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miedotenebroso23 · 10 months

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Así es como lidiar con ser fantasma

Es la forma completamente moderna de salir de la vida de alguien, pero aun así puede doler muchísimo. He aquí cómo lidiar con un fantasma y cómo evitar convertirse en uno. Jennifer King Lindley es una escritora de salud y bienestar cuyo trabajo ha aparecido en O, Parents, Health, Prevention, Martha Stewart Living y varias otras publicaciones impresas y digitales. Es autora de Find Your Joy: A Powerful Self-Care Journal to Help You Thrive (Hearst Home). Los fantasmas se mueven en silencio entre nosotros, pero igualmente hacen notar su presencia. Los textos no devueltos. La entrevista prometedora que resulta en silencio de radio. Un amigo cercano que de repente desaparece de la faz de la tierra. Cuando nos enfrentamos a situaciones difíciles y finales incómodos, cada vez más de nosotros simplemente nos volvemos locos. El fantasma (cortar el contacto sin explicación, incluso después de que alguien intente conectarse repetidamente) se está convirtiendo rápidamente en el nuevo "No, gracias". El término parece haberse originado en el mundo de las citas en línea: una de cada cuatro personas ha sido fantasma de una pareja, y casi la misma cantidad confiesa haber engañado a otras personas, según un estudio de 2018 en el Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.

Pero se ha extendido rápidamente a nuevos reinos. Los encuestados del estudio dijeron que pensaban que fantasmas de amigos eran más aceptables que fantasmas de parejas románticas. También ocurre con frecuencia en el lugar de trabajo: un número cada vez mayor de solicitantes no se presentan a las entrevistas o se esconden después de recibir ofertas de trabajo, dice Catherine Mattice Zundel, fundadora del grupo de consultoría Civility Partners. ¿No quieres ayudar con la comida compartida anual? Ignore el correo de voz de su vecino y espere que el problema desaparezca. Es cierto que siempre ha habido actos de desaparición. En el pasado, mirábamos con inquietud el ojo sin pestañear de nuestro único contestador automático. Leah LeFebvre, Ph.D. , profesor de estudios de comunicación en la Universidad de Alabama en Tuscaloosa, que estudia el fenómeno. ¿Por qué la reciente invasión de grillos? Estamos siendo mordisqueados hasta la muerte por un flujo constante de mensajes instantáneos, mensajes de texto, mensajes de voz e historias, todo con una persona necesitada del otro lado.

Abrumados, levantamos las manos y nos retiramos. En un mundo en el que puedes tener 600 amigos en Facebook y 1000 conexiones en LinkedIn, las relaciones pueden comenzar a sentirse desechables. Con una gran cantidad de cortinas electrónicas detrás de las cuales escondernos, también nos estamos oxidando en una habilidad esencial para las relaciones: tener conversaciones difíciles en la vida real. Es más fácil simplemente no negociar. Disolverse en el éter puede parecer una forma de salvar los sentimientos de las personas, lo que podría ser la razón por la cual incluso los no idiotas parecen estar haciéndolo tanto ahora. Pero en realidad, el silencio es un instrumento contundente, dice Solomon: "La otra persona lo toma como 'No importa. Soy invisible'".. Éramos cónyuges de trabajo. Multiplique este dolor por un millón cuando alguien cercano a usted, un amigo, familiar o pareja romántica, se apaga. No puede haber sido secuestrado por marcianos; ¡Acaba de actualizar su Instagram! Catherine Newman, experta en etiqueta residente de Real Simple. Ghosting también le cuesta al ghoster.

Gili Freedman, Ph.D., profesora asistente de psicología en St. Mary's College of Maryland. Cada "¿Dónde estás?" El texto es un recordatorio de tu cobarde esquiva. En el folclore, algunos fantasmas regresan a sus terrenos terrenales porque están plagados de asuntos pendientes; también estarás embrujado. Como estrategia de vida, el ghosting es miope. Evitas la incomodidad inmediata de una conversación difícil, sí, pero “estás quemando puentes”, dice Zundel. La persona a la que defendiste en una cita para tomar un café en red puede ser el gerente de contratación de un trabajo que deseas dentro de cinco años. ¿Y quieres tener que esconderte en el baño cuando veas la cita de Bisagra en la que te apagaste en una fiesta? Por el bien de los sentimientos de todos y de un mundo más respetuoso, es hora de recuperar el enfoque directo. Así que devuélveme ese mensaje. Prepárate para el adiós esclarecedor. Aquí hay consejos de expertos sobre cazafantasmas de todo tipo.

Si estás pensando en hacerle fantasma a alguien... Sepa qué decirles a sus amigos y parejas románticas. No se supone que todas las relaciones cercanas duren para siempre. Pero pasar abruptamente a la clandestinidad eterna puede lastimar a la otra persona durante años. ¿Todavía no estás dolido por tu mejor amigo de la secundaria que te desconectó sin decir una palabra? Lo que a menudo nos tienta a fantasmas es no tener idea de qué decir. Elisabeth LaMotte, psicoterapeuta en Washington, DC Comprenda las reglas básicas de las despedidas. Si bien cada situación es diferente, existen algunas reglas básicas. Un adiós cara a cara es lo mejor. Comience con lo positivo: para establecer un tono de empatía y amabilidad, comparta una cualidad que haya disfrutado de la persona. Durante su charla, mantenga sus comentarios enfocados en "yo"; ahora no es el momento de recitar una letanía de quejas sobre la otra persona. Estás más allá de querer reparar cosas (y confía: tendrán su propia lista). Sea amable, pero claro.

