#shout-out to people with genders!!

[little-pup-pip]

Hi :DDD

I was wondering if you could make a board with the non-binary pride flag colors, gender neutral to masculine, some cute frogs, and no paci?

(p.s. I love your work!!)

Yeah!!

#nonbinary #!!! #I'm agender #so it's kinda similar!! #we're all under the trans umbrella! #shout-out to people with genders!! #anyway #i hope you enjoy #there aren't quite as many frogs as i would've liked #sfw interaction only #moodboard #sfw agere #agere #age regression #sfw littlespace #agere moodboard #age dreaming #nonbinary pride #nonbinary moodboard

[rocktheholygrail]

Hannibal (2013-2015) Annihilation (2018)

#shout out to tree people gotta be one of my favorite genders #hannibal #hannibaledit #annihilation #tvedit #filmedit #horror #horroredit #hannibal nbc #nbc hannibal #hannibal gifs #hannibal 2x06 #annihilation gifs

[ketchuptwelve]

yeah

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#UTMV #sanscest #killer sans #cross sans #nightmare sans #sansflower #shout out to gay people #gotta be one of my favorite genders /silly #anyways i make my skeleton kiss many #my art #OC tag

[sugarcoatednightshade]

Tired of seeing fic on ao3 claiming to be based off dune the book series when it’s very obvious that the writer has only seen dune the movie(s).

Yes, it matters. Yes, these are very different works. You’re probably doing this for visibility; I don’t care. Archive Of Our Own is a fucking archive, stop labeling your works with a tag you know is factually incorrect. It makes it impossible for me to filter for fics I want to read.

#ao3 #dune #dune books #dune messiah #written because I’ve seen so many fics claiming to be based off the book who have no idea who Alia is #like girl! that’s my girl!!! #if your fic doesn’t contain Alia The Murderous Toddler then I don’t want it in my house in my home in my life #also the fight between feyd and paul went so differently in the books vs the movie. like it’s barely even an obstacle for Paul in the books #the differences are subtle in fic but really obvious if you’re expecting to see one thing and then all of a sudden it’s something else #(did I just describe all of fic? yes. but I hope y’all know what I mean. we are working off of different canon baselines) #seriously Alia is 15 pounds soaking wet three year old child. and she kills the baron . for fun… #also the fremen are not prudes. most people get this. but really neither is the rest of the empire??? I mean the harkonens obviously were. #.like that.. but also I get the feeling that no one else really cared #I’m only on the second book so I could be wrong. but from here it seems like the dune universe has a very fluid understanding of gender and #and sexuality. and polyamory. and drug use. #shout out to face changers gotta be one of my favorite genders btw #anyway. ugh. #long rant is long

[scarefox]

What wonders me is that not more genderqueer folks are into kpop or general asian idol or japanese fashion, visual kei or even just gothic. Like that's such an A+ fucc gender norms style source and inspiration.

Instead I rather see more people who mock it or disregard it. But for me it was a revelation. I was looking for a style for me since years, but in my area all genderqueer folks go with the hipster vibe and that is so not my thing at all (which even had me questioning myself if this identity is what I am looking for, little bit dumb in hindsight but hey). I grew up as goth and in the visual kei scene that already had me steering in that androgynous & asian style direction anyways. Till college and uni days made me tone it down cause everyone was so serious and kinda posh in uni I couldn't be the weird goth kid anymore. We had to look professional and mature. Felt awful but I generally lost myself during uni days and had to find myself back.

So yea (re)discovering Taemin and kpop a few years ago was like an eye opener and jumpstarter to finally pull through with the outer genderqueerness adjustment of myself.

#lgbtq #genderqueer #nonbinary #bigender #enby #kpop #taemin #I joined a few genderqueer groups on facebook earlier this year and among those 1000 people there were just like 2 who were into kpop too #(but only one of them knows taemin / shinee) #also special shout out to Key my second shinee and fucc gender bias (in kpop tho... don't get me started with my thai favs or japanese)

[okkalo]

seeing this debate abt giving x reader fics personal traits make me want to honestly punch some of u guys ngl

#like the insert of a name for a reader? #I GET IT #that’s an oc atp #BUT #personal traits? #sometimes we have to add stuff like that #+ a lot of the writer moots i have use warnings describing when they add stuff like that!! #saw someone say writers make x fem! readers act like a pick me? #bro #atp just don’t read it then #or make ur own #OR GUYS #U CAN REPLACE A LOT OF WHAT WE WRITE!! #the exact reason i don’t do many x fem! reader writings #is bc most of the time u can switch the genders!! #ok kalo stop ranting now #kalo speaks #shout out to the people who are defending writers though #just so annoying when people complain when we spend our time either writing for them #or not even writing for their opinion #a lot of writers use this as an escape #just keep that in mind

[spikesartbook]

Places everyone. The conductor has returned!

