#I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH!!

[chaliyaaa]

Happy birthday 🎂 beautiful 🦢🪷🦚

May you have a wonderful day ahead, wishing you lots of happiness and prosperity in future as well

Stay happy and healthy, enjoy it's your birthdayyyyy kanha's girl

Thank you so much bbyy<333💗💗 (youu have me blushing because of that last sentence ngl🤧🤧)

#i love you so so much!! #mutuals #you are so adorable help😭😭

[thespiritoflife]

dommmmm, honeyyyyy!!! i personally think 2 years its not late at all!! during this time you could be in a journey to be the best version of yourself. so dont think its late. remember that life is not a race or a competition. perhaps for other, the age is a bit ripe, but hey people has their own story. you will meet the best for your future partner, the kind that YOU deserve!!! it might take a long of time for you, but trust me, it WILL be worth it!!!!! however, i wish you all the best. i know you and the universe know what best for you. sooo if earlier than 2 years is the best option here, thennnnn GO YOUU. also my timing could be wrong so heyyy dont think or worry much about it okayy domm??? ♡♡

anddd for mee, yes sist i really need to love myself first, dont i? 😭😭😭 1 or 1,5 year??? i did not expect that honestly! on contrary, it is much sooner than i expected! aww the message from the universe ♡♡ definitely believe in divine timing and trust universe entirely. I am excited and am patiently waiting for the great things that universe has store for me ♡

thank YOUUUU so much dominikaaa for aways being so talented yet sweet and kind personnnnnn. LOVE YOU SMMM!! SEND U A BIG HUGGG FROM AFARRRRRR

AHH EILEEN YOU'RE MAKING ME CRYYY HOW CAN YOU BE SO KIND?? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ENCOURAGING ME, HONEY I APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH😭😭🩵🩵 YOU'RE TOO GOOD TO THIS WORLD I SWEAR!!! 😭😭🩵🩵 YOU'RE RIGHT, 2 YEARS IS NOT SO MUCH, I'LL TRY TO BE PATIENT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!!

Yeees, love will find you soon! Do you KNOW WHY? CAUSE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE & OUT!! ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT, MY BABE!! UNIVERSE LOVES YOU SO SO MUUUCH!! 🩵🩵🩵 just don't ever change cause you're beautiful and that's it!

I LOVE YOU SO MUUUCH AND THANK YOU SO MUUCH FOR WONDERFUL WORDS MY DEAREST EILEEN!!!

#sweet ask #warmy things❤ #I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH!! #dominika's games #ask #🩵❤️🩵❤️🩵

[sincerelyyoursg]

BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you're supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're beautiful inside and out 💞

mwah right back to u <33

#gabi's letters! #moots <3 #yasmin ⚘ #i love you so so much!!

[fightingdragonswithwho]

WISHING YOU THE HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY IN THE UNIVERSE ANA!!! 

love love love u so so much!!! the daily gratitude is extra special today bc we're all so lucky to be living in the ana era <3. wishing for u a day (and year bc u TRULY deserve a whole year celebrating u!!) full of all the best things there are in life, and that's as wonderful and amazing as u 🫶🏼💕🫂💓🎉💖💞

an attempt to provide a spence-greg crossover sdjfkhds sorry dr. reid I took away your hot girl moment 💀 

LOVE U BEST BESTIE!!! U DESERVE THE WORLD ❤️

BEST BESTIE PLS!!! I WILL CRY, THIS IS AMAZING!!!

okay i’ll organise my thoughts now xijdidjdjdjdu

thank you so much for the birthday wishes and kind words and, most of all, for being you! i love you so much best bestie, and life truly wouldn’t be the same without screaming in your notes and complain about the quality of a 2000s cop drama with you 💀💀

okay proceeding to scream about the crossover now: H, PLS, THIS IS THE BEST!! the fact that you came up with this and ITS SO PERFECTLY PLACE!! YOUR BRAIN SO BIG BEST BESTIE! and of course you also made it look INSANELY pretty because your talent NEVER misses! i love this so much and i love you for thinking about this and even more for taking the time to make it 🥺 thank you, best bestie, forever grateful to you!

