#gender disconnect

[gender-jargon]

[Image ID: An alternate Neut(gender) flag created by Gent of Gender-Jargon. The flag consist of six, horizontal stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, the stripes are burgundy, desaturated magenta, light lavendar, tan, desaturated green and dark green. ./. End ID]

Neut: a gender identity related to one's usage of It/Its/Itself pronouns to communicate a sense of self that is disconnected from humanity, "other" and/or neuter, but not genderless.

Also called Neutgender.

[PT: Neut: a gender identity related to one's usage of It/Its/Itself pronouns to communicate a sense of self that is disconnected from humanity, "other" and/or neuter, but not genderless. Also called Neutgender.]

Etymology

[PT: Etymology]

The etymology of this term is unknown. Neut(gender) was coined by tumblr user Wingsdownmyspine in March 2020. The Neutgender pride flag and an expanded definition were reposted to Beyond-Mogai-Pride-Flags by Mod Fy two days later.

"Neut" is likely an abbreviation of "Neuter" or "Neutral", but this has not been confirmed by the original coiner of the term.

Flag

[PT: Flag]

The original flag was created by the coiner at the same time as the term. This flag consists of four horizontal stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, they are black, grey, white and red. The meaning of the original flag is unknown.

Due to being almost completely identical to the Asocial flag designed two years prior to Neutgender, I took it upon myself to make an alternate flag, which is the main purpose of this post.

This alternate flag consists of six, horizontal stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, the stripes are burgundy, desaturated magenta, light lavender, tan, desaturated green and dark green. Each stripe has the following meanings:

The burgundy stripe represents being Neut.

The magenta stripe represents disconnection from humanity.

The light lavender represents a present sense of gender.

The tan stripe represents the usage of It/Its pronouns (as opposed to They/Them).

The light green stripe represents otherness.

The dark green stripe represents neuterness/neutrality.

The burgundy stripe is a homage to the original flag that used red alongside a monochrome color palette.

Alternate flag by Gent of Gender-Jargon, April 2024.

#Neut #Neutgender #disconnected #gender disconnect #disingender #DISIN #Allogender #AAGIN #Aagingender #Other #Eligender #Eingender #EIN #Neuingender #NEUIN #Ningender #NIN #It/Its #Pronouns #Othergender #Neuter #Neutral #Neutrine #Flag redesign #term #gender #pride flag #mogai #mogai community #mogai safe

[dysphoric-culture-is]

Low dysphoric culture is always questioning if you have dysphoria, or just a disconnection with with gender almost all the time

Dysphoric culture is!

Also, disconnect from gender can count as dysphoria. It’s up to you to decide how to label your experiences anon, dysphoria isn’t always “gender distress” and not everyone has it!

#low/no dysphoric people mod is giving you all cool rocks #and anon you could be dysphoric *and* disconnected. gender is weird #dysphoria tw #gender dysphoria #dysphoric culture is #low dysphoric culture is #low dysphoria #no dysphoria #gender disconnect #trans #queer #lgbtq #lgbt+

[junotter]

All the jokes about Ken and horses are good but I just wanna say it's such a good parallel to how actual young men get swept into misogyny and the patriarchy.

Like they're told to believe it means men get to be cool and manly and have this power but with that comes extremely rigid commands of what they can be as a man and a cycle of self hatred for never matching those gender roles perfectly. Patriarchy tells men that if they just do exactly what is expected of them, then they get all the "cool stuff" that comes with. That doesn't work though when there's only a small group that actually gets that power, but men will keep trying to fit into those roles in hopes that they can.

In the end there are no horses or the myth men are told, it's just endless cycles of self hatred and ingroup fighting.

#barbie #barbie movie #barbie spoilers #ig #ive got a lot more on how barbie looks at feminism and the patriarchy cause god they did it #not to say there isnt faults such as very little conversation about intersectionality #but i can also understand the impossible task of talking about EVERYTHING in one movie #not everyone will be happy and thats fine #anyway i think something barbie did really well is fight this battle of both wanting so deeply to love (romantically or not) men but also #not dismissing the fact its mens job to solve their problems themselves #that even if women need to be the front runners of breaking the patriarchy men cannot rely on them to solve their own problems completely #also just god im so glad this wasnt a girl boss slay movie #women deserve respect and love and life regardless of accomplishment #we should not have to be ceos and presidents and world problem solvers to gain equality #i can also understand if nonbinary people feel left out/disconnected from the movie #but as always gender abolition and acknowledging the gender binary (ie the one societially impossed) go hand and hand 👍 #just incase cause idfk terfs dni the barbie movie is not for you #barbie literally states constantly that her gender has nothing to do with (non existent) genitals so f off

