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youremyheaven · 9 months

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vedic astrology observations

philosophical songwriters often have tropical virgo and pisces placements. many of them have jupiter ruled nakshatras. mrigashira nakshatra pops up a lot as well. all of these placements contribute to the contemplative nature of these natives, they are deeply reflective and take on an almost religious tone with regard to how they speak of things.

hozier- pbp sun + mercury, anuradha moon with ashlesha ketu

leonard cohen- uttaraphalguni sun, purvaphalguni venus, pushya ketu

sufjan stevens- ubp moon, mrig mercury, jup revati amk, punarvasu saturn amk, ketu in krittika

(in my previous post, i had mentioned how ubp & punarvasu natives love butterfly imagery and here's sufjan on stage with wings!!)

bob dylan- rohini sun and venus, krittika moon, mrig mercury, ubp ketu

bruce springsteen, uttaraphalguni sun, chitra moon+ mercury +ketu, swati venus, mrig rising

joni mitchell vishaka sun + mercury, pbp moon, punarvasu rising, mrig mars atmakaraka

2. Shatabhisha & Pushya natives make great teachers. They thrive in positions where they're able to empower and encourage others.

Sidney Poitier in perhaps his most famous role, as a teacher, in To Sir With Love. He has Shatabhisha sun.

Robin Williams, in one of his most iconic roles, as a teacher in Dead Poets Society (he also plays a teacher in Good Will Hunting). He has Pushya sun, Shatabhisha moon.

Aamir Khan plays a teacher in one of his most known roles in Taare Zameen Par. He has Pushya moon.

3. Fairy Godmother roles in cinema are often played by either Taurus rashi or Pisces rashi individuals

In the 1987 movie Maid to Order, the fairy godmother is played by Beverly D'Angelo who is Rohini moon

in the 1997 movie A Simple Life, Martin Short plays the fairy godmother. he has UBP stellium (sun, mercury and rahu)

1997's Cinderella has Whitney Houston playing the fairy godmother. she has Revati moon & jupiter (ive talked about pisces rashi's connection to butterflies before and look at how whitney's spreading her wings in this picture!🥺)

in 2015's Cinderella, Helena Bonham Carter plays the fairy godmother. she has Rohini sun & Ketu in Revati

Maleficent is played by Rohini sun, Revati moon native, Angelina Jolie

i've previously talked about how Rohini nakshatra is associated with shape shifting and transformation and Revati nakshatra is known as the wealth giving star. These two combined create the ability to deeply transform one's life, heal from old wounds and ways of living and rise to the high echelons of society. They're both known for creating wealth. it only makes sense that these natives would be chosen time and time again to play the "fairy godmother" responsible for transforming the lives of a virtuous person trapped in unjust circumstances

4. ive noticed that many mars ruled men (mrigashira, chitra, dhanishta) go after older women 👀 bharani is another nakshatra that pops up often (bharani is the meeting point of mars and venus)

my personal take on this is that mars influence makes natives interested in taboo and unconventional topics and areas. all 3 mars ruled nakshatras belong to the "servant caste" and bharani is an outcaste nakshatra. what this says is that these people have no desire or need to conform or adhere to the norms set by society. they don't care for the status quo and feel no sense of belonging to mainstream society so they simply do as they please<3

Ashton Kutcher, Dhanishta stellium (sun,moon & venus) was married to Demi Moore who is 15 years older than him. Demi is a Bharani moon.

Aaron Taylor Johnson has Mrigashira sun, Dhanishta moon and venus in Bharani and his wife Sam Taylor Johnson is 24 years older than him.

Hugh Jackman, Chitra sun (and mercury) and Mrigashira moon is married to Debora Lee Furness who is 13 years older than him.

Emmanuel Macron, Bharani moon is married to Brigitte Macron who is 25 years older than him

Nick Jonas, Bharani moon, Chitra venus and Ketu in Mrigashira is married to Priyanka Chopra who is 10 years older

Nick Offerman is married to Megan Mullaly who is 12yrs older than him. He has Mrigashira mercury atmakaraka and Saturn in Bharani amatyakaraka

Nick Cannon, Bharani rising was married to Mariah Carey who is 12yrs older than him

Blake Shelton, Mrigashira sun & venus, Jupiter in Bharani atmakaraka with Ketu in Bharani is married to Gwen Stefani who is 7yrs older

Roger Moore was married to Dorothy Squires who is 12 yrs older than him. He had Chitra sun & mars (amatyakaraka & atmakaraka)

5. others have made observations regarding how Jupiter influence blesses a native with voluptuousness. imo Jupiter, cancer rashi and Moon ruled nakshatras can make a native naturally busty.

Jupiter being the largest planet creates voluptuousness in its natives often blessing them with large breasts (obviously other placements will also impact your appearance) Cancer rashi because well, cancer rules the moon and the chest so its kind of a no brainer and honestly every cancer girl ik irl has a big bosom. Moon is yin and bestows its natives with a very curvy physique.

