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winslowat3am · 2 years
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I need your help, from a bro to another bro‼️‼️ I’m hanging out with a girl but I don’t like her enough to date her but she want to add me on ig but I don’t want to add her for a few reasons: I don’t want her to see all the pages I follow and my privacy and I don’t want to put my energy into a relationship I don’t want, what would you do? Should I just give it to her or no?
If you don't like her that way why would you give her your social media? Cause then she's probably going to bother/stalk you there. & if there are things you share about your personal life there that you don't want her sniffing through just lie, make up some excuse why you don't want her to have it, it's what I've done when people I don't really like/trust or seemed shady asked for mine. Example: "Hey, what's your Facebook?" "You know, I actually don't use Facebook anymore, yeah I accidentally locked myself out, sorry. Bummer." & then you flip it on 'em, you hit 'em with the "give me a way to contact you!" with no intention to follow through. I do that A LOT, I hate to admit it. I'll humor them for a while but then it's like I'm over it & they start to annoy me. 😂 I kind of understand your situation, though, cause earlier this year I ran into a woman in Publix that I used to go to school with that had a crush on me back when we were "kind of" cool (she was friends with my brother), & we got to talking, she eventually asked for my number talking about we could catch up sometime & I gave her my old one that's probably somebody else's now, & I still feel a little bad when I think about it cause I don't like lying, but I'm taken & I already knew her intentions. Would've felt worse saying "no thanks." It's so weird, just imagine. Right after I got married she popped up & another girl I used to date (& could've sworn I blocked) followed me on IG & messaged me asking how I was doing. Lol. I just, I don't know, I generally don't like people, & I don't like people trying to befriend me, that's the REAL underlying reason. I'm an introvert & I'm picky about people I deal with. I'll have a conversation with you & be nice, give you advice to resolve your problems (if I care enough) but I'm not your friend. I'm friendly but I'm not friend-ly, there's a difference. Never understood why people try to get you to move from one app/site to another app/site, UNLESS they're trying to date or scam you or be nosy. It's hella invasive to ask for someone's socials instead of their number when you're just getting to know them, imo. Sometimes you just don't want certain people following you/in your business & that's okay. I curve muthafuckas all the time. My advice is to lie. 😈 *Laughs maniacally* Ah yes, the beautiful white lie. I bet you thought I was going to say something wholesome & be like, "tell the truth, she deserves it!", nope. Not feeling especially good natured today. Good luck, you sexy king.
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jeffblimchat · 3 months
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A post for all new and longtime Jeff Blim livestream viewers and chatters. Welcome! (updated on March 8 2024)
*This tumblr has a discord server btw, https://disboard.org/server/1178351989009170573
*check https://starkid.fandom.com/wiki/Jeff_Blim to compare facts here. For now, the wikia is more updated than this since everyone knows where it is. But this post has further information than the one in wikia.
Sometimes we read the same questions over and over on his stream and he has answered all of them in the past. Or accidentally ignores/did not read the old, repeated question, so he can't answer because he's busy doing stuff on the stream. And sometimes, instead of giving the answer to our fellow fans, we just give joke answers instead because we are that silly. I'm trying hard to remember fun facts/stuff he shared on his livestreams and will update if I can. Please help with mistakes on recollection to avoid fake facts. Thank you...
I. The Content in his livestreaming. Well, most days we listen to demos, Jeff live composing his music/songs and some of them are spoiler-less clues to up-and-coming StarKid shows, showcase his difficult and complex relationship with Logic and Stream labs (gee, that sounds familiar. There is screaming/shouting and desk hitting, followed by amazing wit to calm his nerves) listen to him improv and say funny things sometimes based on what Chat is typing about. And have that clout chaser and clout black hole named Jon Matteson as his guest in his streams, most of the time via phone call. If Jon ever gets on his stream, good luck trying to get attention from Jeff on the chat lol. The bromance is strong in this one (although I have gotten Jeff's attention once while Jon was on stream but it was about Jon haha).
Sometimes Jeff just wants to hang out and talk anything, jam with his piano, answer personality quizzes that we give him, give out audition advices (Uncle Jeff's audition hotline. make sure to identify when he's being sincere and when's he's joking/being sarcastic), talk about his hobbies, do spreadsheet baseball... On his hot takes, they are plainly hot takes and you don't have to agree with whatever he says. His hot takes are, half of the time, for entertainment purposes only. Send acting audition help inquiries to [email protected] to make your dream work. More cheaper charges than the one in Broadway Plus. You can also DM Uncle Jeff on his active social media accounts (Twitch, IG) No silly messages pls. Just acting audition help business ONLY. His rates are 75 dollars per hour, 50 for half. To those who can afford, he has a patreon page if you want downloadable copies to the songs he composes on his streams. The link is in his Twitch and YT pages.
II. Music 1. He started learning the piano as a young boy. His teacher was a Russian woman (I can't remember her name). Then he switched to the trumpet and told his father he didn't want to play the piano anymore. 2. He was never a member of a drum corps but went to a camp for it by the The Cavaliers. 3. He only joined Amazin Blue, an a cappella group in UMich, because he wanted to be in a band. He ended up becoming their music director because he wanted every member to have a song where they provided the main vocals, which is something that he butted heads with previous music directors in the past. He won an award for a cappella arrangement for his work with Amazin Blue. Their two albums (Shades of Blue and Self-Titled) can be found in Bandcamp One of his former fellow members in AB is also famous now. The half of the team behind Dear Evan Hansen, Justin Paul.
5. He was a trumpet player at the church where he grew up. (one of his first jobs). 6. According to him, he used to listen to awful Christian rock while growing up. 7. His dad is a retired band director. 8. Likes The 1975 9. He mentioned in Feb 23, 2024 on his stream that he does not want to sing Get In My Mouth live again because he does not want to relive the memory of playing a giant spider. He still thinks it's a great song.
III. Jobs First: Taking out the trash for a neighbor. Second: Trumpet player at the church where he grew up. Third: High school - Trumpet player and played as an "executioner" at a Medieval Times Dinner Theater (??? I'm not well-versed about this as I don't live in the US). After college, while looking for acting jobs and writing TTO. New York City Fourth: Carrying signs for Disney at Times Square. Fifth: Theater Usher (his favorite job). Los Angeles Sixth: working for THAT infamous Los Angeles escape room that he got from Nick Lang. Seventh: Full-time streamer, actor, singer, composer, dancer, acting coach, Internet Uncle to 20+ nephews and nieces 😆 around the world. A. One of his fave TV jobs is his appearance on HBO's Veep because he loves the show. B. On the 911 episode where his chef character accidentally hurts himself, he said he didn't particularly enjoyed his time shooting that ep because he was strapped with a heavy object on his chest during the bloody scene. C. Shooting 24/7: Lego Maniac was fun Eighth: He said a few times he's not auditioning anymore and will only take roles offered to him. Whether it's a joke or not, let's just take that as fact for now lol. There was a phase in his life that he got tired of auditioning (NYC, while writing TTO).
