sect leader someday! esp as nie mingjue's qi deviations get worse and worse post sunshot #i mean nie mingjue is aware and part of the whole thing is protecting him from their sect's damaging cultivation #and taking care of him #but it still isn't good for nie huaisang and nie sect as a whole #and in lan sect its like. lan wangji may not ever be sect leader but we've seen so much bullshit happen before and during sunshot especiall #and wanting to protect him esp after the shit in their childhood with their mom dying #but like. dude. you are doing your younger sibling/nephew/whatever no favors by not preparing them or teaching them what's up #they are in for a rude awakening because as we see with nie mingjue and nie huaisang you can't protect them forever #and people will make judgments and behave accordingly #sucks all around honestly

[kanenites]

why was everyone posting abt ace discourse a few hours ago It is 2023 . that is a 2018 discourse. why do you still care. like i have my opinions on it but its literally pointless to discuss bc no one in real life gives a fuck

#''why do you think youre lgbt for not wanting to have sex'' 1. thats not what being ace is 2. why is that your business #so much of my opinion on lgbt discourse is now just You can do whatever you want forever #mspec lesbians? blue gay flag? bi/pan distinction? dude im in college i have more important shit to worry about. yknow. #because no one cares!!! no one who is not terminally online gives a shit abt any of this #cupid.txt #ace discourse #aphobia cw #<- say what you want abt the term aphobia i am tagging this for the people who have it blacklisted ok? its ok

[rustbeltjessie]

Apropos of nothing, I was just thinking about the time an acquaintance of mine said, completely seriously, that she didn't think cis women should be allowed to wear fake mustaches because it was an 'appropriation of trans guy culture.' She said it in reaction to seeing two people with fake mustaches walk past the table we were sitting at. And I was just there going: "Uhhh...." Like: a. How do you know they are women? Are you going to ask every stranger with a false mustache to reveal the nuances of their gender identity to you? b. Plenty of cis women wear fake mustaches from time to time; drag kings are a thing (not that all drag kings are cis women but some are!), so is theater. c. Do you really think it's a good idea to police who can and can't wear certain things? Really? (Also she was a cis woman so like???) Also just. The way she phrased it. Appropriating trans guy culture. This was during the time when cultural appropriation was being discussed a lot in leftist circles, and obviously that was an important topic, but some people really just did not understand what it meant and threw around the phrase 'cultural appropriation' (or some variation thereof) willy-nilly. And I was like: "You keep using that phrase. I do not think it means what you think it means."

#rust belt jessie #anecdote #trans #drag #gender #cultural appropriation #disc horse #it's like the people now saying that straight cis dudes shouldn't be allowed to wear skirts/dresses #fuck OFF with that shit #when it comes to clothing/presentation? #you can do whatever you want forever

[widevibratobitch]

moments like this when im really glad im a sad little cynic who always considers the worst possible outcome and never lets herself truly get comfortable and trust the good things in her life to stay there and builds her life around trying to soften the blows of the eventual disappointments just waiting around the corner lol never leaving my edgy teenager era peace and love

#i mean if the alternative is whatever the fuck is going on with my best friend rn then hooooo boy #cancelling therapy immediately i never want to change i wanna keep my trust issues forever and ever if its gonna save me from THIS #is he a dick? kinda. yeah. and a coward because if dude was sure he didnt want it since AUGUST and didnt have the guts to end it till now #actually he didnt end it. she was the one who finally snapped. but we seriously fought twice before because she just woudlnt listen #when i said that girl this isnt gonna work and you trust him too much and you're attachment styles are incompatible as hell #your* #but nvm. the least you could do when a 7 years younger girl who's clearly obsessed with you is breaking up with you #cause she just cant take it anymore. and you can see she's still in love with you because you've been lying to her for half a year. #imo the least you could do at that point is just. dont tell her that jfc. just say you're sorry it didnt work out etc etc #dont fucking tell her you stopped being in love with her in fucking august #and just 'didnt know how to end it' and lied when she asked if everything's alright #like my god. yes ig this would never have happened if she hadn't trusted him so completely and expected love to fix her whole life #but jesus dude. she's not even 23 she has a right to be naive. you're almost 30. you DONT get to be a man child anymore #christ. okay. #anyway i wish i could help her but telling her to 'trust less' and 'never truly rely on other people' sounds horrible and cringe and edgy af #but i genuinely dont have any other advice #like babygirl im sorry but your bestie is a piece of human garbage and she's doing the best she can but her best is Not Much alas

