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#im demiromantic demisexual and uh
mejomonster · 2 years
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Sometimes I think ah yes being demi doesn't affect my life much more than like desolately few crushes and having to adapt asking people out/casually dating to me picking people not knowing if I'll actually like them for a few months so needing pre-crush standards on how to pick who's worth trying to date
Then I do something and I'm like oh god yeah forgot. Forgot. Dang yeah this affects so much
#rant#im demiromantic demisexual and uh#my dudes.... the second a convo or life situation tangential to me veers into relationship or sex territory#i realize wowza i do not think like the majority of people#every time love at first sight or first month comes up or sex within a few dates comes up#or fucking KISSING on first dates????#or that im supposed to take anyone seriouslg when they say they love someone after a month??? how does Anyone take that seriously??#but they DO. or how my definition of love is SO colored by my experience being demi#so when people describr LONG TERM attachment love in marriage as if it needs to be defined separate#from sjort term 'love' thats chemicals and honeymoon phase and will eventually wane and#can cloud your rational judgement? im like???? to me of course love alwaysssss means a long term care for another person#and interest in who tjey are??? wtf you mean people say love and mean it and mean that short term honeymoon phase feeling??#what do you mean the chemicals kick in BEFORE u can rationally contemplate if a partner is compatible???#what do you mean u had sex so now ur illogically attached to someone in compatible?#like yeah ive vaguely felt the honeymoon phase. after knowing someone 5 years before dating. so i was illogical#and everything avout tjem seemed Perfect in rose tinted vision. but only after solid years of being able to objectively view them#it hits me in other dating but like 3-6 months in. which gives me at least some time to go#WAIT my dumbass didnt check them for red flags in the first months! i should be wary and not assume theyre perfect rn just cause im feeling#biased. and its so easy to move on from casual dating for me cause i just dont get attached that early in knowing someone...#and my god man. hearing ppl talk about anything dating im like. why dont... yall just say what you mean andcsay what you feel???? why is it#all these layers and obfuscations???? why is it viewed as weird when i say hey i dont kiss right away??? why is it all such a#layered game?#i do not get it.
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kenkubluk · 7 months
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Ive seen some strangely specific hobbies that im sharing with my Gale simps around here…
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our-reality · 1 year
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ok im so so so tired and physically cannot draw new art for them but RUBY AND JAVA MASTERPOST BABY!!!!!!!!! (for @smallartistocbracket)
uhhhh im actually not sure what im supposed 2 put here but wtv. uh
ig ill talk about ruby first
full name: ruby kitamura
age: 19
height: 5'8"
gender/pronouns: cis woman, she/her
orientation: panromantic asexual
race/ethnicity: asian, japanese
spark color: coral pink
personality: she's extremely friendly and bubbly, she loves talking to people and can make friends with pretty much anyone she meets. she's also particularly caring and patient, even to the point of self sacrifice. she especially prioritizes her relationships with her family and her girlfriend (who i'll talk about later) and she loves them all so much i cannot emphasize enough how freely she loves. she definitely perfers being close to people and it can come off as her being in your face all the time which. is somewhat true but she's very kind and respects boundaries when she needs to!!! she's also absolutely a romantic and she always sticks to what her heart tells her to do
relationships: uhhh she has a big ass family!!! she has 6 other siblings (ivyn, natsuo, rain, akira, paul, eve) and a mom who loves them all very much <3 she just has to work a lot in order to provide for them all but they make it work!!!!!!! mostly because ruby's like a second mom to all of them <3 uh she's also very good friends with python and swift. who are gods (ish)!!!!!!!!!! so that's pretty epic. she's a bit closer to python than swift since she more frequently trains under python but yeah :o) and then of course she's girlfriends with java!!! their relationship means everything to me
notable abilities: uh under my magic system she's an averager, which basically means she's born with a higher intelligence than most people!!! she's also trained to use a bo staff in combat and generally does extremely well with close quarters fighting that's epic
other: she has adhd cuz projecting and used to be a full time gifted AND sports kid whadda hell. she played tennis and volleyball and still knows how to play them pretty well!!! she has some trauma as well but we don't talk abt that ❤
and then java's next or smth
full name: java collins (also goes by aerith or cosmic sometimes)
age: 21
height: 6'2"
gender/pronouns: trans woman, she/her
orientation: demiromantic demisexual lesbian
race/ethnicity: white, ambiguously european
spark color: denim blue
personality: much more laid back and sheltered than ruby. she very rarely chooses to talk to new people, and if she does, it can take a while for her to really come out of her shell. when she does, though, she's very easy-going and sometimes sarcastic and absolutely loyal. no matter how much of a mess she may be she can and will stick by the people she trusts through thick and thin. she's also much more of a realist, choosing to analyze things from an objective point of view rather than sticking to any one ideal.
