It’s been a long time right? I’ve been so busy lately so I’m sorry to suddenly pop in T-T. I just logged in to say somethings about the current situation. As we all know, Chen announced that he is getting married. It was so sudden, that many didn’t know how to take it. At first I was a bit sad but then I realized how wonderful it is that Jongdae finally found someone. The entertainment industry (and the people around it) can be ruthless and harsh, so I’m glad there’s someone to comfort Chen. I sincerely hope whoever is this person, she will give him the love and support throughout this trying time. And then the baby news came. Oh boy.. I understand that many EXOL felt disappointed about this, I was too. But after thinking about it, we need to remember who we are. We are his supporters. Chen is not some perfect being, he himself is human. Seeing him to step in and take the responsibility of the baby showed us the person he really is. He is not faultless and sometimes we forget that. Through our time following him, we have seen how genuine he is. Even if he seem like a despicable person now, I believe you all have also seen him as a kind, loving, and modest person. Don’t forget the beautiful memories you had with him just because a scandal. He has worked so hard for us, now it’s our turn to give. We are here to support our idol. We are here to love them. In the happy times but especially in the hard ones. If they make any mistake then we must encourage them to grow through the pain. We don’t own them. Yes, you have given them money. But they never asked for it. The things you gave them, I hope it comes from your heart and with the right intention. So in all I want to say, don’t give up on Chen. I will never. He made mistakes, and that shouldn’t be a reason for us to leave him. There are more to the story than we know, so as an outsider we just say quietly and cheer him on.