IV. StarKid Stuff
(while answering a personality quiz and as of late 2023 or early 2024) Fave Hatchetfield musical: Black Friday. (while answering a personality quiz as of late 2023 or early 2024) Fave LiB: Nibbly. For the longest time, he considers "Lost Without You" as his/one of his favorite songs that he wrote because it's his first ballad. Generally, if you ask him what's his fave StarKid song or what's his favorite play/musical he was a part, he can't/won't choose because he considers all of them his favorite. 2. I've read this many times, Max Jagerman was never written for Jeff. He may replicate the energy but he is too old to play a high schooler. Can you imagine him doing the shirtless scene during Dirty Girl? His body is no longer like when he did Aladdin in Twisted. He is no longer in his 20s. 3. He said he had the most fun composing for Black Friday.
V. StarKid Tangent Stuff 1. As of Feb 2024, Jeff announced that Rim Tim Timmy is dead. RIP Rim Tim Timmy. :,-( Meanwhile, his sister (chat head canon and Jeff laughed at the name) Rim (Ram) Tam Tammy is alive and well, thank yewww.... VI. Movies 1. For list of movies he loves, check out Rim Tim Timmy's Movies Movies Movies. Yes, you don't know half/most of the movies he likes cause he's old and you're a Gen Z-er. Get a grip. 2. His first and only appearance so far in a full length film is in his brother's indie movie Mondo Hollywoodland. As of now, the movie is available to watch for free in some streaming sites. VII. Likes 1. Coffee once a day, most of the time spending 10 dollars a cup from a shop. He has thankfully quit on nitro. He describes it like a drug addiction he needs to curb. He wants the baristas who are serving him to have that indifferent vibe.
2. Spreadsheet baseball. He plays with classic/ old school famous baseball players. He used to just play on an excel spreadsheet that he made himself until a fan who showed up on one of the TGWDLM showings and told him that he can compete with other people online.
3. Is a fan of the up and coming sport of arm wrestling. He only watches people arm wrestle, not engage in one.
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six-of-ravens · 1 month
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aloha friends and people who left annoying incorrect opinions on my posts, raistlin is a waif he is the waifiest waif it doesn't matter if his twin is a brick shithouse you are WRONG I am kinda sorta back. maybe only for one tipsy night, but who knows. listen, I'm 1.5 ciders in and feeling Properly Tipsy as opposed to last night when I drank jack and cokes for the first time in a while and just felt nauseous, so I'm Thriving atm. ANYWAY.
i feel like i have cleared some cobwebs from my brain. kind of. mostly i redownloaded bc i have the irresistible urge to natter about my life. tbh i considered deleting tumblr for a while bc there are some things about this site (but also social media in general) that annoy the absolute shit out of me, and also i feel like I dedicated too much ~mental energy~ to this site in the past (not to sound like some new age crackpot) and I need to cut down on how much scrolling and getting mad about other people's incorrect opinions I do. However, there are a few beloved mutuals on here that I miss talking to and also tumblr is kinda Home, y'know?
anyway TLDR I'm back, kinda. might still delete the app during the day so I can focus on IRL shit instead of being a zillennial social media addict, so I apologize if I miss messages etc but. yeah. for the sake of my mental health I have to be better at self-policing. Also, no longer going to allow myself to use the For You tab, so sorry if I don't see your posts bc tumblr only served them there. I can't control it lmao. frankly the algorithm here just ain't good enough and I don't want to cry AGAIN bc a video of a naked woman jiggling her stomach with a caption about how much she hates herself and wants to lose weight came up on my feed. Frankly since this is tumblr I'm not sure if that's porn or self-harm, but either way, fuck off with that shit, man! I kinda hate my body too and I don't wanna see that!! I don't want that in my brain!! Hence why I quit and went to ig-only for a while. My IG is all pottery and miniatures and painting and European travel vlogs it's so PEACEFUL!
now onto the fun stuff, a list of things I consider interesting that happened in the past 3ish weeks:
have done a whole lot of reading lately: Homesick for Another World by Ottessa Moshfegh which is weird and off-putting by very worth reading, then a reread of the Unicorn series by Vicki Blum (always a delight) and finishing Princess Jellyfish (there's quite the plot twist in the last few books but overall it's a delightful series), then my hold for Please Kill Me: The Uncensored Oral History of Punk came up (extremely interesting and worthwhile read, especially after listening to the No Dogs in Space punk series, very sad ending though bc of course a lot of the punk musicians passed away young), and now I'm rereading The Mermaid's Secret and The Dragon Prince by Vicki Blum as a palate cleanser, and then hopefully I'll start the LoTR reread I've been meaning to do for a while. So yeah I read like 16 books in 3 weeks. this is the power of quitting social media.
Also I've kinda discovered that I'm just pretty... disenchanted with all book-fandoms online. it's just so...kinda annoying? nowadays? just the same old drama over and over and I don't caaaare lol. Read what you want, at whatever speed you want, idc, none of it matters. I read for funsies after work. Some people read 24/7 because being a book blogger is their career. Some people are 17 and still have the mental stamina to read a 500 page book in 2 days. Idgaf if you read Maas or Austen or Sanderson or whatever, there's no moral high ground (except maybe not giving Sanderson money bc WOW BYU is a shitty organization). Also I don't necessarily want other people's opinions on what I read or if a book I just bought has "mixed reviews" or whatever (unless the person is a mutual whose opinions I value lol). So I might start posting on the book blog again but just....not interact with booklr. Torn between the desire to communicate with others and the desire to keep my hobby all to myself and free from unnecessary judgement or bullshit.
Finally rearranged my bookshelves, by ~vibe or whatever~. Might post photos tomorrow but the living room is once again in a state of chaos since I started gardening today.
On that note, started my garden! planted some veggies, herbs, and a whole boatload of tomatoes in seedling trays (listen, MacKenzie seed were on sale 3/$5 today at the store and I'm weak for weird tomato variants and herbs. Still need to find rosemary and fennel though). Have more stuff to do, but I'm going to give the seedlings a couple weeks to get started and then maybe plant everything else Easter weekend. Last year was nice, garden-wise, but this year I really hope we don't get 30C weather in May. My allergies cannot handle it 😭
saw the Alien/Aliens double feature our cheap theatre put on and it was a DELIGHT
we also got a record snowstorm that weekend, which sucked bc it was the same week I'd had a random friday booked off (previously for traveling with my aunt, very glad that was cancelled now) so I basically did none of the other things I had planned.
also after said double feature, had to make my first 911 call. luckily I rot my brain with true crime All Day Every Day so I handled it like a pro 😤 (i am fine it was for another person, and uh, it turned out to not be so serious once the emergency people were able to get them to stop crying hysterically and realized this poor person was just intoxicated, underdressed for the weather, and a bit lost)
discovered the health foods store near my place has a bunch of funky herbal teas for like $5.50 a box so I've been going a little nuts there. I LOVE FENNEL TEA IT'S SO GOOD. ALSO LAVENDER MY BELOVED! they also have a bunch of local coffee blends, and I'm seriously considering getting a coffee bean grinder so I can try them
saw Lisa Frankenstein the week after the Alien double feature at that same theatre, it was fucking excellent I laughed my ass off, also at that theatre you can get your ticket and snacks and drink for the same price as a Cineplex ticket, it's excellent
finally watched Saltburn, which was great. love the Donna Tartt vibes. i watched it while somewhat drunk off Soju, which I think is how it's meant to be viewed.
also started a Ghibli rewatch, to justify not cancelling my Netflix just yet (I know I know, I should but I technically can afford it and it's my emotional support streamer you know? how else am I going to instantaneously watch Gilmore Girls on a bad day?) So far I have only watched Kiki's Delivery Service lol
Also, funny anecdote: last week I got my period and was VICIOUSLY craving alcohol. like I went to the store and bought the most bizarre range of random things (soju, honey jack, and mead...and then proceeded to drink them at my normal rate lmao). Realized afterwards this is a combination of my usual craving for sweet things + my very stressed coworker constantly joking about how we need to crack a bottle of something when this stressful project is finished. At the time however I thought my uterus was trying to make me an alcoholic.
