#*anyone but cis people i dont want your opinions on transphobia

[delusion-of-negation]

gross and racist as hell for you all to dogpile and harrass a black trans person for calling you out on being a fucking gross pedophile/pedo defender, CALL THEM HOMOHOBIC for thinking thats fucked up, exclusively she/her him bc him being trans doesnt fit the narrative youre peddling, imply shes never dealt with transphobia or homophobia, CLAIM THEYRE RACEFAKING and then turn around and be racist as hell to them, and then evade their blocks to screenshot their posts and continue to try to start shit with him when hes expressed that he wants you freaks to leave him alone…. all while doubling down that being a p*do is ok as long as youre “non offending”. i have to laugh !

also, claiming that people who criticize you for being a p*do apologist are being homohobic to you, IS homophobia. dont equate being lgbta with being a p*do/p*do apologist. wtf is wrong w u

- a trans person, before you arbitrarily decide im cis, too

my brother in christ, the full context is linked here for y'all to see

we didn't "dogpile" anyone, what happened was somebody was posting, tagging seebs and commenting on posts, incessantly. specifically, falsely accusing seebs of being a pedo/defender, in response to seebs saying, very clearly, somebody who does not sexually assault children is preferable to somebody who does. it obviously was nonsensical, and I said to seebs that I didn't know exactly how, in the current political climate, people could go out falsely accusing random queer people of being pedos... then the random asshole started replying to my reblogs and telling me to unalive, then started sending me hate messages saying that too because, apparently, just saying "that's bullshit" warrants stupid harassment. having followers myself, this obviously led to those agreeing with me weighing in too, I can't and won't tell people to avoid expressing their opinions when someone harasses me. it's definitely not "calling me out" to send messages telling me that.

not to "they started it!!" but yeah, if I speak to someone about it actually being ridiculous that you're harassing them, and so you begin randomly harassing and suicide baiting me, I will respond.

again, you can see in the link, on every single post I used they, it explicitly says "any pronouns" and "I'm a boy and a girl" on there, meaning I didn't "correct" this person who said "she" because I'd literally read that it's fine to use that!! I said they were enabling a homophobic narrative, I said they prop up the "queers are pedos actually" bullshit by doing this, I made no claims of knowing any secret homophobia dwelling in their heart lmao. you read on the person's blog that I she/her'd them and didn't bother reading to discover that I actually didn't do that, you just believed their lies. reading the above linked posts will make it obvious how they are endlessly lying about the race of people involved and what they actually said - I didn't she/her them, and they cut up a sentence within seebs post, to imply something that clearly was not said.

not once did I deny their race or their status as trans/bi, again it simply is a crock of shit they're spinning, because they have this narrative to spin- I've linked back to everything said, I've made it absolutely clear time and time again, I've posted full screens for anything I referenced, whereas they keep vagueposting saying I misgendered them or called them white or even called them the pedophile (I did not, I was and am explicitly against doing that). everything they're claiming in their vagues is bullshit, and all the evidence is in actually reading the conversation, which is why I'll constantly link back to it and they'll constantly obfuscate it, bro. because nowhere did I deny they face bigotry, nowhere did I say anything about racefaking (white chicks is a movie about black dudes pretending to be white chicks, saying they talk as though they're auditioning for a remake is explicitly saying they're black talking like a white chick, please just go watch the damn movie).

similarly, I was never racist, I never block evaded, unless you are saying they also block evaded- they continued talking about me incessantly, lying about me, and I found out, so I screenshotted posts and corrected them, I never tried to contact them again, I simply corrected constant lies about me, meanwhile they did go around said block to keep looking at my blog too, referencing all those posts themself, so they did exactly what I did. if it's bad if somebody lying about me is shown to me and I respond, isn't it equally bad that said person evades the block right back? that's honestly one of the most baffling claims y'all keep making, it's a problem when I simply look at lies about me and leave you be, it however isn't a problem for you to tell those lies, message me to suicide bait, and keep looking at my blog despite those blocks?? speaking of hypocrisy, you're attempting (and failing) to dogpile.

being a pedo is okay as long as you're non-offending. like, yes I'll double down on that. heck, I'll go a step further, I think that any person who's committed a crime or harm deserves to have their liberty, life, happiness, etc, and shouldn't be tortured or harmed because of this stupid desire to punish everyone. I'm a victim of childhood sexual abuse and childhood abuse and torture when I was a child, and I put one abuser in prison, and it didn't help the person become better and kinder, they sent me what was really basically a love letter when they got out. I think a better system, where people get to learn how to be kind and then get a life that treats them well, is possible and should be strived for, and one a victim gets help to recover from what happened should also be, because right now the mental health system in my country (not america, which y'all also don't seem to have grasped) is dogshit. people who don't abuse kids are the outcome we want, so these pedophiles, they didn't choose to have that attraction, it is just a thing brains do sometimes, and when they don't rape kids that's literally the better outcome, that's the best outcome, because it really comes down to that or them raping kids- you can't read all minds in the world and detect the pedos and kill them, and that would be a fucking dystopian nightmare, so if you want to kill all pedos then you have to rely on them telling you they're pedos, I genuinely hope I don't have to explain to you why they wouldn't confess that to you if you were running the death squad. so that leaves us with either they don't rape kids, or they do. I like don't, personally. I think that's the better one. as someone who was an actual victim of childhood abuse. and additionally, two thirds of sexual abusers of children aren't pedos, according to the stats I found a while back, so eradicating pedos wouldn't fix the issues.

anyway, back to the topic at hand, it's not starting shit to make posts correcting the person lying about you, they started all the shits, every single shit I took was in response to the shits they're spewing out about me so fast that I'm worried about their toilet.

nowhere did I say "being queer is pedo apologia!" I said that the people falsely accusing random queer people of being pedos is feeding the "the gays are pedos! the transes are pedos!" lies the rightwing constantly spin right now. I'm not equating being gay whatsoever to being a pedo, I'm saying that people do, and that refusal to think about it while you lie and call random queer folk pedophiles for your internet tough guy points is just dangerous, potentially deadly, and feeding into rightwing talking points. it's another example of you refusing to actually read what I posted, similar to your little quip at the end that relies on the false claim there was a single moment where I denied that they're trans! to further demonstrate how bullshit it is, you should check who I'd compared them to... it was blaire white. a trans person. if what I posted relied on assuming people who disagree with me are cis, where would she fit into that? why would I bring her up? maybe because I specifically was saying them being trans makes those talking points all the more dangerous... because the right will be frothing at the mouth to say "even the queers agree with us!" so referencing an example of that happening is relevant. wait, that couldn't be the case, because that would mean I didn't call them cisgender at any point!! meanwhile they're calling natives white, everybody who disagrees with them white, implying we haven't faced homophobia/transphobia/biophobia ourselves, and lying through their teeth about everything, so look in the mirror, bruh.

