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tenth-sentence · 6 months
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Muller's was an armchair socialism, drawn little from reading in its doctrines, imbibed mainly from his father and his own circle of friends in New York.
"In the Name of Eugenics: Genetics and the Uses of Human Heredity" - Daniel J. Kevles
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a-sip-of-milo · 4 months
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True-crime documentaries when the person displaying certain "problematic" behaviour isn't guilty: This is common signs of autism, adhd, depression, anxiety, etc.
True crime documentaries/channels when the person displaying certain "problematic" behaviour IS guilty: Cluster b!!! Cluster b personality disorder for you!!
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steakout-05 · 1 month
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autistic coded men who have orange cats my beloved
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#star trek tng#star trek#star trek data#garfield#garfield jon#jon arbuckle#jetpack joyride#professor brains#jetpack joyride 2#this is my type. weird silly or otherwise quirky guys who have orange cats#brains being autistic is more just a headcanon i have rather than deliberate coding#but he's been shown to have a few autism-like behaviours and traits across the shorts and jetpack joyride 2#it's kinda stereotypical but he's more of a logical simple thinker and he finds strings of numbers to be easier to remember than names#which i find to be interesting! he just has different thinking patterns from what i've seen in neurotypicals. and it's like.#it's the autism radar. i can always tell when a fictional character seems to be Not Neurotypical because holy shit they act like me-#-or another autistic person i know!#also all these characters are like. different facets of autism and i think that's so interesting#on the left we have highly logical direct and ''idk what to do with my face or my hands help'' sherlock spin autism#and then there's slightly unhinged dorky possible ADHD combo and complete lack of social skills autism#and finally there's the evil autism#and i love all three of them <3#i just realised they're also all sitting in big comfy chairs!#jon's armchair looks so comfy though. like i really wanna sit in there#it's probably slightly dirty and most definitely scratched up by garfield but my god that's what make it more homely and comfy#i wonder how many armchairs jon has gotten over the years. i should count all the instances of him having a differently coloured armchair#anyway yeah. autistic cat dads my beloved <3
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hunxi-after-hours · 1 year
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hey, big fan of your blog! read some of your qianqiu metas, and was thinking lately about the presentation of the statist consolidation of power and framing of political unification as an unproblematic moral good in a lot of the wuxia/xianxia I've engaged with. having grown up with these genres, I know that censorship and sociopolitical circumstances are big influences on the message that gets put out. (1/3)
but also as an anti-authoritarian looking to art and literature for countercultural inspiration, I guess I've found a lot of wuxia lacking in a vision for a radical future. this certainly isn't to say that art needs to be radical to have value, or that wuxia spaces haven't created avenues of self-expression and joy for oppressed groups in an airtight society where there are dire risks attached to political activity. (2/3)
wuxia/xianxia are my favorite genres, but many aspects of its narratives seem to uphold structures of oppression (i.e. ableism, colorism, xenophobia, misogyny, etc). but hey, 嫌货人才是买货人, no such thing as perfect, best thing to do, I suppose, is to engage with art with a critical eye. thanks for your time! (3/3)
an anon after my own heart, hello! you're definitely getting at certain themes, assumptions, and values that in a way were built in to the wuxia genre as it has evolved today. whether you’re reading classic authors like 金庸 Jin Yong or remixers like 梦溪石 Meng Xishi, I’ve definitely noticed that wuxia as a genre has, well, complicated relationships with the structures of oppression that you brought up
(I'm leaving xianxia out of the discussion atm as I’m less familiar with it as a whole, but also I don't think it has the same concerns of nationalism and historicism that wuxia does)
in many ways, the modern wuxia genre is a heavily compensatory genre, which I mean specifically in a “hey, compensating much?” kind of way. it took me a very long time to realize and process this, diaspora kid that I am, but so much of contemporary Chinese culture is still profoundly affected by the events of the past 200-250 years. I mean, when you think about it, the imperial dynastic system wasn’t all that long ago; in many ways, Chinese society is still reeling from the century of humiliation, the breakneck industrialization, the mass deaths of the 20th century in war and famine and revolution and government abuse (there is also the matter of the government deliberately evoking public memory of past atrocities to fan nationalistic sentiment for its convenience, which not only keeps historical national humiliations top-of-mind but also disrupts processes of collective memory and collective grieving).
