#i hate how ableist this is

[banannabethchase]

I am full of rage and it's taking everything I have not to quit on the spot.

#i fucking despise this #i hate how ableist this is #i hate how test scores written by white supremacists judge our success #i hate that my kids' accomplishments are dismissed and degraded because they dont reach grade level milestones #i hate that my kids are given no respect #and by extension i get none either #i literally am not eligible for any additional money based on texas because my kids are all in different grades #there is literally no incentive for me to do my job well according to state perspectives #but i wasn't teacher of the year for nothing last year #tl;dr fuck gr*g *bb*tt i hope he is haunted daily by the screams of children's dreams he kills on the daily #in which Sara is a teacher

[robotpussy]

I'm so serious once you start advocating for children to be banned from places like cafes and restaurants soon enough other marginalised groups are gonna get banned too (more outwardly that is). to me, your hatred for children is a litmus test for how much humanity you see in other marginalised people

#because if you despise human beings who are just figuring out the world i cant imagine how you view other marginalised peoples #there is no surprise that people who hate children also tend to be ableist as fuck....

[marisatomay]

i’m so sick of writers who proudly proclaim that they don’t read and directors and actors and other filmmakers who smugly say that they rarely watch movies or any artist who acts like an audience is stupid for connecting with their work like what the fuck is wrong with you that you hold such contempt such derision for the art that you have chosen to make the art that so many people dream of the opportunity to make the art that brings meaning and connection to people’s lives it’s unbelievably disrespectful to both your audience and the art-form and if you can’t muster basic respect for either your art-form or your audience then kindly fuck off and do something else

#i hate how rare it is to have an actor be like ‘yeah i just really love movies and going to the movies it’s the best i love what i do’ #to the point where when an actor or director IS like that people are like ‘wow what a freak…they’re faking it for attention’ like!! no!! #that’s what it’s SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE!! you WANT creators who are obsessed with their medium!!! #and what gets me about the people who don’t feel that way is the clear Pride they feel like they’re Better for not caring #that uk ya author adapting the odyssey and admitting that they’ve never read the odyssey or the iliad #that writer on twitter saying that telling writers to read is ableist #the russo brothers saying that the theatrical experience is elitist and auteurism should bow to the disney/netflix model #christain bale and any number of other actors who proudly announce that they don’t watch movies #sam levinson who talks about tv like it’s a long movie because he can’t hack it as a filmmaker like his dad but he doesn’t actually LIKE tv #like i get not wanting to consume your own work after it’s released unless it’s for research or self reflection purposes #but you do not exist or create in a vacuum and it’s SO disrespectful and arrogant to act like you do

[disconnected-dragon]

yknow I really didn't think it was possible to make me angrier at JK Rowling but then I found out she wrote a book abt an autistic person being sucked into a cult (that's totally not an analogy for trans people what you talking abt) because they just can't possibly know what's good for them, they need their fathers to come and hire private investigators to get them out of a cult. And in the book autistic people are referred to by the r slur and called "a bit simple".

I didn't think it was possible for me to hate this paternalistic, honeyed head-patting, self-righteous, hate-driven HAG of a woman more than I did but fuck me here we are.

#terfs dont fucking touch #anti gender critical #anti radfem #not to toot my own horn or whatever but when midsommar came out i legit had a 'oh my god is anyone seeing this?' momen #because everyone was talking abt how it was a 'happy ending' for dani like she didnt just get inducted into a violent cult #but heyyyyyyy thats just me what do i know #its not like im the owner of this brain or anything #OBVIOUSLY a british terf that lives in a FUCKING CASTLE and has NEVER MET ME EVER IN HER LIFE knows me better then i know myself :))))))) #anti gc #trans rights #ableism tw #tw ableist language #i hate jk rowling i hate her i hate her i hate her so muchhhhhhh #anti jkr #fuck jkr #had to edit the tags because i realized 'jk rowling' attracted terfs and i dont fucking want that noise #im already fucking angry im not taking being talked down to because im autistic

[d1sc01nf3rn0]

I'm seeing a lot of people with neurodivergency, specially under the autism spectrum say that "Laios is annoying, never shuts up, is insensitive, and I can't stand him"; and the irony is not lost on me lmao.