Christina Hendricks is Shravana moon

Billie Eilish is also Shravana moon

Emma Kenney is Vishaka moon with Ketu in Shravana

Ariel Winter is Shravana sun

Scarlett Johansson is Vishaka moon,rising and ketu

Katy Perry is vishaka moon & saturn

Jessica Simpson is Punarvasu sun & mercury and Vishaka rising

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Tumblr has a 30 image limit per post so I cant include more examples :( but look forward to pt 2 <3

#vedic astrology #vedic astro notes #astro observations #astrology notes #astro notes #sidereal astrology #astrology observations #nakshatras #astrology #astroblr #astro community #astro beauty

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esoterium · 7 months

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top 100 characters statistical "which character" is similar to yours personality quiz

**picking five characters i know to add to the list while i take a couple!!*

Nomi Marks (Sense8): 83%

Marianne (Portrait of a Lady): 83%

Inej Ghafa (Shadow and Bone): 83%

Salvatore Romano (Mad Men): 82%

F o x M u l d e r (T h e X - F i l e s): 82%

Torvi (Vikings): 82%

Baby (Baby Driver): 82%

Ally Maine (A Star Is Born): 82%

Marie Kreutz (The Bourne Identity): 81%

Riley Blue (Sense8): 81%

Elisa Esposito (The Shape of Water): 81%

Buck Vu (The OA): 81%

Alice Cullen (Twilight): 80%

Abby Sciuto (NCIS): 80%

Ben Hargreeves (TUA): 80%

Andy Dufresne (The Shawshank Redemption): 80%

Floki (Vikings): 80%

Rogue (X-Men): 80%

Amanita Caplan (Sense8): 80%

Juliana Crain (The Man in the HC): 80%

Ola Nyman (Sex Ed): 80%

Willow Rosenberg (Buffy): 79%

Neo (The Matrix): 79%

Ariadne (Inception): 79%

Guinan (Star Trek: TNG): 79%

W i l l G r a h a m (H a n n i b a l): 79%

Bonnie Bennett (TVD): 79%

Monica Dutton (Yellowstone): 79%

Sam Button (The Perks): 79%

Frenchie (The Boys): 79%

Robin Buckley (ST): 79%

Marianne Sheridan (Normal People): 79%

W a n d a M a x i m o f f (WandaVision): 79%

Violet Parr (The Incredibles): 79%

Luna Lovegood (HP): 78%

Nymphadora Tonks (HP): 78%

Trinity (The Matrix): 78%

Jasper Hale (Twilight): 78%

Toni Topaz (Riverdale): 78%

Kalinda Sharma (The Good Wife): 78%

Han Lue (Fast & Furious): 78%

Amélie Poulain (Amélie): 78%

Maeve Wiley (Sex Education): 78%

Cassie Thomas (Promising Young Woman): 78%

River Tam (Firefly): 77%

Omar Little (The Wire): 77%

Morpheus (The Matrix): 77%

William H. 'Shakespeare' Hill (This Is Us): 77%

Jonah Byrde (Ozark): 77%

Chris Washington (Get Out): 77%

Lane Kim (Gilmore Girls): 77%

Céline (Before Sunrise): 77%

Ada Shelby (Peaky Blinders): 77%

Jonathan Byers (ST): 77%

Benjamin Button (TCCBB): 77%

Heloise (Portrait of a Lady): 77%

Lily Iglehart (Sex Ed): 77%

Naomi Nagata (The Expanse): 77%

Hester Prynne (The Scarlet Letter): 77%

Remus Lupin (HP): 76%

Maeve Millay (Westworld): 76%

Daniel Jackson (Stargate SG-1): 76%

Rosalind Walker (CAOS): 76%

Storm (X-Men): 76%

Hernando Fuentes (Sense8): 76%

Dr. Sean Maguire (Good Will Hunting): 76%

Mozzie (White Collar): 76%

Kinsey Locke (Locke & Key): 76%

J o h n W i c k (John Wick): 76%

Ekko (Arcane): 76%

Albus Dumbledore (HP): 75%

Inara Serra (Firefly): 75%

D'Angelo Barksdale (The Wire): 75%

Janis Ian (Mean Girls): 75%

Damian Leigh (Mean Girls): 75%

Dom Cobb (Inception): 75%

Michael Scofield (Prison Break): 75%

Jughead Jones (Riverdale): 75%

Darlene (Mr. Robot): 75%

Wyldstyle (The Lego Movie): 75%

Nairobi (Money Heist): 75%

Penelope (The Odyssey): 75%

Aunt Polly (Peaky Blinders): 75%

Penelope Garcia (Criminal Minds): 75%

Joyce Byers (ST): 75%

Will Byers (ST): 75%

Angela Montenegro (Bones): 75%

Maleficent (Maleficent): 75%

Kang Sae-byeok (Squid Game): 75%

Jules Vaughn (Euphoria): 75%

Viktor (Arcane): 75%

Suzuha Amane (Steins;Gate): 75%

Natalie (Yellowjackets): 75%

Jyn Erso (Rogue One): 75%

S i r i u s B l a c k (HP): 74%

Elizabeth Bennet (Pride & Prejudice): 74%

Black Widow (MCU): 74%

Paul Smecker (Boondock Saints): 74%

Ciri (The Witcher): 74%

Kurt Hummel (Glee): 73%

#one from the writer's desk (ooc)#this was fun!