Did my budgeting with my new rent and discovered that I'm actually fine, because I had DOUBLED A NUMBER SOMEHOW! and I basically had $150/month freed up. I'm so smart. I continue to procrastinate my income tax though (shhhh I have another month....)
Started writing a vague story about two women hiking to a portal to elfland, which is located near an abandoned train station. There are cultists called vampires living at said train station who are such a fucking delight to write (not real bloodsucking vampires tho, they are currently eating paella 🥘). It's fun and weird and I'm having a good time with it.
started listening to a podcast called No One Should Believe Me about cases involving Munchausens by Proxy, which is very interesting. the host has a sister with (alleged) MbP and genuinely wants to get her (and of course her kids) help, so it's actually a really good, compassionate take on an issue that's usually played for shock value. I have to listen to it slowly though bc it's Heavy
started knitting again! made 1 dishcloth and started a second. have decided I'm going to take these into work when I have a few done. If my boss won't buy us proper cloths then I'll pawn my knitting practice off on them lol
there is a lot of early road construction near my office since, aside from that random snowstorm, it's been a mild early spring. be glad you haven't had to listen to me rant about that lol
finally bucked up and got a duvet cover for my comforter that was lowkey falling apart at the seams. it's a good comforter aside from some light "my washer is evil" damage so I'm happy I can stuff it into a (less expensive) duvet cover instead of having to replace the whole thing
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hammerhead-jpg · 1 year
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Born to "Hiiiiii :3" forced to "What's up" (about me post)
About me page I'm so nervooouussd
I very much wanted to post things for fun and figured I would do it on Tumblr since it seems like a chill place where likes and follows don't matter and also my friends and family (which I'm not out to yet) follow me on every single social media and I do not want them stalking me when I post about who knows what
That being said, I do not come from the golden age of Tumblr or any age really but I do watch Strange Æons religiously so I'm not completely clueless ig, but if I break some sort of unspoken rule it wasn't me
All that unnecessary text aside, hi, my name is Kristian (although that name is not set in stone because I'm indecisive just trans things am I right) and I go by Kris, but you can also call me Hammerhead or Moonshine/Moon
I am a digital artist and have been drawing for like forever and my dream is to one day turn the story I'm currently working on into a visual novel/webcomic
(edit:) I'm sorry if I don't reblog a ton of posts, I know some people view not reposting posts as rude but it's just that I'm not used to being on social media that has a repost feature so I don't have the reflex to repost things
I'm queer and also transmasc <3
(also edit:) sorry if I don't respond to your comments complementing my art, it's just that I get nervous/don't know what to respond with, I assure you the complements are very appreciated and people who like/comment on/reblog my art have a special place in my heart
(also also edit) you can tag me in "tag x people" and tag chains and stuff but I probably won't continue the chain as I probably don't have enough people I would comfortably tag and even in that "would comfortably tag" group I am probably still too shy to tag them, and one or more of those people in that group are usually the ones that tagged me in the first place so it's not really like I could tag the person that tagged me in the tag chain??? Is anything I'm saying making sense???
My current fixations/ the fandoms I'm in are:
Redacted Audio (proud Cutie, Vega n Christian apologist RAAAAHHHHH 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅/j)(also proud Lasko stan and 7eleven trio shipper)
Bungou stray dogs (biggest Sigma stan)
MHA (although I'm kind of out of it, I'm mostly just silently keeping up with the manga but I am still kinda obsessed with mha ocs) (if you hate mha ocs or really any fan ocs DNI because I have like 40 of them) (no I am not a 30 yr. old woman shipping her self insert with Bakugo leave me alone)
Don't hug me I'm scared (not rlly in the fandom)
Chainsaw man (not rlly in the fandom)
Fear and Hunger aka Funger and Gunger (I can't say I'm really in the fandom and can't say I'm that involved into the game it's too big brain for me so I just observe it from afar and laugh at the memes)
DNI lists are kinda useless but racism, sexism, abelism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia ect is not tolerated here but also like if you're one of those people who are really ticked off when they see a minor talking about NSFW stuff and act all wise sage I suggest you DNI because I assure you your rambling and skull emojis are not going to prevent me from developing hypersexuality, you are like 11 years late to that my friend (or if you're just uncomfortable hearing a minor talk about nsfw that's cool too)
And also fuck off if you think sexualizing minors (fictional or not) is okay
This is a xenopronouns/neopronouns, xenogender, furry, therian safe space, I really don't judge
I think this goes without saying but cringe culture is dead, if you get pissy about things being cringy please don't come to the person who's internet alias is literally a Penelope Scott song, other alias is a reference to a gay ship from my hero academia and the person who named themselves "Kristian" because they thought that naming themselves (the atheist) a name that means "God's follower" was hilarious, but again this is tumblr so I expect most people here are cringelords
Anyways, fuck you Adam you can go suck my long horse weewee, Moon x supremacy always
Also if I tell anyone to kts I was just joking PLEASE
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butchmartyr · 11 months
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Hi! I'm getting married (soonish, we haven't set a date yet) to a transfemme who is early in their transition. I met them when they were 18 and j a depressed anxious socially awkward nerd and over the past like ~year I've watched them blossom into themself (it's magical). But as a tme person sometimes i feel like I'm not fit to be the main person supporting them during this journey, bc they don't have any irl tgirl/transfem friends.
Do you have any suggestions? I'm always trying to learn more about transmisogyny. I took them to get an affirming haircut by a woman I met on Lex, I help with makeup. I've been trying to help them make friends bc they still do have like, a diagnosed social phobia lol. I think it'd be good if I WASNT the main support for this stuff in many ways. And they are like 10x as confident now that they present more authentically, but it's a process. And idk. I know them rly well and love them a lot but I worry sometimes that I'm somehow hurting them or doing the wrong thing.
I know I can't do everything for them (codependency lol) but I want to be the best partner I can be. I'm always asking what they want but sometimes it's like, j figuring out as we go bc it's all new. So what would YOU want from a tme partner ig? How do you assume I could be helpful, better, etc?