#like im sorry dude did you think all autism is “anime obsessed dude”? #how did you think neurodivergent people behaved on old times? #also like #being unintentionally insensitive is almost a telltale sign of autism cause you struggle with social cues #if anything i think a lot of you are finally habing to face your own internalized predjudices #“he is annoying” yes that's how ableist neurotypical people talk about us all the time tell me something i haven't heard already #like how do i explain to you that a lot of neurotypical people tal the exact same eay youre talkbing about laios #and is annoying when they go “but im neurodivergent! i can be biased agaisnt neurodivergent people” #yes you can because being neurodivergent is not a monolith and you are mistifying being neurodivergent #by implying theres some sort of virtue in being under the spectrum when youre as capable of being a dick just as everyone else #like you think you have autism but suddenly wanting to taste things youre not supposed to eat and not remembering peoples names is too much? #some of yall never experienced beinf a “weird kid” at a young age and it shows #and im not talking the “geek bullied” weird kid kinda way #im talking “the adults think I'm weird amd don't know how to deal with me” #WHICH FITS LAIOS PERFECTLY BECAUSE WE ACTUALLY HAVE A SCENE OF HIS DAD SHOWING HIM FALLIN AS A BABY #AND NOT UNDERSTANDING WHY IS THERE NO EXPECTED REACTION FROM LAIOS #anyways im making this rant because is unreal how many posts of this exist #you think Laios is annoying cause he wont shut up? #congratulations thats how most people see us #now get over it or watch other series if you hate it that much #dunmeshi hell thoughts #weird rant i suppose #dungeon meshi #laios touden

[kagrenacs]

Youtube, I'd rather saw-style off my own leg than uninstall my adblock. You're not getting 14 fucking dollars a month to show no ads, are you kidding me

#I can't express succinctly how much i hate youtube for this. I don't really hate things I'm a very passive person #I don't even hate the girl whose been homophobic and ableist at uni. but i hate this

[eclaire-went-bam]

npd + rdr culture is seeing people call dutch a narcissist and going "YEAA KING he's just like me ong" and then promptly realise they're actually insulting him with the word 'narcissist' & i proceed to backpedal ...

#i have no idea how familiar the rdr2 fandom is with personality disorders?? ive seen a lotta ppl be positive with them. like “they're just #like me bcs they totally have x y or z!!“ which is fun to see #but ive also seen a LOT of people throw around the word narcissist as an insult as if it isn't an actual mental illness ppl can have #yikes ... embarrassing 😨😨😨 #anyways dutch SOOO has npd (& other things too but that's not relevant for this post) #DUTCH IS A NARCISSIST !!1!!!1!2 :D (stims & dances bcs i'm tired of seeing narc used in Always a demonising way) #rdr2 #dutch van der linde #rdr #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #he's just like me 🤩 #when i was still in my “i literally can't be a narc because i'm literally perfect” phase i literally hated dutch and i hated him even more #bcs of how much i related to him #the urge to say “— i'm not abusive!” so ppl don't get the wrong idea vs hating to need to constantly make it clear that npd ≠ abuse & i can #talk abt his npd & relate to it without the Other Stuff™ #i once saw a meme abt dutch's narcissism & loved it so much before proceeding to realise it was made by an ableist #ableism tw

[maroonangels]

harper mclean they could never make me hate you more than I hate dusty AMEN

#yall need to leave harper alone *please* #dusty is so much worse I could write an ESSAY about it #dusty needs to be field tackled and turned into a side character only used for people to yell at <3 #also why are yall calling spider racist 😭like ableist & misogynistic yea makes sense but racist?? Idk I didn’t pick that up #but also I’ve watched the show twice in full and still picked up on new stuff going back and scrolling through the eps so maybe I missed it #also the more rewatches I do the less I hate harper cause girl is a VICTIM!!!! #this fandom is so messy for how small it is #shitpost #heartbreak high #harper mclean

[actual-corpse]

Saw a YT vid with the title, "Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality"

You're right, they can't... Because it doesn't fucking exist to them.

