#it’s really not that hard

[eddiediazswife]

FOR 👏 THE 👏 LOVE 👏 OF 👏 GOD 👏 PLEASE 👏 STOP 👏 TAGGING 👏 BUCKTOMMY 👏 FICS 👏 AS 👏 BUDDIE 👏

#it’s really not that hard #if we wanted to read Bucktommy we would #Buddie #eddie diaz #evan buckley #tommy kinard #911 abc

[spoonmoment69420]

oh yea this also happened i guess

#damn edgeworth just fucking kiss him already #it’s really not that hard #ace attorney #miles edgeworth #phoenix wright #wrightworth #narumitsu #aa

[gloryfore]

The way someone treats you during a discussion/disagreement is so important I can’t even begin to explain it.

Someone who does not care about you will not even think about your feelings, they will say anything to win regardless of how hurtful it is..

But someone who does care about you would never even let it get to that point and would stay respectful.

Stop forgiving people who hurt you and use the ‘heat of the moment’ excuse when they’ve said all they had to say and want you to get over it. They thought it, they said it. If they didn’t think it they wouldn’t say it.

End of.

#ramblings #heat of the moment is bullshit #you can disagree with someone and remain nice #you can argue and not get hurtful #it’s really not that hard

[ofwraithsandwords]

Blacklisting and blocking people who don’t have anything worthwhile to say about any of the BG3 group characters, origin or otherwise, is the best way to curate your experience tbh.

#bg3 #astarion #shadowheart #gale dekarios #lae'zel #wyll ravengard #karlach #halsin #jaheira #minsc and boo #I understand people getting frustrated when an origin character is consistently overlooked #Wyll NEEDS more content and I’m gonna hold Larian to this #I actually like the writing in early access too or at least from what I remember #but cutting down other companions ain’t it #Wyll needs to be lifted UP and not at the expense of characters people like #it’s really not that hard

[edenfenixblogs]

Denouncing antisemitism is fun and easy!

You should try it!

All you have to do is say, in some public way:,

“I denounce antisemitism and won’t tolerate it when I see it.”

And then, just say “Hey! That’s antisemitic! Don’t do that,” when you see antisemitism!

Effort level: 2/10

Impact on your Jewish friends: 10/10

#antisemitism #it’s really not that hard #just try it #it’s really good #it doesn’t even hurt! #it’s good and good for you

[resentful-reads]

I need your words, Kenna. We've established we both feel this attraction between us, but attraction is not consent. You said you desire me, but I need to hear you say you want me to act on this feeling before I do anything else.

Call of the Sea by Emily B Rose

#resentful reads #call of the sea #emily b rose #bookblr #book quotes #book excerpt #consent #consent king #it’s really not that hard #sex tw #respect #we love a consent king #so this is love #romance #romance novel #kenna #spoilers #call of the sea spoilers

[bloodwrittenballad]

to all the people disrespecting joe and his privacy: fuck you. you’re a terrible person. have some fucking respect, he’s just as much of a person as you are and he DESERVES PRIVACY. he’s not just some fictional character you love or an untouchable god. treat. him. with. respect. CELEBRITIES ARE PEOPLE TOO.

#i’m under your bed #joseph quinn #joe quinn #eddie munson #respect peoples privacy!!! #it’s really not that hard #if you do this you’re not a real fan #eddie munson x reader

[raszzpbrry]

I hate when people tell me my FNaF au isn’t canon. There’s a reason people call it “au” in the first place. It’s not supposed to be canon. Please don’t tell someone their AU is wrong.

Please don’t say that it’s not canon. That’s the point. An AU is how YOU imagine the story going. It doesn’t mean you disagree with how the canon story goes necessarily, or that you think your AU is canon, it just means that you’re imagining a “what if” scenario.

Please stop being that one person who goes

“wELl acTuAlLy!”

It’s not funny. It’s annoying. Let people have their own things sometimes. Dear god.

And I’m not saying that all AU’s have to be respected. If the AU is like shipping a minor and adult, go ahead, hate it, I really couldn’t care less. But if it’s just a simple AU that changes the story a tiny bit??? There’s no reason that you should take issue to it..

It’s not that hard to understand. Please just stop with the “but that’s not how the story goes!!”

I’m sorry that this is really long, but I had this happen on discord when explaining the premise of my AU and it’s very frustrating for someone to call you wrong for having an imagination :/

And yes.. I know my AU isn’t canon.. dear lord.

