#ace vents

[edjectedly]

I hate being just not disabled enough for my school to give me accomodations

#ace rambles #im rioting #ace vents

[celosiaceobackup]

Hello everynyan my original blog @celosiaceo got terminated for no fucking reason to my knowledge, I emailed support and I’m waiting to hear back from them but I’m extremely devastated. I’ll be on this blog for the timebeing or permanently if I don’t get my blog back

#ace rambles #ace vents #temporary transferring

[genderqueer-frog]

thinking about how my best friend openly admitted to resenting me for not giving them emotional support for one night bc I had a mental breakdown at my job that same night

#ace vents #they gave me jack shit for emotional support btw #and then proceeded to vent to me later that night but I did not reply #and the next day they were like 'btw I resent you for that lol' #I had been emotionally supporting them for WEEKS #and did not talk about myself once while they were struggling #but they resent me for not helping them for one fucking night #I did not need to fucking know that. why would they tell me that #I want to bring it up with them but it would probably just cause drama

[stardusted-bookworm]

I don't know if people realize, but if you shit talk in front of someone with anxiety (severe or otherwise), you're giving them a list of things they will now compare to themselves to see if they're fucking up. Even if you think that your anxious friend can do no wrong in your eyes, they are now convinced that they will be irredeemable if they step even the slightest bit out of line.

#ace vents #this obviously isn't for every anxious person #maybe just me #it's been rough in my head lol #anxiety

[aceoftrashies]

Elvis Presley’s daughter, Lisa Marie Presley, passed away last night due to cardiac arrest. She was brought to the hospital, but her mother (Priscilla Presley), confirmed she died that evening. 

And as someone who was raised with Elvis since I was a baby, and as someone who turned to the sound of Elvis to cope with trauma, this hit me like a brick. 

I heard the sound of Lisa Marie’s voice a few years ago, and I always admired how much she sounded like her father. 

I saw the news on my Facebook, but didn’t believe it the first time I saw it. So I went on Google, looked her up, and sure enough: ‘Lisa Marie Presley Dead at 54′. 

I audibly went; “Are you serious?! Oh my god!” 

I can’t listen to her singing without crying. I’m sorry that it sounds silly, but her death tore a piece of my heart out of my chest. 

Rest in peace, lovely. Make you reunite with your father and make music beyond the cosmos. 

#ace rambles #ace vents #lisa marie presley #i've legit listened to this duet of 'don't cry daddy' with her and elvis and all i've done is cry

[aces-spade-palace]

I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHY YOU FUCKING MESSAGED ME AND THEN DELETED IT, NOT LETTING ME READ ANYTHING

#ACE RAMBLES #im mad #and I just want to know why #but I won't reach back out #because im 2 years clean and don't need that shit #fuck you #ace vents

[dollopheadsandclotpoles]

I'm a bit tired of people calling asexuality 'not a big deal.'

Here's the thing, I never thought it was a big deal either. I didn't have a big angsty coming out about being aro or being ace. It was difficult in a sense to think of the future I'd imagined for myself not coming true, but I didn't mourn that future. I was happy that there were others out there feeling what I was feeling and going through what I was going through.

But it's become a big deal. It's become a big deal because as I have grown older, I have realised the future is still fucking blurry. I have no idea what to expect from it. Society was not built for those who do not or cannot follow its rules. I've realised just how MUCH people say aphobic stuff on a daily basis. I feel constantly othered by comments that carelessly remind us we are out of the majority. That remind us again and again that we are NOT the norm and will never BE the norm. I rarely see myself on TV and in books and in movies. People feel weird about it, so they just never bring it up like an unspoken secret. I'm constantly doubted and told I'm mistaken about my own identity, which causes anxiety and self doubt so many years later. People make a variety of assumptions about me and tell me it's 'sad' and I'm 'missing out.'

It's not just about 'not having sex.' It's about feeling like you're the only one at a concert that doesn't know the words. it about society making you feel like you're just a little bit off. My sexuality/romantic identity doesn't define me. I don't WANT it to be a big deal.

But it is. It is a big deal because all of you make it a big deal.

#i've heard this from lgbtq allos and from young aspecs alike and i'm just tired and needed to vent #asexual #aromantic #ace #aro #aroace #asexuality #aromanticism #aro stuff #ace stuff #aroace tag

[greenlaut]

anatomy of an assassin

#(shakily hands you altair) #vent art from the really shit nightmares ive been having lately #its supposed to represent how derealisation feels like—when you just wake up from a nightmare #and nothing feels real. your body is not yours. putting on clothes is like putting on your own skin again until you feel Normal #dont look at my open tabs of middle eastern clothing. ihad an autism moment there for pseudo-accuracy sake #inhuman altair feels again ig. will you ever be comfortable in your own skin? (the answer is perhaps never) #my art #asscreed #assassins creed 1 #assassin's creed 1 #assassins creed #assassin's creed #ac #ac1 #altair ibn la'ahad #altaïr ibn la'ahad

[charliethechandelure]

Bound by blood and heart

Got the idea randomly when I was doing à school project. Now I can peacefully go back to my usual art.

