#i don’t have ANY straight friends

[that-bitch-kat3]

listen I don’t even fuck with jegulus like that but I saw someone talk about how it’s unrealistic that all of the marauders are gay… bestie… everyone knows that if one person in the friend group is gay they all are

#i mean yeah there is the token straight #but like… all of my friends are gay #i don’t have ANY straight friends #marauders #sirius black #remus lupin #marauders era #james potter #mwpp era #wolfstar #marauders headcanon #marauders incorrect quotes #harry potter #dead gay wizards #atyd #peter pettigrew #young marauders #jegulus #dead gay wizards from the 70s #pansexual james potter #the marauders #the marauders era #hp #atyd fandom #overheard at hogwarts #hp marauders era #hp marauders #mwpp #marauders fandom #the marauders fandom

[seilon]

please don’t by k.will did more for the gays back in 2012 than any boy group can possibly do with fan service and crop tops in 2024

#do young kpoppies know about please don’t by k.will. im serious do they know #I think about it a lot #it’s impossible to replicate the feeling of being gay and watching that mv in the 2010s and just getting bodyslammed by the ending. #like he really just dropped that shit in TWENTY TWELVE #kibumblabs #to this day I think that’s the most explicitly gay mv ive seen in kpop by an established artist #(ie not holland. no shade to him but he kinda built his platform on being an openly gay artist and he’s not a big industry name or anything #which makes the impact significantly different. if that makes sense. anyway.) #like think about any other example. almost all of them can be brushed off as fan service or are at least vague enough to be #up for interpretation #please don’t’s ending is nearly fucking impossible to write off as anything but explicitly gay #no fanservice involved. no vague staring in each other’s eyes. just straight up Oh He’s Not Jealous Of His Friend He’s Jealous Of His #Friend’s Fiancé. oh #like that’s the whole point. interpreting it any other way doesn’t make sense with the impact it’s purposefully supposed to make #like seriously try to say ‘he’s just sad he’s losing his friend to marriage :(‘ or something. you have to be REAL fucking stupid or #deeply in denial to make that argument let alone believe it #anyway. I appreciate this mv a lot #k.will the OG of doomed yaoi in kpop #kill me #closest contender off the top of my head is one more day by sistar #also note I am talking about mvs here not songs in general #cause if I were talking about songs in general. key’s out there pretty much writing about gay sex at this point so I mean #k.will #kpop #only adding actual tags because I want you to watch this mv if you haven’t already

[poisoned-pearls]

you know, Idk if I have to say it, but, cut off those people who drain you. You shouldn’t always have to text first, your friendship shouldn’t end because you stopped talking.

And I know it sucks, that feeling of crippling loneliness. But when shit was absolutely the worst for me, when everything had fucking crashed and burned, I met a few people who finally reminded me what it meant to have someone care, and you’ll get it soon

#This is nothing like what I normally post but like #No genuinely. It fucking sucks and I may have been like #the most depressed I’ve been in my life #Fighting only the time I was with my ex for top place #But like. I’m also getting better. I only text like three people regularly but it’s better than having like #8 people who didn’t give a shit about me #And like #idk I think adhd makes you weak to just #wanting ANY kind of connection because otherwise you become absolutely bored and boredom is painful #The energy drain kills you #Also general red flag in people though I hate using that phrase #If someone won’t let you be in pain #watch out. When I dealt with someone manipulating an old friend into believing I was a horrible person a ‘friend’ slowly got annoyed at me #Trying to deal with it without ever offering help or advice #When someone’s first response to your pain is “oh my god will you shut up about that” they will not care about your pain ever #Also in general. Don’t hang out with straight men who appropriate gay culture #because they’re still like. Patriarchal and sexist assholes with a fake cover #Because Guess what!! When you say homophobic shit but your not gay #your just homophobic!!!!