#digital art #oc #my oc #oc art #puppets #conductor #gender fluid #any pronouns #shout outs to hairy people in skirts #I'm one of them #self portrait #kinda #angel #devil

[megane-sama]

Average He/him users.

Average She/her user

Average They/Them user.

Average any pronouns user.

#they're literally all the colours of the rainbow #of course they're genderfucked #and the irony of them debuting in pride month is not lost on me #shout out to genderfucked flower people #gotta be one of my favorite genders #jigokuraku #hells paradise #episode 9

[heartslobbf]

has anyone played desdemona as a trans woman. or like written about transfeminism in othello generally. i haven’t looked anything up yet lol like i literally just thought of this and im like ohhhhhhh. that play makes me bonkers fr

#what it says about marginalisation and like. gahh #the way that othello and desdemona’s love stems from this shared desire to be multidimensional PEOPLE in a racist sexist society #and the conflict that comes with assimilation (shout-out to the rsc production with a black iago i think about u always) #and how othello becomes violently misogynistic towards desdemona and des and all other white charas become violently racist towards othello #like……. it’s so cruel and so tragic and i think about it all the time #god do i love othello and desdemona. god do i love them #and othello’s racialised gender troubles…… again the assimilation the inadequacy and insecurity he feels #it’s just so INTERESTING to me. like do i think billy thought about all of this??? certainly not in the terms im using #but it’s THERE and it’s INTERESTING and i THINK ABOUT IT #you know one of my big things with lit is how it serves history. i think othello’s great for that #just sososososososo interesting to me #one thing about billy shakes is he will write tragic het couples and they will make me feel crazy #like love his comedies to death but nothing does it for me like a tragic shakey couple #shut up daisy

[lesbiangiratina]

You there early 2000s gg manga artist write a joke involving testament that does not make me want to attack you like an animal

#THEYRE NOT ALL BAD there are funny testament bits. but well. The Gender is kind of an easy target. #sometimes those are even a little funny. like KIND OF. in hindsight if nothing else. #overall they trouble me less than some jokes about them and dizzy. i dont want to get into that though. #in theory ​its not the WORST thing ever I GUESS its just. the way people go about it. yknow. unless you dont. im happy for you if you dont #many cases of they would not fucking say that but well it doesnt only happen to them its okay. well its not but you know what i mean #WHATEVER even 1 million jokes abt testament being a creep (usually more like just being Perceived as a creep I GUESS THATS BETTER?) #could never overpower dizzy saying testament is like an older (sibling) to her in a ggx anthology chapter. #literally shout out memaiso. my hero. #they also did some 4koma stuff involving them being very parentlike to her. i can think of 3 off the top of my head. thats good for me. #okay thanks i just needed to complain. #the kat goes meow #gg

[dankovskaya]

I've been thinking a lot lately about how to sort of "reconcile" my lifelong inclination towards gender neutrality or fluidity with an otherwise comfortably "gender-conforming" childhood but honestly I don't really think there's anything that NEEDS to be reconciled there because I wouldn’t really consider myself gender-conforming back then irt anything other than clothes. And I think it's only really because our societal standard of "androgyny" skews towards masculinity that it seems like there is some sort of conflict there in the first place? Like, the adults in my life saw me as a little girl so they bought me things that were cute and pink and sparkly or whatever, and I was like cool, thanks, it's pretty, whatever, but that wasn't necessarily what I preferred. I just didnt really care either way, and when I had a choice, the "gender" of the object wasn't really part of the criteria. It's sort of crazy that the simple fact that I didn't categorically reject or devalue "feminine signifiers" (until, ironically, I was a lot older and under way more gender related stress from those around me) is enough to sort of cancel out any considerations of gender variation by default even in MY OWN MIND as the person who remembers being the little kid that both did not feel strongly about their gender expression and also delighted in their own perceived "dual membership" without ever feeling restricted or out of place.

#Like... the way I feel about gender now is still more or less the same way I have always felt which is LARGELY AMBIVALENT and somewhere #'in the middle' and the idea that just my willingness to wear pink and frilly shit alone was enough to practically cancel out the many #ways in which i actively and intentionally and very visibly did not conform to my ideas of any one gender as well as my own self #perception is wild. #Not that I only wore explicitly girly clothes as a kid i mean i had plenty of more neutral shit as well lmao #The point is just that. Gender and the way that we perceive and project it onto other people is crazyyyyyy #And so is materialism. And also shout out to my mom for gender neutral and non-judgmental child raising practices