[hadeantaiga]

Cw: venting, possible transphobia (but im not sure)

I just realised why does the “gender has no rules” take bothers me.

Since everybody can identify however they want (which is a good thing dont get me wrong) and say whatever they want, look/behave/use any pronouns they want (which, again, is a good thing) gender doesnt make sense YET people still dont want to get rid of it - its just like horoscopes! Made up “bullshit” people feel too strongly about to get rid of because “its fun”.

Feels like a mathematical problem which need rules to get solved but no one cares about the rules and no one cares about the result.

Is this a transphobic opinion? Am I being a bigot?

I think you need to let go of trying to figure gender out like math. Gender isn't math. It's biology. There isn't a nice neat solution. Human society artificially created a binary of male/female and man/woman, but this is a pretend binary.

Yes, everyone can do whatever they want. If you personally don't think gender makes sense, that's ok! Maybe gender isn't for you.

But for many people, both trans and cis, gender does make sense. They may be "gender nonconforming", they may be butch or femme or androgynous, but they still feel they have something called "gender". What that "gender" means to them is deeply personal and doesn't need to be understood by anyone else.

Gender, as it stands today for the trans and GNC community, is a way to express yourself. "Gender" is the name we give to this aspect of your personal expression. It doesn't have to obey any rules, because we're animals, not computers.

I'll try to explain using my personal gender.

I've cobbled together bits and pieces of human expression, fashion, nature, and behavior, and that is my gender. I feel masculine in a way that relates to knights and chivalry, which I think most people "get".... but my gender feels also masculine the way a misty, rainy pine forest on a mountain feels masculine to me. Like calm, verdant green. Maybe those same exact things would feel feminine to someone else! That's great!

Gender is a playground: humans made it, it's not "natural", but that doesn't mean the playground itself doesn't exist. And guess what? You can do whatever you want. Walk on the monkey bars, run up the slide, hang upside down from the swings. Build your own equipment to play on! You don't even have to play in the playground if you don't want!

There are no rules on the Gender Playground.

#anon #anonymous #gender #trans #transgender #gnc #gender nonconforming

[wsl-chelsea]

If you’re trans, do you play football with boys then? I’m just wondering. I think it’s a fair take that you want to allow anyone who identify as a woman to compete with women, it’s up front. There probably wouldn’t be that many, but there is an apparent risk that people would lie about identifying as women if there’s fame and money to be won. Regardless, I disagree, because I think women’s right to fair sport should take priority over male born people’s right to do sport with biological women. But I respect your opinion. For me it’s just obvious that in sport you need separate categories, not like in a singing competition for exemple where men and women can compete against each other.

I understand it’s not easy to go through not identifying with you’re biological sex, I have experienced some of that myself, to a small degree. But trans people, just like everyone, have to take reaponsibility for their decisions too. Trans men who start testosterone accept that they can’t play women’s sport anymore, that comes with the choice. Trans women can do the same, accept that they should compete in the category of their biological sex, and not make their personal needs and demands be the responsibility of everyone else, for example by demanding that all women give up their right to fair sport to please them and give them personal confirmation. That feels a whole lot like male privilige to me.

i dont play for mens because i am genderfluid and i’m not out. theres no category for me (and i dont think it would make much sense for there to be one for nb people), plus i don’t feel comfortable playing with cisgender men purely bc ive been raised in an all girls environment since day dot (thats single sex education for you) and also my parents dont know.

and honestly i cant see the risk of ppl faking it to be successful as a risk at all. no one would put themselves through all the medical changes and transphobia faced daily to win a few medals.

see for me its not easy to agree to disagree. trans people are actively being hurt by these decisions and being put in positions where they have to sacrifice either the sport they love or feeling comfortable in their own body.

‘Trans men who start testosterone accept that they can’t play women’s sport anymore, that comes with the choice.’ you are correct, but trans women have to accept once they start estrogen that they can’t play men’s sport as well if they want to do well. that’s their sacrifice, and it’s not the same to force yourself into a division that you don’t identify with. this discussion of what is fair and what is not fair is just giving ’i see being trans as a manufactured advantageous choice and not a natural part of self discovery’. if you can see cis women’s naturally high testosterone levels as okay what is stopping you from expanding that to trans women within reason? you think trans women are being selfish and demanding of cis women but it’s what trans women deserve. it’s simple and has such a little effect on cis women’s lives if trans women are included. you just don’t like being inconvenienced for the greater good.

#i’m tired

[databent]

Hey! I saw in the tags you writing about how cis people who identify as pansexual are transphobic (I’m paraphrasing do sorry if my description is a bit off). I’m just a bit confused and was wondering if you could explain why cis people identifying as pan is transphobic? I feel like I genuinely missed something and am trying to understand

this fucking post

if a cis person sees all of this, sees how the public idea of pansexuality is BLATANT transphobia, and decides they have the authority to say they can EXCUSE all of that transphobia to call themselves pansexual? theyre a transphobe. its that simple. cis people do not have any authority on what is and isnt transphobia, and when they refuse to listen to actual trans people telling them that what they are doing IS transphobic, it really doesnt help their “im not transphobic” case

#ok to rb... #feel free to add onto this anyone if you have anything you want to say #*anyone but cis people i dont want your opinions on transphobia #sorry ig but like. #i dont like cis pansexuals. #trans people that are pansexual are on thin fucking ice and if theyre a transmed theyre just as bad as cis pansexuals #like i know some of yall cissies build your whole sense of self around the whole ‘hearts not parts’ thing but like its transphobic #i feel like theres a point im missing about hearts not parts too but im not sure what i can say about it exactly #rainy’s hot takes

[meme-loving-stuck]

Hey listen

Knowing the history and origins of the word "femboy" as a slur used to describe trans women in the same vein that "she-male" and other shit is used. It was CREATED by cis people to fetishize trans women and compare them to men. It is not only transphobic but transmisogynistic. This is known by most 'older' people in the community.

With that said? I fucking cannot stand to see the way it's EVERYWHERE now, most often being adopted by young trans men who-and I know this sounds callous but it holds some truth- are so desperate for the validation of being called "boy" while still being effeminate and cute (because yes, misogyny and transphobia about anything feminine in the transmasc community also exists), without knowing the history of the word or WORSE thinking that they're somehow "reclaiming it". It's weird, it's still LARGELY used in a fetishistic way, and it's being used to reduce trans men to this stupid babified caricature that's honestly unsettling to observe!