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lattehearted · 1 month

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MUSE LIST

Archie Comics

Betty Cooper

Veronica Lodge

Disney

Daphne Tremaine (OC)

Delilah Tremaine (OC)

Diana Tremaine (OC)

Drizella Tremaine

Melody Andersen

Pacifica Northwest

Danganronpa (unfortunately lol)

Miu Iruma

Miyako Okamoto (OC)

Hanako "Peko" Pekoyama

Sonia Nordskov Nevermind

Yasu Sonada (OC)

Fandomless OCs

Alondra Santiago (modern witch OC)

Liora Avram (affiliated werewolf OC)

Nasreen Shirazi (affiliated vampire OC)

Fantasy High

Ayda Aguefort (TESTING)

Adaine Abernant / O'Shaughnessy

Aelwyn Abernant

Figueroth Faeth

Ostantatia Wallace (TESTING)

Sam Nightingale (TESTING)

Sandra Lynn Faeth (TESTING)

Fire Emblem

Annette Fantine Dominic (Three Houses ; TESTING)

Byleth Eisner (Three Houses ; she/they)

Corrin (Fates ; she/her ; TESTING)

Dorothea Arnault (Three Houses)

Hilda Valentine Goneril (Three Houses)

Ingrid Brandl Galatea (Three Houses)

Inigo / Laslow (Awakening and Fates)

Leonie Pinelli (Three Houses)

Maribelle (Awakening ; TESTING)

Olivia (Awakening ; TESTING)

Owain / Odin (Awakening and Fates)

Robin (Awakening ; she/her ; TESTING)

Severa / Selena (Awakening and Fates)

Sumia (Awakening ; TESTING)

Yunaka (Engage)

Miscellaneous

Forte Castagna (Rune Factory 4)

Juliet Capulet (reincarnation AU)

Leah Revankar-Walsh (Stardew Valley)

Wednesday Addams (90s movies and musical based)

Newsies

Graziella "Hotshot" Kowalski (OC)

Dungeons and Dragons (AUs for live play show universes and BG3 available)

Winlynn Ariel Northeris (air genasi bard)

Secret Menu

Abigail Lee-Dubois (Stardew Valley ; TESTING)

Alex Flores-Mulner (Stardew Valley)

Catalina Gonzales (dance instructor OC - loosely based on h*talia)

Giselle Legume (Disney OC)

Koriand'r / Kori Anders / Starfire (DC Comics)

Julie Powers (Scott Pilgrim ; TESTING)

Katherine Plumber (Newsies)

Oliver "Mush" Meyers (Newsies)

Phoebe Rae Carter (supernatural hunter OC)

Ramona Flowers (Scott Pilgrim ; TESTING)

Remy's Secret Menu

Albert Dasilva (Newsies)

Daniel "Spot" Conlon (Newsies)

Esperanza "Hope" Delgado (Newsies OC)

Hannah McGowan (Newsies)

Jyn Erso (Star Wars)

Harriet Hook (Disney OC)

Luna D'Angelo (fandomless OC)

"Poppy" Higgins (Newsies OC)

Sarah Jacobs (Newsies)

Peg Hunnicutt (M*A*S*H)

#muse list #blog maintenance tag

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jrueships · 2 years

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IT'S FINALLY FINISHED THANKS TO THE COLLECTIVE EFFORTS OF THE NBA MOOTS!! WE WIN!!!

let's begin 😎

OK so girlboss n malewife position dynamics differ from the str8 up position dynamics cus it relies more on the comparison to another person namean? like standalone steph klay jalen trae ja jimmy, theyre switchy, but shits a lil different here? expect some unexpected tops/bottoms! k so some MORE girlboss people I didn't have room for

Girlboss top: jimmy butler, MICHAEL JORDAN, jaylen brown, Robin lopez, Kawhi, Marcus smart, Rudy gay, Jonas valafuckthisshitbro, ja morant, OG, Fred vanvleet, pat bev, alex caruso LMAO, montrezl harrell, Charles barkley, BOBBYPORTIS WDJHD

Girlboss switch: rj barrett, dennis smith jr, Victor oladipo, collin sexton, de'aaron fox, Zach lavine, d'angelo Russell, immanuel quickley, Brandon ingram, javonte green, danny green, AI, pascal siakam,

Girlboss bottom: Chris Paul (powerbttm paul..), Donovan mitchell, kris dunn, tyrese maxey, keldon johnson, darius garland, dejounte murray, demarcus cousins, GP2, terry rozier, Wendell Carter jr

FOR THE MALEWIVES

Malewife top: boban, brook lopez, joel embiid, lebron, John wall, bam adebayo, myles turner, jarrett allen, royce o'neal, Ivica zubac, juancho hernangomez, Lou will, cade cunningham, shaq

Malewife switch: Jamal murray (confirmed by THE GURU and the guru's BELOVED!!), Devin Booker, luka doncic, carmelo anthony, Rudy gobert, KAT, Jordan poole, dwight howard, Giannis, Jordan clarkson, khris middleton, tyrese haliburton,

Malewife bottom: jrue holiday, Scottie pippen, Tobias harris, KD, Andre drummond, AD (unibrow bro), Jayson tatum, markelle fultz, Jae crowder, Andrew wiggins, Norman powell, Penny hardaway, coby white, jaesean tate, Daniel gafford, Blake griffin

#theres even intricacies in intricacies!#john wall n beal are tough cus it's like they took turns bein girlboss #but in the end theyre just two different spectrums of malewife!#some are wifeboss!! i think giannis would be very wifeboss!#some relationships can be girlbosstopmalewifetop!#LOTS OF PILE ON PILE THINGS TO THINK ABT !!#ted toiletries #THANK U MOOTS FOR THE HELP I HOPE THIS SENDS WELL #cj rlly out here thinking hes girlboss like dame wasnt right there next to him being a girlgod #insane #unrelated note but i actually hate jokics face here so bad WHY DID HE TAKE THAT PHOTO 😭😭#freddie benson ass pose !!

