#im fucking hurt honestly

[haunted-plush]

I asked my dad if it was okay to go out of the house with my fox tail on... (This is a real fur fox tail that I purchased for 35 bucks at a Ren Faire, mind you)

Dad: "Do you understand what that is?"

Me: "It's a fashion accessory..."

Dad: "No, it's not a fashion statement. It means you're a FURRY! Those are usually attached to a BUTT PLUG! Don't wear those again!"

This tells me two things.

He doesn't approve of furries

He doesn't know what they are

He doesn't want me being one

#salty haunts your dash #im fucking hurt honestly #about all of it #just all of it #i AM a furry #but even if i wasnt #whats so wrong with wearing a tail or ears or whatever #its not your goddamn business #furry #anti anti furry #let people like things #let people wear what they want #let people do what they want #hes also transphobic #:/ #not really relevant but still

[yharnamsnewslug]

Heads up - transandrophobes are gonna get much, MUCH worse before this all settles down. We went from barely known to "transandrophobia truthers" to now being just openly called "cuntboys" and "zippertits". I've been sent anon hate for the last three days and I've blocked them all and not responded, and YOU SHOULD DO IT TOO.

I was there when the acephobes and arophobes were foaming at the fucking mouth and this is transandrophobes getting fucking pissed that their shallow ass feminism is being called out. Keep posting, block liberally, do NOT be afraid of stepping away and taking time for yourselves. You don't owe any fights in expense of your mental health.

Have a good day, y'all, especially those in the spotlight such as black and jewish trans men ✌🏻

#transandrophobia #keep yourselves mentally safe #these people are honestly just hateful and full of bile #ive learned to block and let them fuck off and vaguepost all they fucking want #time will bury their posts until whatever other accetable thing to discredit comes along #im asexual aromantic and a trans man #you cant fucking hurt me lol

[electr1c4]

i sometimes remember that troy and abed didnt canonically kiss and im like ummmmmmm r u sure i've seen them do that I'm pretty sure

#my peegnis hurts #do you ever wonder if god is real #i mean #there must be something ouut there. surely. #im not saying there is some big meaning to life itself #but like honestly #why the fuck am i here #am i here to make my friends days #am i here to send a message to someone about something #if god is everloving #why would he make me suffer this way #why would he put me here #and expect me to do something for him #is this his plan? #is it his plan to make me suffer? #does my suffering bring him joy? #god. if you even recognise my voice. its me. #please. #just give me a sign #just tell me its all worth it #community #nbc community #abed nadir #trobed #troy barnes #community nbc #troy and abed #just give me a sign my suffering is worth it.

[dynamicity-keysmash]

Just found out that one of my favorite YouTubers said on Twitter that the claim that Jews "distort the Holocaust" for nefarious purposes is "obviously" not antisemitic. God it's just so painful being Jewish lately. I can't even have comfort content creators anymore.

#im honestly just so drained and so emotionally done #telling jews what is and isn't antisemitic is just so popular right now and no one gives a fuck if it's hurtful #DEVELOP EMPATHY AND RESPECT FOR JEWS CHALLENGE (IMPOSSIBLE) #jumblr #jewblr #jewish #jews #being jewish #antisemitism #tw antisemitism

[craycraybluejay]

You said in tags once that pedophiles and child predators aren't the same, can you explain why? /GEN

For the same reason that people with any kind of attraction to anyone ever aren't all rapists/don't all pursue romantic/sexual feelings that could or definitely would hurt the other person. Because paraphilias are simply the morally neutral state of experiencing attraction and rape/grooming is Not That. Because people *choose* to hurt others, but not what they feel. Because a good majority of child sexual abusers aren't even pathologically/paraphilically attracted to children, they *just want to hurt them because they can.* Because they're dissatisfied with something in life, or want a punching bag, or want to feel powerful, etc etc.

