#fuck why are women so pretty

[toytulini]

listen im ace and im pro kink at pride and whatever, but the way some of yall are wording your posts in response to the backlash against it is uh. really taking me back to the ace shitcourse era.

yall know theres nothing wrong with being a "virgin", right? that its not inherently shameful to have not had sex, to never have sex, even if youre not ace, even if you do want to have sex someday, like, its fine that you haven't had sex?

maybe if your problem is that theyre trying to police your behavior and shame you for expressing your sexuality, you can say that? instead of resorting to "haha stupid virgin gets no bitches" like my god. do you not hear how fucking regressive that attitude is? i know, i know, youre "joking".

get a better joke

#toy txt post #god im going to regret this post im gonna regret it so much i can feel it in my bones #let it flop..........pls #internalize my message let it sink in and understand what i am saying and then let the post flop #i say. knowing the ppl who need to see such a message are the ones who will make me regret this post and regrwt not having #1 million bajillion disclaimers #virgin is in quotes bc its a bullshit made up stupid purity culture concept anyway and quite frankly i hate even seeing the word #disclaimer: the previous sentence is not me saying that it is a slur for asexuals. it is me a single individual saying this specific word #grosses me out to read and see everywhere when its a stupid bullshit binary made up or at least historically largely used #to shame largely women and i dont know why we're still using it in 2023 #and ive just been. seeing such an uptick in this whole like. attitude? lately and like #im ace im minorly sex repulsed. mostly about anything sex at me bad. other adults sex at each other consensually? go wild #i like to think im pretty chill about it. i try to be. i think its fine ig to be like 'my meat is huge i fuck so much so good' #like okay not my thing but good for you. love that for you #but then some of yall have started turning it back around back to. 'haha your meat so small and shriveled you get no bitches' #'haha stupid incel virgin' like okay. didnt realize we all went back to fucking. middle school but okay #god im gonna run out of tine to get ready for my thing writing this stupid post UGH evil #but like idk we've kinda circled back to being like haha being a virgin still is stupid and silly and shameful #and if im quite honest. i do think the acecourse played a part in that bc i felt like we were making good progress in like #hey guys is fine to not have sex ever if you dont want to its fine to not want sex its fine #and then aphobes went fucking rabid on us and splintered and destroyed online communities all over but especially on tumblr #and so many aces went back in the closet we stopped talking about it we stopped spreading awareness and now this stupid goddamn like #and now this stupid bullshit attitude is back where its like funny to call someone a virgin as an insult but like no bro trust me its okay #its okay for me to do it bc im a hot queer person with huge meat instead of a cisstraight frat bro with huge meat #? like you know the issue was the behavior right? not the fact that it was straight dudes saying it? its bc the thing being said was shitty? #you know you can dunk on the puritan bitches trying to police your behavior at pride without getting us as collateral damage right #stop making me read that stupid ugly ass word ur not cool or funny #whatever #if you come on to this post to start shit i will not only block you but as many of your mutuals and followers as i can find. i will scroll #i will block this entire fucking website if i need to do not test me. i am exhausted and the acecourse ate up all my tolerance in 2015.

[ivymarquis]

How am I supposed to go out into the world and attempt to date, knowing that John Price is a figment of our imaginations and not real. What is even the point

#why cant he be real #i am sobbing I am crying I am screaming #im throwing up #john price #plus like #imma be so real with yall #my local dating pool is just yuppy assholes who think making money is a personality trait #crypto bros #republicans and libertarians #which are diet republicans #like I am a bleeding heart liberal and I have lgbtq family members #i will not be bringing a transphobe home for Christmas it’s not happening #which you’d think thst wouldn’t narrow my dating pool THAT much #but locally????? #babes I am in the fucking trenches #and Im not quite ready to broach dating women irl BUT THEY ARE SO PRETTY #Im just gonna to munches in My Nearest Big City and pray to god I strike gold

[elliesbelle]

you baby gays need to woman the fuck up and instead of just calling ellie and abby “pretty,” start calling them handsome

#masc lesbians deserve to be called handsome a lot more #never once called ellie pretty in my life #my wife is fucking hot and handsome and fuck she is so fine #(blah blah blah ‘abby isn’t a canon lesbian so she’s isn’t a masc lesbian’ shut the fuck up) #it felt pretty dykey to me when she had her 8-inch dick all up in me last night #“pretty” should not be the default physical compliment y'all have for women that's why y'all are all rizz-less!!!! #belle speaks

[hella1975]

we may have lost another one to the bisexual hotgirl and straight loserboy agenda but trust i am fighting it comrades 🫡