Feel free not to respond if this is too much. I don't mean to be putting too much on you. I'm just trying to treat my fiance better and better each day (failing sometimes).
hello and congrats!!! first off this is so touching and aaaa. my god. anyway.
it sounds like you’re really on the right track for sure :) friends are extremely important especially for ppl in minority groups that make socializing harder, so trying to help to her get out of her shell and get to know other people is certainly a great idea; both because she deserves having something of a social group, and because like you say, trans friends can be really critical. i can’t speak with authority since I don’t know you & your situation, but it could definitely help with supporting her and whatnot; i value my transfem friends irl a lot and they’re wonderful with buoying my transition. im not sure id say you’re ‘not fit’ for it unless you dont want to be, since there’s a lot of ways to support and be there for someone’s transition. my femme is tme and she has been wonderful with my transition and helping me explore different gender stuff by helping me with womens clothes, sometimes a little makeup, and her support when im mixing things up with my presentation. she’s happy to change and play with her vocab too; when i realized i like being called pretty from time to time now she works it into when she’s teasing me or being sweet, things like that.
as far as other things id want to see in a tme partner, the willingness to look at transmisogyny and learn about it and work it over is pretty important to me; but it sounds like you’re already working on this, so just keep your mind open with a clear heart. if you make a mistake, trust that you can learn from it and move on. id also say to let her be the one to define and speak about her transition and her past as well, and not to get tripped up on gender too much; i had an ex who was a lesbian and hated hearing me talk about my past as a boy. was very unfortunate. so keep an open mind and if you don’t understand something or you’d like to understand more, try not to be too afraid to ask; I can’t speak for her exactly, but I can say i really don’t mind getting asked about gender stuff or transmisogyny since it shows that someone cares and also gives me a chance to make sure we’re on the same page. and also, while this may be a little risqué, so long as she’s not ace or something id think about making sure you touch and love on her body holistically. a lot of trans women don’t get touched like how cis and other women do, so don’t be afraid to get a little handsy if she doesn’t mind it. having our bodies be actively wanted (touching sides, thighs, etc) can be really very wonderful when we’re taught that we’re repulsive in every way that matters.
so tl;dr: getting her more friends is a great idea for a milieu of reasons! don’t walk on eggshells with transmisogyny too much, just keep an open mind and maybe think about biases sometimes but don’t let it get to your beat and beat you up over it. but I think your concern sounds like it might be a sign that you care and are gonna try, and if that’s the case then approach any issues that come up from an angle of love and i think it should buff out. anyone wanna chime in in the replies?
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outrunningthedark · 7 months
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The way I can tell the strikes have been delaying things to long for some of the buddie bloggers who can’t separate the characters from the actors is by how they recently have handled this wedding and Ryan and can clearly tell they need some to spec about. Acting like everything is a big puzzle with hidden meaning. I saw one person say Ryan wore dark glasses outside to hide the sadness behind his eyes. Someone else pointed out it was probably just because they were outside and the sun was bright and not that deep and then got immediately attacked and mocked because if it’s not that deep why do they need to say it’s because of the sun and not to hide his sadness . Another person said he was wearing black at the wedding to symbolizing (yes they actually used the word symbolizing) the death of his and c’s marriage ☠️ just today I saw someone say Oliver got the actress who played Natalia her job and C started following the 911abc page so the two events are related and now Ryan is getting C a job on the show as Eddie’s love interest because Oliver did it. Like blows my mind a little. Like they see clues everywhere ☠️
I- What. I'm not gonna call anyone names because I'm sure I can guess where these comments originate and op is just posting other people's opinions - opinions that they won't own on main, at that. Let's break it all down. o1. Unless someone discloses information about the *actual* dynamic between themselves and their partner who is not a good fit, they are making a CHOICE to stay. R is not a victim in any of this. Pointing out faults or bad behavior reflects on him and his choice to start a family with her. Trying to spread rumors about the behind the scenes happenings won't change what's led up to this point to make many of us realize where his ideals and priorities lie.
It's not on the same level because he's no where near as famous, but the R apologists sound just like Captain America's followers who pick on his new bride in order to avoid addressing what committing to a much younger white woman means re: separating fact from fiction. o2. There is zero evidence to support the claim that Oliver got anybody a job, and if there had been we'd know about it because those stans are always waiting around for content. Now, if you want to say he maybe got her into the audition process? Maybe offered her name as a suggestion? Fine. But she still had to audition. And they still chose her. As far as a "lack of chemistry" is concerned...I'm withholding judgement because, lbr, you can't build or find chemistry when one of your appearances is about your boyfriend's past relationships. Also, #unpopularopinion, but if the show wasn't gonna go with Buddie, I don't care who Buck ends up with 'cause he's never been my favorite. If working with Annelise makes for a more pleasant experience compared to completely ignoring BT as season five got going...good on Oliver for having fun this time around. o3. What is the obsession with writing the wife into the show? In five seasons all he got her was a background role for one of Eddie's fights. They did the same last season when we heard about filming the bodybuilding comp - "Do you think C is gonna have a guest spot since she's been doing that irl???" It's like people WANT something else to happen so they can twist the truth and say she "forced" her way onto set rather than him *asking* if there's something for her to do. And btw, she doesn't need to be in an episode to stay close. "Take wifey to work day", remember? I may not care for the wife, but if he truly were the "better person" as fandom as declared, he's the one looking dumb for forgetting who he is as soon as he found her on ig. She hasn't lost anything yet because he won't leave.
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fvdvrdvechfgdvd · 8 months
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OK, nothing to do with Daddy Gosling, but HAHAHA, I've been browsing this page and things have come up... I don't know, they're weird, lmao so... hey! to this strange community :') what I am going to publish is not hatred against you (the one who is reading it) or against anyone.I think this has gotten out of hand and it's not from now, it's from a long time ago, so I'd like to say something.The first thing is that cmbyn's "fandom" (if it can be called that) bothers me a lot, a lot, it's a nice movie that talks about things that can happen to a person, but I'm not going to talk about the movie, I'm going to talk about those or those who publish and write nonsense about two men, Timothee and Armie.Girls (probably 14 years old) have made accounts on Ig doing very risque photo editing and no, they are not about Elio and Oliver, they are about Timothee and Armie doing sexual things, also writing sexual things about the two of them on Tumblr, Wattpad and aO3 . I really see this stupid, I see that they have no life, that they don't have enough attention from their parents and they do that kind of thing I don't know why, why is it really ridiculous, but I really fucking love Call Me By Your Name, I love Timothee, not Armie, because of those things he's done, but it's fucking annoying that you do those things, it's stupid and disgusting I really mean it, Armie has children and was married to a woman, after divorcing her, a lot of people did more stupid things . They said Timothee was secretly gay and in love with Armie, speculating about a person is offensive to me and surely to him, since this type of "fans" have said that Timmy is secretly gay and that he loves Armie. I read that close friends and people from Timmy's own family have come out to defend him by saying that he is NOT secretly gay.Now the question is, why the hell do you say that? Why have you ever used queerbating?? Or why did he make a movie that plays not a homosexual but a bisexual teenager? or just because you appreciate your coworker?? And that's why he's secretly gay?? Please! He and Armie define themselves as heterosexual you can't say or speculate that Timothee is gay, you can't make two grown men do something they've done in a fucking movie, have something like in the movie, that's ridiculous and from what I see it's not you understand exactly what a good friendship is. Also when Timothee was in relationship with Lily-Rose Deep they kept shipping them, they insulted Timmy, for being with her and not with Armie, Armie even denounced an account of a 'fan' who asked him to leave his wife (at that time it was) and left with Timothee, who had to fuck Timmy and not his slutty wife, Armie reported the account and said 'it seems that people don't know how to differentiate fiction from reality' and it's true! Really the little girls who say "I love my Armie" "I love my Timmy" "I love them" it's a lie you don't love anyone you are disgusting I really say it and now, I'm already fed up and what I want to get at is that you can't make stories about two people who have worked together, been friends and moved on with their lives, you can't why it's really all in your fucking head you have something in your head that's never going to happen and it's totally ridiculous.Timmy is happy, I don't care if it's with Kylie or Tay or I know with someone else, Armie I don't know, I'll suppose that too, so leave this shit alone, if you really love them as you say and you're fans stop, it is not normal. Timothee is straight, Armie is straight, you can't change the sexuality of two people who are sure of their sexuality. So think, reflect... why it's ridiculous. NOW I AM NOT OFFENDED BY CMBYN FAN ACCOUNTS AT ALL, I LOVE THAT VERY MUCH, but the #Charmie accounts, #CharmieForever #Charmieisreal this... are aberrations and are embarrassing.