[moss-flesh]

my coworker asked me about baldurs gate and its like a dam broke

#shes playing with her friends and they KILLED GALE AND SHADOWHEART #i was like okay do whatever u want forever but why????? #shes like it wasnt my idea im playing with straight dudes #i was like ah ok understood #i mean dont get me wrong im not gonna hold ppls game choices against them #do whatever u want #but like companions are so important to the story #theyre how you grow your character and interact with the wider world #idk i dont get the fun in just killing randomly #she rlly likes it tho !!! she asked me abt my characters n stuff !! #n shes gonna take it seriously when she plays by herself #that i def understand!! sometimes its fun to be chaotic with friends :3

[codecicle]

hello codecicle master of the jrwi fandom, answer me this riddle I plea

hypothetically, if someone drew their own version of the Charlie bimbofication art, and this person was pretty good at anatomy and such and as a result the picture looked a little sexy, and also this hypothetical person drew him in a gay little croptop like MaxGGs suggested, and also they gave him eyeshadow...... how do you think this image would be received. I am new to this fandom and I don't know

because I have three theories:

oh my god this person took the Charlie bimbofiction joke that we are all in on seriously and actually put effort into the art! That's so cringe. and kind of weird, why are they so invested?

oh my god this person is sexualising Charlie Slimecicle. Kill them. Find their house and murder them irl

omg cool art I love this!

any thoughts?

hello anon! this is a holy land Far FAR away from twitter so we do not do any killing or finding of houses or murdering here ^_^ if you sexualize him we typically dap you up and compliment the art through saying Normal Things in the notes and falling slightly more in love with him faggot style. if i had to guess how it would be received i would say the response would be OVERWHELMINGLY positive

and if this hypothetical person ends up posting this art, could i, codecicle the alleged master of the jrwi fandom (LMAO?!?!? THANKYOU??), Maybe get a little tag in it so I can see. persnaps. i am not above begging my faggotry must be fueled

#i make yet anothet post just for me 👍 #we have mail :] #lmao overall dude its totally chill dont worry ! you can do whatever you want forever and i really do think people will love it #everyone i know here is so nice and welcoming no matter what #if you post it (AND PLEASSSEEEE POST IT) i would love to be able to see it #and im sure so many others would to :] #some friends of mine included #also i need you to know i ended up reading just the opening line in the notification and laughed so hard i cried #thank you so much that is the funniest title ive ever gotten that might make it into the pinned post for REAL

[pa-pa-plasma]

redditors are so fucking weird, sometimes they don't even know what hill they're dying on all they know is that they're gonna die on it for sure

#told a dude on reddit who was asking how much violence is allowed in YA books that you can put as much as you'd like #& he was like ''books sure have changed since i was an adolescent'' & i was like. no. they've always been that way. read them & see #(literally gave Watership Down as an example. it was published in the 70's) #& he started ranting & raving about how actually i'm wrong because liberals & kids these days don't understand #what it's like to be an adolescent (kept using that word) in a time where all books were banned for even the most minor of implied violence #& i was like ''what the fuck are you talking about'' & he was like ''where do you live & how old are you'' about a hundred times #i wish i was exaggerating. it really escalated that fast #oh also they were assuming i'm a guy & using he/him pronouns which is like. fuck off lol yeah you're obviously an old white guy from Americ #literally i should just leave reddit forever but i can't stand by watching people say ''quit forever'' when newbies ask simple questions #like redditors are insane. batshit #i want to be the ''do whatever you want forever'' person in a sea of ''you're 12 & only have a 12yo's reading level? die'' #also the blocking on there is bullshit. you can't reply to comments if one of the people in the convo is blocked #& you can't block someone twice in 24 hours #& if you want to report someone for. say. harassment. like asking for your location repeatedly. you have to report the specific comment. #which you now can't see because you blocked them #more & more i become astonished that people use every other social media EXCEPT tumblr #couldn't imagine living like that. it must be horrible

