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heyybaejjk · 11 months
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༏ᖫྀ ⋆ ࣪ human boyfriend ao'nung hcs <3
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pairing: human!aonung x human!fem reader
summary/notes: boyfriend ao'nung headcanons, human & in high school. ao'nung & reader are both 18.
warnings: swearing, mentions of blood! making out, implied smut but nothing too far
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A lot of his peers from school assume he's just some muscular, hot headed guy with an ego so big, when in actuality he's not.
He was, until he met you.
People change, people don't change. He was the first factor.
People naturally assume Ao'nung is the type to just buy you expensive shit that have no meaning, but he really puts thought into every little thing he buys or crafts himself.
Also assuming that your relationship with Ao'nung was going to end after one month.
How could that possibly happen if he is head over heels for you?
Mans is caught off guard by the thought of you, even when you're not there with him physically
Brags about you, his kind and sweet girlfriend 25/8 just because.
"Bro my girl is so fucking cute, she met my mum yesterday and brought her flowers. like??? if you want me to get on my knees, just say so babe. My dad and Tsireya love her already... AND OH MY GOSH, my baby sister, Luna, Y/N held her for five seconds and Luna was already so smiley and giggling. Like yeah Luna, I get the same feeling,"
"We've heard this shit for the last 10 minutes" his friend rolls his eyes playfully.
When he's playing basketball with his friends, he's the type to shout "Oi, this is for my missus" before shooting the ball, and making it in.
Laughs at Lo'ak when he attempts to shoot for Tsireya but misses the hoop completely 😹
"Mean ass airball" is all Ao'nung says while chuckling
Bites back to the mfs who want him, even when they know damn well he's got a girlfriend
He posts about you every hour of the day, how could anyone not know ☠️
rayraybae has sent you a message!
rayraybae: hey you got some fine ass back muscles
m.nung: i will literally make a film of my girlfriend leaving scratch marks all over my back, back the fuck up.
Ao'nung says before blocking the user that texted. Rolling his eyes, he places his phone on the night table of yours. Sitting up from his position, his arms wrap around your waist as you sat on the edge of your bed. He lifts you easily on his lap as you let out a soft squeal. "Ao'nung!" you softly say, blushing intensely.
"Let me hold you, baby," he says smirking into your neck, pecking along your shoulder trailing up. Whispering into your ear, "I want us to try something."
Grabbing your phone and press onto the camera icon before hitting record. Placing your phone on the side table while his phone lit up with notifications. Getting the perfect landscape angle of the both of you, as he lays on top of giving your neck slow and sensual kisses. From the corner of his eyes, he caught a glimpse of his phone repeatedly turning on and off, yet he ignored it as he was too busy with the lovemaking you were about to do.
That little thing he said before was half true and half untrue.
Truthful to making you scream his name while scratching his back, recording it all
The untrue factor was sending it.
He respects you and knows your boundaries (every relationship has boundaries ofc) he only really said it to her because bro just loves to argue and brag about his girlfriend
Every recording you make, whether on his or your phone stayed between you two.
Posts a lot about you. His insta story, his tiktoks, twitter acc = all about you. Lets you make tiktoks on his account to show you off
But sets his comments only for his mutuals, he doesn't fuck with the comments that talk about you as if you aren't his.
Hell, his bio on everything is "@y/nnnnn 💓" or "i love my girlfriend."
Trusts you 100%, doesn't force you to give him your passwords to anything nor asks to check your phone
Spams your camera roll so much, like a lot.
Once he sees your phone without you around, he's already on your camera roll
"Mama. Mama, come. I got y/n's phone, she's in the bathroom. Pose with Luna. Smile Mum." he says with a hushed tone, smiling with his arm around his mother's shoulder. Ronal chuckles at her son's actions, the newborn baby in her arms, she lays her head on his shoulder as she sees in the camera her newborn baby lying against her chest.
"Hey! Let me be in it!" Tsireya quietly whispers before making her way beside Ronal, kissing her cheek as Ao'nung presses the shutter button.
That happened last week because now Ao'nung was smothering kisses all over your face while you giggled after he saw your new lock screen.
He loves to send paragraphs
Loves typing (even writing letters) paragraphs all about you. From the way your laughter sounds like a melody from Eywa, how your smile along with your pearly white teeth make him also smile, how your soul ties him in.
He loves pda, but not the type where you both makeout with each other's tongue down your throat
(i have a couple from my school who does this & it makes me wanna cry cos literally stop & go to class pls.)
Holding hands, wrapping an arm around your shoulder, hugging, kissing your knuckles (uses you as an armrest to tease you but stops when you elbow his side.)
Forehead kisses, kisses on the cheek & pecks, that's how far he'll go in public.
in private, BROS GOING HAM DURING MOUTH TO MOUTH SESH.
"Nung," you let out a breathy laugh as you feel your boyfriend trail kisses from the side of your mouth down to your neck.
