#drop tea in my dms/asks sometime anon

[vip3r-r]

hello hello! saw your requests are open soo…

could you do one with thoma where he comforts reader ab anxiety they’re having with some toxic ex-friends? ive been dealing with that lately and its causing me to have alot of panic attacks at school, and this would rly cheer me up :) reader f or gn! thank you if you get to it!

I did this around 1:20A.M and it deleted the whole thing…

Hello Anon!

I hope by the time I post this— you are feeling better! I understand how you feel and if at any given time you need someone to talk, my dm are always open! Some thoma hc for you dear Anon <3 I think I did I really good job at not putting pronouns!

Warning; Anxiety! not everyone experiences anxiety the same as other, so fair warning that I probably didn’t write it how you wanted me to write it.

Thoma comforting you hc(?)

Thoma is a busy man, walking to every corner of Inazuma just to help people out.

He helps people even If he has a day off..

But if he sees you once believe me when I say he will drop anything in his hands just to go talk to you— working or not.

Thoma is always happy to see you and talk to you, the same goes with you!— hopefully.

And for once, he couldn’t find you anywhere in Inazuma city… he found it rather weird— he always sees you with your friends all happy, did something happen?

After a long time of searching, he gave up and made the assumption that you just didn’t go out today.

Thoma was heading back to Komore Teahouse for a small lunch break— Thoma open the door quickly closing it looking straight at Taroumaru but…

Taroumaru looked worried and gave low braks and whines, as soon as Thoma saw him and asked what was wrong— followed by sobs from one of the rooms.

He quickly ran to the room just to find you sitting down right in front of the table, head hiding by your hands

“Y/n what’s wrong..?” He whispered

One thing he knew, low voice no matter what. He didn’t know what happened and it was better to keep his voice low as he didn’t want to frighten you.

He got close enough and sat down next to you. Thoma gently touches your back, if you flinch he would probably leave you alone until you look at him.

This could go in two ways

1.) you go for a hug, wanting to feel his touch— something warm something that makes you feel safe.., if you do, he automatically hugs you back, with even extra love. Your head in his shoulder and Thoma’s hands rubbing up and down your back whispering “shh it’s okay” and “I’m here, it’s okay- you’re okay” with a so sweet tone your red eyes slowly close. Thoma is the kind of person that wont move until you move, he want you to be comfortable and if you need a shoulder to cry on, he IS your shoulder. He even has tissues!

2.) If you really don’t want someone touching you but want thoma there, he won’t leave. He would rather sit in the entry of the room and wait until you tell him it’s okay. Sometimes Crying a lot gets you dehydrated, so for the time you want to be alone, Thoma would prepare some tea and make some food for you. Brings it back but He puts it in the entry of the room, right in front of him, ready to move it.

He won’t pressure you nor he would ask what exactly made you cry but knowing Thoma, it won’t leave his head until he gets at least some information.

If you do decide to tell him, Thoma would get rather angry— why would someone say something so, so… so rude. He kept his thoughts to himself and made it his goal for today to try and make you happy once again.

He asked you what you wanted to do, let’s say you just wanted to stay with him, maybe cuddle? He would bring some blankets and pillows from the back, why where their blanket and pillows in the back? Let’s say it wasn’t comfortable sleeping in cold floor during the vision hunt decree…

Thoma also asked kamisato Ayato and Lady Ayaka if he could have some days off, with the simple excuse of some urgent important thing he had to take care of.

And for the pass days, Thoma never lefts your side. Complimented you and kissed your face every chance he had.

“You look beautiful in that dress y/n!” And “ah look at you, beautiful” he believes he had erased those people out of your head.

He has the habit of putting flowers on your hair with the stupid line “I think I’m in the presence of an archon!”

This suck I’m so sorry…

#genshin impact #genshin x reader #genshin impact x reader #thoma x reader #thoma x y/n #thoma x you #thoma x fem!reader #thoma x gender neutral reader #thoma x gn reader #thoma fluff

[jimines]

Whats actually happened between you and taemaknae? I read about it on the tea blog and still confused

This is an insanely long story so I'm going to put it below the cut so for anyone interested in this absolute shit show, continue on.

Essentially, I posted these headers about a month ago:

It was a set of like 8 colours and it was the first time I had ever posted any headers or anything. The issue nic had with these, was the ripped paper bottom. Because apparently you can trademark that. I had asked a (now ex) “friend” of mine if she knew where I could find the ripped paper effect because I had seen the effect on the header of her network blog and I had been trying to find a similar thing for months and google images never gave me anything good. She ended up referring me to google images anyways and after like an hour of dedicated searching, I found this ripped paper effect and used it. This ex “friend” went on to tell another friend of mine that I had "asked where nicole gets her resources for her headers" and then screenshotted my dm as "proof", which still confuses me because I never mentioned nicole there lmao. I've seen the screenshot.

Tell me where I said nicole. It was literally just a question born from seeing the header they had on their network lmao. I feel it’s important to mention I didn’t know this person ran said network at that time, which is why i said “these people”.

This other friend then came to me and just said my headers "may be seen as similar to nic's” and said she noticed it on her own and never mentioned my other “friend” approaching her. I was confused because other than that ripped paper effect that I know many people on tumblr use, I saw no similarities. Nic's headers are usually more complex and more than just a coloured background with a little effect in it. I just wanted to make some simple headers for fun because I was bored. But, regardless, I messaged nic about it to make sure she didn't feel the same way. I told her a friend of mine was worried nic might think my headers are similar to her's and I assured her that if she found them similar I would take them down, no questions asked. Nic told me she was surprised this friend brought it up and told me that it was entirely up to me if I found the headers similar. She never once told me she felt they were the same, never mentioned anything about them, she insisted it was up to me to do as I pleased. So, since I genuinely found no similarities, I left them up.