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444names · 1 year

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french forenames + legends from brawlhalla

Adandren Adien Adience Adine Alaurey Alette Alique Alérôme Amathard Amick Amikov Amile Andrayarc Andre Andrie Anfei Anicoise Anifeilde Anlord Anloïc Anmagalie Annait Annin Anniste Annyx Anuerrey Anuerth Ançoin Ançoisèle Araphert Aricine Arlethéo Arose Assim Astéphil Audennyx Audrang Auline Aumen Aurie Aurine Azancelle Baphanluc Baphin Baptia Baptite Barisami Bashaël Bennix Benoé Benrie Benrine Berrent Bette Bricony Briert Brieu Brunon Brunoé Béandrin Béath Bödvancie Bödvanne Bödvra Cadelle Cadille Camiko Carges Carlenck Caspie Castine Chaméline Chanique Chard Chelle Chenée Chlor Chloémy Chric Chrick Chriechel Chrion Chris Christin Chèle Claey Claia Clain Claine Clastine Claul Clauli Claulle Claure Cléme Clémick Clémiko Clémine Colan Colange Colarc Colaule Colaurene Colia Colko Corenon Corent Corgilie Crolanin Crolia Cyric Cyrick Cyrie Céance Cécie Cécieu Cédrane Cédérion Céliah Célène Damine Dannine Delie Denée Dette Diane Domic Dovic Dovice Duskin Duste Dylvar Emane Embenée Embette Emicel Emienone Emmarc Emmarde Emmarle Emmathen Eziond Fabette Fabine Fabri Fabria Fabry Faine Fandrine Fanifei Flodidy Flord Florgeor Flori Florine Flouille Floïc Fragnès Francla Frandrim Franlor Fraph Frayar Fraymoris Frémy Gaétine Geord Georie Geory Gernarold Geroberte Gerte Gerthomi Gette Ghiette Ghilippe Gilie Ginès Gnaine Golai Golin Grien Gueent Guiste Gélin Haline Handrence Heand Heanne Heançois Helle Hellei Herro Hugord Hugore Huren Huroleine Hélie Irenck Istine Istite Jacque Jacqueeno Jaette Jamarce Jamil Januelie Jeanadeno Jeanarnai Jeand Jeandre Jeandris Jeane Jeang Jeanie Jeaniel Jeanine Jeann Jeannyx Jeanoé Jeançoine Jhale Jhane Jharca Jocéline Joniquel Josévette Joëlles Julgré Julia Julil Jéran Jérie Jérès Kaymon Kaymone Kevine Kovin Laine Lainevick Lannyx Lanpie Lasuzarre Laudomari Laurey Laurégo Liang Liecland Lilex Loren Loril Louilieu Louiste Loémilde Lucar Lucier Lucieu Luciline Lucis Lynny Lérarce Madianna Madré Magaétine Magaël Magerren Magnath Magnich Magnique Magnès Magnèse Maine Mairèse Manmick Marcal Marce Margabel Marice Marichand Maris Marit Marle Marna Maros Marraxx Marre Marte Martra Maspieno Masuza Matranne Matrice Matrimon Matrio Maudel Michrion Miciste Mienon Mirose Mirrentor Missic Mohamic Monaumed Monielice Monne Moreillen Morguiste Morieli Moris Murentore Myrience Mélie Méliel Mélilette Mélordvai Nadie Nadrin Naris Narole Nascarie Nascas Natchaël Naude Naudra Nichrieu Nifei Odidia Odine Odvranlor Olane Pasca Pathier Pathor Pathugo Patriel Patrio Paure Paurent Paurie Paurémise Petielyne Piance Piand Queentan Quellei Quenoéme Quessard Raphie Rarine Raymane Raymon Raymonne Reilenzo Rentiel Rette Rolaine Roliel Roline Roséves Régiles Régiste Régit Rémir Saber Sabrie Sabrin Sabrinne Saianine Saitiam Sandrégin Saniferte Sanne Sannièves Sette Shale Sharc Sichel Sidrément Simenjand Skine Solence Soline Sophamine Stien Stéph Suzan Sylarinix Sylaulle Sylvale Sylvari Sébaphie Sébaptiah Sévechèle Sévelis Séves Tharle Thienoé Thiette Thine Thérômeno Ulette Uline Vaitin Valaurise Valettord Valémis Varand Varin Varine Vieris Vierrei Virèse Vièle Vérène Wilde Wiline Wille Wuskinèse Wustine Xandra Xanir Xanne Xanue Xulinès Yanlorge Yvecla Yvector Yvectord Yvelle Yvoli Yvondette Zarce Élaudrand Élaumire Élord Élouiste Éloémen Émillex Étalinait Étanne Étantin Étine Éverre Évessid

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jeanyshanty · 6 months

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Gili Iyang: Keajaiban Oksigen di Pulau Madura

Gili Iyang, sebuah pulau kecil di Sumenep, Madura, telah menjadi perbincangan karena memiliki kadar oksigen terbaik di Indonesia. Bahkan, penduduk setempat disebut-sebut awet muda dan panjang umur. Mari kita bahas lebih lanjut tentang tempat menarik ini. Kadar Oksigen yang Menakjubkan Gili Iyang bukan sekadar ‘pulau oksigen’ semata. Menurut Air Visual, sebuah aplikasi pencatat kualitas udara,…

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#Madura #Sumenep #Wisata Madura

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politikwatch · 6 months

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#Lanz Sendung: Wenn der #Hass & die #Wut so groß ist, dass #Fakten nicht mehr #akzeptiert werden und nicht mehr #zählen, wird das zum großen #Problem

