#dating woes

[kiestrokes]

#keeping the poll simple #b and I are gonna book club read it together after work #and scrub any names #(if any are there) #but the boldness to send a whole ass 1000+ words is hilarious to me #smut #dating apps #dating adventures #dating woes #hud #writing #writeblr #writers on tumblr #writerscommunity #writblr #writer things #writerblr #writer problems #smut inspo #smut imagine #smut ideas #smut cw #cw smut #tw smut #smut irl #smut poll #smut p #smut problems #smut reading #smut stories

[bihansthot]

Do emo guys still exist? That’s what I want in a boyfriend, one who’s going to borrow my eyeliner. I gave up my quest for a Visual Kei guy a longtime ago, I’m too fat for Japanese guys (Korean guys love me though lol) but a pretty emo guy would be so lovely. I never really got into the music scene though so I have no idea where one acquires an emo guy, especially an older one with any luck. I don’t have an issue dating younger guys but too young has too many problems. I’m rambling but someone please find me a pretty emo guy lol

#emo boy #emo guy #i want one #borrow my eyeliner and tell me I’m pretty #dating woes #40s would be perfect #sol rambles #accepting boyfriend applications

[fallowhearth]

Getting so desperate re: finding someone to bang that I decided to text a stand-up comedian I used to fuck pre-covid. I am actually pleased to hear how he's doing; we were the friends part of fwb. But it's also incredibly cringe of me. Trying to communicate a subtext of 'I'm totally not trying to hook up after not messaging you for years... Unless...?' completely mortifying

#dating woes #take me out back and put me down

[highladyluck]

I’m told the people want collage art, so here are some older ones with a loose theme.

#my art #collage #dating woes #collage art

[starksurvivorthoughts]

"Prey hunter uwu" "I can make you worse" "trauma is hot" thats cool. The last time I tried to have sex I had a panic attack so bad the neighbors called 911

#csa survivor #sa survivor #survivor rant #vent #everywhere i go feels volitile to me like its to torment me specifically #dating woes

[elvves]

For real if someone could send me some love, I got dumped and I wasn't even in a relationship.

#dating woes #kit.txt #jace dont look

[wanderlustxprincess]

#Pedro pascal #dating #dating woes #dating apps #personal #I think I’m hilarious honestly

[traceybaby1]

Hi everyone I'm new here i just decided to share a picture i took, Reblog please

#sex lie and dating #love advic #wally darling #star wars #succession #asexual #donald trump #dating #usa #usa dating #dating women #dating woes #mostlycatsmostly

[gracejones]

What I’ve learned from online dating is that folks mostly just want to talk to someone…building a connection beyond the app is difficult.

I currently have 26 matches in my inbox (this is after me unmatching folks who never returned my messages).

2 are friends who we matched out of platonic solidarity lol so that leaves 24.

Out of 24 matches I’ve met with only four people! It would have been five but I got sick and the person never responded to my message about rescheduling.

Of those four, only one went further than a first date and then she ultimately called it off (I have a separate lament about being a Demi person dating)

I’m committed to this process, I want to find my person. But I’ve realized solely relying on online dating isn’t viable (if you can help it).

I’m going to singles mixers and joined a few hobby-centric groups. I’ve also have asked friends to set me up but that also has fallen through (people are busy).

It felt so much easier to meet people in my 20s, I was basically in some form of a relationship the entire time. My 30s is the first time I’ve been single for multiple years and I’m fine with that, I love my company. But damn, why is it so hard to date atm?

#why couldn’t I be lucky and meet someone on tumblr like all my moots 😹 #personal #dating #dating woes

[itswhatyougive]

Share your biggest "date failed successfully"/dodged bullets in the tags

I'll start- went out for sushi with an assistant plumber who seemed nice enough, turns out he was going to start training to become US Border Patrol because "the pay is good"

#i told him i didn't think i'd be able to take water away from migrant kids in the desert but i'm built different ig #dating horror stories #dating and relationships #red flags #thank you next #dating #task failed successfully #thanks but no thanks #yikes #dating woes

[bihansthot]

