#especially when this summer hits!

[talkethtothehandeth]

You deserve to be comfortable in hot temperatures. In fact, it’s very dangerous if you wear clothes that prevent you from cooling off because it stops your body from being able to regulate/cool your core temperature as you’re not allowing sweat to escape properly. Not only can it worsen symptoms of already being outside in higher temperatures— such as nausea or dizziness, but it can also increase your risk of heatstroke.

If you have body hair, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

If you have stretch marks, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

If you have self harm scars, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

If you’re fat, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

If you have any other scars that you might hold shame or embarrassment over, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

If you’re disabled and it affects the way your body looks, or you have additions to your person like an ostomy bag, an insulin pump/cgm, or any other extension of you, you deserve to be comfortable in hot weather.

No matter the person, what you look like, how you feel about your body (whether you hate it or love it or somewhere in between), you deserve to be comfortable.

I absolutely understand hiding under a hoodie, I used to do it too. However, when you cover your body with layers, or a hoodie or long pants whatever, you block out its own ability to help you survive. When you sweat, it cools your body down and also releases sodium and other electrolytes from your body. The harder your body works, the more you will sweat. And the more you sweat, the more fluids your body loses. Which is why you see all of those Gatorade ads for athletes. Also, your body begins to work harder when the weather becomes warmer because it’s already triggering that natural response. And if you’re not drinking at least water, you will make it worse and it can become life threatening if you’re not careful.

You do not have to be in the sunshine to get heatstroke. It can happen to anyone, anywhere— including indoors. (And that’s why you see the “don’t leave your kids or pets in the car” warnings and advisories.) Keeping yourself cool can mean life or death. You won’t ever win against the sun.

You deserve to be comfortable this summer and every summer after that. Please, take care.

#please please take care of yourself #especially when this summer hits! #long post #chronic pain #chronic illness #cripple punk #disabled #body posititivity #lgbt #summer #postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome #scoliosis #arthritis #ehlers danlos syndrome #gi issues

[swinging-stars-from-satellites]

anyone else ever get struck with a sudden feeling of distaste or being tired of someone who you usually really like/are friends with for literally no reason whatsoever? or is that just me

#like this has been happening with various people all summer #I'll be like... the thought of this person causes negative emotions that are literally directed at nothing #it isn't anything the person has done I just. feel like I don't care and don't really want to put in the effort with whatever friend #which is really weird bc I KNOW if I DO just put in the effort and ignore that random feeling I'll have fun and enjoy myself!! #bc I DO still like my friends actually!!! I just sometimes feel like I Don't and idk why #Lu rambles #this is especially odd when it's the sound guy bc like. not only have I been massively crushing on him all summer #but he's also one of the few people I genuinely have clicked with here. like we get along. it's cool. I've been slightly in love with him #so why do I now have this weird feeling like I want nothing to do with him/don't care #actually I feel extremely ambivalent about just about everyone right now but for some reason especially him #wait maybe it's PMS actually.... the Leave Me Alone Don't Talk To Me Don't Look At Me Don't Make Me Show Up hormones have hit :/ #...that would actually explain several things from the last couple days. I should start tracking it #ok sorry I'm done externally processing my emotions on Tumblr dot com. bye

[bleaksqueak]

Since I got a good little handful of asks about it today, I wanted to pop in while I'm waiting on this file to send to my pc and say: I think *most* artists absolutely value comments and support more than they let on. It's a little embarrassing to shout it from the rooftops, or at the very least a slight faux pas, but it's true. In truth, I've been extremely down lately, but logging in to see comments, reblogs, likes, tag comments or getting asks posing fun little questions offer a lot of cheer even when the gloom is hanging a bit heavy. It's like, sure, I'm drawing ultimately for myself-- this comic/these characters are more self-indulgent than the most decadent fondue in existence, but I've also always wanted to work on a project like this when working on various other NDA projects for other people in the past. So the comments and engagement are far from a bother or annoyance, they mean the world to read, instead! So, thank you!