I want to emphasize this because Ive been seeing a lot of other TME people hemming and hawing and going "Well just because it CAN be used as a slur doesn't mean it IS one" and... sorry! But that's not how that works, at all! If we want our support to be intersectional, we have to recognize that.

Here's the part that's not just my opinion though: Trans men and boys are TME. Trans-misogyny exempt. If you don't experience transmisogyny, you cannot "reclaim" transmisogynistic slurs. You can't. That's not how it works. If a trans woman wants to reclaim it? Sure! I don't honestly see why anyone would, but I'm not a trans woman.

And yeah, some trans women feel differently about it. My ex gf called herself a trap. She thought it was funny and she'd probably think the same thing about this word. I know a few trans women who are closeted IRL and use this word to refer to themselves in online spaces.

The thing is, these few people don't really represent the whole community, and me as a man tokenizing those trans women in my life who are Whatever About It in order to justify using it myself somehow? Would still be wrong and fucking gross. Because not EVERY trans woman feels that way about it, they're certainly not the majority.

Tl;Dr? Read it anyway lmao. Not everyone wants to be called a fucking slur. Not everyone feels the same way about the word. AND I dont caaaare what you read in your neo-liberal sex-positive reddit server; it should not be used to describe trans men, NO not even GNC genderfluid demiboy trans men. You cannot claim solidarity with trans women in good faith and then call yourself a transmisogynistic slur. You cannot tokenize the trans women in your life to justify using a transmisogynistic slur for yourself or others. You cannot reclaim a transmisogynistic slur if you are TME.

And if you're cis and you're using this word? Take a long look at yourself and ask yourself why it's so important to you that you use a literal fetishistic slur. It's not only transphobic in general, transmisogynistic specifically, but it's just fucking gross, man. Be better.

#BLOGGING LOUDLY #slurs #transmisogyny #its.........gross

[dailyte]

It is human nature to gravitate toward people like you!!!

I genuinely hate when people force certain relationships or whatever in the name of not being x-phobic. It's become manipulative at this point honestly. "Oh you wont date me because xyz? That means you're x-phobic". If you pay attention, it usually the reason behind things that makes it problematic.

Ex. 1.:Race

It is not automatically racist if someone prefers to date inside their race. That actually makes sense if that person is proud of their racial identity. However that doesn't take away from anyone who doesnt have a racial preference at all. Something that WOULD be problematic automatically is having a racial preference that is not your own. But not in the sense of "you wont date me hmph" but more so its problematic to fetishize a race. If a black person, for example, preferred to (or only) date(d) Asian people, and you were to ask them why they have that preference you'd only get fetishy reasons. A person's racial identity isnt a fetish. Another problematic preference is specifically preferring NOT to date "yourself". If a Asian person preferred to NOT date other Asian people that's problematic because that signifies that you're not necessarily proud of your identity as an Asian person(disclaimer: the only reason I used Asian people as an example is because I didnt want to double up on black people as an example for problematic ideals). But those are the only 2 things that dont require an explanation to be problematic. However if a white person prefers to date other white people, that's not racist unless their reasoning is racist. Some examples of racist reasonings would be:

Other races are ugly/unattractive/undesirable

My race is superior

I want my bloodline to remain "pure"

And there are probably more idiotic racist/prejudice reasonings. But sometimes it's just a matter of "I'm just more attracted to my own race" or some feel like they can relate to their own race more than others. Like as a black person I may prefer to date other black people because they know what it's like being black in this world and while Asians experience racism too, they will never know what it's like being black. And to be like "well you're problematic or racist because you wont date me" is manipulative and problematic within itself when that person hasnt actually displayed any prejudice/racist/problematic behavior.

Ex. 2.:Sexuality

Some people prefer to date within their sexuality simply out of preference. Of course there are ALWAYS deeper reasons for any preference but sometimes it just goes as deep as simple attraction. For Example, in the Lesbian community there is A LOT of biphobia. I have heard so many lesbians REFUSE(emphasis because it's a choice) to date bisexual women for the following reasons:

"They're confused"

"They're disgusting"

They're promiscuous

They're cheaters

All of these reasons are biphobic and are probably based on some heartbreak they had and are using to fuel their own ignorance. However there are some that are just attracted to other lesbians. The only way to tell the difference is to listen to them tbh a biphobic lesbian usually never fails to show their biphobia. However it is important to remember that preferring to date other lesbians isnt enough to call that person biphobic. Just like As a lesbian, I wouldnt call a bisexual woman lesbophobic is she was attracted to other bisexual people. It would ONLY lesbophobic if she had lesbophobic reasoning behind it. But if I called her lesbophobic for not dating me, a lesbian, then what's stopping society for calling me a misandrist for not being attracted to men? Or a homophobe for not being attracted to gay men?

On top of the fact that in my personal opinion its lesbophobic to make lesbians date anything that has a pulse and a v*gina.

Ex. 3.: beliefs and opinions

It is natural to not want to hang out with people who disagree with you on topics you are passionate about. Now if someone says their favorite color and it's not the same as yours, obviously, you're not going to stop hanging out with that person because your favorite color has little to no bearing on your life. However, if you believe that s*xually ass**lting someone is a very inhumane and shitty thing to do to someone then you're not going to be able to be friends with someone who thinks it's not that big of a deal and participates in victim blaming. What grinds my gears is that people act like they dont do this when they do. The only time you dont is when it's something you dont care about. Like a white cis heterosexual male might not like trump because hes an idiot but also it would stop them from befriending someone who supports trump because the things Trump does might not affect him like that. Example: I'm not transphobic and because I'm actively against transphobia I cannot hang out with someone who is transphobic or someone who hangs out with transphobic people. A step further with a real life example. I was once about to get involved with this girl and beforehand she asked me if I was a Christian because she wouldnt be able to proceed with the relationship if I wasnt. Fast forward I end up breaking up with her because she was being a close minded biphobe and she's like "well it's not fair that you're breaking up with me because of my BELIEFS." But we saw earlier that she does the same thing, the only issue is truly we didnt care about the same things.

The pull away here is that. You're not automatically problematic for having certain preferences, its usually the reasoning behind it that makes you problematic. You should always do introspection to be sure and evaluate why you have certain preferences to make sure you're not just a jerk. Thanks for coming to my tedtalk.

