#multiple offenders

[porterdavis]

Not a drag queen

#not a drag queen #multiple offenders #repeat offenders

[notbrucewayne48]

"aphobia doesn't exist"

bitch literally not that long ago an aroace youtuber animator was insulted by almost half of its community for being it

#i did some research about it and found out that the problem was principally that she had previous experience in the romantic area #so people just didn't take her seriously and said she was lying #even though she stated multiple times that she wasn't comfortable in those situations #now things are more calmed but damn #mind your own bussiness #i believe she knows more about herself than you #sorry if i offended you with this comment but i hate how aro/ace/aroace people are always left behind #insulted and rejected because they “dont know what they are talking about” #or because they “just have to wait for the right person” #or because they are “psychopaths and they are missing something” #i love that animator and she helped me realise a lot about myself #and now that i know the context i think i will start making a list and killing aphobes one by one #aromantic #arospec #asexual #aroace #acespec

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X' #and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!'' #babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness'' #it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!'' #& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell? #you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse? #but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck? #your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross? #HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like. #anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

[pastelaspirations]

Inktobertale day 20: 4 panels comic. I like to think if Error ever joined the star sanses, then it would be a matter of no time before he and Ink became the most chaotic duo ever.

This gives Dream a lot of grief.

It took me a long time to figure out what I wanted to do for this specific prompt. I knew I wanted to do it, I just didn't know what. Then, this cursed idea came to life while I was trying to sleep one night and here we are.

If I knew the second panel was going to be as glorious as it ended up being, I would have made a full on picture for it. But here's a cropped version of it 'cus I couldn't get over how vapor wave or freaking something they look lmao

Fun fact; the canonical reason why Ink is holding his shades up is because they ran out of tape. They only had the three. So him holding them up constantly has a stupid, in canon reason asides from just looking cool-

Additionally, I like to think how this all played out was because Ink was sad that Dream wouldn't let him dress up when they went on missions.

Ink: Dream said I couldn't dress up for the next mission! I tried telling him I'd look neat! But he said it wouldn't be very... intimidating to people we're going to fight. :( Since when did we have to be "intimidating?" I thought we were the good guys... Crossing his arms, he adds with a grumble: I have serious doubts I'm even considered "iNtImIdAtInG" to begin with, but that's another story... Error, having listened intently with a thoughtful hand on his chin this entire time: .....Yeah, but hear me out. What if... there were two people dressing up-

Ink: *GASP-*

The moral of the story is that Error does demonstratively have more brain cells than Ink, but he uses those brain cells to perfect and refine Ink's arguably stupid ideas.

Whether this comes back to make him appear like a dumbass too is up to interpretation.

Special shoutout to a special commenter on ao3 that referred to Error being bad bitch buddies with Ink on a comment one time. That just stuck with me for some reason. Also to @honeybubbletea33 for their art that depicted Error with the exact same fluffy boa and heart glasses that just. Imprinted into my brain or something, idk man-

#utmv #error sans #ink sans #errorink #inktobertale2023 #star sanses #Happy birthday to Error btw lmao #I feel so bad but I was actively snickering at multiple points while drawing this #Just at Error and Ink channelling inner team rocket was killing me #Dream's face was also a primary offender #Poor guy is just d o n e #He's been dealing with Error and Ink's shit for a while now #Would ya look at that; Error managing to look more gay than Ink for once- #Wait nvm scratch that. Ink looking pretty fruity too tbh

[randomwords247]

Cooking and baking

A small pet peeve of mine with cooking and baking is when recipes say the container rather than the amount

Like, instead of saying "500ml of cream" you say "a pot of cream". Or "a whole can of corn". Like okay which kind of can??? What amount???? Corn comes in more than one size you can't just tell me a can. PLEASE i am begging you tell me the WEIGHT

This is especially a problem with recipes from different countries, for example America. Because your stick of butter is different to our butter. STOP SAYING STICK OF BUTTER TELL ME THE QUANTITY IN GRAMS PLEASE I HAVE A FAMILY

that being said I feel like I see this crop up in like american recipes in particular. Idk if I've ever seen a recipe in one of our cookbooks that does this....

anyway please just tell me the gosh darn weight I am dying here I have a family I JUST NEED TO KNOW THE WEIGHT