relationships: unlike ruby, she tends to prioritize her relationships with her friends over her family. and that's because her family life is kinda shit oops!!!!! won't go into full detail here but she actively resents her father and is not on good terms with her sisters so we're not going to worry about that. but uh instead we're gonna talk about her friends WOOOOO!! she's also friends with afformentioned gods python and swift, except this time she's much closer to swift and lowkey doesn't like python for a while lol </3 but she's also got her best friend from teenhood c+ and tumblr mutual requiem that she goes through weird ass shit with that's awesome (c+ and ruby also know each other btw). and finally like i've said there's her girlfriend ruby and they are so so so madly in love and they make each other better and oughfjdkelah(×[#&=(÷;
notable abilities: she's an averager just like ruby, but she has a bow and arrow as her signature weapon (get it. bo staff. bow and arrow. this was intentional). and as you might've guessed she's more so a long distance fighter which mean that they cover each others weaknesses that's so awesome
other: she's autistic which is also me projecting and also means ADHD AUTISM SOLIDARITY BABY!!!!!!! she's also an artist on tumblr and like. an influential one at that what the hell. she collects art supplies and is a scary jokes + idkhow fan and she also has trauma go figure (if you decide to follow me. which you totally should cuz im sexy like that. all my ocs have issues LMAO)
AND IF I NEED TO ADD ANYTHING MORE I WILL!!!! THIS IS A SKELETON OF A MASTERPOST BUT HOPEFULLY THAT'S NOT AN ISSUE LOL okay bye
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lgbtqasks · 1 year
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im starting to question if im demiromantic or not and i just??bc i like the idea of being in a relationship and I've had like, small crushes that last a week or two, or even less, but the idea of dating someone that im not close to, like best friend close, hangs out with all my other friends,etcetc gets me like, nervous?? Or maybe its because I want my friends to approve on my partner but shsh,, Ive had crushes on 2 past best friends but all crushes nevertheless just proofed very quickly so,, uh
hi there!
but why do i actually feel the same way? lol i totally get where you're coming from. sounds to me like you might just be demiromantic and that's cool! i also am demiromantic, as well as demisexual and i can relate!
i think that sometimes when we think about our ideal relationships and our ideal partners, it can be very difficult to find that in our real lives and these fluctuating feelings don't make it easy to stick with who we think we initially like. maybe they don't fit in with what you pictured in your head. relationships already can be intimidating and i think that it's ok to want to really know and potentially have a relationship with the person you're dating. it honestly makes a lot of sense because then there aren't as many surprises.
but hey, if you think you are demiromantic, that's cool asf!
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entitty · 3 years
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oh! ok! so tonight i guess we're playing the game called "am i finally developing these emotions ive heard so much about or is it a weird brain cocktail fueled by wishful thinking"
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honkroo · 3 years
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Hello 👋
I’m Roo I suppose you could have guessed that lol. I’m 19, and in university and use they/them pronouns. My labels are nonbinary, demisexual (probably demiromantic too) and bisexual, polyamorous (most likely.) I am in a relationship rn, and love him very much, also dabbling with the idea of using they/he pronouns (idk still thinking on it). Furthermore, tags for my loves are currently: my prince, my auggie
I have ADHD, generalized anxiety and major depression. I might have ptsd can’t tell and most likely an eating disorder but I will not be talking about that most of that.
i’d like to add my trying to post more positive things and put myself in a more positive mindset. Also im trying (not always great about this so please be careful)to tag things so if you feel sensitive to certain things or negative emotions blacklist: Roo rants. My hyperfixations are listed below and will be under either the same tag or, my ted talks.
This blog is pretty much dedicated to my boyfriend hence the name. But in case you are ever curious about what you’re gonna see on this blog here’s a list:
Nblm or mlm
Some nsfw content (no pictures or anything like that)
Love love letters and poetry on occasion
Self doubt occasionally as well
My interests and ships I like (I relate to me and my boyfriend) which include:
Kiribaku (my hero)
Tsukiyama (Haikyuu!)
Klance (Voltron)
Karlnap (MCYT/DSMP)
Ranga (?) (Sk8)
Ranpoe (BSD)
Cavetown
Ranboo
Bench Trio
Origin Smp
Karl Jacobs
Dream Team
Feral / Crew boys
Sleepy bois
MCYT (you could probably guess that lmao)
My boyfriend
Uh dogs and cute animals
Trauma core on occasion or posts pertaining to my struggles yeah
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thedemiexperience · 3 years
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hai! im really questioning things so uh if you dont mind, whats the difference between demisexual and demiromantic? im pretty sure im demisexual but ah its so confusing and i dont have much support on it.
Ones for sexual attraction, ones for romantic. People usually understand sexual attraction already, wanting to have sex with a specific person because you’re attracted to them, but romantic attraction is less commonly used outside of the aspec community. If it helps, it’s easier to think about it as the people you get crushes on. Many people identify as both though, since for a lot of people romantic and sexual orientation are the same.
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casscasblog · 2 years
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As a demisexual person I think demisexual demiromantic gay cas is the best option because like
cas: im gay
dean: o i can be normal about this. whats your type, harrison ford? colin firth? jake gyllenhall?
cas, whos only ever carnally desired dean: uh.
