#straight trans man

[haunted-thing]

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pt: straight trans woman | straight trans man!/end pt.

straight trans woman | straight trans man

for straight trans women and for straight trans men !

#hewhohaunts ☆ #mogai #identity coining #mogai positivity #mogai heaven #coined by me #mogai community #mogai friendly #flag coining #mogai coining #trans man #trans woman #transhet #queerhet #combo flag #straight trans man #straight trans woman

[goodolfashionedloverboy2005]

I can't wait to be fully transitioned and stealth. I wanna be sitting shirtless post-top surgery, hairy-chested with a beer gut while drinking an IPA while watching my children play in the summer sun. I wanna go to Chuck-e-cheese with my future family and have people never know as they look at us, only thinking about how I'm balding.

Does anyone else feel this?

#ftm #trans ftm #trans guy #trans man #transhet #trans boy #straight trans #straight trans man #transmasculine #transmasc #ftm mlm #female to male

[void-thegod]

Any straight trans men on this site?

How do you date?

Tips? Suggestions? I've been single for 5 years and it's rough.

#trans man #trans masc #straight trans man #trans man of color #trans #queer #lgbtq #dating #relationships

[t4transsexual]

idk who needs to hear this but trans men are not only allowed but need to be encouraged to feel proud to be trans men. hell, they should be proud to be men too, not just in relation to their transness. being trans men and transmasculine can be really fulfilling to people. the random trans guy in your high school calculus class didnt invent misogyny the patriarchy, hes still affected by it. grow up

#straight trans ppl should also be encouraged to be proud in their sexuality too #but thats another hot take #trans #t4t #transmasc #trans man #transgender #trans men #transmasculinity

[gay-otlc]

Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

#like i mostly get impacted from this as a straight trans man #and the way people- even my friends- have acted like my attraction to women is now morally worse since i came out as trans #but this also affects like. bi/mspec men? it's shitty to shame them for their attraction to women! #and even cishet men. acting like objectification or predatory behavior is just inherent to male attraction to women #let's shitty men off the hook because 'they can't help it' or whatever #or victim blames anyone abused by a cishet man because 'what did you expect from being in a relationship with him' #yeah so like. sapphics stop saying this challenge #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #again i'm tagging because that's my personal experience with that sentiment but it has a ton of other issues too #antimasculism

[genderqueerdykes]

i love you, straight trans people. i love you, transhets. i love you, trans men who are attracted to women. i love you, trans women who are attracted to men. i love you and the way you love

#trans #transgender #transsexual #nonbinary #enby #transmasculine #ftm #mtf #trans man #trans men #trans woman #trans women #trans girl #trans girls #trans lady #trans boy #trans guy #transhet #trans het #straight trans #our writing

[panstovoid]

I would just like to thank across the spiderverse for further confirming my belief that one cannot be Spider-Man without being at least a little gay or trans

#Spiderverse #spiderman across the spiderverse #across the spiderverse #miles morales #gwen stacy #hobie brown #peter b parker #pavitr prabhakar #The ending scene of that movie is just a gay friend group #There is no fucking way they are straight #trans gwen stacy #I stan the creators of the movie for this masterpiece of cinema #In this house we believe that Spider-Man is an inherently LGBT position

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

#words words words !! #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #ply lesbian #mspec gay #bi gay #pan gay #omni gay #ply gay #mspec straight #bi straight #pan straight #omni straight #ply straight #gaybian #lesboy #trans man lesbian #turigirl #trans woman gay #enbyhet #aplatonic #aplspec #aplatonic spectrum #!

[uncanny-tranny]

Something I really love about queerness is how somebody's sexuality merges and bleeds into their gender.

I think for some, it can be, in part, a reclamation of the idea of being punished for not truly being your gender or not being enough as-is. A lesbian who's punished for not being a "woman" by cishet society can reclaim themself by declaring they aren't a woman but a lesbian, lesbiangender, in short.

Queerness in any capacity is often (though not always and not across-the-board) punished as a failure in some way. You're a second-class man or woman, a second-class person, depending on many factors. Reclaiming that can be really relieving and cathartic

#queer #lgbt #lgbtq #this is obviously more complex for many #but it's why my own sexuality plays into my gender - it is recognizing that i am often punished for not being a 'true man' #both because i am trans and because i am queer #i know of a het trans person whose gender seems like... hetman (which i honestly vibe with for him) #so it's not like this doesn't apply to non-het or non-queer-in-sexuality people #in so many ways i am more similar to that trans person than a lot of other people even if he's straight and i'm not really

[the-gladiolus]

Tips For Passing as Male I Accidentally Stumbled Upon While Minding My Own Genderfluid Business:

(Btw everyone deserves to be gendered correctly no matter how they act, these are just some tips that you may try if you would like.)

1. Keep your posture open. Feet shoulder width apart and pointing out, shoulders back, chest forward, energy all directed outward. Even though you may think openness makes your chest or stature more obvious, the energy/confidence is what people notice first, not the content.

2. That said, you don’t have to hold yourself like a peacock the whole time. I’ve learned that people go off the assumption they make when first meeting you, and then don’t really look again - so if the first thing they see is a cis guy, you can relax after that, they rarely double check.