About a week went by and things between nic and I were fine, or so I thought, based off the fact that she was interacting with my posts, sending me cute asks and replying to a lot of my comments and stuff being kind and whatnot. Then, I decided to post a small list of my creations and the series I had running at the time. 

After that, all of a sudden I got an influx of rude hate anons:

To anyone I mentioned the anons to, they agreed with me, you cannot trademark circular icons. This anon also accused me saying “just the fact that you had an anxiety attack about it proves you copied them” Like no sweetie, it’s called three strangers walked into my house and I got anxious.

Despite me not seeing the issue, I messaged nic, assuming she wouldn't care about the icons (it wasn't like I was taking her exact work and copying and pasting them as my own) and that made her very upset. When she responded to me, she was incredibly heated and gave off the vibe she was waiting for me to message her about it. 

She said things like "this has actually been bothering me for a while", "i expected you to be able to read between the lines and delete the headers", "i don't know who that anon was but clearly they recognize my style". For starters, she never told me that she was annoyed with me, she was being very kind to me publicly. And I have no idea how I was meant to “read between the lines” of what she said especially considering how kind she was to me the following days. I also never accused her of knowing this anon, she just insisted it wasn't her and she didn't know them right off the bat. She also insinuated that I copied my gifs from others as well, which ticked me off because I made my 100+ layer psd myself thank you very much. But I kept my cool, and I told her I had no idea she felt the way she did, and I told her I would delete the headers (which i did as the conversation was going on), and that I would stop posting my icons and bringing attention to them because no one ever paid it any mind before that point. And I asked her “please tell me straight up the next time you have an issue with me because I am generally pretty dumb with social cues”, I have my adhd to thank for that. And instead of replying, she just blocked me. And conveniently, the hate anons stopped dead right after we blocked each other and I haven't received any since.

Also, these are the kinds of icons I posted:

Looks pretty generic and idk, universal, right?

Then, as I've recently found out today, she was in an "anti-loverjimin" groupchat with at least 2 other bloggers. 

Which explains why this all went and fell into place. I know who the two other bloggers are because of what happened two days later but I won't name them just yet, but these two people had been "friends" with me for several months. So, a day or two after nic blocked me, all of a sudden some good friends of mine were blocking me and not talking to me when I asked what was going on. I found out soon after it was because nicole and those two now ex “friends” of mine had taken old dms I sent them and were showing them to people. And I will go into detail about them but I won't name the people they are about for privacy reasons.

Before I move on, to clarify some lies nic has been spreading about me, I never once shit talked nicole to my friends. One of these ex friends also said I was trying to get people on my side. I would have reacted to this all very very differently if that were the case. I would be dragging everyone through the fucking dirt but I don't get off on drama or micromanaging what my mutuals do. My issues are with these people, if you're still friends with them that's your decision i could not care less. So, back to it, the only thing I said about nic was that she and I had a stupid small fight over icons and that she was spreading lies about me, based off of what nic said to jordan.

That exact message, or slight variations of it, was sent to anyone I interacted with because I didn't know if nic was going to stop at jordan or try and get to everyone I fucking knew lmao. Some of the people I messaged this to told ME nic had done this kind of thing before, that she has sent hate anons, launched hate campaigns, cancelled people, etc. Over stupid shit like icons lmao.

Here are some responses I received after I mentioned nicole:

And nic or one of her friends also took it upon themselves to send anons to that tea blog to blow shit up and named everyone and made it an even bigger mess when they saw no one was actively trying to fight me after the dms got out. 

I also love that in this following ask, they named my two “friends” that were behind the whole dm drama and backstabbed me, as well as two other people I never badmouthed, that story was twisted. But we’ll get into those details shortly.

And she also told people I clout chased big blogs and only cared about notes. At one point, yes, I did care a lot about my statistics. However, never once did I think clout chasing was worth my fucking time or energy, Nic is the biggest clout chaser on this damn site and there are receipts of that, ask jordan lmao. And I couldn’t give two shits about my statistics anymore lmao, much less anxiety that way. Do I still crave validation sometimes? Sure. But it's not a driving force of my tumblr experience like it used to be.

But, moving on to the dms, the first one was sent when I first came back to tumblr full-time and didn't understand why people self reblogged things, I found the pretence of self reblogging annoying and greedy and I complained about it and it was a comment fuelled by two bloggers that i would see sr a lot on my dash. But I never thought THEY were annoying, as these people are saying I did, it was self reblogging I found annoying and as you can see I have come to understand why people sr and I do it myself too. I didn't even know these two bloggers at this time either. That dm was cropped to hide the fact that this "friend" agreed with me and hid the date as well so it seemed recent, and was sent to one of the bloggers I mentioned as an example, someone I had since become good friends with. 

I didn’t befriend one of the people I mentioned there until mid to late June. That friendship is now over thanks to this drama and all the lies. The second friend of mine they went after was never spoken about in dms, they went and turned her against me through lies and manipulation so that friendship has ended too. And while those two were doing that, nic went off to try and turn jordan against me.

There was a particular user on here that I did say some nasty things about but we weren't friends, as many people have been made to believe. I was particularly mad at this person in those dms and was hurtful, I admit, and I have since apologized and owned up to all of it to these people. I did call them fake and/or two-faced. 

And what in the gassing me up bullshit was their response though lmao. I also sent this following dm before I even talked about the issue with this person. They urged me to continue and to name drop the person, and I stupidly thought they were trustworthy.