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benwishaw · 2 years

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Sorry, in the universe!!

omg, it's no problem, i'm just working with one (1) braincell today, but i digress... time to wax poetic about my favourite topic which is my OC Valerie and this group stranger things au.

i'm gonna put this under a read more bc i have a feeling i'm gonna go on and on and on lmaoooo

Ok so in the AU, everyone has kinda chosen different times/seasons to introduce their OC. In the case of Val, her arc technically starts when the show does, however she doesn't particularly know the main cast nor The Gang™ (the gang being a term I like to use to describe the OCs as a unit lol) until about Season 2 - except Steve who she knew by association with his shitty S1 friends but that's a WHOLE other thing re: her backstory. Although every one in the gang knows the kids in ST, the plot mainly revolves around the OCs and the teens given they're similar ages. So by the time the current season rolls around, Val would be friends with everyone (Steve, Nancy, Robin, Eddie, Billy - who I revived in the story bc he's Val's love interest... it's a long story) As far as her friends who are also OCs? I'll list them w links to their wonderful creators who I scream about ideas with on discord: Mars Duvall (@lustyargonianmaid), Lottie Byers (@galeboettichergf), Cass Parker (@oc-musings), Nickey D'Angelo (@hey-hey-its-magic) and 003 aka. Mina Shelley (@gcthamqueen). So yeah, that's her inner circle. Val kinda first became friends with Cass, Mars and Lottie around S2 era, and then not long after during a party where everything goes to shit she meets Nickey and Mina!

Anyway I just love them all so much!!!!!

#not to get emotional and shit lol but interacting and being apart of this au has made me feel so excited again in a time where my life...#...has felt kinda dull and boring and hopeless #so it means a lot to my cold dead heart AHAHHAHAAHA #anyway i hope that kinda answered your question #there's so much more to val's story but if i told it in entirety we would be here for days #asks #anon #stranger things au

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oceanmusings · 2 years

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Original Character Masterlist - Fandoms

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Percy Jackson

Arely Wesseck | form

Fc - Natalia Dyer | Love Interest - Percy Jackson

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Marvel

MCU! Charlotte "Charlie" D'Angelo | form

Fc - Vanessa Marano | Love Interest - Michelle "MJ" Jones or Peter Parker

TASM! Charlotte "Lottie" D'Angelo | WIP

Fc - Emmy Rossum | Love Interest - Peter Parker or Michael "MJ" Jones

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Harry Potter

Anna Diggory | form

Fc - Liza Weil | Love Interest - George Weasley

Karina Carter | WIP

Fc - Zendaya | Love Interest - Ginny Weasley, Harry Potter

Athena Owens | WIP

Fc - Jenny Walser | Love Interest - Fluer Delacour

Marauders

Ava-Rose Wyatt | form

Fc - Holland Roden | Love Interest - James Potter

Devyn Edwards | WIP

Fc - Eliza Scanlen | Love Interest - Remus Lupin

Reese Sudsworth | WIP

Fc - Joseph Quinn | Love Interest - Sirius Black

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The Walking Dead

Jennifer "JD" Moore | form

Fc - Jodie Comer | Love Interest - Daryl Dixon or Michonne Hawthorne

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Teen Wolf

Adam Dorian | WIP

Fc - Milo Ventimiglia | Love Interest - Allison Argent

Avery Primula | WIP

Fc - Sarah Ramos | Love Interest - Lydia Martin

Amelia "Amy" Primula | WIP

Fc - Mae Whitman | Love Interest - Isaac Lahey

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Red Dead Redemption

Emmaline Nielson | form

Fc - Jessica Brown Findlay | Love Interest - Arthur Morgan

Delilah Matthews | WIP

Fc - Rosamund Pike | Love Interest - Sadie Adler

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Stranger Things

Daisy Hopper | form

Fc - Florence Pugh | Love Interest - Robin Buckley

Paige Evans | WIP

Fc - Kate Hudson | Love Interest - Steve Harrington, Eddie Munson, Richie Campbell (oc)

Francis Levin | WIP

Fc - Aidan Gallagher | Love Interest - Will Byers

Viviane "Viv" Owens | WIP

Fc - Talia Ryder | Love Interest - Robin Buckley

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Criminal Minds

Arwen Valentine | form

Fc - Imogen Poots | Love Interest - Spencer Reid

Michaela " Mika" Briggs | WIP

Fc - Tatiana Maslany | Love Interest - Emily Prentiss

Dana Hart | WIP

Fc - Deborah Ann Woll | Love Interest - All

(unnamed) Perkins | WIP

Fc - Ashley Johnson | Love Interest - Emily Prentiss

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Switched at Birth

Adalia Parker | WIP

Fc - Holly Marie Combs | Love Interest - Kathryn Kennish

Cora Shepard | WIP

Fc - Haylay Williams | Love Interest - Tobey Kennish

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Supernatural

Lenore "Lori" Holt | form

Fc - Krysten Ritter | Love Interest - Dean Winchester or Charlie Bradbury

Virginia "Gigi" Rivers | WIP

Fc - Alyssa Milano | Love Interest - Castiel or Sam Winchester

Beau Rivers | WIP

Fc - Colin O'Donoghue | Love Interest - Bela Talbot

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Stalking Jack The Ripper Series

