#aromantic-cactus

[freshie-owo]

I’ve been reading piece by piece and I just had to say here I’m completely obsessed with it, I’ve had so much brainrot of bio!son zenitsu of Uzui and i was wondering if you had any headcanons or ideas of what their dynamic would’ve been like had zenitsu not gone missing? Would his personality been largely different or still generally the same? Would zenitsu be a sound breather user or still thunder breather? I’m sorry for the so many questions I’m just obsessed lol

Hi, thank you so much!!! And please don't apologise for asking I am more than happy to have an excuse to talk about it myself lol.

I do think a few things would be different if Zenitsu grew up with his family. I don't think he would've had so many girlfriends so young, especially with his parents, who married young, there to guide him.

I also think Zenitsu wouldn't be so "I have no expectations to meet because nobody ever expected anything of me" and maybe instead he'd be more, like, afraid of the legacy he'd have to live up to with all his parents being Shinobi and, of course, Tengen being a Hashira.

I do also headcanon that he would be a thunder breath user, but that's mostly because I cannot imagine a world where Zenitsu doesn't get to meet gramps 🥺

As for the general fam, I kind of imagine that having a kid would actually really mellow Tengen out and make him a tiny bit more responsible, especially when he's at the life stages we see him at in the anime/manga.

I actually have ummmmmm a whole follow-up au fic planned (no idea when I will even grt to writing it tho since I'm not finished piece by piece 😭) that will be about Zenitsu growing up with his family!!! So while I have no guarantee when that will be coming pls stay tuned for that!!

#thank you for the ask i love love love getting to talk about my fic and headcanons 🙏 #ask #aromantic-cactus

[aro-culture-is]

Aromantic culture is not being able to imagine living with someone for the rest of your life, like, I can’t get all the pets I want if I do that?! And I may not even be able to decorate the way I want?!?!

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#aromantic-cactus #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod alexander #big mood

[pansexual-pied-piper]

#alloaro #aroallo #aromantic #aspec #cactus #lego dots #queer stuff #idk I like messing around with lego dots

[sun-roach]

Guys is there a name for aesthetic crush?

If not I will call it having a cactus

#i have a cactus on matthews #just wanna watch him skate #pretty talented himbo #aromantic #asexual #aroace #about ness #aesthetic #aesthetic attraction

[rusted-phone-calls]

this post is specifically dedicated to questioning aros btw. you are awesome

#thinking of planet girl cat cactus you know. planet girl who was asking me if she was aro ish #dedicated to planet girl. hope she does not have too much of a headache trying to figure out everything #aromantic

[thearomanticcactus]

I see a lot of people saying that they were sad or whatever when they found out that they were on the aspec, so I thought I'd share my experience.

When I first found out that asexual was a possibility, I thought that that was what I was because I was unaware that aromantic was an option. But it didn't seem to make much sense because I enjoy smut and such, but I wasn't sure if I'd want to experience that stuff myself. And I genuinely didn't know if that still counted as asexual.

But when I found out about aromantic people, I realized that that made so much more sense for me. Because I had "liked" people in the past, but I never understood when other people explained their crushes because I didn't feel any of those overwhelming emotions. I've come to realize that I'd never actually liked those people, I liked the idea of them. The popular people, y'know? And finding out that not romantically liking people was a real thing was truly a game changer. It made me realize what my feelings were.

And finding out that I'm aromantic felt like a huge weight was lifted off of me. Because in the media and stuff, there's all this dramatic heartbreak and knowing that thag wouldn't be a part of my life made me feel a little better.

Since finding out I've been able to truly value my friendships in a way that I'm not sure I could have without this. Because without that "be all, end all" romance that seems to be portrayed everywhere, my friends feel like that be all, end all. And something about that just really reassures me.

#aromantic #aromantic cactus #cactus #my story #my thoughts #my experiences #just rambling

[george228732]

People are saying that aromantic/asexual guys aren't part of the LGBT community, and I must say that.

Yes? They do belong? Like, this shouldn't be rocket science, right? As an aroace myself, i think it's pretty obvious?

Anyways, we belong in there, if you think otherwise, go suck a cactus, sis.

