#transphobia implied

[queerbauten]

The problem with the John Mulaney situation (aside from the incredibly obvious) isn’t that people formed parasocial relationships with him. Parasocial relationships are entirely neutral in themselves. They’re simply the non-reciprocal relationship between a public figure and their audience. My previous stance that John was alright but not that interesting? That’s a parasocial relationship. Parasocial relationships are inevitable.

What isn’t inevitable is hero worship. What isn’t inevitable is making an idol of a comedian. What isn’t inevitable is seeing a comedian who didn’t seem hopelessly bigoted and deciding that they’re (nearly) perfect.

That’s not to say that anybody was necessarily wrong to fall for John’s good-guy persona. Contrary to what some people might tell you, being constantly vigilant that your fave could turn out to be a monster is not healthy. You are allowed to believe, based on the evidence available to you, that someone’s of good character.

(I’d like to draw attention back to what I said earlier: I was never invested in John. I have no idea if there were red flags in his standup. I’m speaking generally.)

What’s important is not to put people up on a pedestal. Do be critical of the performers you enjoy. Don’t worship your heroes.

Feel the pain that comes with parasocial disappointment, especially when that disappointment involves harming marginalized communities. (Those feelings are normal.)

Just… don’t pin everything you’re feeling on a neutral phenomenon. Pin it where it actually belongs, wherever that might be.

#John Mulaney #Dave Chapelle #parasocial relationships #<- if I see that term misused one last time I’m gonna scream #also: you are allowed to demand accountability from people you know only parasocially!! #that’s a normal part of the social contract!! #source: i have a bachelor's in communications studies #transphobia implied #text heavy #long post #repetition /

[craycraybluejay]

Ok I'm done!

KYS!!! by Anouther

#vent art #conspiracy #tw delusion #or is it #actually schizospec #shit art #my art #social media #social commentary #metaphor #everyone is drawn like they r for a reason!! #tw abuse mention #tw sui bait #cancel culture #tw dysphoria #gender dysphoria #transphobia implied #political commentary #anti censorship #writer problems #colorful #mild eyestrain #digital art #anon hate #persecution #anti social media #my phone is evil the gays in my phone want me to kill myself the straights too trannies also #dark humor #alliteration #mildly offensive

[campbellschunkybear]

If you're a trans self shipper, your f/o will always be there beside you (they may even be trans themselves!). If you live in a country or state that is growing/has been increasingly unsafe for trans people, they're here to hold you close, listen to you rage, cry, or vent.

Proship and TERF DNI

#self ship #selfship #selfshipping #f/o #fictional other #trans f/o #trans self shipping #transphobia implied #f/o: viktor #self ship: vikcon #f/o imagines #not terf safe #not proship safe #Just trying to hold on as a Florida trans person #I havent been able to get my t prescription for like 2 weeks and idk if its part of *gestures to everything* or unrelated

[inhumanliquid]

I still see people upset that MatPat made a joke about a joke (people responded to a form with the helicopter joke and he commented on it sarcastically) even though that was years ago. To those people: Bijuu Mike said something similar without any prompt in a Yandere Simulator video 5 years ago. Where are the pointlessly outraged posts about that?

Edit: I also don't see many people still upset about Sssniperwolf's blatantly misgendering a trans woman, and it was obvious if you saw that part of the video that she fucking meant it.

-A trans person

#matpat #game theory #bijuu mike #yandere simulator #transphobia implied #transmisia implied #sssniperwolf #misgendering mention

[butch-pyrate]

Something very interesting to me how so many antis will call themselves "Izzy Hands critical" and how Izzy is the character most headcanoned as a trans man.

#Disk horse #Transphobia implied #'x critical' #Hmm wonder where I've heard that one before.

[ghostienonbibi]

*gripping the edge of the sink* If I spend all my time thinking about the cut Yosuke lines and reliving my teenaged years, I can avoid spiraling about the genocidal governor.

#transphobia mentioned #transphobia implied #am i doing well? studies say no

[visenyaism]

i have rarely been this out of my mind seething angry at something i’ve seen online before but FORTY EIGHT THOUSAND LIKES on a video saying that older feminists need to shut up about the culture of young women making jokes about how women are just toooooo silly and not serious with their own money and eat less food than men do and just that’s a girly thing to do. and if you have any problem with this especially during a time when the Republican party is actively trying to make women into perpetual childbearers dependent on the men in their lives forever through economic coercion you actually hate women because you won’t let the girls have fun. GOD we’re never making it out of here.

#the infantilisation has to stop????? #it’s still demeaning if you make a joke about yourself???? #esp with all the transphobia that implies anyone afab is just automatically worse at chess and all sports? come on

[sometimesraven]

When Brianna was killed I couldn't log on to tumblr or facebook without seeing posts about her. There were vigils held locally for her.

Not even my local trans support group has said a word about Nex. I had to post about them myself. This silence is deafening. I'm exhausted.

#where is the energy for our masculine and nonbinary POC siblings #transandrophobia #enbyphobia #racism #transphobia #nex benedict #say their name #vent #and because tumblr's reading comprehension is piss poor #this post is not in any way implying we shouldn't have cared about brianna #i'm saying we should have the SAME care for ALL our murdered siblings #ESPECIALLY those who are marginalised in other ways too

[transmemesfortransqueens]

#trans memes #cis meme #implied transphobia

[ardourie]

#i dont even talk like that…and y r u implying me not passing as a man is bad #’he self admittedly looks like a cis woman’ ok so transphobia is ok as long as it’s ppl u dont like

[carlyraejepsans]

saw your most recent post about really good fics that contain uncomfortable kinks and i immediately thought "ah, biscia must be reading the mpreg soriel fic" and almost left a reply talking about it but i stopped myself because i realized that would be an insane assumption to make. needless to say i felt so vindicated when i saw you link it in an earlier post.

like. HELLO?

