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dantelionwishes · 1 year
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are ppl migrating to tumblr fr (never left the site)
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bewildereye · 3 months
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Day of Love.
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gayofthefae · 7 months
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Mike's actions have all been in character. They are only out of character depending on when you defined his character and how rigidly. If you rigidly defined him in your mind in season 2 then yeah no shit he's different. But his actions are consistent to a person, it's just that his state of mind has changed.
Imagine if you had rigidly defined Steve in season 1. Him changing as a person would look the same as being "out of character". When really it's just that his environment/circumstances have changed to allow him that growth.
In the same way but a different direction, when Mike's circumstances complicated, he became more stressed and defensive. But this is something he always had been to a degree. See: his fight with Lucas in season 1.
He actually became better in his skills and worse in his situations over the seasons. Season one - situation: missing Will (bad but straightforward), skills: he was stubborn and refusing to see Lucas' side. Season four - situation: unable to say I love you, skills: he initiating a resolving conversation calmly and inquired while assuming good intent when El said something that could have been taken poorly ("you don't understand [my bullying experience]"). Note how the inability here was the situation not his issue. Does it still totally suck and hurt El? Yes! Did he handle the situation wrong? Arguably no, if those were his limitations in the moment.
A simple situation that takes longer than it should to resolve can hurt less because you can more easily see why everyone did what they did in the end.
A complicated situation dealt with to the best of a character's ability can hurt more because the reasoning is hard to understand for all characters involved, including the one trying to maneuver it. That doesn't make it the character's fault.
Mike has grown. You just can't see it because his person and his situations are going in opposite directions. He's dealing with worse situations a hell of a lot better. And he's doing it all in character.
His situations are inconsistent. Not his person.
(I feel that I should also had the little note that in season 1 he kissed El when he couldn't verbally tell her how he felt and then oh looky here in season 4 it's "out of character" for him to not be able to tell her how he feels. No it's not. It was just only upsetting once.)
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smileandasong · 5 months
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can't stop thinking about the exchange i had the other day where my coworker indirectly accused me of being a bad feminist because i dont like t*ylor sw*ft and "women need to support women" like.........like.........LIKE..........
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the thing is pinterest is basically a tumblr for kids. I found out what tumblr was through Pinterest, all my early fandom stuff (getting into and looking at fanart, getting into fanfiction, figuring out my way around a fandom, etc) was through pinterest. And, sort of like how everyone believes tumblr is a dead website, everyone thinks Pinterest is just a place where middle aged moms go to get banana bread recipes or teenagers go to get room inspo, and since it has a good reputation, younger teens and tweens are able to use it without their parents being concerned. It’s a great app lowkey 10/10
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mccoyquialisms · 3 days
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really cool and exciting for me to have a relationship crisis triggering yet another sexuality crisis
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guhmshuda · 2 months
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need to have a rasgulla or gulab jamun or heck, even a ladoo just stuffed in my mouth pls.
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thornedswan · 3 months
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It's strange for me having not been on this blog for a good bit, consistently that is. I hope each and every one of you could find a small joy in your day to carry with you. Remember to be gentle with yourself even when everything else comes down hard. You deserve nourishment just as much as anyone, you are not the exception.
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deam-mime · 4 months
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we did it boys!
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mopeymousey · 5 months
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As someone in the throes of a very complicated grief, I will state that boomers had some things right.
The number of friends who just said "omg I'm so sorry. Lmk if there's anything I can do" when I told them my dad is dead but then never check up on me, come visit, or actually offer anything is astounding.
There used to be rituals. It used to be that loved ones would have more casseroles then they knew what to do with. There would be daily phone calls. There would be friends staying with you and helping you clean your house because it's just too fucking hard to do it yourself right now. I'm pagan as they come, but there used to be prayer trees and circles!
I know this is a rose tinted view of the past. I know that people are going to say my friends don't owe me anything and that they just "don't know what to say".
"Sorry for your loss" has gotten a bad rep as a cliche platitude that means nothing. But it means something to me, which is that you reached out and let me know that you see me and hurt for me.
I'm so fucking alone in this and ive only had one friend actually check up on me everyday.
This is NOT directed at any of my mutuals on here for. Y'all are Tumblr Friends ™ and it's a totally different relationship than the people I see regularly in person whom ive known for years. Those are the ones I feel like are failing me because they can't get over "not know what to say/do". Ffs, Google how to help someone in grief and find the steps.
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crimsonsk1es · 7 months
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so ive been playing ys x
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cotccotc · 1 year
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so like why is tumblr ugly now
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pastinawitheggs · 1 year
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leon 😏
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ginstermoff · 2 years
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"dni if you're a freak!"
My brother in christ you are on tumblr.
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Me: logs into tumblr.com
Me: Sees it's Eurovision
Me: logs out of tumblr.com
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cringe culture is dead
as someone who felt like they couldn't express themselves as a preteen and young teenager due to the fear of 'being cringe' i want to say that the phrase 'cringe culture is dead' carries a lot of weight for me.
When I first got introduced to the internet as a young 11 year old kid who's family had been pretty stinkin poor for the first 8-9 ish years of their life, i was shocked to see that showing signs of excitement or cheer online was seen as being 'cringe' or 'fake'. watching 'cringe compilations' that solely consisted of people cosplaying characters, some of which i really loved, and clowning on them.
even though i didnt know it at the time, it really took a toll on my character and pretty much everything about how i acted and presented myself. i stopped letting things make me happy or getting hyped over stuff. it didnt help that my sister encouraged this- she was also influenced heavily by the 'any emotion is cringe' kind of mantra the internet seems to love to promote.
then i got onto tumblr, and i was once again shocked, but this time in a positive way. people were making fanart, even if it was bad, and sharing it online. people talked for paragraphs upon paragraphs about shows or games that they were just so passionate about. this passion was often frowned upon or looked at as 'childish' or even 'stupid' by the people i looked at on other websites, such as youtube, and even more recently, tiktok. everyone is so critical of each other, it feels like you cant have fun enjoying things you love.
overall, i guess i just want to say- please, tumblr, never change. i'm still learning to accept myself and not push down feelings of happiness and genuine excitement in fear of being labelled. this is one hell of a website, and i never want to leave.
tldr; saying stuff is cringe is the only thing that's actually cringy, let people enjoy themselves, tumblr is god.
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