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loveconnectionhub · 1 month

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Love Advice For Women - Do Not Miss This

So, you are looking for some love advice for women? Well, you came to the right place. I want to address one basic idea that I believe, if followed, will make for a great relationship (at least as far as you're part is concerned).

They say that the most profound truths are often the simplest bits of advice - this article will hopefully fall along those lines.

If you came looking for some "New" truth or slickly packaged, pithy suggestion, you will not find it here.

What I am about to tell you flat out works as it is time-tested and mother-approved. Here it is: Give your man some respect.

I know that many women will not want to hear about respecting a man and they read stuff into that. So, let me be clear about what I am NOT saying.

I am not saying you are a doormat and should be trampled on. I am not saying that you are less important than he is. I am not saying that he is a harsh taskmaster over you.

Here is what I AM saying. Women need to be secure and feel loved. I know a lot of women who get turned on when their man rubs on their back, throws out the trash, or whispers sweet words in their ear. We want to feel important and valued.

Well, men are no different. If a man feels that he is important and valued and yes, respected, then you will bring out the best in him.

There are exceptions to this rule as some men are unhealthy and nothing will bring out the best in them as they need clinical help but the great majority of men will WANT to do all they can to care for you and love on you when they feel respected. This is without a doubt the best love advice for women.

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dailyhealthcareblog · 1 year

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What can be used against you in a divorce?

If you have been wondering what can be used against you in a divorce as a mom, dad, or newly wedded couple it is important to be conscious of whatever you are doing whenever you feel that the marriage is not habitable again.

As one who wants a divorce from his/her partner, keep reading this article to see for your self.

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What is divorce

Divorce simply means when a marriage is dissolved. It can also be said that when two mature married couple comes to agreement that they are know longer compatible together so they file for a divoce for them to separate from each other.

In some cases, one can see a divorce a choice when the marriage he/she is into is no longer inhabitable, very toxic and can’t cope with it. It is advisable to leave the marriage if you have been trying to fit in for long but it seems it wasn’t working, you Bett leave before you are out of the picture (world).

What are the Reasons for Divorce

You have to get this at the back of your mind, before a divorce happen their must be a disagreement somewhere.

Here are the possible main reasons for divorce, they include

Domestic violence

Infidelity

Psychological stress

Psychological Abuse

Physical abuse

Lack of commitment

Family

Adultry

Finance

Sustance Abuse

Irriconcilable difference

ADULTERY

The word adultery have done more harm than good in marriage. Research has it that couples who have divorced for the past 5 years are because of adultery. This applicable to both gender, because male cheat and women also cheat. The High rate of adultery in the society is alarming and we (you and I) have been wondering what could be done to cutdown the rate of adultery in the society.

Here are most of the things that can help to reduce the rate of adultery…

TRUTHFULNESS: Being truthful to both parties can play a great effect in this journey. If you have a truthful partner I assure you that this can aswell reduce.

COMMUNICATION: This is the key for a good marriage. If you really wants your marriage (union) to last longer communication will be one of the keys to use to get what you really wants.

FINANCE

Finance also has it’s own effect on divorce, because one can’t eat truelove. Yes truelove matters alot but without money or hoping that money will be coming from this investment, you will see that the love will shatter and they will be misunderstanding here and there. It is advisable to have something doing before being in a union with some else child.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

As a man you don’t have any right to beat up your wife no matter what. Being able to handle or to treat each other according will really help you both in your union. Understanding is key and being able to solve the issue amicably is the real goal there.

As a partner being able to hear each other out is very important because it will reduce somany act of domestic violence.

LACK OF COMMITMENT

Being committed to each other will really you out as one that is in union with someone. What is a happy union? This when you and your pattern are happily living together. You both can easily sort out your difference and can be able to resolve any issue at a giving point in time.