My reasoning for what I said wasn't unwarranted though, I don't make a habit of going around shit-talking people, unless they do something to me first. I vent when I am upset and this person had sent me a passive aggressive ask and then denied sending it when I asked and I thought that was just very fake, especially since she was so kind to me in dms before the ask came in. But all of these dms were cropped too to hide timestamps and responses, and in most cases, like those screenshots prove, these "friends" either gassed me up or egged me on to continue ranting or to name the people i was mad at and they had agreed with me on several, several occasions. Turns out they were trying to get dirt on me to use in their cancel campaign. But the point is, nic has made me out to be this horrible person that befriends "big blogs" (an overrated statement) and then shit talks them behind their back without remorse. Yet it was one person I said rude things about and I, again, owned up to it all and apologized to them the first day. I would've done it sooner had I a) remembered feeling the way I did all those months ago or remembered the dms themselves or b) felt that way still after meeting them. But neither is the case.

I find it really amusing though that these people wanted things to be kept quiet and didn’t want anyone they spoke to to talk to me about it because I was going to “out them on my blog” and “make a big scene”, then they three went and made it a big fucking scene and ruined my friendships. I’m familiar with this pattern of manipulation as it has happened to me in real life before and it’s the most childish bullshit to witness.

Before this callout day for nic, I had never once been directly rude to or about her, same goes for those ex “friends” that betrayed my trust and friendship. The fact that they plotted against me in a group chat while still actively talking to me and being all buddy buddy is just disgusting. Both of them were talking to me that day at the same time they were sharing the dms and shit-talking me to my friends. But yeah, that's my side, the untwisted side, of the whole story. I tried to be mature and talk to nic and when I didn't do what she wanted me to do, she blocked me and launched the hate campaign with dms and the power of photoshop. I’ve been hesitant to make any of this public because it was meant to be a silent ordeal but I’ve grown tired of her constantly publicizing everything without consequence while I remain silent like I promised.

#anon #replied💌 #tw:negativity #drama #long post #read at your own risk aha #its a shit show #idc if you rb it #pinning temporarily for the next day(sih) #ish* #edited with screenshots and whatnot that i forgot i had on my phone lmao

[cope-to-anime]

anon: Hewwooo, can you do Iwaizumi and Oikawa hihi.

Like them taking care of a kid or kids. Could be either daycare, smol Tobio, relative etc. As long as they're taking care of children together hihi

Thank you!!

(( anon sent this request to me via dms and she’s one of my dearest friends so I hope this makes her smile : > This is more like babysitter Iwaizumi with baby Oikawa and babysitter Oikawa with baby Iwaizumi. If you know Gakuen Babysitters, I took inspiration from that! <333 ))

 Iwaizumi and Oikawa as Babysitters 

Babysitter Iwaizumi 

- Grumpy and some of the kids are actually kind of scared of him. If they’re making a ruckus or making a mess in general one glare from Iwaizumi can make them stop and even clean up. 

- He’s not always grumpy though I’d like to think that kids actually gravitate towards him for some reason because he’s so reliable. The kids would ask him to fix their broken toys and help them tie their shoelaces. 

- There’s always a toddler named Oikawa during his shift and booooy is the kid clingy! He doesn’t understand why but Oikawa seems so attached to him and gets grumpy when Iwaizumi has tea parties with other kids. 

- The other babysitters have noticed this attachment so they make Iwaizumi take care of Oikawa more. He takes care of kid Oikawa a little stricter than others because he’s pretty clumsy and he doesn’t want Oikawa to trip on his own untied shoelaces or drop his food. 

- Soon enough he’ll warm up to the kid and they’ll have inside jokes and they’ll be slightly competitive during game days. 

- Oikawa almost cries when it’s time to go home and during the beginning of things Iwaizumi thought it was silly to cry like that. However, as they get closer Iwaizumi would also feel a little down when it is dismissal time so he always tries to ruffle Oikawa’s hair and tell him that they’ll see each other again. 

Babysitter Oikawa

- Kinda like a baby himself but kids like him because he brings really cool space themed toys when he enters the daycare.

- If you have Oikawa in your tea party or your space adventure time then you are the cool kid!!

- His favourite kid (though he keeps saying he doesn’t have a fave it’s pretty obvious that he has a fave) is a little kid named Iwaizumi. He likes teasing him cause he’s always frowning and because of that he acts goofy in hopes to make little Iwaizumi smile. Iwaizumi thinks he’s lame though.

- His fave daycare event is when kids come in their costumes and they make little fashion shows, especially when it’s halloween! Iwaizumi comes in as a sheet ghost and Oikawa teases him about how simple his outfit is but gives him candy anyways lol

- Little Iwaizumi kinda thinks Oikawa is weird but he does see that he’s serious with his work and that he’s doing what he can to make the kids comfortable and have fun so he respects him. Iwaizumi gives little gifts to Oikawa sometimes but he’s super shy about it and says that he gave one to everyone else too so Oikawa isn’t specially. However, it’s pretty obvious that Oikawa got the better quality one hehe

#haikyuu #HQ!! #haikyuu oikawa #haikyuu iwaizumi #hq oikawa #hq iwaizumi #hq imagines #hq scenarios #hq headcanons #headcanons #imagines #scenarios #anime #anime imagines #anime scenarios #anime headcanons #haikyuu imagines #haikyuu scenarios #haikyuu headcanons #answered #mio #haikyuu babysitter headcanons #babysitter oikawa #babysitter iwaizumi

