#and that's mostly because she's aroace

[ryttu3k]

Ilias: "From now on, we will be using code names. You can address me as Eagle One. Theresa, code name: Been There, Done That. Myca is Currently Doing That. Esha is It Happened Once In A Dream. The Dracon, code name: If I Had To Pick A Methuselah. The Keeper is... Eagle Two."

The Keeper: "Oh thank god."

The Library coterie is going to have a fun dynamic.

#this is for the tremere myca au #theresa kymena is a canon character who myca adopted as their childe #just approaches ilias at one point and is like 'soooo i died a virgin' 'say no more!' #eshmunamash is canonically a brujah but is salubri here and is the dracon's lover #myca and the dracon have a casually intimate relationship #although it's more a fwb thing than romantic #and that continues even after myca meets ilias and the dracon meets esha #sometimes all four at once #everyone's all well aware of everything it's all good #so really the keeper is the only one ilias HASN'T slept with #and that's mostly because she's aroace #diversity win this library staff is a polycule with a vinculum and no less than three methuselah #ry writes stuff #tzinnamon roll

[confusedsiewmai]

Sometimes, I don't like looking at Frieren fandom things is because it feels so alienating as an aroace person sometimes.

I relate to Frieren in a lot of ways. The way she goes through life at her own speed, the way she has a certain way of doing things that is hard to change, the way she struggles to fully understand others but is still compassionate and tries, and last but not least, the way she doesn't feel romantic or sexual attraction the way most people do.

So when a fan posts something about how elves like Frieren don't really feel romantic or sexual attraction and it's wonderful that Himmel's unrequited love with her is still portrayed as something beautiful, healthy and valued, but the comments section is just filled with people being like: No!!!! That's not true!!! Frieren loves Himmel even though she doesn't realise it!!!!

Or even the more "generous" ones are like: No!!! She is just falling in love with him years later!!! The whole story is about how she regrets not pursuing it until it was too late!!!!

And like, every person has their own interpretation and ships. But it really is a bit saddening as an aroace person that sees Frieren also as an aroace who probably would never feel as much romantic love for Himmel EVER. People have almost this... need to correct people that Frieren loves Himmel romantically.

#sousou no frieren #frieren at the funeral #talking to myself #aromantic #aroace #asexual #of course. i have only watched the anime. but the source material itself has said that elves are not in touch with their romantic feelings #i think that is VERY aroace #and should therefore make frieren's feelings up for interpretation #and less of smth ppl rush to correct. like its AWFUL that frieren doesnt return himmel's feelings #and it hurts me a bit... because i see so much of myself in frieren #why r ppl ok with her living her life at mostly her own pace and struggling to understand ppl #but not so much with her aroace-ness.... u know? #and if anyone is interested abt my interpretation of frieren's feelings #frieren sees himmel as a pillar and closest friend. her entire journey is her grief over losing such an important person in her life #the only other person like that for her was flamme. and she managed to spend time with her till her death #but she miscalculated this one and ended up only staying with him for ten years #((another reason why i really connect with frieren is definitely her grief and regrets))

[rowan-on-the-moon]

who needs romance when friendship is literally the most powerful thing ever to grace this mortal plain

allos please get with the program?? have you never seen a children’s cartoon. ever. the power of friendship can level a fucking city

#twilight sparkle literally became a demigod because she had a ride or die friend group #come on #look at where romantic love got romeo and juliet #that’s right #the eternal void #checkmate allos #/j mostly #aro positivity #aroace #aromantic #lgbtq community #acearo #acespec #the power of friendship

[shrinkthisviolet]

oc valentines challenge 2024 (Day 3): No Second Chances in Romances

On the other hand, just because there was love before doesn't mean there will be love after. This is when you realize the one that got away wasn't "the one" after all. Make something for a ship that were together at one point, broke up for some reason, but decided not to give the relationship another try whether that be because of a new love, unrequited feelings, or any other reason.

“But Morgan,” Caitlin said softly, “what would you tell James if, years down the line, you decided that you don’t want to marry him at all?”

And then it hit her. “Oh,” she whispered. “This isn’t about James, or my career, is it?”