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a-dotrivenitupontop · 3 years
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30 days of autism acceptance
day 18- identity
im not very goodbye at doing long wholesome speeches so ill just keep this simple i guess. autism is important to me as it affects literally everything i do (ok maybe that’s a bit hyperbole ish but you get my point). but at the same time i do feel like i can’t call it too important as if im less valid because im self diagnosed. idk. i mean like the ‘less valid because self diagnosis’ thing ive internalised only applies to me. everyone else is valid. i just don’t really like myself. anyways i guess a good way to show how i value identity would be a chart/list ranking each aspect of my identity from most to least ‘important’ so uh yeah:
1. trans/demiboy
2. autistic
3. bisexual/biromantic
4. demiromantic/demisexual[?] (i may or may not be aegosexual who knows idk)
also fun fact! i prefer identity first language (eg autistic person) over person first language (eg person with autism). person first language just sounds like autism is some kind of ‘disease‘ i have instead of something i am. idk.
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7 PLEASE!!!!!
things you said while we were driving
👌👌👌
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“Did you know that people like to talk about serious things during car journeys a lot?” Eijirou said, watching Bakugou from the corner of his eye. The blond didn’t take his own eyes off the road. “Something about the liminal nature of the car journey makes it seem like a safer time to open up about stuff. The conversation doesn’t exist in a physical place but no one can just walk away from it.”
“Liminal,” Bakugou snorted. “You sound like Kaminari.” 
“Maybe I heard it from him,” Eijirou said.
Silence rolled around Bakugou’s car for a few moments.
“So, you got a serious thing you only want to talk about in a car?” Bakugou asked.
Eijirou fidgeted in his seat.
“Maybe,” he said, slowly. “Kinda.”
“Well- Fucking bastard use your indicators what the fuck- I’m all ears if you do wanna-”
“I’m gay.”
Eijirou bit his lip. Shit, he hadn’t meant to just blurt that out. His heart was pounding, he didn’t want his best friend to freak out or-
“Okay,” Bakugou said.
Huh. Eijirou turned to look at Bakugou properly. “Okay?”
“Uh, thanks for trusting me, I guess?” Bakugou said, glancing at Eijirou before turning back to the road. “I don’t know what the fuck you’re supposed to say about this stuff. Er, I support you? That shit.”
“Oh, thank you!”
Well, that had gone better than expected. A little awkward, maybe, but Bakugou definitely wasn’t freaking out. They were still friends. All was well. At least Eijirou hadn’t mentioned the enormous crush he’d had on the blond since like, forever.
Bakugou coughed. “So, I’m not exactly straight either.”
“Oh. Oh! I mean, uh, cool?” Eijirou said. “Or, thanks? You’re right, it is hard to know what to say.”
Bakugou snorted. “Yeah.”
“I support you, too.”
“You not gonna ask what I am, then?” Bakugou asked, looking over at Eijirou as they pulled up at a red light.
“That’s up to you,” Eijirou said. “I wouldn’t wanna, like, pressure you into telling me stuff that you don’t wanna tell me.”
“Fucking hell, Kirishima, you’re my best friend,” Bakugou said, the car jumping forwards as the light dropped back down to green. “What wouldn’t I want to tell you?”
Eijirou blinked. “Uh.”
“I’m ace,” Bakugou said. “Maybe aro too? Or something along that spectrum. I dunno. It’s weird.”
Well that was- Huh. Eijirou nodded. “Alright.”
“Ugh, that’s enough ‘serious’ shit for one drive,” Bakugou said, voice gruff.
Eijirou couldn’t help but agree.
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“Stay in the fuckin’ lines!” Bakugou hissed.
“I am in the lines,” Eijirou shot back, steering the car around the corner. “Like, distinctly within them!”
“Then slow d- Shit!” Bakugou scrabbled for the handle thing on the car’s ceiling. So dramatic.
Eijirou shook his head. “Dude, you’re really bad at being a passenger.”
“Fuck you!”
“Bro, I’m sticking to the speed limit, im in all the right lanes,” Eijirou said. “I’m driving fine, you’re just a control freak.”
“When we get to the stupid restaurant after the thing,” Bakugou said, pressing himself back into the seat. “I’m gonna disembowel you.”
“That might make it hard for me to eat anything.”
Bakugou grumbled to himself and swore again when Eijirou braked for another car pulling off to a side road.
“What, you wanted me to run into his back?” Eijirou asked.
“No, you moron! You’re just braking too hard!” Bakugou snapped.
Eijirou rolled his eyes. “The interview is gonna go fine, man, you don’t need to drag me into your panic spiral.”
“Oh yeah, coming from the most sociable guy in the world that really means a lot,” Bakugou grouched. Wow, he was really turning up his Absolute Dick levels today, huh? “And I’m not panicking, dipshit. I just don’t want you to total my car.”
“Mmhm, sure,” Eijirou said.
“Don’t ‘mmhm sure’ me, asshole,” Bakugou said. Eijirou was sure his friend would be scowling fiercely at him but he knew if he took his eyes off the road to check he’d get yelled at even more. “I know where you live.”
“I know where you live,” Eijirou said. Just a few steps down the hallway from his own room, to the left. “Oh, speaking of, I think the front door needs oiling.”
“What, again?” Bakugou huffed. “I swear there must be someone with a rust quirk or some shit targeting our- Hey! Don’t fuckin’ distract me.”
Eijirou sighed. “Damn, and it very nearly worked.”
“Fuckin’, freeloading piece of- Ugh,” Bakugou growled. Real pleasant today, huh?
