emily-wesley3 - Tumblr blog

emily-wesley3 · 25 days

Text

just a Jesus loving aromantic that wants to dye her hair pink💕

i found a cool tag game on twitter and i really wanna import it (o^ ^o)

this picrew + the last song you listened to :]

no pressure tags: @blood-loving-leech @overtaken-boredom @lesbianthatyaps @kameonerd566 @hexedvampire @laczki @anonymous-shxtposter @fleurafae @flovqy + anyone who wants to do it <3

#should I dye my hair?

11K notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 2 months

Text

Actually reading this document is so beautiful and amazing, I can’t believe it exists💚

It's official! We got the state of Kansas to formally recognize Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week this year!

February 18-24, 2024 DON'T YOU FORGET!

#asaw 2024 #aromantic #aromanticism #aro #aspec #aro spec #arospec #Kansas #female politicians #Laura Kelly #women in politics #women in power

2K notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 3 months

Text

This being your favorite Disney song to you realizing your aroace pipeline

40 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 4 months

Note

i would love to know o how many people in the ace and aro community wish to have a child, cause i (ace, aro and agender person) wish to adopt a daugther in the future and i want to know if its a commun thing in the community or i'm kinda alone in that (i want to be a single parent by the way)

#also love the idea of adopting a daughter #aroace #aroace polls #aromantic #asexuality #tumblr polls

100 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 4 months

Text

The facts:

I am aroace

I am good at archery

I am a feminist

Conclusion:

I am Artemis

#girl me too #haven’t done archery in years #but I won some medals!#Artemis girl💁‍♀️#artemis #aroace #aromantic #asexual

30 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 4 months

Text

I’m still me. But. Ow I know why. Why I didn’t date in school. Why I didn’t get my classmates’ adult jokes. Why people wondered if I was gay. Why I didn’t hook up in college. Why wasn’t ready. Why in my 20s and 30s I misinterpreted deep platonic friendship as, “I guess this is love?” Why the further we went, the more I had to act. Why that terrified me. Why I thought I was the only person like that. Why I couldn’t “finish”, ever. Why the doctors couldn’t find anything physiologically wrong. Why both relationships ended. Why in all that time there were just two relationships. Why I didn’t mind that. Why I hated that I didn’t mind that. Why I’m like this. Why I can finally feel okay. Why I can let all that hurt go. Why I’m not a failure. Why I’m going to be okay.

When I came out, nothing about Outside Me™ changed.

I started coming out because everything about Inside Me™ has changed.

#this is too real #really appreciate this post #asexual #aromantic #aromantic asexual #aroace #aspec #asexuality #ace pride #aro pride #I’m still me

568 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 4 months

Text

🏹🏹🏹

#arrows all the way #Katniss #artemis #kate bishop #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #aroace polls #asexuality #ace pride #aro pride #aro

4K notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 4 months

Text

“if the interesting guy from class decides to ask me out I’d say yes but I’d feel like throwing up the whole time” ‼️‼️‼️

figuring out whether or not you're really aro/ace or just a very aware and skittish person is like a special kind of hell. like i think purgatory might just be me having conversations like "well i think i'd be okay with having a romantic relationship and having sex with a hypothetical partner but i'm not interested in doing all the performative bullshit that comes with dating and it's exhausting trying to find anyone who's okay with someone so inexperienced and unsure and i have such a strange way of showing affection and nobody showed me what intimacy or flirting was when i was young which i'm simultaneously grateful for and resentful of because now i'm an adult who's never kissed anybody but at least i had good grades and friends in high school anyway yeah if the interesting guy from class decides to ask me out i'd say yes but i'd feel like throwing up the whole time so what does that say about me"

#this is too real #acespec #asexual #ace #arospec #aromantic #aro #aroace #aromantic asexual

4K notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 5 months

Text

Forever friend-zoning like I get paid🙈

One of the most interesting things about being aroace is the amount of people that fall in love with you. Like, I've talked to so many people and just assumed we're vibing on friend levels only, bonding and making connection through intriguing conversation, but then I find out they've been pining all along and had hopeful intentions.

And even to this day I don't know that people are flirting with me. I am so clueless unless folks are very blatant with it. I mean they have to be bold "date me I wanna be with you romantically or sexually" neon billboard sign worthy for me to FINALLY get it. My own family and friends have to translate for me that someone has attraction towards me 😅 cuz I'll just assume we're on the pathway to best friendship.

It is a journey for real.

#it’s not you it’s me #I just want to be friends #friend zone #aromantic #aroace #arospec #aromantism #queer #lgbtqia #actually aro

222 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 6 months

Text

*plays Story Of My Life by 1D*

life after jaiden animation comingout video

#too relatable #aromantic #aro #aroace #aro pride #aromantism

18K notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 8 months

Text

Starts singing “Story of My Life” by 1D

This asexual girl was once called a lesbian for not having and not wanting a boyfriend

#more than once #asexuality #asexual girl #ace girl #ace #asexual memes #asexual quotes #aroace #aromantic #asexual

17 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 8 months

Text

View this post on Instagram

A post shared by 𝐉𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐂𝐀 𝐕𝐈𝐋𝐋 (@jbunzie)

instagram

This artist is working her butt off to create a completely accurate and honorable portrayal of the talented actress Marilyn Monroe.

She aims to speak on Monroe’s dedication, the forward strides she made for women, fashion, body types, and sexuality.

My favorite addition is that the artist has recognized Monroe’s relationship with asexuality and her lack of interest towards sex in her diaries.

Please share to support this project!!💕💕

#marilyn monroe #marilynmonroe #marilyn Monroe biopic #biopic #jbunzie #historical fashion #history #fashion history #1950s #support artists #support female artists #film making #asexuality #marilyn monroe asexual #ace #aroace #ace pride #feminism #Instagram

0 notes

emily-wesley3 · 8 months

Text

you’re not a faker for feeling closer to your aromanticism than your asexuality.

it’s not your fault that asexuality has more representation/visibility than aromanticism

it’s okay if you feel your aromantic identity is more important to you.

we’ve often been told that “love” is the one above all. yet people are often quick to judge, hate and hurt others, in the name of love.

so it’s okay if you don’t want to be associated with the word “love”.

it’s not your fault that your “friends” do not understand your aroace identity. you deserve real friends!

I hope you’re treating yourself kindly today, dear aspec person. I care for you 🤍

#aromantic #aro #aroace #asexual #ace #aspec #aroace positivity

321 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 8 months

Text

Watching Ginny & Georgia for the first time and Abby has automatically become one of my favorite characters❤️ In my mind she is aspec and I want it to be canon pleeeeeease

#abby littman #ginny and georgia #aspec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #asexuality #aromantism #aro #ace #aspec headcanons

4 notes · View notes

emily-wesley3 · 9 months

Text

Embroidered the sunset aroace flag on my shoes!! Got the idea from @dappled-skies !