Morgan Nielson | WIP

Fc - Darci Shaw | Love Interest - Audrey Rose Wadsworth

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The Grishaverse

Stafford Lantsov | WIP

Fc - Harrison Osterfield | Love Interest - Genya Safin

Elisa Volkov | WIP

Fc - Mathilde Ollivier | Love Interest - Nikolai Lantsov

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Baldurs Gate 3

Prisma Daerel | WIP

Fc - drawing/game character | Love Interest - Shadowheart or Gale

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runedscope · 6 months

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My favorite part of jordan petersons new song was when he called Robin D'Angelo a race traitor and said she needs to be put in her place.

#what the fuck #jordan peterson #awful music #weird racism and antisexwork #so fucking weird #also just not a great song #196

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mess18 · 1 year

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Lòng tốt của bạn là con dao hai lưỡi?

Chẳng có gì sai nếu bạn đối xử tốt với tất cả mọi người.

Tuy nhiên, trong nhiều trường hợp, lòng tốt của bạn vượt quá giới hạn và nó gây ra tác dụng phụ ngoài mong đợi.

Theo chuyên gia tư vấn cách cư xử về mặt nhận thức Dr. Robin Buckey, CPC chia sẻ: “Quá tử tế là dấu hiệu cho thấy ai đó không tự tin với khả năng giao tiếp của mình, họ sợ làm đối phương phải thất vọng".

“Là một người quá tử tế hoặc không nói ra quan điểm thật của bản thân dần dần sẽ làm bạn cảm thấy bất công đến mức căm phẫn" (theo Robyn D'Angelo, LMFT, một nhà trị liệy tâm lý cho các cặp đôi và gia đình hợp pháp).

Dưới đây là danh sách những dấu hiệu nổi bật chứng minh bạn là một người quá tử tế, kết hợp các bí quyết để giữ cân bằng giữa bạn và những mối quan hệ xung quanh bạn:

1. Câu “Tôi xin lỗi" hay “Thứ lỗi cho tôi" là một trong những câu cửa miệng của bạn

Những người tử tế thường có xu hướng xin lỗi vì mọi thứ họ làm và đôi khi chẳng vì điều gì to tát cả.

Thậm chí nếu mục đích ban của bạn chỉ đơn thuần là tạo dựng hình ảnh đẹp trong mắt mọi người như một ngư��i tử tế và lịch sự thì việc bạn cứ luôn miệng “xin lỗi" hoàn toàn không cần thiết. Nếu bạn thường xuyên cư xử như vậy, có thể mọi người sẽ hiểu sai ý của bạn.

Nếu bạn nói điều gì đó thô lỗ, phải huỷ “kèo" vào phút cuối hay gây ra một lỗi lầm nào đó, hiển nhiên câu “xin lỗi" là cần thiết. Nếu không, một lời xin lỗi gượng ép sẽ làm bạn như thể một kẻ “tội đồ" trong khi bạn còn chưa làm điều gì sai cả.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Hãy thử nghiệm cả một ngày mà bạn không nói câu xin lỗi một lần nào. Điều này có nghĩa là bạn thậm chí không phải xin lỗi nếu ai đó va vào bạn.

Bằng cách nắm bắt được xu hướng phản ứng của bản thân trong những khoảnh khắc tương tự như vậy, bạn sẽ biết được tần suất đưa ra lời xin lỗi quá mức, và bạn sẽ biết cách điều tiết lại.

Bạn có thể thực hiện một cách tiếp cận dứt khoát hơn ở trong một vài tình huống trong cuộc sống.

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Thay vì xin lỗi một người bạn vì sự đến trễ của bạn trong bữa trưa, hãy cảm ơn họ vì đã kiên nhẫn chờ đợi bạn.

Thay vì xin lỗi sếp khi bạn không thể sắp xếp một cuộc họp với sự chuẩn bị kỹ càng, hãy thể hiện sự cảm kích của bạn vì đã được tham gia và yêu cầu gặp mặt để nắm rõ chi tiết vào thời điểm thuận lợi của hai bên.

2. Điều bạn muốn chẳng bao giờ được đáp ứng

Thực tế, người quá tử tế sẽ có xu hướng thu hút những người bạn có phần lười biếng, họ luôn luôn nhờ bạn giúp khi phải chuyển đồ đạc hay những thành viên trong gia đình luôn luôn “nhờ” bạn giúp họ việc này việc kia cho dù họ có thể tự làm được.