“Freeloading? Dude, I’m paying for the fuel to get you to this thing, and I’m paying for our meal afterwards,” Eijirou said. “That’s like the opposite of freeloading. If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.”
Bakugou groaned like the over-theatrical diva he was. “Don’t use that fucking baby shit on me.”
“Don’t get so fucking snippy, then,” Eijirou barked.
Bakugou fell silent at that, and they drove on in uncomfortable quiet.
“Sorry,” Bakugou muttered after a few minutes. “I am panicking.”
“You know you don’t have to do this,” Eijirou said.
“You know it’s like- It’s fuckin’, solidarity or whatever,” Bakugou said, voiced toned down.
Eijirou grinned. “Yeah.”
“Hey, you remember your weird ‘serious car talk’ thing from a couple months ago?” Bakugou asked.
Eijirou nodded.
“That was kinda the first time I told anyone,” Bakugou said. “Now I’m telling the whole fuckin’ world.”
“You know what that is? Growth.”
Bakugou snorted. “Man, shut up.”
“Seriously, dude, I’m proud of you for doing this,” Eijirou said, chancing a glance at his friend. Bakugou was looking away out of the side window and the tips of his ears were pink. Eijirou lookedback at the road. “Did you pin down anything more specific than aspec, or…?”
“Demi. Uh, demiromantic demisexual,” Bakugou said.
“Yeah?”
“Pretty sure, yeah,” Bakugou said.
Oh. Well. There were potentially some pretty big implications with that, weren’t there? Not that Eijirou really wanted to assume, but… He wanted to assume. If Bakugou was attracted to someone close to him, there wasn’t really anyone closer than Eijirou, right?
“Nice,” Eijirou said. It probably wasn’t the right time to say anything right now. Maybe at the restaurant? Or on the drive home? “It’s- I’m glad that you know who you are, Bakugou.”
Bakugou snorted. “Alright, that’s enough serious talk.”
“Too right,” Eijirou said, pulling into the car park outside the building Bakugou was having his interview in. “You’re gonna do great, man.”
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“Hey,” Bakugou rolled the window down to scrutinise him. “You look like shit.”
Eijirou didn’t doubt it. Set him up against a villain or a point him at a civilian in need and he’d come out of work at the end of the day a little tired but fulfilled.
Present him with a stack of paperwork? Beaurocracy was the true villain.
“One of those days, I had to do maths,” Eijirou sighed, moving around to the other side of the car to get into it. He slumped down into the seat and closed his eyes. Bakugou called him a baby for complaining about it sometimes, but that was probably fair.
“Seatbelt.”
“I’m like, the one person who’d survive going through the windshield.”
“Yeah? And I don’t want your spiky ass smashing through my windshield, thanks. It’s also the law. Seatbelt or we’re not moving.”
Eijirou cracked his eyes open to put the seatbelt on with a huff and a groan. “Fine, fine, I’m ready for your magical mystery tour now. You gonna tell me where we’re going yet?”
“Nope.”
“I just wanna know if I have to socialise with people,” Eijirou said. “If it’s like, a party? I might just stay in the car, take a nap on the back- Bakugou why is my suitcase on the back seat?”
Eijirou stared at it. Definitely his - it was a pretty distinctive shade of red. Bakugou laughed from the driver’s seat.
“You think I’d willingly go to a party, Kirishima?” Bakugou asked. Well, no, that wasn’t exactly Bakugou’s style. Eijirou watched Bakugou put his car into first and frowned to himself.
“Are you kicking me out of the apartment?” Eijirou asked. He didn’t think it was very likely, because if Bakugou had any issues with him as a roommate then he’d definitely have brought them up before now.
Bakugou shook his head. “What the fuck? No. My stuff is in the boot.”
“So… We’re going somewhere?” Eijirou frowned some more. “For how long? Wait, what about the agency?”
“Two weeks, and I cleared this time for us ages ago,” Bakugou said.
“You did?”
Bakugou nodded.
Huh. Eijirou hadn’t seen it on the calendar - had Bakugou purposefully kept this a secret? A… holiday? For the pair of them? Eijirou could feel his heartbeat pick up a little.
There weren’t many things in life that Eijirou regretted, but falling asleep in the car on the way back from the restaurant after Bakugou’s coming-out interview was on that list. It sort of felt like he’d missed his chance to ask Bakugou out.
He’d been dithering over trying again ever since. A holiday, though, that was- It could be the perfect time to say something.
“Okay.”
“That’s it?” Bakugou asked. “Okay? No wheedling away trying to convince me to spill?”
Eijirou grinned. “Nope.”
“You don’t even know if we’re driving there or taking a plane,” Bakugou said. “You’re normally infuriatingly curious.”
“Oh I know we’re not gonna take a plane, you’d be way more stressed,” Eijirou said.
Bakugou grumbled under his breath.
Eijirou snickered behind one of his hands. “Besides, I trust you, man. You’re not gonna go anywhere we’d hate so I’m happy to wait for the surprise!”
“That’s sappy, fuck off,” Bakugou complained, but Eijirou could see the tips of his ears turn pink. It made all the butterflies in Eijirou’s stomach go wild.
