#dont say gay bullshit

[ariseastrae]

Why is it that people accept that someone can be certain they want to end up in a relationship, yet they can not accept the idea that a person can be certain don't want a relationship?

#asexual #aromantic #ace spectrum #aromantism #queer #lgbt #lgbt+ #aroace #im just late night thinking about how my brother is always like #/maybe one day youll realise u want a relationship and thats okay/ #any time i mention even the slightest thing thats barely even connected to being aroace #yet if i had told him i was bi or gay he would never say any of that #why can people be certain they want a relationship yet others can not be certain they dont #its bullshit #and im just fucking tired #i understand the whole amatonormativity #i get how our society and media has impacted our way of thinking and acting #i just need to scream this into the void #or it would eat my up inside till the shells started cracking

[majimassqueaktoy]

Look at that chilling entrance. Half performance art, half raw power.

#kiryu smiling kills me #he loves majima's bullshit and its great #ALSO WHY IS HE SO CUTE WHEN HE SMILES IN THE LAST GIF?? #majima dont be cute thats ILLEGAL #goro majima #kazuma kiryu #yakuza kiwami 2 #yakuzaedit #yakuza gifs #kazumaji #rggedit #ryu ga gotoku #flashing gif #imagine being the announcer guy and seein ya boss do this gay little jig and youre just like... tf am i meant to say about that #um chilling. artistic. powerful

[especiallyhaytham]

I ironically-unironically love David Cage/Quantic Dream games. They're so unintentionally bad, so passionately talentless. I delight in his weird little god-complex unrealities where everything is tainted by egomania and narcissism. The man is delusional and needs to be put down.

#david cage #quantic dream #detroit become human #heavy rain #rant #// #no but he's actually a shit person #if one thing is worse than Ubisoft its David and his empire of bullshit #dont get me wrong i actually love detroit #but mostly because there is so much Wrong with it #man really made a whole game convincing us that computers deserve human rights fsfsfsfsfsfs #POC deserve human rights #androids and AI do not. they are not human. they are so cosmically Not Human it's beyond perception #i say this as a former IT consult. David Cage is a moron. #i love writing about his twink robots having sweaty gay sex to spite how homophobic he is

[timeisacephalopod]

The pushback to the term "cultural Christianity" from atheists is real odd to me because, as someone who has been an atheist since 13, only ever went to church a handful of times never with my own family (made a note never to sleep over at that friends house on a Saturday again bc I HATED church it smelled like shit, was boring, pews are uncomfortable as fuck, and the religious people I knew were all wildly misogynistic and I've never been here for being told I was less of a person for being Born Like This), and generally had no actual connection to Christianity in a meaningful way but still only knows Christian mythology, has been steeped in Christian values I had to untangle, and my religious understandings are still deeply Christian.

Like Ive never paid attention to the bible, church, Jesus, Christian teachings, or whatever but if you asked me about any religion the one I'll reliably know the most about is Christianity. I don't know why atheists are offended by being called culturally Christian because they have bad blood with the religion because like sorry bruh that doesn't mean you're less indoctrinated by Christian values if the culture you grew up in is predominantly Christian. In fact I'd say that religion being this ubiquitous in the culture regardless of anyone's consent to exactly ONE religion being shoved down our throats is reason to team up with other religious folks who ALSO don't like being constantly evangelized to by the culture at large, not a reason to throw a fit because you don't like being tied to a religion that is so ingrained into the culture that shit like "oh my god" and "Jesus Christ" are common expressions of surprise regardless of how atheist you are. Like surely I'm not the only atheist to notice the shocking amount of cultural religious shit that works it's way into my life and speech despite having not set foot in a church since I was like 10, and I can't remember the last time I was in one before that.

Idk man cultural Christianity seems like a pretty damn useful term to describe my relationship with a religion I never fully bought into and then actively rejected as a child yet still hold weird connections to and knowledge of just because Christianity is so baked into the culture I grew up in like it or not. If you want to be mad, be mad at the Christians who stole your freedom from religion from you, not usually religious minorities who discuss cultural Christianity and how it damages them too.