"Hm?" he mumbles, lightly sucking and licking the sweet spot of your neck. You moan lightly, too immersed in the pleasure. "O-oh!" you gasp slightly, your hands now on the back of his head, bringing him closer.
"Nevermind, keep going," you say as you feel Ao'nung smirk into your neck.
Loves to spoil you.
Whether it be with clothes, makeup, shoes, stuffed bears. Anything.
But his most favourite are handmade gifts
He loves it when you shyly hide your squeal of excitement to everything, but when he pulls out an origami rose that he sprayed with your favourite perfume rather than an expensive stuffed bear, he loves seeing the glimmer in your eyes
Since you're his baby, he's already got both the handmade and the expensive shit hiding in his bag.
As he pulls out the bouquet of paper-coloured flowers from behind his back, he watches as you hide your squeal with your small hand, a bright blush appears on your face as you bring him into a tight hug, your head on his chest. You pull away before rocking from side to side shyly as you look to the ground, hiding back a smile as you hold onto the bouquet softly.
"Thank you, Nung, they are absolutely cute. I love them," you say politely, your nose slightly red. You stand on your tippy toes as you kiss his cheek. He smiles gently at you, wrapping his arm around your shoulder, walking with you. "Well, I love you."
He will fight for you, doesn't care if the person is taller or more muscular (as if he's not already the tallest mf in school 🧍‍♀️)
Will never, ever bring up the fact that he got his ass beat by Lo'ak when he was 15
If Lo'ak were the one to bring it up to you, he'd definitely tell Tsireya about all the stank ass piss stains he used to leave on his bed when he was sixteen.
Neteyam told Ao'nung this because he just felt like it. Or maybe Lo'ak just pissed him off that day, who knows.
Safe to say that if they sparred now, Lo'ak's ass is 6 feet underground.
But they're best friends now, won't ever happen.
"He what? Where the fuck is he?" He angrily says, throwing his bag off his back harshly. You look around frantically, "Nung, really. It's okay," you calmly say as you grab his bag before following behind him, trying to grab one of his arms.
"No, no, no, he touched your thigh when you told him to stop."
He walks around the halls and finally spots the guy he was searching for. Rushing up to him as you call out his name from behind, stopping as you figured it was no use. Grabbing him by his collar, he harshly throws the guy up against a wall. As people surround the two, you can only watch as his friends try and pry him away from the poor, shaken up boy. Lo'ak who made his way beside you, grinning at the sight.
"I would've gotten my ass beat if I tried to intervene," Lo'ak snickers. You roll your eyes before push his shoulder roughly as a joke.
Both your faces cringed and heard the crowd grow loud as you heard something from the crowd crack. A few seconds later, you see Ao'nung being pulled away from the crowd as the guy on the ground holds his nose, blood staining his hands.
You look over to your boyfriend who had an angered expression on his face, his shirt being pulled at as four of his friends pushed him back. His shirt slightly riling up, revealing his define V line and toned abs. "Touch my missus again, I'll fucking knock you out." You hear him yell out.
"He deserves some good head," you blurt out. Lo'ak side eyes you so fucking hard.
He walks you to class <333
If you have a class together, best believe mans is seated next to you
But if he knows one of your best friend's in the same class, he rather you sit with them
He feels like you spend a lot of time with him & rarely with your friend group, so he feels slightly guilty
Although you feel the opposite as you've sorted a way to spend time equally with both him & your friends, you give him a soft peck on the lips for the lovely thought
If you do sit together though, it doesn't necessarily mean he'll be distracting you with kisses and secret whispers of affection
He knows education means a lot to you and knows when and when not to be affectionate
You do still hold hands under the table often, or link arms.
You both take notes, help each other out, ask each other on what you've misheard from the teacher
He does give your thigh or hand a comforting squeeze when he notices your brows furrow or a slight pout on your lips form, an overwhelming feeling taking over your body as you look stumped on a certain task
You both are mature people and can communicate, so he lets you speak your thoughts rather than going ahead and helping you immediately, if that makes sense
Only when you really feel like something is too much and you can't talk or communicate properly like you both usually can, that's when he drops his shit and soothes you.
"Would you like some help, baby?" he whispered soothingly, his hand comfortingly caressing your thigh, as he notices your confused expression. The rest of the class was too focused on their sheets of paper. You were too caught up in your thoughts that you let your hands massage the temple of your head. You shake your head, signalling no.
"It's okay if you don't know the answer immediately, sweets. You don't need to rush," His hand now on your back, sliding up and down slowly.
For a few seconds, he lets you take a breather, and you finally answer with a broken voice and a small whisper. "Can you help me please?"
"Of course, lovely," an arm around your shoulder and he kisses your temple. "Which part are you stuck on? We can break it down and solve it."
Doesn't give any care about who you're friends with, even if they're a guy. Will warn you or hint if he knows something is up with certain people.
Is protective, will always be there behind your back to defend you.
He has friends that are girls, but aren't close with them either. Even if he is close with another girl, bro never touches her. Just a simple dap is good enough to him.