Stephen Teo, in Chinese Martial Arts Cinema: The Wuxia Tradition, tracks the origins of wuxia as a genre, and from the beginning wuxia has been bound up with anxieties over masculinity and national agency, which in literature can often be one and the same. Teo, in tracing early forerunners of wuxia and the historical context of its emergence, notes that "[i]ntellectuals initially regarded the warrior tradition in the genre as one of the elements that could provide a positive counterweight to China's image as the 'sick man of Asia'" (Teo 37).
Given the repeated incursions and invasions onto Chinese soil and China’s status as a semicolony for much of the 19th and 20th centuries, it’s almost too obvious how the wuxia genre provides a balm for those exact anxieties: the martial warrior tradition (the 武 wu in 武侠 wuxia, if you will) directly addresses fears regarding the emasculation of Chinese men; the historical settings of wuxia novels often set during or against a backdrop of past imperial Chinese glories; the featuring of military triumphs over “foreign barbarians” who sought to invade or occupy imperial land, or even better — the protagonist, raised among the “wolfish barbarians,” is uniquely positioned to combine the “raw, savage strength” of “barbarian” culture with the “cultured civility” of Han Chinese culture; the strong emphasis on tradition(al aesthetics) and traditional Confucian ethics of morality and righteousness as contrast and counterpoint to the rapid modernization and Westernization of 20th/21st century Chinese culture... you get the idea
Teo’s book surveys the wuxia genre over the past century, particularly through film, and he discusses how wuxia in the 21st century begins “to manifest as made-in-China historicist blockbusters mixing the epic form with wuxia" — which is to say, wuxia has increasingly become intertwined with the genres of period dramas and historical epics:
"Having been grafted onto the period epic, wuxia becomes a showcase of Chinese history, seeking to be universally accepted while at the same time locating itself within the historicist confines of the nation-state." (168)
wuxia’s increasing hybridization/conflation with historical epics (particularly in Zhang Yimou’s 2002 film 《英雄》 Hero, John Woo’s 2008 - 2009 《赤壁》 Red Cliff duology) increasingly politicizes the genre, and that politicization thereby links wuxia to national issues of structural oppression, like the ones you mentioned: the statist consolidation of power and framing of political unification as an unproblematic moral good, ableism, colorism, xenophobia, misogyny... any one of these could carry a research paper on their own, and I don’t presume to be able to solve or explain away any of them in a tumblr post, but I do think there are many ways in which the wuxia genre’s (often uncritical) support of structures of oppression are directly linked to the origins of wuxia as a genre that was in many ways wish-fulfillment for a 20th/21st century Chinese culture wracked with political turmoil, economic disaster, and cultural uncertainties
I particularly like Teo’s discussion here:
"...The grand historicist self-fashioning of the genre in a film like Hero and its offshoots Curse of the Golden Flower, The Banquet, The Warlords [...and] Red Cliff demonstrate the kind of nationalistic self-aggrandisement that critics find so disturbing, particularly so when the nature of the regime is authoritarian and autocratic, ever ready to invoke militaristic power as the means to their end of a unitary nation state.