#winters ramblings #like breh i HATE how much christian bullshit ive had to detangle from my life. like the idea of sin and punishment for example #id say a LOOOOOT of discussion regardless of religion leans towards a Christian understanding of the pridon system #prison is basically a recreation of hell on earth where youre supposed to go to burn off your sins in your 10x10 cell #now i gotta say not all Christians buy inti the styke of punishment and sin i know normal well adjusted Christians #but for the most part a HUGE portion of shit comes with a helping of cultural Christianity. but prison is probably the best example #hell any discussion of punishment relies on a distinctly christian flavor of 'atone for your sin or be doomed forever" #repubs bitch about so called cancel culture but thats just how Christians act towards sin lmao they do it too #except they choose shit you didnt ACTIVITY make a choice about like being gay to condem you to hell. #cant be mad that twitter cancels people for small shit like a crap joke if you actively subscribe to the same belief system #and are only mad bc that logic is applied to YOU now. anyway i could do without this logic in activist spaces #or ANY spaces being doomed forever over sin is only one way to do Christianity. like damn can the ones who like #rehabilitation and justice and helping the poor at least be the ones in charge?? #regardless ive never been a Christian and barely have a meaningful connection to the religion. whuch is why i find it rather salient #that i still have this deep connection and knowledge of something i ACTIVELY REJECTED at 13 #do you know HOW MUCH i had to have been indoctrinated into this shit with as LITTLE of a connection to organized religion as i do?? #the fact i have ANY connection at all is kind if fucked honestly it shows you really REALLY do not get to choose #your religious leanings unless youre actively ANOTHER RELIGION BESIDES CHRISTIAN otherwise tough tiddy #you get to be Christian By Default and i don't like it either. but when i see jewish people talking about it #i know EXACTLY what they mean because i dont like my connection to a religion i never believed in and rejected at 13 either #i don't like that my choice to reject Christianity was stolen from me by such a ubiquitously christian culture #im not mad at jews for pointing this out im mad at christians for stealing my freedom of choice

[whynotimtired]

And they were playing eulogy over it and and and

Next

#rewatching the 'The First I love You' scene for this and i literally cannot believe people think that was romantic #i have never seen someone less into a kiss in my entire life #he was a literal brick wall thats actually insane #REMEMBER WHEN MILKVAND BLAMED FINN FOR THAT #THEY WERE LIKE OH HE JUST HATES MILLIE HE JUST HATES KISSING MILLIE #WHAT #mike wheeler #stranger things #el hopper #jane hopper #mike wheeler is gay #byeler #byler #'the wheelers dont know how to say i love you cause their parents dont love each other' as if nancy didnt say i love you to steve #as if she didnt tell him she loved him over and over only to say it was bullshit fake conformist shit and then get with jonathan #who she loves and says i love you to. #i love you music cues i love you eulogy playing over mike/el fight i love you steverobin song playing over elmike #also steve saying he could just. work at his dads company and itll set them up for life was Nancy's literal nightmare #he literally handed her a note that said 'wanna be just like your parents?' and she RAN #nancy tried. she tried to be that. mike is still trying. its all bullshit and they both know it #remember when i said i had a huge photoset i was preparing? yeah this is like...some of it #im doing it in chunks as to not overwhelm the masses dksnndnd

[sam-and-some]

See I would have fucking loved an orpheus and eurydice style tragedy, if Dean had gone to the empty to get Cas back and made a deal but he looked back and that's why cas got sucked into the empty. Losing Cas because he loves him too much. Losing Cas because he was so excited to see him again. Or losing him because he was scared Cas wouldn't even want to come with him and he looked back to check.

#i dont mind tragedy just make it poetic #bury your gays dont delete them #dean would have fought for cas and thats final #“but they say hes happy in heaven in the finale” #thats bullshit #supernatural #castiel #destiel #cas supernatural #dean winchester #spn #deancas

[soldier-poet-king]

My father, talking abt how one of his co-workers is maybe autistic. My brother, immediately, well as long as he's high functioning. My dumb ass trying to explain why the term high functioning can be harmful and while a lot of professionals still use it, autism self advocates are trying to push away from it. Deliberately trying to explain this without using any sort of "fancy" terminology or strange concepte. My aunt, disdainfully, ugh all this terminology it's changing everyday I can't keep up.