[poptartmochi]

oh i finally realized why the agathos are 💢💢💢 towards vergil 🤏🏻🕶️😳

#besides the whole wanting to go to hell thing being counter to their own beliefs and morals #because you know i think. given the context of being a Son of Sparda. there's an obvious and logical desire to know your father better #so i think the agathos Could empathize would that. many of them probably Would empathize with that! #so that overall argument falls flat bc the agathos Overall dislike vergil. why would All of Them go 😒😒 at him? #well it finally clicked :] if you sacrifice your right to peaceful eternal slumber to confine One Fucking Guy in time prison forever #and dumb people keep showing up to your time prison because the One Fucking Guy was notorious for hoarding secret knowledge #and these people keep getting killed in pursuit of evil knowledge + thus fueling the One Fucking Guy's ability to some day break the chains #of the time prison and invoke calamity yet again. Well! wouldn't it be quite frankly Alarming #if some dude with MegaBlood™️ that everyone can smell from a mile away waltzed in... get this!! ALSO in search of the evil knowledges #thus kind of threatening at its very core the exact thing you sacrificed your human soul and afterlife to.. #and despite your big red warning signs to LEAVE he just pushes further and further into your time prison and closer + closer to The One #Fucking Guy.. it's one thing for his travelling buddy to do that bc whatever 🙄 she's just a human after all. it will take like 400 more of #her to break the time prison.. but this one guy is like.. 500 of her in one convenient little package! fucked up!! #there is some vergil apologism amongst the agathos but overall they're like 😑😑😑 *skyrim guard voice* NEVER should've come here!!!! 💢 #i imagine a lot of them are like girl why would you want to go BACK to hell??? your dad ABANDONED that place!! 😭😭 0/10 reviews on Yelp!! #also we will Not Address the growing vampiric themes in the fprsq.. 😶 it is not my fault that arkham's little ritual relied so heavily on #blood and i based Many Things off that ritual! 🤧🤧😝 #sriracha.txt #fprsq #that is her official tag now ☺️ gioia deserves her own tag after all :]

[greenwith-ivy]

my eyes have been opened to the world of wednesday shipping discourse. wow

this is so funny because the last time i engaged in shipping discourse was in like 2016 on a wings of fire forum. when people were arguing about moonbli vs winterwatcher vs qinter vs qinterwatcher (i actually didn’t really care but i felt like i had to have an opinion so i picked moonbli because qibli and moon were my favorite characters. and i remember that when darkness of dragons came out everyone was like “no spoilers!! i haven’t read it yet don’t tell me who she ends up with!!!!!” so instead people would say that their otp was canon. which was nice except they had their otp in their signatures which kind of defeated the point. oops that was kind of a tangent my bad). ANYWAYS i forget how strong of opinions people can have about this stuff

i think the main arguments i’ve seen against wednesday with either tyler or xavier are that it felt super forced. like no chemistry there the writers just wanted to shove a love triangle into the show. which i agree with totally agree with. i hated both tyler and xavier as characters so while i’m sure there are definitely great things about these ships i don’t see them

enid and wednesday is very popular, for good reason. enid is definitely queer-coded, especially with the whole lycanthropy as a metaphor for being queer thing. werewolf conversion therapy her poor relationship with her parents because she’s not “normal” like all of that. she was also the secondary character with the most screen time (i think. that’s what it seemed like when i watched the show) and the most interactions and chemistry with wednesday. this is understandable and i respect it

tyler and xavier i think is super funny. like they interacted maybe 3 times (which i know has never stopped shippers) but also. i can accept this i think. they both suck in different ways (in my opinion) but this is how everyone wins. pair them together and no one else has to deal with them. (that’s a joke btw. i do think this ship could have merit and i’d be curious to see what people have done with it.)

wednesday/no one: my otp. wednesday is aro/ace and you can’t tell me otherwise. the best ship in the entire show.

#wednesday #wednesday addams #wednesday show #this got long #and it sounds like i care really strongly about this but i don't #not really #like i 1000% hc wednesday as aroace but other people are free to ship whatever they want #if you ship her with xavier or tyler then do it!!! write fics draw art make edits #engaging in fandom should make you happy and if those ships make you happy then that's great #personally they don't make me happy but we are different people!! #if only everyone could understand this i would end shipping discourse forever #also #thinking about the moon ship drama of the wofmb was a THROWBACK dude #i miss that place #honestly i should reread wof i used to love it. i never finished the 3rd arc wonder how it ended #i suppose i've talked enough about it that i guess i should tag it??? maybe?? #i never tagged things right on my old blog so whoops i've got no clue what i'm doing #oh well #sorry wof fans if you come across this and it annoys you #wof #wings of fire

[crabs-in-a-trench-coat]

Gotta get this off my chest about the min-max VTM player I had

So he builds a Toreador, these are the classic "suave seductive masters of manipulation" for the unfamiliar

Great I thought! The Baron (regions leader) and a major NPC (said Baron's childer) are Tores too so I can show them off and give him the "this is how easy it will be for you to manipulate others once you get some practice under your belt" anticipation

Helping him build he picked the Beautiful and Enchanting Voice merits, plopping the remaining points into Wealthy

Sure I thought he's a charisma build so of course he wants his main gimmick to work no problem! But it quickly became a problem...