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somuchyoudontknow · 11 months
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I don't know if this has been talked about on other blogs since I was but as I am going through my DMs, a friend has sent me ss of many photos of n*k*d bodies that Alba has liked. Cevantines on twitter and wakeupitsscalet on instagram have shared them. wakeupitsscalet has also shared some ig pages that she has been following.//
Trollba's behavior is creepy as hell!
I doubt she suffers mental issues, that's why the pr is different from Seb and Ale's. This shitshow is too much difficult and unpredictable, it's the most ridiculous pr in HW so far!
She deleted 100+ porn pics before signing the contract, and liked many nude pics, she’s obsessed with naked bodies. We noticed she always wore the same clothes and no bra, it seems she never care what she wears! She loves to sleep with anyone, normal ppl will be shy and hide this behavior to their family. But she has to be accompanied by her mother or sister wherever she goes!!! It's highly possible her family will give her pills and control her when she got attacks and out of control! I'm sure Alba has hided many secrets from Chris' team, her team is untrustworthy!
Professional info about schizophrenia and it’s treatment:
Personality and Behavior Changes - Disorganized behavior
https://www.msdmanuals.com/home/mental-health-disorders/overview-of-mental-health-care/personality-and-behavior-changes
"Disorganized behavior refers to doing quite unusual things (such as undressing or masturbating in public or shouting and swearing for no apparent reason). People with disorganized behavior typically have trouble doing normal daily activities (such as maintaining good personal hygiene or obtaining food)."
Schizophrenia CHPATER 16 -List and define the types of schizophrenia. https://quizlet.com/790284946/schizophrenia-chpater-16-flash-cards/
"These difficulties are the source of many bizarre behaviors such as public undressing or masturbating, speaking about oneself in the third person, or physically clinging to objects in the environment. "
Family support and adaptation mechanisms of adults outpatients with schizophrenia
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7376456/
"Previous researches have shown the practice of self-care in about 70% of ten families, which involves making the patient available for treatment, providing supervision while taking medications, and engaging the individual with activities. Specifically, family support includes the provision of emotional, informational, instrumental and research assistance by the client’s relatives, in order to maintain a therapeutic regime. The delivery of home care by the family members to strengthen and augment health services maintains the independence and dignity of schizophrenia outpatients. Being the closest unit to a patient, families play a role in determining the nature of care, and also to prevent relapse. This participation helps in the initiation of treatment at home, in order to prevent the possibility of relapse. The support provided has been associated with the decline in stress levels, which consequently strengthens the individual and collective mental health."
Anon, I would have to disagree with you. Although I am not a dr but I have seen some patients of schizophrenia my surroundings and what I have seen there are other symptoms as well which we do not see in Alba in any way. I don't know if you are a dr or you have some kind of knowledge to the field of medicine but it seems not okay to label someone as a patient of a mental disease.
Her behavior seems to be weird from liking disturbing photos to showing her liking for Lolita and also Marlon. It seems like a case of focus on hypers*xuality. She had a boob job at a very young age and it is very alarming that her parents didn't stop her and let her have it. Also, most of her career is based on soft p*rn movies. Some of her work also depicts disturbing relationships between old men and young woman where she plays the role of the young woman who looks like a teen. It satisfies the ill-minded fantasies of creepy men.
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logicalstansadvice · 2 years
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People find shit on SM. I didn't think twice about it. // Yes, please!!! SAY👏🏻IT👏🏻LOUDER👏🏻FOR👏🏻EVERYONE👏🏻 I really don’t find it that deep, tbh.
Anon 2: To be honest, I would also lurk on fan accounts of my boyfriend. I'm curious as shit 😂 but I'd be careful not to get caught 😂 she should get a finsa for that 😉
Anon 3: But this like and the story behind it is the first thing that caught my attention, because it IS creepy af./ People who spends literally hours every day obsessively scouring SM for any possible mention of Seb and anyone close to him have the gall to call a like by his actual girlfriend creepy? Pot meet kettle. No sorry, not pot meet kettle because that would mean both sides were engaging in inappropriate behavior when it's only fans doing that. Because AW is a celeb it's creepy that she engages in behavior that normal people do every day, look at posts about their friends on SM? I have been told by people that I should never date someone without checking them out on SM and see what they post and what people were saying about them. Many said Seb should have checked out Ale's IG and seen her racist posts before getting involved with her. So when annabelle was doing that, the thing 'fans' said Seb, a celebrity, should have done, checking out posts by and about Seb and like a normal person liked something all of a sudden it's creepy. Because she liked a comment. A like. People need to get their heads out of their asses and stop making judgements about how other people should act and interact on SM. Or life in general. Jeez.
Anon 4: I don't see the supposed red flag/thirst/leechy behaviour either. I believe the like was accidential because she prob stopped scrolling on the comment that mentions her. I accidentially like stuff all the time on various apps. So what if she checks what fans are saying? Seb probably told her how they treated Margarita, Ellie, and Alejandra. Like a lot of the fans bashing her rn wouldn't take a look at fan comments/pages if they were in her place, and prob more obsessively than she does too. 🙄
Anon 5: You know what I don't get? Why do "fans" think that random posts or likes or whatever are meant especially for them? I mean, people post or like shit on sm these days, maybe too much shit, but that's the way things are now. So I don't get why fans think that a woman who normally posts shit from her life, all of a sudden does it with the purpose of "baiting", just because Sebastian happens to be part of her life now? If it wasn't him, it would be someone else, and she would still post about it, because it's part of her life.
Honestly, we think the hunt to find something on this woman has started and this is the best they can do at the moment.
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nsfwhiphop · 8 days
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Incoming Text for Halle Berry:
Hey, Halle Berry!
It's me, Angelo. Remember me? I'm that man who rejected you and all your female spies.
You've got a brand new addition to your Rejected Girls group band lineup! Her name is Tanaya Henry, you can keep her, we don't want her anymore.
Here is her IG page, click the link: https://www.instagram.com/tanayahenry
She is a spy for my enemies and I just exposed her, so guess what? Tanaya is all yours, you can add her to your long list of female spies.
I know you want to hurt me and you want to find an opening, I'm giving you a brand new weapon that you can use against me, that weapon is Tanaya Henry, go ahead and use her to give you information and I hope you succeed in your pathetic attempts to hurt me.
Bye Felicia!
Here is a short story I have written for you, read below:
Looks like you've inherited a new member for your Mean Girls group," sneered Taylor Swift, tossing her hair over her shoulder as she addressed the leader. "Tanaya's all yours now. We're done with her." Her words dripped with disdain, a thinly veiled warning of the trouble to come.
Halle Berry leader of the Mean Girls smirked, her mind already calculating the ways to weaponize Tanaya's presence against their rivals. "Thank you for the gift," she purred, eyes glinting with malice. "We'll make sure to put her to good use." As Taylor Swift and her clique departed, the leader Halle turned to her cohorts, a wicked grin spreading across her face. "Let the games begin," she whispered, knowing that with Tanaya in their arsenal, their schemes against their rivals would reach new heights of cunning and cruelty.