#words #for real when I originally aimed to have chapter 2 ready for launch in the summer and was on track for that #then the shit luck roulette hit every health problem and real life problem seemingly imaginable #I was actually pretty upset over it bc not only did I just want to be doing the thing that made me happy #but I was worried that long of a gap would disappoint everyone #especially when I had a huge stack of pages with finished art already but the letterign and post-prep wasn't done lol #the last little stage and shit-luck roulette went to spinning #so i spent a lot of time drawing in bed waiting on health to sort itself #it sucked but i'm glad to be back in business and grateful for the support

[sevicia]

What if there was an old man dying from cancer and his last wish was for his "daughter" to shave "her" legs ... ?

#cancer m #diary #he's literally crying screaming throwing up abt it #IK that a side effect of whatever his treatment is is that he's a lot more sensitive #but it's just like . he's been forcing me to shave my legs for the summer since I was like . 11 #and I mean FORCING like he would throw tantrums when I refused and/or bother my mom about it nonstop #like literally none of them understand that all I want is to be able to make my own decisions #especially regarding my OWN body #after I came out 2 my mom she tried to convince me by telling me that a lot of guys shave or just don't have a lot of body hair #as if that's the issue. #I'll just have to give in AGAIN because otherwise I'd be the heartless monster that doesn't comply when his dad cries about it #crying has never gotten me what I want. no one has spared me sympathy when I've been on the verge of breaking down #I can count the times I've broken down in front of anyone with one hand . but whatever #another day another way I have to put someone else's wants before mine #long-ass tags .... trying not to cry about it so I don't hit a whole new level of pathetic

[scp2337]

hey why the FUCK does summer make me so sad

#its been over a week #and it minda happens every year but moreso this year by far #i get like. seasonal depression but reversed bc it happens during summer #i hate the heat and if it hits 80f before noon i get filled with dread #i know i have a reversed circadian rhythym which is why i work rlly well on my 4pm-11pm shifts but like #does that like. apply to seasons? #i FLOURISH in winter #the long nights. the cold. the clouds. #i also have a heat intolerance and start sweating at 70F. even when i was underweight #my friend said maybe it could be the pressure to flourish in Summer like everyone else does #which is probably a part of it too #especially bc i work at a resort #idk idk idk im just suffering and have woken up crying several days in a row #morg talks #delete later #if youre still reading this hiiii i love you! so sorry for the uhhhhhhh Shit Show that im about to become over the next few months #just bear with me until fall hits

[littlestpetship]

why are you just a little kitty

#text #🐈 #i always liked the middle cards in hq they were always so creative :3 #i especially like these ones where theyre all portrayed as animals... #and the ones where they have to hit the waterbottle... those were so cute :D #speaking of which i really need to rewatch it soon!!! @_@ #i had planned to when summer break starts but thats not until another... *counts on fingers* 4 days #AAHHH I NEED TO FINISH MY SCHOOLWORK!!! ive been so busy i havent thought about it!!! 0_0 #ill work on some tonight... yayayay

[averbaldumpingground]

Life almost disappears, those summer afternoons spent reading in the park, your head half-leaning on his shoulder. Those mornings in the spring, a little late for work.

It didn't matter then, the way he took two sugars in his coffee. The way you let your hair grow out too long.

But these, the memories we keep, crammed in a shoebox full of polaroids, saved somewhere on a half-forgotten hard drive, they're what remains behind. They're what your sister finds, the weekend that she helps you pack your life.

And then it's sitting on the couch, your kitchen stuff already wrapped in paper. It's styrofoam containers, soda cans. It's wine that she's already drinking from the bottle.

And you can't figure out whose silhouette that was, who showed up to your party with a boa. And she is pretty sure her ex has kids.

But maybe that's why you and I keep postcards. Somebody's bow tie, paperclips, that bit of string.

They don't remind us of some other time, exactly. They're pieces of the people that we were, they're feelings that we'd wanted to hold on to.

