#theyre friends cause who cares

[chickenoptyrx]

I added trunks to that last doodle and uuhhhh.. wasted a buncha time

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#my bullshit #idk what theyre talkin about but its probably dumb #ill probably see somethin horribly wrong in like half an hour and hate my life. but #*posts now anyways* #sunova bitch i knew it i fucking didnt even do the gd gemstones! #ok did the gemstone things #cant wait to realize what obv thing i messed up next :D #aaaaand iv added a buncha the same squares i always add instead of a real background :U #god forbid i just. wait to post somethin til im sure i dont wanna tweak it any more #no no its WAY better to just constantly edit #then have several slightly different versions floatin around out there #lol hate. hate that i am like this #trunks #broly #theyre friends cause who cares

[ehlihr]

people will make a villain oc and then its like ok cool they murder BUT they have perfect political beliefs maintain perfect hygiene treat their friends and subordinates well and tips at restaurants and actually other than not liking the “heroes” is a moral pillar of greatness

#SOMETIMES THEY DONT EVEN KILL PEOPLE. LIKE?! #i dont care if you make or have a character like this but if theyre supposed to be bad. like commit to that right #like if theyre SUPPOSED to be bad #like if your character is like brooding like oogh what am i becoming #and its like #and they dont do anything bad or hurt people #even unintentionally #and i dont mean emotionally hurting a love interest friend whatever i mean like Causing Harm #theyre not becoming anything. thats just a guy who is not also a hero. maybe a vigilante or maybe they rob a bank but. be serious #then like idk dog. not a villain. C-. try again

[aroaceleovaldez]

i always see so much of Nico ships where either Nico is the one pining or the focus is almost completely on Nico pining and i feel like we’re missing a lot of opportunity here. Where’s the inverse? Where’s the POVs from [other character(s) of ship] of them falling hard for Nico and just absolutely losing their mind pining over him because he’s so impossible to read that they can’t tell at all if he likes them back or not. Them doing some complicated social dance cause they cannot for the LIFE of them figure out Nico but they’re trying so hard until they finally just tell him outright and find out Nico has liked them back this entire time and they lose their mind just a little bit more. WHERE IS IT.

#pjo #riordanverse #nico di angelo #shipping #examples: one of my favorite headcanons is that Will got a crush on Nico the first time he saw him during the Titan War #when he brought reinforcements n stuff. cause yknow. the dude showed up in thematic armor with three gods and parted an army #and then ensues like a whole year of poor Will helplessly pining over him but a.) Nico is never around and b.) Nico is barely aware of him #ergo why Will is acting Like That in BoO cause he's BEEN TRYING SO HARD TO GET NICO TO NOTICE HIM #on-and-off for a WHOLE YEAR #and he is DETERMINED to at least be Nico's friend by the end of the summer #just so that he can stop losing his mind over it #secondary example: i write a lot of pre-HoO Jason stuff and i really love the potential dynamics between him and Nico then #with Nico being this rogue who randomly shows up #and Jason keeps getting flustered by this guy who doesn't seem to care who he is at all. which is part of the reason for getting flustered #cause Nico keeps treating him as an equal! which is kind of a big deal for Jason #and at the same time they're doing this diplomatic dance and the two of them are just being SO overly formal #because they're both like that. so it just sounds like theyre flirting like Victorians #and poor Jason is so distressed post-HoO when he realizes he'd forgotten all of that. and now he has to START OVER #and Nico is NICO so of course it's impossible for Jason to gauge exactly where they stand #etc etc those are my two most detailed examples

[leoleolovesdc]

Call me crazy, but if the batfamily was a friend group and not a family the mom friend wouldn't be Alfred, Dick or Bruce, but Tim