Das gilt #Weltweit ❗

#wenn #fakten #nicht #mehr #akzeptiert #werden #ist das ein #großes Problem

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horsesofgili · 1 year

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byneddiedingo · 2 years

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Adèle Haenel and Pauline Acquart in Water Lilies (Céline Sciamma, 2007) Cast: Pauline Acquart, Louise Blachère, Adèle Haenel, Warren Jacquin, Christel Baras, Marie Gili-Pierre, Alice de Lencquesaing, Claire Pierrat, Barbara Renard, Esther Sironneau, Jérémie Steib, Yvonne Villemaire, Christophe Vandevelde. Screenplay: Céline Sciamma. Cinematography: Crystel Fournier. Production design: Gwendel Bescond. Film editing: Julien Lacheray. Music: Jean-Baptiste de Laubier. I admit to a certain queasiness about watching Water Lilies, with its almost too intimate exploration of the lives of teenage girls, including some nudity. Céline Sciamma of course wants us to feel that way, to make us aware of these adolescent bodies as well as the souls that inhabit them. One girl, Marie (Pauline Acquart), is skinny and awkward; another, Anne (Louise Blachère), is on the verge of being overweight; and the third, Florine (Adèle Haenel), is flat-out beautiful. All of them spend much of their time at the swimming pool, where Florine is the star of a group of synchronized swimmers, and Anne coaches a group of beginners. Marie is the hanger-on who watches the other girls with a too-eager eye. At the film's start, she and Anne are close, but as Marie becomes involved with Florine, the two drift apart. There is a pivotal boy in the ensemble, the handsome François (Warren Jacquin), whom Anne desires -- at one point she she sees him looking at her naked in the locker room; she doesn't cover up in embarrassment but is rather pleased, and begins to try to win him. But François is after Florine, who strikes a deal with Marie: She'll let Marie watch the group practicing if she'll help her sneak out of the house at night to meet with François. Eventually, a different relationship develops between Marie and Florine. Sciamma choreographs this pas de quatre well, but there's something a little too formulaic and voyeuristic about the film, which doesn't resolve itself into significance. Still, its portrait of the sexual confusion of adolescence is often achingly real.

#Water Lilies #Céline Sciamma

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sunshinexlollipops · 5 years

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So, this is a topic a lot of Rdr2 fan writers have touched upon, but I'm curious about your thoughts on Mary Linton. Do you think she was using Arthur in the events of the game? Do you think she was selfish for not following Arthur or was she reasonable? Do you think it's fair of her to hurt Arthur by stating that "he'll never change"? And while I get the feeling you'll touch this topic in ACW, how do you think Arthur with a new S/O would handle her coming back into his life?

Ohhhhh, anon, you are wanting some tea I tell you! Good thing I just stocked up on Lipton.

So, Some if you may have read a reply about Mary Linton before and why I felt about her as the way I did, but it wasn’t this specific or mentioning of ACW, so here we go!

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Was Mary using Arthur?

Yes.

Love her or hate her, when you respond to Mary’s letter Arthur and meets her outside of Valentine, it becomes very clear that she lured Arthur in with her letter to save her brother, Jamie, from the chelonians (aka the weird turtle cult).

She admits this by saying Arthur is the only person she knows who can help, and she begs him to go and get Jamie back, despite how upset you can tell Arthur is at the prospect.

He makes it obvious when he tells her how he’s not good enough to be her husband, but is perfect to be her knight in shining armor. He even almost leaves before the player is given the choice to help Mary or not.

This continues on with the mission involving her father in Saint Denis, when you have to get back Mary’s broach after her father sells it for drinking and gambling money.

As I mentioned in my previous post, Mary knows Arthur is fiercely loyal. He is one of the most dedicated characters, and he has made many sacrifices over the years that have cost him so much, with even Mary being one of them.

She knows that, and he does. Arthur writes about how Mary can “play him like a fiddle” and “like no one else.” He knows he’s being used, that he’s just falling down the rabbit hole again and he knows where it ends.

But he will always come when Mary calls. Always.

Granted, near the last mission, it is obvious Mary cares for him too. That their spark was never quite snuffed out.

The problem is that the ended for a reason, and no matter how much time passes or what they long for, they are both too stubborn to really compromise for one another.

Saying this though, Arthur did want to leave the gang to be with her if you continue with her side missions, but it just wasn’t meant to be.

It never was, and they both know that.

It’s just a matter of actually admitting it to themselves and each other.

Was she selfish or reasonable when she left?

I would say there is SOME reason in Mary initially rejecting Arthur, but there is a catch that makes it not entirely pure.

It is understandable if Mary broke her engagement off with Arthur if it had solely been about him running with Dutch and remaining an outlaw, but it wasn’t.

It’s stated in the game that the main reason Mary and Arthur split was because of Mary’s father and his intolerance of Arthur, and the hypocrisy of it all.

Arthur hates Mary’s father. And for good reason.

Arthur isn’t a good man, but he is honest about it. He never hid what he was from Mary, and she knew when they got together that he was in the Van Der Linde gang and what he did in it.

But that didn’t matter until Mary’s father put his foot down, saying Mary had no reason to be with someone like Arthur.

It would be rational if his reasoning was that Arthur was too dangerous with his lifestyle for Mary, but it mainly came down to a battle of morals.

Mary’s father views Arthur as scum, a criminal not worthy of his daughter. He constantly drags Arthur into the dirt, and places himself and his daughter up on a pedestal that he deems unreachable by the likes of Arthur.

The problem is, Mary’s father is just as crooked as Arthur in some ways.

He’s a drunkard, a liar, a thief.

While you can argue we don’t know much about him, we do know just from the mission in Saint Denis that heals Mary’s belongings to sell them so he can continuously fuel his addictions at a cost to his family.

