#tradfemme

[miss-rogers-all-american]

Homemaking tip:

Get dressed and ready everyday. When I treat homemaking as an actual job, with a loose schedule and uniform, it helps me to really focus on my tasks and to see the value in them. I personally no longer wear leggings, I prefer to only wear skirts and dresses, that has become my uniform and I feel more productive when wearing it.

#tradfem #traditional gender roles #traditionalism #orthodox christian #feminine #housewife in training #tradfemme #homemaking #homemaker #home and hearth #part time worker part time homemaker #homemaking tips

[memehex]

#r/196 #196 #shitpost #girlblogging #femcel #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #tradwife #tradfem #tradfemme #wlw #the yellow wallpaper #girl interrupted syndrome #baphomet #demoncore #demonic #feminism #trans #transfem #queer #lesbian

[sheismadeofsunlight]

I’m so looking forward to being a housewife, however if I have to look at another listing for a house that is a white box with grey flooring I’m going to bury myself in the yard.

#tradfem #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #trad #traditional girl #traditionalist #traditional gender #1950s #traditionalism #femininity #cottagecore #grandmacore #homemaking #tradfemme #liberal tradfem #trad girl #homemaker #farmcore #tradwife #warmcore

[metalheadsforblacklivesmatter]

My thing with traditional feminism as a person raised Christian is this entire "Women are subservient to men" thing is very... abelist against neurodivergent people (this doesn't just include people with Autism and ADHD. But also people with FASD, personality disorders, dissociative disorders, and other mental illnesses or learning disabilities).

As an AFAB, before I knew I was nonbinary. I keep getting in trouble because I keep fucking up these goddamn "women must be subservient to men" rules. Because I talk to loudly. Or speak out of turn. Or talk to much. Or ask too many questions...

I eventually just started yelling "Fuck you" any time men tried to tell me to act more lady-like because I don't fucking know what I'm doing wrong but if my very existence of not understanding a single goddamn one of these fucked up unspoken rules, I might as well go with the flow and really dig my heels in, right?

I mean the men will be upset anyways because I earn more than them. So just by having a job I already threaten their fragile masculinity.

-fae

#tradfemme #tradwives

[leia-of-naboo]

It's about three a.m. and I'm having trouble sleeping but I've got YouTube on, my husband is passed out next to me and my cat is on the other side. It's not so bad.

#tradwife #tradfem #tradfemme #tradblr #traditional femininity #traditional marriage #heathen

[badassindistress]

I miss summer and I don't believe in conforming to gendered expectations

#that last because when i posted this picture the last time i got confused tradfemmes and straight men in my messages #i enjoy dresses not gender essentialism #a talia original #talia's adventures in dressmaking #talia is a drama queen #costume dramatics #still ill still in need of remembering the times my strength hadn't forsaken me #aka 3 weeks ago

[camaroanus]

I’ve already posted abt this but just because the idea of femininity started including masculine looking women, androgynous women, trans women, fat women, WOC and non-binary people doesn’t mean it was ever taken away from the straight cis skinny blonde white women. The idea of people “taking back their femininity” is great but in practice it’s actually taking back their femininity from marginalized people that haven’t EVER been widely accepted and popular for longer than the lifetime of a trend in mainstream media.

The transition from girlhood-womanhood is really cruel to young girls, I totally agree with that. I understand why this realization that women have lost their girlhood too soon and now they’re trying to reclaim it and have a fun girly time; I think that’s really important too, and I totally support that. But I have a problem with pushing that agenda on other women that aren’t traditionally feminine, and who have already come to their own conclusions about their gender expression. To say, “you’re still not woman enough” to them is a blatantly bigoted response.

#DO #FUCKING #BETTER #I’m a ugly hairy masculine bitch and I eat like a 40 year old man and guess what a lot of people are so get used to it #you can’t just live in your little bubble of tradfemmes and decide you’re a feminist #people really need to be smarter about wtf they’re seeing online I’m begging y’all to get off tiktok and come back to reality !!!!!!!!! #ya’ll need to realize we’re all the same and we’re forgetting who and what the common enemy is #we have to get over our differences for the greater good Im begging

[straydaddy]

Have u ever seen what aggression some queer femmes have towards butches, transmascs and trans men for expressing our pain about imposed, forced-on femininity?

I'm not invalidating your empowerment in reclaiming your own femininity. I myself have done that too btw, I just have intense pain from a lifetime of expectations to be round-edged, babyfaced and docile by cishet men and how they always bitch and whine about ppl like me existing and becoming "unfuckable" to them.

I love dangerous, wild femininity. I wear femininity like an elegant social armor. It's my deadly venom, it's my fangs and it's my claws. It's the claws of Lilith pushed under the surface, the rage of the drowned and forbidden.

To me this reclaimed femininity is defined by my own terms, not at odds with my gender-transgressiveness.

Why is femininity like armor to me?

Because for anyone who isn't a conventionally attractive cishet man, masculinity doesn't protect us at all. It makes people see us as clumsy, vulnerable and pathethic, while at the same time perverted and threatening. Masculinity is really soft and vulnerable for me to express bcs I'm transmasc, - it's where I invite the scorn of society for breaking out of line as a "woman". It's where I lose the protection and emotional support of the cisnormatively-tradfemme club.