#ramble post #randy rambles #recipes #cooking #baking #'a stick of butter' is the worst for repeat offender i see that crap everywhere in american recipes #JUST SAY THE AMOUNT #like even if a recipe here uses 250g of butter (our butter is in 250g idk what size american butter is) IT SAYS USE 250G OF BUTTER #actually tbf i think butter size is not something thats like fully conventional cuz i just googled lurpack and it says that one is 200g #fun fact our butter isnt a long weird stick like americans. why is your butter like that that looks awful to get on a knife to spread #ours is still rectangular its just like more square #ALSO LIKE IDM CUPS. I have measuring cups that have cups AND ml. I WOULD GLADLY TAKE MEASURING IN CUPS OVER 'STICK OF BUTTER' 'CAN OF CORN' #also for the record what spurred this on is i asked someone for their recipe of something and half the stuff is quantified in this way. #'1 box jiffy cornbread mix' what the frick is that please i have a family #like no hate to them lemme be clear but also WHY ARE AMERICAN RECIPES LIKE THIS IM CRYING #i could be wrong that its just american recipes but i SWEAR ive never seen this in any of our british cookbooks but everytime i try and loo #up an american recipe online or ask an american friend for a recipe they give me quantities like this and im over here quietly dying as i #try and decipher what the frick they just told me to use. what is going on why are recipes there like this #(also idk if they do it for cream i just wanted to give an example that wasnt just can of corn or can of soup) #(SOUP AND CORN COME IN MULTIPLE CAN SIZES YOURE HELPING NOBODY SAYING JUST 'A CAN')

[nashvillethotchicken]

A subtle way you can tell lestat is very selfish and ignorant about race, especially in ep 6 is that he said that they'd go to Argentina, a country which at the time was explicitly looking for white Europeans (including n*zis) to move there after spending decades pushing their black and Indigenous populations to the fringes of society to whiten up the country

#amc iwtv #iwtv #interview with the vampire #lestat de lioncourt #like i dont think hes doing it on purpose #i think he saw somewhere that takes Europeans and he sees claudia and louis as extensions of himself so if he'll be welcomed they'll be too #like i genuinely dont think he thought of moving somewhere that wasnt as segregated for the sake of louis or claudia #and to give the barest of credit. there wereny many places they could both go #lestat isnt allowed in europe cus of armand and them and louis and claudia cant move unencumbered through most of the us bc of segregation #like the only place they could go in the us at the time as an interracial family is ohio (only state with intteraccial marriage in 1940) #and they couldnt even be out there #so i understand leaving the country but picking a place that is already pushing its black population further into the fringes #is just another way to control the movements of louis and claudia. even if lestat doesnt realise or have that intent #like if they decide to leave him when theyre in Argentina theyre literally boned. especially in the 40s when all the n*zis are coming #and tou can see this in other parts of their relationship. like lestat is ok taking louis' to operas where louis has to be a valet to get in #he says that their money had protected them from legal backlash for being gay but not really for louis being black #lestat not getting the multiple microagressions from the lawyer #hell lestat even says “if he had offended you i would have killed him”. implying he doesn't believe that louis had a right to be offended #like lestat is ignorant to race especially in the american context and especially especially in other countries #hes white and french. they invented racism like there is a non 0 chance he saw saarah baartman displayed in a traveling circus in france #like i dont think he is outwardly racist like the alderman or tom but hes ignorant as hell. #he probably didnt see his first black person until he was 25

[do-you-know-this-queer-character]

Do you know these queer characters?

Pyra & Mythra are Polyamorous and WLW and both use she/her pronouns!

#this is a weird one. I don't post multiple characters in the same submission usually but in this case... #they were submitted together and I think it makes the most sense as they share a body. also they date a woman i think #if people want them separate though I can post them separate instead. I don't want to offend anyone. #Also don't expect multiple character posts to become a thing ever lol it's reserved for very specific cases like this #pyra xenoblade #pyra xc2 #mythra xenoblade #mythra xc2 #pyra and mythra #xenoblade 2 #xenoblade chronicles #xenoblade chronicles 2 #xc2 #fandom polls #tumblr polls #poll #polyamorous #she/her #wlw #video game #lgbtqia #do you know this queer character

[functioning-minne-holic]

She let me hit because she's autistic (I live near some train tracks)

#look #I've been told this works by MULTIPLE girls #also post is Faithe approved #so please don't come at me #but if this genuinely offends you #let me know #mine #also I do actually live near train tracks #small towns in MN are built around them #so #train girls pspspspspspsps

[nikrei]

Reading 60s/70s Flash and then watching an episode of Flash (2014) makes you go "holy shit Barry ur so slow!" It takes him 15 min to make a cross country trip smh.

Like if pre-crisis!Barry met 2014show!Barry he'd be like, "oh man I'm so sorry that your speed got so fucked up that sucks man. You don't even have control over all your individual molecules? How do you live like that? You can't even hit one rømer? How are you supposed to run on photons if you can't even hit rømer one."