#June 12 2023 #I've had 'Spin' by Lifehouse stuck in my head all day. #Is it about some girl? Is it about god? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Who the heck even knows. #I mean that's like a very large percentage of Lifehouse's musical output. #Well this one could also be about parenthood I guess. #And I'm pretty sure 'You and Me' is definitely about Jason Wade's wife and 'Hanging by a Moment' is about god per comments he's made. #But it's a fun party game isn't it? #Speaking of 'Hanging by a Moment'. Even though it came out when I was like 12 and I hadn't yet realized the whole religious thing. #I associate it most with the summer I was 25 and living with my parents for the summer for a grad school internship. #I remember driving my mom's car to work after dropping her off along the way and cranking up the radio. #Unfortunately my options were limited to the pop station (too many commercials) or the Spanish station (I don't speak Spanish) #or the Christian rock station (the one I usually listened to despite my uncomfortable relationship with religion especially at the time). #And the first time I heard them play Lifehouse I was like wtf? Why is the Christian rock station playing something I actually like? #And then I really listened to the words of 'Hanging by a Moment' and I was 'Oooooh.' #And that was how it took me like 13 years to realize a band I liked and owned cds of may or may not have written a bunch of songs about god #Which honestly would have turned 12 year old me off a lot because like it's not fun being an atheist when almost everyone's a dick about it #And I'm not sure it was the healthiest coping mechanism for the whole having my heart shattered by a religious dude when I was 25... #Actually that's not true. That year I mostly played the fuck out of Emmylou Harris's and Bob Dylan's most depressing hits. ('Gold' anyone?) #Followed by Royal Wood's divorce album when that came out. #But blasting the Christian rock station in the car? Definitely kind of intentionally masochistic. But also I really hate radio commercials. #I did listen to a lot of Lifehouse that summer. #So regardless of what the songs are actually about they all remind me of the highway and my mom's old car and carpooling to work. #Except 'Blind'. 'Blind' still makes me cry. #That was a really pointless aside because I don't feel like writing or going to sleep and will probably stay up listening to Lifehouse now. #I guess the moral of that story if it needs to have a moral is: #If you're a godless heathen and someone makes you feel like shit because they act like there's something wrong with you for it #you're much better off not wasting your time trying to understand why they think like that and living your best heathen life instead. #Or something like that. Idk.

[princesslocket]

27 for the song ask!

27: A song that breaks your heart

Oooo boy there's so many that absolutely crushes my heart but currently The Outsider - Lyn Lapid is the one that takes first place.

Ask Me About Music

#i've never considered myself as someone important #so when i listened to this song for the first time it #hit right in the feels #hopefully that doesn't sound depressing #kjshgvfuoes #it mostly reminds me of my fam life though #especially the driving part 'cause we used to do that in the summer

[astrxealis]

i find it really interesting and a bit sentimental to see people going through msq for the first time bcs wow it's been a while since i've been there!!!

but also . KEEHKD it is also Intriguing to see people take really long with doing msq ... bcs yeah i took a bit longer with. arr-hw but MAN stb. finished in around less than 10 days and same with shb! though shb patches i was a bit lazy with >_< i finished enw in around less than 10 days too ..... aagghh help

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚ #⋯ ꒰ა ffxiv ໒꒱ *·˚ #in my defense. it was either summer or christmas break fiebfoejfjskdb #arr-hw i took a healthy time with! mostly only on weekends + i also played other games LMAO ^^;; #but it sucked a bit bcs... i feel like me being in a hard time going thru arr/hw and being alone playing. and also the days of playing #being pretty apart made my experiences less memorable :'O like i love how when i go thru it again or randomly remember #it's like SNIFSKEHWK sentimental hours! but then in general i barely remember them . kind of. it's complicated but other expacs def were #more memorable bcs of that ... yeah >__< #and hi good evening! i hope everyone stays safe! especially those hit by the recent typhoon ahh fellow filipinos and other people ... #i have one homework i should work on but aside from that i am mostly good for now! next week has a lot of stuff tho eee .... </3