As soon as he gets the "I got something to tell you." text from a girl.
Blocked. Sorry, but he literally blocks them.
He knows exactly what that six worded sentence means because those were the exact words he said to you before confessing.
He has a girlfriend and only has eyes for you, they should know better than to pull shit like that 🤷‍♀️.
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my fingers hurt... from typing of course 🧍‍♀️ ANYWAY thats all i got, im tired LOLOL <333
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agirlunfilteredsblog · 3 months
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THINGS I WISH MY YOUNGER SELF KNEW
Hi girls!! Today, we will be talking about advice I wish I could go back and tell my younger self. Honestly, these things aren’t specific to one topic, they are simply things I wish I knew growing up. 💓
1. PRIVACY IS YOUR BESTFRIEND
In a world of social media, privacy should be your priority. The whole world doesn’t need to know your business, only the people around you that you trust. I make it a point that my personal Instagram account only has people I know in it. And even then, the things I post never give too much away. I hear so many of my friends say they are too scared to post themselves on their OWN account. In my opinion, that is ridiculous; even they know that there are too many people following their business…
2. QUALITY OVER QUANTITY
This applies to everything in life. When it comes to friends or for clothing, you should only strive for the best, not the easiest or easily attainable.
3. YOU ARE YOUR FIRST PRIORITY
Girls, I know how difficult it is to see the value in yourself. But trust me, your being is your most valued asset. School, friends and family are all so important, don’t get me wrong, but at the end of the day, all you have is yourself. Don’t put your mental health aside for anything. Take a break if needed, you aren’t perfect and you don’t need to be.
4. YOU DON’T NEED TO BE TOUGH
The world is rough and a lot of us have been through some tough shit. This is a reminder to NOT let your past affect your being. I used to grow up thinking that if I was not tough, the world would eat me alive. This could not be further from the truth. This existence is beautiful, do not let anything or anyone stray you from that fact.
5. DON’T BE SCARED OF SETTING BOUNDARIES
Placing boundaries for yourself and mental state is nothing to be ashamed of. It does not make you “mean” or “impossible”. If people cannot accept your limits, they aren’t meant to be in your life. You know yourself better than anyone.
so much love,
a girl unfiltered 💋
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femmefatalevibe · 9 months
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Hi! I love your blog. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your tips and advice! 🥰 I want to change my persona into a more bold and passionate lady instead of they shy timid girl. Do you have any recommendations on resources that I can start with? I would also love to learn how to flirt seductively to attract men but also to flirt with friends just for fun. Can you pls point me to the right direction? Thank you so much!! ❤️💓💗
Hi love! Thank you so much for your kind words and support. These words mean a lot to me <3
Yes, gladly. Sharing some resources below:
How To Validate Yourself & Stop People Pleasing
How To Master Your Shadow Self & Embrace Your Dark Feminine Energy (Advice)
How To Reduce Social Anxiety To Boost Your Confidence, Make Friends, & Become Magnetic
How To Master Public Speaking Anxiety & Communicate Like A Boss
How To Master The Written Word & Communicate Like A Queen
How Flirt With Men, Hold Your Own, & Embrace The Art of Seduction
How To Rediscover Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Master Interpersonal Conflict
How To Build Unshakeable Self-Confidence
Ways To Appear More Mature & Embrace Your Sensual Side
How To Handle Rude People & Insulting Comments With Class
Questions To Ask When Evaluating Your Relationships
A Beginner's Guide To Embracing Your Sexuality
Simple Tips & Tricks To Seduce A Prospective Lover
How To Build Steamy Sexual Tension With Any (Potential) Lover
Femme Fatale Booklist: Decentering Men, Feminist Dating, & Childfree Living
Essential Feminist Texts Booklist
Empowering Affirmations To Unleash Your Dark Feminine Energy
Hope these help xx
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chaandkeeroshni · 4 years
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What I feel good/proud of myself for today:
1. Wore makeup the entire day, pink eyeshadow makes me feel so powerful
2. Made a wonderful cup of coffee in the morning
3. Recharged opus
4. Got rent money
5. The snow and walks in snow were surreal
6. Studied on a very good desk on 6th floor
7. Resolved things with Vibhu. Apologised to him on text and promised to meet very soon
8. Good smoke up session with girls
9. Resolved a little with Rahema and set boundaries
10. Arranged a gynaecologist for family planning and reproductive health camp
11. Didn’t take Haider’s shit and told him I won’t ever take his shit
12. Voice note from hamna 🥺💓💞🌈
13. Video call with Zainab
14. Mopped the house
15. Changed bedsheet
16. Cleaned room
17. Organized clothes took sweaters out from luggage and organized everything
18. Laundry
19. Self care session with coconut oil essential oils and blackhead strip and makeup remover
20. Mint green tea
21. Long rant session with Mama
22. Journaled goals for now and winter break and later
24. My 10 pages research on divorce
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