“However, if we see the wuxia genre as a mirror of the nation, it shows China in perpetual crisis, torn apart by internal strife and the urge to cohere as a unitary state." (186)
the framing of political unification as an unproblematic moral good is something I find particularly interesting, because a lot of that has to do with Chinese history. the famous opening line of 《三国演义》 / Romance of the Three Kingdoms references this directly: 天下大势,分久必合,合久必分 / “All great movements under heaven [follow this rule]: that which has fallen apart for a long time must come together, and that which has been together for a long time must fall apart.” The entire cyclical narrative of imperial China has been this: a dynasty rises, a dynasty falls, the land fractures into squabbling kingdoms, out of which a single dynasty eventually rises, to eventually fall, to eventually fracture again. and so, a dynasty’s collapse and the subsequent societal fracturing into warring territories is naturally paired with the crisis and violence that ensues with the fall of a state. simply put, there just isn’t a period of Chinese history (or if there is, I don’t know of it) where political fragmentation has not been associated with civil unrest; therefore political unification must be an unproblematic good as it eliminates domestic warfare and returns order to the central plains. handily, this supports the current regime’s nationalistic and authoritarian agenda, and so we see this particular moral value reflected in much of wuxia fiction
not to simply brush aside ableism, colorism, xenophobia, and misogyny all with a wave of a hand, but I do think that much of this has to do with contemporary Chinese society’s current attitudes towards these issues. when a society privileges pale complexions in its beauty standards (see: the triptych of 白富美, the omnipresence of beauty products that advertise skin tone lightening, the entire entertainment/idol industry), colorism is a natural (and shitty) result. government-spurred nationalism, historical racism, and Han chauvinism all contribute to the rampant xenophobia of much of Chinese media, especially when it comes to depictions of non-Chinese Asia (Central Asia, Japan, SE Asia in particular). when wuxia needs a faceless enemy, it reaches for the barbarians on the border. ableism and misogyny are issues that contemporary Chinese society struggle with now; the issue of ableism in particular feels stifled in the cutthroat nature of the current job market (the flipside of China’s massive labor force is the knowledge that every person is fundamentally replaceable), and the depths to which cultural misogyny runs in China is growing steadily more and more evident as the gender gap widens
and when it comes to fiction, when it comes to literature, widespread change often doesn’t occur until there is a societal call for it. I’m thinking of the U.S. science fiction and fantasy scene, which went through its own reckoning with diversity and genre-reified prejudice over the past decade and a half. and now we have brilliantly diverse authors and searingly postcolonial works, queer characters on the regular, Tor Books itself advertising to us soft sad queer freaks on tumblr. the journey wasn’t easy though, nor is the journey remotely close to over, but the fact remains — there was, in a sense, a collective cultural awakening about the ways in which more classic SF/F often utilized and reified racism, prejudice, misogyny, ableism; and subsequently, there was a conscious effort towards holding the genre(s) and its creators accountable, towards writing and supporting and amplifying voices previously shunned and silenced
and, well, to be fully honest, I don’t think that cultural moment has arrived yet for wuxia. this is not to say that there are no wuxia creators out there trying to decolonize the genre, but that we haven’t reached the turning point where decolonizing the genre and examining its history of misogyny, xenophobia, ableism, and colorism is expected, accepted, even celebrated, and I don’t think we’ll get there until contemporary Chinese society goes through a cultural reckoning with these same issues
I also think it’s worth mentioning that whatever that collective cultural awakening/reckoning looks like, it must be and will be distinctively Chinese. Chinese culture maintains different moral values from Western (Euroamerican) culture; contemporary China faces different social issues and political problems than contemporary Euroamerica. whatever this journey looks like, I don’t think it will look like or should look the same as what the U.S. went through/is going through. decolonizing/deimperializing East Asia is inherently different from decolonizing/deimperializing the West, so I would like to stop short of making prescriptive statements on what that cultural turning point should look like
that being said: if anyone’s run into some good postcolonial wuxia lately, I’d be VERY interested to hear more about it
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selectivechaos · 1 year
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‘projecting’ and social anxiety
something i didn’t know/consider before: while i knew worries about being judged/laughed at can be based on previous early negative experiences (such as significant moments of humiliation) that have been left unchallenged by positive, contradictory experiences.
but i didn’t know that they can also be partly based on ‘projecting’ how you see yourself, and using thoughts like “they’re laughing at me” or “they think im stupid” to enact and reinforce beliefs you already have about yourself. it’s not the experience itself that hurts, but it’s actually your own mind beating you up: it’s laughing at you, it wants you to think you’re stupid. it’s not about what they think; it’s about what You think.
with social anxiety, logically you know that they don’t care that much, and that you shouldn’t allow people you don’t know and love to affect your thoughts and mental state so much. but the source of socially anxiety fears of judgement comes from self-judgement: when your mind believes you are worthless and laughable, it presumes people are laughing and judging you, and then when it thinks they are, you experience humiliation just as if it were real, and this reinforces such beliefs.
