#if this comes off as passive aggressive then sorry

[felixfeliccis]

I love getting infantilized on the internet it's so fun ^^ (irl too) (<- all of this is /s btw)

#comic #comics #trans guy #transmasc #trans man #lgbt memes #lgbtqia+ #trans meme #trans memes #trans #if this comes off as passive aggressive then sorry #it was meant to be just aggressive #like damn my bad for noy wanting to be treated like a goddamn uwu baby boi #christ #sorry im very passionate abt this #it was even worse on twitter

[kosmicfeelings]

get loved, nerd

You get loved, nerd

#asks #answered #if this comes off passive aggressive I’m sorry😭😭 I’m usually passive aggressive #BUT THANK U WOWNWKQNW

[vitamin-zeeth]

every time I see someone with a doctor who take or theory or anything that puts any weight whatsoever on 13s run I like immediately stop reading and just skim the rest of it. No hate to them I just

- didn't like the run

- gave up watching it during the timeless child arc cause the lore inaccuracies pissed me off

- generally ignore its existence cause it's easier

#to me everything osst like her first season is not canon sry #i didnt like the direction the show took i didnt like thewriting style or the general production style #it kinda felt like a weird dream id have when i was ill and had just been watching a bubch of dr who #also im a jay exci fan forever and always so the 5 Hour Dr Who Video Essay is a big part of my dislike #they made some great points and put ibto words loads of vague feelings id had about the series in a way i really liked #i only realised recently that a lot of dw tumblr is actually way into 13s run lmao so maybe this is a controversial take #but if it is then BREAKING MY SILENCE EXCLAMATION MARK EXCLAMATION MARK SHOCKED FACE SERIOUS FACE F WORD FACE #sorry non dw mutuals for putting more dw on your dash also trust me on this im really correct and cool and you agree with me B) #i also really hope this doesn't come off as passive aggressive towards anyone other than chris chibnall idgaf what you guys vibe with #anyway #dw #doctor who #look. chibnall made some wild lore decisions in his run that imo he did not by any means earn. so for that fuck you chibnall

[you-will-return]

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#sorry for being so afk recently #it probably won't change #i haven't had a calm moment since mid-December and it's starting to gnaw at my brain #and now the only irl place where I felt somewhat happy is falling apart bc of in-group-politics #it's so annoying #can't we just all breathe for a second? #can't everyone stop being passive aggressive assholes to each other for FIVE FUCKING MINUTES? #i don't want to pick sides #i don't want this stupid group to break apart #something has been feeling off since October and last week my friend and I finally put our finger on it #and BOY figuring it out has.not.helped. #meanwhile all I've been doing has been watching old races from the 90s #bc the only thing that makes my brain shut up at the moment is cars going vroom in a circle for 1.5hrs apparently #every irl interaction atm feels like walking on egg shells #and the only thing that's stopping me from crying every time i get home is just keeping myself busy and not thinking abt my life ever #anyway my insurance has blocked me from therapy for the next 3 years so that's great #.....i don't want to come on here and just complain but nothing has been going right recently. #maybe i'll be back to normal eventually but not at the moment #not for a while

[lovelaceisntdead]

Dad mad because I didn't make dinner yay now I will dissociate forever

#which I'm sure will not make him more mad. #sorry i didn't know you were coming home late so i had not budgeted energy for cooking #i know it's really inconvenient for you thst my illness effects me I'm really sorry about that. #felt good enough to do a bit of work today but because that's just for me it doesn't count #and now i won't be able to do anything for the rest of the evening :) and he will be passive aggressive with me or just not talk to me :) #i hate that he has this power over me to make me feel so small #I've done so much work in therapy this year with how he makes me feel but what's the fucking point if he still behaves like a child #i constantly feel like I'm walking on egg shells around him #and god forbid anything he ever does upsets me that couldn't be possible. #already having a difficult time today but that's just making excuses according to him #had a migrain scare earlier which really threw me off but i managed to get past it and try and do some work #which made me feel a lot better and more in control ahd then he just fucking shatters it #i don't care if this sounds silly to you reading this I'm really dissociating and I'm trying to process what I'm feeling #so i don't completely shut down because that will make everything worse

[nooks-cranny-mogai]

Howdy! Could the racist anon’s ask that you replied to have a tw for suicide baiting on it?

Thanks✨

I would but there's 2 issues with that.

1. If I trigger tag it the way it should be (no alt. Words like sewer slide or sui bait, etc or without blocking letters out like su*s*de ba*t*ng, etc) so people can properly block it, it's gonna get blocked entirely by staff and considering staff is probably already looking for me to slip up (considering I'm talking about Palestine, I'm poc, I don't block out words, my previous account got nuked), I really don't wanna take a chance getting reported or getting eyes on me again.

And lastly 2.... That ask is not, legally or literally speaking, a sewer slide bait, especially not a genuine one. Sewer slide baiting is a legal term, it's a word that describes a specific set of illegal actions that lead to someone's death and a kys in my inbox from an anon is not sewer slide baiting in the slightest. They don't actually expect me to take them seriously. Sadly, that action has been given the emotional cheating/gaslighting/narcissist treatment in that they basically mean nothing when you misuse them constantly.