[hvbris]

𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐓𝐀𝐆𝐒 𝐃𝐑𝐎𝐏 💕

@omniishambles @collidingxworlds @countlessrealities @governmentofficial @thenightmareofyourdrems @ithinkim-adorable @hwknsking this isn’t exhaustive! some ships don’t have a tag yet so they haven’t been added BUT they’ll be added as soon as they get their own lil tag 💕

& omniishambles / Villanelle & Eve (oh I will ruin you it's a habit - I can't help it) & omniishambles / Gomez & Morticia (you were like some desperate howling demon. You frightened me. Do it again!) & omniishambles / Villanelle & Salomé (maybe I'm a bad bad bad... bad person. well baby I know) & omniishambles / Hannibal & Clarice (and feed me spark me up. a creature in my bloodstream chews me up.) & omniishambles / Billy & April (so if you're crazy I don't care you amaze me) & omniishambles / Billy & Salomé (I fucking hate everyone but you) & omniishambles / Hopper & Joyce (and have to look at your face everyday? i don't think so)

& collidingxworlds / Abigail & Salomé (she is a flower but she isn't soft. When her petals fall they hit like bullets) & collidingxworlds / Abigail & Clarice (she may not be what she may seem inside her shell) & collidingxworlds / Will & Noah (I especially am slow but I realized that I need you)

& countlessrealities / Summer & Salomé (come and walk on the wild side. you like your girls insane) & countlessrealities / Bill & Salomé (I'm bad as bad can be. so bad that it's hard to believe)

& governmentofficial / Mycroft & Mulder (you find out nothing that I wouldn't wanna tell you about) & governmentofficial / Mycroft & Hannibal (and it's a beautiful crime)

& thenightmareofyourdrems / Billy & Clarice (you're like the sun you wake me up. I might need you or I'll break) & thenightmareofyourdrems / Steve & Salomé (got to be a lot that's wrong with you to want to be with me)

& ithinkim-adorable / Dean & Eleven (there's something about his hand holding mine)

& hwknsking / Steve & Chrissy (I was lost within the darkness but then I found you)

#tag drop #& omniishambles / Villanelle & Eve (oh I will ruin you it's a habit - I can't help it) #& omniishambles / Gomez & Morticia (you were like some desperate howling demon. You frightened me. Do it again!) #& omniishambles / Villanelle & Salomé (maybe I'm a bad bad bad... bad person. well baby I know) #& omniishambles / Hannibal & Clarice (and feed me spark me up. a creature in my bloodstream chews me up.) #& omniishambles / Billy & April (so if you're crazy I don't care you amaze me) #& omniishambles / Billy & Salomé (I fucking hate everyone but you) #& omniishambles / Hopper & Joyce (and have to look at your face everyday? i don't think so) #& collidingxworlds / Abigail & Salomé (she is a flower but she isn't soft. When her petals fall they hit like bullets) #& collidingxworlds / Abigail & Clarice (she may not be what she may seem inside her shell) #& collidingxworlds / Will & Noah (I especially am slow but I realized that I need you) #& countlessrealities / Summer & Salomé (come and walk on the wild side. you like your girls insane) #& countlessrealities / Bill & Salomé (I'm bad as bad can be. so bad that it's hard to believe) #& governmentofficial / Mycroft & Mulder (you find out nothing that I wouldn't wanna tell you about) #& governmentofficial / Mycroft & Hannibal (and it's a beautiful crime) #& thenightmareofyourdrems / Billy & Clarice (you're like the sun you wake me up. I might need you or I'll break) #& thenightmareofyourdrems / Steve & Salomé (got to be a lot that's wrong with you to want to be with me) #& ithinkim-adorable / Dean & Eleven (there's something about his hand holding mine) #& hwknsking / Steve & Chrissy (I was lost within the darkness but then I found you)

[aceascake]

it snowed here (!!!) and i have been once again reminded that i am an incorrigible winter enjoyer

#and precipitation in general enjoyer but snow especially #catch me eating dinner practically outside just to spend longer staring at the snow-colored sky #every summer i'm like yes i love all the seasons equally! change is what i'm into! #(lol) #but then winter hits and i Remember how good it is when it's Cold out

[liinos]

i listen to music all year round obviously but there is something about listening to music when the sun is shining and it's warm and the light is Right that just makes the experience so much better...