[dysfunctionalcrab]

about me

name: anissa (niss)

pronouns: she/her (i don’t mind any others tbh though)

where i’m from: i’m from afghanistan, lived in morocco for most of my life and moved to england, specifically london, 5 years ago.

age: 18

birthday: july 18

sexuality: pansexual

content i like: mcyt (obviously), the maze runner, the chronicales of narnia, the big bang theory. disney ;)

other likes: writing, cooking, occasionally reading. i love biology and chemistry.

dislikes: twitter stans. milk boba tea. i hate people who call themselves ‘bad bitches’ but are really just rude. lin manuel miranda. matthew morrison (their faces just make me uncomfortable)

favourite streamer: quackity. i’m an og quackity fan that converted through him joining the dream smp.

fun fact about me: i used to live 15-20 minutes from tom holland and i once met him in an asda (supermarket). because of that i used to obsessed with marvel and read for them.

i can speak arabic, persian and english. french is about 70-80% fluent since it was a main language in morocco but i still get things wrong time to time.

i’m also a medical student, so please be patient with me

- frequently asked questions

will you ever do a face reveal?

no. anyone who pressurises me to do so will be blocked or just ignored. i don’t want my face out there because god knows what people could do with that.

can i rant to you?

dependable. if it’s a small rant about your day, i don’t mind that and i’m happy to offer some comfort and advice. however if it’s a severe situation, i would rather you not since i’m not experienced in many mental health situations. also please don’t trauma dump.

do you have a regular posting schedule?

nope unfortunately. i only write when i can and post when i can. sometimes fics take longer and sometimes they can take about ten minutes. it usually depends on my mood

can i ask you to read my work and give me feedback?

you can, and i’m happy to give you my opinions but remember that i’m not the best writer myself! be confident in your writing!

how do i become an anon?

literally just ask me, pick a name that i can remember you by and send me your pronouns. from then on, we’re best friends!

can we be friends?

believe it or not, i’ve gotten this question a lot and the answer is OF COURSE! i love making new friends on here, this community is so friendly and approachable so please don’t be afraid to drop a message in my inbox or dm’s. it can be a weird ass photo with no context or just a quick message to say hi!

[that-one-author]

Hi! Is it possible to request a young!Dumbledore (Fantastic Beasts) x female reader fic, in which Dumbledore catches the reader self harm after suspecting it for a while, even though she’s always been deflecting, and then comforts and hugs/kisses her and shows her his own scars?

A/N: OMG! Hi!! This is my first request and to say I am excited is an understatement! I’m really sorry that it took a while, anon. The day I was going to write this, a big storm came through where I live and took out my internet for the entire day. Ok, now to the story! (Ahh! I’m so excited!!)

Paring: Young!Albus Dumbledore x fem!depressed!Reader

Warning(s): Mentions of self-harm, depression, suicide, and possible triggering content.

Key: (Y/n) = Your name

        (y/f/t) = your favorite tea

Synopsis: (Takes places during the Fantastic Beasts Era at Hogwarts) You, the astronomy teacher at Hogwarts School, have been suffering from depression for a very long time, and you were about to end you life, when a good friend by the name of Albus Dumbledore stops you and convinces you to live.

Fun Fact: Dumbledore was canonically gay and he and Grindlewald actually dated for awhile, until Grindlewald and Dumbledore began seeing things separate ways and they broke up. Ever since then, Dumbledore has been canonically asexual.

You sat at your desk at an ungodly late hour, writing and revising a letter to no one in particular. With a sigh, you put the feather pen down and read over your letter. You were happy with this final draft. No, not happy. You haven’t truly felt so in a very long time. Which, you suppose, was your reason for writing the letter. You set the letter on your desk and made your way to the Astronomy Tower, the place where you would be happy once more.

                                                  ~~~~~~~~~~

Unbeknownst to you, a friend made his way to your office. He has been suspecting that there’s something wrong with you for a while now but never acted upon his hunch until now. Albus Dumbledore walked with a slow step, still wondering if he should intrude upon you so late at night. He was almost at your door when he decided to turn back. He lifted up his head to turn when he saw that your door was open.

“How strange.” Albus thought as he walked towards your door much faster. Upon arriving, he called out your name. When you didn’t respond he rushed in the room.

“(Y/n)?” Albus walked around a (Y/n)-bare room, eventually coming upon your desk where the letter lay. Albus picked it up and read through it. With a shock, he realized that this wasn’t any normal letter, but a suicide-note. He read through it once more, quite quickly, looking for any sign of where you might be until he found his answer. Within the note, you stated that you would be jumping from the Astronomy Tower.

Albus dropped the note and rushed to the Tower. Thankfully you were the Astronomy professor, making your office quite close to the Tower. But it wasn’t close enough.

Albus arrived only to see you take the final step off of the Tower’s balcony. He rushed to the window, pulled out his wand, and shouted, “Arresto-Momentum!”

                                                     ~~~~~~~~~~

You stopped about two feet from the ground, feeling very surprised. And angry. Who stopped me!? And why?! I don’t have anyone or anything to live for anymore, so just let me die! You thought.

Soon, came an out-of-breath Albus, who just ran down the steps of the Astronomy Tower and is now running towards you.

“(Y/n)!” Albus dropped onto his knees next to you, checking for any injuries. When he saw that you were hurt, physically, he pulled you in for a hug. “Merlin’s Beard, I thought I lost you!”

Those words should have made you feel happy, content, relaxed even! But they only fueled your rage. You pushed Albus away from you.

“Why did you do that?” You hissed.

Albus said nothing, he just looked at you with a small, knowing smile.

“Stop, stop looking at me like that.”