The way he talks to Arthur is condescending, and you can tell that there is definitely a war of egos going on between the two men.

It’s pretty much just a pissing war, with Arthur being the main target with even Mary taking jabs at him, and refusing to acknowledge he flaws in her father.

Ultimately, it is why they split.

And that’s why her leaving Arthur isn’t as reasonable as it could be if her intentions were solely based on the clash between her father and Arthur, and her denial to see that her father was only ever calling the kettle black.

I wouldn’t necessarily label it as selfish until she demands that Arthur change, when she can’t even admit that her father isn’t as great as he’s made out to be.

Was it fair of her to tell Arthur he could never change?

Okay, so I do want to say this before I get into the logistics of Mary saying that to Arthur: this game is focused on showing us redemption.

Arthur the entire game, Arthur is reflecting and figuring out if the man he is now is the man he wants to be.

Mary saying this line was assuredly to drive home Arthur’s will to change for the better, or to overall look at himself and know that something needed to be done.

So I wouldn’t entirely say it was all on Mary for that line— it was definitely a ploy by the writers for their overall message in the game.

However, they chose Mary as a conduit to relay this because she is from Arthur’s past, and the reason why they split was, as she says, because Arthur wasn’t willing to part with the gang and change for her.

Once upon a time it may have been true, but things were different. I doubt Dutch was the man we came to know, even in the prequel, and things weren’t going to hell as they were. It was the calm before the storm, so why would Arthur think he needed to pack up and leave when everything was just fine?

But the changes in Dutch and the changes in the world that were driving the life an outlaw to extinction have Arthur reconsidering everything, even before we play. There is doubts being voiced with Arthur as soon as chapter one, and that alone speaks of a great shift within him.

He isn’t blind anymore. He can’t afford to be.

And he sure as hell isnt blind when it comes to himself.

We see how Arthur is changing from the very beginning, and we can tell that he is thinking differently and wondering if this life is worth it anymore.

When Mary says Arthur cannot change, she is only refusing to see what is really happening, like with her father.

As I wrote in another post, she calls upon Arthur and uses him because he is he only person she thinks she can go to when Jamie needs saved, and when her father does too.

She keeps Arthur around and on a string because of what he is. She doesn’t expect him to change because what she asks of him is the very thing she criticizes him for.

And as I said, you cannot expect someone to change when you keep them around for what they already are.

So no, it wasn’t fair of her to say that. Both because Arthur was capable, and she wouldn’t let him prove he did.

And what about ACW or just another significant other being with Arthur when Mary reappears?

Oh anon, I can definitely tell you that Mary will be touched upon and talked about in my fic. There’s no doubt, because Mary is one reason Arthur is the way that he is.

I don’t want to spoil much, or explain things as I intended with the story, but yes— come chapter two, expect Mary to come into the picture.

As for Arthur having a different significant other, they wouldn’t be happy.

It’s obvious that Arthur isn’t over her, that he never quite can be. He is always loyal to her, and even with a significant other, he would more than likely still help Mary when she asked him to.

That being said, he would be able to admit that what they had has passed, and if Mary does express interest, Arthur would just smile sadly at her and tell her it’s a while too late.

He will remain kind to her, but he wouldn’t jeopardize his new relationship over something he knows won’t work out, and is wrong like that.

Of course, there would more than likely be fights between Arthur and his partner. Lingering jealousy, fear of him being unfaithful— of something rekindling.

Him still offering to help Mary won’t help the situation, but it is going to be up to his partner if they want to see through to his intentions.

Which isn’t anything romantic with Mary. For him, it’s a principle thing.

Because his heart is with his partner, no matter what. But he would not leave Mary out to dry just because it no longer lies with her.

With ACW, we’ll see this play out, and I’m pretty excited to portray the tension and conflict when it comes to Mary’s sudden reappearance and calling on Arthur.

So, looks like that’s it! Thanks for the submission, anon!

Hoped this answered all your questions! If not, of if you have any more, just hit the inbox up again. ;)

#arthur morgan #arthur morgan / mary linton #mary linton #rdr #rdr2 #red dead redemption #red dead redemption 2 #mary gilis #ask #anon #anon ask #submission #amidst a clash of worlds

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thelastconfessor · 4 years

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ibankabsyar · 2 years

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REST IN PEACE, GILIANTI MONIQUE.

Hallo, kamu apa kabar di sana? Gimana keadaan di sana? Pasti sekarang kamu sudah bahagia ya? Menyenangkan sepertinya bisa berada dipelukan sang pencipta.

Izinkan aku menceritakan kisah kita, boleh? Kamu tau sendiri ingatan aku agak lemah, aku ingin kisah kita bisa diingat dalam dunia digital, aku ingin kisah kita abadi, aku yakin kamu pun sependapat dengan aku.

Kembali ke bulan Februari 2020,

Momentum pertama kali kita ketemu, kamu masih ingat? Awal kamu datang ke tempat aku, kamu datang dengan Stevi (hai Stev, kalo kamu baca tulisan ini terimakasih telah mempertemukan aku dengan Gili) Jika tidak salah pertama kali aku melihat kamu sedang menggunakan dress hitam karena pada malam itu kamu baru pulang dari tempat kerja dan berkunjung ke kamar Stevi. Disaat yang sama aku diundang masuk ke tempat Stevi dan kita berbincang bertiga di malam itu, mungkin singkatnya segitu awal kita bertemu, tidak lupa akhirnya kita saling bertukar media sosial. Hehe, dasar aku.