HELLO???????

#answered asks #''I fear nothing good ever comes of it when it does'' is straight up SEARED into my brain as the toriel line of all time I've ever read #there's some character interpretations I don't share there. like i said i don't think either of them would cry that easily #and while the different conception (badumtss) of sex/gender in various monsters was interesting #i felt like it didn't quite deal with the ramifications of not strictly binary reproductions on social perception of gender like I could've #eg the part about boss monsters being closer to humans in how it works and thus having a different concept of mom/dad compared to skeletons #was pretty nice. but if you establish that skeletons work like ghosts but distinguish she/he ''for some reason'' even though all of them #can bear kids. and then you make a comment about ''the child possibly growing into a woman considering the shape of the pelvis'' it's like #why??????? why. whywhywhy. why would that be a factor. even hypothesizing a certain physical dimorphism. WHY pick the one tied to pregnancy #the ONE ASPECT that you decided was shared between both ''male'' and ''female'' skeletons #it's also like. objectively an argument that is leveraged to hurt and deny trans people irl so it was just. unbelievably uncomfortable #this is what we mean with mpreg and transphobia btw #not that the concept is inherently transphobic or hurtful to trans people #but that that kind of alternative biological worldbuilding implies an alternative social conception of gender role for the characters #that a lot of authors just. straight up miss. because their view of the world is still very cis/perisexist #BUT!!!!!!!!!! #it was still over all a very good fic. I'd rec it to pll not into that for the initial 2 chapters alone

[fixing-bad-posts]

[Image description: A tumblr post, edited blackout/whiteout-poetry style using the colours of the transgender pride flag. Resulting text reads, "Transphobia is meaningless promote lgbt into the mainstream."]

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Transphobia is meaningless promote lgbt into the mainstream.

#fixing-bad-posts #fixingbadposts #blackout poetry #whiteout poetry #trans inclusive #trans inclusion #transphobia #implied transphobia #lgbt inclusion #queer inclusivity #queer inclusion #queer

[promiseimnotacop]

jsyk user genderyomi reblogs from ppl identyfing as baeddel/“transman-hater” (w their words). safe to assume she is one.

i do appreciate well meaning calling me out on shit i've reposted and whatnot but that does not to my mind warrant any kind of unfollow/deleting posts what have you

i have been seeing traces of this new wave is 'transmisandry a real thing/is baeddelism real and if it is is it actually a bad thing or kinda based' flooding my dash lately and have very deliberately stayed away from engaging in any of it/weighing up on one side or another.

thankyou for engaging here though in a more polite way!

#my take: i love trans people so so much and if the dolls are pissed off at men maybe they have a right to be #but also yes (many) trans men experience a transphobia that takes a specific shape in how it targets trans men #but referring to that as transmisandry is at best misleading misnomer #because it might implies misandry is a thing or that the transphobia men face is proportional and equalivalent to transmisogyny #buuuut also i am not such a fan of arguing tight semantics like that in intracommunity stuff #partly cos how it kinda tries to assume everyone is highly literate in english? #but also i do not have the capacity to look up what baedellism actually argues rn #also hot take if someone's blog says shit like 'man-hater' it's gonna be like hyperbole or glib 60% of the time #and a fair reaction to their own experiences 39%

[nerves-nebula]

playing dressup in the garbage !! unfortunately Splinter found out and, after laughing at him, sat Leo down to explain that he shouldn't wear that kind of thing :')

#nnstuff #nnart #tmnt leo #tmnt splinter #transphobia tw #<- i mean its more implied than anything else but yea #teenage mutant neglected turtles #neglected art

[roguetelepaths]

The way certain male characters in fandom are talked about as having traditionally afab sex characteristics/anatomy, not in a "trans headcanon" way but in a "meant to imply you think this character is weak/delicate/submissive" way... It bugs me.

#writing pre op/non op trans man characters is good! i encourage everyone to do that! #but y'all aren't doing that. you're implying that [fictional man] has a vagina because you think he's girly. #i think there are words for the association of certain types of genitalia with gendered personality traits— OH RIGHT sexism and transphobia

[nerime]

my coworkers are being turbo transphobic and literally refuse to listen to answers to questions they fucking ask argh!!! I can just tell you!!! I can just answer you!!!!! I have answers!!! to the ridiculous questions you ask in a mocking way!!!! if you listen for one second I can just fucking explain!!!! 😡😭😡😭

#they ask why would trans men NEED tampons for men since they are WOMEN why cant they juat use WOMEN ones those stupid silly women ugh #they keep coming back to the topic #and im like hey they are not women ^_^ and try to explain the concept #in easy kindergarten terms like hey you know how you wouldnt want to buy pink girly items because you are a (cis) guy! well #and them im cut off with more transphobic shit before i can say anything else #my coworker literally said her son told her and her husband they were playing spin the bottle on a school trip #and she asked so did you kiss any girls? and he said #sure when it landed on a girl then i kissed a girl (implying he also kissed guys) #and she said her husband was so shocked because hes conservative #while she said she just ordered the son not to say anything else #and she tells us 'i think he was just testing us or something' #wtf. i said well okay maybe he was testing your reactions and now hes not gonna tell you shit anymore #and she went like hm 🤔 #also the irony of saying her HUSBAND is conservative while she fucking. misgenders trans men all day and jokes about gay men constantly #in a nasty way #all of them do #im so tired #she complained kids nowadays are so caaual about gay people #and i said okay well i love it personally they should keep it up #and NO ONE at the table supported/agreed with me #sorry i am on a work trip and suffering #transphobia tw #neri stfu