the things social anxiety says they’ll judge you for are basic human actions like speaking and taking up space. change starts when you let yourself believe you are worth something, so that when that voice says “they’re judging you” it sounds like a strange proposition because why would anyone judge someone so wonderful, why would anyone judge someone for being human and existing. 🌹🌹
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i still can't get over my roommate implying i was autistic and my friend pulling out her phone to show me the "i'm like if a beautiful woman was an autistic little boy" meme that she'd been saving for the occasion someone acknowledged it
#HELLO#guys i try so hard to be normal how the fuck are people noticing#ALSO WHY ARE THEY ACKNOWLEDGING IT#my other friend who is actually diagnosed with autism is also such a little bitch about this#if i flinch at noises or say something a lil too blunt he pulls me aside and goes 'are u having a tism moment' cause he's terminally online#just the audacity of people to point out that ur being weird when ur being weird. HELLO RUDE#my roommate and i had a long convo about this because she's Implied this multiple times#and the first time she said it in front of people. after we went home i was like 'do u really think im autistic'#and she went 'well you know i think it's a spectrum and you're def on it but also i know lots of autistic people who have happy lives!'#and girl what the FUCK. why are u so comfortable talking to me like that#i just got very very agitated because someone's phone was ringing for a whole fucking min and they were just ignoring it. what's WRONG WITH#HER. and im allowed to have sensory issues without it being autism ok shut the fuck up#anyways. i truly don't know how im supposed to react if someone says something like this. because a. im not diagnosed#b. people are far too comfortable armchair diagnosing me. like im not Trying to be different from what's socially acceptable leave me alone#c. but i also don't want to make a big deal about it because they're just jokign around but also the joke is that im constantly weird#can someone tell me how im supposed to react to this#honestly im kinda scared to post this on the autism website.#please don't be too mean to me
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citizen-zero · 4 months
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There’s only one thing more annoying than a sex negative person who insists that kinks they don’t personally like are universally disgusting and morally bad, and that’s a person who acts as if their kink has universal appeal and there’s something wrong with you if you don’t like it
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bovivinator · 8 months
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“Lovebombing” is the trendy new word for internet armchair psychology, but this one’s especially confusing to me because in my life experience, “lovebombing” always meant making a bunch of paper hearts with nice messages on them for someone who had a birthday, or was going through a hard time or something, and leaving them all over the recipient’s door and front porch like they’d exploded.
So when I suddenly see a bunch of posts mentioning “lovebombing” as abusive behavior, leading me on a perplexed search to find alternate definitions, I have to assume this new usage got popular on tiktok and escaped containment, because I’ve never seen an explanation here, just people referencing it out if nowhere like it’s common knowledge
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dordey · 5 months
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it is Very telling when someone who makes appearing alt & supporting social justice causes their entire personality & proclaims that it's not a trend, It Is Who They Are & they're Not doing it Just to be different from everyone else......then later on decides they're an alt right terf who wants to 'tell the truth' about 'the left' after being a very in-your-face ally on their social media for the past 15 years. when you base your entire personality on appearing so different than everyone else, & supporting causes that ARE the unpopular opinion of the day.....eventually Everyone's gonna have tattoos & dyed hair & be as ✨socially aware✨ as you, & you gotta do something dramatically & offensively different just to stand out. & base a new personality on. Very interesting
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pisswizard420 · 10 months
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Hey not so friendly reminder but if your allyship and refusal to use bigotted language is dependent on someone bot being a piece of shit/meeting your standards of morality/being someone you like then a) you cannot claim to have allyship or solidarity and b) you fucking suck!
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mosspapi · 8 months
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What the fuck even is attraction it's all such bullshit actually. Like bro I can barely tell the difference between happy and sad on a good day, how the FUCK do you expect me to tell the difference between "I like this person as a friend," "I like this person romantically," "I like this person sexually," "I like this person aesthetically," etc.??? I literally don't even know what half of those feel like and at this point I'm convinced they're all made up and everyone is just pretending to feel them. Is romantic attraction just friendship but more? Is it different?? How do you know? I personally think it's all bullshit and should be abolished.
