#do not derail

[ablueberryblogs]

I don't know what trans man need to hear this but you're allowed to be angry. It doesn't make you evil. You are allowed to experience all possible emotions without apology and still be a good man.

*this is about trans men specifically, do not derail. You are free to make your own post*

#ftm #trans man #trans rights #transandrophobia #anti transmasculinity #this is about trans men having their manhood policed #all the people expressing themselves and saying thank you in the rbs i see you and i love you #trans liberation #do not derail #gender essentialism #bioessentialism #THIS IS ABOUT TRANS MEN DO NOT DERAIL

[infectiouspiss]

his thousand yard stare and flat ass have captivated me mind and soul

#bishop.txt #THIS IS ABOUT MIKEY WAY BASSIST IN MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE #DO NOT DERAIL

[thedisablednaturalist]

How to not derail a physically disabled person's post -guide for abled neurodivergents

Hey this is a huge problem and a ton of my and other peoples posts about physical disabilities have been getting overrun with comments making it about mental illness and completely derailing the post.

Here's some things to think about before adding a comment/reply onto a physically disabled person's post:

Is the person talking about disabilities in general? Or are they only talking about physical disabilities?

Do they say specifically that neurodivergent people are welcome to comment? Or do they have a banner or tag that says DO NOT DERAIL

Check the comments and reblogs that are currently there. Are they already overrun with people making the same points you are? Are physically disabled voices getting drowned out?

Is the post tagged with cripplepunk only? (Aka not neuropunk or madpunk)

What is your addition adding to the conversation? How is it related to the original post? Is it shifting the conversation or generalizing it?

Did you actually read and internalize the post or did you only focus on adding your point of view.

Who is the intended audience for the post? Is it you? Are you listening or arguing?

Are you using their language for yourself?

Could the addition stand on its own as a separate post? (If so it probably should)

Think about how you would feel if someone did that to your post and everyone only talked about their problems and ignored your original statement. Think about how angry you'd be if they then said "you're not allowed to get mad cuz I said I wasn't derailing! I love you people!"

Also these questions can and should apply to other posts made by people who are frequently talked over (people of color, fat people, etc.) No your adhd autism does not count. There is a long history on this site of neurodivergent people talking over and taking over entire disability spaces and the problem persists today. This problem is why cripplepunk was created in the first place.

Yes mental illness deserves to be talked about. I'm proudly neurodivergent and often reblog posts from neurodivergent blogs. But you are able to make your own posts, you don't need to take over ours, especially when we are specifically pointing out how our physical disabilities differ from mental disabilities.

Also respect when someone asks you to please delete your addition. Mistakes happen what matters is how you respond to them. Learn from it and move on. Don't cry about the meanie cripples "censoring" you.

#wrenfea.exe #im gonna end up on so many blocklists for this #cripplepunk #chronic disability #chronic pain #spoonie #disability #chronic illness #cpunk #physical disability #physically disabled #do not derail

[canonically47]

i fucking hate that i can’t escape romance anywhere it’s always the ultimate human experience for so many people which fictional character do you want outside your door holding a bouquet of roses these initials are meant to be together find out the birthday of your soulmate books with the best romance take the test to find out when you will have your first kiss girls what do boys do that is secretely attractive stop shut up stop it just shut the hell up

#i am so exhausted #aro #aromantic #arospec #aromanticism #aromance #aro pride #actually aro #actually aromantic #this post is about aromanticism #do not derail

[sesamie]

he was a dyke..she was a fag...can i make it anymore obvious

#this post is about tumblr users linafication and canolatie in that order #do not derail

[tubularfem]

Happy pride and thank you to the gay, lesbian and bisexual elders who fought and died so that we could have a better life. To have the opportunity to be with the people we love openly.

gay people fought for their own liberation, are directly responsible for their own liberation. Implying we owe anything to someone else is deceptive and ahistorical!

#Lesbian pride #lesbian #gay pride #Gay #bisexual #This post is about same sex attraction only #Do not derail

[ridibulous]

I'm having a bit of a normal one tonight so

• shoutout to hc-did systems who don't have a fucking clue what all their programs are or how exactly they work or how they're triggered and may constantly be living like they're walking on eggshells.

• shoutout to hc-did systems who have no fucking idea what the full extent of their trauma is and are terrified to figure out more and/or want to learn everything that happened so badly.

• shoutout to hc-did systems who don't know or understand everything about their innerworld. fuck it shoutout to hc-did systems who just Don't Know in general!

• shoutout to hc-did systems who don't have any "real" or "physical" proof of their ramcoa besides their own memories.

• shoutout to hc-did systems whos perpetrators never got a lick of punishment for what they did to you or others.

• shoutout to hc-did systems who actively want or are trying to get their perpetrators punished for what they did.

• shoutout to hc-did systems who can't have their perpetrators punished for what they did.

• shoutout to hc-did systems who might still be in danger. real or perceived.

this ramcoa shit is so confusing and exhausting and horrible and lonely and fucking (re)traumatizing and it's so hard. i'm tired I just want people to believe me sometimes but how much do I believe other people believe me when I share the sheer horrors that rear their ugly heads in our mind. from alters popping up or a memory just appearing out of nowhere to just whole somatic flashbacks. how much can we take? how much DID we take?

