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fabbyf1 · 10 months
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“But he found himself saying, “Okay.”
Max had already turned to grab his jacket and looked over his shoulder at Charles’ words. “Okay, what?” Max asked, holding out the Ferrari jacket for him to take.
“As in... okay, give me the Red Bull jacket.”
Silence.
“Baby,” Max said, hesitating, his hand still outstretched and full of bright red Ferrari.”
I'M NOT BREATHING, I'M ACTUALLY NOT BREATHING. KATE PLEASE YOU DID NOT. I DIDN'T FINISH YET BUT IM SCARED FOR WHAT I WILL READ NEXT 😭😭 BUT I LOVE IT
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stinkyme · 1 year
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Do you know how I can stop seeking male validation?
I’m so torn between being (or at least wanting to be) self-determined and proud of myself and extreme self doubt if men “want me” and find me and my personality appealing, comfortable and attractive. And I hate it, male validation doesn’t feel as good as loving myself (which happens occasionally) and I hate being sexualized, men kinda scare me at the same time fr. I’ve experienced sexual abuse in my childhood, so this is probably kinda related, as well as my daddy issues. I have a very rebellious side inside of me, one that wants to cause trouble, do exactly what “men dislike” and don’t want me to do and be, just not giving a fuck about what they think and a constant worry whether I’m desirable or not, like my entire self worth depends on that. I really hate it.
it could be 100% related to that, first of all I am truly sorry you experienced that, coming from someone who also has sexual trauma from childhood and who had handful of self doubt due to my father abandoning me and I am so sorry you had to go through that, I know how it twists your idea about everything and you constantly feel like you need to be rebellious and fight against men, not let them near, but at the same time you need their validation due to everything you experienced because you feel like what has happened to you is ultimate mark of your worth and only way you could ever experience love and affection further in life but that is by no means true my love :)
What happens to us never says anything about who we are, but the choices we make from that moment on, it's very obvious you want to heal and to move on from that situation and from the idea you want to present for male validation and I am very much proud of you :)
I understand hatred towards being sexualized, it's awful and it makes you feel like an object or a thing for pleasure you never consented to be part of which makes you scared and angry and that's normal, I think a lot of us can agree on that and it pains me deeply when I hear that so many people, especially fem presenting people experience that sexualization on daily basis and the fact we constantly have to check behind us 10 times and prepare for worst case scenarios because that's what we have been taught since very young age and it's absolutely heart breaking and anger inducing
However, my advice to you would be, as uncomfortable as it may be and it will bring some pain and sadness and anger, you need to start off with your sexual trauma you experienced, you can do some inner child work and remind little you that what has happened to them was never ever their fault, it's never your fault. They need to be reminded that they are safe now and they are out of that experience and now they can slowly let themself explore and be a child again, let your inner child come out. Do anything you wanted to do as a child and let it be innocent, doing things that children are supposed to do so you can reconnect and remind yourself and your inner child that both of you are safe now, both of you are okay now and both of you can trust yourself. You need to rebuild that trust within yourself and when it comes to that feeling where you lacked control and unhealthy idea about sex, I would say just explore some healthy sex ideas and maybe read something that it's romantic/loving type of sex and you can always try and practice self pleasuring in a sense where you remind yourself you are in control of your body, you are safe with yourself and you are allowed to explore your own sexuality the way you desire to with yourself and therefore learn what you actually like and dislike and regain that control and self trust and you will be the one deciding everything which will help you build self confidence and self love :)
another thing, specifically for male validation - start a journal and write down what do you want them to notice about you or compliment about you and why is that and once you do it, you will see the differences between healthy desires you have such as "I want to feel loved, I want to be recognized as a person..etc." and unhealthy ones whatever they may be for you (the ones that realistically would make you uncomfortable or feed into unhealthy feeling/thinking patterns) and then, once you saw what you desire and why, slowly start with affirmations. They don't have to be huge for the start, just simple reminders how you love yourself, how you are good enough, how you matter, how your trauma doesn't represent who you are, how you don't need anyone's validation, etc. :)
You can slowly start working on self love through affirmations and take your time, healing is a process and it takes time, be patient with yourself and give yourself time because that's crucial :) I love you so much and thank you for asking, I am so proud of you and you are really strong person, completely lovable and worthy of everything good and lovely always :) <3
and you also experienced those moments of self love, so you know what they feel like and you know you can experience that so you can definitely make that your normality as well :) it takes time, but you got this <3
I believe in you, I promise you got this, you don't need their validation when you can have your own love <3
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elwenyere · 5 months
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— Ursula K. Le Guin, from “A Rant About ‘Technology’”
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intoxicated-daze · 7 days
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PATIENCE
PROGRESS
[ almost ] PERFECTION
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hansoeii · 8 months
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stede bunnet
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ace-and-ranty · 10 months
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Nimona, the Comic: If you pay a little bit of attention, and you know a little about the creator, you’ll see this is a clear trans metaphor :)
Nimona, the Movie: (CLAMBERING OUT OF THE DOWN WITH CIS BUS) THIS IS A TRANS METAPHOR. ATTENTION, EVERYBODY, THIS IS A TRANS METAPHOR!