~i care more to be loved (that is not the same as loving)

Taglist (send an ask or DM to be added or removed):

@ocappreciationtag @arrthurpendragon @vexic929 @ironverseocs @raith-way @thechaoticfanartist @goldheartedchaoticdisaster @negative-speedforce

#ovc24 #ovc2024 #oc: morgan wells #oc: james bennet evans #morgan x james #it’s a bit of an open secret that morgan & james don’t stay together as a couple 😅 #mostly because i wrote the au a bit disjointedly. but it is what it is #i am GOING to finish the aroace morgan fic at some point this year. that is a PROMISE #(including morgan & james talking about everything. that part will be written eventually 😅) #also: i know the pic of him at the bottom suggests james takes it badly when morgan comes out to him BUT!! he doesn’t!! #things are just Complicated after she does. because…ofc they are #fyeaharrowverseocs #the flash #morgan wells au

[tempestclerics]

.

#had a very long very good gender talk w a friend yday #the friend I was talking to: we talk about gender a lot but mostly we talk about mine I realize #she’s not incorrect and honestly it’s mostly bc I don’t feel as strongly about mine but. it was nice that she made space for it #and so we talked about it #idk just. orbiting around and between labels of #queer or nonbinary as umbrella terms #agender as in I don’t care about my gender really. or cis as in I don’t have any objection to my agab really #or just the overall sentiment of. fuck you I don’t know and so you don’t get to either #or the ‘triple a/aro ace agender’ joke of. yeah im opting out of all of this actually #also just. talking about dnd as gender exploration? and how for all of my pcs I’ve had pretty strong feelings about their pronouns but much #less about their gender. #in part because for all the warforged I’ve played pronouns are less about gender and more about. personhood/objecthood #certainly not unrelated but. interesting #and kind of similarly like. I know how I want to be referred to. and that’s all the information people need to know to interact with me. #idk many thoughts! it was a really good conversation #also just. got to be honest about some (aroace #less gender related) stuff I’ve wanted to say to her for a long time #it was good. I love my friends #sola said #delete later

[starrytalking]

Do you also sometimes get the feeling that you have nothing to say in a conversation because there is no past or current relationship drama you could rant about?

#aroace #like I was on vacation with a friend and she talked about this SO MUCH #like I thought it was interesting and gladly listened #but I then felt like I should share something about my life as well but I never had these situations of nearly getting in a relationship #or having a boyfriend #and I haven’t told her I’m aroace and didn’t really wanna bring that up so I couldn’t rant about that #or about the “crushes” I had and still am not sure about what that really was or wasn’t #and there’s so much I could talk about like I could probably talk about books or certain fandoms or musicals or music and my instrument and #my orchestra and vacations I did or will do or would like to do or people I met or something for HOURS #so I actually could talk a lot but I felt like we didn’t quite share these interests especially with books and stuff so I mostly listened #and I’m completely fine with listening as I’m interested in the life of my friends and their experiences #but I kinda dislike the thought that she could think of me as someone who doesn’t talk a lot but “only” listens because while there’s #absolutely nothing wrong with that I could talk a lot if the topic were right #so I’m not sure what my original point was or whether the point was just to rant a bit but while allos who’ve never had a relationship also #might relate to this I wondered whether this might also a somewhat common experience for aro and/or ace people due to amotonormativity #*be #starrytalking #aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #thoughts #aro spec #ace spec #lgbtq+ #not Tumblr suggesting garlic bread as tag xDD

[rusted-phone-calls]

Oh, it'll be easy! Just pretend to be someone who has something you don't have and never will. Flaunt it, even.

#i may be over exaggerating. hope i am because i landed myself in this hell #it'll be. weird! am i allowed to just shove cat cactus into my role. she'd be perfectly fine. #she has more of a chance for being convincing than me. a touch and romance repulsed aroace. love that for me #mostly its just being stupid so. the problem is not acting the character out its how i do it without being awkward. #wait no really can i try to convince the guy to replace me w cat cactus

[transmorolians]

ringo is not immune to maguro because she's his childhood friend she's immune to him because she's aroace—and all we all know aroace people are immune to love charms /j

#this is mostly a joke but anattractional ringo sounds lit #ringo is immune to maguro's beams not because she's just aroace but she's just Not Feeling The All Of It #''this is my childhood friend. he's nice to be around and he fulfills my need for social interaction. i don't really desire to be anything #— with him but i guess we're friends (and have been) and i'm okay with that.''