It's not really different conceptually from physical abuse. Do people do it because they have icky feelings about liking blood or violence? No. They do it to feel powerful. Sexual abuse is not about sex but about power. Hope this answers your question. I've answered it a good million times on this blog but eh I'm in a generous mood.

#anon response #pro para #girl imagine if ppl blamed randomass sadists for me getting beat up as a kid #like. no. thats not how that works. if they got off on hurting me in a literal sense they mightve been a little nicer ab it. #honestly its just flat out offensive to equate thoughts and feelings with abuse #regardless of someone's pathology you can always choose to do good and always choose to do evil #what you do with that ability is up to you. but rather than focusing consequences on random 'freaks' maybe focus them on #'normal people' who decide to covertly abuse their kids. or the priest who got tired of being godly and did some fucked shit #it is not the freaks you should fear but those who put on a face of normalcy while treating others like garbage and hurting people #also mostly those that are self aware know how to Be Good so to speak and im saying this broadly ab all 'dangerous' thoughts #ppl who know they can get triggered into violence will usually avoid sais triggers. ppl who spiral out of control during an episode will #have someone watch over them or find some way to offset any possible damage #even for people in whom some sort of harm is an instinctive reaction and not a conscious decision #steps can be should be and are taken to minimize problems and recover from anything that needs it #i trust a big 3 paraphile easier than an unstable person in power with no self awareness #because ive met both and only one has ever seriously hurt me. guess.

[hayaku14]

kuroba toichi you need to stay dead or im going to fucking kill you myself

#you sick son of a bitch #if you truly love your son you wouldnt be alive #it's bad enough that you basically left the mantle for your teenage son to take up but you actually being alive???????? #you just out there living your life while your son is destroying his relationships chasing after something that you started???????? #his very motivation is your death and it's not even real??? the utter fucking betrayal??? #and maybe being kid has kade him a better magician and has helped him find out more about himself #but he shouldve been able to have a choice if he even wanted to be kid at all it shouldnt have been a responsibility pushed upon him #AND IF YOU ARE FUCKING ALIVE AND YOU'RE JUST WATCHING YOUR SON RUNNING AWAY FROM THE POLICE WITH PRIDE INSTEAD OF GUILT YHEN YOU CAN #GO FUCK YOURSELF #Honestly the worst #also that theory that maybe chikage is travelling the world because she KNOWS toichi is alive and she's with her elevates this fuckery into #a whole different level #anyway go read cuethesun's tomorrow and the next day #good fucking food and bad parent chikage and toichi enjoyers will be pleased ;> #lol #dc prattles #as much as i want happy everybody is alive kuroba family #i need touichi and chikage if she knows too to feel the repercussions of their horrible parenting and i need kaito to be able to let himself #feel the hurt and betrayal that he is justified to feel even if he is happy that his dad is alive #but i dont trust gosho to handle that nicely if anything i think hes gonna just handwave it and wont address it properly #anyway my point is i just need more hurt and angry kaito also if shinichi is there im happy #sorry i sneaked in a kaishin i cant stop the brainrot unfortunately theres no cure 🤚😔 #ALSO DONT GET ME STARTED WITH BAD PARENT KUDOS OOOOOHHHH

[bugbuoyx]

Other trans people are not your enemy.

This goes for both trans women & fems and trans men & mascs. There are popular trans women twitter accounts telling young trans women that trans men do not care about them and simultaneously denying trans men face any transphobia, there are popular trans men on tumblr telling young trans men that trans women do not care about our oppression, pointing to the lack of talk about murdered trans men as proof.

And some of these points are fair, we should listen to each other more about our struggles. But you are making that difficult. Do you think a trans woman wants to listen to someone who accuses all trans women of hating trans men and not caring about our struggles? Do you think trans men want to listen to someone who says tells people that trans men are future terfs and will never care about trans womens struggles?

Are we not all just sides of the same dice? Are we not all facing oppression from transphobes? Terfs write books about how trans men are mutilating themselves and articles about predatory trans women in bathrooms, republicans fund legislation targeting trans surgeries and hormones, which affects all of us.