[kruxton]

absolutrly no way j had the most fucked up dream ever last night. oh my GODDDD

#the thing is #why is it that i can never ever dream but when i do its the scariest fucking shit ever #ok storytime #its set in fucking school right. but not my school #its an all boys school but i remember not feeling out of place. like i was meant to be there (thanks brain thats very gender euphoria of u) #so i was in a friend group of sorts right #like we were playinf and all #AND GUESS WHO THE FUCK THEY ALL WERE?????? #all the people ive ever had a crush on be it a small or huge one #and they ranged from celebrites to people i see everyday like my classmates #guess who fhe fucking main celebrity was bro . #taz fucking skylar. 😭😭😭😭 #ive never had a celebrity show up in sny of my (three) dreams ever so this must be saying smth right #i cant recal if it was taz or taz-sanji in my dream #i think it was taz/sanji???????? but his mannerisms were all taz-like n not sanji-like #i say as if i know anythinf abt thay man really #i hste this bro #and then somehow i followed him into this abandoned building #we got split up #and then i started to hear him shouting n screaming for life rifht #so i find him and guess fucking ehst #we're in this like??? maze??? #ITS DEFINIRELY FROM A SHOW IVE EATCHED BEFORE BUT I CANT REMEMBER WHAT #its like #once u enter theres this floating black thing thats super fast n makes scqry sounds #it follows you around and u have to run away from it #but also u have to find the exit #and if it manages to catch you it takes out a big ass axe and hacks you into pieces #this js literslly my worst nightnsre bro #so then me and taz/sanji were just running around scared for our life until we found the exit

[krynutsreal]

alright guys ramble time but about one of my classes I have ok (boo tomato tomato)

I've been thinking about this for so long at this point but it's crazy how there can be a whole room of people who you are comfortable being with at first right until they start talking about their opinions towards queer people/trans people

Like . Even if they aren't hateful towards them, but yet just "don't agree with their beliefs" or just don't. Understand much about it. And aren't really willing to learn more I guess?

I have a 7:30 am class, in which it's basically career exploration and helping you figure out what career you want, etc etc whatever

One class period we were supposed to be researching for scholarships, but due to it being like. What, middle almost the end of the semester nothing much would show up (to me at least). Which is fine, the class always ends up getting derailed somehow.

This time a classmate of mine brought up how this one classmate in her psychology class pissed her off bc he was the kind to openly speak up and oppose to whatever discussion there'd be, and that he always somehow manages to victimize himself I guess (saying this from memory so obviously it's not like. Exactly what she said to the class). By victimizing I mean that he either gets offended by a lot of the topics they discuss or just in general speaks up about the topics their class discusses. While I do not know much about him, I got the general idea that he is a white trans man who feels that his transness makes him oppressed like the other marginalized people (which is not wrong, just the way that the girl worded it made it seem like he would use this fact to "victimize" himself. Whatever that means)

That this one time she had saw him drop his pencil and she had told the teacher (when being questioned as to what happened I think) "she dropped her pencil" and he (her classmate) had gotten angry, because she misgendered him on accident.

And she kinda explains that how was she supposed to know what his pronouns were if she hasn't ever really talked to him at all? All while still like, using she/her pronouns.

It kinda just dove into the conversation of trans people in general, and how some people's beliefs don't agree with the concept in general. Some guy said that while he can kinda understand going ftm transition that he couldn't accept it the other way around, because of how he was raised and about how he felt towards his own manhood. His pride in being a man.

The same was discussed between the girls in my class, with the girl who started the conversation saying that her womanhood means a lot to her. That "those types of people like the concept of becoming a girl up until they have to get their period ....etc etc"

And at that moment it just kinda. Sunk deep in my stomach that oh yikes. wow I would never come out to any of you. I'd rather not explain my feelings of my own gender, hell one of them didn't even know what non-binary was!!!! And so I explained to the guy who didn't know that, and corrected him that what he thought was non-binary was actually called being gender fluid. Which well. ya know.

They weren't being mean about the discussion at all, at least not from what I remember it. They were open minded and calm, but the thing is that they were with people who thought the same as them (or well, I guess presumed to think the same, some of us just stayed silent for most of the discussion)

Would it have been different if someone, who was actually trans, sat with them? Would it have been different if I came out to a random group of strangers I don't know that well?

It stuck out to me that the conclusion everyone had come up with was to bring someone in who was trans, to ask them questions and "pick apart their brain" (as one guy put it) and they had suggested to bring the guy my classmate had talked about in the beginning.