#rambles #just wanna say that #aromantic #asexual #aroace

[kordbot]

So- Hacker is aromantic.. and hes okay with kissing in a romantic way? lowkey feels.. weird...

wym? there is no such thing as kissing in a romantic way... whether something is romantic or not depends entirely on the intention of the people doing it. if you mean the courier & hacker thing i can guarantee you that there is not a tiny bit of romance between them [and sicc can confirm this too]. ALSO. ALSO. JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS AROMANTIC IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY CAN'T PARTICIPATE IN / ENJOY ROMANTIC ACTIVITIES. action =/= attraction. thank you for your patience and if you consider these facts and still decide to be an arophobe go fuck yourself with a cactus and get the fuck away from my blog. thanks

#hacker is aro and doesn't like romance himself. but kissing isn't an inherently romantic thing #like what do you even MEAAAAN kissing in a romantic way. like what is it. screams #whatever. i tried to be nice. im going back to drawing quincy and brodie kissing now thumbsup #arophobia tw #ask

[curious-sootball]

Hello! Congradulations, you have found my blog. This is its masterlist of tags and rules - I will greatly appreciate it if you read the whole post and comply. So,

• This is my main (and only) blog. Everything I reblog goes here, because I don't want to juggle managing a bunch of sideblogs. (Tfp fantasy au sideblog is a shared blog, it is currently inactive). Please use tags for navigation, I tag vent posts, nsfw and gore (both when I post and reblog, although i don't reblog vent posts)and I assume you know how to filter tags/content.

• I'm an aromantic asexual. I'm not interested in random sexting or online dating; unsolicited flirting and/or aphobic BS will get you blocked.

• My art tag is sootball_draws , although I only made it this year and haven't retagged all my art with it yet. Searching for fandom specific tags(e.g. "hollow knight" or "hk [character's name]") or "traditional art" on my blog will also help you find my art. My au-specific tags are vigilante tiso!au, tfp fantasy!au and playing around with tma fears in ga'hooleverse. Those are aus that I specifically helped to create, other aus aretagged with what creator named them (e.g. boatem knights au, the magus archives au).

• If you follow me and you have a blank/unfinished-looking blog(e.g. default icon/pfp, one of the default header images, white main theme, no name/description), I will block you and report you for spam because you look like a porn bot(if you want details on why people are blocking porn bots so much here, search "the bot plague", but long story short - they use actual people to look legit and spread malware-filled links). This isn't twitter or facebook or insta or tiktok, you can't make a blank lurker account. Seriously, there are multiple easy-to-find guides on how to customise your blog, just type "tumblr etiquette" into tag search. If you still have a blank blog by this point, you get the bot treatment.

• If you go through my account spam liking my art and art I reblogged without reblogging anything in turn, you might also get blocked! Depends on how annoyed I am with you. This isn't me begging for numbers - if I don't want to share an art piece, I just don't post it! I share my art with the fandom because I want to bring joy! Tumblr isn't twitter, tiktok or instagram - likes are private bookmarks!!! Liking things without reblogging leaves a message that you enjoyed something, but don't want it to be known, like you're a victorian era married gentleman who doesn't want to be seen entering or leaving a brothel. Most tumblr users don't check the "likes" folder on other blogs, so no one sees things if you just leave a like on them. Reblogging is NOT the same as reposting, and whoever told you otherwise is a liar and an idiot: reblog is that tiny green recycle icon button next to like button. Reblogged post can easily be tracked back to the original poster by clicking on their icon, or you can tag it with "art by op" or "other people's art" on your blog to make it clear it isn't yours. I put time and effort into art I make - to see an equivalent of a bunch of "eh, cool, i guess" responses can be really disheartening. You're actively making fandom spaces worse when you do this. I have no patience for that.

• Should be pretty obvious, but racists/terfs/swerfs/all kinds of exclusionists/ai "art" supporters will be blocked on sight. I'm not giving you fuckheads a platform, go eat a cholla cactus.

#pinned post #masterlist

[franny-banks-world]

Sadie from the movie Ghosted (2023) is aromantic rep!! She's gone for work for 1-2 months at a time and is looking for someone who is a "CACTUS"!! and not needy! All of which Cole is NOT AHAHAHA!!

#ghosted (2023) #ana de armas #i felt so seen!! #aromantic characters #aromantic #aromanticism #chris evans

[volixia669]

Pride isn’t unsafe for aros, it jsut isn’t for aros, the same way it isn’t unsafe for cishets in general but isn’t FOR them.

Aro pride is great. Just irrelevant to pride.

And the anons have already started.

And you know what anon and everyone else who thinks that way? Go fuck yourself with a cactus.

YOU are the ones who are making anyone who isn't flamboyantly gay feel uncomfortable at an event that is about US.

And you're probably attacking the flamboyant queers too.

Go take a fucking look at what the fascist right are doing in the United States. They're taking away trans rights. They're taking away women's rights. They're taking away voting rights. And they're gonna take away gay rights too.

Look at Don't Say Gay. Look at all the teachers who got fired for being gay. Look at the uptick in queers being called "groomers" for daring to be openly queer.