And even if we did not face the same struggles, why are we divided? Again, are we not all the same, simply trying to be ourselves in our own bodies? We can each talk about our own struggles, the difficulties we face and the joys we experience without the opposite being true of the other, infact more often than not it's extremely similar and I think we'd benefit from listening to each other more.

#transmisogyny #transandrophobia #trans separatism #because thats what this is really about im so fucking sick of the pervasive trans separatism i see in trans spaces #and both sides have had separatist movements and they use the existence of the other to recruit more folks driving us further apart #i dont want to get into conspiracy theory thinking and say the big separatist accounts are run by transphobes #because theyre not theyre just hurting trans folks lashing out but they are making it worse by hurting young trans folks #trans men who accuse random trans women of being baeddels are just as bad as trans women who accuse random trans men of being future terfs #like both groups are/were abusive as fuck what a great thing to wish on someone #hatred does nothing but cause harm honestly #also id like to point out that these separatist groups also harm the group theyre recruiting #baeddels notoriously drove gnc/nb trans fems away and the leader literally raped someone #transmasc separatists STILL use the most disgusting misgendering language about other trans men

[impala-dreamer]

is this too romantic? am I going too far? is there any other way to write romance than all in, all encompassing, perfectly magical? no. this is fine.

#talking to myself as i write #it's so flufffffyyyyyy #i should write romcoms i'd really be great at it #except someone would inexpicably die or get shot out of nowhere #and then ya know #“dying in the rain talking about theology” #classic me #also fuck you bc theres so much i cant share anymore #because you took it all away #why am i rambling in the tags agani #no one reads anyway #so screw you you hurt me #but im not going anywhere #i'm gonna stay here and write this stupid fluffy romanctic shit #and love it #and then i'll write my dean and jensen and misha #and i will love that too #and someday i won't be so sad or indifferently angry at you #and maybe i'll get back to writing what i used to but cant now bc you took it from me #i should delete this but honestly no #i'm not goinig to #now im just curious to how manyt ags i can have #someone count this i cant math #anyway whatever #writing #henry cavill #whatttttttt

[thankstothe]

when she brings up freud on the first date

#house md #gregory house #alison cameron #screencap #s01e20 “Love Hurts” #this arc gets better on rewatch honestly #yeah you go girl blackmail house into the most underwhelming date of your life. no need for karma you did it to yourself #im rooting for your contribution to the international struggle of fucking that old man #(ok hes not that old - hes oldER that her - the point stands) #that cute high quality cringe #anyway if she's wilson's parallel narratively then she underleveled to face not parallel house sorry #and parallels do not cross hello #tho its interesting to think about #if you think about it there's cuddy shaped hole in s8 and similarly there's cameron shaped holes all around the series #longpost #tw freud #long post

[sexygaywizard]