Being assertive and Present is going. So well.

#franposting #why do i fuckin bother #trying to be like. a person. and a good person. its not going well #this is why i shut up and dont say anything #unless im drunk or extremely mad #i will simply. stay out of the way and pretend i dont exist #its easier #and im tired of being disappointed even in my quote unquote more resonable family members (ie. my aunt) #how at the end of all things is my mother the most resonable open minded person #not to b like terrible hallmark movies and primetime tv shows have changed her #but like. even the bullshit tokenism on tv. helps sometimes? my mother is like. oh i saw a gay/trans/disabled/etc person in this shoe #show* and suddenly shes like. even the slightest bit more accepting or able to see them as human beings #its so fuckin stupid. and conflicting #and i still hate her so much of the time. she caused so much of my trauma #god i need to get out of here but god everything is so expensive and im a coward #and im afraid i dont know how to be a person on my own anymore. if i ever really did

[nyxi-pixie]

mikes whole 'a fight you cant come back from' thing is so interesting bc u would expect a dude to care more about preserving a 2yr long relationship with someone hes supposed to love???

like it just kinda suggests hes Already given up without even trying to fix it. and like yeah its mike hes stupid but hes not dumb. he knows How to fix it bc its the simplest thing in the world like he just needs to tell her he loves her. he knows thats how he was supposed to fix it bc he fucking says that. 'if id said that thing'. but he wont 'say that thing' because its a fight he cant come back from.

if vol 2 he just turns around and is like oh em jee e| loml ilysm it wouldnt just be lazy writing it would be fucking stupid.

#mike wheeler is never beating the gay allegations #sorry homie i just #i know what you are michael #idk i just think its funny how fucking obvious they made it that he isnt romantically in love w her. #and like a decent portion of the general audience is still so blinded by heteronormativity #that they start bending over backwards coming up with bullshit that doesnt even make sense #'oh poor wittle wheeler siblings cant say ily bc their parents dont love each other' #even tho no one fucking said that abt nance when the stancy fight first happened #and like even if it Was true for nancy #(its not. she just didnt love him lol she called their whole relationship bullshit. thats not 'she cant say it🥺' behaviour) #it would Only make sense narratively for her bc shes the only one that talks abt their loveless marriage #we dont even know if mike the oblivious dumbass is AWARE that its a loveless marriage #(he probably is but its never actually stated and if they wanted to pursue that storyline for him ud assume thered be a reference earlier) #idk i just think its funny that they say we are reaching but then literally pull up like that stretchy guy from fantastic four #got the ExtendaLimbs+ for Maximum Reach #idk its kinda funny #anyway #mike wheeler is gay #and in live with will byers #byler

[arcadequeerz]

I just do not give a single shit about lg-bt-q disc-ourse anymore.

#Cade.Txts #sorry i jsut do not care. #i dont give a fuck about what flag someone does or doesn't use #i dont care about what people call themselves. stop trying to decide shit for othrr people #shut up and fuck off n leave people alone. u dont havr to 'understand' to be respectful #Idc if people use the blue 'gay' flag who cares. use whatever flag u want. #shut the fuck up about mspec gay people we're doing nothing wrong n if i have someone try n start #some shit w me about how i personally identify i will maul them through the god damn internet. shut up. #eat shit. i dont owe a explanation to u about why i'm abro ply gay n if u demand me to explain #im going to tell you to fuck off. #who the fuck cares what people call themselves. u might not like being called queer or whatever n thats cool #but some people do and thats nit a fucking slight aganst u. #and i say 'you' as just in general i guess. this isn't pointed at a specific person. #i dread pride month every year because people r going to throw some shitfit about something snd i jsut #i dont care. can we care about shit that fucking matters instead. #if u legimately call urself a exclusionist in 2023 your a shitstain and do nothing for the community. #grow the fuck up or get the fuck off the internet. #sorry i saw shit n i got mad lol. i'm so tired of peoples bullshit. worry about shit tht matters n not #how someone else identifies or what someone calls themselves- or what flag someone uses. #i'm just going to be unabashedly full of rage now. #i'm queer n trans n im pissed the end.