#show!barry is really confused and slightly offended #“nothings wrong with my speed I'm the fastest man alive!” #okay honey if u say so #apparently he does manage to go a whole 1.001 rømer in season 6 i never got that far #as u can prolly tell im v charmed by Barry calling multiples of the speed of light rømer #barry allen

[solarmorrigan]

Steve is finally convinced to watch Labyrinth through a combination of the kids’ pleas, Robin’s genuine insistence that he’ll like it, and, finally, Eddie sitting on him and refusing to move until the movie is over

He spends the first twenty minutes complaining that Sarah is a brat who doesn’t deserve to get Toby back because who just wishes away their kid brother? Like, sure, Henderson pisses him off sometimes, but would Steve ever wish him away? Of course not. The goblins may as well just keep Toby, they can’t do worse than Sarah

And then they get to the Magic Dance scene and Steve promptly forgets whatever he’d been complaining about because-

Well, it’s, y’know. It’s a very distracting... dance number

(The kids refuse to let him live down the fact that, apparently, he’d let someone kidnap them if that someone was a hot guy in tight pants)

#steve: I ended up sharing you guys with eddie didn't I? #eddie: WOW #steve harrington #steve & the party #stranger things #doesn't have to be but also #steddie #sorry this isn't anything I just rewatched the movie last night and #in addition to everyone correctly surmising Steve would just spend the movie staring at david bowie #I feel like he would be deeply offended by how Sarah acts towards Toby in the beginning #Steve suddenly acquired MULTIPLE younger siblings and did he bitch about it? YES. but he didn't send them off to some magical goblin land! #he took it like a champ #anyway #solar wrote #eddiesteve #for my own use

[changeling-fae]

I downloaded the Dragon’s Dogma 2 cc demo and this is my first attempt at Pawn!Raphael, lol.

I’ll probably do several attempts as I familiarize myself with the cc better but an attempt was made.

#dragon’s dogma 2 #bg3 #bg3 raphael #I’m not fully satisfied but that’s what multiple attempts are for #he’d be so offended if he knew I made him a pawn lol

[crippledanarchy]

The Toe Beans of a girl who insists so strongly on mirroring that I had to put some dry food in an empty pill bottle so she'll stop trying to help me take my meds every day

[Image description: a sleeping black cat, curled up on a chair with one paw covering her face and the other facing up, showing off her toe beans]

#anarkitties #she always gets a piece of paper that I've colored on or a test piece of crochet and she was upset i wasn't letting her in on Med Time #she would get so offended cause i get to play with a bunch of fun rattley bottles multiple times a day but none for Berry?

[laatmaar]

First of all in the new fallen hero revelations demo, I absolutely love armadillo (I have said that I was looking forward to sidestep meeting other non-cuckoo regenes and this meeting already lived up to a lot of my expectations) (really excited to see how this plays out)

Second of all I think that little aside of how there are no gendered pronouns in the re-gene language and how only cuckoos learned to apply them is really interesting and funny (as well as another point in the murderbot-breq-sidestep compare and contrast schema in my head). Since it further emphasizes the connection between being seen as a person and performing gender correctly, but also it is a funny difference between the normal regenes and the cuckoo.

Like I think that it explains some of the complexes surrounding gender sidestep has. What if when training you were the only one getting comments like that really that kick wasn’t very ladylike or you need to start punching like a man. All the other regenes barely know what gender is and sidestep has to pass the weekly ‘Men and Women: What are They? And How To Behave and Interact Like One’ exam.

#the murderbot-breq-sidestep schema surrounding gender and personhood is #breq: doesn’t have a gender because she comes from an agender culture but does adopt the pronoun used for people versus it (object pronoun) #remarks that while ‘it’ is correct to use in her case she has gotten used to ‘she’ and would be offended if somebody suddenly switched to #‘it’ after learning that she is an ancillary #murderbot: lives in a world with a lot of gender purposefully doesn’t have one and sticks with ‘it’ #sidestep: lives in world with still mostly binary gender but classified as object and assigned gender at decanting purely in order to #infiltrate human society actual gender depends on player #also there are similarities between how imperial radch and fallen hero explore the self and bodies #especially one scene in the demo reminded me of #‘Or is anyone’s identity a matter of fragments held together by convenient or useful narrative that in ordinary circumstances never reveals #itself as a fiction?’ from ancillary justice #unordinary circumstances being having multiple bodies #fallen hero #fhr

[theygender]

My gf and I just completed an extremely taxing move almost entirely on our own that was made even more difficult bc we were moving out of a roach-infested apartment and trying to make sure we didn't take any with us. We weren't able to pack anything up in advance bc roaches love cardboard boxes so we had to pack everything day-of (after thoroughly inspecting it all) and then immediately load the boxes into my car. One of my friends got COVID and another was having a chronic pain flareup so they couldn't help, and Trixie's friends who had all said well in advance that they were going to help us move on Saturday all bailed on us when the day actually came. Saturday was also the only day we could take our old furniture to the dump, but due to no one showing up to help we took too long to load it and missed our window and had to pay junk movers to come get it from us instead. My partner and I have spent the last five days doing nothing but packing and moving furniture and boxes (up and down stairs at both locations) making countless trips back and forth, and in between all of that I've also had to deal with pet sitting AND my college assignments. We were down to the wire today on our very last day to vacate our apartment, on a Monday when both of us had to go in to work bc we didn't know we would still be moving after not having any help on Saturday. We are both mentally and physically exhausted, and now that it's all over here we still have to unpack all of our everything