#IM TRYINGGGGG. the fuck of it all is that we've been going on dates on and off for WEEKS now #and i said to him at the start im not looking for anything serious and there's a chance he might be mugging himself off #bc i am just NOT emotionally available and low and behold we were at the pub the other night and wound up having a pretty #serious talk about how ive really liked getting closer to him and i genuinely enjoy our time together but i just cant see anything #serious coming of it NOT BC OF HIM BC GENUINELY I FEEL LIKE IVE MET MY MATCH WITH THIS BOY #NO ONE IRL CAN BANTER WITH ME LIKE HE CAN AND THAT IS SUCHHH A CRUCIAL BOX TO TICK WITH ME #but i just dont think im mentally or emotionally in the place for a relationship and i dont like him ENOUGH to fight for it #like it's been v illuminating v much that 'you never realise just how mentally ill you are until you try persuing a romantic relationship' #bc DAMN. i feel insane like why cant i just be normal about things and enjoy nice things and people in my life #BUT despite me saying all this to him and TRYING NOT TO BE THE ASSHOLE he has fully admitted that he likes me SO MUCH #that he'd like to keep going on dates and stuff regardless of the end result. like he genuinely just likes my company #and will take it in any capacity he can get he literally SAID that he's whipped for me 😭 #and im like HOW DO I WIN HERE. IF I TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THAT IM AN ASSHOLE BUT CUTTING HIM OFF ISNT FAIR EITHER #AND I LIKE OUR LITTLE DATES AND BEING SPOILED AND HAVING SOMEONE BE A LITTLE OBSESSED WITH ME #SORRY IF THAT MAKES ME A BAD GUY. GOD FORBID WOMEN DO ANYTHING #ughhhhhhh. so yeah we're going on another date tonight. shoot me i dont care!!!! #hella goes to uni

[keepchangingandneverstop]

160 - Hi. I started reading light novels. Keep getting stuck on the most throw-away plot points.

#Hey Anna. I don't get how you're relettering that entire book by hand for a 2nd time when writing the title text for this almost killed me. #light novel #'lace has caught on with peasant women' HOW. HOW COULD THEY POSSIBLY AFFORD THAT CRAFTSMANSHIP?! #IS YOUR ECONOMY THAT GRAND? #even if they made the lace themselves how would they have time to do so? #oh the heroine picked up some lace THAT SHE JUST HAD ON HAND?! and started sewing it on to a skirt?! #But yeah reading novels on your phone turns out to be pretty enjoyable. I get why all those heroines wander into the road now #otome games less so but i just can't stand the dudes in any of them. like they have so much going on. i can't deal with them. #and so many of them are just really mean assholes. like fuck off you don't get to treat the mc that way. go work on yourself

[holysaintscathedral]

The way cishet men are so insecure and entitled to women's bodies that just knowing their partner has been with other men is enough to deeply upset them and make them lose respect and the desire to be with the woman their partnered with. Grow up.

#so you're partner has been with other me #cry me a fucking river #the cishets are at it again #CISHET men specifically are at it again #misogyny #cause that's what the root of this is #sorry its so pathetic to me that women being with other men before them and being pretty experienced upsets cishet dudes #absolutely pathetic #like why do you care so much? get over yourself #women are not objects that get worn out with use #i just think its so weird to that upset over your partners past #like bro they're with you now focus on that

[ovaruling]

veganism is much too extreme but our planet burning and being deforested and overgrazed to nothing is, what, nice and moderate? leisurely and we got plany off time? what kind of casual, slow Sunday morning solution do we have to this very calm issue? yall are too funny

#your children are going to grow up in a wasteland. have fun telling them why #‘i liked cheese tho :(‘ is gonna sound pretty fucking lame when it’s 110 degrees on the first day of summer break #everyone’s just waiting around for corporations to do something. CORPORATIONS. THE THINGS THAT ALWAYS DO RIGHT BY US YEAH? #those selfless entities run by men who care so much about the women disproportionately harmed by this dire situation #famously they care so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #don’t worry they’ll DEFINITELY text back ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #yo i am so capital Pissed today i can’t even breathe lmfaooooo #v #vp

[otherpens]

yes I'm on episode three yes I'm already fuming

#just start S1 of tTUK #annnnnd I do not like how John and Theo behaved like sulky bullies #I knew Imran wasn't going to last long bc he's one of those brilliant bookish kids who is fast-tracked and gets the academic achievements #but then is behind in their social skills development #and that was always gonna bite him in the ass #I don't know why Theo was so immediately against Imran #except maybe a reactionary thing to seeing this kid who tbh looks pretty sheltered #Theo was giving the best defense is a good offense but with zero apparent motivation? #like he expected Imran to come for him so went for Imran first? #and John #just fuck John honestly #the vibes are that gay guy who is also the biggest misogynist you know #like absolutely disgusted by women #appalled that they exist #and idk I guess seething at Aaron for being a fit straight guy #like also his throwaway comment to Tom asking if he's being blinded by his straightness bc Alex is pretty #like jesus imagine if anyone asked him if HE might be being biased in how he behaves towards the handsome men #John could dish it out but I don't think he could take it #The Traitors #spoilers #The Traitors UK