[axolozzy]

hey is there a difference from stealing something mass manufactured from a multibillion dollar corporation or stealing food from homeless people. trying to see somethjng. trying to prove my family wrong

#vent #vent incoming #i hate my family #OBVIOUSLY. THERES A HUGE FUCKINF DIFFERENCE??????? ARE YOU STUPID??????? ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID???? #WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!!!!! #APPARENTLY STEALING IS JUST AS MORALLY WRONG AS R/PING SOMEONE?????? #said my parents just now #i can’t take it i gotta get out of here i can’t stand listening to my parents say the most stupidest shit i’ve ever heard #they’re gonna kick me out after i graduate anyway i guess so i should probably get a job #thinking about working for 8 hours straight everyday makes me wanna fucking kms though (/j) i dont know what im gonna do #i don’t have any friends irl that are older than me and have their shit figured out #i need to get my shit together #i’ll be okay all this will blow over in a few hours and we’ll all be forgiving eachother anyway #like always

[graviticdeeds]

I feel like my main take away from the Somerton situation is, thinking about it, the sheer damage he’s done to a certain subset of the queer community due to that information being passed on and shared around. And how much of that needs to be fixed or reversed.

Particularly by making sure anyone who got trampled by his actions get the compensation they deserve, and by learning what the red flags associated with blatant misinformation and outright plagiarism are.

…Given Somerton’s main internet presence has all but been nuked at this point, I can only hope he’ll one day come clean without the truth being twisted, and actually do better by the community to make up for it.

But that’s just wishful thinking on my part. The best thing here, is he just stays gone and the rest of the community can start to heal.

It’s enough of a spectacle as it is, what with various blogs cheering and shouting, parading the corpse of his Youtube channel around at this point. The next step is making sure anyone who honestly got caught up in Somerton’s lies get the guidance they need.

#begrudingly… i gotta tag this. << i watched some his vids a long time ago and stopped watching cus i kept noticing bad vibes… #James Somerton #hbomberguy #todd in the shadows #if it werent 5am and i wasnt on mobile i’d properly like some shit on this. #but this post is more for my own benefit on unpacking my opinions on that’s going on #especially so considering i have several straight/ally friends asking what the fuck is going on. #…i shall sleep now. i should have been asleep 6 hours ago. #i really don’t mean to rain on any parades with this vent post. i’m glad he’s gone into internet hiding just as the next person. #my mind’s on the people who’re hurt and confused by what’s happening

[sarcastic-clapping]

the “which nfl player is jeffree star hooking up with” drama is so unifying. really bringing chronically online gay people, general gossip hounds, and straight men who love sports together for one joint purpose. like a campy thriller about a ragtag group of unlikely allies teaming up to solve a murder.

#me texting the picture of the back of the dude’s head and all known details to my straight male friends like #‘do you know of any white 6’6 nfl players who have a haircut like this’ #jeffree star #i’m both the chronically online gay person and the general gossip hound if u were wondering #also i hate jeffree star to be clear pls don’t interpret this as me liking jeffree star #i just like tea and gossip and fuckery #this is my real life knives out

[frogayyyy]

will my mum ever understand that i don’t like talking (as in it’s really physically difficult) sometimes, especially in the morning, and not get upset with me and make me feel guilty about it despite telling her countless times that this is why? 😃

i just vented in the tags sorry bout that :S

#i wouldn’t say non verbal but pretty close #it’s the same with everything #she just doesn’t understand at all and it’s so draining :/ #she constantly makes me feel bad for trying to set boundaries so i just give up #like no i genuinely can’t do some things without help no matter how many times you explain it to me i’m sorry? #no i don’t like that food because the texture makes me want to rip my hair out #i want to try different foods i just have bad anxiety about it and you making comments about it doesn’t help #yes i do need to have headphones or earplugs in most of the time bc sometimes it’s unbearable not to #yes i want to spend time alone in my room bc a) it’s a normal thing to do and b) it’s the one place where i can just be myself n not mask #no i’m not ignoring you you actually just interrupted a conversation i was having with my friends #‘i wish you would talk to me more about things’ I WONDER WHY I DONT #and i can’t even say any of this to her because she’d just cry and tell me what a bad mother she is #like… yea exactly #don’t even get me started on queer stuff #yknow i came out two years ago as not straight #and she hasn’t said a single thing about it since #not even vaguely supportive #i can’t even remember if she told me she still loves me #she said ‘i don’t know what to say’ and left me sobbing by myself #i have to censor myself around them bc i still don’t know how they feel about it #the worst part of it is that i convince myself she isn’t that bad so i just forgive her #and never do anything about it #even now i’m thinking ‘ yea but she genuinely isn’t that badi’ 🤡 #i want to leave so bad or at least not be in the same house #but i’m not financially independent yet #and i genuinely don’t know if i could cope living on my own #:’D #just gotta deal with it for now #thank god for this safe space 🙏 love u guys #about the only thing keeping me (partially) sane atm