See I love charisma builds too but I have never been so unwilling to oh idunno work with the other players, realize NPCs won't just do whatever I want because I asked, or expected powerful allies to appear from thin air and pledge themselves to me eternally

The pattern repeated itself "Uh why won't they tell me anything about the drug dealing gang?" You walked into a room of strangers and immediately asked about a group that a. Prides itself on secrecy, to B. A group of STRANGERS

It was this way for everything "There's a psychic in town, she can help point you towards your goals if you pay and treat her with respect" session 1 she walks into the psychic office and demands 3 major things. 1: Powerful human allies I can manipulate. 2: They have to be compatible with my personality. 3: Leads on my friends murder.

I gave him those things and took 1 point of Wealth, it was a massive request AND HE BITCHED ABOUT IT "it shouldn't have cost me that much"

Dude you're a fledgling alright? Slow your roll

He flipped off the Nosferatu, told the Baron she wouldn't work for him, and her only relationship with her sire and touchstones are "call them up and ask for information/favors"

His entire play style was basically asking me to write fanfiction about his OC and still getting mad when I gave him things

Not to mention he said with his Wealth he and another player were going to "do something and break the game" which uh.... OK alright chief please use her medical knowledge and your resources to make darts that instantly dissolve humans/kindred (that was the first plan they told me about, but they had something worse apparently?) Just don't get mad if someone else, maybe the info brokers you told to fuck off figure out the recipie and use it on you

Fuck man I was trying to be cool about it but when we finish the 5e game and get back to VTM I might tell him he isn't welcome

#long post #sorry guys but fuck i could go on #dude just wouldn't accept anything short of #yes we will do whatever you want forever and it will never cost you anything

[twipsai]

lol

#im all like 'yeah fuck around with a characters gender have fun w it!' until i see a character i kin + hc as transmasc get girl-ified #like NOOOO(falls to my knees) #<IM MOSTLY KIDDING AROUND BTW DO WHATEVER YOU WANT FOREVER AND MAKE EVERY DUDE INTO A GIRL IF U WANT #just personally not a fan with certain characters bc it can be a bit uncomfy to see a character i see myself in be referred to as a girl </3 #buuut usually just ignore and move on lolz :P

[floral-hex]

“guess you didn’t have a forwarding address after all ☹️” shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut up shut up shut up

#I am FROTHING #at the mouth I mean #I am so beyond unreasonably annoyed #dad sends bday card to old address bc we never talk and he didn’t know I moved #literally never texts me #I don’t really text him either so I suppose it’s a two way street #I had mail forwarding until Jan 1st so I dunno what happened but I dunno just the text out of the blue like that triggers something in me #could have just said “hey your card finally got returned. do you want me to resend it?’ #BUT NO fucking ☹️☹️☹️ guess you made a wittle mistakey son ☹️☹️☹️ #I’m most probably reading too much into it. probably. I’m hoping…. #I am just… seething… #whatever. it’s a two way road. you’d just think he’d care about his son to check in more often #especially when said son is not. doing. great. when said son is helping take care of his estranged dad’s sick ex wife whom he divorced to #to fuck off around the world and fucking go live abroad after having two kids. just fucks off. fucked off. f offed. off’d? LEFT #which WHATEVER your prerogative my dude my man I still love you but I’m gonna be resentful forever #and I’m getting off topic. oh yeah. and the last time we texted briefly I was saying how life was shitty #told him I had to move because of no money and mom got a transplant and is still sick all the time #and it’s all ‘well… let me know if I can do anything’ #fuck you #you want to be snarky go ahead and be snarky #go fucking drink by the pool all day with your dogs whatever #big fucking nice guy ‘uwu guess you didn’t really want my letter 👉👈😢 #I’m just… fucking sorry I don’t text you more. what am I supposed to text about? #i’m ashamed of myself. of my life. I’m a fucking 35 year old loser and I know I let you down. talking to you just reminds me I’m a fuck up #I’m a bad investment and you got out while the getting was good #fuck… it was just some shitty little comment that might not have even been malicious. just tone deaf or whatever #but now I’m feeling so shitty and I can’t stop it #sorry this was too much #I was on the verge of just starting to yell and stomp around like an idiot and decided to vent here instead #… but seriously what the fuck. what response is he expecting? I set up forwarding so idk. shit happens dude