[perenlop]

so funny when i bitch about my brother doing something genuinely horrible and the nt people around are all like “what the fuck…….. how could you get mad at this autistic man………. what if he cant help all the misogyny, did you ever think of that……….. how could you, you must resent him for his autism, i hope you get better soon” and then the actual autistic people around me are like “wow hope that guy dies”

#no joke apparently my dad thinks i have deeply internalized ableism and im in rage that i had to grow up with autistic family #and thats why i hate my brother. when like…. first of all i get along with my other autistic brother just fine. because he’s chill #second of all i got undiagnosed autism but he doesnt know that so. third of all i’ve reiterated time and time again its bc of how he treated #how he treated me growing up as well as what hes done to other people (women) #and in fact i try to be as fair as i can given the circumstances bc i know social awkwardness absolutely intersects with his nastiness somet #sometimes #and i do sympathize with him to an extent for all the ableist treatment he got as a diagnosed kid #like. i dont envy him he truly went through some god awful shit as a kid #but also like…….. he proudly fucked me over time and time again and reiterates that hes proud of that #this guy threw around his power over me pretty frequently and took whatever chance he had to throw me under the bus and belittle me #forgive me for saying but…. i dont think thats an autism thing! i think thats a ‘’shitty human being’’ thing! #dl

[outlawssweetheart]

Some writers/producers/directors have such obvious personal beef with certain characters, and it’s both hilarious and infuriating. Hilarious because of how pathetic it is, but infuriating because of how shitty they treat and talk about the character.

#richie kirsch #RICHIE! OH MY GOD I swear Radio Silence knew some guy they based Richie on who they fucking HATED #because all they do is shit-talk him in interviews and in the damn 6th movie!! #Not to mention that those guys are such obvious Pick Me Guys; it's PATHETIC! 🙄 #I swear they just hate any guys who aren't Chadley angelic; or they act like they do to impress women who are antis. Idk which. 🙄 #Either way it's annoying and pathetic and while *hate* is a strong word... I strongly dislike them. 😒 #ethan landry #Yeah I think they hate Ethan too. Idk why; I can just *feel* it. 😒 #vince schneider #They left him out of pretty much all marketing even though other characters in 5 & 6 who got posters/on the main posters #got basically the same amount of screen time before getting murked?? 🤨 And he's STU'S FUCKING NEPHEW ffs! #jason blossom #jason carver #These 2 have been SO BLATANT; especially Jason C! 😤😤😤 #(I mean on Riverdale and in the various comics. Especially AWA.) #pietro maximoff #I wanna say #wanda maximoff #as well but Idk if Marvel writers *hate* her or if they just like to torment her bc she makes a good victim. #mk skarlet #petyr baelish #PETYR WAS A BAD BITCH (in more ways than one) and they made him die like a PUSSY! Just to service to most BORING fans. 😒 #aegon ii targaryen #OBVIOUS. 🙄 #daemon targaryen #Idk if it's Ryan Condal too but Sara Hess has most OBVIOUS beef with Daemon and it's so fucking stupid. 🙄 Please fire her already. 😒 #daenerys targaryen #Do I even need to explain this one? (D&D; not GRRM.) #rant #txt

[ashthedestroyer]

Crushes fucking suck and I crave death

#lesbian #wlw #sapphic #lesbian pride #sapphic yearning #fuck I really like her but it’d never work even if she liked me back #the classic lesbian falling for an unattainable woman thing again WHY DOES THIS KEEP HAPPENING TO ME?? #every time I catch feelings for someone it ends horribly for me and I wish this wasn’t a feature #fucking hell she’s so pretty #fuck #rest be assured at least I know for sure I like older women

[toasteaa]

No but fr, the only lady in genshin that I actually have genuine interest in is Signora and it's literally because she has some of the most interesting and heart wrenching lore. And she was killed off.

There's a problem here.

#toast talks #My partner asked me why I wanted Shenhe so badly and I couldn't give him any response other than her design is nice. Like that's it. #And I'm so mad about it because there are so many women in video games that have no substance and are just 'pretty things to look at'. #No one talks about Lisa being one of the most powerful witches of her time or Candace being one of the strongest warriors in Aaru Village #Or Ningguang being the head of the Qixing and making actual political decisions or Rosaria murdering the treasure hoarder that raised her #And I HATE it. I hate that I can't even talk about the women in genshin in a server because someone immediately starts sending #suggestive art or smut of them and starts talking about how hot they are like SHUT THE FUCK UP #And I know it's because they only want to talk about the characters they think are hot or the ones they get off to because the second #my friends and I bring up any male character they either have to change the subject to a woman from that region #or ask if we want to fuck the guy we're talking about #like it's not always about smut my guy!!! #Anyways I'm mad as hell again about how hyv treats all the women in their games good bye

[lady-tortilla-chip]

I wish the f/f shipping crowd would realize lots of people are motivated by engagement so if you just ENGAGE with the f/f content that IS available then you’ll naturally bring more people interested in sharing and creating.