Thật đáng khen ngợi khi bạn giúp đỡ người khác nhưng nó sẽ là câu chuyện khác nếu những người đó không bao giờ “lộ diện" mỗi khi bạn cần. Bạn có để ý không? Nếu điều kể trên xảy ra, bạn không bao giờ có thời gian để hoàn thành mục tiêu riêng của mình hoặc những người xung quanh bạn hiếm khi đứng ra giúp bạn đến nơi đến chốn.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Hãy thành thật với bản thân cũng như những mối quan hệ xung quanh bạn rằng: “Bạn cũng có những khó khăn riêng và cần được giúp đỡ”. Hãy thể hiện cho bạn bè, người yêu hay người thân trong nhà rằng bạn thực sự chân trọng sự giúp đỡ của họ. Và một điều đặc biệt quan trọng, hãy bắt đầu ưu tiên hạnh phúc của bản thân.

3. Bạn cảm thấy “khó chịu" sau khi nói “có"

Nếu bạn luôn luôn đồng ý làm mọi việc chỉ vì bạn muốn được yêu thích chứ không phải bạn thực sự chân thành muốn làm hay có thời gian và năng lượng, sự oán giận sẽ bắt đầu hình thành.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Tuy có thể khó khăn giai đoạn đầu nhưng hãy thử tập nói “không" thường xuyên hơn. Hãy dành sự quan tâm đó cho những điều hoặc những người thực sự quan trọng với bạn. Bạn sẽ ngạc nhiên khi thấy mình bớt kiệt sức hơn, khi luôn phải ra sức đáp ứng yêu cầu của tất cả mọi người.

Nếu bạn lo lắng, hãy trả lời qua tin nhắn: “ Tôi rất muốn, nhưng rất tiếc hiện tại tôi chưa thể giúp bạn được" sau đó hãy cất chiếc điện thoại đi chỗ khác trước khi bạn muốn giải thích. Làm như vậy sẽ giúp bạn không cảm thấy quá tội lỗi. Hãy tôn trọng thời gian của bạn. Thời gian sẽ giúp bạn nhận ra đâu là những mối quan hệ đáng chân trọng thực sự.

4. Bạn lúc nào cũng lo lắng liệu bạn có đủ tốt trong mắt mọi người.

Nếu bạn nghĩ “Mọi người chỉ quý mến bạn nếu bạn đối xử tốt hay luôn giúp đỡ họ" thì bạn đã sai. Bạn không thể làm vừa lòng tất cả mọi người. Theo nhà trị liệu tâm lý Allison Gervais, LMFT, đây là lời nguỵ biện khi bạn muốn giảm bớt áp lực hay sự lo lắng thái quá.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Hãy thử suy nghĩ theo hướng này “Hãy tưởng tượng điều gì sẽ xảy ra khi bạn nói “không" thay vì “có". Việc tìm cách tạm dừng lại để suy nghĩ kỹ hơn về câu trả lời sẽ giúp bạn kiểm soát được lời nói.

Hãy thử nói “không" với những điều ít tác động hay rủi ro nhất trước. Nếu bạn thấy quá khó, hãy nhờ một người bạn thực hành cùng. Trong suốt cả ngày, hãy học cách từ chối khéo léo.

5. Bạn hạ thấp hoặc dập tắt những ý tưởng hoặc suy nghĩ của mình

Bạn đã bao giờ cho rằng ý tưởng của mình không đủ hay hay không đủ thuyết phục mọi người. Người quá tốt thường sẽ cảm thấy người khác vượt trội hơn và tự hạ thấp giá trị của mình. Vì vậy, họ thường có xu hướng hạ thấp mình để tỏ ra dễ gần/dễ mến.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Tự hạ thấp mình là một thói quen và cách duy nhất để phá bỏ thói quen xấu ấy là làm ngược lại, luyện tập thật nhiều. Khi bạn tìm ra điểm mạnh và giá trị của bản thân, chắc chắn bạn sẽ tự chân trọng mình. Và khi bạn tự chân trọng mình, cả vũ trụ sẽ chân trọng bạn.

6. Suy nghĩ của bạn không khớp với những gì bạn thể hiện ra

Theo chuyên gia trị liệu tâm lý Melissa Fulgieri, LCSW, đôi khi chúng ta cảm thấy không thoải mái như cáu giận hoặc đố kỵ, chúng ta sẽ có xu hướng thể hiện trái ngược, chẳng hạn như “giả trân". Về cơ bản, đó là một cơ chế tực phòng vệ để những người “tử tế" không xù lông lên với người đối diện.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Trước tiên, bạn hãy tự nhủ chẳng có gì sai nếu bạn thể hiện suy nghĩ thật của bản thân. Thực tế, mọi người sẽ cảm thấy cởi mở hơn nếu bạn thành thật nói ra cảm xúc của mình. Lần tới, nếu bạn đang phát điên vì điều gì đó, đừng cười bề ngoài nhưng bên trong lại gặm nhấm nỗi đau. Thay vì thế, hãy nói “Bạn biết không. Tôi đang cảm thấy không ổn". Thậm chí, nếu bạn không cảm thấy đỡ, bạn có thể nói chuyện với một bác sĩ tâm lý. Trên hết, bạn có thể rút ra được rằng “tử tế" không đồng nghĩa với “an phận" hoặc không phản kháng.