A genuine case of sewer slide baiting has to be done by someone close/with emotional hold on the victim intentionally bullying/abusing them and encouraging them to kts when they know that person is in an emotionally compromised state. It would have to be done in dms, in person by someone i knew and cared about manipulating me in a vulnerable place. Sewer slide baiting is a serious thing and leads to deaths, someone saying kys and a bunch of slurs in my inbox is not as serious as actual fucking sewer slide baiting and I should know, I've gone through it genuinely.

So no, I'm sorry, I won't be tagging something that isn't sewerslide bait as sewerslide bait because it .. well isnt sewerslide bait and im not getting a strike aginest my account for something i dont even agree with.

I may tag it as tw kys or something but I've already trigger warned everything I see needs to be trigger warned like the slurs.

If that's not enough, I'm sorry but no.

#clover speaks #clover vents #i hate the dumbing down of sewerslide baiting to basically anything that hurts someones feelings #ive seen people say saying stand in traffic or take a long walk off a short pier are sewerslide bait #and it isnt you dont know what that crime is or what it means please stop misusing it #btw none of this anger is towards you anon im made at this community for misusing another important word #like how gatekeeping dosent even mean what it actually was about for #also ig part of me feels like it wasnt aimed at you or anyone else it was aimed at me #and i dont really care about it #it didnt really hurt me ive heard much worse from people i used to care about #its a string of slurs and a kys that dosent really hurt anymore in the grand scheme of things #i have over 4 yrs logged on ifunny as an openly bi trans person #ive heard so..... so so so much worse lol #if this is a deal breaker for you im sorry but im not falsely tagging somethinf #not to mention and maybe im reading into it but anon... ur coming off alittle passive aggressive #as if i should of known to trigger tag that #its sort of like watching people get angry for me #like if im not that pressed why are you so pressed when you arnt the victim ig

[sunflowerharrington]

thank you for the tag @slavicviking

1. how many fics do you have on ao3?

10 but i want to delete all of them in the coming weeks when i find my password

2. what’s your total ao3 word count?

idk, i don’t remember the password to my account as of right now

3. what fandoms do you write for?

currently just stranger things but i wanna branch out into other fandoms

4. what are your top five fics by kudos?

i will not be providing links.

the color of lust is red

listen dustin, this is how i met your mother

the trailer “road trip” scene (eddie’s version) (ten minute version)

angel kisses

dreamy

5. do you respond to comments? why or why not?

no, i don’t get comments anymore

6. what is the fic you wrote with the angstiest ending?

he tore you asunder (but i’ll stitch you back together)

7. what is the fic you wrote with the happiest ending

cant remember lol

8. do you get hate on fics?

i hope not. i don’t get comments. but if someone’s talking crap about it behind my back i don’t really care to be honest. opinions are opinions. just as long as i don’t hear about it, we’re cool

9. do you write smut? if so, what kind?

yes and yes

10. do you write crossovers?

yes i do. i have a few in the works. i’m working on one right now and it’s an unpublished it x stranger things crossover fic

11. have you ever had a fic stolen?

yes. someone posted my old works to wattpad and claimed it as their own

12. have you ever had a fic translated?

no

13. have you ever co-written a fic before?

no but i’d love to

14. what’s your all time favorite ship?

me and my bed

15. what’s a wip you wanna finish but don’t think you ever will

steddie bang wip

16. what are some of your writing strengths?

possessed characters, characterization, suspense, argument scenes, i can get a pretty high word count from pretty much nothing, my writing style, smut, SPAG, transitioning into new scenes, separating character voices from one another (if that makes sense?)

17. what are some of your writing weaknesses?

finishing fics, dialogue, flow, idk sometimes my writing feels blocky and clunky, spelling argyle and jonathan and steve and eddie correctly on the first go

18. thoughts on writing dialogue in another language in fic?

i have done this before. i usually do it in italics and put as close of a translation as i can in the author notes. i can only speak three languages so i’m sorry

19. first fandom you wrote for

american horror story

20. favorite fic you’ve written

my steddie bang fic. we have a love/hate relationship

open tag 🤘

#stranger things #eddie munson #steve harrington #steddie #stranger things fanfic #ask game #fanfic #fanfiction #stranger things fanfiction #yeah idk y’all #sorry if this comes off as passive aggressive (i’m not being like that #i was just caught at a bad time lol)

[lilnasxvevo]

Song Lan, Jin Zixuan, and Lan Wangji as housemates and they are all very pleased with their living situation because all three of them have their own special little reason for strongly disliking verbal conversation and they are all so glad their two housemates never try to make small talk with them

#it is a post-it note household not in a passive aggressive way but because all three of them find written communication to be. easier #In My Opinion: Jin Zixuan doesn’t like talking because nothing he says ever comes out right #Song Lan is very close to completely nonverbal and talking takes more spoons than he really has #and Lan Wangji is a delightful combo of -hates most people -hates trying to put thoughts into words -hates being perceived #also they are all autistic obviously #i think I accidentally left Song Lan off the list when I made a list of untamed characters who are the most clearly autistic #bc I…forget he exists a lot of the time OTL IM SORRY ZICHEN