“I’m always sappy,” Eijirou said, watching the side of Bakugou’s handsome face.
Bakugou flicked a glance at him. “I guess I don’t hate it.”
“Ha, high praise indeed!” Eijirou grinned and closed his eyes. He probably needed that nap, anyway, and-
“I like you.”
Eijirou’s eyes snapped open. “What?”
Bakugou’s shoulders were hunched up, his ears had changed from pink to bright red, and he was biting his lip as if he hadn’t intended to say that.
“You heard me.”
“I did, uh,” Eijirou floundered for a moment. “Good. Great! Same here! I mean, I like you, too, not that I like me. Uh, not that I don’t like me, but I don’t like me in the way that I-”
“Kirishima,” Bakugou said, voice warm, and Eijirou’s jaw clacked closed at high speed.
“It should probably be Eijirou,” Eijirou said, watching Bakugou’s shoulders relax.
“Eijirou,” Bakugou said. Or Katsuki, maybe? Whatever, it sent shivers down Eijirou’s spine either way. “Date me.”
Eijirou laughed. “Yeah. Yeah, definitely. Best serious-talk ever.”
Katsuki was grinning now, too. “When we reach where we’re going I’m gonna wanna kiss you.”
“Oh yeah?” Eijirou asked, tilting his head. “Funny coincidence - I’m gonna wanna kiss you back.”
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“Can I serious-talk?”
“Ugh, fine.”
“Just wanted to tell you that I love you.”
“Again? Wow. Gross.”
“Katsuki!”
“Heh, you know I love you too, Eijirou.”
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selfshipstuff · 3 years
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For the ship questions and for anybody you’d like, who kills the bugs in the house, what are their favorite things to do together, and what was their first kiss like? -@silverselfshippingchaos :D!
i currently have a takeover going on just so you know sjdnsjs but before i hand this over to douxie and emeril i would just like to say thank u so much for enabling my simp material ash bless u
@silverselfshippingchaos
Who kills the bugs in the house?
Douxie says: "Oh, hello! Always lovely to meet a friend of my other half. To answer your first question, er," he hides a huff of laughter behind his hand. "Neither of us really has a problem with most bugs. Usually, they turn 'em loose outside, but I just leave 'em for Archie. The bugs of the more magical variety, though, er... I usually handle those. Tend to be a bit nastier, you know."
Emeril says: "Hi!" Her grin is wide and infectious. "Nice to meet you!" She taps a finger to her cheek and wrinkles her nose. "Usually, I leave the bugs to Callin. Not that I'm too delicate to handle them or anything! I just don't really like them. If it comes down to it, though, I can make quick work of a bug or two, since my little siblings are always too scared to."
What's your favorite thing to do together?
"Well, I can't speak for Cal, of course," Douxie says, tapping his fingers lightly against the table. A soft smile curves his lips. "But personally, my favorite thing to do with them is just... relax after a long day. We, er... usually sort of curl up together someplace comfortable, and just... enjoy our time together." He glances away, expression turning sheepish. "That said, I'll do just 'bout anything as long as it's with them. They make things more... lively, fun."
Emeril perks up, clearly enthusiastic about the question. "Oooh!! This is a hard one, actually. I really love curling up with a good book on a day off," she muses, expression thoughtful. "But I love when they take me out for more adventurous things, too. It's so exciting!" She grins, then slowly blushes. "And, um-- obviously I also love kissing."
"Oh, I second that, actually. Can't believe I didn't think of it." Douxie grins, expression soft. "They also give the best hugs, and I love holding their hand."
"Hey, me too! That's a good point," she says. "Sounds like we have a lot in common, Douxie."
What was your first kiss like?
Douxie splutters, eyes going wide for a moment, and he brings a hand over his mouth. It hovers lightly, barely touching his lips, like he's remembering the feeling of the kiss. His cheeks color just slightly, and he averts his gaze. "Erm... good. It was good! Really good. A- Anyway, Emeril, er, I think it's your go 'round now."
Emeril's blushing like mad, tilting her head so her hair falls into her eyes, but she can't stop smiling. A hand rises from her side to shyly tuck a strand of hair behind her ear. "Oh...! Well, um... our first kiss was... really nice. I didn't even realize they felt that way about me, but when they asked, I... didn't dislike the idea of it? Which was, you know, weird for me, since I'm, uh... I'm... I'm demisexual, so this kind of thing isn't super common for me. We were really good friends though, the best, and they're so sweet and understanding... and I sort of just ended up nodding. It was really sweet and nice, though!"
At some point, Douxie recovers from his initial flustered state, genuinely interested in Emeril's response. He perks up when she comes out, speaking up as soon as she's done. "Oh, wow! This is wild," he says. "I mean, we really do have a lot in common. I'm demi too," he clarifies. "Well, asexual, actually, but demiromantic and biromantic. Next you'll be telling me you're secretly capable of magic," he says, chuckling.
Emeril blinks at him for a moment, then laughs, smile going somewhat sheepishly mischievous. "Um... actually..."
dnfjssjd writing this made me realize how much these two have in common and im like ????? HUH ??