But he didn’t, and you suddenly felt very exposed. You wrapped your arms around yourself and Albus took this as a sign that he could approach you again. He hugged you once more and you started to cry. Once the tears started, you couldn’t stop them and Albus just let you cry onto his shoulder. You cried for a very long time until your body seemed to run out of tears to cry and you sniffled a few times instead.

Albus finally spoke, “I stopped you because I know, and I couldn’t bear to see you die.”

You looked up at him, feeling a wide range of confusing emotions. Albus sensed this and stood up, helping you do so as well.

“Would you like a cup of tea? I, myself, find them the perfect comfort for times like these.”

You nodded, clutching one of Albus’ arms as though it was your lifeline, and you guessed that it was, in a sense.

Albus led you to his room, where he started the tea, while you sat at the small table that was in the room. While the tea was cooking, neither of you said anything, but it wasn’t an uncomfortable silence. After a long while, the tea finished, and Albus joined you at the table, along with two cups of (y/f/t). You took the cup he offered you and took a small sip. You looked down at the cup of tea and you felt threatened to fall apart again.

Before you could, however, Albus cleared his throat, “So-”

“What did you mean by ‘I know’?” You interrupted, still not looking up from your tea.

Albus smiled, “I mean, that I know. That I understand what you are going through.”

You scoffed, “How could you possibly understand what I’m going through.”

“Because I went through it too.”

“Huh?” You looked up from your tea to Albus looking at you with a sad look in his eyes.

“When my sister died,” he began, “I felt responsible for her death. And that, among other things, pushed me towards the edge. I nearly ended my own life as well, before I was stopped by being asked to become a professor at Hogwarts. After my first day of teaching under Professor Black, I realized that I needed to stay and teach the students. I found my life’s calling, in a way, and teaching began to slowly heal me. To say that I’m no longer plagued by such thoughts would be lying, I just know, now, how to better control them.”

“How, how did you learn how to control them?”

“Well, talking about it helps sometimes. But mostly I found that being with a good friend helps the best.” He flashed one of his famous smiles, the ones that hold a mischievous, yet comforting, feel as he took a drink of his tea.

That smile made you realize something, that all the times you guys went to the Three-Broomsticks for no particular reason and the times that you two talked the night away within the courtyard or one another's rooms weren’t just innocent times hanging out with a co-worker. They had meaning, and on both ends, it seemed.

“Wait, so you mean,” you started.

“That you’re one of my best friends here at Hogwarts? Yes. Wait, on second thought, no. You are my best friend, (Y/n). I honestly don’t know where I would be without you.” This time Albus smiled, it reached his eyes, and you knew that what he was saying was true and not just an attempt to make you happy.

“I, you, I. I.” you sighed suddenly feeling more relieved than you have in a long time. “You’re my best friend too. I honestly don’t think I realized that until just now.”

                                                 ~~~~~~~~~~

The rest of the night was spent by you two talking about each other’s grievances, slowly healing each other. And you felt, deep inside, that things were going to get better, and that you were going to try to make them better. Which, after all, is a good place as any to start.

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A/N: There it is folks! My first fanfic on Tumblr! I hope you liked it! (Especially you, Anon, since you were the one who requested it!) If there was anything you feel could have been better, my DMs are always open! (Constructive Criticism/good comments only though. I will not tolerate unnecessary rudeness or aggressiveness!) On a more serious note, depression is no easy thing to go through, and it really does help to talk about it. My DMs will always be open to anyone who wants to talk. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, and as mentioned in the fanfic, Trying is really a great place to start. Once again, you do NOT have to go through this alone! 

#albus dumbledore #x reader #fbawtft #fantastic beats #albus dumbledore x reader

[dandelionpath]

I feel bad about not contacting my spirit guides or families in a while but I’ve also been quite low on energy recently. Would you be able to help me figure out what I could do with them? I don’t want to fall out of touch with them and I worry ;-;

howdy! so i recorded a podcast episode to answer ur question but im a fool and forgot that i cant upload them very well, so I'm going to write out an answer for u in the meantime!

Number 1 thing to remember here: This shit is difficult!! It's difficult to keep up with physical humans for many people - now add on that these entities are noncorporeal and also oftentimes not human??? That's so many more layers of difficulty!

So don't beat yourself up if this has happened to you. It happens to many of us, even the most advanced and experienced practicioners 💙

That being said, I do want to emphasize that completely dropping out of contact with your entity friends for long periods of time without explanation or warning is not exactly acceptable in many situations. It's unacceptable in my family, and it's the same with many other people's. (But if this is fine in your situation and family, then don't let me stop you! As long as you're doing what works for both you and your spirit friends, then by all means keep that up!) This isn't to shame you or wag a finger at you, anon, this is just so that no one is going to walk away from this post thinking it's okay to abandon their spirit family 😅

Now, what /can/ you do to make sure you keep up with the fam? Well, what I've done in my personal situation is set aside one day a week where it's MANDATORY to talk to them and at least acknowledge their existence. We had a "family meeting" (these can also be quite helpful!) where we all set aside one day of the week - Thursday, in my case - where I am required to talk to them and do something with them. Otherwise, I do fall into the trap of thinking, "Oh I'll do something big for them tomorrow," "I'll set aside a half hour later," etc etc. This isn't to say that I don't want to talk to my companions and spend time with them; this is just how my brain works. It happens with my blood family, my best friend, and things I really look forward to.