[georgcfan]

*

#a little rant look away #I want to just post that I’m gay on my fb but the family discourse #will be fucking insane. I don’t want to hear it when I see these people in two months #I can already see the call me comments right now ugh #but I’m so tired of these crusty ass men they keep trying to introduce me to #only three people in my family have heard it straight from me and I thought that was enough #but damn #no matter how fast I shut it down they still don’t take the hint #everything I say they take it as a suggestion anyway #told my grandma I was talking to a friend she started using he pronouns my mouth said they so fast she clocked it then #but still trying to sneak this tj dude into every conversation #if he so great why y’all won’t set him up with any of my other straight cousins. like girl boo

[spicy-gf-archive]

sorry, if it’s out of the blue. but guys, is it silly to not want to interact with people because they ship with your IRL? (Kin)

#my reasoning is: the thought of *actually* dating other. real. flesh and bone people just makes me cringe for whatever reason… (<- aroace) #in a sense. my IRLs are me! they’re literally me! not a joke or anything! straight up me! #and the thought of someone selfshipping with me/my IRLs… just… makes me uncomfortable. sorry guys :( #so far. i haven’t seen any tamari selfshippers yet. but I did a few folk who selfship with gf. and boy i did not like it!! 0_0 #so. I’d rather not have them interact. sorry ^_^;; #idk. might be my past trauma involving my kins and IRL biting me in the ass. lol… #btw. this is talking about *romantic* selfshipping. not the platonic/familial kind! #if you f/o me. in a platonic/familial-sense. then i’m absolutely okay with it! #and honestly? i’d be honoured that you would see me as a friend/family member to you! absolutely! #it’s just that i don’t like folks dating me… sorry. ^_^;; #⛈️

[iloveyoumorethansoup]

Oh by the way. Life update cause I’ve said absolutely nothing recently

#the semester is kicking my ass (what’s new) #my next semester will not having marching band so it cannot be more miserable #i applied for a job I’ve wanted for ages and I have a great resume for it #I’m still very much in love with my ex #my therapist is not very useful at all. she’s an intern. she just wants me to vent and offers completely inane advice #it’s like. oh your financially dependent on your parents? get a job #ok man. 9$ an hour is not gonna pay my monthly rent of ~$575 #seriously this town has shit options for jobs it’s so bad #oooh. another favorite. I’ll tell her I really love my ex and she’s my best friend but there are times where I know I deeply need to get #over her. and my therapist is like. idk why u can even stand her. break your lease and cut her out of ur life #bitch????? did u miss the party where I said she’s my best friend whom i love very very much?? #or the. well why don’t you just tell your parents you don’t have to come home for Christmas and don’t #and it’s like. yes I want to visit for a few days I just wish the flights weren’t so busy. also the financial dependency would kick my ass #i get my adhd assessment results on the 18 #hopefully I will start antidepressants at least by my birthday in January #i still get along with our third roommate. that’s never happened!! ever!!! #she’s so great she’s awesome we love her so much #if she doesn’t resign this lease I will straight up die. I’m resigning it for her #she cleans?? it takes me so offguard every single time???? crazy. it’s great #i have not gotten to play a lot of games. hardly any at all #my beloved ex and I played a couple we were here games #those were super fun #i got drunk for the first time a couple weeks ago #took somewhere from 10-15 shots to do so. i think I started getting drunk at about 12 #went shot for shot with military man my landlord #king. he’s my favorite guy out here. his wife?? equally as great. they live right below us it’s kinda fun #my room is a hot mess. this week upcoming is finals. i hope I get a chance to deep clean #and oh god. do laundry. the laundry needs done so bad #anyways. that’s what’s new #soup talks

[padfootastic]

Can you be awesome and give me some well thought out prongsfoot headcanons? (If you have the time), I want to write a story with then and I need more on their dynamic, than just the basics.

(Friendship and Romantic! 😁)

omg hi yes!! i’ve never gotten an ask like this, i don’t think, and my hcs usually develop during stories so let’s see if i can do it :p

x

- soulmates in every universe, if not romantic then definitely platonic. they’ll find their way to each other, always.