Wtf is happening in my life lol I went on two dates last week one good-ish one painful and I have two possibly three dates this week. Someone send help, being this social for a gremlin is very difficult. I suppose I should spill the tea, I went out with a nice metal head last Wednesday and while he’s not exactly my type physically he was nice to be around, pleasant to talk to and a gentleman so I agreed to see him again but we haven’t made plans yet and I’m still holding try outs for be Sol’s boyfriend right? The second date was Friday with a super nerd now don’t get me wrong I’m also a total nerd I mean my dog is named Denethor FFS but we’re the wrong type of nerd. He’s sci-fi and I’m fantasy and while this is poly dating and I knew going into the date he was married I did not know about his three kids under 8 or the couple he and his wife were seeing together nor did I know he was a stay at home dad. All of these are kind of big red flags for me, not being upfront about additional partners HUGE red flag, not knowing about children also huge deal for me. He also took me to a cat cafe without asking prior if I was allergic, thankfully I’m not but these are all pretty big signs he’s concerned for himself and not others. He was also rather large, which don’t get me wrong I have no issues with I’m not a body shamer and my partner is rather heavy too but this guy had a chronic injury so he couldn’t really interact with the kittens so the whole thing was weird from the get go and I know y’all know me, this pillow princess does NOT ride (unless it’s for Bi-Han) so wtf would I gain from this relationship? A guy who already divides his attention between 6 people has no income and I can only see him when the kids are asleep?! Big fucking no. I was pleasant and cordial through out the date and thanked him for taking me but I put on my big girl panties and told him he just had too much going on for me. I’m clingy, I’m needy, I’m also materialistic there’s a reason I met my ex on a sugar daddy website, I can’t be dating a broke ass man who’s seeing three partners and has three kids. I’m sorry if that sounds spoiled but it’s the truth, I NEED to be a priority and I didn’t feel like he could make me one.

I’m tentatively going out with another man this Friday at a barcade which is much more my scene, drinks and video games sound wonderful. Appearance wise he’s still not quite what I go for but better looking than the other two, then Sunday I potentially have a date with a dude who looks like he used to play college football and is physically much more my type he’s also in his mid 40s thank fuck as the others have all been in their 30s. There’s also another one who seems a very good fit who’s asked me out but we haven’t set a date or time yet.

So, yeah that’s what’s going on in my life lately the app is FeeId if anyone else wants to try poly or couples dating and was unaware of the app. I don’t remember the name of the sugar daddy website or I’d hook y’all up too but that ended badly so maybe it’s for the best I don’t remember.

My partner is going out of town for three days so wish me luck that Denny behaves for me and doesn’t drag me around in the snow. Oh yeah! It’s snowed the last two days! My real husband is saying hi 🥰 Maybe it’s a sign of good luck? Maybe one of these upcoming dates will go well then?

#sol life #online dating #dating #dating woes #bad dates #polyamory

[fallowhearth]

Lmao, first date back at it, I managed to get the incredibly sweet, adorable 26 y/o bi guy I was with way too drunk because I took him to a bar that does cheap pints and I downed mine like normal and it turns out he's only recently started drinking. I was planning to down like three pints on an empty stomach and take him back to my place because I'm a mole. But I did kiss him. I'm so cancellable right now

#I swear I will stop posting like this when I actually get laid #we've got age gap and grooming? problematic drug use? #also literal oh no we're both doms moment #but he backed down immediately because I'm the bigger dom and will simply eat him #dating woes

[beautyinthediss0nance]

I love that not looking for what he wants is “attitude”, and he’s right, I’m not in his league, I’m way above him

#personal #dating woes #fucker thinks he can talk to me like that #this is why I don’t date white collar men #leave me to the blue collar old fashioned ones #he’s also blocked so there will be no *around in the morning * #especially when I never used any disrespect #except to say no #Cuz how dare I

[winterrose527]

he's a ten but you asked him what author he reads and Charles Bukowski was one of the first out of the gate

#did I do this write #dating woes #like applaud a man for reading and then pull the book out of his hands

[codingcorgi]

You know after 29 years of non-consensual existence, I'd know my own sexuality at this point... Nope I don't know what it is anymore. I'm poly I know that much. I'm romantically interested in people, but sexual attraction is close to 0. I only feel it with my husband and that's iffy. Like idk I'm just not interested anymore, and it's killing my dating life. I also move very slow with dating, and that frustrates people to no end. I'm picky, and I'm guarded to hell and back. I love making friends and I'm very social, but romance is hard to navigate.

#self esteem #self improvement #lgbtq #lgbtq community #asexual #cosmickittytalk #vent post #polyamourous #dating woes

[areyouafraidofdating]

Direct. Not subtle.

#onlinedatingintoronto #onlinedating #toronto #dating #tinder #areyouafriadofdating #pof #comedy #datingproblems #dating woes #not subtle #direct