FAMILY

Family is also anoth factor that increases the rate of divorce in our society nowadays. Taking issues that suppose to be resolved amicably indoors, and without nobody knowing about it. Then when family comes in they start judging and siding for their own child, you see that problem has just started as at that point. Being able to resolve issues without involving family members, friends is very important. Resolving issues without involving family members shows that you both are good together and should be called worthy partners.

IRRICONSILABLE DIFFERENCES

This is also one of the challenge factors in marriage. When one can not be able to reconcile with his/her partner, it becomes a problem.

This why it is important to attain marriage classes so that you both will be prepared for what you are entering into.

Who causes divorce more?

According to research, divorce has become a food to most women. Most women derive joy in it reasons best known to them. This doesn’t mean that men don’t file for divorce but research has it that 70% comes women.

Effects of divorce

There are alot of effects that comes after you might have divorced your partner.

Most often times the negative side effects of your divorce may not affect you but your children.

It is important to consider the children you have before filing for a divorce, this is because it may affect them mentally and otherwise. Keep reading

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wheelchair-hustle · 1 year

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onlinecounselling4u · 2 years

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aab1180 · 2 years

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My yearly #fathersday post. The first Fathers Day as #wethreewalkers in 2010. Now here we are twelve years later in 2022. Time sure does fly! #father #fatherhood #divorceddad #girldad #daughters #2022 #aginglikefinewine (at Shawnee, Kansas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CfAemnVrW0e/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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neutralbliss · 3 months

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#new playing cards DivorcedDads

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coachnanda9 · 1 year

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Want to connect with people in a better way? Our cognitive biases (mental blockages) can distort our understanding about a situation, a circumstance, or a person. We see the world that comes from our understanding of life, our filters in our brain that guide our understanding. One filter that can make a huge difference in our understanding, is our experiences of life, Pain and Pleasure. This one filter alone can create mental blockages that can prevent us from seeing the reality or having clarity. If you knew better, what would you choose? How would you connect with someone, if you had better clarity? #connection #connections #connectbetter #effortless #genuine #genuineconnections #mentalblock #mentalblocks #cognitivebehaviouraltherapy #cognitivepsychology #cognitivedevelopment #ｓｉｎｇｌｅ #single #singleguy #singlegirls #singlewomen #singleman #singlemum #singledad #singlemomlife #singledadlife #divorceddad #divorcedmom https://www.instagram.com/p/CpPKmTpvDah/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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holmez · 3 years

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#divorceddad #stop asian hate #black lives matter #boys love #love poem

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loveconnectionhub · 1 month

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How to Make a Man Love You - Helpful Relationship Tips For Women

The question of how to make a man love you is one that women have been asking since the beginning of time.

Relationships are rarely an easy thing and if you're attracted to a man who doesn't show the same interest in you, it becomes even more challenging.

Most of us are apt to simply give up on a man if he doesn't seem that invested in the relationship but there is another choice.

If you want to get a man to fall for you there are specific things you can do to make that happen.

First and foremost when you are thinking about how to make a man love you, you must always remember to be yourself.

It's so easy to fall into an act and pretend to be something you're not. Most of us have been guilty of this at some point.

We meet a man who we believe is "the one" and to get him to fall hopelessly in love, we put on a show for him.

We may embellish our background or what we do for a living. Although this seems like a great approach at the time, it's likely to backfire in your face.

Just be yourself with all your imperfections. Men crave to be with down-to-earth, honest women.

You must also stay focused on your own life if you want to know how to make a man love you. One critical and very common mistake women make when they become involved in a relationship is letting their interests fall by the wayside.

Most of us are guilty of or know a woman who has even given up a career goal because it took away from the relationship she was in. Never allow this to happen.

Not only does it often lead to resentment within the relationship but it also turns men off. Men love it when you have your passions and drive.

They want to see you succeed in the things that are important to you. You may think that you are winning him over by showing him that you would sacrifice everything for him, but you're not.

You are only demonstrating to him that you value him over yourself. No man is going to find that appealing.

Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. If you are convinced he is the one there are things you can do to ensure he only has eyes for you.