The end of the short story.
Taylor Swift Vs. Halle Berry's Mean Girls.
Here is a dialogue between Angelo & Halle Berry:
Angelo says: "What did I do? Did I do anything wrong? All I said is leave me alone and you won't let me live in peace, why you always in my business? Can I live? You always scheming and plotting against me. I don't want to be with you, when will you understand this? Stop stalking me, let me be happy, okay? Damn!"
Halle says: "You didn't do anything wrong, you just rejected me and that is a felony in my world, how dare you reject me?"
Angelo says: "Did it ever occur to you that I'm not attracted to you? I just don't see the hot Halle Berry from the 90s anymore, all I see is an old woman. So yeah, that answers your question, if you were in your thirties, I would be chasing that but you are old as fuck, plus you talk about menopause all the time, that's just disgusting, can you please talk about something else, it's making us not want to listen to your stories about menopause, what the fuck, man? Menopause? Really? Give me a break, why don't you let the doctors handle those conversations? There are enough doctors on earth, let them talk about menopause, if I ever hear you talk about menopause, I will change the channel. Nobody wants to hear that shit. It's just disgusting, damn, woman, find another subject to talk about. There are a million subjects on planet earth and you had to pick the most disgusting subject, menopause is just a nasty subject, let the real doctors handle that subject. Why are you pushing this menopause agenda in our faces? We don't want to hear that shit. That's my personal opinion, you do whatever you gotta do with this information."
I hope you succeed in your desire for revenge against us because I know the sin of wrath is a deadly sin, revenge is a sin, and that is the sin of wrath. I hope you heal from this and find peace someday because the sin of wrath is consuming your thoughts, your days and nights. I hope you find healing and peace someday, for the burden of wrath weighs heavy on the soul.
The sin of wrath is a hell of a drug, seeking revenge is a hell of a drug.
I never even met you and you are obsessed with me, what does that tell you? That you are a stalker, that's what you are Halle, so leave me alone and let me be, dammit!
Okay, now go play evil mean girl games with the rejected girls group and see if you can succeed in hurting me and my team.
Bye, bye now. Good luck with that.
Okay, this chat was fun.
No hug for you, you've been a naughty girl.
P.S:
I forgot to give you the reminder:
"The International Court of Justice has proof and your name will be mentioned and guess what? Anyone who works with you will go down with you."
Any United States President that plots with you will go down with you. Oh, yeah, keep thinking that the White House is safe and they won't go down with you.
You can call, Joe Biden, he will confirm.
This is an international war for the financial independence of the Christian population worldwide. So, you better watch out babygirl.
This is a revolution and even Presidents will be judged.
Do you remember that Watergate Scandal?
Oh, yeah, this will happen again. You don't know the half of it.
Never forget that their power is useless.
Don't forget that this will end bad for you.
If you don't believe me, sue me, and see what happens.
Good luck with that.
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human-collector0 · 8 days
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I know that people hate when the author is on online platforms and begs for attention to themselves, and I know authors cannot interact with anyone lest some people decide to ruin their lives with a smear campaign or something.
But I kinda want to get to know the author before I read their work. I don't want to buy book anymore without knowing the vibe of the author. (Para socially just give me some info that you want to share about yourself author.)
I know that there's this push by publishing houses for every author to be a minor or more celebrity and have a following or whatever but I'm just asking for a single html page with all the authors inf- wait don't they already have that?
Ok shift direction, if you're recc'ing a book to me, please include the author's profile too.
Because think about it. I get to know more BIPoC/SWANA/SEA people, they get a new reader if I like them.
Because I want to see if we vibe together. There's some people who I can't stand (nothing on them it's just self-preservation after experience in a unit, and also personality-wise they want different things than someone I vibe with).
I had a good group on Twitter of artists(writing,comics,drawings) that I really chimed with. And I miss it soo much.
I don't have my trusted sources anymore. I want to have circles for Mystery/Suspense, LGBT romance, Horror, Scifi/Fantasy, and other stuff.
I want people I trust again. That I trust their taste.
Time economy, I don't want to invest in things that are useless to me like example het romance that is status quo, patriarchal and the woman gives up in the end and marries the guy, or feminist retelling that's a copy of a copy of a copy of a copy of a mediocre story.
If someone has time to sort thru the clutter for me, thanks.
I used to go on deep dives on manga+anime sites ,their system really doesn't allow for multiple genre picking so I just clicked on one genre and scrolled for days checking whatever caught my eye on the way to the last page.
That's why I'm so good at parsing what a book is about from the cover and the synopsis.
I found a lot of stuff I liked like that. I loved doing that work and I need to do that work to find the stories I like (because i don't want to laze and become dull in the brain) however nowadays everything is sooo cluttered.
Goodreads lists and storygraph genres and bookshop.org and articles that maybe fibbing because they were paid to say it, and youtube reviewers that I genuinely try to hear and it's just a humming buzzing FM noise by the end.
I think I'm going to complete my series of books and not buy anymore and get by with those. I'm tired.
I'll pirate the rest and send 20€ to their Kofi/venmo ig or get an e-reader.
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alikestory · 15 days
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mostly rambling about writing my webcomic...
i was doing the typesetting for the next chapter and there's this one part where i was like, i need to explain what this person is referring to for this scene to have any weight. i'll just write a quick backstory thing~
anyway it's. as long as a normal chapter nowwwww :'^) INEVITABLY. i still have one little scene left to write dfghj
generally this arc keeps getting LONGER ;___; i know how it ends and i'm like "wait is this going to have any impact if i don't write something about that??" and in general there are lots of things i know about the characters that aren't in the comic and i'm like DOES IT MATTER???? i don't know.... :'3 (like, not stuff that's going to be revealed later just kinda mundane things that happened before the story starts. but then i hate it when a manga has an entire volume dedicated to one side character's backstory and i'd like my webcomic to END ONE DAY.........)
okay so i wasn't like "i'll just write a quick backstory thing~ tee hee~" I SAID IT BLEAKLY. RESIGNED TO MY FATE.
it is mostly the character in question narrating some stuff so i thought okay i'll do it nagata kabi style and i can totally finish this and another 21 page chapter in two months. i mean her manga is in a simple kinda sketchy style and there's a lot of narration but it's interesting....... anyway that's my current plan. basically how shitty can i get away with this looking..... and what if i made it pink like my lesbian experience with loneliness.......... but i don't want people to see it and think of nagata kabi necessarily i just like pink. MY WEBSITE IS ALREADY PINK. IT'S FINE. NO ONE WOULD EVEN NOTICE. also being like "hey remember this completely unrelated and also way better manga???" at the very beginning of a 30-40 page update. :'^) BAD IDEA.
anyway i own (i can't think of a way to abbreviate this title sdfg why is it so long) my lesbian experience with loneliness but i want to read her newer books too. i think i read exchange diary at a library and found it kinda boring tho? .-.;; ig it's not as sensational as long title. less sex appeal. (that is a joke.)