#hes the one taking care of everyone else #bruce is that one irresponsible suicidal friend who js forgets abt everyone else bcuz of his personal drama #dick vanishes as soon as he finds better people to hang out w #alfred is very done w everyone's shit and since he doesnt own anything to anyone he js sits back and watches the drama go down #tim is that one person who checks in on evryone to see how theyre doing #hes the glue of the group and the only persob who can arrange reunions #cause w/o him everyone would have given up on this friendship a long time ago #tim drake #robin iii #red robin #batfam #batfamily #dick grayson #bruce wayne #alfred pennyworth #dc #dc comics

[botanicallyinclinednerd]

Legend of Tomorrow friendships that mean a lot to me (in no particular order) :

Jax and Stein

Jax and Sara

Nate and Ray

Mick and Sara

Mick and Ray

#theyre so important to me #jax and stein are literally 2 halves of a whole and i love their relationship #sara and jax have a wonderful friendship based on mutual respect #and when she wakes up from a coma she gives him a little kiss on the head! thats so fucking tender i love them #i know this is in the future from where i am but mick canonically considers sara his best and oldest friend #which makes me ALL kinds of emotional #nate and ray are such good best friends they care about each other so much and them openly and freely saying they love each other? #does things to my brain chemistry. toxic masculinity who? #mick and ray is also such a fun dynamic cause it feels like it shouldnt work but it DOES #liv watches shit #legends of tomorrow #mick rory #sara lance #ray palmer #nate heywood #jefferson jackson #martin stein

[sarosthewizarddude]

Other social media is like, oh no I wish more people followed me :(

And then Tumblr is like, *someone follows me* you have bad vibes fuck you blocked.

#oversimplified #but like #on insta when someone follows me i check their pf #and i follow back if theh have cool art #otherwise i kinda ignore them #i dont rlly care who follows me and i dont know who 90% of the ppl i follow even are #cause i follow over 1000 ppl #and then on tumblr i follow abt 50 ppl and i know who all of them are #and i know who most of the ppl following me are even if were not mutuals #especially if theyre in my notes a lot #so if someone follows me who has bad vibes its an instant block cause on here ppl who follow you actually *interact* with you #idk tumblrs not about being popular #its about doing dumb shit with your friends #tumblr #rambles #tags rant

[buppypuppy]

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#vent post essay ahead lol #having complexes about talking about your emotions is literally the fucking devil . its miserable. it sucks so bad. #the aamount of damage that is caused to someone by like #i mean im talking abou t me here obviously. #being the person whose like. overall ultimately tends not to feel horrible as often is like. #it's nice not feeling bad emotionally all the time but also it's like. i develop this complex about being like able to help. #i don't feel bad anywhere near as often as my friends so i can help them out and listen to them vent i can have the mental room to #like listen to them talk about their problems. yeah. but it makes me feel like. well this is my job now so i shouldn't fucking talk about m #i shouldnt vent when i feel bad because that's not what i'm known for. plus my friends already all feel worse than me more often than me. s #i don't want to dump any more on their plate than they have to deal with. i don't want to burden them anymore than i have to. and like it's #it's hard. i hate fucking talking about it and it's made so much worse when its like people i love . always been a fucking problem becaus #i just feel fucking horrible admitting that i feel bad i hate that so much. i don't want to like turn away people who care about me but li #i feel like if i tell them what's wrong with me i'll like do it anyways. i feel like i come off as super normal and happy go lucky and like #ostensibly fine. so when i admit this shit its like. oops the facade is cracking!!!!!! uh oh uh oh you can't help people so you feel bad!!! #because your fucking npd has made you feel self centered in a way that means you want to help people or some shit i dont fucking know #and so when i feel bad or get mad over something unreasonable it's like. well i hope i fucking keel over and die or something i dont like . #i don't want people seeing me like this or whatever. and my stupid fucking personality disorder just ruins every god damn thing its so bad. #my past experiences giving me complexes that lead to me feeling fucking left out over like small stupid stuff but god the worst part is lik #my brain categorizing something as being ''My Thing'' so somebody else talks about liking my thing AFTER my brain has designated it mine #makes alarm bells go off and feel like theyre fucking. i don't know encroaaching on my turf or what the fuck ever? it SUCKS ASS #it makes me feel HORRIBLE . and it's like i'm not gonna fucking bring it up because i don't wnt to be like a dick but also it's like well. #i feel fucking miserable about this but it's just like mean and unnecessary and cruel to like stifle people's fucking fun because of my dum #fuckin complexes. it's fucking constant. like oh look at you girl you feel fucking left out because you never get characters who really gri #you mentally and so now you have one but oops! someone else talked about them and now you're seeing red! you like this person though #so you're gonna feel fucking MISERABLE about this . you're gonna feel HORRIBLE because of this. and there's nothing you can fucking do #and it controls my goddamn life and i HATE IT i fucking HATE IT i wish i knew how to fix it. ghghrgurghrughruhg i want to fucking explode #and then you feel bad about feeling bad because you are fucking sisyphus. you're sisyphus. and your own anger is your boulder. you ingrate. #i hate this. i just wanted to have a good day. #jane mary cry one tear