#race #sexuality #politics #beliefs #attraction #problematic #lesbian #bisexuality #biphobia #preferences #manipulative #lesbophobia #rant

[cs-discourse]

Breaking Down Clowns' Posts: Episode One with Mochi

let's get into a Breakdown, shall we? my interpretations are in bold :) 

I’m fucking over this mewlin bullshit. Idc what kind of hate I’m going to get over this because obviously nobody is allowed to have beliefs contrary to your own anymore. to start off, saying "idc what kind of hate i'm going to get over this" before saying something defending a terrible opinion is a bad thing to do, just sayin. you saying "because obviously nobody..." makes it seem like you're annoyed with us being upset over transphobia! that's just my interpretation, but it'd bc a shame if you were :) because our opinion is valid and mewlin's transphobic opinions are not. anyways, if the beliefs you hold could potentially harm somebody/a community, they aren't valid whatsoever. let's put it this way (thank u alcides for saying this): bigoted people vote for bigoted opinions. bigoted opinions lead to bigoted laws, and these laws will harm people's lives & affect the choices they are able to make. also, blatant transphobia is so different from a VALID opposing belief such as preferring winter over summer. transphobia kills. favorite seasons don't. But anyways. Y’all need to laY oFF. Mewlin is a person, just like you and I. She thinks, eats, and breathes. nice to know she's living-- what exactly does this have to do with the point you're trying to make? homophobes think, eat, and breathe. racists, eat, think, and breathe. i could go on! She doesn’t deserve even a fraction of this harassment. are you sure...?? not even.... 1/100th of it? god, i can't believe a transphobe would actually DESERVE harassment!! the audacity!!! you should never be harassed for holding an opinion that harms someone's life! (extreme sarcasm, if you couldn't tell!) I get it, her beliefs are upsetting to you. thank you for stating the obvious! why wouldn't we be upset with a transphobe? Obviously I don’t agree with her beliefs, I think transphobia is nasty. i mean if my friend was a transphobe i'd fucking run from them but u do u boo BUT that doesn’t make her a bad person. You hear me? YOUR BELIEFS DONT DEFINE YOU. i've had to repeat something along the lines of this statement many times but i'll say it again: if your beliefs harm other people, then that's all people will define you with. Mewlin is a sweet, kind, supportive person with some controversial beliefs. some....? controversial beliefs? transphobia isn't even controversial ur either a terrible person or ur not. I’m not saying you have to love her, you can hate her with every ounce of your being, but keep it to your damn self! if u love her, keep it to your damn self! look what you've done by posting this. you've prompted a response from myself & many others. I don’t expect trans people to be all buddy buddy with her, or even cis people. But you have no right to dehumanize her the way you’ve been. i mean..... isn't she dehumanizing trans people by saying they're invalid & wrong....... :0c When she had her moments of saying nasty things, SHE DIDN’T KNOW BETTER. When she was called out, she stopped! did she really? Doesn’t erase what she said but it doesn’t mean she had bad intentions. i distinctly remember her defending her use of the word (tw!!) tr*p so like. ok You guys are so out to get her that you don’t realize she’s a person too. A person with emotions and a life to live. when are u going to stop using the "shes a person!!!" argument... zzzzzzz How do you think she feels reading about you all calling her disgusting and telling her she has no rights to this or that or even at all? i would hope she feels regret for her transphobic actions and that's all. Mewlin is truly a sweet, generous person. She gives people things out of the kindness of her heart. She’s gifted me a kalon and some edits, not to clear her name or to prove anything, but because she wanted to. what point are you trying to prove??? this is like saying a bully is a good person bc they're nice to their friends?? Have you ever considered that maybe her pfp on discord is that pride icon jish made because she wants to express her support?? okay... and? someone who's bi (assuming she's using the bi pride one) can still be transphobic lmao. Sure, she’s had her moments, but maybe she’s getting better. if she's getting better, i'd like to personally hear from her & not one of her friends. Maybe the pride icon is her way of trying to open up a little bit, and hey, she knows I’m a genderfluid lesbian and she’s never said a word to me about it. good for u!! must be because you're friends w her. she must be desperate to hold onto the few people who manage to ignore her bigoted opinions! Grow the fuck up and learn to either keep your mouth shut or GET OVER IT. Bitching about it on this blog for months is only keeping you angry and upsetting Mewlin more. i'm pretty sure people have the right to defend their identities & like. we would stay quiet if mewlin didn't continue to clown around This is counterproductive!! Yeah, you hate her. Woohoo!! You get a gold star! omg, thank u!!!! Now move on and do something with your life that isn’t obsessing over one person who is MISERABLE because of you. She is getting nasty dms all the time that are really upsetting to her all because you guys think it’s a fun idea to harrass her more. ok i haven't DMed her so i really don't have an opinion on that but., it's not like we're 'harassing' her without being provoked?? all of this drama starts with her & her bigoted statements/actions CS is supposed to be a fun, enjoyable game for everyone. It’s supposed to be a safe space. Lay off already and let her enjoy her safe space like you all get to as well. the problem with the last statement is that we don't get to truly enjoy this 'safe space' if transphobes like her are making trans people uncomfortable, afraid, and upset so like. Ok She’s not hurting anyone! really? she's not hurting anyone? If her existence makes you THAT uncomfortable, fucking block her and go. already have, luv xx I’m over it! I’m done reading the hate she gets on here and getting dms from my upset or even terrified friend because of what people said to/about her. are u trying to get us to sympathize w a transphobe..?? im confused. Imagine if it were you. i mean. if you read the salt blog last year it Was me so uhhhhh. what's your point?? i know i fucked up but it seems like all mewlin is doing is crying despite causing Imagine if it were your friend. i'm not friends with transphobes so i can't relate! There’s this DBT skill called radical acceptance. It’s where you recognize that it is what it is. You cannot change it so rather than sitting in your misery and spreading it around, simply accept that’s what it is and keep going with your life. Try it, it actually works pretty well. Radically accept that when it comes down to it, you can’t change her. So accept how she is and move on. are u asking people to accept that someone on what's supposed to be a safe space is a transphobe...??? Okay, I’m done rambling now. I’ve said my piece, I’m ready for the hate to come pouring in 👌

with this closing statement: it's 1am and i'm tired so! this is monky brain typing. i really don't have sympathy for mewlin whatsoever so like i really don't care if she gets upset over my response bc it's nowhere near compared to what trans people have to go through so :) my final words are: fuck mewlin and anybody who likes her despite her invalid shitty opinions.

#cs discourse #submission

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

(1/?) I know both of you are going through a tough time so if you don't have the spoons to respond, I 100% understand. In case you do have the spoons I want your opinion/advice. So I'm nonbinary and for a really long time I've wanted to go by a diffrent name. Recently my college has been really active in advertising that there are prefered name request forms and having staff ask students what their pronouns are which is awesome! So I finally worked up the courage to submit my name form today.