[v-arbellanaris]

so fuckin late i just found out abt the matt healy nonsense and im fuckin disassociating bro x

#decades of work by grassroots organisers just to get the extremists to look away and pay no mind to queer people #so they can just fucking live. when public canings and beatings and jail time STILL HAPPENS for being queer bc it's listed as a crime #imagine doing that shit in a country where the rec 'treatment' for being gay is conversion therapy #imagine doing that. putting that spotlight on the thousands of people who are just barely surviving by relying on living in the shadows #while they chip away at the social constraints impeding progress bit by bit. imagine doing that. saying that. and then fucking off home #and ignoring all the homophobia and transphobia in YOUR country because it doesn't matter presumably bc its Worse when its nasty brown ppl #going BACK to your own homophobic transphobic country. leaving the thousands of people left exposed by that limelight. #im not even going to touch on ''im taking your money'' and the inherently disgusting colonialist bullshit in that #expecting him to donate to local queer charities is too much when he's a piece of shit #but jfc. and all his fucking insane fans going queer malaysians who have to live w the consequences of matt's actions who complain abt that #are suffering from internalised homophobia & i have no sympathy for you #firstly. queer malaysians saying 'stop - this is not advocacy it's actively threatening us' is not internalised homophobia #secondly. explain why you have no sympathy for queer people with internalised homophobia. #like. explain. as if we weren't all questioning and struggling. as if we come out of the womb just lucky enough to Know without a doubt. #as if we dont exist in societies and families that shape us into something we're not until we can't recognise ourselves #like explain why you have no sympathy for your fellow queers and act like they're the enemy. explain why you're siding with some cishet #trash white man actively endangering brown qpoc in the THOUSANDS in a drunken fit on stage. over the qpoc actually affected by this. #explain it. go on. #fucking sickeningggg it's SICKENING #tbd

[princekirijo]

2024 might not be my year but it is gonna be the year I start treating myself with even a little bit of respect

#mark my words boy i WILL start self respecting #brought to you by some bullshit happened last weekend and ive been doing some thinking #self isolating convincing myself everyone secretly hates me it WILL stop i cant keep doing this to myself #and i will set boundaries as well!! even if im terrified of doing so!! fuck!! #on a serious note i am so so tired of being so cruel to myself i really can't keep living like this huh #ive been real quiet on here lmao (i think i actually have no idea if people perceive me as being quiet/chatty/whatever) heres why #this is all based on irl stuff btw i always feel i need to say that idk why #but yeah anyways i dont want to jinx anything but like for me personally the only way is up. right #i dont really have anywhere i can say this irl so i will tell the gay people on my laptop (affectionate) as usual lmao

[aromanticannibal]

I saw someone complain about how apparently raine was created only to be eda's love interest and op was like hoho ofc the only nb character is a love interest with no character development and like.

I'm sorry I am physically unable to see this as a problem. raine is good representation, like they just are. not ever queer character needs to be incredibly important to the plot to be good rep? also it's not like raine is a side character that was thrown in in the back for cheap rep, they have an important role for eda's developpment and theyre literally the head of the rebellion against belos (aside from eda who rebels against everything). and THEY'RE NOT THE ONLY NON BINARY CHARACTER EITHER?? masha I think is their name is nb too (and they are a very very side character but we already have raine it's not like they're the only nb character again) and the collector uses he/they pronouns im pretty sure. good lord.

I want to bang my head against a wall. how do you Live.

it reminds me of when I saw someone saying TOH is shit queer representation and racist (??? somehow) because it doesn't do enough? bro? the main character is a neurodivergent OPENLY bisexual black latina girl. what do you want MORE. she's in a relationship with her lesbian girlfriend, the world girlfriend was said, trey kiss and hold hand. They put so much diversity in this show it got fucking canceled.