#i ascend when i listen to music once we hit spring and summer but especially summer i am on a different planet of experiencing

[absentlyabbie]

i'll tell you what converted me to being all-in on keeping cats indoors only:

living for a year and a half in a rural area with a sudden feral cat colony explosion on the property.

i moved in with my folks for a bit and at that time, one (1) stray cat mama had taken up residence on the property, but was too feral to let my mother anywhere near her. but especially after she brought three kittens around, mom fed her and the kittens in hopes they'd grow trusting enough she could catch for spay and neuter at the minimum. momcat stayed mean and hella wary, but the kittens would hang around a little nearer and play with my mom via long stick, but still wouldn't come close enough to touch or catch.

unfortunately, two of the three kittens were girls and started having kittens of their own before further progress was made, shortly after i moved in. and that was pretty much instant doom.

there were so many kittens. SO MANY. multiple litters. every time we turned around, more kittens.

we fed them. we hunted for and located the kittens every time anywhere on the property and would move them to a repurposed doghouse anytime a mama cat had them somewhere else, so that they could grow up human-socialized and we could spay/neuter them when they were old enough. (also it was a handy tactic to push the issue of the mamas getting more used to/trusting of us themselves. only really worked with one of them, though.)

and we watched them die.

we watched litter after litter of kittens never make it to the age they could be spayed or neutered. the moms stayed, for the longest time, too skittish to more than briefly touch, much less catch and crate for a vet visit.

it sounds like a silly joke to say i have kitten-related ptsd, but i absolutely do.

too many goddamn times i'd walk out of the garage and find the carport and gravel drive strewn with tiny bodies. others simply went missing, never to be found.

one in particular, i wish i hadn't found, and the visual literally haunts me still, almost a decade later.

i saw so many kittens die of snake bite, spider bite, wild dogs, birds of prey, hit by cars, respiratory illness, covered in fleas and eyes crusted with infection.

and we loved them all. scrimped for antibiotics if the vet could be convinced to give it to us despite our being unable to bring them in. bought flea collars and ointments. we cared for them and fed them and petted them and played with them, brushed their fur and cleaned up their little faces, put ice in their water in hot summer, rigged a heating lamp in their house in the winter.

and they died. horribly. that property is pocked with unmarked graves of kittens and cats.

all the best intentions, not enough resources, and it didn't matter anyways because the population went from three to almost twenty (at times, over thirty) in the blink of an eye.

they died and died and died. our hearts broke over and over again. the stress and anxiety wore us down like sandpaper. i think, by the end of it all, we managed to find less than 10 of them all homes, including batman the disabled kitten i found a home across the country through tumblr.

it was carnage and tragedy, frankly. and we were helpless.

it only ended because they started dying faster than they could be born, and because we finally caught the two remaining mom cats in traps and got them spayed.

the points about outdoor cats being invasive predators devastating to local wildlife populations is true and valid and important.

but i know cat people, and cat people who don't know better than to let cats outdoors. what matters to you is the cat itself, generally. the cat being happy and taken care of.

keeping cats outdoors, letting them outdoors, is not taking care of the cats. it's not protecting them. it's not giving them any happiness or invigoration that couldn't be provided to them as indoor-only pets with just a little research and effort.

they die. they get ill. they get hurt. they're at risk of predators, and cars, and disease, and carelessly cruel children and deliberately cruel adults. they're at risk of disappearing on you because someone else saw a cat outdoors and intervened to give it a better, safer life not in conflict with the local environment.

and if that offends and angers you that someone would just take a cat they saw roaming outdoors, even collared, and that it sounds like i'm endorsing that, i am, but not if you intervene and be that person yourself for your own cat.

if what matters to you is doing right by your cat because it's family and a living creature whose happiness and health and safety is important to you,

keep them indoors. not part time. always. exclusively.

edit: since apparently i need to clarify this, i'm saying cats should live inside, that they should not live outdoors, even part time. visiting the outdoors supervised on a leash or in an enclosed catio is not the same as even part-time living outside, and i am certainly not advocating against it.

