#just fuckin respect people

[tarlosislove]

Apparently some kid asked Ronen what he thinks about Rofa fans (Ro and Rafa shippers) ...

Like can we not? do you know how many friendships have gotten weird or completely ruined because people started shipping them?

I know him and Rafa have talked about it before and Rafa's response has been that there are people who genuinely cannot tell the difference between reality and TV fiction so it's fine.

But I'd say that's him being nice because Rofa shippers know exactly what they're doing. They very well know they're not actually T.K and Carlos. They completely sexualize and fetishize Ronen and Rafa, they viciously attack Jessica. I've never seen a Rofa shipper that actually respects them.

#just fuckin respect people #it's actually not that hard to do #stop shipping real people #lgbtq #queer #lgbtqa #911 lone star #911 #gay couple #carlos reyes #tarlos #gay #tk strand #ronen rubinstein #rafael silva #jessica parker kennedy #911 ls #911verse

[theprideful]

hope y’all know that when you say shit like “aro/ace is a white people thing” and “white people made up being nonbinary” you’re erasing queer people of color who ID with those labels and who have fought to be acknowledged and respected because of how white-centered queerness is. it’s especially ahistorical to ignore that the gender binary is a tool of white supremacy and that many african, indigenous, native american, etc communities were what we call nonbinary (two-spirit for native americans) long before white people came along (colonization). stop acting like queer people of color who ID with lesser known identities don’t exist because that only serves to keep white people at the forefront of queerness and lgbt politics.

check out #nonbinaryisntwhite on twitter (or this post), and yasmin benoit’s “this is what asexual looks like” (link 2) (link 3)

#if you think asexuality or aromanticism or nonbinarity is ‘made up’ or ‘only for white people’ just do some fuckin research #and you’ll find that our communities are a lot more varied and diverse than you give us credit for #racism in lgbt spaces can take on many forms #it isn’t just calling black gays slurs and pushing them out of our communities #it’s also acting like they just don’t even exist #it’s erasure and i’m sick of it #it also sucks to hear from poc because respectability politics will get you nowhere #‘oh that’s a white people problem #WE’RE not like that’ #that just throws the qpoc you don’t want to acknowledge under the bus #it does serious harm #racist AND queerphobic #text post #aphobia #racism #enbyphobia #lgbt #lgbtq #whitewashing #transphobia #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #nonbinary

[dont-offend-the-bees]

Not to continue my recent trend of oversharing on tumblr dot com, but I am very much struggling not to feel like I'm doing everything in my entire life wrong at present

#normal things to think after your doctor tells you you need to get a blood test re-taken bc you mistimed your dose #I'm just. I'm tired man. #I've been putting off a phone call for two months #i spend every day lately torn between do I need to go to hospital or am I just unfit and anxious #I rot and decay when left alone but also people are Too Much #I want to Create but I can't get started and when I do I'm just so disappointed with whatever I make #I'm exhausted but I'm awake at 4am bc if i go to sleep tomorrow will start and I'll have to do this all again #and I need so fucking badly for someone to just crush me so hard in a really long hug until my bones realign #and i need to find past me shake her by the shoulders and yell “you're fine! you'll be fine! cut your hair! eat your greens! #take up swimming and also some new pronouns! no one else will respect em but they're for YOU and so is the health stuff #please for the love of fucking god just look after yourself better than i did!“ #there's toooooo many fuckin holes in this sinking ship #I need a full body MOT and then to be cradled against the chest of a large gentle man for 12-36 hours #mr. bees speaks

[corvidcrybaby]

A HELLSING QUIBBLE THAT DRIVES ME NUTS WHEN PEOPLE GET WRONG

Alucard ALWAYS believed in Seras. Was Seras tiresome to him in her hesitance to embrace her vampiric nature, refusing to drink blood until she deemed it was time? Sure. But never forget that the literal first interaction surrounding this between the two ended with Alucard basically going "ho hum, if you insist, Police Girl" and then saying there was a place for her all the same. When Walter questioned him about why he turned someone so unlike him, Alucard's immediate response is to enthusiastically defend Seras and praise her resolve and her stubbornness. Never forget that his words of her were "She'll drink. All in due time."

ALUCARD ALWAYS BELIEVED IN SERAS.