[selfcontainedunivcrse]

ive been tossing around my scp oc like a stressball and, like, she was originally supposed to be ur average power-hungry coworker but on the scale of like. REALLY wants to be a manager in the office rather than like. magic-stuff. but now that I'm thinking about it I think as time goes on she does something horrible because she's genre aware just enough to know what makes a main character around here and she wants it badly. I'm unsure what magic she afflicts herself with because it doesn't really matter

I'm also fond of her companion. he's a normal guy . average security guard. he used to work in a federal prison and had a third-life ciris and decided that this would be something more humane. it isn't. they're friends of circumstance because they started at the same time and, well, they were both as good as anyone else to talk to. he is intrigued by her antics until he is Not Amused Anymore you're going to get Shot and you're the only funny one in this place you can't leave me here.

#I looked away and she developed a prsonality dsorder . sad < PERSON WITH DISORDER OKAY BE NORMAL #A lesbian and an ostensibly straight man can be in a QPR. They won't tell you this #(He's actually aroace But he has a job he doesn't really care about all that right now /Ref) #She does get relationship dramas. Her story kind of starts w/ her getting broken up with because her new job is like #Consuming her. And she's kind of obsessed with it. And kind of obsessed w like moving up in the world there #And her fiancee is like?? AT THE SHADY GOVERNMENT OPERATION? THE SHADY GOVERNMENT RESEARCH? You cannot be serious . #esp since her job is mainly an anmestics tech at the beginning and if she Did share her Secret Job :3c shes like. Wow! That's awful. Hello? #But she's sooo fine. She's just going to go harder on trying to move up in the job. A wedding would get in the way of the grind . Duh #She's silley to me. Her name is Evie and whenever she approaches her buddy he hears world is mine play faintly in the background #He does not have a name yet. Something generic but he gets called his surname at work. #I'm feeling Mark. But I already have a Mark. Or two probs #Mark (tentative) has been divorced once. He doesn't really know who he is or what he wants. A paycheque. Mostly a paycheque. #He thought this would be a chiller job that would make him feel less bad about existence. He feels worse in fact.

[lyctorism]

got my tags on a poll anonymously screenshotted in the notes ✌️😳 (controversial) (derogatory) (bad)

#sorry for saying having aroace headcanons are mostly shallow and boring #people can contain multitudes but also. just because she's autistic doesn't mean she has to be aroace lmaooooo #let her have desires................... #percy talks

[sparky-is-spiders]

Ignoring my Tumblr screentime limit to say that this song would be the perfect Amaldyne and Eityr song (from Eityr’s perspective) if it was less strongly implied to be about a romantic relationship.

#eityr is aroace #amaldyne is allo but too busy making her entire personality saving the world and maybe also doing some moral no-nos to worry about dating #but I heard ‘she’s bad news / but i’m no better’ and went ‘oh that’s exactly how eityr feels about amaldyne! #eityr: hey is it normal to obsessivly hold onto another person because they excuse and enable your bad behavior and they’re the only person #who can fucking stand you and you see yourself reflected in them on a fundamental level? even as you know they’re making you worse and their #love is conditional because it’s the only love you’ve ever gotten? #amaldyne: yeah that’s how I feel about you and i’m a regular everyman. anyway please stop having doubts about whether or not being my bff is #‘bad for you’ i found some bad guys and i need you to eat their brains and tell me everything they know ok thx ily #they’re the worst <3 #amaldyne #amaldyne rotwing #eityr #god she really needs a last name i’m so sorry #anyway #the lizard crew #(technically eityr is one of my few non-lizards (noctar + bug person) but that’s the tag sooooo) #but yeah back on the romance stuff #eityr came aromantic pre-story (or at least this specific iteration of it) #and i think making them have a romance would actually take away something from their ddynamic #they’re platonic soulmates who are obsessed with each other but also sort of ruining each others lives (and tbh it’s mostly amaldyne’s fault #) #ok very tired hope all of that made sense #analdyne&eityr #<- idk what my tag for their relationship is so its that one now #okok for real goodnight #Youtube

[brainwasheddd]

Guys I figured out why I like to yelena so much

#it’s mostly because she’s really really pretty and could probably kill me and that’s what I like in a woman #but also #THE AROACE + STILL LIKING PEOPLE COMBO #LIKE SHES FLIRTING WITH KATE BUT SHES ARO IN THE COMICS AND LIKE #I DO THAT!!! I LIKE PEOPLE BUT NOT IN THAT WAY BUT YES IN THAT WAY #!!!

[project-feive]

Callista, ever time she sees Milo fawning over Veronica: You better not let me catch you simping again.