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hjaltemod · 4 years
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Name / Alias:  stardust (or wars)
Are you over 18?  Yes  /  No Is your muse over 18?  Yes /  No
When was your blog established? ,,,,,was it jan 2020???? LMAO?? it was wasnt it the fks time
WRITING
Are you selective about who you write with? No (anyone)  /  Semi (most people) / Yes (some people) / Highly (few people - mutuals preferred) / Private (mutuals only)
Are you selective about who you follow? No (anyone)  /  Semi (most people) /  Yes (some people)  /  Highly (few people)
If your muse is canon, how much do you adhere to canon? Not at all  / A little  / Some  / Mostly / Strictly /  Not Applicable
note: i’m mostly up to date with gbf & a3 stuff, hence the some on the rest
What post lengths do you write? One-Liners  / Single-Para /  Multi-Para  /  Novella / All of the aforementioned
Do you use icons and/or GIFS? No  /  Gifs  /  Icons  /  Yes  /  Sometimes
Do you write on other platforms? No  /  Yes
note: always subject to change. i check out forums every once in a while (i!!! grew up on forum threads with ocs i!! miss that okay!!! elaborate plots!! that stop after a month LMAO), and i do want to get back into swedish stuff too,,,as for stuff more common like disc/twits/chats i dont do chatrp & im selective with group stuff due to general assumption that disc stuff is very fastpaced, but for that & 1on1 im selectively up to it on the notion that i wont be rushed (which has happened the times ive done it so LMAO its why i very rarely suggest it, but its not completely out of the picture, i just need understanding that i write slow and cant dedicate myself to writing an entire afternoon. theres a reason i prefer i forums/tomblr)
What level of plots do you write? Unplotted  /  Open-Ended Plots  /  Semi-Plotted  /  Fully Plotted Epics /  All of the aforementioned
How quickly do you usually respond to threads? Very Slow (more than a month) / Slow (3-4 weeks)  / Average (1-2 weeks)  /  Fast (less than one week)  /  Very Fast (less than three days) /  It depends
What types of themes do you like? Adventure / Romance /  Fluff /  Angst  / Smut  /  Violence /  Tragedy  /  Domestic  /  Family
WHAT GENRES DO YOU LIKE? ( Feel free to add! ) High Fantasy /  Supernatural / Science Fiction /  Historical  /  Horror  /  Comedy  / Romantic  /  Drama  / Action / Adventure  /  Espionage  / All of the aforementioned
Are there any themes you’re uncomfortable writing on your blog? (Not triggers) No  /  Yes  /  Sometimes (the usual no-go’s)
Do you have any triggers? How do you request it tagged? -
SHIPPING
What types of relationships are you open to? Romantic  /  Platonic  /  Familial  /  All of the aforementioned
What types of pre-established relationships are you open to? Romantic  /  Platonic  /  Familial  /  All of the aforementioned
note: i tend to favor romance happening through ic interaction, or/and thorough talking about the charas, because theres always the chance that ill sit down to write and it just. wont work. so ic is reccommended! even if its short asks and not 40 threads ykno. i just need yall to know my muse and me to know ur muse !!
Do you have OTPs? No /  Chemistry Only  /  Yes
Do you have NOTPS? No / Yes
What is your muse’s sexual orientation? Heterosexual  /  Heteroflexible  /  Bisexual  /  Pansexual  /  Homoflexible  /  Homosexual /  Demisexual /  Sapiosexual  /  ( Grey ) Asexual  /  Still trying to figure it out.
What is your muse’s romantic orientation? Heteroromantic  /  Heteroflexible  /  Biromantic  /  Homoflexible  /  Homoromantic   /  Panromantic  /  Demiromantic /  Sapioromantic  / Aromantic / Still trying to figure it out.
Are you comfortable writing smut? No  /  Selectively /  Yes
note: in the form of general outside-rp talk & hcs YA, but i dont do threads. that said, i would do one-shot asks about it (but i tend to write it either heavily implied or emotionfocused LMAO), i just struggle rping it
How early in a relationship do you ship romantically? Autoship  / During plotting  /  After a couple IC interactions  /  Several IC interactions  /  Slow burn  /  Plot dependent  /  Never  
Are you open to toxic ships? No  /  Selectively  /  Yes /  I am not sure
Are you open to problematic ships? No  /  Selectively /  Yes
note: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THESE TWO ADKBJADBJKAKJDB its like this: would i write a drabble about it? yes. would i rp about it? not sure honestly. because my rp blogs are slightly different from what i do in private stuff, so just because i say “oh i like hero/enemy fking” doesnt mean ill necessarily write it here??? so uh. idk !
Are you open to polyshipping? No  /  Selectively  /  Yes  /  I am not sure.