7. Bạn lúc nào cũng cảm thấy kiệt sức

Nhà trị liệu Rachel Rennie, LSCW cho biết, nếu bạn thường xuyên làm những việc cho người khác, đối mặt với sự ngược đãi và thực hiện vai trò “người tốt nhất trên trái đất”, điều đó có thể giải thích tại sao bạn luôn cảm thấy kiệt sức. Lối sống tử tế sẽ để lại cho bạn cái vỏ bọc của con người, thậm chí có thể đến mức bạn mất hứng thú với những thứ bạn từng thích.

Làm thế nào để cải thiện điều này?

Hãy nhớ rằng có một khoảng cách lớn giữa “tử tế" và “tốt bụng một cách chân thành". Trong khi sự “tử tế" là do dự để nói “không" hoặc trì hoãn với người khác thì lòng tốt là yêu thương một cách có lý trí và chân thành. Hãy yêu bản thân trước khi muốn yêu người khác.

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So that's a real wise ass is here oh the scene a little f*** it's like a whole town of beating up Tim Doyle's Father Ted not a bunch of huge wise asses I think they're in charge I think they're in the hay day and the people obey them they don't really do anything and have an exercise their power for years and they're going to be awfully surprised they find out it's mostly gone cuz their own actions. Her in action in this case with the ugly b**** that walk by. That's a nasty nasty person she's going to die or husband's going to kill her today actually

*large enormous fast food company with many fast food restaurants such as pei Wei Panda Express Burger King Kentucky Fried Chicken Subway D'Angelo's which was out of recently and many many more Chipotle yes Taco Bell Jersey Mike's Applebee's Chiles outback olive garden chick fillet Perkins red Robin ruby's sbparo tropical smoothie and yes once we're done with the acquisition we're going to put it back into the mall and spiral will stay there.

*there are seven more companies that we're going to take over today and yeah Jersey Mike's is not part of it no it is it's one of the last on the list is going to put it up

*they're looking at what people are driving around in a lot of it's illegal and they're getting arrested actually. And we have cops out now and we have police stations and he said this we should make police stations like modular just like sections of the police station that are cast in like a form that you used to sell like plastic forms and it just opens up and moves up and move it on and put the second section on let's try doing that and fly it out it's no way we can do stopped but those things going in a little bit quicker than anything else he's right too and you can take those sections and attach them to each other and somehow it makes a police station so we got that in a few different ones but wow it's like a puzzle box we had a Uriel and got his wife and the other side of the family look at it and they came up some really good stuff and Poseidon and got us away from the other side of the family and Apollo and got his wife and the other side of the family they're all puzzle makers and Raphael and got his wife and the other side and a lot of people from the Ukraine type the area it came out really nice and those things go up fast and come to think about this another company

*so please gear Company and our son is heard of it it provides SWAT and all the action stuff and breaking into rooms and stuff and we own it now

*there's a huge company we didn't mention it's like Wells Fargo but it's really a transport company and people will probably stop using it no they want to see if we try and take stuff and switch it out and that's right it is Wells Fargo no it's not brinks, no he knows the trucks and what they look like and it's something like something armor armored and that's what they are it's a name and then armored car service and it's a huge company and we are taking it over and we are delivering tons of stuff with it and our stuff it's another reason and we have some hefty ones that we're going to put on the road driving down the highway they're really big and bulky and it would take something big to stop it and we're going to take that stuff cuz we need it.

*also it's a construction supply companies but we mentioned that yesterday but those don't get taken overnight so we're taking over companies like kessy and Morris and brick companies block companies their gigantic they're right at the Portland cement mines too and he's going to think it's a heyday like I'm some kind of slave or something my son says it's not really what it is and I'm driving this s***** cars and they're pissed off and they can't get into work there's nobody to call except their own people so they're fighting like little b****** here it's such a massive b**** fight with the men are

They're running around calling the men cheese man

We're going to sue Terry cheeseman too and John remillard again this won't back off from the assholes need to know they need to

*other companies that were taking over drywall manufacturing and mining of the gypsum and huge amounts of it by the way trying to mount the order and nobody's sending anything instead a bunch of jackasses we only get in there with construction companies and construction companies want to fix it and we want it fixed and they're moving out too huge loads, we also took over huge huge lumber companies and they're over cutting and they're not reforesting so we started right away we reforested half of what they were cut and they can't figure it out I can do the other half today with ceilings we grew and plan to do this. And we are taking over large steel Erectors and steal Fab companies for miscellaneous metals and they are gigantic okay these companies are everywhere and they're big and there's way too much of it so our son says why not bring cranes down here and use them to repair and take garbage out too cuz you can use a cloud with a crane hello it might not work so great but there's things you can do with the crane down here and there's booms too tons and tons of booms for steel erection which you can use down here and required at all today and we're looking for contracts if anybody has a contract I guess we would know who to call and the front office is real big so our son says to get some signs out and just pretend we're local and get a local office like a little s***** house or something so nobody will believe we can do it and then I'll be this big mystery and I'll make a big deal either but they know that one we're going to do that and similar other stuff, and we're bringing down tons of equipment trucks too there's a huge amount of trucks in the steel industry because they they bring out the scrap themselves and they melted themselves and all of these big huge box trucks they need tons of them down here and they're rolling a lot of them coming from the upper Midwest and there's tons and tons of waste still here and punta Gorda huge piles if anyone had eyes they'd see it except some retarded people. We're moving out with the booms in the trucks and we see how it's going the town hires you no you just set up and you get a permit and you you're grabbing it for your purposes for wood for mulch and people have a use for it and out here we might just mulch it and sell it to treat people or try and start our own in this place down the street that was for sale and we can grow it there and it doesn't matter it's like s***** and then the tree will heal and change it's chemical composition later but with the mulch you can bring in dirt and mix it and we'll use the money to do that. So we're going to look into buying it cuz it's right down the road it's a great way to mess with them in the road too and they mess with us all the time with their stupid trucks and we have big trucks okay you're all Peterbilt an international and there's a knot did that flat face on them and then nothing can do they run into us they're going to die. And the other companies that are coming in Slater Brothers and they own just as many companies as Kroger it's the other side of the country is the West Coast no it's the East Coast sort of in the south that's why our son doesn't recognize it recognize Kroger cuz he went there but not too many times. And we're going to own them Lock stock and barrel and other international companies and they have a huge family of companies and they can't do it the supply lines are weak they can't get us to get them stuff because we don't know if they're ordering it and they're sincere cuz we had so many phony baloney's because of trumpsters so going to the grocery store and we're going to fire them all today and actually going to rest them all mostly so we're going to launch our son's program no we have tons of those PlayStations and we have tons of them in the Midwest and we're going to move them and today.