I've been seeing a lot of posts going around lately about how lesbianism needs to be more heavily policed, if you feel in any way discriminated against by other lesbians it's because you're not actually a real lesbian, you're lesbophobic, etc etc, and I really am fucking tired of it I have to be honest. You are not lesbophobic for being a complicated human being. I thought we were fucking aware by now that heavily policing lesbian identities was never cute, we had it with the fucking gold star lesbian bullshit, with the fucking political lesbian bullshit, etc etc. If you are so woke to the idea that society pressures women to be sexually attracted to men, why are you not woke to the idea that that can affect someone's psyche and how they perceive their own sexuality? Sexuality is complicated, gender is complicated, and idk why y'all are incapable of believing that can make identifying as any strict label complicated?? Acting like people haven't had it out for non-binary lesbians, for trans lesbians, for lesbians who used to id as bi and vice versa, for literally everyone who doesn't fit the cis gold star lesbian attracted to other cis gold star lesbian mold, and every time I see one of these posts I have to always check the notes for terfs because you are literally spouting off the same shit as them word for goddamn word. I was in an abusive relationship with a man for 3.5 years and identified as bisexual, and then after I got out of that relationship, I lost interest in men/realized I never had any (??? SHIT IS COMPLICATED), I haven't been with a man in 5 years but I still feel like I need to be paranoid about labeling myself as a lesbian and I can't talk about my past because sometimes I'm not sure if I still feel attraction to men and it's just suppressed because of trauma, or if I only think that I'm feeling attraction to men because of heteronormativity, etc and it's scary to even mention right now bc y'all are literally incapable of acknowledging that sexuality is complicated sometimes?? Like legit! If you are woke to heteronormativity how can you not understand that makes shit complicated. I know 40 year old lesbians who had threesomes with a man and it doesn't matter to them because they know who they are and what they are about. Also, other queer people using labels that make themselves feel comfortable is not somehow discrimination against you. Other queer people are not your fucking enemies and you need to stop treating them like your enemies, because it is not cute. You are not protecting lesbianism, you are just making people with complex and nuanced experiences feel unsafe. Get some fucking solidarity. I am tired. I am tired.

#if somebody tells me i have to identify as bisexual because of complicated and unclear feelings i keep to myself #im stealing something out your house!! #why tf is anybody's identity any of your goddamn business anyways jesus christ #just let people be themselves holy fuck. it literally does not hurt you #honestly preparing myself for hate over this but i just feel like its important to say #bc i know how negatively this affects people who dont fit the pristine cookie cutter idea of a label #but like bitch most people don't. life is complicated. #i talk

[dailykugisaki]

Day 123 | id in alt

Sorry Shoko, you gotta act professional around this one student because her technique is corrosive.

#dailykugisaki #jjk #kugisaki nobara #shoko ieiri #nanami kento #would yall still like me if i out fucking uh....big curls on shoko.... #I PUT A FUCKIN BIG CURL ON SHOKO YALL I SAID I WOULD #I SAID I WOOOULLLDDD #its kinda a fro? idk if you would call this one ive looked at ref pictures but all of them have smaller curls so im not sure #Shoko thinking she could bullshit breeze all the students? nah #Kugisaki cursed technique bombing the poor woman lmao #SHE WOULD. Kugisaki wouldn't be proud of it but she would honestly #i rarely see people draw shoko pissed its goofy #saw the leaks #that motherfucking villain is absolutely turning out to be one of those kindergarten “NUH UH” mfs and im shriveling #anyway back to Kugisaki #she dosent really mean to hurt shoko she never will but damn. that shit is REFLEX

[testing-12-testing]

Hey, so if anyone here was unaware

On Twitter, someone has come out with information regarding Gabe Velez/Gamerduck (frogbots va), talking about their experience with him. (the post is linked below but I need to warn you guys for multiple mentions of SA and abuse)

I am not going to say much else here other than I am fucking disgusted. I cannot even put into words how angry this makes me. Fuck Gabe, and fuck anyone who still supports him after this.

#fandroid #adhoc labs #putting this in the main tag bc this is fucking Important #im going to take a long ass break from fandroid content i really hope you guys inderstand #this is awful #important #sa mention #edit: cant update the original post but another person has come out as having similar experiences with gabe #once again im just. digusted #who knows how many people have been hurt here #ill come back and edit the tags if anything new happens #ok update again #gabe released a response. i read through it #it didnt really clear anything up and he pretty much tried saying that the people affected by him actually hurt him #and gave no evidence for such #the tweet just got deleted and people are generally not falling for it #i honestly dont know what he was trying to do there #ok last update for now #this is like. 20 minutes later #his twitter is gone so theres that i guess

[unnerving-presence]

it makes me so sad to read the file in lost in nightmares after getting the 3 passwords and seeing all the wesker children because they weren’t called that, they were just called test subjects :(

it’s honestly sad to think that all of them but albert and alex died a horrible death because of the prototype virus too. mutation isn’t exactly painless when you’re not compatible

even in wesker’s file in re5 it says:

“Some took the virus on the recommendation of a friend; others were given the virus as part of their medical treatment; still others had it forcibly administered to them

Albert Wesker was not different. His partner, William Birkin, gave him the experimental virus, and he administered it to himself.”

fuck spencer fuck spencer fuck spencer i can’t do this anymore

#honestly i feel like alex and albert knowing they even existed was a relief to them as well #since they did not know each other growing up given they were all put in different locations to be monitored #like imagine the relief and happiness they felt at knowing they weren’t alone in what they felt #RAHH STOP IT BRAIN IM GONNA CRY ☹️ #also albert did not even know about him being a test subject either.. #alex got to know because she was close with spencer which also probably hurt her #but wesker must’ve been fuckin devastated to find out his entire existence was literally to be a test subject and servant like #dude i’d be fucking pissed too

[utterdrip]

astarion’s sigh/laugh of utter relief when he realizes durge just wants him safe

#bg3 #bg3 spoilers #astarion #astarion acunin #durge #bg3 durge #like i wont harp on him automatically thinking HES done something wrong #as the reason for why durge would want to break up #bc that will hurt me more #but like #his deflation with relief as he realizes its something he can HELP with #and not something he couldnt change abt himself or how they are as a couple #like im sorry ur honor this man loves tav so dearly!!!!!! so fucking dearly!!!!!!! #the few seconds it takes for him to gather his thoughts #mean so much to me #because if its something about astarion is that hes ALWAYS got some sort of retort #like really the only time he hesitates in dialogue that ive noticed #is when u question what HE wants and what HE feels bc he hasnt had autonomy for so long #and i think its very. honestly beautiful of him to fight back against durge’s reasons #maybe not beautiful but idk how else to describe it #like he wants durge/tav so bad that he forces himself to like. say something just brutally honest with no sugared words #idk idk idk #i just love him! #bg3: vid

[1pcii]

reading this far (ch 870) into WCI and im genuinly confused on why using 'vinsmoke' as sanji's last name is so mainstream?

like not only is it introduced so late in the series and hes been nothing but 'black leg'/Zeffs adopted son for like 70/80% of the manga. but he is shows clearly rejecting the name so many times.

like it is SO EXPLICIT in the text???

WHY is his main tumblr tag, his parent ao3 tag, and the general way he's reffered to by the majority of people a name he hasnt used since he was like seven 😭?

#im honestly so greatful and amazed at how often and clearly he denounces judge as his father #since characters (and ppl irl) are often demonized for cutting family ties as such. even if its the parents fault as to why #yet sanji. who has been hurt so badly by this man. can confidently say that there has been no other father in his life besides zeff #not only that but more doyalistically he has been narratively /allowed to/. he only 'forgives' him for zeffs sake and even that is such a #blatent verbal backhand #god im feeling so choked up rn #he loves zeff SO MUCH. this is SUCH a good scene #psii reads 1pc #psii.txt #sanji black leg #<- not only does it match with zeff (red leg) which is so fucking cute and amazing and a testemony to their bond #but it also doubles so well as his pirate epithet? leg/kick based fighter in a black suit??? helloo?

[apollotronica]

eczema

#hi👋 my eczema on my back was really bothering me so i drew about it #honestly wasnt completely sure how to draw how my eczema looks because Well . sometimes it just looks like a wrird birthmark #but i dont only have eczema on my back its also Uh #on the insides of my elbows and thr actual elbow #my hands Which totally sucks when im trying to wash my hands and i didnt bring my lotion #my forehead :/ not too visible but its there and its so fucking annoying #my ankles and feet Which hurts the most tbh #ans i think i have it on ny scalp too . which suuuucks #anyway #☆ apollo singing #artpollo #eczema #skin condition #idk ! i dont see many people drawing Anyone w eczema Maybe cyz its hard to draw but . Shrugs .