- james has a crooked nose that sirius loves kissing. he’s very possessive about it, actually

- j might be generally a bit thick bc of the whole spoiled-only-child thing but he’s particularly attuned to sirius’ moods and emotions. i can imagine him writing long ass letters to his parents in the first few years whenever something tripped him up (which was, ykno, everything considering how sheltered he was) to so for help and sirius featured a lot in this (mum, how do i help with nightmares? mum, he doesn’t like treacle tart what do i doooooo, mum he wasn’t allowed to fly as a kid this is a travesty, mum he’s sad a lot and chai doesn’t always help, mum i don’t know how to make him smile etc etc)

- this one’s controversial, i think, but i love thinking of sirius as modelling james’ behaviour. we know he grew up being fed violent hatred + a superiority complex the size of Everest yeah? fully believe his process of unlearning started with james (the first time he used the word mudblood, our boy probably clutched his pearls, scandalised, ‘what are you doing u can’t say that!!’ so sirius started turning to j as a barometer for how to act, sometimes, bc he realised he couldn’t trust his family (and by extension, his own) behaviour. this isn’t instant, mind, but a gradual, time & labor intensive process and even after he grew out of it, i think sirius had this subconscious tendency to look for james’ approval.

- i hate the whole ‘james matured for a girl’ arc so my take on it is that his ‘growth’ came from a combination of ailing, elderly parents + rising war tensions + most importantly, sirius. end of 5th year he got a first hand view into the treatment his best mate received by his family and that horror made him want to be the best he could for sirius. i’ve always seen james as a protector and a caregiver, someone who takes people under his wing & looks after them, and i don’t think it was ever more obvious than around sirius. post 5th year, he gained a focus that he lacked before and would spend a lot of time just picking up on skills that could help him be better. duelling, defence, first aid, knitting, cooking etc etc. anything to feel useful.

- the shift from friendship to romantic would be tricky & probably require outside intervention or a lot of time, i think. they were already so close as friends that it just never occurs to them to take it any further ykno? their hearts & souls are intertwined, they’re super physically affectionate, and they’re already each other’s no. 1. so someone either has to bring it to their attention, they take yeaaaaars to realise ‘huh. this isn’t how i feel towards others’ or they live a wonderfully fulfilling qpp life together.

- i’ve talked about this before but physical!!! affection!!! and not just in terms of like, kisses or hugs but touch. they’re always in contact in some way. it’s comforting, safe. arms around waists, shoulders, hips/chin resting on the other, leg slung across, hand on a back or leg. you get it right? it’s subconscious, it’s natural, and they don’t even realise they’re doing it unless someone points it out

- sunshine and sunshine protector!!!! james was loud and brash and took all the space in a room. he was also sensitive bc he’s not told no often so when it has to be done, u need to do it in a certain way so he doesn’t internalise it as a personal failing and shut down. sirius is the best one to do it bc he can stand up to james w/o being intimidated + realise that the carrot works better than the stick w him. there’s a very real risk of his light fading out. at the same time, this makes sirius very protective of him. it’s why i wrote shovel talk. even in a universe where lily & sirius were friends, i think he’ll have a Talk with her to confirm her intentions. sirius is not willing to take chances with his james.

- pet names! james called sirius darling and my love and honey and sweetheart because he’s an old soul in a young body. sirius called james love (and sometime babe/baby). their go to for each other was ‘si’ and ‘jamie’ respectively, which was a term of affection on its own bc only they used it, no one else.

- james has *always* been attracted to sirius; he just didn’t realise it bc he thought this was how everyone felt towards sirius. ‘oh yeah he’s so ethereally beautiful, it’s just like, a fact of life and everyone knows it’ and thinks the random boners are normal until one day he realised that, no, that’s not actually the norm & he’s just a simp who thinks everything sirius does is perfect (think chin in hand, heart eyes, sighing)

x

ok i’m gonna cut myself off here bc this is already criminally long but i think it’s pretty clear i can go on for days lol. i tried to include both but i’m not great w romantic so i hope that came thru 🙈🙈

pls tag me in ur story when u write it (even if the hcs don’t help lol u can still use them in a process of elimination to find ur niche)!! i’d love, love , love to read it + always here if u wanna brainstorm 💜