There's a huge number of companies okay and they're coming to us for us to buy them and they don't think that we know what we're doing then they think where John remillard are we going to take him over and we kick their people out and our people are in there and I think they're in there in the skies or something and their fruitcakes and they want to do just the chips and lunch missiles and it hasn't done anything but they say it's just retards and mostly was so good. And they have no idea of our capabilities here so huge thing of ignorance which is great that's them doing it on purpose there goes the big man himself John remillard the motorized bike which is not legal. Boy did he get to me I mean what a dick there's a guy who probably look for what is going on. Scrap metal guy maybe what he's doing you need on the back not the top or anything... Since it flies out and it really does cuz it's aluminum but we're starting up this recycling and we're starting up the scrap and people like John remillard are going to be gone soon cuz they're riding around on illegal bikes and the cops are after him he keeps doing the stupid s***I got to tell you something he's the most annoying person I've ever seen in my life you have to take him down faster.

The several more companies to John real lord owns and the Sun is staring right at it and it's that a****** Chase company they challenge us and it's a bank we haven't taken it yet and it's John Rena Lord and we're going to crash it no we're going to take it over already got a lot of people in it and it's going for a hostile take over today and credit card companies MasterCard and Visa are in their possession legally and we're clearing out all the workers for mysteries all of them it's written all sorts of stuff and some of them have brought weapons to work so we have SWAT teams there and we rest a lot of them one day we arrested the whole building. Well it happens often. And we're going to town actually hiring we need tons of people okay we've gone up practically everything this time and it's in the perimeter and we need to hire tons of people those fast food restaurants alone represent a giant giant section of the population and we have to keep a lot of them on and some of them do a decent job I tell you for people who are out to lunch and people who are bja they sometimes do a decent job and his clan too they do a lot less idiocy than Trump does and if they keep the job they keep the job and it also Max do a great job but they don't like those minorities do a terrific job and they compete with the core can it make some mess sometimes but minorities will stand up for that job and they have to it's part of their plan

There's a lot going on today he's going to head up there and see if he can route some out to figure it out and really tonight is the homeless shelter and it's really a rehab and it's in Florida it's not nearby but they just relocate people which is kind of illegal but that's what they did and Tom Cruise located them and he goes out there because it's forced to that's true but he knew it was happening and it was going to happen and he knows it's about top gun 1 and 2 and it's about Obama and the Intel it's going on now and it's pretty big and some of them get out and they come all the way back and go all the way back there and it's most of them most of the lunatics and hardly any max no not mac at her Tommy F now and the rehab center turns into a jet fighter training camp overnight it's not a big surprise it's right off mayport. Which is up near the panhandles elbow. And that was devastated during the hurricane last the last one before and this one is after Irma and before Ian and it was pretty bad it was real quick and planes are ripped apart and they repaired some a few of them you'll see one of them fall apart in the in the air cuz they did that it's really a good day though and he's having some problems with flatulence and it's really actually quite loud. And tonight they they change it over and tomorrow they begin class they have one day and a lot of them are real jittery some of them don't remember it at all and are washed out believe it or not they wash out a few pills get real mad when you're practicing though at home and then have a little airplane some airplanes and they're going to put it up today. It's a little small blocks by threatening and her son says so break your ribs you'll die in the hospital they don't get it cuz that's what I'm going to do so go ahead and break the ribs and they die in the hospital the a****** think they can blame our son and I'm just dead so huge deal then being so stupid.

And they have a training today and they fly out several areas of going to aircraft carrier and near Cuba and Russian Jets intercept them and they think they're Russians they get into it and they hit one and they fly back and they think it's over and they are attacked in the aircraft carrier and they have to launch them again they have a massive Air Battle with 10 or 20 migs and they get their ass handed to them three jets are gone and they lose two people permanently they're dead and their stars and they see some of them here today they know they might die so they're bothering your son a lot and tomorrow is the end of top gun 1 and the beginning of top gun 2 because they got some Intel tonight at the light cycle facilities where they take over all of them

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