We are being attacked. The fascists want us DEAD. And guess what? That includes those on both aromantic and asexual spectrum for daring to have different ideas on what love and relationships are. That includes bisexuals. That includes pansexuals. That includes nonbinaries of all types, whether they transition or not.

So guess what? Pride is for all of us. And any cisallohets who want to stand with us are WELCOME to support us queers at pride. Y'know why?

Solidarity.

We cannot beat the fascists while standing alone, or in little groups.

We have to stand together. Now more than ever.

And allies who help FIGHT the groomer rhetoric and everything else the right is doing are welcome.

Who knows? Maybe that "cisallohet" ally is actually in the closet. Maybe they're just curious about pride. Maybe they'll learn something about themselves via being around queers. Tbh, as long as they're being an ally aka not being an asshole, they're just fine.

The thing is.

You want to be exclusionary?

You want to divide us?

You want to reduce the number of people willing to stand strong?

Then you're just helping the fascists, and tbh I actually don't need to tell you to get fucked. The fascists will fuck you right over.

#cw: arophobia #cw: asshole anon #cw: homophobia #cw: pride discourse #gay wrath month #am i feeding the trolls? maybe #but i want to be super clear on what this division does #it only weakens us #at a time we need to stand strong #yes the american right are fascists #some of them even call themselves that #so yeah i'm pissed #and i'm pissed at the people trying to divide us

[fawn-wickenshire]

Fawn Wickenshire's Introduction (Revamped)!

Who is Fawn?

Fawn is my Stardew Valley OC. She's just my silly girl made for fun; not meant to be taken too seriously. She's the least developed of my SDV OCs, but my first one and the only one I'll be presenting.

This post has been remade as Fawn has been updated.

Image:

(Disclaimer: You do not have permission to repost, edit, upload, trace, or in any way tamper with my images on this blog. You do not have permission to use any of my images on this blog for AI generation or any AI-related tools. All rights reserved by @ieatsmallorphansnamedtom on Tumblr.)

Art by me!

General Information:

Fawn was twenty-three years old when she arrived in the valley. Her pronouns are mostly she, but she is fine with they. Fawn is aromantic-asexual. She was born on the 14th Fall in-game and is 175 cm (5'7") tall. Fawn is a trans woman.

Fawn has no spouse, but does eventually become roommates with Krobus and is best friends with Robin. Fawn doesn't hate anyone in the town, but her least favourite person is Morris.

Fawn has two cats; a black Bombay cat called Void, and a white and brown Birman cat called Marshmallow.

Fawn's favourite festival is Dance of the Moonlight Jellies.

Gifts:

Loved: All universal loved (except magic rock candy), truffle, rhubarb pie, blackberry cobbler, poppy

Liked: Cranberry sauce, blueberry tart, salmonberry, wild horseradish, farmer's lunch

Disliked: Coffee, pickles, sea cucumber, beer, bean hotpot

Hated: Clay, sea cucumber, escargot, sea urchin, coral, morel, ginger, cactus fruit, winter root, magic rock candy

#wickenshire.txt #oc intro #not an ask #farmer fawn #farmer oc #sdv oc #stardew valley farmer #stardew valley oc #sdv farmer #stardew oc #stardew farmer

[busyescapingreality]

My secondary Tumblr account(s)~

The Aromantic Cactus (I wish I could change which account is the main one because this should be my main, but I'm an idiot)

Anime as Text Posts (I post on this one the most lol)

[thefrogginbullfish]

#asexual #ace #ace pride #aromantic #aro #aroace #aspec #arospec #demisexual #demiromantic #cactus #the good place #please give me grandchildren #sorry but you're getting a cactus and he is my son #he's a good boy #lgbt #queer #lgbt memes #all the hashtags lmao #I relate to Michael in The Good Place way too much

[weaver-z]

i know it's a long shot, but any ace or aro blinkies? alternatively any general pride blinkies you think are interesting from a historical viewpoint (like historic pride pins showing a snapshot of the pride movement- blinkies are just the digital pins of the 00's after all)

I couldn't find any ace/aro blinkies or content related to that, so I hope these terrible, terrible flags suffice.

#ask #blinkie request #cactus-brandon #asexual #aromantic

[onecuddlycactus]

Questioning if I'm aromantic once again

I enjoy romance and doing romantic things, but it feels like the attraction isn't there?

I have desires to give and receive romantic affection but when I question if I have romantic feelings for someone that's when everything confuses the fuck out of me.

#aromantic #aroace #idk #ventish? #not so cuddly cactus