#aroace #asexual #enby people arent real either #we're told to stop using neopronouns and to stop being aroace bc 'nobody will take LGBT seriously' #keep being exclusionary #i dont want to be your friend if you're gonna act like that #I'm a genderqueer aroace person who's pronouns are it/its and you're gonna fucking respect that or be called a bigot #this shit has got to stop #also... because it matters #dont be ableist #ever. just dont #one of the main reasons i hate Alastor so much... is the fandom's treatment of him as a character #most of them completely erase his sexuality in favor of shitty crack ships. #I think a QPR with Lucifer or Rosie is a cute idea! but that's it #keep Vox pining for Alastor... that's great too #its like when I tried to erase Porter Gage's Bisexuality.... It was wrong and I've changed (Fallout 4's romanceable companions are cannonic #cannonically bisexual... I don't make the rules) I was just mad because someone had MY BLORBO in a disgusting ship and I got sick of seeing #it... And THEN I learned how to block tags!!! #idk where this is going #i'm just upset that aros and aces and enbys are erased #maybe it's a confirmation bias and i've just spent too long doing demographic research #i HATE demographic research #it takes me to disgusting places #i need to find my sewing patterns so I can refocus my energy into something good

[soullessjack]

trying to explain that there has never been a single instance in the show to indicate that jack is intended to be a child/toddler/baby in any way and that all canon actually makes it pretty clear he’s supposed to be a teenager/young adult is like trying to explain that the cheese is under the sauce in a Chicago style pizza

#good night #cal.txt #spn #supernatural #Jack kline #jack spn #toddler!jack #baby jack #baby jack au #fandom crit #spn fandom #spn family #spn famdom #like I don’t know how to tell you this but he is literally just autistic and born-sexy-yesterday #I don’t mind babyjack as a headcanon (I mean I do bc it’s still ableist infantilization & also ruins character discussion around him) #but when ppl try and act like it’s canon fact and throw out That accusation .. hoo boy #I’d stick my foot up y’all’s asses if your heads weren’t already blocking the entrance #I try not to wish too many harsh things on other ppl in the fandom bc I’d hate for anyone to be where I’m in as a fan #but genuinely. babyjack is like if deans comment ab Cas being a baby in a trench coat was taken as solid proof that Cas is actually a baby #maybe I should start drawing baby!cas just to see how you fuckers like it #do you like seeing your fav be reduced to a fucking shell of what they really are? robbed of their personality & established traits? #I sure fucking don’t! #sam winchester #dean winchester #castiel #cas #team free will #tfw2.0 #dadstiel

[scramratz]

Hi! Sorry if this has been asked before, but I saw you said you have PCOS and are on T, can I ask about your experiences with the changes and what to expect? (I also have PCOS and want to start T soon! Its been funny reading about some of the early changes on T and being like...oh I've already had that for a while lol)

I’d love to rant about it! It depends on how high your T levels were before testosterone, really. They’ll take blood tests right before they prescribe you hrt. That way your dosage isn’t too high. Too high of a dose could cause blood issues and wacky shit, I was near the higher end of the range considered “normal” for cis women so I only need to take .25 mg each week.

A lot of the effects on T are stuff you probably already have. Hairy ass, acne, even weight distribution. Pcos folks are said to have an “apple” shaped body. That’s just testosterones weight redistribution working it’s magic!

Lots of stuff did change, though! My voice got deeper very quickly! From what I’ve seen, it takes months for other trans dudes voice to drop but mine dropped within 3 weeks. Facial hair grew in darker around that same time too. I’m already growing a shitty beard 7 weeks in! Essentially, from the looks of it, my transition timeline is gonna be a lot shorter than other trans dudes.

In a way, it’s like my body was waiting for that extra push of testosterone. Like Pcos was this puberty limbo. My cystic acne has decreased. My joint pain has all but disappeared. Brain fog is gone too! Now I can’t be sure if it’s my pcos being treated or my dysphoria, but either way, it’s improved my life tenfold!

I can’t guarantee all this will happen to you of course, so let me know how your experience differs once you start! Good luck on your transition homie! Stay safe and enjoy the ride!