Beberapa hari kemudian, kamu membalas instastory ketika aku sedang liburan, ini momentum pertama kita saling sapa lewat dunia digital. Oh iya, kamu ingat dulu aku sering manggil kamu tante karena jarak usia kita yang berbeda sekitar 4 tahun, kamu "sudah" muda dan aku masih muda. Tenang, aku tidak akan bilang kamu tua karena kamu tidak suka dibilang seperti itu.

Seiring berjalanannya waktu komunikasi kita semakin sering, dimulai dari bercanda santai sampai pembicaraan yang bercanda banget, kita mulai sharing tentang kehidupan masing-masing, gimana dunia kamu, gimana dunia aku, dan ternyata kita ada sedikit kecocokan. Sambil berbincang lewat dunia maya aku selalu menyelipkan "siasat" agar kamu mau untuk datang ke tempat aku lagi. Hehe dasar aku.

Lucunya adalah jarak tempat kerja kamu ke tempat aku tidak lebih dari 300 meter, tetapi kamu selalu salah jalan untuk datang ke tempat aku, ya aku ingat momentum itu.

Berjalannya waktu kamu sering datang ke tempat aku tanpa harus aku minta lagi. aku tau "siasat" kamu datang ke tempat aku dengan alesan "eh gua pengen masak tempat lo dong!" Atau "gua pengen nonton Zombie lagi deh!" Karena film favorit kamu bertema zombie horror freak gituuu aneeeh. Padahal dibalik alesan itu aku tau kamu ingin datang ke tempat aku (maaf untuk kali ini kamu udah gak bisa ngelak lagi) hehe, dasar kamu.

Intensitas komunikasi dan pertemuan yang semakin sering kita lakukan akhirnya muncul perasaan rindu ketika kamu jauh, rindu ketika pagi hariku diberi senyuman kamu, rindu ketika lelah bekerja dan tidak ada tempat untuk bersandar, tempat bercerita bagaimana hari yang sudah aku lewati. Bahagia aku menjadi sempurna ketika kamu bilang bahwa apa yang aku rasa ternyata kamu pun merasakan rindu yang sama.

Hingga pada suatu malam di rooftop bangunan tempat aku tinggal, kita saling mengutarakan apa yang kita rasa, langkah apa yang harus kita ambil? Kuatkah kita lewati semua dengan beban yang sudah kita bawa sebelum kita bertemu? Akan menjadi apa kita kedepannya? Awalnya kita ragu jika kita bersama apa kita akan baik-baik saja, apa kita akan menjadi orang yang berbeda setelah ini? Dengan penuh keyakinan karena aku sedang dibanjiri hormon oksitosin pada saat itu aku bilang kita bisa melewati semua kedepan bersama. Tidak seperti kebanyakan orang yang memiliki tujuan jelas jika mereka bersama, hal itu tidak berlaku untuk kita, kita tidak peduli dengan tujuan kita akan dibawa kemana yang terpenting adalah saling membahagiakan, dan kamu pun dengan penuh senyum berucap mari saling membahagiakan. Hehe, dasar aku.

By the waaaaay! Mungkin suatu saat nanti aku akan lanjutkan cerita ini. Dikarenakan pandanganku sedang tidak normal akibat air mata yang deras mengalir dan kadar alkohol yang agak melebihi batas dalam darah ini, aku simpan dulu ceritanya sampai keadaan kembali normal.

Last but not least.. Rest in peace, Gil!

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She hated how much she liked him now

Thank you sooo much for the prompt!!!

The “him” in the prompts are replaced with “her” since this is a fem!jily fic!!! I had too many ideas for this fic...maybe I’ll write some of the rest in the future, but here you go!

You can read it here or on ao3

THE CURLY SQUAD

(Tuesday 16:00)

Sirius Black: moony and the rest of you pay up

Marlene Mckinnon: why should we pay u?

Remus Lupin: u still owe me 20 btw so i dont think i will

Sirius Black: ofc ppl like u wouldnt know smh

jamie finally asked lily on a date

Peter Pettigrew: Wait what

Marlene McKinnon: afsjtksjdggehej

when

how

tell me everything

Sirius Black: well little prongsie finally sucked up and asked ickle lilykins on date

voila

Marlene McKinnon: give me the details black

or i s2g ill kick u out of the group

Sirius Black: empty threats

if u really wanna know u can go ask em

(Marlene McKinnon has removed Sirius Black from the group chat)

Peter Pettigrew: Remind me to not ever cross paths with Marlene

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THE CURLY SQUAD

(Tuesday 17:00)

Jamie Potter: good riddance

thx marls

Marlene McKinnon: got u covered hon

now spill

Jamie Potter: i hv a date with lil on friday:)

Lily Evans: that she does;)

Marlene McKinnon: i demand details ppl

(Dorcas Meadows has removed Marlene McKinnon from the group chat)

Remus Lupin: wh did u do that for

Dorcas Meadowes: She was being too nosy

I didn't like it

Jamie Potter:.........thx??

Dorcas Meadowes: Welcome sweetie

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THE CURLY SQUAD

(Tuesday 17:34)

Mary Macdonald: wait what????!!!!!??!

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JILY LAMES TALK

(Wednesday 16:30)

Sirius Black: r v up for spying on them on fri?

Marlene Mckinnon: u kno it;)

Mary Macdonald: hell yeah

Peter Pettigrew: Yes! ofc

Remus Lupin: we should give them some privacy sirius

tho ik its a foreign concept to you

Dorcas Meadowes: Obviously

And of course I wanna spy on them

Remus Lupin: but still...yes

Sirius Black: ther is no privacy between frnds

YAAY

Marlene Mckinnon: so v meet up at 4 outside the bistro next to three broomsticks

Peter Pettigrew: Wait when’s their date and where?!??