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mydairpercabeth · 4 months
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Annabeths reaction to Percy being alive
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im gasping
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nerdpoe · 7 months
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Danny wakes up, strapped into a rollercoaster train car with a bunch of other civilians, in a dilapidated amusement park, with an insane clown laughing through the speakers.
He can see that the track is entirely broken, and that it will send them straight to the ground.
Danny knows he won't die.
Danny knows the civilians in the train car with him will.
So he slowly freezes the wheels until the car stops, a mere four feet from the edge, allowing the icy tendrils to snake down the support struts and reinforce them. His eyes are letting out a faint blue glow, his hands frosted over, and he isn't so much focusing on keeping the ice stable as he is focusing on getting it into the gears and ensuring that the train car can't be knocked off the track.
Now the civilians are feverishly whispering words of encouragement to him, to keep it up, while the local vigilante family fights the Joker.
Why, oh why, did he think that going on vacation in Gotham was a good idea?
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alrightberries · 6 months
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can't get the thought out of my head of pro-hero bkg being on patrol then getting the news that some burgular broke into your shared apartment and he's immediately dropping everything and just fuckin' blasting his way home. his friends thinks it's so sweet that he's in such a rush, frantic, in a panic to get back to you because he's worried about your safety.
but— no, fuck no, he's not worried about keeping you safe, he's worried about keeping the shithead burglar safe from his bored and antsy ex-villain of a wife who's been itching for a fight.
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hellsitegenetics · 2 months
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I'm doing it. Whatever organism this comes up as, I will make a character* of that species. Even if it's a plant. Even if it's a mushroom. Even if it's microscopic. Even if it's barely studied. Even if it's a species I've made before.
(if this comes up as human I might actually cry but I'll still do it)
*probably just a character design but still
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hailsatanacab · 6 months
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A Persuasive Argument - dpxdc
"Great!" Danny says, clapping his hands together to get everyone's attention. The dinner table falls silent as everyone looks towards him. It's a full house today and, honestly, Danny's a little nervous. "I'm sure you're all wondering why I gathered you here today."
"It's dinnertime. In our house." Duke mutters, while doing a very bad job of concealing his yawn. He holds his fork poised over the braised beef, but, just like everyone else, still looks towards Danny before tucking in. It's intriguing enough to wait.
"Yeah, no one misses Alfie's dinner." Dick says, with a brilliant smile that Danny can't help but return.
"Precisely! What better time to talk to you all than when you're all actually here!"
"Wait, I thought you came round to work on our English essays?" Tim asks, blinking owlishly.
"I'm afraid I've lured you here under false pretences, Tim."
"This is where I live."
"I would still really appreciate help on that essay though, I mean, what the hell is Hamlet even about? I just don't get that old time-y language, like 'Hark! A ghost hath killed me!' - absolute rubbish, what does that even mean?"
"The ghost never kills anyone in Hamlet, he's there to tell Hamlet that he was murdered. Have you actually read it?"
"No, but it sounds like you have. Tim, I want this guy to help me with my essay instead. I know for a fact that you haven't read Hamlet, either."
"So? We don't need Jason, I've read the Sparknotes."
"Hi Jason, I'm Danny, pleasure to meet you, summarise Hamlet in three sentences or less."
"Am I auditioning to help you write your essays? I can't believe you’ve gone through your whole school life without reading it, it’s good!"