[saym0-0]

i love when people use random pronouns for mechs

i just saw someone she/her brian and thats so iconic tbh

#any immortal character tbh #maybe its my own disconnect from gender but #i think if they live long enough then they'd probably use that time to explore gender and most likely settle on not caring all that much #or picking a pronoun for a role and sticking to it #some though like ashes i think have picked a favourite #the mechs #the mechanisms #sayms mechs headcanons #saymbles

[bush-hobo]

You know what? I don't hate my body. I hate the fact that my body defines me as a girl. I like the way I look, I don't want to have to take testosterone or hide my chest to be viewed as something other than a girl. I love my body, I love its shape and everything it can do, I'm strong, fast, and decently beautiful, but everything that I should love about myself is undermined because of the flesh bags on my chest? I HATE THAT SO MUCH.

The idea that I have to cut off parts of me to be viewed by society as masculine is awful, and something that I can't help, shaping the way others view me so intensely, really, really hurts me. I don't want to change me. I just want to be accepted for what I am, and the idea that my chest is getting in the way of that is what makes me hate it so much. I don't hate my chest specifically, but the ideas connected to it. If those ideas vanished, I could live happily and freely without having to alter my body. Without having to bind to be comfortable, without having to deal with never quite feeling connected to my OWN BODY. I should feel safe here.

It isn't fair.

#genderfluid #Not that this is true for everyone #Top surgery is lifesaving for some people. #I just want my body to be disconnected from who I am. #transgender #trans issues #gender dysphoria #lgbtq #Top surgery #Trans

[julykings]

rlly struggling lately to make art, almost feeling a fear surrounding it that of course is directly connected to “internet success” like deep down that kind of thing does not matter does not fulfill my soul etc but of course feels so important for my career.. but how important can it be if it prevents me from doing any real creating or searching exploring experimenting etc… almost like the fear of disappointing others only leads to me disappointing myself. Or whatever. and obviously the answer is to stop looking at instagram lol

#rolling my eyes at myself #especially instagram has disconnected me so much from what I want to make / the voice I used to have in my art #like I feel like I can’t post about gender bc last time I did people who followed me who don’t kno I’m trans said terrible shit to me <3 #I know none of it matters at the end of the day I need to listen to my insides . but my insides have learned how to be quiet … :/// #personal

[nachosforfree]

there is something trapped inside of you and it will rip you apart if it means escape

#em draws shit #art #digital art #digital #original #blood #eye strain #bright colors #sheen this is the 7th week in a row where you've made artwork about how disconnected you are from your body and its perceived gender

[scytheral]

✦ㅤDETANOMiNALㅤA term for when One finds Names / Pronouns one Likes , but When they ' re Used on One , One feels disconnected. Which makes one Cycle through Names / Pronouns.

[ PT / Detanominal: a term for when one finds names/pronouns one likes, but when they're used on one, one feel disconnected. which makes one cycle through names/pronouns. / END PT. ]

─── ✦✦✦ ───ㅤFlag made by The Prince , OG Coining post Here.ㅤ─── ✦✦✦ ───ㅤ꒰ㅤTag : @purietteㅤ꒱

#✦⠀⋯⠀In evil Sacrilege #Detanominal #Disconnected #Cycle #( Unsure of How the Flag looks .. Hope it ' s Well ) #term flag #flag coining #mogai #mogai blog #mogai post #mogai friendly #mogai flag #mogai pride #mogai community #mogaireal #mogai identity #mogai gender #mogai heaven #pro mogai #actually mogai #paradoxgender #identity coining #liom flag #liom gender #actually liom

[dilfsisko]

Pros to dressing hyper feminine: heehee hoohoo pretty dress

Cons to dressing hyper feminine: being called maam, miss, girl, etc etc

#els.txt #like I know I will never be able to present androgynously (too fat) but I don’t necessarily want to #and I do actually really like a hyper feminine persona sometimes #but. I’m still NOT a woman so there’s a little disconnect #gender euphoric until someone thinks I’m a girl

[not-a-newt]

Excerpt from Mass Effect Initiation on other species' perceptions of volus gender

#Mass effect #mass effect initiation #mass effect andromeda #mass effect novels #mass effect lore #mass effect world building #volus culture #gender in scifi #space newt #newt reads #I personally hc that they're all reproductively intersex #with multiple complex gender roles/identities that are entirely disconnected from sex

[demenior]

Animorphs au where tobias' human morph is a girl instead of a boy due to the Ellimist 'screwing up' ? I think it would be good for Transfemme icon Tobias tbh

I'll be perfectly honest, in my mind overall VERY little would change to the plot for this au, but for the internal character development:

I think this would end up amplifying Tobias' disconnect from humanity even further

He would go through a period of 'i guess i should be mad about being a girl, but i'm not. i don't think i'd even feel like myself in my original body'

Preteen kids are already so easily gender ambiguous that I don't think there would genuinely be much issue for human-morphed Tobias to pass as a boy in public

It's the 90s. Everyone has long hair and as long as you aren't showing your midriff (wearing a crop top and/or low rise jeans), you're basically a boy.