Mary Macdonald: at 5 in 3 broomsticks pete cmon keep up

Remus Lupin: how did u know that?

Sirius Black: im her brother and both their best frnds its obvio that id be the first one to kno

Marlene Mckinnon: and im lilys best frnd too sirius

Dorcas Meadows: You spied on them didnt you?

Sirius Black: v hv all the rights to spy on them

Mary Macdonald: wait i thought that i was lilys best frnd

Dorcas Meadowes: I can confidently say that it’s neither of you

I’m her best friend

Sirius Black: prove it

Marlene Mckinnon: yeah!

Dorcas Meadowes: (sends an attachment)

Marlene Mckinnon: shit

Mary Macdonald: …...fair

___________

Private chat between Jamie Potter and Lily Evans

(Thursday 19:45)

Jamie Potter: cant wait for our date tomorrow

Lily Evans: ik u cant

Jamie Potter:

Lily Evans: <3

;)

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Private chat between Jamie Potter and Sirius Black

(Thursday 19:48)

Jamie Potter: sirius sirius sirius

lily just sent me a winky face emoticon!!!!

what do i do???!!!?!!!?!?!

(Message read at 19:49)

______________

Private chat between Jamie Potter and Lily Evans

(Thursday 19:51)

Jamie Potter: :D

_______________

Private chat between Jamie Potter and Lily Evans

(Friday 16:30)

Jamie Potter: u ready?

Lily Evans: yes !

wher r u

Jamie Potter: cool

just reached ur door

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JILY LAMES TALK

(Friday 16:30)

Sirius Black: where tf r u guys

its only me and marlene here

Mary Macdonald: just outta class

be there in 10

Remus Lupin: home

Peter Pettigrew: At the ice cream parlor for ice cream

Dorcas Meadows: Oh get me some too Pete?

Remus Lupin: me too pls pete

Mary Macdonald: oooh id like some too

mint chocolate chip for me pls

Peter Pettigrew: Sure thing! wh abt the rest of u??

Dorcas Meadowes : Strawberry! with a lot of strawberries as toppings!!!

Remus Lupin : devils choc ofc

Sirius Black : guys can v focus at the matter in hand??!!

also charcoal ice cream pls

just as black as my soul

Peter Pettigrew : ...k

U marls??

Marlene Mckinnon:..........vanilla. thx

____________

JILY LAMES TALK

(Friday 16:45)

Sirius Black: where tf r u guys?!!??!?

theyll b here any sec

Remus Lupin: sirius everyone is here

except for u and marlene

where tf r u guys?!!???

Marlene McKinnon: we r at the spirit store

where tf r u guys????

Sirius Black: i told u guys to meet us here

Dorcas Meadowes: Wtf is a spirit store?

Sirius Black: a store that sees our spirit

Peter Pettigrew: Ur ice creams starting to melt!!!!!!

Mary MacDonald: oh the halloween costume shop?

why?

Sirius Black: to dress up ofc

Marlene Mckinnon: honesty guys?

lily and jamie will recognise us if v go like this

and v cant afford that!!!!

Remus Lupin: that is smart….

didnt expect it from u both

Sirius Black: fuck you remus

fuck you

Dorcas Meadowes: So what are our disguises??

Marlene McKinnon: dog ears and nose

a gily suit

a moon suit

rat whiskers and ears

a tree hat and glasses

and a big floppy hat and sunglasses for my beautiful girlfriend

Dorcas Meadowes: ………….

Peter Pettigrew: Dorcas and remus took ur ice cream btw

Something about it melting, u being stupid and u not being here

Sirius Black: remy how could u

Marlene McKinnon: ffs dorcas

i thought u loved me

Peter Pettigrew: Who’s wearing what costume?

Remus Lupin: also sirius

do u really think that we can pull it off?

itd be tooo obvious

Mary Macdonald: nd theyll realise that we r spying on them

Sirius Black: they couldnt even realise that they had a crush on each other until i intervened

do you think that theyll realise that its us???????

Remus Lupin: …...point

Sirius Black: so im wearing the dog ears and nose

marls gonna wear the gily suit

the moon hat and the silver suit is for u remus

Marlene Mckinnon: the rat whiskers r for peter

and the tree hat and sunglasses r for mary :)

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JILY LAMES TALK

(Friday 16:55)

Sirius Black: ok now positions!

marlene mary and i r sitting in the booth behind the big fat hydrangea

nd remus peter nd dorcas r gonna sit 2 rows behind them in the corner table outside

Peter Pettigrew: How do u even know where the r gonna sit?????!!!!!???

Marlene Mckinnon: v bribed the receptionist obviously

Sirius Black: she will make sure that they sit second in the row between the hydrangeas and the window

Remus Lupin: how can v hear them if v r outside??

Marlene Mckinnon: oh hush remus

ever heard of privacy?

Remus Lupin: wtf do u think we r doing rn??!!?!??!?!!

Dorcas Meadowes: Making sure the date goes perfectly?

Sirius Black: thank u dorcas

Mary Macdonald: yeah!

exactly

Remus Lupin: …………

i give up

Peter Pettigrew: Just now?

Thought u gave up when Jamie successfully insulted Lily two yers back when in fact she was supposed to ask her out on a date :/

Sirius Black: that was a good laugh

___________

JILY LAMES TALK

(Friday 17:04)

Peter Pettigrew: Ok they’re sitting rn

Dorcas Meadowes: Don’t they look cute together

Remus Lupin: do i hv to wear this silvery rocky suit?!??!