For more insightful tips about understanding men including a way to get them to fall deeply in love with you, visit this informative site!

You don't have to leave love to fate or chance. If you are tired of waiting for him to fall hopelessly in love, there are things you can do to make it happen now. Find out right now what you need to do to capture his heart forever.

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20yearsandgone-blog · 4 years

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How do you grieve for someone who is still alive?

#divorce #divorceddad #depression #loveofmylife

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disfordivorced · 4 years

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Blog #1 - Bombs Over Bad Dad

Ok...I’m not really a bad father. It just sounded catchy. I’m actually a pretty good father to be honest. I can’t really say the same about my matrimonial skills. Obviously. This is a blog about divorce. So, ignore the title, but welcome. It's nice to have ya.

Before I give the background on why my wife and I are splitting up, I should probably explain why I’m documenting this journey from being a failure to (hopefully) becoming a better person.

Selfishly, I’m writing this for me. I need this. I need some catharsis in my life. I’m tired of crying. I’m sick of not eating. Most of all, I’m dying to get my thoughts and feelings in check. It hasn’t even been a week since my wife dropped the D-Bomb on me and I’m desperately seeking to restore my mind. It’s just been racing and swirling and bouncing all around. One minute I’m fine, confident in my abilities to move on with my life. The next minute, I have tears streaming down my face and I can’t stop the thoughts of being a failure and a shitty person that run through my head. I pepper my brain with insults and reminders of things I shouldn’t have said or things I should have done for her. I need to sleep again. I can’t continue this pattern of waking up every few hours to pinch myself and realize that: yep, you’re still a loser. You’re still getting divorced. You’re still going to go back to being poor. You’re still not gonna live with your kids for half their childhood. Way to go, bud. All that anger and apathy really paid off.

Well...that’s enough of that. Hopefully, this blog will help push all that aside. I know there’s still going to be a lot of ups and downs to come, but I wanna start the healing process early. I need to get my mental health running as best I can heading into this. I better start training, cuz I hear these things are more of a marathon than a sprint.

So, let’s compare stories. After all, if you’re still reading a stranger’s blog about being divorced, you’re probably going through one yourself. So here’s mine.

I’m not a good husband. On a bell curve, I’m probably on the backside of the hill, but certainly not at the bottom. I’m difficult to live with. I know that. I’m a little OCD. My wife is not. I’m type A. I don’t care to travel, and I like to work on my house. I didn’t always act like a crusty, old hermit. I used to be a lot of fun. But so did my wife. We kinda settled into our own personalities and they became less and less compatible over the years. I guess...

We have three boys. The two youngest are 5 y/o twins. The oldest boy is almost 8. They’re a lot to handle. They’re the product of two nut-jobs. Do the Punnett Squares if you’re still unsure. We spend most of our time at home yelling or begging. Neither one of us thought we’d ever have kids. Now, we have 3 wild boys. We go from Disney+ to full-blown wrestling matches in no time. My wife and I also have short fuses. It doesn’t take much to agitate us. That’s not the boys’ fault. We’ve just never really gotten better in that area of parenting.

Anyhow, my wife and I have grown apart over the years. I’m still very much in love with her. I would do anything to get a laugh out of her. To get a smile. A kiss. She’s gorgeous. She’s a good mom. She’s everything I wanted in a wife. Yet I still f---ed it up. When she asked me for a divorce the other morning, I knew it was coming. It still stung so bad. I used every ounce of manhood I had not to cry my whole way to work. This is what she does. She has a mean-streak that would make a scorpion blush. She knows just when to strike. Like a verbal boxer, my wife can make a single jab that will sting for days. That morning was no exception. She landed the knockout blow. There I lay, on my bedroom floor, crying. My mom in the room down the hall didn’t have a clue. She was in town for her annual visit. Cold. Calculated. My wife dropped me to the canvas.