Anyways, what I'd suggest is to start out with one day a week that works for your entire (or as close to the whole fam as u can get) entity group, and then have that day as your metaphysical day. You can still talk to them throughout the week, but it's MANDATORY that you at least acknowledge their existence and maybe say hello on that one day. If that goes well, try upping it to two days. Right now, I'm only able to handle one day, and even sometimes I mess that up.

Spirit work is often about give and take and finding compromises and what is going to realistically work for both you and the entities. It takes time, it takes frustration, it takes trial and error, and most of all it takes WORK. After all, we do call it spirit /work/, lol!

As for ideas for what activities to do with them, literally anything! Ask them for ideas if you want!

Here's a little list if you're really at a loss:

-Clean your room together

-Do art together

-Share and swap stories

-Have them teach you a song

-Go thru old photos on your device and delete ones you don't need anymore. My companions often help me decide which ones I actually should keep and which ones to get rid of!

-Cuddle!

-Dance around your room like maniacs

-Sing along to your favourite songs

-Make a playlist for them

-Make a moodboard or a Pinterest board or even a sideblog for them (or just a tag on your tumblr for their stuff!)

-Share a cup of tea or a snack

-Scroll through social media together

-Watch some tv or YouTube together

-Meditate together

-Light some incense or a candle for them or put on their favourite essential oil

-Go for a walk around the neighborhood

-Play hide and seek

-Do one of those tumblr ask games either on tumblr or just between yall

Hopefully that helps! Let me know how things go! My ask box and DMs are always open 😊💙

#comet answers #comets spirit work #spirit work #spirit guide #spirit guides #spirit companion #spirit companionship

[celcstii]

✩ RULES ✩

I’m Tea! She/They 27 years old!

THIS IS A MULTI MUSE.  It contains muses from multiple fandoms.

My icons and graphics are made by me using PSD’s I found and tweaked myself. Please do not take them!  All of my KNY icon borders were made by Dovma! <3

If we aren’t Mutual’s, don’t like my starter calls, reblog open starters, or send ic asks. These are all reserved for mutuals only.  Anons are encouraged so long as they’re not hateful.

I am selective.  My muses come and go and this goes for threads too.  I’m slow as fuck lmao.  I’m also very slow at checking my followers, so if you’re a new follower and haven’t received a follow back it’ll probably take a while. But take note that I am not follow for follow.

I have a life outside of roleplay. I work full-time Monday - Friday, so i’m usually too tired to do much during the week.  Weekends are my only time off, so I try to get around to doing things then --- but even then my activity can be spotty.  PLEASE KEEP IN MIND that just because i’m writing on the dash doesn’t mean i’m always up for ooc interactions.  I’m low energy a LOT, so socializing can be difficult for me.  If I don’t reply, it doesn’t mean I HATE YOU or that i’m IGNORING you.  I’m simply waiting to reply for when I have the energy and inspiration to.

No password. I don’t send in passwords.

It’s unlikely that any NSFW will be happening on this blog.  NSFW will NOT be talked about or written for underage muses.  Period.  Do not try to engage them with themes of this nature.  You will be hard blocked.

I’m all for shipping!  I love to ship! However, i’m going to be very selective with who I ship with due to past experiences.  Chemistry is key, but it also helps if we talk a lot ooc.  I take my ships very seriously and I invest a lot of time and energy into them!  They mean a lot! If you don’t want to ship anymore, I’ll understand.  Please let me know. But don’t ship with me if your intent is to use me for character development and then drop me!

If I see you vagueblogging or posting a lot of drama I will either hardblock or unfollow.   don’t approach me about why I unfollowed, it’s usually for a good reason.  Guilt tripping is a no go either.  That’s not going to fly here.  Period.  If I see it on dash or in my DM’s you’ll be blocked.

Oc’s are cool. Multiverse and crossovers are cool.  But if I don’t know how our characters could interact or I’m unfamiliar with your characters universe I likely won’t follow back or interact.  

You must have a MUN NAME visible on your blog somewhere in order for me to follow back.  Sorry, but it’s for my own comfort.

If you are an OC, please have an about page I can easily find! If I cannot find an about page anywhere on your blog, I will not follow you back.  It can be DIFFICULT for me to interact with OC’s due to bad past experiences. But the easiest way to interact with me is to TALK to me, and plot with me. I have an easier time writing with people I can talk to!

However, there are certain fandoms I will NOT interact with and for my own comfort please do not follow me or interact with my posts.  You will be blocked.

Fandoms I won’t interact with:

Undertale.

JJBA.

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

L4D.

Steven Universe.

FNAF.

Attack on Titan.

Killing Stalking.

Berserk.

Rick and Morty.

YouTubers/Real Life people.

No godmodding, infomodding. All that jaz. Respect me and I’ll respect you. Trim your posts.  I’m pretty chill.

Don’t follow me if you age characters up for smut, write smut with underage characters or you write or actively support student x teacher or child x adult ships. That’s nasty. Don’t be nasty.  Don’t interact with my posts either.

DO NOT FOLLOW ME if you are a Yandere stan/support the Yandere trope.  I have BPD, therefore I will not tolerate it.  It's a toxic stereotype often correlated with my disorder and it's incredibly damaging and overall problematic. On this note, I'm okay with Togas following me, but i'll be picky with which ones I follow back.  If I see you romanticizing the Yandere trope/BPD/or anything else related to this topic you will be blocked.

FOR BNHA FOLKS. Do not follow me if you ship Twice and Toga.  I don’t care if you age her up, I don’t care if it’s ‘The legal age of consent in Japan.’ This should go along with the aforementioned rule of shipping children and adults together, but I feel the need to state it again. If you see them as anything more than a brother/sister or best friends dynamic, BLOCK ME.