Sirius Black: yes

and yes they look perfect

our ship is finally sailing

Dorcas Meadowes: Is is is Jamie stuffing a breadstick in her nose

Peter Pettigrew: No I think she’s trying to look like a walrus

Remus Lupin: she does not need to embarrass herself more

Mary Macdonald: u really think this is anything compared to the time when she tripped over her cat and fell on lilys bday cake?

Sirius Black: lolol

the bruise she left him with lasted for two weeks

Dorcas Meadowes: I stg that woman has the best boxing skills

Marlene Mckinnon: dorcas!!!! not me????

im ur girlfriend!!!

Mary Macdonald: lolololol

she thought that jamie did it on purpose for years lol

Marlene McKinnon: and why tf is lily doing the same

i thought she had more sense than that

Remus Lupin: love can do that to you ya know

Sirius Black: u would know

Marlene McKinnon: ohhh look jamie snorted the breadstick out of her mouth!!

neat

Mary Macdonald: lily did it too

Mary Macdonald: i think she has enough sense to not offend lily

Remus Lupin: ya think?

u want me to remind u about all the times she offended lily?

Peter Pettigrew: Yeah so much that she hated Jamie

Sirius Black: nah she didnt

if anything lily hates how much she likes her now

Marlene Mckinnon: do u think theyll order soup?

Sirius Black: yeah ig

jamie wants it to be all fancy

Marlene McKinnon: pls dont order tomato soup

Mary Macdonald: it awfully looked a lot like the waiter said no tomato soup

Peter Pettigrew: Really? Lily hates tomatoes why would Jamie order em

Thought she wouldn’t today

At least

Sirius Black: thank hell jamie didnt order the tomato one

Dorcas Meadowes: Remember when Jamie made marinara for Lily to impress her lol

Remus Lupin: that plan backfired soo bad

Marlene Mckinnon at least lilys prank to get back at her was awesome

Sirius Black: that was such a power move!!!

and including taylor’s song

shehgeueytoaknd

Remus Lupin: tho she coloured her cat the so called emerald green and not key lime green and v had to listen to her go on and on abt how lily knows her fav colour

Mary Macdonald: jamie continued to think that it meant that she knew it for three months

Dorcas Meadowes: As if u didnt like it

Mary Macdonald: lol i did love it

Peter Pettigrew: They are bonkers

Dorcas Meadowes: Bonkers for each other

Sirius Black: lol

Dorcas Meadowes: Their soup’s here

Sirius Black: spinach soup???

ewww jamie

Peter Pettigrew: Ahh creamy mushroom soup for Lil ig

Awesome choice

Mary Macdonald: they really ought to try new things

smh

___________

JILY LAMES TALK

(Friday 17:16)

Remus Lupin: wh did u guys order?

we ordered a lasagna

Marlene Mckinnon:?uhh same

ohhh look

Peter Pettigrew: The waiter’s back with pasta for both of them YAY

Do you guys think that they realised that we are spying on them??

Marlene Mckinnon: nah they’re hopeless Pete so no

Sirius Black: thank hell that they r cute

Remus Lupin: lol

Dorcas Meadowes: 3 yrs ago I wouldnt have thought that they would be here together on a date

Mary Macdonald: hell they woulnt have even been here as friends

Remus Lupin: or come here with us

Marlene Mckinnon: lily didnt even kno that she is bi then

Dorcas Meadowes: Yeah

It was quite a rough time for her

Peter Pettigrew: Guyssss

I have a question

Dorcas Meadowes: Shoot Pete

Peter Pettigrew: Why is the group name curly squad?

I mean only Dorcas’s hair is curly I only gathered that much

Dorcas Meadowes: Lol no Pete

Sirius Black: LOLOLOL

Marlene Mckinnon: lolll

Dorcas Meadowes Ohk so

None of us here are just straight so we’re curly lol

Sirius Black: lil nd i r bi

u r ace

dorcas nd mary r pans

remus is gay

jamie is lesbian

Marlene Mckinnon: i am bi too

u already knew that but still

Sirius Black: so yeah thats why

Peter Pettigrew: Oh wow

Thanks guys

Sirius Black: np pete

Peter Pettigrew: Jamie just leaned over to brush the remnants of pasta from lilys lips!!!!!!!!

Mary Macdonald: thats soo cute they r perfect

Sirius Black: nauseating more like

Dorcas Meadowes: I’m just revelling in the fact that she didnt brush him off

Marlene Mckinnon: thats second year of uni lily

even first fits in the category

Peter Pettigrew: and she held her hand!!!!!

Bold

Sirius Black: is that…...snep

Remus Lupin: snep?????

Dorcas Meadowes: Where

Sirius Black: behind u guys

Remus Lupin: OHHHH FUCK

Mary Macdonald: do u think that he knows abt their date

Sirius Black: well jamie did post it on her insta so…….

Dorcas Meadowes: Oh shit

Peter Pettigrew: Shit alright

Marlene Mckinnon: hes coming over ig

Mary Macdonald: yup hes in

Sirius Black: WHYYYYYY MUST YOU DO THIS TO ME GOD

COULDNT YOU LET MY SHIP LIVE IN PEACE!!!!

Remus Lupin: well u know what they say abt cannons sinking a ship :/

Sirius Black: remus theodore lupin u dare say that jily lames is not cannon

Marlene Mckinnon: remus ralph lupin wtf

Dorcas Meadowes: Remy, how could you?

Peter Pettigrew: Why would you say that Remus?