[demonicpossession]

I've seen quite a few people who seem to be getting mad that not everyone sees link and zeldas relationship as romantic. Like yes it has tropes that exist within romance stories, however these tropes can exist for people who are close friends/consider eachother family rather than having a romantic love for eachother and I think Nintendo left it unspecified specifically for that reason, to keep it more open for people's interpretation. Want to see them as lovers? Go ahead, no ones stopping you, don't get mad at people who don't. And vice versa people who don't see them as lovers shouldn't get mad at people who do. Can we just exist calmly instead of having to see either side getting mad at the other? And for people saying zelink is Canon, it's not, it's open for interpretation, Canon would be it being directly specified in game or confirmed by Nintendo. And while I am a zelink shipper for botw/totk I'm not going to get mad at others who don't ship them, different people are going to see different ships, different styles of romantic implications. So please, ship who you want but don't get mad at eachother, its pointless and a waste of everyone's energy to get mad over ships.

Now if someone can show anywhere in botw or totk that says zelda and link are together or anywhere that Nintendo has in fact confirmed it and is a reliable source to say they've confirmed it then I'll put an edit to say I've been made aware of that, however to my knowledge its not specified that they're in a relationship. Again I ship them in botw/totk, I can understand why people do, however looking at it from the other angle I can also understand people seeing them as just extremely close friends. So let's let everyone have their own opinions and be mature about it. Cause rn the fandom seems like a bunch of children throwing a tantrum over whether they are or aren't together.

#botw #totk #zelink #also anyone who gets mad in replies or reblogs will just get blocked #its not canon #it is more implied in this game but consider other zelda games #like skyward sword for example #their romance is clear as day in that one and you KNOW zelda has a thing for limk #its specified pretty early on #whereas in totk and botw its more hinted at at best #at the very least they are extremely close friends or feel more like family to eachother #at most theyre together maybe married #the tropes dont always confirm romance #would you guys not do anything you could to help family or friends too? #would you leave them to suffer when you could do something to stop the ones you care about suffering? #cause thats how half these arguments come across to justify the tropes as being only romantic #just let people ship whoever they ship in peace and stop getting mad over it #its not needed

[yuridovewing]

Feel like one of the best ways you can convince someone that no, villains with compelling motives that have sad backstories are not terrible writing compared to straight up born evil villains who just want to kill everyone and be done with it, is to tell them that Warrior Cats writes born evil villains constantly while literally preaching “That’s how evil works, you can’t CHANGE, you’re either touched by demons at birth or you aren’t!” and it blows chunks

