getting my schedule soon n LEMME TELL YOU i cannot remember the last time i felt this stressed i actually might cry !!1!1!1!1 i am just PRAYING that i don't get this one english teacher i might go crazy if i do
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anyway i love how shes open about how starting to date women as an adult is hard and it will probably feel like ur a teenager figuring out how to date again bc i really worry about the messages we send to young questioning ppl that dating women is just going to be effortless and easy and then one girl on a dating app doesnt msg them back and they just give up... like what gets me about the “but dating girls is so hardddd 🥺” people is .....and dating men isnt? like dating is hard and it’s also something you get better at with practise i feel like for a lot of women because of the messages and expectations we get around dating it results in so many people basically giving up on exploring their desires and just going back to what’s comfortable and expected and familiar its heartbreaking like it’s just really interesting to observe the general trend in realisations of lesbians vs gay men where gay men tend to realise they actively desire other men and not focus much on how much they’d be able to tolerate women but sooo many lesbian and bi women have this mindset like all that matters is whether they could theoretically be okay with dating a man & although they’d never voice it like this, it’s like somewhere deep down they feel that you’re only “allowed” to date women if it’s your only option like. it’s a fundamentally conservative mindset and yet so many people are determined to present it as something radicaland yet seem way more interested in selling this to women than to men. i wonder why that is
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I just started restrictive eating again after gaining weight on my antidepressants- things that helped me get started
starting slow:
-> cut out snacks, then breakfast, then lunch - then reduced supper to 700, down to 500cal
-> started with weight training (before i started dieting), added in 30min walks a few times a week and built up to 60mins a day and weight training 3x a week
figured out how to control cravings:
-> when i feel i need to eat, i tell myself to drink a cup of green tea, and if im still hungry ill have something small
-> im a chip girly and i love the taste, so i bought crispy minis in my favourite flavours (7cal / chip) and i eat a couple every day
-> for sweets, keep small chocolates, or i make my coffee sweet with zero cal coffee syrup, which keeps me satisfied all day
-> for fried foods, I just be careful with what I eat. for chicken fingers, i eat chicken breast instead - for fries, i eat other carbs (the low cal salty snacks help too)
-> if you don’t control your cravings, they will control you
figured out my triggering times and adjusted:
-> i start feeling hungry around 2-3, so that’s when i go on my daily walk (im lucky to be able to do this) it keeps me out of the house and away from food until supper
-> i used to binge on chips and chocolates at night, now i drink tea sweetened with stevia and a couple of crispy minis
-> at my triggering times, i look at thinspø, or my body to remind myself why im doing this
other rules i follow:
-> if tea is not available, drink an entire stanley of water before seeing if you’re hungry
-> chew about 10x per bite
-> drink an entire stanley of water while eating my supper to keep me full (i honestly feel stuffed after)
-> i still go out to eat with friends, but order something small / healthier, and pack up half for tomorrows meal. i want to lose the weight, but i want to enjoy time with friends too
-> “if i binge, ill just feel more hungry tomorrow”
-> embrace the hunger, it means im burning fat
-> i waited till i felt “skinnier” to weigh in, because i knew seeing the number would discourage me (idk why it has the opposite effect on me)
-> doing the calculations to find out when i will hit goals with my cal intake (number of days x caloric deficit / 3500 = pounds lost) - this keeps me motivated having an “end date”, but i dont think ill ever want to quit
^^ check out my pinned post to see how to do this + set rewards
thanks that’s all :)
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