#hc did #ramcoa #tbmc #hc did system #ramcoa system #programmed system #programmed did #endos dni #endos fuck off #ESPECIALLY for this post #do not derail #this is like half of a vent post. I think

[midnight-soulless-system]

I think it's both sad and hilarious to see the difference between how small children react to disabled people and how teenagers/adults react to discabled people.

Small children are just curious and want to understand why and how things work, so of course when I'm walking with my cane and limping and taking walking breaks, they're going to be confused. Sometimes their questions are blunt but it's obvious they're just curious and mean well.

And then there's everyone else. They don't even want to know about why you're disabled or anything, they just want proof that you are allowed to be disabled (like that's a fucking thing). And every time they say shit like "well prove it. Prove that you're disabled" I just look at them with a confused face. Who the fuck do you think you are, demanding to see my personal medical records, move the fuck out of the disabled parking space you abled piece of shit.

#I am just so mad today #Cripplepunk #This post is about physical disabilities #do not derail #crip punk #cripple punk #AMPS #amplified musculoskeletal pain syndrome #ouch #spoonie #chronically ill #cane user #chronic illness #soulless speaks #invisible illness

[love-me-love-my-weirdness]

If I could talk to myself four years ago I’d say it’s okay. It’s okay that you’re disabled. It’s okay that you’re going to need mobility aids for the rest of your life. It’s okay that you can’t do things other people can. It’s okay to be angry. It’s okay to call out ableism. It’s okay that you’ll never be “acceptable” as a disabled person. It’s okay to be a cripple.

Accepting your disability takes time. It’s okay.

#this is about physical disabilities #do not derail #physically disabled #wheelchair user #wheelchair #ambulatory wheelchair user #cane user #cripplepunk #cpunk #actually disabled #disability pride #disability #chronic illness #chronic fatigue #chronically ill #fnd

[sharkgirldick]

What another beautiful day to love and respect fat women, especially fat women of color and fat trans women.

Have a wonderful day ladies 💚

#text post #shark thoughts #I LOVE AND RESPECT FAT MEN (esp fat men of color and fat trans men) AND FAT NBS (you know what goes here) BUT THIS POST IS ABOUT WOMEN #DO NOT DERAIL

[revengeromance]

im enraptured by his wet Italian boy swag and his willingness to fling his frail body around dangerously at random

#Frank Iero #do not derail #Leo’s greatest hits

[weallpartyatybcpatricksfuneral]

you don't like trumpet??? doot doot????

#THIS POST IS ABOUT SOUL PUNK BY PATRICK STUMP AND WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE BY FALL OUT BOY #DO NOT DERAIL #fall out boy #fob #patrick stump #soul punk

[cpunkwitch]

!!!!!!You shouldn't have to prove to the world why you're with existing.!!!!!!

No, not even to yourself.

You are worth it because you're already here. You exist. Thats enough. You have the right to exist just like everyone and everything else that does.

You exist. You're worth every part.

We shouldn't have to prove ourselves to the world or anyone. It's gotten so bad we even feel like we owe ourselves proof as much as the word feels we owe them a reason to prove we're useful.

You don't have to prove anything. You don't owe anything

This world is not obligated to anything from us.

We exist, and that's that.

[THIS POST IS MADE FOR THE (PHYS) DISABLED COMMUNITY, AND IS ABOUT BEING DISABLED. DO NOT DERAIL.]

#disability blogging #cass rambles #actually disabled #physically disabled #physical disability #cpunk #cripplepunk #disabled #cpunk blog #cripple punk #chronic disability #disabilities #disability #disabled people #physical illness #positivity #cripple positivity #crippled anger #crippled #cripple posting #phys disabled #disabled positivity #disability positivity #cripple pride #disabled pride #disability pride #do not derail #cripple punk blog #cripplepunk blog

[bluwus-art]

Some Kaito's <3

#just sketches i colored in #nothing special #my art #kaito #vocaloid #vocaloid kaito #kaito vocaloid #my kaito #clear and blue #clear is such a bean #but blue is the og bean #cats practice doodle dump #MY BOYS ARE ALWAYS SPECIAL TO ME #DO NOT DERAIL #nothing special in the sence that its not fully planned out artwork #just a little doodle doo

[gaytedlasso]

What is with the term “he’s a man’s man.” What is that supposed to even mean. Why is he a man for men. Because men want to fuck him? Be fucked by him??

#this is about jensen ackles #do not derail #jackles mention #el.pdf

[ugly-anarchist]

As an aromantic trans person I want to talk about something I experience that I'm not sure if anyone else does?

Whenever someone assumes I feel romantic attraction or implies I have a crush it's the exact same feeling as getting misgendered for me.

The only way I can describe it is aromantic dysphoria. It's such an intense feeling of discomfort and agitation. It's extremely upsetting.

I'm genuinely curious if any other aros have felt this?

#you dont necessarily have to be trans to relate #i just relate it to my feelings of being misgendered #aro #aromantic #alloaro #do not derail