(2/2) However I'm really nervous about what other people think. My birth name is feminine and my new name sounds feminine in English even though it's unisex in native language. I really like it though and it fits me. I'm just scared people will give me crap about it. Like I feel like someone would say "Why change it of you were going to pick another girls name?" or that they will act as if im not nonbinary with a feminine name. Took me a long time to get where I am and I hope I dont regret this.

First, thank you for being so considerate omg! You’re too sweet! Second, I haven’t spent many spoons today, so no worries!

Anyway, look: if you like the name and feel like it fits, fuck what anyone says about it. I know the vast majority of cis people fucking suuuuuuck when it comes to trans people, especially nonbinary people because we’re apparently even more “”””confusing”””” or some shit, but please don’t let that stop you from doing something you really want! You deserve everything you want in life, and that includes going by whatever name you want and having people respect that. If you get shitty questions like that, 1) you’re not obligated to answer that shit anyway, and 2) if you wanna answer, you can say something like “If you’re not going to respect me, my identity, and my comfort, then don’t bother speaking to me.” You DO NOT owe people who won’t respect you your time or energy. Don��t let people talk down to you like that, and don’t let them invalidate your identity. I know it can be hard to stand up for yourself, but please try. You don’t deserve to be treated poorly just because you’re nonbinary.

And really, since your college is trying to be more progressive and such, you probably could report to the administration that you’re being harassed and give them names of who’s harassing you. Transphobia and enbyphobia/exorsexism shouldn’t be tolerated, and if you’re school is truly trying to be better about how they treat trans people, they should listen and take your report seriously. And if you don’t wanna go directly to the administration, you can always bring it up to your professors and ask them to help. But if that doesn’t help, then yeah, go to the administration. And if you’re scared or nervous to, you can always bring a friend to help you speak up for yourself! I speak up for my wife all the time when it comes to authority because they tend to get really nervous and feel like they’re a bother. I promise that you’re not a bother. You deserve to be treated with respect. If people don’t have the decency to do that, they deserve consequences for it.

So yeah, go by the name you want, and fuck everyone who has an issue with it! You do you, bean. You deserve happiness, and if changing your name makes you happy, absolutely 100% do it! ♥

#my asks #lgbtq+ #advice #nonbinary #enby

[frightcore]

Okay, so like, TS’s new song is bad. Like, really bad. Politically.

Like, let’s assume a totally innocent Taylor. All she wanted was to make a fun Pride song. Which isn’t what I believe but we’ll continue for this bit with that assumption.

The 4th and 5th lines, “You say it in the street, that’s a knock out / But you say it in a tweet, that’s a cop out” Within the context of the rest of the song being an “fuck you!!” to the homophobes, this line is saying that being homophobic IRL is something that she can respect. Which... isn’t good, especially when IRL homophobic hate can and has led to hate crimes and murders...so uh

Also the line about “shade never making anyone less gay”.... which reduces homophobia to just... well shade. Homophobia isn’t just insults and being rude in tweets or whatever, it’s violent. It’s abuse. She shouldn’t be making light of it, especially as a straight woman. 

She says “sticks and stones never broke my bones” as if homophobia hurts her as a straight woman. yeah, they never broke your bones, because you’re straight. This is in especially poor taste considering that LGBT people have been literally stoned to death, and currently still are. Holy shit

“I aint tryna mess with your self expression” MA’AM BEING A BIGOT AINT SELF EXPRESSION, DO NOT IMPLY THAT IT IS

The other lines aren’t as bad, but they don’t feel...legitimate. like the GLAAD reference would be completely missed without a lyric sheet, and the “his gown” thing is a nice nod to GNC gay men, but this song only has the gay line and that line that nods to any specific identity, and its feminine cis gay men, which is great but its so minimal and just...ugh (plus feminine gay men get fedishized by straight women into being seen as the “gay best friend” and whatnot while completely ignoring or being disgusted by all other LGBT identities)

But lets get back to the totally innocent Taylor, and why I don’t believe this is entirely in good faith. I believe that this song was a generic “fuck the haters!!!1!!1!1!1″ song, until she and/or her producers realized that if they throw in a few references to Pride, and release it during June, they can rake in some brownie points. I mean, there’s a verse with the line “And we see you over there on the Internet / Comparing all the girls who are killing it” which...doesn’t relate to homo/transphobia. yeah it’s misogyny, but unrelated to the rest of the song. Taylor’s a famous woman: she’s frequently compared to other famous artists, but it sticks out in a Pride anthem, but not in a generic “women’s rights!” song. 

Until the “Shade never made anyone less gay” line, there’s no mention of Pride within the song, besides the GLAAD reference and its kinda implied with Parade but like. one again. Easily missed. (PLUS there’s the tone deafness bc Pride... isn’t a parade. Yeah there are parades within Pride as a whole, but this line just... feels like Taylor views Pride as a party, as a spectacle). That line could just be a replacement for another generic line abt being a strong woman or whatever, and then the LAST MENTION OF ANYTHING RELATED TO BEING LGBT AND PRIDE is just a “dont step on his gown” which like. that’s a replaced pronoun. that’s it. 

Also, as a note, the worst line in the song, that implies that being homophobic IRL is fuckin brave, gets a lot less bad when it becomes about “fuck the haters”. It goes from “I’m praising homophobes for being “brave” enough to be homophobic irl” to “well I gotta respect that you hold your opinion when you’re in my face”. It goes from global to personal.

This song, as it is, would be so EASY to just change into whatever “power” anthem is making money at the time. It’s so completely generic, so completely devoid of substance, devoid of legitimate meaning. But Taylor’s gonna get praised to high heavens for doing the bare minimum. LGBT people need to get better standards and stop praising the literal scraps thrown to us.