3. When it seems appropriate, offer a handshake when meeting people, especially other guys, and hold a little tighter than is strictly natural. I know it sounds stupid, but it goes far; I’ve been offered more handshakes by guys these past 2 years of somewhat masc presentation than I have all 16 previous years combined. Guys just be shakin hands w/ each other

4. Again, when it makes sense, consider “dapping up” a guy if you know each other, traditionally when you part ways. To do this, proffer your dominant hand in a loose C shape like you’re holding an invisible cup, and when they clasp theirs with yours, lift the hands a few inches in the air and then lower them and release on the way down (sometimes accompanied by opposite hand on the tricep/shoulder, I.e. bro hug. Istg the things men do 💀)

5. If you have the space and it won’t annoy anyone, manspread a bit when you sit

6. Keep your head lifted when you’re out in public - makes your jaw look broader and suggests confidence, I.e. keeping posture open

7. If you want your voice to sound lower, try humming a low note while you’re alone to see how that feels in your throat and know where that timbre comes from in your chest. It’s easier to regulate your voice on command when you experiment, find the strings to pull in yourself to bring out the low sound.

8. Consider peppering in an “as much as the next guy” in conversation. Subtle phrase, but stakes your claim clearly

9. Exude some extra anti-shyness around guys. Make a point to nod to them in greeting and make eye contact like it’s the most natural thing in the world. Little gestures of brazenness go a long way to say “we’re the same”

10. When speaking to a group of guys, try matching their vocal patterns and tone: if they say “like” and “dude” a lot for example, pepper those in too. This works in all situations actually, it will make you seem agreeable and similar to anyone, but it especially works well when you’re trying to blend in with a crowd

11. Clothes with flannel and wool are really good for disguising characteristics you might want to hide

12. Try darkening these areas (outlined in blue) of your face with eyeshadow a bit darker than your skin tone. Eyeshadow blends with skin texture better than things like foundation and it’s hard to smudge, so it’s usually unnoticeable while it adds depth and sharpness to these areas.

#transmasc #transgender #trans guy #trans tips #trans #trans man #trans ftm #trans masc #trans things #everyone I meet thinks I’m a guy help #how am i supposed to live laugh love in these conditions #straight passing #trans passing

[rachedurst]

anyways i love you people that are both gay and straight, in whatever way that presents. being nonbinary often can mean a complicated relationship to sexuality and how one perceives it within the societal restrictions of homo and heterosexual, and i think bridging those definitions and having "contradictory" labels like lesboy or whatever is really cool. i support and stan he/him lesbians or butch lesbians or she/her gay men or femme gays or she/he pronoun users and whatever else, be it cis or trans or both. if you feel like youre both cis and trans that also rocks. dont let people force you back into a binary within the queer community, stay strong!

#queer #nonbinary #genderqueer #cis / trans as opposites is a false dichotomy and only harms nonbinary people. #same with straight/gay. these things can and will overlap if one for example feels like both a man and a woman #and of course beyond self identification alone #the way society treats you will also influence that #anyways op is a binary trans man. im very much a hundert precent a man and dont want people blurring the lines there. but that doesnt apply #for everyone! what makes me hapyp will be misery for someone else. so the reverse applies too. #peace and love on planet earth #fuck up with that gender everyone #gender nonconforming #bigender #im not vaguing the person i responded to btw im just gonna state my support again while its on my mind #multigender

[void-thegod]

I'm a straight trans man.

I like having a pussy.

I get to have my cake and eat it too.

Win/Win/Win

#trans #lgbtq #trans man #straight #straight trans man #binary trans man #trans man of color

[transsexualmasc]

shout out to multigender people only attracted to one gender, by the way. it can be really frustrating when people are adamant over where you are and aren't "allowed" to fit, whether in community, in relationships, or in labels. i promise you will find people who understand you.

#from your friendly bigender straight man/gay woman :) #multigender #bigender #demigender #genderqueer #trans

[gay-otlc]

The people who think gay trans man have straight privilege because they have the "option" to "escape" homophobia and live as straight women are blatantly disregarding the fact that for a lot of trans people, the options aren't "gay trans man" or "cis straight woman." It's "gay trans man" or "dead."

#this post was inspired by my friend (mostly stealth trans man) who has dealt with a lot of homophobia from his bf's parents #and transphobes might make the argument that the homophobia he faced doesn't count because he could have just lived as a woman #and then dated his bf more safely #but i genuinely don't think he would be alive right now if he hadn't been able to transition #so yeah. just being a woman to escape homphobia isn't really an option for a lot of trans men #transandrophobia #apologies if this is not my place to speak about as a straight trans man. i was just having thoughts and wanted to share

[threetrenchcoatsinatrenchcoat]

Monkey Man gotta be one of my favorite hijra movies that features a commune of trans South Asians killing cops while their dresses twirl

#monkey man #hijra #dev patel #trans #monkey man movie #i kinda get why straight people like action movies now

[shibaleeart]

Me being totally normal about Izaya in a friends discord

part 2 of the madness

#durarara izaya #durarara #izaya #izaya orihara #trans izaya #YOU GONNA LOOK ME IN THE EYE AND TELL ME THAT MAN IS STRAIGHT #discord #dumb shit #shizaya #? #all in good fun #this boy living rent free in my head #whitney chewston #I KNOW WHAT YOU ARREE