Milo:

Milo: I wish I was unadopted

#Veronica and Milo were Callista’s NOTP #mostly because she knew her son would get his heart broken bc in my canon Veronica is aroace and very much not interested #zr ocs #callista glover #runner five callista #incorrect quotes #zr #my runner five #zombies run #Veronica McShell #milo scotts

[remember-the-fanfics]

I loved your gen-z!overlord! headcannon! What about the same character X Alastor or X the Vees! I liked how you wrote a bit about the character with Rosie!

Added Carmilla for funies

Alastor

• You constantly make fun of his oldness when he moved to the hotel

• He finds you entertaining and annoying, would've killed you in the beginning if Rosie wasn't already found of you.

• Thought you had the same idea with the hotel.

• Figured out quickly when he brought it up and you got pissed at him.

• Bounds over his interests of the chaos you make.

• Found out his disinterest with relationships and more physical stuff quickly

"Oh so you're AroAce? Cool."

"What are the words you just say?"

• Trying to get him to know what certain slag is from your time, nows use it incorrectly to fuck with you.

• Minus after his tussle with Pentious.

"I yeeted him, correct?"

"Ahhh! Yes! Ahaha!"

• Shown you some Overlord powers that you had no idea that you had.

• Accidentally blow up the wall a few times.

• Calls you dear child or little annoying one. Depends on his mood.

• Calls him old man to annoy him or weird ass deer man when he pissed you off.

• Decided you're a good allie after finding you laughing at what he did with Vox.

"The TV was buffering, that was really funny and good."

"Thanks for the compliments, my dear.

• Didn't change the fact when you were ready to kill him for making a deal with Charlie.

The Vees-

• The only one you on the good side is Velvette

• Vox and Valentino just keeps nice with you not to get Velvette pissed at them.

• You've tried to change the channel on Vox's face once. You're not allowed to hold any remote when visiting anymore.

• You made fun of Vox after his fight with Alastor.

"You were buffering! Guess you overheated?"

"Oh fuck off."

• Have a business deal for your territory to get Vox's stuff for cheap.

• Told him about the advancement that happening before you died.

• And had to endures something for him after Velvette dressed you up.

"Hating everything right now."

• But he is the only one that makes TV or well anything with Technology

• Everyone keeps you away from Valentino after you heard how he treats Angel Dust.

"I just want to talk with him, I just want to kill him."

• You had already didn't like him anyway.

• Creepy ass Moth motherfucker is the only 'nickname' you call him

• Valentino enjoys making you uncomfortable

• If he cross a line, you are killing him

• But then he holds Angel Dust soul above you so you don't actually kill him.

• Doesn't mean you wouldn't hurt him

• He eventually tries not to cross the line, tried of getting beaten by a child according to him.

• Velvette is the only reason you vist, mostly to her studio.

• Being a backup model when she wants you too, only in private.

• Refusing to actually model infront of people.

"I would die... again."

"Don't be dramatic about it."

• Gives you clothes that are in at the moment if you hang out in public

• Understand most of your references

• Willing to fuck someone up if they give you a weird look when she's with you.

• They all hates that you go to the Overlord meeting

• Does enjoy when you spill some tea about what happens

• You're cool enough to associate with the Vees but not enough to be one, not that you would join when you only get along with one and half of them.

Carmilla Carmine-

• Has a motherly instinct with you even though you're powerful enough to be an Overlord.

• You mostly come over to hang out with her daughters, whose usually busy working so you end up helping them.

• Ends with her mothering you when she mothers her daughters.

• Teaches you how to fight after seeing fighting so recklessly.

• Only because someone tried to fight you when her and her daughters were around.

• One of the Overlords that has been in your territory, enjoys how you keep it orderly.

• Surprised with how you run your deals and with how many Sinners come to you for help.

"Oh that was less than normal, you probably scared a few of them away."

• Makes sure your kindness isn't viewed as weakness to anyone.

• Doesn't let you cause any chaos in her presence.

• She gives you a stare that reminds you of your own mother/guardian.

• Causing you to stop before you even start.

• Odette and Clara enjoy your company, reminds them of a less annoying sibling.

• Checks up on you after exterminations, will invite you to wherever they hide but you don't usually don't leave your territory during

• Doesn't like that you get along with Velvette or any of the Vees.

• You were there when the exterminators showed up, ready to go all demon on them to buy time before Camilla showed up, Clara and Odette had to make sure you didn't still tried to fight by pulling you away with them.

• Sheltering them in your own hiding place for the rest of the time.

• Sworn to secrecy, by a pinkie promise.

"Thank you for being ready to defend my daughters at any cost."

