I wish my parents understood that when I am having a Bad Time ( meltdown) that I need to be left alone because if they come into my room or ask what's wrong or literally even look at me they're actively making it worse
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gonna get a lil personal and rant bc therapy is expensive and talking to black parents abt mental health is a fate worse than death. ☠️☠️
negl, I feel like I’m in need of a self care day or some time off. Don’t remember the last time I’ve traveled or gone somewhere besides the grocery store. Like I’m feeling super isolated and lonely as of late. It’s frustrating seeing all of these people get to do things. Watching people have groups of friends to hang out with and partners while I’m just circling my house/town with no one to call a friend and def not a potential relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I’m super grateful to work from home and run my own business + I really wouldn’t trade it for a thing but it seems to be all I do, and there’s no reward tbh. Granted, I’m blessed to be able to do so and I’m more than glad to help my family bc if I were living with roommates or by myself, I’d be screwed so I really don’t mind that. I’m blessed to have my family. But I feel a little frustrated because it feels like I’m the only one who does. Both me and my brother still live at home and it’s bc of that, that I can afford to run a business, work shorter hours, etc but I’m also the only one that works, buys groceries, helps with bills and house expenses…and he has pretty severe Crohn’s disease so I try to be empathetic and understand that he can’t do physical work the way he used to but it also feels as if he doesn’t try to do anything to take care of himself or anyone else. And admittedly, I’ve enabled a lot of his behavior bc I’ve felt bad that he can’t get out of the house as much. I paid for his gaming computer, I buy him food, games and pretty much anything else. I even sacrificed getting my vehicle fixed so that he could have a $300 computer part bc it made him happy. My parents are essentially disabled (my mom’s been dealing with complex migraines for years and my dad had horrible COVID) but even so, we all pull our weight except for him. Idk, I don’t wanna sound selfish or ungrateful but sometimes, I wish I could pour a little into myself. I wish I had somebody to take care of me and tell me it’s all good. I just want to be helpful and useful so I feel as if I’m not contributing then I’m doing something wrong but for once, I just want to have a little something left for myself.
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Okay here's some confession stuff/vent/whatever below. This is a long long one folks
It's about Vivziepop, and some other thoughts I've been sitting on over the years
I have mixed feelings about Vivziepop right now. Not really because of the irl controversies, there's a bunch of sides providing a bunch of points and I'm not smart enough to know who to believe, but also the fact that Vivziepop's work right now seems to be reflecting a consistent style that I'm not sure I'm comfortable with.
Not to go into detail but it reminds me of how obsessed I used to be with 'representing' things but in a very. suggestive-nsfw, at best inappropriate or tone-deaf manner.
This hurts because vivziepop , along with many online artists, was a huge influence on my art growing up and has always been a major motivator for me, but I don't feel like things have aged well, I could've been smarter, and.
idk. There's a lot of negative feelings here and it's kinda freeing to feel so distanced from my old content. Especially since I can better pick apart the many reasons I used to think the way I did. I'm still trying to be better
What even was the point of this, to announce that I don't really like Hazbin Hotel anymore? To announce my 'tragic past' unto others? I talk with people who do enjoy Helluva Boss on here and I'm lucky that they are, as far as I know, positive individuals. I guess I just wanna be honest right now and better lay it all out in some place
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// vent
I have such a lovehate relationship with Ralsei fans cuz some of em are like cool and stuff, but there are sooooooo many people who sexualize the poor guy and it makes me very very angry. So many people argue that Ralsei is like an adult and it's the stupidest thing ever. Cuz if he was intended to be over 18, what business does he have hanging around high schoolers and presumably having a crush on one of em???????????? like no he's obviously underage.
Sorry I was on twitter and deltarunetwt is pissing me the fuck off goodnight
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I have been having god awful lightheadedness/palpitations for like a month now and I requested an appointment with my doctor for the first time in years so here’s to hoping they actually take me seriously 🤞🤪
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