Her main reason is the deterioration of our relationship. She not-so-kindly let me know that she’s felt like this for the past ten years. We’ve been married for eleven and together for seventeen. Our oldest is eight. You do the math. I can’ t explain it. I can’t make sense of it. I called her a coward for not pulling the plug in 2010 when I was working in another state, 400 miles away from her. It was an interesting way to spend our second year of marriage. She agreed. She knows I was right on that.

Her secondary motive for wanting to divorce was my issues. I’m not going to go into her own personality flaws. It’s not necessary at this point. She’s correct about mine. I have anger management issues. I’m attending weekly counseling for that. It wasn’t enough. I’ll still see them through, though because I enjoy them. Prior to that, I sought counseling at her request. I attended three sessions before my therapist decided that I was fine. Clearly, she was incorrect about that. I don’t think my wife believes me. I’ll put that on my life, though. She felt that most of my anger issues stemmed from my absent father (obviously). She also felt like most of our marital issues were normal and that there was nothing to worry about. A month later, my wife asked to split up. Damn.

Her last concern was the kids. She thinks we’re terrible role models for what a healthy relationship should look like. IDK...I guess she’s right. We don’t fight all the time. It’s more like when we do, it's just a lot of hyperbola and shouting. So, she’s not completely wrong about that. We need to be better. We never learned how to fight like civil adults. We’re immature and condescending. We’re mean. Then we make up. It’s just a cycle that she’s ready to break. She’s probably not wrong about that, either.

I’ll dive into more details about our struggles and inconsistencies in a later blog. I just wonder what others’ stories are. How similar are we? If you’re the one who initiated the divorce, did you ever regret it? Did you proceed despite these doubts? I’m interested to know. If you made it this far, please leave a comment. I’d love to hear from you. Thanks for reading.

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wheelchair-hustle · 1 year

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realchrisilluminati · 5 years

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In all honesty, when an incident like the one in this note happened in college, I'd usually just hide in my room until someone else took care of it. ⁣ ⁣ Unfortunately, you can't do that in parenting. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ Now when the kids wake up in the middle of the night, it's word vomit, and all the things freaking them out in life showing up in their dreams. ⁣ ⁣ Vomit is much easier to deal with. ⁣ ⁣ ---⁣ #newbaby #divorceddad #family #parenting #lifewithkids⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #parentinglife #fatherhood #notes #messagewithabottle #fathersofinstagram ⁣#tbt #throwback https://www.instagram.com/p/B16BfT9AFcI/?igshid=g1n4vfzgbxf5

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1yearofsingle · 4 years

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If you don’t lead a healthy life for you, at least lead a healthy life for your child. . #quote #quotes #quotation #mothers #fathers #single #singleparent #singlemom #singledad #dads #moms #toxic #divorce #divorcedmom #divorceddad #healthy #healing #truth #verytrue #wednesday #1Yos https://www.instagram.com/p/B4hWyGrHWaW/?igshid=lscs3e8m5i9w

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later69-blog · 5 years

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I can drink anyone to a 6

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coachnanda9 · 1 year

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👫 For whatever reason.. Have you ever felt not good enough to connect with someone? Follow these simple steps ⬇️ 🎯 Bring clarity of what it is that stops you 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️Question yourself if it’s true or an unhealthy barrier you’ve created 💡Change it if you can, otherwise accept it if you cannot 🥰 Learn self talk of self-belief and confidence ☕️ 🍷Start with asking for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine 😊 If it’s a yes, have fun! 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️ If it’s a no, that’s ok You’re you, you’re unique, and you’re amazing. Someone out there is looking for someone exactly like you 💃🕺 #goodenough #havefun #connect #authentic #genuine #clarity #unhealthybarriers #unhealthyfear #selfdoubt #selfdoubtbegone #confidence #confident #you #single #singleguy #singlegirl #singlemen #singlewomen #singlemum #singlemoms #singledad #singledads #divorcedmom #divorceddad #divorcedmums #divorcequotes #divorcesupport https://www.instagram.com/p/CpIHV1nPvSp/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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