#brokenstar tigerstar hawkfrost darktail one eye etc etc would all be so much more interesting if they werent so one note #and just had ‘’born evil’’ slapped on as their explanation for being evil #‘’ew why are you woobifying tigerstar’’ because i think a villain who feels emotion besides ‘’evil’’ and ‘’angry’’ and actually does care #about his clanmates but is also a bigot that deserves to be beaten down is more interesting than canon #to get like real world political here… abusive people and bigots like. are not one note born evil demons #they have loved ones and reasons for turning out the way they did. and im not saying that to go ‘’so you need to give them grace!’’ #im saying that because the line of thinking that every bad person is a super obvious mustache twirling villain with no soul #makes it so that people justify abuse and crimes from REAL people. like ‘’oh my friend says some racist things but he isnt BAD! he loves me! #would an abusive person be nice to his wife in public? of course not!’’ #and its rhetoric like that that lets abuse and bigotry thrive. if you put the world in categories of born evil and born good #then you will dismiss all the ‘’good’’ people in your life who have done horrible things with ‘’but she donated to charity once’’ #i mean. hell this LITERALLY happens in wc where the ‘’born good’’ characters are abusive and murderously xenophobic #where characters like clear sky and blackstar just get a sticker like ‘’oh you cant be TOO mad at them! theyre good at heart!’’ #‘’ignore all the times they killed vulnerable people for the crime of being born somewhere they didnt like! they were nice to a kid once!’’ #the message there is literally ‘’bad people cant REALLY be bad if theyre nice to people sometimes’’ #like. im not even mad at clear sky being motivated by witnessing his loved ones starve to death for why hes such an abusive control freak #thats an interesting reason to become a villain especially since the change happened when he was put in a position of power #the problem is not him having a sad backstory. the problem is the erins think his sad backstory means he was never that bad #and anyone who’s upset at him can go eat shit and die cause he looked sad #like. i get this line of thinking often comes from writers doing this for abuse apologism and just wanting to see abusers be held accountabl #accountable #but how exactly does it help victims of abuse to portray abusers and bigots in a christian ‘’touched by the devil’’ light

[fruitsofhell]

Is it hyperbolic to say that FF7R is made of the same brain slush that Disney Live Action remakes are? I know FF7R is technically still animated, but I mean, so was The Lion King 2019.

#shut the heck up #ff7 #disney #tag talking #watching the nibelhiem part of rebirth with the council and there were sooo many dumb choices #and like looking at the 7r project as a whole it just lacks so moment to moment vision #i know its building to some grand meta-narrative but like individual scenes are so bleh so generic action camera and mocapitis #im happy there are enough people out there who realize the majesty of prerendered backgrounds for storytelling but like squenix doesnt care #also so many scenes that were originally slow and dialogue based turned into mild action setpieces its shtuupid #or the part in the reactor where while Sephiroth has a revelation youre in a different room doing a random valve turning QTE LIKEDSGFJSHD #lord the balance of battles and narrative #people harp on the original for being dated with its late 90sness but theres so much abbrassive rule-of-coolism in 7R #more than a lot me and my friends kept screaming about sephiroths characterization like why in gods green fuck he smiled so much #and one of my friends was like 'maybe this is cloud making things up cause he wants to feel like sephy notices him' and i was likE- #OFC THEN LATE GAME THEYLL EXPLAIN THAT ALL HIS OOC FANSERVICE MANNERISMS AHVE BEEN A ROUSE THE WHOLE TIMEHDSGJF #THEY DO ACTUALLY KNOW HOW TO CHARACTERIZE HIM THEY WERE JUST TORMENTING US OFC!! HSDFGJSDJ #they dont know what theyre fukcing doing with that guy he shouldnt be fucking smiling during nibelhiem #he shouldnt have even smiled when he said the 'im going to see my mother' line - AND DEFINITELY NOT DURING THE FIRE!! #he was not happy then he was estuans interis he was on a mission not sadistically torturing the townsfolk #HE WOULD NOT FUCKING do THAT

[chickenoptyrx]

Thing.