#like pls I understand wanting content you didn’t make!!!! #at the same time literally just scrolling the TL I’ll see Fanart for an f/f ship with lots of likes and retweets #but like 2 replies #and ZERO QUOTES #like??? fuckers??? TALK TO THE CREATORS!!! TELL THEM WHAT YOU LOVED!!!!! #MAKE THEM FEEL INCLUDED AND NOT LIKE A MACHINE CHURNING OUT MATERIAL #AND THEN PEOPLE WILL WANT TO STAY/JOIN #speaking as your local woman leaning bisexual #also a LOT of women just like m/m purely because it’s so easy to not project into the characters #I know I was one of those people #when I wasn’t comfortable in my sexuality #so I also think just this convo isn’t fair in that regard #cuz people have all kinds of reasons for their preferences #and it’s fucking fiction #of all the things to do some soul searching over #your fictional preferences is pretty low on that ladder #especially since none yall discuss why so many of y’all are anti masc women

[flowersandfashion]

so, we all agree that Jo March is a lesbian, right?

#i genuinely don't understand why she isn't considered a lesbian icon #louisa may alcott didn't write an ending that was a literary 'fuck you' to the heteronormative publishers and also say: #“I have a man's soul in a woman's body because I have fallen in love with so many pretty girls and never once the least bit with any man” #for y'all to ship jo and laurie #the world wasn't ready for my 'jo and laurie are t for t' post #little women #jo march #louisa may alcott #literature #lesbian #compulsory heterosexuality #comp het

[enbyaxolotl67]

I am so gay I will see a woman on the streets that’s not that conventionally attractive and I will have to physically stop myself from staring because I am stunned by her beauty

#It’s too late for me #save yourselves #god why am I like this #I literally had a mini panic attack this morning #good lord women are so pretty #Lesbian #bisexual #nonbinary #enby #Non-binary lesbian #what the fuck is wrong with me #I’m too gay for this world

[depresseddepot]

trying to determine which parts of my relationship with sex are asexuality, which are trauma, and which are autism is like trying to have a conversation with three people talking loudly and all at once

#just to be clear: asexuality as a result of trauma or neurodivergency is still asexuality. full stop no debate. #anyway because i love oversharing on tumblr dot com: feeling very sex repulsed on this day #i was joking with some guy about fighting each other (specifically said ''you ever fight a girl over 200 lbs? id break your ribs'') #and like three different people said something like ''well that would probably turn him on'' #and. listen. i get it. that was a joke response to my joke threat #but what i felt in that moment and still feel now requires nothing short of academic study to understand #first of all: how dare they make me feel embarrassed in a social setting when i was doing so well. #secondly: why the fuck would me making a threat make them instantly think of sex #thirdly: how fucked up is my body image that i hear that and immediately think they're all out of their minds #i like fat women. i am personally attracted to fat women. not (usually) sexually but i do think they are very nice to look at #so why is it so hard for me to accept that someone else could find me attractive as well ! #i think about being in a situation where a relationship and/or sex is a real possibility and i flinch like its going to hurt me #but why???? where is this aversion coming from !!!!! i am a hopeless romantic i daydream about romance all the time #so whats the deal here. is it subconscious bc of my asexuality and i associate romance with sex? #is it because of my autism where i associate romance with touch and am afraid i am too unempathetic to have a chance? #or (most likely) is it just because im so fucking scared of trusting someone that even the thought makes me nauseous #did this all crop up from a throwaway sex joke? yes #but people don't make sex jokes to me. people don't even pretend to allude to me being cute #this same group of people said a few weeks ago ''at least you're pretty'' #which. is not the case!!!!!!! people do not say those things to me because they don't want to even slightly entertain that idea !!!!!!! #and i am extremely tired of having my life upended because of this #i have always been treated like i was ugly and teased about it and i FINALLY have managed to be okay with not being attractive #and now that im okay with it: NOW is when the pretty jokes start. im fucking angry about it actually #i can't be both. i cannot think of myself in terms that abstract. i am one or the other #and this leads me to believe that people think i COULD be pretty. but the catalyst is that i am fat and therefore cannot be attractive #which just makes me more angry!!!!!!!!!!! #how can i be completely indifferent to sex and attraction without seeming juvenile. i don't care so so much #but every time that sort of thing happens i feel like im 13 again and the hot jock is talking to me #i need to be put down. something's wrong with this one (me) #i realize i can't stop people from making sex or appearance jokes but god i wish i fucking could