(PS. if you defend this as “ WELL WE DONT KNOW IF TAYLOR’S STRAIGHT”, fuck you. First of all, being straight as fuck has been her brand for years, get out of her. Evidence of her being gay, any of it that I’ve seen is a stretch. Also, FUCK you for speculating on a real person’s sexuality! I dislike Taylor as much as the next guy, but h o l y s h i t has is not already been established that speculating on a person’s sexuality is BAD? it’s an invasion of privacy, and can make actual closeted people feel incredibly unsafe and uncomfortable. be a decent human being and shut up)

#you need to calm down #taylor swift #pride #lgbtpride #My posts #This is meant to just. explain why its bad in case anyone in confused. I'll probably edit this in the morning bc its prob incoherent lmao #homophobia #transphobia

[tumblunni]

Oh fuck i cant stand this

Ive already almost used up my damn mobile data again and i only bought it yesterday. Fuck i want to go home. You guys are like the only comfort i have here and i dunno what im gonna do when i cant message you again

Fuckin hell stupid shit day! I was supposed to go to a therapy class thing today but the stupid bus went past where my abusive father lives and i had a MASSIVE FREAKOUT and had to go home and then ofcourse to go home you have to go back on the stupid same bus!! I fuckib failed and wasted the doctor's time and he had to grab me to stop me from running off the bus crying and back to fuckin hell dad's house because im shit and i deserve everything he ever did to me

AND THEN fuckin same doctor continues the relentless constant tide of everyone misgendering me and making crass transphobic jokes

"You see you've gotta understand the other opinion" he says, as if trans people werent fuckin raised SURROUNDED by cis people's predjudiced opinion of us and taught it was fact. As if it didnt take me SO MUCH WORK to even become confident enough to stand up for myself! I've gotta see the 'other opinion' that "yknow well families and children use public bathrooms and theyre scared trans people will molest their children so its understandable they want to kick you out or even act violent to you". Yknow the OTHER OPINION that MY OPINION DOESNT MATTER and also MY ENTIRE EXISTANCE IS A CRIME but i'm the one being predjudiced for not accepting that OPINION, right?! Im here trying to tell him that no that isnt rational because there have been LITERALLY NO RECORDED CASES of trans people molesting children in public bathrooms, or even "evil men faking being trans" to do the same thing. There's been more cases of actual cis men breaking into women's bathrooms to drag women out for merely LOOKING trans. More cis women have been harassed because of anti trans laws than they ever did before! But hey "respect that other opinion", right? And also "at least its not as bad as russia" and "but gay pride is everywhere now, that one footballer had rainbow shoelaces." Hey wow i never noticed that not only was homophobia totally over but also transphobia was remotely related to that! Wow! I seriously had to bring out the fuckin 1600s historical investigation on pre-british olde englishe that showed the existance of a gender neutral pronoun before the word "he" ever existed, and the existance of transgender pride and pronoun discussions in the 1800s before the word transgender was even popularized. I cant believe i fuckin had to do a 'show your sources that queer people existed before the internet' IN REAL LIFE. WITH A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. I can point at the damn NHS website but nooooo!

Oh and yknow what got me the most? YKNOW WHAT GOT ME THE MOST?? "We have sick people here, you cant expect them to remember stuff like that. Dont ruin their recovery by bringing up stuff like that." Like..fuckin..IM A FUCKIN PATIENT TOO. I wasnt even asking the other patients to stop hurting me i was asking you the staff to maybe consider it! And seriously you want me to be so super ultra perpetually prepared and perpetually rational and able to keep my existance secret and out of every conversation yet theyre too ill to learn about lgbt people existing? Just a sentence would be too painful? And me living every day being misgendered doesnt impact my ability to recover at all, eh? Fuckin shitting fuck hell.

And i hate it i HATE IT because he's being nice so i'll be the bad guy if i complain. Likehe fuckin..doesnt even know he's being rude and doesnt want to consider the idea. He says 'i dont like your tone' if i suggest the concept and FUCK in that moment i was so fuckin scared he was gonna hit me like my dad did. Or at tge very least kick me out of the hospital if i dont cooperate with him. He just fuckin..thinks he's perfectly unbiased and accepts everyone and "oh but i like to make fun of everyone equally". And i even fuckin raised the subject that people who say that often only make fun of minorities and never themselves, the majority, or major power structures. And he's just like 'yeah yeh i hate people like that'. Whoosh. Rigjt over the head. God i wasnt even TRYING to be passive aggressive i was trying tk outright tell him why what he said was upsetting me but NOPE. Trying to explain how its just so hard and tiring to have to verrrrrry patientlyyyyy explain yourself to EVERYONE EVERY DAY CONSTANTLY while they sling loads of rude words at you and it should be just allowed because they 'dont know better'. Like you ask me to educate you but at the same time im rude if i actually tell you?? And god i also tried to explain how the fuckin bathroom violence thing isnt an example of 'educating another opinion' AGAIN by saying like... If someone just asked me to explain being transgender i would. If someone just said they were uncomfortable i would leave. That's 'another opinion'. Reacting with slurs and violence to a trans person existing and not doing anything to you is not 'another opinion' and its not someone who 'just didnt know'. He was seriously trying to argue that it WASNT BIGOTED it was just someone rationally being afraid for their children because of a danger that doesnt exist, and rationally reacting with extreme violence rather than doing anything else. Rationally. RATIONALLY. oh just MISTAKENLY committing a hate crime! Cos they just didnt know trans people exist! Not cos they hate us! Oh no! Yeah sure we totally have a fucking DUTY to educate these POOR UNKNOWING PEOPLE while theyre attacking us, and its our damn fault if we didnt...

And just fucking FUCK i hate how someone can say all that stuff and still be "nice" and still not hate me personally? Like its so messed up?? He's not anti trans or anything he just has so much more damn sympathy for cis people than trans people, and puts all the onus on us to somehow prevent our own murders. And he thinks that "i dont have a problem with trans people" means doing LITERALLY NOTHING to change your behaviour to make trans people feel accepted. They should just magically know that your jokes are jokes when theyre surrounded by so many people saying it honestly, in CONSTANT FEAR OF THAT EXACT THING LEADING TO VIOLENCE. And like in order to be "a guy who has no problem with trans people" he has to do nothing, while in order for me to be not bigoted against HIM it means i have to never get offended by his jokes and also never talk about myself and also constantly educate him about things because he doesnt want to learn, even though he works in a hospital thats supposed to have an anti discrimination policy. Like fuckin just NOT HURTING LGBT PEOPLE doesnt make you discrimination free, shit like telling me to misgender myself because my pronouns would confuse the other patients is kinda fuckin fucked up. Also "that's a question for later" is all i CONSTANTLY get when it comes to talking about legal name changes or therapy or even just talking to an lgbt support group. I have to wait until i stop being depressed because oh no im talking about too many mental illnesses at once. Its been seven years and i havent fuckin stopped being depressed, bitch! Ever consider a fuckin symptom of gender dysphoria is a big ol fat depression!!! And just gahhhhh he was so fuckin baffled and angry that i would dare to get emotional about the subject?? Like he just saw DEBATING WHETHER TRANS PEOPLE ARE REAL and WHETHER PEOPLE WHO MURDER THEM FOR USING THE BATHROOM ARE JUSTIFIED as a perfectly normal casual discussion that a Non Transphobic Man could have with his transgender friend. Why oh why would i cry about this casual hypothetical discussion? Hey its not like it fuckin affects me directly! "Well its never happened to you right?" A Ha Ha Ha Ha. Also fuckin "so which bathroom do you use?" and "well you're not really transgender if youre not getting the surgery-oh wait you do want the surgery? How does that work then?" I swear i could just see the gears turning in his head and he was about to say "do you want both down there". Gahhhhhh *cringes myself into a tiny tumbleweed and blows away*

Also the entire time he kept calling being trans a sexuality and also asexuality. "No youre not trans youre asexual right?" Yeah sure ive just been saying im trans and saying im not a girl and wearing a chest binder and talking this entire conversation about my experiences as a trans person in public bathrooms just to pull an elaborate prank on you. And like i know what he meant is that he thought the word for nonbinary was asexual (has asexuality REALLY made so little progress towards getting into the sex ed curriculum in the entire 25 years of my life?) But like seriously he was like "youre not really trans if youre nonbinary". And then fuck dude i dont wanna explain how surgery works to you!! And especially not also my entirely unrelated sexuality that has entirely different equally upsetting predjudices!