Not really relevant to anything but sketched the thing on my shirt while waiting on my friend to get his ass outta bed, made it pertain to my bullshit, so now it exists ┐(‘～` )┌

#my bullshit #bleh #tired #dbz #future trunks #Zbroly #theyre friends cause who cares

[gifti3]

Im cursing [REDACTED] right NOW

#god i better never have contact with this guy again or i might flip out on him #im about to ramble about my past “dating" adventures (we were casual but sheesh cant even be friends with this guy tbh) #im realizing months later how much this guy i used to talk to sucked #like DUDE be a better or stay single FOREVER (ΘдΘ) #and by that i mean learn how to better handle approaching others feelings! #god the way he would just shutdown others ppls feelings and it was just an endless loop of “that doesnt make sense” or “thats dumb” #sure emotions can be irrational but if someone is desperately TRYING to explain why they feel a way (even if theyre struggling to be clear) #maybe dont be so dismissive #like literally one time i was annoyed cause talking to him was grating on my nerves #and i was like ik it doesnt make sense so let me step away cause im annoyed #and hes like trying to logic me out of my annoyance??? #like worstie im literally walking away so i can cool off #leave it be! #god looking back on all this.... #i hope to god whoever hes talking to (if hes talking to anyone) isnt dealing with similar things #ppl can change so ill just hope for that #or maybe he'll meet his match #someone who reflects the same energy he has! #tho im not sure if hed like that haha #the guy seemed to have a lot of relationship problems in general (romantic and platonic) and i wanted to have the benefit of the doubt #but now im thinking maybe his personality was also just clashing with everyone elses #which isnt necessarily a bad thing on its own #gotta get context for everything u know #but in this case....naur #like im a pretty anxious person so how ppl i care about will react to what im doing or saying is constantly at the back of my mind! #so ppl who just come off as flippant about my fee fees annoy me fr #im like “ahh what if i upset so and so” constantly #trying to make sure not to make things harder for them #and they cant even spare me a single thought before doing something and dismiss me when i get upset #but also they wanna come to me when theyre feeling sad about something???

[nakeurnes]

oououuuowowaah story of undettale

#TSUAUSUSBGGHyzhaa i HATE OUR BROTHER I HATE HIM SO FUCKING MUCH NO MATGER HOW HARD I TRY all GHE SHIT I DO TO TEY AND SYMPATHIZE WITH HIM HE #FUCKING THRNS AROUND AND IS A DICK TO ME FOR NO RESON AND !!!! YLS AT ME FOR NO REAON SOMETIEMS SHUT UL SHUT UP YOURE LITERALLY 13 STFU #i fucking hste it here i hate being fcjingg 18 and having to share the sMe room with him i have sincd he wzz BORN. #GOD. ONE FUCKING NIGHT ALONE WIYHOUY HIS ANNOYING ASS I CSNT EVEN JERK OFF OR STAY UP LATE OR LISTEN TO LOUD MUSIC #AND LIKE IM HALDWy fhinking OH! OM BEING IRRATIONAL jd spLITTING AGAIN AND I AM. BYT HE IS JST A DICK I HATE TEENAGE BOYS I HOPE HE DIES #hes SO FUCKING MEAN hes cslldd me slurs and a bitch multiple times in the most derogayory way and i hate him #he knows abg the zysfem too snd just CHOOSES TO IGNORE IT APPARENTLY DOESNG CARE WHO HES TALKING TO. #auuggh moments i regret being ghe host i hate it here. #i hate our familh theyre just fu jing mean yhis shit builxing up is whzg made me snap in the first place!!! and couldng host for a long time #andd now im upset and spiralling and i dont wang to be a bother espcially sijce spe ific ppl i wantto talk to arsnt thefe an d it makes me #very very bvery sa d i msis my friends #i cry everry day miss ing them i have beene really liking remembering things with nicki #no onee knwos wht im talking about or wjo i am #i dont want to be useless please need me i jave no other purposs #im a nuisance to ppl whow ant to front #i sit here living in the past that doesnt exist anymore and pray every day for it to come baxk knowing it wont ever come back #i miss . my friends i dont tthink they like me #im too pushy when im happy and when im upset im too cold i never make anyoke happy an d i talk too muc h and it hurts wberyone #icant even ve of goo d use to mmy actual children in headspace im an awful mother i cant stay stable enough tk help anyone or do anything #me being here has only caused problems and I remember why i left before #me when i spiral and makenmsyelf sonmu h more upset than before #vent #shelly