[waterparksdrama]

I find it laughable you said Jawn is an average photographer, and that you can do better despite not being a professional. go on, show us then :)

oh looks like you left out the part where i did actually say his pre-fandom concert photography is some of my favorite but fandom/greatest hits is just average. selective reading i guess!

but anyways. anyone who actively watches this blog and follows us knows that i have shown my own work and knows what my work looks like. if you want to see it, go find it yourself. it's not that hard.

i've been doing photography for 10+ years, i started early high school and photographed my first show in 2015. i work with two publications to photograph shows. technically, i am a professional, this is my work. but i have no Professional Training. i did not go to a school for this, i am self-trained. i do not call myself a professional simply because i am not touring with a band or hired by Major publications. that is my own personal preference to describe myself. but i still have been doing this for 10+ years and going by that, yes, i am a professional. i have gained the right to criticize others works. y'know? like the common thing that does happen in the art industry. criticism is a real thing. not sure if you knew that.

-kirsten

#sorry if this comes off as passive aggressive but if you're going to be that way i will be too #i try my best to keep the argumentative side of me off wpd and on my own blog but dear god you are making it hard

[the-ghost-king]

idk the problem is everyone is so angry all the time... go eat a snack and if you still don't feel better go to sleep for a little while and then if you're not fixed I recommend a shower and some more food... the problem though is that some of you want to be mean

#i hope you get better and stop wanting to be mean to others over things that don't matter <3 #Idk I'm. Not like being passive aggressive here or anything sorry if it comes off that way I'm being genuine #i hope everyone is able to just chill out a lil and like be a lil more content and happy and loving and not be assholes always #delete later or something

[gabriel-landeskog]

I know Trouba is not likable on the ice but the Rangers just had a video on their Instagram of Jacob crying talking about his wife's sacrifices for him. It was really amazing. In a league where a bunch cheat or don't acknowledge their partners, it was very cool to see.

that’s nice, respectfully i still don’t like him but that is a nice story

#sorry if this comes off passive aggressive or anything i assure u it is not #i’m just drunk rn and i can barely see or read living off autocorrect #anonymous #asks

[klngfili]

My friends keep using the term lol and simply expect me to be fine w it

#likr im sorry to them maybe they don't mean it but it comes off so condescending and passive aggressive #it just icks me so much #it activates my fight or flight #delete later #ik theyll just tell me to grow tf up if i mention it #eugghjjhgfghjj

[eggsmuses-a]

/just a gentle bump at people who have followed me first that i have an interest tracker that would be real nice if you filled :D

#/sorry if this comes off as passive aggressive i do not intend for that at all aksbkabs #( out of eggs ) -- ooc

[redwinterroses]

Did you see the news that Ao3 now has offical fandom tags for SMPs like Empires, 3rd/LL, Evo, Origins, etc. (HC still has RPF but it also has Hermitcraft SMP) :D

Just thought I'd let ya know since you have written fics for fandoms in the list~

yes, thank you. I actually reblogged the announcement post when it went up a few days ago.

#haven't had a chance to edit my tags yet because it's a crazy week at work #and frankly i have no mental energy #I'll get to it eventually #sorry if this sounds grumpy. i AM grumpy #and this ask kinda comes off a bit naggy/passive aggressive and mass produced #anyway. sorry. taking my grouch back offline for a bit #redwinteranswers

[thebewilderer]

comment on the bottom of a post: "please reblog this instead of liking it" / "likes do nothing" / "support artists by reblogging their work, not just liking it"

me who was just about to reblog the post: oh okay got it! :) *likes post* *blocks op*

#ih #sorry op maybe you get some people like that but generally it comes off as passive aggressive #and I don't play that game #misc

[gummy-axolotl]

Hey I found your post about antishippers and just wanted to say something about it. Antishippers aren’t people who hate people who ship. They are just anti-proshipper.

Proshippers think that people can ship ANYTHING they want including harmful ships and even make concerning fanart about it (rap3, inc3st, p3doph1lia, etc etc). So yeah.

Proshippers are people who mind their own business. Contrary to what tiktok will tell you, it isn't short for "problematic" it just means they won't bother anyone for their ships.

Ship and let ship.

Don't like, don't look.

The thing is (not sure if you've noticed) but there's a lil button that will let you block people you don't like. You can also adjust filtering in your settings to avoid seeing content you don't like.

Harassing people isn't cool, no matter what you think of them morality-wise.

I do not have any pedophilic, incestuous, or nonconsensual ships. So don't try to say that I do.

I am a proshipper, because I believe anyone has the right to do whatever they want with fiction, as long as it is tagged appropriately.

Pro-ship

Pro as in good.

I hope this helps!

Ps, don't censor your words like that. This isn't tiktok. It just makes you look childish.

#gummyanswers #proship #ask #anon ask #for filtering -> #tw rape #tw incest #tw pedophila mention #wow look if you use tags people who dont wanna see it wont see it! #sorry if i come off as passive aggressive #its because i was being passive aggressive #lmao sorry #but seriously #i hope this was helpful #💜