Ultimately I think Tobias would hit a zen about his new gender, and then, find the whole thing funny in a very Tobias kind of way.

People are so obsessed about girl and boy stuff when none of it matters!!!

There could be a lightbulb moment for Tobias re: genderism, nonbinary-ism, trans-ness, etc, but he has much more improtant things to focus on (the war, for one)

Meanwhile I think Rachel would be having a Bigger Issue over Tobias' "gender" change

She would be torn about trying to force Tobias to be a girl now (because now he's a girl!! Obviously!) but also knowing Tobias was a guy, and how does this work???

There would be some very intensive Girl Best Friend moments between Rachel and Tobias where she is figuring out that, yes, she can still have a crush on Tobias even though he's "a girl" now

She convinces herself this is because he used to be a guy, and now he's a hawk, so it's already weird enough that it loops back to being Fine

Some time in the early 00s Marco and Tobias are indulging in anime subs and get to the Sailor Stars in the Sailor Moon anime and Marco would point so quickly at the screen that he punches the computer while he screams "THAT'S YOU!!!!!!!"

#animorphs #in my head in this scenario i think tobias would default to male pronouns #regardless of his gender ID #because i think tobias gets too disconnected from his human self to necessarily care about his ID #but if he WAS more into his human self #then he might investigate pronouns and maybe change his #but he doesn't get the chance for that before heading off into space with Jake and co on The Rachel :)

[toastsnaffler]

in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns- #that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭 #to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space #like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use- #to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol) #to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum- #or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else #other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh #to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn #i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding #and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt #unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world... #its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow #and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while.. #anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation #abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol #and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever #and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress #i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters..... #altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes #like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up #a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl #ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs #im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌 #another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo #.diaries #zzzzz

[jedlknight]

i guess i'm a girl but it's like. if you wrote the word "girl" on an etch a sketch and then did a really half assed job of shaking it to erase it

#genuinely feel so disconnected with gender as a whole atp but. whatever we'll figure it out eventually #sam.txt #gender things

[mobblespsycho100]

not my previous opinion on firefly coming to bite me in the ass JAHDJSHJD

#honestly her design is iconic #i think its the least fanservicey design hsr made so far #barring the child/younger teen characters' design obviously #firefly's design is still very gender and cute while being practical #also ofc Sam. is Sam. we love u sam. sam firefly. IHwdsjssjeheueb explodes #(for context i was previously unhappy with the fact that firefly and sam is one and the same) #(because i wanted a playable robot/mecha) #but kamen rider magical girl firefly who pilots / transform into huge metal warrior sam is so fun which i love #and the fact that firefly is canonically like . an biologically manipulated or engineered human #and is very much . older than a lot of our cast #first stellaron hunter (super cool) #the way her name signifies how her life is like #chefs kiss design #winx club looking ass splash art name title . thats a compliment btw #im very much looking forward to looking at her beautiful eyes up close . and also running around as a tall metal guy with fairy wings ahaha #kamen rider moment truly.... #also ppl saying its a clara svarog situation isnt getting it #clara and svarog are seperate characters just one in the gameplay #as svarog is claras robo dad/protector and just fights for her #honestly shouldve been clara & svarog like how topaz & numby are called that #but firefly is firefly. SAM is SAM. theyre one and the same #SAM is her alternate identity as a weapon and firefly is her true self #MAN.... #i think writing wise fireflys ''death'' was still not as hard hitting as possible #it was mostly shocking #which isnt bad writing #i still got attached to her #but when it was sad for trailblazer it just felt like a WTF WHAT. HUH moment for me #which kinda has like a disconnect #anyway im rambling too much

[punisheddonjuan]

There are days where I feel like I rolled up a Bard but got stuck using the Barbarian miniature.

#blog #personal history #i.e. my sense of self and my bearing is utterly at odds with my physicality #this isn't a gender thing more of a general physiognomical disconnect

[pizzapasta23045]

Kaeya Alberich: his gender presentation is just flamboyant, whatever looks most out of place but still pretty at the moment. Gender is a performance and he's gonna give it his all because at the end of the day gender's all about presenting, life is a stage and he's the main event.

Albedo: What is gender? Is that, like, a food?

#what i think about kaebedo's gender presentation #kaeya is just a drama queen #albedo has never hear of a gender before and he does not care #it's the 'tism and inhumanity he's so deeply disconnected from gender as concept it's unreal #autistic albedo #autism impact #textpost #kaeya alberich #albedo #kaebedo