#H 🍁 #i have looked at that second gif for so long now #THIS IS SO PERFECT PLS #your big big brain best bestie!!!! #the gratitude is so GIGANTIC today!! #thank you sm best bestie and wishing you the most wonderful marcia monday!!!! #i love you so so much!! #ask! #not cm #ana! replies #birthday celebration <3 #save forever <3

[whiteshipnightjar]

Zoozve, my beloved

#i cannot tell you how much this made me smile just bc it's so full of love #moon #venus #zoozve #long post #sorry about that it's very long but it's very entertaining i hope you enjoy this lil zoozve gem haha #astronomy #astrophysics #space

[dendrochronologies]

maya angelou saying the funniest thing anyone has ever said about editing, which i can never let myself forget EVER AGAIN [x]

#OK. YOU'RE RIGHT. SO WHAT? DON'T EVER MENTION THIS TO ME AGAIN. IF YOU DO I WILL NEVER SPEAK TO YOU AGAIN. #i used to think about this interview all the tiiiiime i can't believe i let myself lose track of it!!!!!!! #maya angelou #FAVE #editing #*r #god i've read this a thousand times and i still laugh every time it's so GOOD #'OK. YOU'RE RIGHT. SO WHAT. DON'T EVER MENTION THIS TO ME AGAIN' #notifications are off for this besties 💗 #i will eventually turn reblogs back on but 20k notes overnight was a little too much pls slow down ✋️ #also pls do not follow me unless you are desperately in love with me. i can't make silly little personal posts with so many of you here!!!!

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

The math just adds up!

#dungeon meshi #falin touden #marcille donato #farcille #I always loved how chapter 27 ends with them both so bloody and 28 starts with them in the bath. #not just because of how iconic the bathtub moment is but because you know they had to scrap off so much gore first. #I think everyone in the party took a very long and methodical bath but Falin was basically *all* blood*. #Being covered in blood is one of those 'just girly things' that women deserve to stop being shamed about. #I just don't think Chilchuck is progressive enough. He probably made them take a bath first B*/ #Okay jestering aside I want to just highlight - #The magnitude of Marcille's joy at seeing her dearest friend again! Of holding her and sharing her presence in the same room! #Something about this reunion feels like a beautiful dream you are afraid of waking up from...

[phantom-of-the-501st]

Remember that this is not the proof that they love each other

That was a last-ditch attempt from Crowley to get Aziraphale to stay

This is the proof that they love each other

Their love wasn't just made real because they kissed

It always existed

#i will argue this point til my dying breath #they always loved each other #if you think the kiss was the only proof #then i adviae you to reexamine the relationship #the kiss wasn't romantic anyway #it was desperate and painful #it was a last ditch effort from crowley because he loves aziraphale so much #but it was not the confession #he'd already confessed his feelings #the kiss was never necessary to do that #good omens #ineffable husbands #aziracrow #crowley #aziraphale #good omens spoilers #go2 spoilers

[hansoeii]

we go just right.

#when the date went so wonderful that you don't even mind that you forgot your umbrella at home #crowley is doing his best and aziraphale appreciates it very much #aziraphale's very special version of pride and prejudice can't get wet #so you gotta use the four year old newspaper you found in your bentley #I am not mentally ready for season 2 #it will change me in a way that I cannot even explain #thank you neil gaiman love of my life fr #good omens #good omens 2 #good omens fanart #good omens 2 fanart #aziracrow fanart #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #aziraphale #crowley #david tenannt #micheal sheen #neil gaiman #digital art