SEEING THE NEWER TITLES IS. bleak. this poor woman what the hell. like reading long title you'd expect things to get better for her and it's not like her manga hasn't been successful either..... it's kind of depressing, i put them on hold at the library but DO I REALLY WANT TO KNOW???
also somewhat self-conscious about my library holds u__u;;; having three volumes of manga in the first place. whenever i put manga on hold i worry they'll think i don't read real books..... (because i DON'T. i put left hand of darkness & house of leaves on hold too but i've had both of them out before and just never actually read them........ THIS TIME I'M GOING TO. I SWEAR.) i also took impossible people out a few months ago so what if they can see my reading history and are like "why do you read so many comic books about alcoholics??" BUT NEITHER OF THOSE THINGS WILL HAPPEN. i just have an anxiety disorder :v
aaaaa i also don't even know if this backstory flashback thingy is enough.... I MEAN. I GET IT NOW. I KNOW WHY THEY DRAW AN ENTIRE VOLUME OF VILLAGER E'S BACKSTORY. (actually when i think of this phenomenon i think specifically of fai from tsubasa orz;;;; I'M SORRY.) AND. OKAY. IT'S SO EMBARRASSING.
nothing i'm saying or will continue to say is helping my case for Dear Library Employees, I Swear To God I Don't Just Read Comic Books (about alcoholics. i also read comics about other stuff.)
there was some comedy/romance shojo manga i read back in high school and i think the offenders here were by the same author but i don't remember who for sure :v anyway there were a bunch where something serious was about to happen or the characters were finally going to be honest with each other and then they'd have some kinda joke and it would always annoy me bc as we have established i love some sensational drama :v
BUT I GET IT NOW ;_____; THAT IMPULSE...... it's hard to write a sincere and emotional moment and be like WHAT IF IT DOESN'T LAND????? it's so obvious what i'm trying to do that if people go "i don't buy it" then i'll just DIE I GUESS?????????
but you have to try u__u you HAVE TO.
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mindmapoffice · 2 months
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IMPORTANT MESSAGE for YESJULZ and Tanaya Henry!!
Hey, YESJULZ, can I ask you a favor? Please tell your friend Tanaya Henry to stay away from face-tattoos, she is becoming ugly, she should stop now, someone needs to give her a reality check and you're her friend. Don't let her ruin her beautiful face with face-tattoos, she will ruin her career as an actress, she could become an actress in the future, and you know that face-tattoos can ruin her acting career. It's very important that you warn her. Thanks! Tanaya is a natural beauty, she should stop doing stupid things with tattoos.
Also, my dear YESJULZ, I encourage you to stay away from plastic surgery, don't do it, you are perfect just the way you are. Don't do any boob jobs, any facelift, any plastic surgery is wrong.
YESJULZ and Tanaya Henry are natural beauties, be happy with your current look, God made you beautiful, so be grateful and give thanks to God! That's my personal opinion!
Keep the faith and never give up the fight!
Also, I forgot to tell you that I will write screenplays for you YESJULZ & TANAYA HENRY, you will do business with Drake's film company, DreamCrew Entertainment IG: @dreamcrew. click the IG link below: https://www.instagram.com/dreamcrew/
I will write the screenplays and you will put your names on my work, which makes me your ghost-writer, do we have a deal?
I know YesJulz and Tanaya will accept this deal because they will become true legends in African-American film industry.
Drake is a producer looking for new film projects for his film company DreamCrew Entertainment IG: @dreamcrew.
Don't forget to call Drake and ask him for the screenwriting contract, Tanaya and YesJulz, I will let you sign the deal with him and you will come collect the finished-manuscript-screenplays in my home Elsau, HLM, Strasbourg, Alsace, France.
Here is the wiki page of my French manager “Booba”, click on the link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Booba
Please find enclosed Mr. Booba’s contact information for your convenience.
Call the french rapper Booba, he is my French manager, he will be our middleman, here is his Twitter page, click on the link: https://twitter.com/booba
Also, I have to ask you another favor, please don't be mad at me when I ignore you on this blog, I don't do it on purpose, I just be busy, it doesn't mean that I don't want to speak to you or I'm ignoring you to hurt you, or kick you out of my life, none of that, stop doubting my sincerity. I care about you but don't be clingy and expect me to write every two minutes, I'm not that kind of guy, I'm your brother, your nickname is ’‘Memory-Loss-Julz.’”---- I'VE KNOWN YOU FOR 16-YEARS SINCE 2007, YOU DON'T REMEMBER BUT I DO, I REMEMBER EVERYTHING, and you know that I will always have your back, but don't expect me to write to you every day, it's just exhausting to keep in touch sometimes. So, remember this when you doubt my sincerity next time, just because I don't keep in touch with you, doesn't mean I forgot my promise to you. I just don't feel like updating this blog, that's all. I got deadlines, you know what a deadline is? I have to write everyday for the next 6 months until the month of July or August, that is what we call a deadline in Hollywood, if you didn't know, well, now you know.
Fun Fact: "Did you know Tracey Edmonds and Drake are buddies? Yes, they are very good friends."
Also, don't forget that TRACEY EDMONDS is my heart, she is a good woman, she is from the old-school, she is older than you, she is like a mother figure for you and Tanaya Henry, so don't forget to keep in touch with TRACEY EDMONDS, she is that cool older sister for you girls. You won't regret it, TRACEY is awesome and cool!!
Also, tell Vashtie Kola I said hello, I love my sister Vashtie Kola, she is a sweetheart. I know you girls are all friends, so I'm not worried at all, I know you will have fun.
Also, tell Simply Jess I said hello, I love my sister Jessica Marquez, she is a sweetheart. I know you girls are all friends, so I'm not worried at all, I know you will have fun.
So, now that we got this misunderstanding all cleared up, let me go back to my bunker in Elsau HLM and continue writing those hot fire bars. I'm out this bih! Peace!!
Your brother. Angelo THE ERUDITE. Love you! Have fun!
Listen to this TLC song "Unpretty", remember this music video?
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jess-moloney · 6 months
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wasn’t sure if i wanted to send something in bc i don’t dislike jess, but i also don’t love her. and you do make a lot of great points on here tbh
something i noticed one time is i went to go follow this ig page and i noticed that jamie was following it too. its like a relationship counselor/therapist and overall a page that gives advice on how to be a better partner, further your relationship and communication skills, etc. and i was following it for, i guess obvious reasons! it interested me that jamie followed it so i went through the page and some of the things he’s liked is quite interesting. i’ll have to go look for the account if you were curious of the @
another thing, i was reading an article on jess and she mentioned that she NEVER wants kids. and jamie recently during a Q&A at a con had said something along the lines of, “ugh im gonna be such a bad dad one day” (in reference to answer a question in a more adult way to a child!) and i feel like there’s been times where he’s mentioned wanting to be a father! obviously people change and starting a family together isn’t for everyone nor should it be!! but it just made me think a little bit. but please i don’t want you (not that i think you would bc i do find that you’re very level headed and take things in the right context!!) or anyone else to think im saying jess should change her mind about that, bc im not. your body your choice and if someone truly feels they don’t want kids there’s nothing wrong with that (like i don’t want them at all!!) but again, i just found it interesting and it made me think. that’s all haha sorry for rambling
I would be interested in the things that he liked on that account and what that account is. If you wish to share it with me and don't want me to post it then you can send me a DM as they are open to everyone.
You are also completely free to think whatever you like about Jess. Dislike her, like her, love her (even if I don't understand why) I am not here to force anyone to agree with me. The information I put on this blog is for people to look at and make up their own minds. I would not say anyone has to agree with what I'm saying. I'm doing my best to look at the facts and translate them. Since none of us know her or Jamie personally nothing can be definitively said but what it looks like from the outside is very sus.