#james potter #sirius black #prongsfoot #gosh this became so long. i was worried i wouldn’t have anything to say and then i couldn’t stop 💀 had to cut myself off after a point #friend this is the first piece of fandom content i’ve written in over a month so thank u sm for the ask #still don’t know if it’s any good but hey. it’s something. i’ll take it. #i’ve talked about james as sirius’ moral compass before but i don’t mean it in a ‘he couldn’t think for himself’ way #rather that when he doubted himself—which was a lot—he’d always go to j for confirmation #(it’s a bit of projection for me bc i do something similar w a friend of mine too) #and whenever he worried he was being a little too much like his family—james would set him straight #just wanted to clear that up bc i’ve seen someone vaguing me ab this and i don’t want them to get the wrong idea again lol #also re james: i can relate to being loud & Too Much. someone once told me i talked too much and i stayed quiet the entire day #not one word escaped my mouth. made people v uncomfortable #i’ve done the rubber band against my wrist thing too & i can see james doing something like that #ig regardless of how one writes j&s the one think i’ll look for is this implicit understanding and bond? #like they’re always each other’s no. 1 and it’s absolutely unconditional. like even when they’re fighting they’ll take care of each other #that’s the relationship i look for (which i don’t often get lolcrie) #but yeah. that’s me. doesn’t have to be everyone 💀 #i didn’t mention it here bc i’ve talked ab it so much but also fully think j was the only one who could fluster sirius #like the boy had a great poker face; probably also a rbf; prided himself ron being a master of his emotions #then along comes one jfp with his doe eyes and stupid fluffy hair and bright big smile #sirius has never blushed so much in his *life* #also think people who don’t know them (aka non hogwarts folx) would probably get the wrong-est impression of sirius if they see him around j #bc he’s everything that he’s *not* around him #it’s actually really funny to imagine lol #mhm ok ye gonna shut up now. thanks for the lovely ask anon & sorry for all the word vomit! #pen’s asks #pen’s notes

[thenobleclearlightbulb]

Explained to a straight friend different types of attraction and averse, indifferent, and favorable. She said ‘That sounds made up but I get it. The idea of separating sexual, romantic, and aesthetic attraction seems impossible, but I guess that’s because I separate people into those I would date and those I’m just friends with. Those I would date have all 3 and probably intellectual or emotional while those I wouldn’t date have only one with emotional and intellectual.’

Nice to have someone say ‘I don’t get that but I can understand how you get that’ since the typical response is ‘you’re over thinking it’, ‘that’s not possible’, ‘you just haven’t met the right person’

Also explaining that I’m aroace and bi was fun because I’ve never done that before. At first she was really confused then I said ‘I’m romance favorable and sex indifferent so I’d be open to a relationship, but I don’t feel romantic or sexual attraction. If I was aesthetically, intellectually, and emotionally attracted to someone, I’d be open to dating/sleeping with them, and gender isn’t a factor at all’ then she got it (as well as why I tend to say I’m biro a lot of the time instead of explaining)

#aroace #lgbt+ #attraction #it’s fun explaining stuff to straight friends #so many are open to it #but because of the suppression don’t know #like my dad can’t fathom a man liking a man #not because he’s homophobic just because he’s uber straight #and hasn’t asked any of his gay friends what they find attractive that he doesn’t #i think he’d have a greater appreciation for the beauty of his gender if he did

[reformedmercymain]

officially started my pc journey. immediately lost my first qp game but we won a few team fights against broken heroes so that counts for something, right? 😭😭

Congrats! Welcome to the world of KB/M <3

#be sure to try out other PC games though!!!! #I know portal 1 & 2 aren’t only on pc but all valve games are on sale rn #(steam summer sale so it’s def the best time to look for games) #I know that obviously halo reach isn’t a pc game either but it’s my fav FPS campaign and I cannot stress enough how fun it is #if anyone has any good recommendations for pc gaming in particular please feel free! #I know this is an ow blog and all. but portal is a necessity for like gaming history ( + it’s fun) #hmmm my friends like rimworld and dwarf fortress. as well as civ 5 #also I’ve enjoyed playing csgo with a couple of my friends so far! #except it does live up to its reputation of a horrible community #valorant exists too ofc but for me valorant is the bastard child of csgo and overwatch so it’s like #why have the mixture when you can get the experience of each one in its purest form? #HOWEVER DON’T FUCKING GAMBLE IF YOU START PLAYING CS. DO NOT. #valve makes 54 MILLION per MONTH. from csgo gambling. don’t buy into it #it’s so funny to me that my must play games are also on consoles. or straight up were originally on them #the games being halo reach journey and portal 1 & 2. #(also you can emulate and pirate basically anything. welcome to pc gaming!!!) #but anyways!!!!!!!! back to ovw!!!!! congrats on getting to flick properly now!!!!! genuinely <3 #c talks