[martyrbat]

i dont know who needs to hear this but you do not need to go on a diet. you do not need to lose weight as a new year revolution. you do not need to feel shame for gaining any weight over the holidays and for enjoying yourself and the food. you do not need to tolerate diet talk after setting a boundary and if someone cant respect that then theyre being the asshole. you already have a summer body. you already are hot. theres no moral failure or shame in being fat

#been around a lot of bullshit today thats so so so exhausting and triggering #but a reminder for me as much as you. love you all & i hope this season is gentle to you

[chaliyaaa]

Happppppppppppyyyyyyyyyyyyy diwaliiiii 💜✨✨✨✨✨✨bro tu Jo chahti hai tujhe mile and humesha humesha happy happy rahe , i love you , rangoli ki pic send karna na bhule :) , sending love Nd kaju katli :) i love love love you :)

Happy Diwali Khushi!!!! Bhai koi itna sweet kaise ho sakta h😭😭I love you so much!! Tu jo nhi chahti tujhe vo Khushi bhi mile🥺😭 Imma go and thank kanha for sending you in my life ngl.

#I LOVE YOU SO SO MUCH!! #aap bhi rangoli ki pic send karen

[tearlessrain]

please help me- i used to be pretty smart but i’m having so much trouble grasping the concept of diegetic vs non-diegetic bdsm!

gfkjldghfd okay first of all I'm sorry for the confusion, if you're not finding anything on the phrase it's because I made it up and absolutely nobody but me ever uses it, but I haven't found a better way to express what I'm trying to say so I keep using it. but now you've given me an excuse to ramble on about some shit that is only relevant to me and my deeply inefficient way of talking and by god I'm going to take it.

SO. the way diegetic and non-diegetic are normally used is to talk about music and sound design in movies/tv shows. in case you aren't familiar with that concept, here's a rundown:

diegetic sound is sound that happens within the world of the movie/show and can be acknowledged by the characters, like a song playing on the stereo during a driving scene, or sung on stage in Phantom of the Opera. it's also most other sounds that happen in a movie, like the sounds of traffic in a city scene, or a thunderclap, or a marching band passing by. or one of the three stock horse sounds they use in every movie with a horse in it even though horses don't really vocalize much in real life, but that's beside the point, the horse is supposed to be actually making that noise within the movie's world and the characters can hear it whinnying.

non-diegetic sound is any sound that doesn't exist in the world of the movie/show and can't be perceived by the characters. this includes things like laugh tracks and most soundtrack music. when Duel of Fates plays in Star Wars during the lightsaber fight for dramatic effect, that's non-diegetic. it exists to the audience, but the characters don't know their fight is being backed by sick ass music and, sadly, can't hear it.

the lines can get blurry between the two, you've probably seen the film trope where the clearly non-diegetic music in the title sequence fades out to the same music, now diegetic and playing from the character's car stereo. and then there are things like Phantom of the Opera as mentioned above, where the soundtrack is also part of the plot, but Phantom of the Opera does also have segments of non-diegetic music: the Phantom probably does not have an entire orchestra and some guy with an electric guitar hiding down in his sewer just waiting for someone to break into song, but both of those show up in the songs they sing down there.

now, on to how I apply this to bdsm in fiction.

if I'm referring to diegetic bdsm what I mean is that the bdsm is acknowledged for what it is in-world. the characters themselves are roleplaying whatever scenarios their scenes involve and are operating with knowledge of real life rules/safety practices. if there's cnc depicted, it will be apparent at some point, usually right away, that both characters actually are fully consenting and it's all just a planned scene, and you'll often see on-screen negotiation and aftercare, and elements of the story may involve the kink community wherever the characters are. Love and Leashes is a great example of this, 50 Shades and Bonding are terrible examples of this, but they all feature characters that know they're doing bdsm and are intentional about it.