If you ever notice im interacting with someone who does any of the above, or are problematic, etc.  PLEASE LET ME KNOW PRIVATELY. I do my best to avoid blogs like this, but sometimes I miss them.

I have some triggers!

Child abuse - do not interact with me with anything of this nature unless it’s VAGUE (if you’re unsure about something PLEASE ASK).  Do not talk to me about anything of this nature ooc. Please.

Animal death/abuse

Creepypasta (mostly imagery like the horror faces/Jeff the killer type stuff. I’m okay with watching or reading it on my own time, but don’t bring it to me unexpectedly. Seeing it unexpectedly can mess with my anxiety)

FNAF

Alcohol (please tag any and all mentions)

Real life gore (mostly things like intestines and broken bones and deep wounds where the muscle is visible, etc. things of that nature.)

Religion and politics. Do not talk to me about these things unless it’s relevant to a PLOT or your character. Characters that are heavily influenced by religion or religious themes I likely will not follow.

I’ll add more when I can think of any but these are my major ones.

#rules #law #mobile rules #mobile law

[studylustre]

(matcha latte anon🍵) hello carol!! first up, i wanna tell you that i love reading through your posts alot!! especially the soft boy™, it's so cute!!! >u

matcha latte (!!!) and the second time i met him (which was 2 weeks after), he remembered my order which was really nice and unexpected. also, i was with my friend that day, and i offered some yam chips (in a container) to another female collegue (since i am more used to seeing her, and also because i’m kinda shy to give him). he came to the table and gave back my container, and had a very small talk, in which he offered us drinks/ice cream but we declined. after my friend left, i continued studying and suddenly, he came to collect my cup which i was going to say thank you, but to my surprise, he placed another new cup of matchalatte for me!! i was shocked and didn’t know what to do so i just mouthed a thank you to him. at this point, my heart is already melting, considering this is the first time anyone has offered me a drink like this. we also said bye when he left. our third encounter: the next day, in which he came but i don’t think he had work. he sat at the chair in front of my table, but i was so HORRIBLY SHY that i didn’t look up that much. i have no idea if he was looking at me or not but it remained like this for about (more than) 5 minutes long?? after that, he went to stand near my table and said “no matcha latte today?” so i replied “yea mocha today” !!!! but we were interrupted by the female collegue who said “haha you talking to customer ah” *in chinese* but in like a jokingly manner. then i think the situation got shy and he said no in chinese once again and then we bid farewell :c. it was such good memories and i never met him after that, and i thought i never will. the only info i had about him was that he’s a year older than me. i think i’m a person who falls in love quite easily haha, so i couldn’t stop thinking about it for quite a while. fast forward to jun 14, i signed up for a school camp (i usually don’t go to camps) with 2 of my friends. it was a camp with 5 different schools. as time passed on during the first day,i couldn’t help but notice this guy felt familiar?? i kept noticing the way he talked, the way he walked, and it hinted me that it mIGHT be him ?? (i’m not very good at remembering faces, and also his hair is also wayyyy longer than before) during that night, i was talking to my friend about how i had a feeling that it was him, but i don’t know if i really want to know if it’s him (bc he seemed close to this girl, and my self-esteem is quite low :c). but i decided that i should just ask him. during the next day, i didn’t see him around often, but i couldn’t quite find the courage to ask him, and i don’t really want to do it infront of my friends. when the camp was nearing to an end, i almost thought i won’t ask him, but man i just went with it, go up to him and awkwardly goes like “wait, did u work in a cafe before?” he seemed hesistant so i thought i got the wrong guy, but NO! IT WAS REALLY HIM! aaaa but we got interrupted again, and one person asked if we were cousins LOL.we didn’t manage to talk alot, but found out we’re in the same school??? but he’s year 3 while i’m year 2. once again, i was really amazed to meet him again such circumstances, and that we were in the same school all along?? i thought i would meet him sometime soon,,, but turns out i was wrong.. i didn’t have any contact of him and once again, as time goes by, i didn’t think much about him again. fast forward early to end jul-early aug, i signed up for a japan uni talk (once again, not something i usually go for but somehow did). on that day, i was thinking about how long i’ve never met café guy but was happy cause i’m over it. but life decides to (idek what life is trying to do to me) bring him back into the picture again! i was waiting for my friend when i suddenly saw this familiar looking guy, i only saw him walking two steps (he’s blocked by a pillar) and i had a gut feeling that it might be him. but this time he was wearing glasses and his hair is short now. after seem peaking around here and there, it turns out it really was him??!?! at that point of time, i was very shy and awkward, it was hard for me to say hi or anything, i was just freaking out. to sum up that day, i basically didn’t manage to say hi to him (regrets :cc). but my friend, managed to find a mutual friend of both of us’s instagram. i went to follow him and found café’s guy instagram eventually!! to sum up, i eventually used my main account to follow him, in which he followed back ( that was like almost a 3 day process uwu). also, i dropped huge hints to lowkey scream *i’m the matcha latte i hope u remember me!!!* aaaa he dm-ed me and ask if im the matcha latte girl!!! we talked abit (not alot really) and (yesterday) he said he’s working but at another chain of the café (which is about 3 mins walking distance to the café i met him & usually go to). he asked what time i was leaving, and since i was meeting my friend, i said around late 5 to 6. he then said his break was only at 6plus, so i thought maybe i can wait a little longer to catch him (but i was a little afraid to meet him as well haha) i was going to pack my bag when he came!!! he immediately came to my table and talked to me!!! but my friend called me so i had to pick up, when it ended, he came back to my table again and we talked for about 20mins?? it was nice talking to him (some context: my mind usually goes blank when making conversations with people!!! >u