"Hamlet, along with a number of other classics, was banned in our house because it portrayed ghosts as intelligent and sympathetic beings rather than evil, animalistic beasts. I didn’t even get to see The Muppet's Christmas Carol until last year with Tim! It was surprisingly good, and I hate Christmas because everyone always argued and it sucked. But we're getting off topic. I—"
"No, no, please go back to that, because what the fu—"
"Boys, please." Bruce interrupts, looking to the world as if he wants to hang his head in his hands. "Danny, you were about to say something?"
"Oh, yeah, Mr. Wayne! Thanks!"
"Please, call me Bruce."
"Well, that very succinctly brings me to my point, because I'd actually really like to call you dad."
Nobody says a word. Nobody even blinks, all as shocked as the other, watching open-mouthed as Danny pulls his laptop out from beside his chair. Bruce can definitely feel a headache coming on.
"Before you say anything, I've prepared a 69 slide PowerPoint presentation on why you, Bruce Wayne, should adopt me, Danny Last-Name-Pending. Please save your questions, comments, and verdict until the end, thank you."
#dpxdc#batpham#i forget - can we tag the parent fandoms? w/e#immediately alfred's like: while i do appreciate your initiative may i suggest it wait until after dinner?#and danny - who has barely eaten proper homecooked food ever - takes one bite and then absolutely wolfs down the whole lot#after he's finished he's like 'bear with - I've got to add that to the 'Reasons I Would Like to Live Here' section'#danny's powerpoint has tailored sections for each batfam member with lists of reasons why they'd get along#my au thoughts on this is that the fentons disowned danny when he told them he was phantom#and that this is after the ultimate enemy - wherein which he allied himself with the JL to fight against dan#(which didnt really work at all - BUT he knows some of their identities now INCLUDING batman's)#so one of the main reasons why he'd be a great fit is that he knows their vigilante status anyway so they don’t need to worry about secrets#dick just turns to tim like 'he’s your friend. he learnt this from you.'#tim: 'i didn't tell him our identities!! i would never!!'#dick: 'no i know that. it's the stalker tendancies. it's baby tim all over again'#tim: scandalised gasp#they all eat dinner in silence just super subdued and in shock and sending glances to bruce and danny#duke like: 'so i know I'm the last one in the family but like... this isn't how it normally happens right? did any of you make powerpoints?#tim gets all shifty because he absolutely did make a powerpoint he just never actually showed it to anyone#everyone stares at tim because they all know. it was in one of bab's blackmail files she has on him#damian's slide has danny offering to throw down at any time. 'tim says you like to prove yourself with your skills?#how about a real challenge? if i beat you then you have to vote yes to adopting me!'#damian is in two minds about accepting because... 1) look at him damian could take danny in his sleep! but#2) on the off chance that he does win... damian does not want any more brothers#(he takes the bet and its a suprisingly fun fight - and while he'll never say this... he would vote yes even without the wager)#on one of danny's slides there's a picture of ellie: you'll also get my clone sister! two children for the price of one!!#uhhh.... thats it now - I've been having fun with this haha#spent all day with the 'ive lured you here under false pretences' 'danny i live here' line in my head haha#anyway enjoy!!!!!! this was fun#i wanna make these slides so bad
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hedgehog-moss · 6 months
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The farmer I buy hay (and some firewood) from hasn't had time for deliveries yet, and he texted me yesterday to ask what I needed most urgently, hay or wood. Selflessly, I said hay.
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That /is/ the gate for hay deliveries! Great memory, Pirlouit. I see what are the important spots in your mental map.
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I hope you realise that I'm sacrificing myself for you. By telling our neighbour to prioritise your food over my comfort.
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But even if I didn't, I would prioritise you and your hay because I love you. I would freeze to death to ensure you are fed
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Would you share your hay with me, though?
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I see.
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ophelieverse · 1 month
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because where tf is him HBO?!?!?
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egophiliac · 8 months
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starting off with an amuse-bouche of some of my initial favorite bits! y'all, this update was WILD.
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aterfish · 3 months
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Oh no! LBM got wet...
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shima-draws · 5 months
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Can y'all believe I'm almost 300 episodes in and I STILL haven't drawn him. HAD to fix that.
Anyway here's a whole bunch of mini studies/redraws, basically me getting the feel on how to draw The Boy Ever in my style
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