Are you an exclusive shipper? Never /  Sometimes  /  Yes
note: assuming exclusive mean if i ship with chara x thats the only chara x ill ship with
Does crack shipping ever happen? No   /  Yes
TAGGING!
tagged by : @angereve ♥♥♥ tagging : TAKE IT FROM ME
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moody-bloosh · 4 years
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heyhey i hope im not bothering you but can i ask for a matchup?? i'm a 5"4 girl with short black hair and dark brown eyes and a triangle/pear-shaped body. i get very uncomfortable around crowds and loud music, and mostly tend to shy away from large crowds. nevertheless, i can be very eccentric loud and talkative around people im familiar with. basically who i am and how i act depends on the situation. im a very physically affectionate person and love playing video-games and drawing
uh hi, this is the anon that sent the 5"4 girl with the short black hair n stuff??? i think i forgot to add that i was biromantic demisexual and have a hard time getting crushes on people unless i really get to know them,,,sorry
hnnggghh oh my god i am so sorry for spamming you like this but my stupid ass forgot to add something else(this is the demiromantic/5"4 anon),,,,i usually make self-deprecating jokes and have a pretty low self-esteem. i can be both curious and dense alot of the time, too..i can also be prone to forgetting things((coughcough))and can be very nervous and indecisive, opting to stay silent and in the background alot of the time,,,again im so sorry :((
oh dear it’s no trouble at all !! don’t be shy :) i dont mind receiving all these asks uwu it helps me match you up easier uwu i hope you like all these matchups <3 
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Part 1: I really like the idea of you and Speedwagon together. He’s very much your cheerleader, there for you to cheer you up. We also know that our man speed weed is very vERY LOYAL. He’s really such a gentleman, he will wait for as long as it takes for you. uwu. 
Part 2: After all the grief she went through, Lisa Lisa was not sure she would be able to love again. You work as her most trusted aide and closest confidant. The time you spend together, the way you grow to trust each other, the way you become irreplaceable to her. When she first learns of her feelings for you, she doesn’t want to let you know but through Joseph’s shenanigans you find out. It’s very cute, this is the first time you’ve seen her lose her composure. uwu Given your long history together, I think you two would eventually end up together asndklsa uwu. 
Part 3 and 4: I really like the idea of you and Jotaro together. He’s a little aloof but I think when it comes to people he loves he can be very sweet. He is super duper loyal. I just get a lot of you guys would be good together vibes. Your romance is a very very slow burn but it burns in a way like you guys learn to grow together too. When he matures especially, you guys are so good together. He’s always so careful and gentle with you. When you forget things, he’s always there to remind you. 
Part 5: I think you and Trish would be good together too. Likewise, she also finds it difficult to trust people, given what she went through. Your relationship is a friendship first that slowly blossoms into something more. I can see you working as her manager, taking care of her to make sure that she gets enough rest, that she’s eating well and not overworking herself. Like ugh PLS <3 
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nymphaeasage · 5 years
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Hi! Not to weird you out or anything, but I kind of have a crush on you because you are very attractive and you just look amazing. Anygay, (Sorry it that was weird at all. Im not very good at this) I’m just wondering what you’re sexuality is, if you’re comfortable with sharing it at least.
*Windows Error Noises*
Wowie. Uh… Well…
After having done some research over the past while… I think I’m demisexual. When it comes to romantic attraction, however… I am unsure.
Perhaps I could consider myself demiromantic as well. I need to know someone for a while before I can form any sort of bond in that fashion.
But I’m still questioning, and it’s not my current focus at this time.
I do thank you for the compliment though! I’m not used to such heheh, but it is appreciated nonetheless.
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anglerfishnabe · 4 years
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Name / Alias: Gri Are you over 18?  Yes  /  No. Is your muse(s) over 18? Yes /  No
When was your blog established? August in 2017
– W R I T I N G  –
Are you selective about who you write with? No (anyone)  /  Semi (most people) / Yes (some people) / Highly (few people) / Private (mutuals only).
Are you selective about who you follow? No (anyone) /  Semi (most people) /  Yes (some people) /  Highly (few people).
If your muse is canon, how much do you adhere to canon? Not at all  / A little  / Some / Mostly /  Strictly /  Not Applicable.
What post lengths do you write? One-Liners  / Single-Para / Multi-Para /  Novella / All of the aforementioned. 
Do you use icons and/or GIFS? No  /  Gifs / Icons /  Yes / Sometimes.