#long post #cats #indoor cats #outdoor cats #keep your cats inside

[smolskye]

i'm not very good at poetry and i mostly just use it as an outlet for all of my stupid emotions but i wrote a poem about gender dysphoria a few years ago and i really like how i ended it:

maybe one day, when the existence known as me has ended, and the energy that created me is swirling in the void, and the particles in my body become stardust, there will be no binaries and i will know peace

#skye.txt #i'm honestly usually okay with my body. like sometimes i get uncomfortable w my yiddies or i get really bad bottom dysphoria but im okay #but other times i just lay in existential sadness and grief that i will never have the body i want because that body doesn't exist #and i will never be able to switch my agab for a day or a few hours or whatever or experience life where im perceived as a man #anyway throwback to when i Finished Something and bottom dysphoria hit me like a bus and i started crying. that sucked #it's especially hard bc i'm very short and very curvy and have a round soft face so i really can't pass at all #i am going to try it more tho. this summer im gonna go to the beach in a binder and swim trunks and not even god can stop me

[queercatboyrights]

woke up to emails from 2 outta 3 of my professors canceling class on campus today bc of the snow storm and now I'm PRAYING that my 3rd professor does the same cus honestly I do NOT wanna drive 30+ minutes to campus in poor weather for one damn class

#nebbles talks #please please PLEASE #i do NOT wanna deal w/ driving to class today #i can drive safely in snowy conditions its just all these other motherfuckers im worried about #cannot count the number of times ive nearly been hit by a bitch in this weather #ESPECIALLY when people be out here driving like 10-15mph OVER the speed limit and playing fuckin lane jockey #like SIR the road condition is SHIT this isnt a sunny dry summer day with no obstructions on the road your gonna get somebody killed #just pleaaaaaassee cancel the class i do not wanna deal w/ this today

[wonijinjin]

being in a relationship with kim mingyu: silly headcanons

synopsis: my silly thoughts on how it would be to live and be in a relationship with mingyu, @babyleostuff thank you for helping me list these and listening to me talking about these scenarios i loved it

word count: 1.2k | genre: fluff, humour/crack | pairing: mingyu x f! reader | warnings: mentions of dresses, food, diets, reader being overall somewhat smaller than mingyu

- okay so mingyu is a goofy man we all know this, but here are some things about living with him and being his girlfriend that would make you go crazy (in both good and bad ways)

- he would scare the shit out of you every morning since his little confused puppy face and messy hair directly in your face would be such a shocker every single time you wake up in the same bed as him, especially if you went to bed alone and he snuck into bed during the night if he worked late. this would result in you screaming you head off and him being so surprised aswell he might even fall off the bed lmao.

- sleeping with him also includes him being the most comfortable pillow ever, but there would be a price you would have to pay for it; he would get on top of you during the night, kinda like a nice free weighed blanket, except the fact that he would be so heavy after some time you couldn’t breathe and would have to hit him continuously until he wakes up.

- this man would definitely be a pathological liar when it comes to stories about him being brave over something, like my man literally caught a single fly or bug and he would be like “yeah that’s right i tamed a 10 meters long python.” also he would not shut up about it, bringing it up every time there’s a chance, but when you would actually need help getting rid of an insect he would run away crying like the baby he is.