if I'm talking about non-diegetic bdsm, I'm referring to a story that portrays certain kinks without the direct acknowledgement that the characters are doing bdsm. this would be something like Captive Prince, or Phantom of the Opera again, or the vast majority of bodice ripper type stories where an innocent woman is kidnapped by a pirate king or something and totally doesn't want to be ravished but then it turns out he's so cool and sexy and good at ravishing that she decides she's into it and becomes his pirate consort or whatever it is that happens at the end of those books. the characters don't know they're playing out a cnc or D/s fantasy, and in-universe it's often straight up noncon or dubcon rather than cnc at all. the thing about entirely non-diegetic bdsm is that it's almost always Problematic™ in some way if you're not willing to meet the story where it's at, but as long as you're not judging it by the standards of diegetic bdsm, it's just providing the reader the same thing that a partner in a scene would: the illusion of whatever risk or taboo floats your boat, sometimes to extremes that can't be replicated in real life due to safety, practicality, physics, the law, vampires not being real, etc. it's consensual by default because it's already pretend; the characters are vehicles for the story and not actually people who can be hurt, and the reader chose to pick up the book and is aware that nothing in it is real, so it's all good.

this difference is where people tend to get hung up in the discourse, from what I've observed. which is why I started using this phrasing, because I think it's very crucial to be able to differentiate which one you're talking about if you try to have a conversation with someone about the portrayal of bdsm in media. it would also, frankly, be useful for tagging, because sometimes when you're in the mood for non-diegetic bodice ripper shit you'd call the police over in real life, it can get really annoying to read paragraphs of negotiation and check-ins that break the illusion of the scene and so on, and the opposite can be jarring too.

it's very possible to blur these together the same way Phantom of the Opera blurs its diegetic and non-diegetic music as well. this leaves you even more open to being misunderstood by people reading in bad faith, but it can also be really fun to play with. @not-poignant writes fantastic fanfic, novels, and original serials on ao3 that pull this off really well, if you're okay with some dark shit in your fiction I would highly recommend their work. some of it does get really fucking dark in places though, just like. be advised. read the tags and all that.

but yeah, spontaneous writer plug aside, that's what I mean.

#I found their original stuff while I was researching various waterhorses and their folklore for no reason #because one of the characters in their original work happens to be an each uisge #and then it turned out it ALSO included a lot of figures from welsh folklore in general #so yknow if you happen to have my incredibly specific hyperfixations you'll love it but even if you don't it's great #I didn't mean to bring up phantom of the opera so much it just happens to be very relevant to a lot of my talking points #I haven't actually seen it in years

[hiding-under-the-willow]

Quite possibly the funniest shit I have ever seen in my life

#atlas.art #artists on tumblr #mcyt #hermitcraft #hermitcraft 10 #xisumavoid #xisuma #mumbo jumbo #hermitcraft mumbo #grian #implied at least lol #i forgot how much I love my xisuma design he was so fun to draw here #not pictured here: xisuma's absolutely unhinged scream immediately after this and grian screeching 'YOU SAID HAVE FAITH' over and over agai

[fleshdyke]

it is literally the most fucked up thing in the world that fruit goes bad. you shoild be allowed to have a box of blackberries in the cupboard for 2 years and they are still fine to eat

#i love fruit so much but you have to eat it NOW or else it turns into pile of mold.... sad #i have remedied this by eating those fruit cups and also making smoothies with frozen fruit. it's not the same but it's close enough. sigh.. #rambles

[saelrum]

"Was I sweet once?"

#bg3 fanart #bg3 #baldur's gate iii #baldurs gate 3 #baldurs gate fanart #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 durge #bg3 the dark urge #the dark urge #durge #fanart #digital art #yes #yes he was #he still is if you play redemption #i just... love this white murder baby so much

[mebssann]

Sir Pentious has my whole heart and he deserves nothing but good things for the rest of his (2nd) afterlife

#i love him so much you don't understand I KNEW MY BOY GOT IT IN HIM #Literally had to stop doing my finals just to draw him #hazbin hotel #sir pentious #fanart #digital art #my art