As for having children, I recall various stances on that by Jamie as in one interview with Joseph he said he's been lucky enough not to have any children as well. Once again, as you said, people do change their opinion on that so I'm not saying he couldn't have changed his mind. I'm also not saying Jess needs to have children (or any woman for that matter) or they should be pressured into it.
However, if he does want children and she has a hard stance on not wanting them then that seems like yet another box checked off on why they are incompatible. As of now, she does seem to be morphing him into some image that she wants and almost no one else appreciates.
I do hope she doesn't worm her way into his brain to convince him that he doesn't want children. I also hope that she doesn't get pregnant and have one of his children just to make sure the relationship is solid. Seeing how she jumps from role to role and idea to idea I wouldn't put it past her to randomly believe she could be a mother or just think it's a good idea to have a child with him for security reasons.
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alarrytale · 7 months
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Happy friday Marte! I was scrolling through random feeds on IG and suddenly there was a reel preview with Harry´s baby photo and logo of our most popular and known radio so I got curious what that was and so I clicked on that reel.
There were 2 radio presenters (woman and man) guessing who is that (literally Who is this world known singer?). While the man had no idea (he guessed Robbie Williams lol), the woman quessed it right after few seconds and when they found out it´s really him, they were suprised and then the man said "Well, he looks better wearing female dresses" and something like he´s suprised Harry´s not wearing clothes for girls from very young age.
Okay, one thing is that for me it´s kinda cringe when I see literally anyone mentioning Harry in my country. Not that I´m living on Mars but as much as I am experiencing everything connected to him (and Louis and 1D) only through tumblr and IG (aka following international pages) it always gets me that people know him in my country. Second thing is that it´s exactly the same as any radio/TV/media anywhere - those people actually have no clue who Harry is under the surface and they only know how he looks like, his most known singles (and that WS is about eating p*ssy), his fashion choices or his girlfriends. And so they only comment on these topics without any deeper level of thinking. I sent that reel to my cousin who is also larrie and she´s the only person I can personally talk about him while don´t have to explain anything. And while she shared the came cringe as I did, she also had a good point writing me "Do you know what is total cringe for me when I see somebody is talking about Harry in our country? That nobody cares about anything else that his date life. Not a single other mention than who he had dated or is currently dating."
And that´s why I´m writing you - not that it´s anything new in this fandom but it still kinda get me how much sex sells and most people don´t go under the surface of who is really his, nobody cares that much about his music or stories he´s telling us. Or if there isn´t this date life mention, then it´s always his fashion choices (aka what that male presenter said) again with any deeper thinking that he might be queer coding or what inspired his outfit - lol the other day I found in my gallery printscreen from one czech online tabloid from May 2019 (back in 2019 I didn´t care about him this much as I do now) after Met Gala with title "Harry, are you hiding some secrets about your sexuality? Harry Styles came to Met Gala in sheer blouse with ruffles and high heels". And coming back to the reel topic, that´s exactly why I don´t even like to talk about him with anyone else than my cousin or other larries because nobody can appreciate him that much as we do because we are the only ones who really cares about him. And while I´m happy I´m living in this larrie bubble and don´t want to share him with people who can´t appreciate him, I´m also incredibly sad how others view him - pretty face, sex god and womanizer who wears "weird" outfits to be more interesing than he is himself.
Hello and happy friday to you too!
Yeah, it gives you perspective doesn’t it! The image he's portraying to the gp is working, because they don't look further than the surface. It's sad for us who knows what's really behind the curtain, that he's not a caricature or who he shows himself to be. I can't talk about him to anyone other than fellow larries, because the gp only read magazines or tabloids mentioning him, and end up getting the wrong view of him. It's also so incredibly embarrasing sharing with others, gp friends or work colleagues, that your're a fan or either H or L. When i do, with L they are like 'the dude who got arrested and had a kid he never sees? Wth, marte, i'm judging you rn...', and with harry they're like 'the serial vs model dater who's a bad actor?' or 'the queerbaiter?'. It's exhausting. And i've now stopped defending them or admitting to still being a fan. It's sad.
I hope for an image rehab for the both of them so i can acknowledge being a fan of them again. Take notes, Santa Clause!
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by: L.S. Stratton Published: Mar 28, 2023 Genre: Thriller, Murder Mystery, Fiction 320 Pages, Paperback
★★★
GoodReads Synopsis:
Tasha Jenkins has finally found the courage to leave her abusive husband. Taking her teenage son with her, Tasha checks into a hotel the night before their flight out of D.C. and out of Kordell Jenkins’s life forever. But escaping isn’t so easy, and Tasha soon finds herself driving back to her own personal hell. As she is leaving, a white woman pounds on her car window, begging to be let in. Behind the woman, an angry man is in pursuit. Tasha makes a split-second decision that will alter the course of her she lets her in and takes off.    Tasha and Madison Gingell may have very different everyday realities, but what they have in common is marriages they need out of. The two women want to help each other, but they have very different ideas of what that means . . .   They are on a collision course that will end in the case files of the D.C. MPD homicide unit. Unraveling the truth of what really happened may be impossible‒and futile. Because what has the truth ever done for women like Tasha and Madison?
My Review:
Uhhhhhhh, where to begin?
I love a good murder mystery but I hate terrible, unlikable characters. Tasha and her son, Ghalen are both.
An unsuspecting Tasha invites a stranger, Madison, into her car to save her from her abusive husband - or so she thinks. Madison then reaches out to thank Tasha, invites her to lunch, then drops a bomb on Tasha as she is heading to the METRO to get home. Tasha is a victim of domestic abuse and ultimately, she is returning home from this lunch right back to the man who has been holding her captive!
Here are some areas where things fall off the tracks for me:
Tasha leaves the hotel to return to Kordell because her 17-year-old son wants to stay. He is 17. He can make that decision for himself. If he is unwilling to see his father for who he really is and has your best interest at heart, LEAVE HIM THERE WITH THAT MAN AND GO ON ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS.
Madison's proposition to Tasha. Madison is not an intelligent criminal if this was her plan all along because now, you've been seen in public with this woman. You've messaged her on IG - which could be used as evidence. Not only with Tasha but, you're talking on the phone with Summer about committing a crime. That's like, the number 1 rule when doing dumb sh*t; don't leave a paper trail or have conversations on the phone. Word to American Gangster!
Morris was way too nice and way too willing to go along with Tasha's dumb sh*t. As a man, how could you walk around with this woman knowing what her husband is doing to her? Why not go to the police to try to save her?
Ghalen! I saw his abusive tendencies coming a mile away. Sadly, Tasha is a mother that we all know; a mother who loves her son instead of raising him. That boy is immature and emotionally stunted and from the moment he was able to discern what was going on around him, he should have been in therapy. For seventeen years he witnessed his father abuse his mother. Not only that but, his mother has only babied and pacified him, his actions, and his behaviors. He was insufferable.
For a murder mystery, it had a great twist. But for me, when there are no redeemable characters, and no one to root for, it makes it hard for me to "like" the book as a whole. Detective Simmons was the only character who had some sense and even he got on my nerves. You cannot function off of lack of sleep and 12 cups of coffee.
I've said it before about murder mysteries: usually, the cops are useless and dumb but, Simmons sniffed out the right clues immediately.
Final Thoughts: The story was cool, I'd give it a 4/5. The characters killed it for me tho, they're a 1/5.
One-Word Summary: 818 Wicker Street
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