- he would love to cook for you, but would turn into the biggest clutz when you are in charge in the kitchen; you would be peacefully cooking when he would come into the room upon smelling the fruit of your hard work, making everything go wrong; the moment this man appears next to you with the sentence “oh my god i wanna help you you know how much i love cooking, especially with you.” your peace and quiet would be over, in the end resulting in you having to clean up all the mess he made while he sits on the couch as a punishment after you scolded him. (after this incident you would probably never allow him to help you cook, only the other way around)

- he adores sundresses and overall cutesy summer clothes, you cannot tell me otherwise, he would be hypnotised by the way the dress looked on you, trying to match his shirt with it. he would be spinning you around all day to some kind of music, loving the way the dress flows, how the fabric feels on his hands, and how cute you look in his arms, really making the moment feel like a real fairytale.

- mingyu’s brain works faster than light so it is really hard to understand what he says, since he’s always talking with such speed which would result in you having to stop him every 5 minutes to tell him to slow down and him being confused about why you cannot keep up with him, saying that he always talks like this. (mingyu babes that doesn’t mean it was understandable before lmao)

- another thing connected to him speaking is his cute little lisp; you would always tease him for it (as you do for everything else) in a cute way and he would be such a drama queen saying that you were the meanest, when in reality you loved it so much you could burst from affection every time this man opened his mouth.

- he would insist on driving you everywhere; doesn’t matter if you have your drivers licence or not mingyu would love you to be his passenger princess. he would put on sunglassses to seem cool while he is driving with one hand, his other on your thigh, looking at you from time to time while you stared at him shamelessly, drooling over how good he looked while driving.

- no matter how much of an organised person you are, you would probably have little arguments with him about you not washing the dishes right after cooking or leaving your books or other personal belongings scattered around the house. he just cannot help it, he is a clean freak.

- mingyu would try to be romantic by catching you off guard with a kiss, but would bump his forehead with yours and would have to tend to the ache in both of your temples after the incident, making him sulky and worried about you, and of course ashamed that he was clumsy yet again. (don’t worry you would laugh it off, making it up to him by giving him many many kisses)

- people would always assume that he wore the pants in the relationship but in reality i think your roles would be very well balanced. he may be a gentle person but he wouldn’t be afraid to speak up on your behalf if needed, always prioritising your protection.

- he would let you do his skincare to cheer you up when you had a bad day, since your stress relief comes from babying him (like fr who wouldn’t want to baby this cutie?), so he would be patiently sitting while you applied every serum and sheet mask existing on the planet to his face.

- his hugs are one of the best things in the world, being engulfed by his large frame would always be so comforting, him letting you inhale the scent of his cologne for as long as you need.

- he is a gymrat as everyone knows, and he would insist on you going to the gym with him at least once. you don’t have to worry if you are not a gym girly, because he wants you there to help him; he would ask you to sit on his back while doing pushups, or to get on top of some of the equipment, basically he would use you as human weights, kissing you every time he came up to where you were positioned, sheepishly smiling at you as you watched his big muscles work in awe.

- he would get so shy and giggly if you complimented him, like he has a big ego of course he knows he is handsome, but if the praise comes from you he would be melting and giggling like the babygirl he is.

- he loves to eat and loves meat; finding him grilling randomly in the backyard of the house at like midnight wouldn’t be a surprising occurrence.

- mingyu would stuff you full of food every chance he gets, no questions asked. he eats very well as we know (as he should!) because well for those muscles and the amount of workouts he does he needs the energy to be fair; whenever he eats you need to have a bite with him too, even if you say you are dieting or aren’t hungry he doesn’t care; he just feeds you. you cannot escape especially if he is cooking for you.

- he loves to drink from time to time so on occasions when you would join him he would forget how big of a man he really is and would definitely try to lean on you for support as he would be so drunk, only to realise that he is basically crushing you to death lmao.

- he is a man with a childlike heart, so he would try to fit his tall ass figure into such small spaces, which would definitely result in needing your help to pull him out of like children’s playground swings and stuff, poor guy would be whining so loudly about his everything hurting the next day.

- lastly and most importantly; he loves you so much he would let you do (and get him do to) anything without hesitation, and whatever bad thing you did he would never get angry at you, you are just his baby and to him you cannot do any harm even if you told him you burned his house off.

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