#hellsing #hellsing ultimate #hellsing fandom #hellsing fanfic #it just drives me nuts when people play it as though alucard just openly fuckin hated her #like NO DUDE vlad is just a grump he always liked and respected seras otherwise he wouldnt have turned her #like he basically says as much #when he gloats over his victory against walter he includes seras alongside integra #they're both mine etc etc you cant have them van helsing parallel with mina etc

[anotherpapercut]

absolute worst thing about working with small children is not being able to cuss. sometimes I need to say goddammit

#today one of the kids said something incredibly fucking mean to another kid #and it took SO much restraint not to say 'what the fuck did you just say to her?' #i really hope some of these kids like. learn to be nice before they become adults because oh my god #one of them wont stop being transphobic to my coworker so hes not allowed in her room anymore because he was being so awful #and hes fuckin 8 years old! 8 entire years old and being wildly bigoted! and i don't think its his parents #bc his sister is extremely fuckin respectful. literally corrects other kids who call me mr or miss and tells them i dont like that #so why is her brother wildly transphobic and mean as hell to other kids and shes like one of our best behaved #i dont get it #i want to be patient and understanding but when theyre bullying other kids like! im not gonna let them traumatize people #because they havent figured out kindness yet #idk #its frustrating sometimes

[grimalkinmessor]

Touch Starved L vs. Touch Averse Light: FIGHT!!!

#death note #lawlight #this actually one of my angstier ideas for them and i adore it unhingedly #because once he has permission to touch light i.e. being in a relationship with him he never wants to stop #he wants to climb all over light and hold him and discover every part of him with his fingertips and eyes #and light just fuckin....cant stand it #unlike L who only has watari who is probably not the type to regularly give out hugs or even fatherly pats #light regularly has people hanging all over him and touching him without permission so they feeling of someone all over him skeeves him out #he has to be in a very very specific mindset to enjoy touch and honestly its not as often as L would like #i imagine them getting into fights about it often 💕 #light feeling like his boundaries arent being respected (they arent) and L feeling like he's being rejected (he's not) and neglected (he is) #it would be an awful awful time and would take much time and communication and screaming to work through!! :D #im in a pain mood today ✨ #yagami light #l lawliet

[spotsupstuff]

Is notos' jaw practical aside for religious reasons?

that thang doesn't even allow it to cleanly expresses in that minimal way its siblings can </3 not that it Would express Much even if it could, but still. the impracticality is why it threw a bedsheet over that puppet and left it to just lie in the chamber the moment its citizens ascended (since the puppet is specifically there for interaction with Ancients and such, with them gone the Whole thing became useless according to Notos)

the only good thing about the jaws is the spooky factor. Notos likes the spooky factor

#Spot says stuff #rw #oc tag #Notos is scary in both a serious way and a silly way n i fuckin love it so much #durin the revolution it functions as a fuckin Enforcer. it uses nasty tactics to keep people who dont respect the Mission Self-preservation #-in line for the sake of everyone else. you get contacted by Biting Notos you know you did smth wrong. but ALSO its a kid in a bedsheet. #in a 'everyone lives together in an apartment' au Notos would do shit like stand in a long dark hallway with its head hung down just for- #-the sake of its enjoyment out of making other peoples hearts jump JGSDJLKSDJLK euros n fish get got most often

[translightyagami]

the actual thing that becomes “part of your identity” or whatever as a trans person is 1) people just say insane shit to you as though it is fine because you are trans and 2) you have to start judging whether its worth saying “what the hell?” or just going “uh okay” and walking awat.

#family members love to just say shit and force you to absorb it like a fuckin’ radioactive wave #and honestly randos do it too #all because even well meaning cis ppl can have a tough time rmbring trans people are humans with feelings #and not textbooks or stick figures or That Guy on TV #even the Guys on TV have feelings and inner lives that should be respected #strange but true!!