People don't want to be cruel to me if I'm beautiful. Bcs my cruelty back, if I am beautiful, in the feminine elegant sense, will hurt and humiliate worse. I will shred you to pieces and wipe the floor with them.

That's the power of femininity, to dominate and to avoid being dominated, when you're assumed or expected to be a cis woman. People seen as queer / gender-transgressive women are without that protective cover. It's scary as hell.

I'm also intensely aware that I can't meet a certain standard of femininity even if I try, that femme cis women always have the ability to stab me with that painful, othering humiliation of "too clumsy and undesirable, so therefore you're hardly a person and I don't need to have any regard for your emotions or personhood".

Masculinity, for me, is a territory of softness and self-love. It's so, so scary to be masculine because I am without cover, - and in a patriarchal world masculinity is seen as inherently perverted and sexually aggressive, too. The more multiply marginalized an man is, the deadlier that assumption is.

Masculinity, to me, is soft and loving, but hiding under the fear of being seen as an emotionless threatening meatwall. It's not about superiority to femininity bcs as masculine, I actually feel softer, without my armor.

Transmasc people haven't seen a day of navigating masculinity the same as cis men have. For cis men, masculinity is imposed on them and expected of them, - whereas femininity is what invites the scorn and policing from others. For cis men, masculinity can be the social armor.

For transmascs it's the contrary because our masculinity is seen as a transgression against the patriarchy that doesn't see us as men at all. Our experiences are different from those of cis men and saying that isn't invalidating of us being men. Bcs trans people don't need cis people's "model" or "permission" to be who we are.

#transmasculinity #transandromisia #transandrophobia #anti-transmasculinity #butchphobia #lbgtqa

[strangeauthor]

Once you rationalize that those weird TikTok tradfemme women whatever’s are actually just another form of e-girls appealing to a fetish. everything makes all the more sense.

Some probably don’t even realize it but yeah it’s fetishbait. Those TikTok trad/stay at home weirdos and a generic TikTok e-girl are two sides of the same coin. They just appeal to slightly different guys but it’s all the same.

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#Anonymous

[miss-rogers-all-american]

Homemaking tip:

Make your bed first thing in the morning, open up your curtains/blinds, and open the window if weather allows (even if it’s not great weather ideally you should have all the windows in the house open for at least five minutes). This is cliche advice, but it truly does make a difference. It automatically makes the room look cleaner, and gives you the signal that it’s time to start the day.

#homemaking tips #home and hearth #part time worker part time homemaker #tradfem #traditional gender roles #traditionalism #feminine #orthodox christian #beautiful #femininity #housewife in training #christianity #antiochian orthodox #greek orthodox #tradfemme #1950s #cottagecore #homemaking #homemaker

[buttercuparry]

Honestly enough with wanks! I need theories. I need to feast on asoiaf theories about the key!! IDGAF about terfs and tradfemmes and dudebros! I need to sink my teeth into asoiaf and shake it like a dog

[sheismadeofsunlight]

Hello, hunnies

Quick question: when you have moved into a new house, apartment, etc. did you introduce yourselves to your neighbor? Bring a gift?

I want to do that when I have a house next year, however I’m afraid of coming off as though I am invading their privacy or being weird.

Let me know!

Love,

Angelique

#tradfem #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #trad #traditional girl #traditionalist #traditional gender #traditionalism #1950s #femininity #cottagecore #grandmacore #homemaking #tradfemme #liberal tradfem #trad girl #homemaker #tradwife #farmcore #warmcore

[leia-of-naboo]

Life happens

Oy vey, it has been a week (or two) and, as of now, it's only barely Monday.

In the last 14 days, I've gotten married, found my dad who I spent literally my whole life searching for, moved to a new city because of my husband's career with not just myself but also my cat, and lost my uncle who was only a few years older than me and instrumental in making me the woman I am today.

Keep me in your thoughts and prayers, friends. I'm gonna need it. That and a drink. Of something very, very strong.

#tradwife #tradfemme #traditional femininity #tradfem

[aratinafaghat]

Fav dynamic has to be tradfemme guy x tradmasc lady. Like it just fills my heart my god

#tophat talks #puss x kitty #y’all gonna hate me for it but #drawfee #I’m sorry I’ll never mention it again #there really just is not that many in media that I can think of #huh #should say media and entertainment if I’m including drawfee in this #uhh my parents??? that’s weirder than the drawfee one actually #y’all help

[ren-in--wonderland]

do you know whatever happened to Tradfem and Tradfemme?

I believe they deleted their blog, sorry

[witchy-turtle-a]

Turtle’s Grimiore!

Heya! I’m Turtle, and this is where i’m going to be putting all of the stuff I don’t feel safe placing in a notebook somewhere!

I’m a broom closet witch, and currently am looking into which gods I would like to follow. I’m somewhat polytheist, and I follow the belief that if it is true to someone out there, it is true. I’m coming from an atheist/christian background, but I believe it’s all out there but we choose our focuses. I believe in household spirits and give offerings to them (they are domovoi).

DNI:

-tradwifes

-tradfemmes

-nazis

-white supremacists

-terfs

-anti semites

-anti land back

-homophobes

-transphobes

-any sort of hates speech

#broom closet #witch #divination #terfs dni #osteomancy