#fnaf au #please #stop doing that #it’s really not that hard #it’s just #annoying

[writers-dilemma]

This blog chose people over a video game

#seriously. #the choice is literally a product or real people’s right to exist #I chose not to buy a product that perpetuates antisemitism #people matter #and a video game doesn’t #fuck hogwarts legacy #fuck jkr #trans rights #human rights #humans over corporations #people over products #it’s really not that hard #to look at a product and see that it’s value is a fraction of that of a single person #it’s value is practically nonexistent compared to multiple communities of people

[softpunkcat]

„but it’s especially hard for parents when their kid comes out as trans, because it’s such a big adjustment—“

literally i do not care. why is your concept of your kid as a person so intrinsically tied with what you perceived to be their gender anyway?

#trans #transfem #transmasc #nonbinary #trans kids #it’s really not that hard #everyone should try to unlearn the gender binary

[saltywinteradult]

i am literally BEGGING reader insert fic writers to use the ”x reader” tag

#all my love and respect for the people who like it #but i’m not into it #and i would really like to be able to filter that stuff out with just ONE tag #instead of manually filtering the ’’[character] x reader’’ tag for every character ever #it’s really not that hard #reader insert fic

[thyramalie]

there's another pinterest account who posts what I post on here without giving me credit

#it’s really not that hard #and they turned off comments akjdhasjkdakfda #hopefully I don’t come across as annoying but it’s just so irritating

[i-love-the-smell-of-your-blood]

Just saw someone bitching about adults shipping real people and the strength it took for me to not start yelling in the comments about how absolutely nasty that is considering they are an adult and ship real people and that the majority of most fandoms are adults whether they want to admit it or not, especially the ones making the art, gifs, and fics they read

#idk I just think that if you don’t like it you shouldn’t look at it #it’s really not that hard #and I think we should be allowed to slap people who decide to shit on people who like something that they don’t like #it’s not my fault your internalized ageism is showing too #ty talks

[faithinlouisfuture]

Just a little FYI, critics of rads aren't automatically "brain dead larries", as you so eloquently put it in a tag I just spotted. Your own side of fandom is actually a bit tired of seeing the same old complaints in the Louis Tomlinson tag about how the whole world is against Louis. Some of us, who are more casual fans, just want to see more of the good stuff that's out there. That's why so many solo Louies hardly ever come here now. It's all a bit "mean girls" with the rad clique looking down on the rest of us. Why should we even try to add to any discourse when it's all so one-sided and just so downright uncivilised? Well done. I'm sure Louis would just love you for that comment.

First and foremost, anyone referring to louies as “rads” is either a harrie or a larrie (don’t know which one you are although there isn’t much of a difference amongst both any way).

If you choose to ignore the obvious and pretend like things are rainbows and butterflies then good for you, live in your delusion - happy delulu to you. Doesn’t mean I have to also. Doesn’t mean I can’t express my own opinion regarding facts plainly visible to anyone, on my own blog. Go live your casual fan life off my blog if you have such a problem with it.

And as you so cutely put it; yeah Louis would love me. Cuz he’s not sitting there reading my tumblr tags and those don’t matter to him in the larger scheme of things any way, what does matter though is the fact that;

- I flew to another country to be a part of his first world tour

- I’ve pre ordered his album and bought his single

- I make it a point to and actually enjoy streaming his music (correctly) almost daily

- I make it a point to and gain actual joy from introducing his music to new people in my life thus increasing his fan base

- I vote for his music when radio stations ask if anyone would like to hear it

- I make regular content inspired by his art work, and from his appearances during and outside of promo for other louies to enjoy

- I participate in Louis related projects (creative or otherwise) whenever louies organize them online

- I fully plan to go see him on tour next year

So in his own words “the best gift a fan can give me is their support”.

What exactly have you done other than send me passive aggressive messages hidden behind the anon feature?

#anon #this stupid clique narrative some of you cook up is so ridiculous #yes some of us are friends on here #that’s literally how it is in any fandom #if you’re SO interested in being friends make an effort #it’s really not that hard #all you have to be a decent human being #and some of you casual fans are so pressed about some of us talking about #discourse too much (which I’m not even considered a discourse blog on here!!!) #then make your own little mutuals group and interact with each other instead of sending whiny baby anons to others #also anyone with even a quarter of a brain can see the obvious bbc radio sabotage #if that’s something you can’t stomach or understand that’s clearly a you problem

[dr-who-asked]

Their ratings in app stores are declining? Huh. That’s weird.

Whatever could they do about that?

#maybe fucking change it back?? #just. a suggestion #if they keep being so insistent on their absolutely idiotic changes the app’s gonna burn #literally everyone hates this; Discord devs #you tried; you failed; that’s life #and it’s Ok! if you’re ready to accept failure and change for the better (in this case: The way it was before) #and that’s ok! as long as you’re ready to accept that your attempt went wrong and change it back to how it was before #it’s really not that hard #discord