[pettyprocrastination]

jonathan and argyle had a stronger emotional bond and chemistry than steve and eddie ever did in canon. In this essay I will-

#tj talks #but no fr stop sleeping on my man argyle he was such a great character that people overlook so much #he was just. totally okay with it all #aside from occasional panic he was. super supportive of like everything #'oh? your awkward sister has super powers and needs to have a mind battle to save the world from an evil wizard? i know just the place dudes #also ALSSO 'who else would I tell your my only friend jonathan' HELLO???? #his genuine concern for jonathan and nancy's relationship!! his frsutration at jonathan not telling nancy the truth!!!! #he CARES about his friend!! and his friends lil siblings!!! #definitely super kind to el and will at school if he ever sees then cause he knows they arent vv popular #argyle #jonathan byers #stranger things season for #steddie fans i respect you but lets not ignore the TRUTH #also fucking argyle and EDDIE???? THATS a friendship id love to see #fuck ig jonathan eddie and argyle theyd be GREAT FRIENDS!!!! #getting high and listening to music together!!!!! #eddie taking will under his wing with dnd!!!! #'i hear youre a hell of an artist byers. you down with making some character sketches for the next campaign?' #when theyre all together he calls them the byers clan #joyce is...cautious of eddie at first but hes such a kind boy who calls her ma'am and talks about his uncle #she will be making extra lasagna for him to take home #el thinks hes weird and funny and dramatic #LET THEM BE HAPPY AND HAVE FUN #THIS IS NOT A SHIPPING WARS POST I AM SIMPLY POINTING OUT HOW UDNERRATED ARGYLE IS #PLEASE DONT TURN THIS INTO A SHIPPING WARS POST

[lunarflare64]

Looking at your favourite extremely specific trope and knowing it doesn't come from just general enjoyment and instead comes from a combination of all of the following; your neurodivergence, your experience in school growing up, your trauma, your parents trauma, the state your parents lives were in when you were a baby, the small number of friends you had growing up, the amount of support you were actually given growing up, where you rank in the sibling birth order, how many siblings you had to help raise-

#ours is 'teenager ends up with a baby and the parents CANT know so theyre in this alone' #:l #anyways oldest 'daughter' born from teenage parents who had just escaped from the mother's abusive father #who was yes cared for but also treated badly because their parents had no idea how to take care of a baby #and said parents split only four years later when one threatened suicide if the other left them #so said 'daughter' was the one they messed up with the most #who helped raise three younger siblings while being neglected at school #because no one cared to look into why we werent responding well in a classroom setting #and only having two friends tops (if any) and those friends being very temporary #and thats just keeping our story simple #as you can see pinning down a single cause for why our favourite trope has been our favourite for nearly 12 years now isnt possible #that trope will probably always stay with us #for the exact same reason as the fact that we wouldnt be the same person/people if any part of our life was different #but if we were to try and put it all into a single sentence it would be something along the lines of 'can it be done right?'

[lumaxramblings]

that post about max’s love language going to lucas first is so true because on the second episode of 4, when max goes to dustin about eddie, dustin asked max if she told anyone else and the first thing she said was that she can’t find lucas meaning she looked for him first <3 even after they break up the trust is still there which is why they’re the most realistic ship

SASHJHASHJS LITERALLY !!!! they're best friends before partners and just !!!! AAAAAAH !!!!

#cause its like.. theyre really good friends who happen to have romantic interest in each other because they care so much!!! AND I LOVE IT!! #lumax #lucas sinclair #max mayfield