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terrainofheartfelt · 1 year
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liz you are so valid for your sports opinion, i prefer basketball too. my main grievance with football is that it's an hour game dragged out to four 💀
oof maybe that's why I couldn't get into it when I was little because it was soooooooo slow. like why would I watch it when I have my books and polly pockets and barbie pc games???
#talking to my dad this morning#and for a while#i've suspected that I may have a kind of attention deficit disorder#but I don't wanna armchair diagnose myself#but also....thinking on my behaviors....this bitch (me) ain't okay#but like when you're the girl who's the smartest in your class the symptoms of those that people look for are socialized right out of you#anyways#this is just to say football never held my attention long enough for me too learn it#and now I think it's just too late#and maybe it's also because#the town where we grew up was sooooo tiny#that the school could not field a football team#like it was THAT small#so there was no football#but there was basketball and softball and baseball#so those were events that I could go to and have fun at#but football was always only on tv#but much cooler stuff was also on tv? so why? are we watching football?#game day snacks though. those always slapped.#anyways I've been working on finishing the holiday au in the living room with the fam while the bowl games are on#also oklahoma has never had a pro football team#but we got the thunder. and liking a sport is easier when you got a team to root for#i mean i guess there's college ball. nah why justify it american football sux#asks#blairwaldcrf#(cherry can you tell that i'm tipsy from lunch with these tags lmao)#(also I shared my with my dad and my brother my suspicions of being not quite neurotypical#and my dad said that i'm just his daughter#like SIR i don't think you're entirely neurotypical either!)
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thecubes · 1 year
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I love it when Jeff and Marty are in the car together and Marty's default position is to rest his arm on the back of Jeff's seat my brain registers it as a physical connection even though it's not because they aren't technically touching
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greencheekconure27 · 1 year
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Local woman tired of hearing her naturally low need for socialization (relatively), lack of interest in romantic relationships and tendency to enjoy alone time means there's something wrong with her and she *doesn't have any friends *.
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gothlovingoth · 2 years
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not to swing a bat at a hornets nest but maybe the popularization of the gaslight gatekeep female manipulator unhinged crazy girlblogger who manipulates and pegs men because she hates men and is taking her sexuality into her own hands by playing guys and has no remorse has not been very #feminist and maybe hindered the metoo mouvement by giving many terminally online isolated people the impression that this manic pixie dream girl revenge wet dream is literally how mentally unstable women are and act
#I don’t mean mentally unstable as derogatory at all. it’s absolutely normal to be shaken when you’re fighting your abusive ex in court#and the entire world is judging you and rooting for him#this is about amber heard#it was WAY too easy to convince large groups on social media that a woman in distress must be literally crazy#and what a slap back to reality to see how people not only believed the psych who diagnosed her borderline and histronic in an hour#but used it as an argument agaisnt her. as if being mentally ill makes you abusive and takes away all your credibility#yall complain that mental illness is stigmatized and spread awareness but you’re only in it for the performance and it shows#its clear that you believe mental illness makes you an unhinged manic crazy person and you think thats sooo edgy and cool#you use it as an excuse to be a terrible person and calls everyone who has ever not enabled you a narcissistic abuser#its 2022 and people are a calling a domestic abuse victim the modern version of hysterical#and don’t say anyone manipulated you into this you are responsible for your own lack of critical thinking#no one on earth forced you to make memes about serious abuse allegations#there isn’t a single good reason to believe heard might not have been entirely truthful#it’s entirely about character assasination and projected parasocial relationships#and don’t tell me the taped call was ever a reason to not believe heard I’ve listened to that tape#it’s so fucking obvious depp is twisting words to construct a narrative#I don’t trust the armchair diagnosis but I also don’t care whether or not she suffers from mental illness its not my buisness#and it would not make her less credible or more likely to be abusive#which I can’t believe is a controversial opinion
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snowshinobi · 2 years
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"you're a lit major what do u mean u can't read people" pal i'm ace at dissecting narratives but real life flesh humans?? whole different ballgame. man I WISH friday night in my coworker-turned-friend's kitchen came with Themes and Foreshadowing
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