Do you write on other platforms? No /  Yes
What level of plots do you write? Unplotted /  Open-Ended Plots  /  Semi-Plotted /  Fully Plotted Epics / All of the aforementioned
How quickly do you usually respond to threads? Very Slow (more than a month) / Slow (3-4 weeks)  / Average (1-2 weeks)  / Fast (less than one week)  /  Very Fast (less than three days)
What types of themes do you like? Adventure / Romance / Fluff / Angst / Violence /  Tragedy / Domestic / Family
WHAT GENRES DO YOU LIKE? ( Feel free to add! ) High Fantasy / Supernatural / Science Fiction / Historical / Horror /  Comedy / Romantic / Drama / Action / Adventure /  Espionage / All of the aforementioned > im assuming this question is rpwise? but yeah uh depends
Are there any themes you’re uncomfortable writing on your blog? (Not triggers) No  / Yes /  Sometimes
Do you have any triggers? How do you request it tagged? nope
– S H I P P I N G –
What types of relationships are you open to? Romantic /  Platonic  /  Familial / All of the aforementioned
What types of pre-established relationships are you open to? Romantic  /  Platonic /  Familial / All of the aforementioned
Do you have OTPs? No /  Chemistry Only / Yes
Do you have NOTPS? No / Yes - there are (canon) ships i dont care about but its more like im just very indifferent to them than anything else
What is your muse’s sexual orientation? Heterosexual /  Heteroflexible  / Bisexual / Pansexual /  Homoflexible  / Homosexual / Demisexual /  Sapiosexual /  Asexual / Still trying to figure it out - i like to kind of just go free reign lol
What is your muse’s romantic orientation? Heteroromantic /  Heteroflexible  / Biromantic /  Homoflexible  /  Homoromantic   / Panromantic / Demiromantic /  Sapioromantic  / Aromantic / Still trying to figure it out - same as above
Are you comfortable writing smut? No  / Selectively / Yes
How early in a relationship do you ship romantically? Autoship / During plotting  /  After a couple IC interactions / Several IC interactions / Slow burn / Plot dependent /  Never  
Are you open to toxic ships? No / Selectively  / Yes ( some discussion ) / I am not sure
Are you open to problematic ships? No /  Selectively / Yes / I am not sure
Are you open to polyshipping? No /  Selectively  / Yes / I am not sure 
Are you an exclusive shipper? Never / Sometimes / Yes / depends
Does crack shipping ever happen? Nope /  Yes / depends - strictly joking? nah
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superiorvengeance · 7 years
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OOC ROLEPLAY PREFERENCE SHEET
Please repost, do not reblog!  feel free to add to any of your answers!  the purpose is to tell your partners about the way you write! for the multiple choice ones, bold all that apply and, if you want, italicize if it’s a conditional answer!
BASICS.
NAME: Logen ALIAS(ES)/HANDLE(S): Uh haven’t been using any lately. ARE YOU 18 OR OLDER?  yes / no. IS YOUR MUSE? yes / no WHEN WAS YOUR BLOG ESTABLISHED? Haha like last week but Magneto is my longest written muse. Played him on and off for 7 years across various platforms
WRITING.
ARE YOU SELECTIVE ABOUT WHO YOU WRITE WITH ON THIS BLOG? no (anyone) / semi (most people) / yes (some people) / highly (few people) / private (mutuals only). IF YOUR MUSE IS CANON, HOW MUCH TO YOU ADHERE TO CANON? not at all  / a little  / some / mostly / strictly I take from comics a lot too. WHAT POST LENGTHS DO YOU WRITE? ‘one liners’ / single-para / multi-para / novella DO YOU USE ICONS AND/OR GIFS? no / gifs / icons / yes / pictures DO YOU WRITE ON OTHER PLATFORMS? no/ yes. WHAT LEVEL OF PLOTS DO YOU WRITE? unplotted / open-ended plots (set up a meeting and see what happens) / semi-plotted (one or two steps ahead) / fully plotted epics (plotted beginning, middle, and end). HOW QUICKLY DO YOU USUALLY RESPOND TO THREADS? very slow (more than a month) / slow (3-4 weeks) / average (1-2 weeks) / fast (less than one week) / very fast (less than three days) / it depends. WHAT TYPES OF THEMES DO YOU LIKE? fluff / angst / smut / violence / tragedy / domestic / family / conversational. ARE THERE ANY THEMES YOU’RE UNCOMFORTABLE WRITING ON YOUR BLOG? no / yes. DO YOU HAVE ANY TRIGGERS?  HOW DO YOU REQUEST IT TAGGED? no / yes. anything to do with suicide(past attempts, thoughts, ect) I’d like tagged and a headsup in IM if it is for our thread. I just need a headsup and I will be fine to write about it. By extension self harm would be nice to at least be tagged.
SHIPPING.
WHAT TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? romantic / platonic / familial (canon) / familial (ocs).I have had bad experiences with OC family members so it is rare I ever do that now. WHAT TYPES OF PRE-ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIPS ARE YOU OPEN TO? romantic / platonic / familial (canon) / familial (ocs). DO YOU HAVE OTPS? no / chemistry only / yes. but chemistry is still needed DO YOU HAVE NOTPS? no / yes. idk probably WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S SEXUAL ORIENTATION? heterosexual / heteroflexible / bisexual/ pansexual / homoflexible / homosexual /demisexual / sapiosexual / asexual. WHAT IS YOUR MUSE’S ROMANTIC ORIENTATION? heteroromantic / heteroflexible /biromantic / homoflexible / homoromantic / panromantic / demiromantic / sapioromantic / aromantic. ARE YOU COMFORTABLE WRITING SMUT? no / selectively / yes. HOW EARLY IN A RELATIONSHIP DO YOU SHIP ROMANTICALLY? autoship / during plotting / after a couple ic interactions / several ic interactions in / slow burn / never (not open to romantic ships) / every situation is different Erik is difficult to ship with so it really just depends. ARE YOU OPEN TO TOXIC SHIPS? no / selectively / yes. ARE YOU OPEN TO PROBLEMATIC SHIPS? (incest, canon history, age difference, complicated, etc.) no / selectively / yes. not incest or underaged though. ARE YOU OPEN TO POLYSHIPPING? no / selectively / yes. ARE YOU AN EXCLUSIVE SHIPPER? no / sometimes / yes. DOES CRACK SHIPPING EVER HAPPEN? no / yes. god yes XD
TAGGED BY: @embracingthepenguin sorta
TAGGING: Anyone who wants to do this
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