#like a fair criticism is people complaining that willow is blasian but doesn't really look black at all #I get that people would be mad #about that #but like. #urg #I complained about the other person who said the show was somehow racist and like. even if I never heard anyone else ever say anything #(apart from the willow thing) #I'm still white so if there is something I probably won't be able to see #it #but I very much am queer and if you're trying to tell me toh isn't good rep you're bullshitting me #THE GAY AND TRANS FUCKERS DONT NEED TO GO THROUGH HELL TO BE GOOD REP #raine is just chilling #what the fuck did op want the creators to do good lord #this show has so much rep and its just stuff they said on Twitter once or smth raine and masha are clearly nb #eda and luz are clearly bisexual we have canon bi flag in toh #I'm going to go insane #tw rant #rant tw #I'm so sorry if this ends up in the t/oh tag

[prolibytherium]

This is going to sound fake as fuck but a young and online-looking employee at a thrift store complemented my IASIP shirt (adequately subtle one I found at goodwill) and briefly chatted with me about the latest season (which was fun), before they apparently clocked me as sufficiently online and launched into talking about shipping (scariest fucking moment of my life)

#It's not like I DONT have general opinions on the matter of who's gay and how in the poop show like I'm only human #but being hit with that shit randomly in public was like 'OBJECTIVE: SURVIVE' appearing on my HUD #Thrift store person was gunning for Charlie and Mac as a couple. Which happens to be the only ostensibly compatible #pair where I don't see any non-platonic elements whatsoever so I could barely even bullshit anything to say it was like #‘Yeah thats kinda gay. a little. Yeah. Uh-Huh. Yeah. Yeah totally. Yep. Uh-huh. Yea they did get called fags. Ok have a good day'

[thecrowthatdraws]

CW: Creepy/ Disturbing imagery :0 

AHHHHH one of my BIG projects for uni I've been working on for a couple weeks :0 

#I really dont like realism #but here we are #dawg i never wanna hear anyone say that the only reason people draw cartoony is cause they cant draw realism #like shut the fuck up #get out of here with your art elitism bullshit #i dont draw illustrations cause i cant draw realism #i draw illustratively cause its fun for me #realism just awakens my horrible perfectionism and i end up never really satisfied and super annoyed #idk im so tired and burnt out of school man #i just wanna go back to drawing gay shit #art #digital art #Krita

[todayisafridaynight]

I’d say they’re equally gay, but Mine has more screen time for his gayness and Majima’s gay only appears when Kiryu is in range or if he’s REALLY enjoying shit. Ironically Mine is gay, but free wheras Majima is somehow semi-closeted due to the writers.

bro that's what im sayinnnnn like what is the screentime/homosexual behavior ratio

#snap chats #it depends on what you consider 'homosexual behavior' esp when it comes to mine #like can we consider mine calling kanda and reaffirming daigo's fine as homosexual behavior #i raise that question because mine visibly relaxes when talking about daigo when the possibility of him recovering's high #i was about to say the whole 'daigo-san- i mean the sixth chairman' shit too but thats the same scene where he says he loves daigo #SOOOOO #like. i have to be such a hater but kazu/maj| doesnt hit for me #like again YK1 is an exception but every game after that majima's infatuation doesnt feel as potent and its more colleague respect #'colleague respect' as if he wasnt throwing hands with saejima for haruka's sake cause he knew that's what kiryu would want #that the last time i can think of something fruity with majima beyond yk1 tho #involving kiryu anyway #im rambling my night's still insane so im trying to distract myself by sayin all this bullshit #the math tells me mine's more gay tho please dont shoot me

[senseiwu]

Thought about the reaction from the "go woke go broke" crowd if the hunchback of notre dame came out today and nearly threw up/cried

#i wish i could escape these pkeple but #*gestures at my dad* #mr. 'disney is social engineering/propaganda' #please help me #i cant talk to him anymore #all he ever talks about is politics and 'politics' #he says its politics but being gay isnt politics shut up shut up shut up #i asked him to watch encanto with me and he started going 'is it all political bullshit propaganda' #'they RUINED obi wan!' #you dont even care about the damn franchise anymore shut the fuck up #i cant tqke this i cant #thank god i dont live there anymore #thank god i rarely see him