Mary Macdonald: remus john lupin u take that back right this instant

oh we r playing call remus wrong names

sry I didnt realise

Remus Lupin: i am sry guys I ship jily as much as u do

Sirius Black: LAMES

Remus Lupin: but i had to lol

i think v should go stop him from disturbing them

Mary Macdonald: hes already headed their way

its too late

Marlene Mckinnon: i s2g i will punch snep today if he does anything to them

Sirius Black: ill tackle him

Marlene McKinnon: perfect

Mary Macdonald: v might blow our cover too

not that im worried abt that

tho they might not appreciate the sentiment

Sirius Black: v shld go

Dorcas Meadowes: I feel like they'll want to handle this themselves

But ok!

Mary Macdonald: ok he hates u and remus the most so dorcas and i should go first

Sirius Black: but im their best friend

Dorcas Meadowes: Too late they’re already talking

Sirius Black: NOOOOOO

Remus Lupin: ig he just mentioned siris name

Sirius Black: seems that way

if he says anything abt jamie or reg i will lose it

Dorcas Meadowes: I think he’s berating lily for being out with jamie….

Mary Macdonald: ofc what else does the greasy slime ball know

Sirius Black: ok im gonna go

Peter Pettigrew: How to grease your hair 101??

Sirius Black: lol yes

Marlene Mckinnon: is he

is he pointing over to us

Mary Macdonald:k they r looking at us

Peter Pettigrew: Did Lily just call ur name out, guys?

Dorcas Meadowes: Mary, make sure Marls and Sirius don’t do anything stupid

_________

“Sirius, no!” Remus shouted, as the boy in question marched over to Jamie’s and Lily’s table.

“Well, hello there snivellus. Looking positively greasy today aren’t we?” Sirius taunted.

“What are you doing here Black?” Snape sneered.

Sirius hummed before responding, “We just fancied a dinner here. What about you?”

“Looking for something to grease?” Marlene chimed.

“Marlene,” Lily warned.

“Thought I’d visit my friend Lily here. That’s all Black,” Snape answered.

“More like crash her date,” Dorcas muttered, as she joined the group around Lily and Jamie’s table with Remus, Mary, and Peter.

“I am not your friend Snape.” Lily stood up, accompanied by Jamie.

“Lily!” The greasy haired man faced her pleadingly, “I care about you a lot. That’s why I’m telling you to not date Potter! Thinking that you’re bi may well just be a phase that’ll go away, Lily. Moreover, she doesn’t really care about you! She just thinks that you are some sort of prize to be won.”

Jamie looked like she wanted to dislocate Snape’s jaw, her fists curled at her sides. But the warning glance Lily threw her, made her insides calm down

“You know nothing about me Snape,” Lily said, with gritted teeth. “Now go away before I dislocate your nose.” Sirius whistled in support.

“Lily, we’ve been best friends since we were ten. I know you, Lily. Please listen to me,”

“If you were my best friend you’d have supported me instead of behaving like an ignorant ass. Now please go away.”

“Lily, please.”

Barely a moment later, Lily’s fist connected with Snape’s nose. Blood leaked down his front, while the rest of the gang rushed to vocally support her.

“You’ll regret that Lily!” Snape glared threateningly.

Before long, Sirius had tackled Snape to the ground, and accidentally splattered the lasagna the waiter was bringing over to their table, on Snape’s head.

“I...“ Lily began.

“You can save your breath, Lils,” Sirius started, “he’s a harmless, entitled prick”

“Looks like you have a lot of grease to get rid of, Snep,” Marlene announced.

“And Snep, pro tip: the only shampoo that keeps the grease at bay is the Sleakeasy shampoo. You should try it out!” Jamie, ever so helpful, advised, and moved to position her hand behind Lily’s back.

“Sorry about that Sir, we’ll cover the charges for the ill-fated lasagna,” Sirius apologised to the waiter as he helped him up from the ground.

“Could you please get him out of this shop? He’s been troubling us, as you can see,” Dorcas asked, politely.

The waiter simply looked baffled. However, he nodded and successfully escorted Snape out of the restaurant.

“Now this is going to be quite the first date story to tell at the wedding.” Peter spoke up for the first time since they gathered at the table between the hydrangeas and the windows.

Jamie blushed and looked around, anywhere but at Lily, though her hand never left Lily’s back, while the redhead laughed at her.

“Well, since we’re all together, we can have dessert and you can continue spying on us while sitting at our table,” Lily said. “Nice ears you’ve got there, Sirius. Though I’d prefer Dorcas’s floppy hat.”

“Yeah! I personally love the whiskers, Pete. Seriously, Marlene? A gily suit? Inconspicuous much? And Remus, you have enough sense to stop them!” Jamie put on.

Remus just shrugged, his big crescent shaped moon hat toppling Mary’s tree hat downwards. “Sorry,” he said, bending to pick it up.

“Thanks,” she said, when he gave the hat to her, “why did we agree to wear these again?”

“So we would be incognito, Mary”

“And we were successful! These oblivious dorks didn’t even realise that it was us until old snivelly pointed it out,” Sirius stated.

“Also, we did have ice-cream before coming here, so you guys should continue, we’ll leave,” Dorcas said.

“Hey! We didn’t get to eat that ice-cream! You and Remus took it from us,” Marlene reprimanded.

“Yeah! So we’ll be staying here and you guys can shoo away,” Sirius included.

“Well in that case you can all leave and get yourselves ice cream while Lily and I can finally enjoy our date,” Jamie, now pushing Sirius, and shoo-ing the others to the doors, said.

“Say what you want Jamie, I am enjoying our date,” expressed Lily.

“You are?” Jamie turned around, completely forgetting the others in the room.

“Well, looks like they’re more nauseating and lame than before. Should we go?” Asked Marlene.

“Nah. Let’s just sit outside and spy on them through the window,” Sirius smirked.

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