[problemnyatic]

fucking your friends needs to be more normalized tbh. Like you don't have to want to, but it shouldn't be any weirder a concept than wanting to fuck a romantic partner. Which, also, someone being a romantic partner shouldn't come with an *expectation* of sex, so really this is a double-important way these things should be likened

#this post is brought to you by us spending literal years being terminally insecure about being a sexually active aro #if wanting sex without there being some obligation of romance was normalized it wouldn't've been a fuckin issue. lmao. l m a o . #sex is a form of intimacy! It's not an inherently posessive or self-serving act!! #Sex is not Taking and if it is something is either wrong or you're having a *great* time in your kink life #but the latter requires communication of boundaries and desires and a mutual respect. #This just wouldn't be an issue if folks jus let go of their normative views of what sex is and what it means and what it's for #Sex is not conquest. It is not inherently romantic. It is not a ~statement~. It is not an assertion of power. It's just sex folks #It's pleasure. It's intimacy. It's bodies touching. It's skin on skin and a sharing of desire. It's an act between people. #Anything else is what you bring to it #aromantic #queer shit #mumblr #problemnyatic thoughts #what was our queue tag

[seraphbutch]

me moving my friend out of her house and into mine on Christmas bc she got kicked out by her abusive fiance only for me to wake up to her sleeping on the couch with said abusive ex

#you literally cant make this up #do people just like not have basic respect anymore lmao #like girl are you fucking kidding #THE EX HAS HER OWN PLACE BTW THEY DONT HAVE TO BE AT MY FUCKING HOUSE #i feel so defeated and like a fuckin prisoner in my own home #vent

[sleepygaymerdisease]

guys i think this website is recreating misogyny

#i cant say specifics of what the media is or who the character is but like. if theres a character (who happens to be a woman) who is never #directly shown on-screen. but shes absolutely integral to the plot. and it's all with an extremely serious tone. maybe headcanoning them as #a silly ditzy bimbo wifey who believes in astrology and doesnt know anything about computers and her only interests are animals and plants #and taking care of her husband and cleaning the house and she also only wears bright pink and dyes her hair bright pink...... #maybe. just maybe. thats fuckin awful?!?!? 💀💀💀💀 #IM GOING INSANE HERE. LIKE GOD DAMN I THIUGHT I COULD TRUST TUMBLR USERS ABOUT THIS MEDIA TOO. I WAS SO WRONG. BLOCKED INSTANTLY. #also im not even going to begin to tackle the casual whitegirl racism involved with the interests listed for this character. like idk people #loooove to be vaguely spiritual without respecting a single culture who actually does these practices. 😀. #but im so mad like. i cant even say shit like 'ummm think about this for a sec!!' because the OP clearly put tons of time and effort into #their insanely misogynistic post. multiple drawings lined and full colored. like. they thought about this and thought it was amazing. 😐 #anyway... ive noticed lately that a lot of people think misogyny is a dying bigotry or that its 'not as serious' as other forms of hatred? #but sexism is a very real systemic and individual issue. drawing cismenkissing.png doesnt auto-clear the sexism allegations 🫢 #anis gaymer moments #ok sorry for the long rant im done now i prommy

[nyan-bynary]

We live in actual hell I think

#I'm so deeply disappointed in half the leftist westerners I've seen #like yes iran had every right to retaliate bc isreal declared war basically #no the people in iran don't want this fuckin war but our government will absolutely escalate to distract people with war instead of- #-all the shit happening in the country for over two decades now #this is literally just another stupid push and pull from two fashy governments that actively benefit from war political wise #but yea all the lefties praising iran fully have lost my respect #WE DON'T FUCKING WANT THIS STOP 'rooting' FOR YOUR FAVORITE GENOCIDE GUY AND PROTEST ALL OF THIS MAYBE #IT'S FUCKING 5 AM #me and my gramma have been up all fucking night bc there are banging sounds outside #I've never seen this woman scared but she hasn't so much as napped all night #also you world war 3 jokes are shitty and cruel

[angelnumber27]

People taking and posting videos of “crazy ladies” for views and likes is something I see a LOT of now and it is honestly really fucked up. Have you ever considered that the people in these videos could be mentally ill or struggling with substance abuse? I’m not excusing anybody who harms others, I’m just talking about how it is rude and unfair to take and post a video of somebody else having a breakdown or dealing with severe mental distress.