BUT! We're in a nice new apartment now with no roaches! It's bigger and it's pretty and it has two (2) bathrooms and a balcony and a fireplace and lots of windows that let in natural light and we (and our cats) absolutely love it. We're so so happy to be here and to no longer have to put up with our old place

And although we had to get rid of our couch and mattress for fear of roaches, we found a new couch and a new mattress that are even better than our old ones at very good prices (the mattress is queen-size! the couch folds out into a sleeper for our friends!)

And while I was carrying a box in I ran into one of my new neighbors who was walking his dog and he gendered me correctly, confidently, multiple times without hesitation. His puppy started pulling on its leash to try to run over to me and he jokingly told the dog "You can't help them. You can't help them! You don't have any hands, you can't help them!"

And then when I went to the store to pick up more supplies a woman stopped me to really excitedly tell me that my hair (side-shave mullet) was "so fly"

So yeah. All in all. I think I've had a great weekend

#rambling #i was genuinely surprised by getting gendered correctly #i was the only one there at the time so i know it wasnt just a plural they #like. im used to people correcting themselves back and forth between she and he (maybe even landing on an uncertain they? in the end) #im used to people giving me a hesitating almost scared ...they... when they cant decide if he or she is right and they dont want to offend #but this is only the second time ever that a complete stranger has confidently referred to me as they with no hesitation whatsoever #and he did it multiple times in a row! im still happy about that #AND the person who compliment my hair #and of course. being here in whats basically the apartment of our dreams. with no roaches! #im so fucking exhausted rn and theres still more to do #but im thanking god or the fates or whoever is out there that i get to sleep good tonight on a new mattress #(after i shower first in my new clean ROACH FREE bathroom of course) #🙏

[zappedbyzabka]

Kreese definitely was abusive to all the Cobras and left a mark on them back then but Johnny was always a focus for him from the very start.

#The Cobras deserve to have their abuse/how they reacted heard but you dont need to act like it there wasn’t abuse favorites #no need to say his was so little or the same level. abusers usually have a focus and hit the rest as treats #and THAT is still abuse worthy of sympathy and attention #was this not always clear? and even Martin has said repeatedly with no prompt that he always thought Kreese loved Cobra kai the most but #Johnny second in his own fucked up way. That was always Martin’s view and goal #so I dont understand why people act like Johnny’s abuse wasn’t especially potent and focused compared to the other Cobras #ANY reason to push Johnny to the side and shit on his character. right? #I’ve seen this take multiple times and while I respect people’s opinions #it’s wrong to dumb down somebody’s abuse to bring up others bc you hate the character #If you don’t trust Cobra Kai. even the movies show this clearly #This isn’t about anything specific. People I’ve spoken to and people have posted this take and I don’t understand at all #It an accumulation. So if you have this take dont be offended just look away.

[evansbby]

not me going through the steve rogers x reader tag and i find a post that’s like “pov you find a fic with amazing smut but it has daddy kink 👎” LMFAOOOO

i wonder if anyone’s read my fics and just immediately exited out as soon as they see the word “daddy” bc it’s in like EVERY SINGLE ONE of my fics 😂😂

#for me it’s quite literally the opposite #like my fanfic tastes are so specific that I literally will not read it UNLESS it has daddy kink😂 #this makes me wanna discuss everyone’s fanfiction icks #not in a shaming way but in a funny way #like what are your icks/absolute hard no’s when it comes to fanfic? #again not tryna offend anyone #like I didn’t get offended by that post and by the 4000 notes it got of people hating on daddy kink #in fact I found it funny and amusing #so I thought we could have a fun discussion about it #but the last thing I want is for people to get their feelings hurt so idk #😂😂😂😂 #okay so the fanfics I read are sooo specific #have to have daddy kink #have to be well written #punctuation has to be good and grammar too #my biggest pet peeve grammatically is when there’s multiple people’s dialogues in the same paragraph #it takes me out of the fic SO quick bahahaha #like when a new person speaks it needs to be in a new paragraph #anyways #I also heavily prefer if the male lead is rich #I like when the male lead is older #like even in the college au’s I write I make sure the male lead is a few years older 😂😂😭 #idk bro I’m super specific which is why I write fics that are super specific to my taste