Ans gahhhh fuck i just got no sympathy for crying and he acted as if it was just some wildly unexpected occurance he never could have predicted. And i hate it cos he's nice to me whenever the subject is about anything else. I cant get any symoathey from ANYONE because he's A NICE GUY and why dont i just understaaaaaand other opinionnnnnns

I wanted to fuckin quit this whole thing on the spot and go home. Only reason i cant is because my support worker is off work until thursday auauauaughhh

Fuck at least one positive i guess is that ive made progress in the social anxiety or at least gotten better at giving the impression im making progress. Cos i want to LEAVE AS FAST AS POSSIBLE. And also fuck all my other worries seem less suicide-inducing when im actually getting the closest ive ever been to killing myself on a daily basis because of a stupid other thing that i never could have predicted. Go here for one form of self hate, come home with another! Yayyyyy

And fuck i havent even made a single bit of progress on drawing or writing anything and i cant practise making ganes cos my laptop cant run rpgmaker and i havent even started reading my giant pile of books cos they fuckin LOOK THROUGH THE WINDOW EVERY SINGLE HOUR TO MAKE SURE YOU AINT KILLED YOURSELF. i have no fuckin pribacy and its making me wanna kill myself even more!! I just live constantly on edge looking at the fuckin door window and i cant even do anything to distract myself because im too scared of them looking at me!! Or barging in at no notice to tell me i have to do some big stressful thing RIGHT NOW because i dont even get advance notice of anything aaaa! And fuck i dont have anywhere to go to even calm down from a panic attack cos i have no privacy so at least im getting over being scared of going outside cos outside is the only place i can go to cry. Fuckin strangers in the crowd at least wont cause shit if they see me.

Fuck i want to go home. Fuck i wish i had enough money to keep buying mobile internet. Its like fuckin 750mb a day to run tumblr but its all ive got to talk to any person who doesnt hate me or patronize me or think im faking a bunch of shit or whatever the fuck. And im not even any fun to be around when im like this so im probably just ruining your day too. And im probably gonna vanish again soon and then just go back to crying alone and getting worse and probably never being able to leave

I knew it was gonna be stressdul but i didnt predict any of this.. I just wanna fuckin die. I wanted to jump out the car and go to my old dad's house and have him pull open the door and slap me around a bit. Like call me a fucking dyke, call me a sick retard, be honest about your feelings! I'd fuckin take being abused over this "oh youre the bad one for being mad because i had goooood intentions" reverse psychology bigotry from hell. Either these people are evil geniuses or theyre even more stupid like me. Fuckin shit dad please manifest in my room and slap me, killing me instantly. I feel like being scared of you would at least be a faster emotion than this nebulous sensation of confusing unease and dysphoria 24/7 for 6 fuckin months. One week done, haha! Hahahabahahahahahahahahahahahahshahahahahahshshshahshahahahhahahaaaa

#suicide mention #im sorry #all their no privacy shit doesnt even work cos i was just left alone all night when i wanted to kill myself #and took then three days to notice the wound on my arm #didnt cut my veins or anything dangerous i just couldnt stop scratching #at my skin for an hour and now there's a bit of a mess there #but its scabbed over so its fine #i drew all over the other arm to keep from hurting myself again #i thought i was okay after that nice experience at the build a bear workshop but im even #worse today cos now i k ow the staff are just fuckin fine with transphobia and im gonna just have to #shut my mouth i guess #fuck just look forward to the art classes whenever i finally get to do them #but i was looking forward to the class today and then i couldnt do it cos i got all scared of dad #fuckkkkkkk

[airagorncharda]

If a gay person is attracted to penis and therefore doesn't want to have sex with someone with a vagina, or vice versa, you're saying they're transphobic?

Anonymous said: “And sorry if my question came off as rude, I completely agree with 99% of what your post I was reading says but I only think the point I mentioned is controversial to many and I dont quite understand. Ofc you don’t have to answer this, though.”

((I’m assuming the second ask was you too))

[x] & [x]

Long Answer:

There are differing opinions on whether sexuality based attraction that is based solely on anatomy is… a real thing. Many people believe that sexuality is solely about gender, and that basing your attraction on anatomy therefore conveys your “true” feels about gender, which is that gender = binary sex (aka, deep rooted transphobia). Others think that sexuality is based on anatomy rather than gender, and that claiming that it’s NOT based on anatomy is pushing some sort of political agenda onto people’s sex lives.

Mostly people who get really angry about the notion that sexuality might not be based– or might not be SOLELY based– on anatomy turn out to be transphobes, but I don’t necessarily think that means that the other polarized perspective is correct either.

In my experience, and my understanding of how sexuality supposedly works (please keep in mind that I’m on the ace spectrum, so my experience of being sexually attracted to anyone might not align with other people’s experiences of the same concept) anatomy is part of attraction. That DOES NOT mean that genitals are always relevant to attraction. It doesn’t mean that someone being any kind of conventionally attractive is required. It also doesn’t mean that someone’s anatomy aligning with someone else’s preferences is always automatically required in order for them to be attractive to that person. Just that it’s PART of attraction.

It’s also important to note that anatomy (including but not limited to genitals) can be a turn-off or triggering for a variety of reasons, which is related to sexuality, and may or may not be an inherent part of sexuality for people. 

Sexuality, like gender, is deeply personal and individual, and is a mix of nature and nurture. Some of it is unchangeable and biological, while other elements are social and/or chosen. 

And as I’ve said, there is definitely a conversation worth having about the ways in which systemic transphobia TEACHES people to not find trans people attractive, and how it is therefore socially acceptable to claim that your sexuality excludes us when in fact it’s your bigotry that does. That conversation is worth having. However that conversation is not the one I’m trying to have in my post.