#if your ass was in psychosis or having an episode you wouldn’t think it’s so fuckin funny #people need to learn basic empathy #and how to be halfway decent at the least #I hate this era of tech where people just record strangers and post it constantly it’s weird like have some respect for privacy plz

[nerosdayinanime]

more jjk sillies bc theyre fun

#neros art tag #jjk #spoilers in tags #oc: icarus #oc: aether #jjk oc #'dead guy' being potato junpei whos actually still alive to their surprise #drew/redrew a few of the incorrect quote things we made of them #didnt get to do the misery/reeses puffs/cpr joke [pensive] (junpei icarus aether respectively) #also all of the old ones had the hair parted to the wrong side lmao #explanation/context again: icarus has a ver of the gojo special eyes and can see how cursed energy flows- mahito cracks the soul open to #transfigure people(not canon- my interp) h icarus can mold the souls he's cracked open. they resuscitate junpei and become a little curse #user trio- they teach junpei how to properly use cursed energy and such- then during the culling games #yuuji & junpei reunite- them & aether go to find hakari while icarus offered to go find megumi for him #megumi does not trust strangers #its been fuckin ages since ive read the manga i havent kept up w it outside of snippets i see on tumblr i have no clue whats going on #'HEY MAN WHAT THE FUCK. DUDE. I WAS SENT BY YUUJI YOU DICK- i stfg if my appendix ruptures bc of that youre paying my medical bills-' #oh yeah also i missed it when i was looking back Aether can also bite people to sap cursed eneegy. when she bites tho it becomes Hers #instead of just withering away. void & icarus do their own thing- run a little shop that dissuades small cursed spirits from ppl & makes #life a little easier for some. theyr not anything big theyre just trying to have fun & help a few ppl out along the way #oh ya first set they were watching yuuji & nanami go ham on mahito #'we probably shouldnt fuck with that..'

[lllluka]

it’s so funny that ML tries to imply that rock music isn’t repetetive af (as opposed to “modern” pop & other genres) and has some moral high ground because it’s supposedly “deeper” than other genres and “more sincere”, when in reality this specific American rock is mostly centrical to themes of sex, drugs and money & half of the time these songs pad the length via repetition anyway

obviously political rock is completely different, but jagged’s target audience is literally tweens so i really don’t think it’s that deep. this is so stupid omfg

Edit: Tone here is easy to misread but unfortunately this is the post that everybody is seeing. I’m criticising the media trope, not music. I love rock. Sorry for not being clear on that. PLEASE read this post: x . 

#the lbr teens hear one (1) power chord and thing it's the most intricately written shit they've done ever heard #the implication that luka likes some fuckin rolling stones ripoff the 'ronning stoles' just calls into question how many #deeply deeply sad patterns in rock music he has a shallow perception on #like I enjoy rock & metal as much as all the band boys do but like. you're idolising such a deeply concerning lifestyle #I mean I don't think his character would take it lightly but also like. people see his character as so innocent because he's respectful. #but the music he grew up & the artists he idolises are yknw. #luka says he doesn't wanna be a rockstar like jagged but it's pretty obvious why #anyway i was thinking abt this because i had the urge to listen to sympathy for the devil and could not wait out the length of the song #i swear some of this stuff is so much more repetetive than pop

[andthebeanstalk]

Me, 4 years ago: Boy, I sure love the song "Guitar Hero" by Amanda Palmer! But I can never clearly hear what it is she shouts in this one segment - I'll just look it up real quick!

...

[it was the n-word]

#original #amanda palmer #dresden dolls #and that's why I can pinpoint the exact moment in time I stopped looking up to Amanda Palmer #she's a white lady there is no excuse. cartoonishly 'white feminism' nonsense. #it is additionally bizarre bc it has nothing to do with the song. like there's nothing she could have done to justify it but it's #so nakedly just for flavor. racist racist flavor. i was fucking horrified #it is one thing to make art exploiting your own trauma but to be white and to exploit black trauma in your art is such fucking garbage #like I don't think that when someone makes tasteless art about abuse we should demand that they out themselves as an abuse survivor #but something fuckin tells me Amanda Palmer has never experienced anti Black racism #and it's really hard to give her the benefit of the doubt that she's approaching art about other people's trauma in good faith + w/ respect #when she clearly thought this was just... funny? cool? i have no idea what. i mean talk about losing a role model in 5 seconds flat! #imagine being white and saying the n word and then recording yourself in a song saying it and releasing a music video for that song #at least the other racists have a good sense not to record themselves saying it Jesus Christ what a stupid thing to do #how often are you using that word that you felt like it was time to put it in a music video?? I often have trouble hearing lyrics #but usually i work them out from context clues. I never caught this one bc it has no context #and bc I truly believed she was better than that so it never even occurred to me. like all of her edgy artsy bullshit was not fun anymore