"It was no big deal, you showed up before anything actually happened."

• You only showed up because you knew where they were hiding and saw how it quickly went to shit.

• She tried to get you to promise not to do that again, you denied it.

"If that ever happens again, I'll do it in a heart beat. So I can't."

• Realizes quickly you wouldn't let anyone mess with people you call your friends

• Even if meant facing certain death by angels.

#platonic hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel x reader #hazbin alastor #hazbin carmilla #hazbin vees #genz reader

[yamujiburo]

Not sure if you’ve said this or not before, but in your own headcanon, which of Ash’s traveling companions throughout the series do you think both Delia and Jessie would hope he eventually gets together with?

Curious about the two different perspectives considering one of them has mostly just seen them when they visit, while the other has seen how they’ve interacted and fought both with and against each other throughout Ash’s whole journey.

I think Delia likes Misty, mostly because she's seen her the most (and I feel like Misty's the type to go visit Delia even while Ash isn't there). I feel like she'd think Chloe or Goh would be good for Ash too. But overall, Delia doesn't care if Ash ends up with anyone or not so she never pushes for it. He's 10 haha.

Then Jessie would selfishly pick Serena because she, in my opinion, has the least beef with her. She'd also like that Serena was a performer/coordinator like her. I could see Jessie also liking Lillie a lot. Jessie's a little more pushy about it as a hopeless romantic and she's teased Ash about girls in the past (particularly OS)

All if this is prior to them finding out he's aroace

#ask yam

[actually-azi]

✨ Rating Hazbin Hotel ships ✨

Adam / Lucifer - 3/10, It's definitely a funny concept that Lucifer fucked both his wives and then him, but in reality it's a no from me.

Adam / Lute - 7/10, Their relationship would've been unhealthy af but not gonna lie it's pretty cute. I just love Lute so goddamn much lol.

Alastor / Lucifer - 7/10, I like the concept because it's genuinely funny and kinda cute but only as a crack ship. I definitely don't see it actually happening.

Alastor / Literally anyone else - 0/10, I genuinely don't think Alastor would ever even consider a relationship. He just thinks he's above everyone else.

Angel / Cherri - 0/10, What the fuck y'all, he's gay. This one is weird af and idk why it's even a thing.

Angel / Husk - 10/10, I love that Husk cares about Angel for more than sex, they're so cute together especially if they take things slowly.

Charlie / Emily - 2/10, They're so similar that together I feel like it would be too much. Also I really dislike the idea of splitting up Chaggie.

Charlie / Emily / Vaggie - 6/10, I probably wouldn't mind all three of them together. It would be cute to call it Charlie's Angels lol.

Charlie / Vaggie - 10/10, I love them together, they're so supportive and adorable. The way Vaggie looks at Charlie with so much love warms my heart.

Cherri / Sir Pentious - 7/10, I don't like Cherri all that much but I'm so happy that Pen got the girl in the end, he deserves to be loved.

Lilith / Lucifer - 5/10, Mostly it's low because I'm suspicious of Lilith. If she ends up not terrible then I could see it being higher but idk, it's sus for now.

Lute / Vaggie - 7/10, I enjoy the idea of them being exes or something like that. Or Lute being jealous of what Vaggie has with Charlie.

Niffty / Valentino - 10/10, Great crack ship. The fanart is hilarious and Nif's love of bad boys makes it a great concept. But I do pretty much only like it as a joke.

One sided Vox / Alastor - 15/10, This is 100% canon in my head. Vox is SO down bad for Alastor and took it SO personally that Alastor couldn't give less of a fuck like the aroace king he is. I love this SO much.

Valentino / Vox - 500/10, This is my Hazbin OTP honestly. These two losers are terrible people but I love them together more than I can even put into words. They just fit so well together and act like an old married couple.

Valentino / Velvette / Vox - 2/10, Velvette sees Vox and Val as her dumb gay dads and I'll die on that hill. They're more like a family and she's the glue that keeps the other two from imploding when they get pissy.

Velvette / Vox - 2/10, Not feeling it. Honestly I think Velvette is aroace and/or a lesbian. I just don't see anything romantic involving her and either of the other Vees.

#hazbin hotel #alastor #charlie morningstar #lucifer #angel dust #husk #cherri bomb #sir pentious #vox #valentino #velvette #niffty #vaggie #shipping #radioapple #radiostatic #staticmoth #chaggie #lilith #adam #lute #hazbin hotel emily #voxval