The conversation I’m trying to have, which I think I said very clearly, is NOT that people’s experience of their sexuality may be transphobic (even if it is, that’s not what I’m talking about right now) but rather that the way people TALK about their sexuality is routinely transphobic.

“If a gay person is attracted to penis and therefore doesn’t want to have sex with someone with a vagina, or vice versa, you’re saying they’re transphobic?”

No.

But if they think that being gay (or really any sexuality outside of asexual) is the same thing as not being attracted to trans people, then they’re transphobic. If they think that being “attracted to men” is the same as “being attracted to people with penises”, then they’re transphobic. If they are convinced that they’ve never BEEN attracted to someone with a vagina, and could never BE attracted to someone with a vagina, then they’re transphobic (because they’re assuming they can tell what people’s genitals are on sight/assuming they can tell who’s trans and who isn’t at a glance). If they think that all trans people are physically and sexually indistinguishable from cis people (aka, “all trans men are physically and sexually indistinguishable from cis woman once their clothes come off”), then they’re transphobic. 

If they’re a gay person, and they’re not attracted to vaginas… that’s not relevant to what I’m talking about, because that is their experience of their sexuality (which I’m not talking about) rather than how they TALK about their sexuality (which IS what I’m talking about).

Short answer: No, that’s not what I’m saying. 

I’m saying that a man SAYING “I am only attracted to men, which is the SAME as not being attracted to anyone with a vagina” is transphobic, because there are men who have vaginas.

#transphobia #anon #ask #my thoughts #sexuality

[sn0tcl0wn]

tbh i really dont see the issue in cyberpunk featuring an image of a trans woman with a visible penis. it didn't look like it was a joke, it looked like something in the background. if people crack jokes, that's on them. but i genuinely feel we need to normalize the concept of women with penises and men with vaginas and if you personally take offense when seeing depictions of that and assume it's a joke or inherently fetishistic, think about why. because what that looked like to me was an average background ad for a fictional product featuring a visible trans woman composed in the way an ad like that would honestly feature most any other woman only this time she has a very visible penis. would y'all get as up in arms if they had an image of a dude with a cameltoe?

and don't get on me about talking over anyone because i could have said this on those posts but i do respect those opinions. i, however, don't see a joke, it's just a random thing in the background that confirms a fictional future where trans women are allowed to exist without trying so appear cis to the point where they can be in sexy ads without tucking. again, i feel like we as a whole need to normalize that a lot of trans women DO have penises and some of them even want to keep them. not a single one of you would flinch at the sexualization of a fictional cis woman in this situation, y'all would walk right past that ad like "yep, that's a wall". but now the fake woman in the fake ad has a dick and y'all are losing your shit over it and crying transphobia while i'm certain transphobic gamers would see it and cry about the trans agenda.

if seeing an offhand image in a videogame of a woman with a penis bothers you or instantly registers to you as a joke or fetishization, you're part of why we actually do need more random but explicit depictions of trans people who haven't had bottom surgery. seeing it is jarring and people will crack jokes but those things should be normalized and, while their attempt isn't the best (sexy video game lady in a fake background ad is a start but it could be much better), shit like this could help us reach that point.

also, on a different but somewhat related note, i'd personally be excited if i saw a sexy ad of a dude in briefs with a visible vagina. i would be absolutely fucking elated and i'm someone who occasionally has bouts of severe bottom dysphoria. it's just fucking comforting for some people to see depictions of trans bodies like that. she was depicted in a risque manner but she was also, again, framed in the same manner a photographer would capture images like that of a cis woman but with her dick 100% in frame and that's rare as fuck outside of actual porn or grotesque caricatures.

it doesnt have to be something you like or approve of but that shit isnt enough for me to not wanna play the game.

#dnt rb

[transventblog]

"we should broaden what it means to be a female vs. male. Its okay for girls to like trucks or boys to like dresses!!!1!!¡"

Ummm thats literally not the problem. The problem is that my biological sex makes me want to fucking kill myself.

"Its okay to be amab/afab and stay that way!!"

Not if my mental health (and therefore my safety) depends on transitioning.

"you can treat it other ways than transitioning!1!!"

Sooo conversation therapy? Antipsychotics work for those whos gender dysphoria is a result of underlying mental health issues, but that is a tiny minority of trans people. Youre going to ignore our mental health?

"since when was mental health more important than reality?!?"

Bitch you dont have to see our genitals. You dont have to talk to us. Hell, after a while on HRT we're cis passing.

Just admit your salty ass is transphobic. Fuck out of here. You wanna know why you're being 'silenced?' because your opinions fucking suck, ignore nuanced biology like psychology and endocrinology, discriminate against intersex people, and you CANT KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF. You can be shitty by yourself, but you feel the need to preach in my face about how im some dumb 'tif' who has been brainwashed by the transcult.

"oooh you dont like what i have to say bc youre realizing youre wrong"

No, im having to talk to some salty dogshit of a person about why my existance is valid.

Also, if you call me a tif (or transwomen 'tims') you aint slick. "It acknowledges that theyre trans but also their agab!! Its me being a dumb centrist!!"

Like???¿ The whole point of transitioning is so people dont acknowledge the agab. Youre just a fucking idiot who thinks we wont notice the blatant transphobia. Fuck you.

I want to spit in a TER's face.

"woah look at this violent troon boohoo im so threatened look what testosterone did to this poor misguided female"

Not on T yet. Im just violent, because being female doesnt make you an angel. Bitch.

"transitioning didnt work for MEēEÊ!!!1!"

Well, sorry, wombynradfemmemalehater, but not everyone is the same as you. Stop being narcissistic and thinking you know how to handle the health of other people, regardless of what their doctors say.

TERs can fuck off. You're just some crusty bitch who's upset that ~stinky boys~ can 'invade' and give you cooties.

ALSO, NO ONE IS SAYING YOU HAVE TO DATE ANYONE. IF YOU DONT LIKE TRANS WOMEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE A DICK, YOU ARENT A BIGOT. ITS JUST A PREFERENCE. it hurts the lady's feelings, sure. But thats just something trans people have to deal with. I have to deal with it, too. Hell, lesbians have to deal with it when straight women turn them down. And thats okay. Just, please stop telling me that me and my 'troon' sisters are all rapists. We arent. We just want to live our lives.

Also i think its fucking hilarious that your witch-hunting of transwomen has led you to attack the more butch members of your own group. How dumb do you have to be to not see the irony there?? "Im policing this bathroom, haha, TIMS! Aw, fuck, this wombyxxn doesnt think i am a fellow wombyxxn, my feelings are hurt. Time to blame this on trans women, even though my own witch-hunting started the issue."