#I love talking pcos #it’s so stigmatized #hate the way some trans dudes talk about t affects #they come off as ableist lowkey #eww t makes you hairy and acne ridden #so does pcos asshole tell me how you really feel

[lecter-lioncourt]

Me when an OFMD fan yet again forgets about Ed's 3 canon acts of animal cruelty, ordering Fang to skin a man alive with a snail fork, setting fire to a ship full of people and burning them alive, cutting people's body parts off, canonologically "loving a good maim" etc and instead infantalizes Ed and somehow places the blame for all his Kraken antics onto Izzy:

#also can I say that given how nd coded Ed is I actually find it ableist how some people treat him fhfhfjfj #did Izzy push him? yeah. does that make Ed blameless? NO #not saying Izzy is an angel btw I'm simply saying that Ed ALSO isn't an angel #let Ed be accountable for his actions! #I hate the headcanon that Stede won't be upset w ed for the same reason #why WOULDN'T stede be upset with ed? why SHOULDN'T he be? #he marooned most of his crew straight up drowned another and kidnapped the other two #he stole stede's ship and ruined all his things #stede has every right to be upset w ed in s2 #ed is not a blameless victim babyman ok #let characters be complex! characters don't have to be morally pure to be likable. or even good people #anyway please stop woobifying ed for the sake of protagonist favouritism and izzy slander #mine #ofmd #edward teach #izzy hands #fandom stuff

[vaugarde]

another thing about lily orchard's vids that really kill their quality even outside of the batshit takes is that its soooooo clear she detests this job and only likes doing it for money. and like.... yknow, fair, you gotta make a living. not everyone loves their jobs and thats obvious. but a lot of people do video essays for the passion and engagement, to put their opinions out into the world and have a discussion.

when schaffrillas productions has a negative opinion, it's almost always in juxtaposition with a franchise or creator he wants better content from (or its for the bit) and its also entertaining bc hes not calling you a morally bad person for disagreeing with him. you dont get the sense that he resents the job, yknow?

watching lily in comparison is draining. she goes out of her way to make it look like her opinions are the Only Morally Correct Ones even when it doesnt matter and she speaks with such vitriol that you just feel bad watching her videos. she just comes across as exhausting

#it kinda reminds me of like a very toned down version of the nostalgia critic where he doesnt want to play that character #he wants to be a film maker but cant make it in that industry so hes stuck making videos that he hates making #and i think even outside of the allegations against his workplace that still kills his content #back to lo i think her laios take wouldnt be nearly as awful if she didnt go off about how hes morally corrupt and his fans are disgusting #like itd still be ableist bc of her reasoning and she'd still get flack but she had to go off abt how autistic ppl relating to him are bad #echoed voice

[anti-ao3]

"greg heffley is a SOCIOPATH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😱😱😱"

greg is just. a middle schooler. who is a shitty person, yes. but there's literally no need to throw ppl with personality disorders under the bus. you guys especially need to learn how to be normal around aspd and npd.

#lotus.txt #ableism tw #ableist language tw #i hate how everyone on youtube INCLUDING actual therapists #spread ableist misinformation to young viewers #(and let's not talk about tiktok. which is a thousand times worse) #caps #to those unaware: #npd = narcissistic personality disorder #aspd = antisocial personality disorder

[zo1nkss]

I have very mixed feelings about the way ppl use Kraken imagery in art of Ed but I don't think I'm capable of articulating my thoughts about it well. It's not every art that uses Kraken imagery, but some of it makes me very uncomfy.

#One day I will make a post about how much I hate when ppl seperate his different masks as if their seperate personas or personalities #y'all have no idea how shitty and ableist that shit is but eventually I will have the spoons to explain #just not today #I'm talking about Ed / Blackbeard / The Kraken btw #ofmd #void.critical #Void Rambles

[worlds-oldest-teenager]

Solangelo antis: Solangelo is a bad ship because it's ableist that Will wants to fix Nico who is heavily coded as autistic.

Solangelo antis when will is blunt and out of pocket without realizing, on edge in an unfamiliar situation, and struggling with black and white thinking about the underworld and healing: This is the worst person to ever exist.

#tsats #will solace #nico di angelo #no hate to solangelo antis though you have the right to ship or hate a ship #my main takeaway from tsats was will is traumatized and autistic #i have not so positive opinions about tsats but all the will is an asshole stuff urges me to defend my boy #tsats spoilers #also psa you can be ableist while being autistic this is just more about how people are kind of holding him to a double standard #sorry if controversial