[robotic-maid]

I’m gonna vent in the tags but I promise I’m chill

#sometimes after working for 12 hours straight I want to cry but my antidepressants make it really hard to so I just get a migraine #is it bad I feel bad for feeling bad #like if I could afford to not pay a bill I would be hospitalized right now for sure #but i just don’t have the luxury #I have vacation coming up… our mandatory overtime is almost done but even the vacation doesn’t seem worth it #how do you keep going when all you do is sleep and work and sleep and work and sleep and work #it feels like hell #but this was my reward for growing up #I don’t want to make my friends feel bad for me #I don’t want to disappoint my family anymore #but it’s not like feeling this way will kill me so that’s how I justify letting myself say any of this at all #oh if I say it then it won’t stay inside me #but it’s like a broken faucet there’s just so much #just shut up about it if you’re not gonna quit your job or emit yourself or die #just be happy you get to keep trying and that this isn’t forever #wait for the meds to kick in and go to bed and tommorrow you’ll wake up with a lighter chest #and maybe just maybe the you 5 years from now will be grateful #and then I’m happy. #saying these things somehow just cheer me up #I’m not upset that I’m alive I’m upset that I have bills and. a stupid job with hellish hours and I’m too scared to do something wrong #to move the wrong way and start a landslide that makes things worse again #but I’ll be fine because I’m always fine #and this bad situation will end because it always ends #thank you for letting me be born

[javaberrychip1998]

I think I just have to admit to myself that I don’t like Zelink and I don’t know why

#totk #Loz totk #like I’m not against anyone for shipping it #but for some reason the way it’s implied to be canon in botw and totk just feels off to me #they seem like friends #maybe it’s because of the type of silent protagonist that link is #he’s so stoic that I just don’t get any chemistry from them #also the Hateno house thing is weird #if they just straight up said that they lived together I’d get it #but why is it almost exclusively referred to as Zelda’s house? #never Zelda and Links house #and having a single bed that’s not even big enough for two people #there is no trace of link having lived in that house #I mean maybe he was traveling all the time so he was like ‘Zelda you can stay at this house cause I don’t need it’ #which would be kind of stupid but it makes more sense then them living together with the way the house is portrayed

[calamitydaze]

it’s weird because I’ve been feeling guilty for not feeling guilty watching dream’s content idk how to explain it

no i see what you’re saying! it’s a common sentiment i’ve been getting, that people feel weird or wrong for not reacting the way the most people seemed to, but i don’t think you should feel guilty for that either. like i said a few days ago there’s no guidebook for this situation, so if still watching and enjoying dream is a choice that feels moral and comfortable to you right now then you do you! (assuming you aren’t a victim-blamey freak but judging from your ask i don’t think you are)

#that’s another reason i think the echo chamber is so harmful and it was important to me to share a perspective that wasn’t just #’fuck him he should burn in hellfire for all eternity’ etc etc #because this is a MESSY situation and it’s Not black and white and people are going to have different emotional reactions #but part of why i think the loudest opinion has been so aggressive is because most of the people promoting it— #didn’t like dream in the first place #because dtblr all but vanished and then the people left driving the bus were mainly s.bi blogs #and the big s.bi blogs were friends with the big dt blogs #and so the s.bi blogs watched dream’s own fans denounce him and so they took that reaction and ran with it and filled that space #so you combine that impression with the fact that s.bi blogs (usually) (imo) don’t like dream and feel superior to dt blogs #and you get ‘spam the qrts of update accounts run by teenagers with the most vile shit you can because i want to deplatform a guy’ #<- but that’s just my train of thought i’m not tryna say any of that is fact #anyway i kinda went on a tangent sorry #but yeah as long as you’re not a straight up freak i don’t think you need to feel guilty for any way you handle this situation #bella answers #anon #dream.situation