Alternative versions with another text color and textless under the cut !

#one piece #op fanart #fanart #charliethechandelure #buggy the clown #portgas d ace #gold roger #gol d. roger #op ace #op buggy #vent art #digital art

[klavierpanda]

Aro is not under the the ace umbrella or the ace-spectrum. The word you are looking for is aspec. I swear to fucking god

#vent #aro #aromantic #arospec #aspec #ace #asexual #acespec #<- ace tags so people who do this are more likely to see the post #panda's post

[edjectedly]

Putting 'Grooming' up on the shelf with 'Trauma Bonding', 'Gaslighting', 'Boundaries', and 'Trauma Dumping'

#ace rambles #ace vents

[runby2]

#vent #whump #whumplr #ace attorney #apollo justice #klapollo #klavier gavin #kristoph gavin

[genderqueer-frog]

me when my mental health is better than it has been in years and yet I am spiraling out of control in new and unprecedented ways and I'm not sure if I'll make it out alive this time

#ace vents #I'm going to end up in the mental hospital again I think #but it'll take at least a year or two for that to happen #in the meantime I am a ticking time bomb #and I am watching the numbers go down knowing that it's my own damn fault

[stardusted-bookworm]

How to deal with passive-aggressive people as a neurodivergent human who is already putting way too much effort into reading social cues.

Any and all suggestions are very helpful!

#help #im so tired #weeks in and weeks out of this is going to turn my rage issues on without an off button #ace vents

[aceoftrashies]

tw: mentioning of online Islamophobia

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I was playing a game online where you’re given a word and people have to guess what it is, and this user popped on and immediately starting making harsh comments about Muslims and Islam as well as making intense sexual jokes about it. I immediately got pissed at the person and told them to shut up, to which they told me that “all non-muslims hate islam”, to which I responded with: “I’m not a muslim, but I respect those who are”. They called me a Muslim, which is whatever. Like, I’m Wiccan, but okay dude. But some of the things I saw were disgusting and downright wrong. And this is only online. 

I’m gonna say this. If you are against Muslim people and/or the faith of Islam, DO NOT FOLLOW OR INTERACT WITH ME. GET YOUR ISLAMOPHOBIC ASS OUT OF MY FUCKING SIGHT. 

EVERYONE CAN BELIEVE IN A FAITH IF THEY WANT TO. YOUR FAITH DOESN’T DICTATE WHO YOU ARE, ONLY YOUR WORDS AND ACTIONS. 

#tw: islamophobia #ace vents #fucking asshole #everyone is allowed to believe in what they want #i don't want to go into detail about what i saw #but it sucked #and i'm pissed

[dollopheadsandclotpoles]

Even after all this time and awareness, it feels like asexuality is still not treated like a proper sexuality. Recently had a girl tell me that she was at a place where she ‘felt so asexual’ because all the other girls were so beautiful and guys were ignoring her because of it. She didn’t know I was asexual and I didn’t take offence (I know she didn't meant it in a malicious way) but it does feel uncomfortable that people are using ‘asexual’ in lieu of ‘unattractive' or 'lacking sexual appeal.' It's really giving 90's/early 2000's slang of using 'gay' to mean 'lame.' Even shows like Brooklyn 99 which took immense pride in being progressive with their comedy, had an episode where one of the characters says "Oh, and I'm sorry if we implied you're both asexual nerds who can only be friends with service animals."

I have mentioned this before also, when I talked about how I feel like people are more comfortable erasing the identities of canonical aro/ace characters in media but act like it's unacceptable with other sexualities... but it does feel like asexuality (and aromanticism tbh) are still not considered 'real' sexualities. In the case of shipping fictional characters, I understand there is nuance to that issue and so don't want to get into it, but it does kinda add to my point.

Why is it that people treat asexuality like it's not a sexuality? Why is it that when I come out to people I'm met with insistence that I'm wrong about my sexuality, that I'm 'self diagnosing' (it's not a medical condition), that I'm probably 'just inexperienced' or haven't 'met the right person' or have a hormone issue? Why can't people just accept that it's a sexuality like any other??

#asexual #ace stuff #aroace tag #asexuality #ace #don't mind me just needed to vent #just tagging asexuality because it was that 'felt so asexual' comment that made me feel this #but I think it does extend to aromanticism as well #but who knows at least for me I can no longer tell where the ace ends and the aro begins