My friend (or acquaintance, not sure tbh), who is in the same class as me had said that she knew someone who was ftm, someone who was way older and had raised his kid after transitioning

Some suggested to bring both of them in, to see their differing views on their transness and experiences, and I agreed on this too because I thought it'd be interesting to see and talk to other trans/queer people

It's just, I don't know why this has stuck to me. It's been weeks since I had that discussion. I'm sure that it's because I have my own conflicting and confusing thoughts on gender, and that the way some of them just. Worded or talked about trans people almost made me want to tear up? It's hard to explain the feeling I got, to hear someone bring up a point where i shit you not was "oh yea i remember hearing that theres a statistic saying that trans people are usually connected to being mental ill/autistic"

Like .blinks slowly. Do you think that being autistic just . automatically makes you trans? I've seen autistic people who are not, and I've seen trans people who are not autistic. The only reason why hearing statistics like that is possible is because people want to say that being trans makes them mentally ill.

Which is not even the case most of the time because it's really the way that people treat trans people !!! That makes them feel that way. The way they are treated are what makes them unhappy, what makes some not even want to come out.

It's just. I don't know man, would they have the same thoughts on seeing a drag queen/king? Would they think that's the same as being trans or what's up. If anything I'd want to pick their brains. To see what is it about transness that they don't understand. If I can help them become more understanding so that things like accidentally misgendering someone wouldn't become such a frustrating process to them.

Hell, even with me being confused and closeted I just. I don't know. I wish I spoke up more during that conversation. But the fear of giving myself away would eat me alive as it always does. I keep thinking, well what would their reactions have been if I did come out? They obviously wouldn't see me the same, hell I don't even think I'm trans but surely since they just. Their opinions on trans people would surely make them change their view on someone who they see as "normal" . It makes me want to rip my hair out because of it

I literally thought about this while working on Friday and I don't even have a specific thought or point to bring out, so I apologize deeply for that. Thanknuou for coming to my Ted talk auuuuahhhg

#krambles #me whenen mmmmmee ewbwnen e gender and and and figuring things out and and . #fuck man that was like three weeks ago can thag topic leave my head please #i already feel conflicted about my own gender shit i really dont have to be adding others opinions to the mix #anyways. to my closeted people out there shout out to u i am holding hands with you tightly and i hope that one day #we can all come out . we can all be comfortable wearing the clothes that we want and feel the ultimate gender euphoria ever #peace guys sorry for rambling so much on this one u dont even gotta read jt tbh i just needed to get this off my chest

[lesbinewren]

now i know i did not just see someone saying the mario movie strips away princess peachs femininity

#people when women wear pants and do things: 😡 #it was a woman saying it too like 💀 #idk if it was the way i was raised (shout out to my mama love her) but i truly do not see different personality traits as feminine or masc #i get groupings of hobbies and hair/clothing/makeup styles as masc or fem but personalities are personalities to me #(tho I find hard dividing them a bit arbitrary esp with hobbies) #so i guess i just don’t get it. but like. i see a woman dressed very feminine and im like ‘yeah she’s a feminine woman with x personality’ #rather than saying she has a masc or fem personality. that makes no sense to me. #so like princess peach being a fighter has no bearing on any gender stuff to me

[taviokapudding]

Idk what it is about the kinda lonely, goofy & playful, but can be serious, mostly male presenting/identifying, protagonist with blonde hair, who has at least 1 prosthetic arm, who’s friends with an older male with black hair &/or multiple incredibly intelligent woman, who’s good with kids and animals, who has a brother or is a brother, that gets entangled with something magical that’s immortality/religious related, while dealing with abandonment trauma/parental figure issues, who has to save the world, & also clear their name and/or make up for past actions that has writers in a chokehold but yeah it’s a thing

Finn, Edward, Vash, & Link are basically the same person in different fonts. They all even have a similar color palettes & are just the 4 extremes with Finn being the most talkative and Link the quietest.

Tbh I’m tempted to call it the “1 arm blonde twink trope” because Edward & Finn imply losing their arm/limbs can be a temporary state that goes away or a permanent disability that grows with you depending on the writer, but they were all twinks /twink adjacent when they saved the world in the main story.

#mun post #as someone who likes all 4 I cannot help but notice the trope #finn mertens #vash the stampede #edward elric #totk link #honorable mention and shout out to Naruto Uzumaki because yes he falls into the trope but it’s not 90% of the plot #the missing arm has to be an active part of the story - not some that only happens to wrap up the story #*something #also all 4 are usually mentioned when people discuss *gender* or babygirl- Finn made so many guys I know bi fr #but Link- especially BOTW/totk got everyone mega simping

[arsenicflame]

femme lesbians who dont identify as women i love you so fucking much you are doing gods work <3

#i love all gnc lesbians too but like. shout out to lesbians who love to look super feminine!!! #while not identifying as women!!! I love you all!!!! #being gnc is not the be all and end all of gender identity #yall are so wonderful for doing whatever the fuck you want #and if you use they/them pronouns. gods hardest soldiers putting up w all that misgendering #nyxtalks #lesbian #more people should do whatever the fuck they want with their expression irrelevant to their gender