hi angel!! sorry for the late reply - i saw ur ask a little while ago but bc i didn’t have my laptop (it was off for repairs) i couldn’t reply :(( anyway, it sounds like ur both mutually interested in each other!! i think u should go for it. i mean, from what i can tell, it sounds like u kinda like this guy (u seem rly excited whenever u catch glimpses of him and idk i feel like he definitely made a big impression on u bc why else would u a) remember all your interactions b) get so excited about seeing him time and time again and c) bother to tell me all this, right? ✨) like it just seems like u both have interest in each other but are too shy to make a move. i think u should go for it bc u’ve already nearly lost him several times now - u only get so many chances and i feel like u might regret it if u don’t do anything and just let this opportunity slide… also i think u might be overthinking it - you may be different people, yes, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing?? also u guys don’t really know each other all that well yet so it’s really too soon to be worrying so much, just try to take the time to get to know each other better and then see how things go once u have a better grasp on who he is etc. u have nothing to lose from giving it a shot, especially since u already hope for it to work out, so why hold urself back and deprive urself of something that could potentially make u a really happy? everyone’s scared of things and it’s natural to be scared of something like this, but it would be a shame to let that fear hold u back from something that could be really great

#answered #matcha latte anon

[witchmums]

Hey witch mums!! I'm having some trouble getting over some trauma involving one of my exes. I've cleansed my room and my wardrobe, but every once in a while I'll think about the incidents and my whole day will be thrown off. Any tips for preventing and/or feeling better after the fact?? This morning I used a spell during my morning run which helped some, but I'm looking for more ideas!!

Oh hunny...

I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. My heart aches for anyone who has to go through this. I have walked that road, and before I say anything else, know that I am walking with you as you recover. Reach out any time.

First, I want to suggest if you haven’t already, to see someone. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder has a lot of different looks. And if memories of incidents are enough to throw off your day, then from my perspective, that’s enough to warrant even just a one time chat with a therapist to get some coping tools specific to you.

Healing from trauma is a journey. It’s been almost sixteen years since my ex last laid a hand on me. And I would say I’m 99% recovered. There are still things I encounter (particularly images in TV shows and movies which feature assault on women) that bring my past to mind. But now, so removed from all that has happened, I’m able to recognize it for the memory it is, and then put it back in the recesses of my memory.

When something brings a memory to mind, be gentle with yourself. Self care that particularly reminds you of your worth is very healing. I would take long baths, do my hair, paint my nails, and experiment with make up. Anything I could think of to physically reinforce the idea that I had more worth than my ex would have me believe.

I’m not sure how far removed you are from the relationship, how long it’s been. It can take time, and time is what it needs in many cases. However I found putting a distinct line in the sand between the abuse and where I was now to be very helpful. 

Once I was out of the hospital I cursed my ex. And if you would like some help or guidance for something along those lines, you can DM me @madamehearthwitch and we can talk about it

But however you accomplish it, doing something tangible to remind your heart and your brain that you are not in that situation anymore can be very healing.

My co witchmum @estfortis suggested a spell for dealing with bullies to another of our family that might be something you could use.

Put in as much detail as you can about what they did and how it made you feel, and while you write, pull up as much of those hard emotions as you can handle. The hurt, the anger, whatever you were feeling while it was happening - pull that up, and channel it directly into the letter.

Pour out so much emotion that by the time you are done writing, you feel empty. (Like I said - it’s a taxing process!). Now, fold up each piece of paper and write the offending bully’s name on it, then seal it - bind it with string, or pour candle wax over it, or even just masking tape over the whole thing. Whatever you have available. As you seal it, you can speak some words, something to the effect of, “[Name] I bind your actions to the past. No longer may they hurt me.” After you have completed this, then burn each one in turn. As each letter burns, say “[Name], your actions are of the past. You may hurt me no more, I am free from your grasp.” As the letters burn, visualize the pain and anger being burned away and the actions being dissolved in the smoke.

After you have completed the ritual, scatter or dispose of the ashes so that you no longer have any connection to the bullying events. Then, take a ritual bath to cleanse and replenish your own energy. If you can, add it some epsom salts or sea salt, essential oils such as lavender or rose (for calming and self-love) or perhaps a sachet of chamomile and/or lavender. As you soak, let your body relax as the herbs soothe your senses and fill you up with a calm and serene energy. Afterwards, use a gentle lotion to symbolically heal your old wounds (add a drop or two of essential oils, if you like) and then rest with a cup of tea and perhaps a bit of chocolate to feed your soul.

I have done similar spells for a variety of hurts and found it exceedingly helpful.

The last thing I want to say is that it’s okay to dig into feelings of sadness. You don’t have to go from being abused to being the happiest, most cheerful person in the blink of an eye. If there are days or times when you want or need to lie on the couch, eat chocolate, and binge watch some Netflix... do it.

There comes a time when you gotta pick yourself up and get shit done. But sometimes I think in our society that puts such pressure on people to just get over it, we forget to honor our pain and give ourselves room to heal from emotional trauma. When we’re physically sick, we curl up in blankets and let our bodies heal. When we’ve been abused we need at least as much compassion for ourselves.

Find the balance that works well for you

This has been a really long post, but I felt like it was a topic that needed particular attention.

And I want to tell anyone who is now or has been in an abusive relationship that we love you. We, your Witch Mums, have your back. And you can reach out to us either through anon asks, or DMs to our personal accounts if you need to talk. We cannot (and will not) function or take the place as therapists, but we can be there to remind you that you are valued.

We love you Your Witch Mums